JustPearlyThings - Plus Size Model EXPOSES The Fact That She's Dating A Cuck

00:00:00.000 men there are people like who would prefer you john over person b and that's fine right like if

00:00:07.280 you are not attractive to person a you're going to be attractive to someone else but the criteria

00:00:12.720 will always change the goalposts will always move especially for women because we know that there's 1.00

00:00:17.120 a huge market around like beauty standards the goalposts move for men i mean probably just about 0.99

00:00:22.560 to say that as well you've got to have a high status to command an attractive woman but to that

00:00:27.280 point i mean for it i'm glad you found love it's great for you and you've got a boyfriend but would

00:00:33.520 you think if you were healthier maybe skinnier that you would find someone other than your boyfriend

00:00:39.200 that's a bit more attractive a bit more higher status as a higher paying job i don't i'm just

00:00:44.160 trying to yeah do you think if you were more attractive due to your weight that you would 1.00

00:00:48.880 find someone better than your current boyfriend or is that too personal to us someone more to

00:00:52.560 you no i think that my boyfriend is great my boyfriend's very kind he's very generous he

00:00:56.560 pays for everything takes me on holiday we literally just came back from holiday paid for

00:01:00.400 everything by the prada bags he's no he's a wonderful man i'm great on you why why why you

00:01:06.800 got these bikini pictures but no boyfriend on your instagram because he so he owns a business and he

00:01:12.320 doesn't want my brand associated with him yeah which is like that's a red flag there but he doesn't it's

00:01:19.120 his choice like i've offered but um he doesn't want his brand associated with mine just in case

00:01:23.280 get cancelled or something i don't know is that true love uh what does that mean he doesn't want

00:01:28.240 his brand associated with you but you guys because he has a company you guys are a couple yeah but he

00:01:32.240 has a company his private stuff is all associated with me like our facebooks and things like that

00:01:36.720 that just our friends can see but um not like publicly because but you didn't you didn't answer

00:01:41.520 my question people are kind of crazy do you think if you were skinnier you could have got a more

00:01:45.040 attractive boyfriend no i love my boyfriend and i think he's incredibly attractive and i think he's

00:01:49.520 incredibly attractive to me so you you didn't think if you're skinnier you wouldn't i've been

00:01:54.240 skinnier man they like each other they find each other attractive and i agree there's always going

00:01:58.720 to be someone that finds bigger women attractive let's let's take it away from you probably got 1.00

00:02:03.120 someone in your friend let's take it let's take it let's take it let's take it but let's let's take

00:02:08.160 it away from you so it's not a person yeah yeah so like let's just say the average check do you think

00:02:12.560 she has more options at 250 pounds i'm sorry i don't know the conversion of that or 120 pounds which is like 0.96

00:02:20.000 skinny chick i think it depends on her figure personally what do you think i think it depends 1.00

00:02:25.600 on the girl for me personally i prefer my boyfriend that i have now that i'm overweight that i did my

00:02:31.280 boyfriend i had when i was skinny sorry lewis well again we're taking this away we're taking this we're

00:02:37.040 taking this away from you away from you so just the average chick being obese or being skinny but i've 0.97

00:02:42.720 talked about how i had more attention when i was that way but also women need to pick correctly 1.00

00:02:47.440 and a lot of women pick wrong it doesn't matter you can have the most attractive woman in the 1.00

00:02:50.640 world and she will still pick a fucking dickhead like it just you know what i mean like it doesn't 1.00

00:02:55.040 matter you have to pick correctly and a lot of that has to do with your self-worth and self-esteem 0.99

00:02:58.880 which for me doesn't correlate to my weight well and i'm not discrediting what you're saying

00:03:05.200 about picking correctly my only point is that the girl thinner will have more options

00:03:09.360 that's the only point every girl has so many options just being a woman if you go on tinder 1.00

00:03:15.920 it doesn't matter if like tess holiday can go on like you're you're right tinder right now

00:03:20.080 and she'll have more sex but not commitment from the men that we want and we can see this because

00:03:25.840 women are there are more and more women that are going to be single and childless they're predicting 0.99

00:03:30.240 half of us are going to be single and childless meaning that the men are not living up to what the women 1.00

00:03:36.000 want just remember it's not personal to you just um yeah i i don't take it personally but like i don't

00:03:43.440 know like yeah and in terms of that question that's a very big question i don't know what the answer is

00:03:49.520 but i don't think any woman struggles for attention well yeah but attention isn't commitment in 1.00

00:03:54.720 relationships which is what women want but like who i don't i've never met a woman that really genuinely 0.94

00:03:59.600 struggles to get a boy to date her like it what uh i would say ugly chicks 1.00

00:04:06.000 i've met a lot struggle i've met a lot of men that struggle to get women to date a boy but not

00:04:10.480 women a boy but not the boy they want i would say that's really common and even to to your point 0.99

00:04:16.800 i'd say i from my experience guys that are going out or committed to larger women i'm saying like fat

00:04:24.720 chicks they they are usually not the man in the relationship does that make sense i don't think

00:04:30.080 they're wearing the pants nine times out of ten actually i think they are wearing the pants because

00:04:35.360 they're black they're helping the big person do things like help them with their just help them

00:04:43.120 no but that would make sense though because if you're if you're helping her do things then she's

00:04:47.520 wearing the pants because in a traditional relationship she's helping him not the other

00:04:51.440 way around but that's the thing it's again it's down to it's down to each individual relationship some

00:04:56.720 people motivate themselves like you like you you mentioned a few of the big stories how people are

00:05:04.320 promoting eating but then there are so many stories where people met each other and they

00:05:08.880 lost to weight together there's so many hundreds and i'm saying and i'm saying i wish the body

00:05:15.200 positivity movement would promote those yes instead of lizzo i wish they would promote weight loss

00:05:21.040 instead of people that are content being big i think we really wanted to be positive about it

00:05:26.640 that's what we would promote and i'm sorry that is just not the consensus on what we see in the media

00:05:31.520 yeah but pearl it's not a real represent what i'm saying is i feel like the media has a narrative

00:05:39.120 right but it's almost like a lot some of the plus size things that i see written on magazines

00:05:46.000 or when i say i can't relate to it because i'm like no it's not like that when i when i see the leaders

00:05:51.680 of the movement start to lose weight and talk about eating healthy and actually doing the work like

00:05:57.040 that's that's when i would agree with you but i just don't think it's pot like the way lizzo's

00:06:00.960 going like who do we think who's the leaders yeah who's the leaders yeah it has holiday

00:06:04.640 that constantly eating healthy what's that blue lizzo puts her lunches and it's always healthy if you 0.98

00:06:11.120 watch it she is healthy and she's constantly exercising i will i will pull up the food right

00:06:16.720 now she posted okay maybe some of them maybe i got so mesmerized by the food that um yeah maybe

00:06:24.080