Plus Size Model EXPOSES The Fact That She's Dating A Cuck
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In this episode, we talk about what we would do if we were more attractive due to our weight and whether or not we would be more attractive to our current boyfriends because of our weight. Do you think if you were skinnier, would you find someone better than your current boyfriend because of your weight?
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men there are people like who would prefer you john over person b and that's fine right like if
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you are not attractive to person a you're going to be attractive to someone else but the criteria
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will always change the goalposts will always move especially for women because we know that there's
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a huge market around like beauty standards the goalposts move for men i mean probably just about
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to say that as well you've got to have a high status to command an attractive woman but to that
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point i mean for it i'm glad you found love it's great for you and you've got a boyfriend but would
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you think if you were healthier maybe skinnier that you would find someone other than your boyfriend
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that's a bit more attractive a bit more higher status as a higher paying job i don't i'm just
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trying to yeah do you think if you were more attractive due to your weight that you would
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find someone better than your current boyfriend or is that too personal to us someone more to
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you no i think that my boyfriend is great my boyfriend's very kind he's very generous he
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pays for everything takes me on holiday we literally just came back from holiday paid for
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everything by the prada bags he's no he's a wonderful man i'm great on you why why why you
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got these bikini pictures but no boyfriend on your instagram because he so he owns a business and he
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doesn't want my brand associated with him yeah which is like that's a red flag there but he doesn't it's
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his choice like i've offered but um he doesn't want his brand associated with mine just in case
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get cancelled or something i don't know is that true love uh what does that mean he doesn't want
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his brand associated with you but you guys because he has a company you guys are a couple yeah but he
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has a company his private stuff is all associated with me like our facebooks and things like that
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that just our friends can see but um not like publicly because but you didn't you didn't answer
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my question people are kind of crazy do you think if you were skinnier you could have got a more
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attractive boyfriend no i love my boyfriend and i think he's incredibly attractive and i think he's
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incredibly attractive to me so you you didn't think if you're skinnier you wouldn't i've been
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skinnier man they like each other they find each other attractive and i agree there's always going
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to be someone that finds bigger women attractive let's let's take it away from you probably got
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someone in your friend let's take it let's take it let's take it let's take it but let's let's take
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it away from you so it's not a person yeah yeah so like let's just say the average check do you think
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she has more options at 250 pounds i'm sorry i don't know the conversion of that or 120 pounds which is like
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skinny chick i think it depends on her figure personally what do you think i think it depends
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on the girl for me personally i prefer my boyfriend that i have now that i'm overweight that i did my
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boyfriend i had when i was skinny sorry lewis well again we're taking this away we're taking this we're
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taking this away from you away from you so just the average chick being obese or being skinny but i've
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talked about how i had more attention when i was that way but also women need to pick correctly
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and a lot of women pick wrong it doesn't matter you can have the most attractive woman in the
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world and she will still pick a fucking dickhead like it just you know what i mean like it doesn't
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matter you have to pick correctly and a lot of that has to do with your self-worth and self-esteem
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which for me doesn't correlate to my weight well and i'm not discrediting what you're saying
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about picking correctly my only point is that the girl thinner will have more options
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that's the only point every girl has so many options just being a woman if you go on tinder
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it doesn't matter if like tess holiday can go on like you're you're right tinder right now
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and she'll have more sex but not commitment from the men that we want and we can see this because
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women are there are more and more women that are going to be single and childless they're predicting
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half of us are going to be single and childless meaning that the men are not living up to what the women
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want just remember it's not personal to you just um yeah i i don't take it personally but like i don't
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know like yeah and in terms of that question that's a very big question i don't know what the answer is
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but i don't think any woman struggles for attention well yeah but attention isn't commitment in
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relationships which is what women want but like who i don't i've never met a woman that really genuinely
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struggles to get a boy to date her like it what uh i would say ugly chicks
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i've met a lot struggle i've met a lot of men that struggle to get women to date a boy but not
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women a boy but not the boy they want i would say that's really common and even to to your point
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i'd say i from my experience guys that are going out or committed to larger women i'm saying like fat
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chicks they they are usually not the man in the relationship does that make sense i don't think
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they're wearing the pants nine times out of ten actually i think they are wearing the pants because
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they're black they're helping the big person do things like help them with their just help them
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no but that would make sense though because if you're if you're helping her do things then she's
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wearing the pants because in a traditional relationship she's helping him not the other
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way around but that's the thing it's again it's down to it's down to each individual relationship some
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people motivate themselves like you like you you mentioned a few of the big stories how people are
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promoting eating but then there are so many stories where people met each other and they
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lost to weight together there's so many hundreds and i'm saying and i'm saying i wish the body
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positivity movement would promote those yes instead of lizzo i wish they would promote weight loss
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instead of people that are content being big i think we really wanted to be positive about it
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that's what we would promote and i'm sorry that is just not the consensus on what we see in the media
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yeah but pearl it's not a real represent what i'm saying is i feel like the media has a narrative
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right but it's almost like a lot some of the plus size things that i see written on magazines
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or when i say i can't relate to it because i'm like no it's not like that when i when i see the leaders
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of the movement start to lose weight and talk about eating healthy and actually doing the work like
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that's that's when i would agree with you but i just don't think it's pot like the way lizzo's
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going like who do we think who's the leaders yeah who's the leaders yeah it has holiday
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that constantly eating healthy what's that blue lizzo puts her lunches and it's always healthy if you
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watch it she is healthy and she's constantly exercising i will i will pull up the food right
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now she posted okay maybe some of them maybe i got so mesmerized by the food that um yeah maybe
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no i just did reactions to these they are not but i feel like what most people don't like about
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body positivity or the people at the top of these movements is they're they're claiming that they're
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a victim you know what i mean they're saying i you know i need to pay for two plane tickets
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or you know i get treated differently well that's all on you you you have the power to change that so
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100 percent it's it you you can't it's it's just again like we said earlier the game people aren't
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always overweight because they air like you need to remember a lot of people are overweight because they're
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ill or something happened and that's how they're overweight so that's why you can't discriminate
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discriminating but i'm saying you you've got to take the victimhood away from fat people the general
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fat person that doesn't have a disease it doesn't have you know a pre-existing condition they they
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ultimately just people get nasty and that's what happens and that's that okay you don't need to feel
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sorry for them but just don't be nasty it's 100 in your control but we'll say we'll shame guys for
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being short having little they'll say short man syndrome he's got a this he's got a that and nobody
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and nobody has sympathy for men but for some reason like when it's body positivity now we're supposed to
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have sympathy when that's in your control also guys guys relax honestly we're just educating it right
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so it's just to live a light life you just have to things you have to see things lightly seriously
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everyone's relaxed i know i know we're relaxed but i think i'm gonna i'm gonna let him go though so go
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ahead where if i was actually where you live where do you live me yeah um at the moment i live in essex
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yeah yeah my answer to you you live in your body first oh before you live in your house oh i live
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in my body okay that's true when you get up in the morning yeah yeah and you have breakfast yeah you
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have the opportunity to make your diet better right listen do you not eat for breakfast porridge and
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water the same way you take care of your house is the same way you take care of your body you live here
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first so as much as you try to take care of everything outside of your body it's the same way you could
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take care of yours because that's where you live first you know i don't know you live anywhere else
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i don't know anyone who eats porridge and water i actually eat that and i'm now i'm used to it and
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i'm just saying generally yeah i have porridge every day as well the same way you could take care of
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everything else in your life you can but i mean you have the opportunity just like i said i keep stating
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that i am doing those things no this is not to you this is generally okay i don't think anybody here
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is arguing that nobody here is saying you should be obese you should eat unhealthily you should be
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okay with eating unhealthily my argument is like you should not hold yourself back for being overweight
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you should just live your life i would say you can't not hold yourself back by being overweight i
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would say if you are overweight you are holding yourself back you're going to get less opportunities
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you're not going to have as long of a life you're going to have health problems you're going to
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have mental health problems there is no way to not hold yourself back because of your weight all
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of those things and still say you can still want to do those things you can still want to be
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healthier in the same way i want to be healthier and i'm trying to lose weight but like i still
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won't stop myself doing things now because of my weight i won't feel insecure because of my weight
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i won't stop myself but your weight will stop you from doing certain things like like i'm even just
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first thing that comes to my head can i ask you why why won't you stop stop what stop doing things
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so i'm oh well i enjoy doing yeah because like why would i not go to the beach with my friends and
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enjoy my summer and like just what's more important though you're enjoying your friends
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what was that sorry what's more important your health or your friends i'm still working on my
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health but like what i'm saying is i'm not going to stop myself living my life because i'm overweight
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now i'm not going to put my life on pause because i'm overweight i don't think anyone should don't
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you don't need to put your life on pause or you just have to commit yourself yeah yeah but you say
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that like um i shouldn't be posting bikini photos on instagram and i shouldn't be doing this and i
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shouldn't be in a nobody's seen at the beach i'm pals just said that no i would say that
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so like you saying that i would say well i am going to do that and i'm still going to lose weight and
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i'm still going to try and be healthy i'm still going to work on my issues but like i'm i'm also
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going to live my life and do all the things that i want to do and i think that everybody overweight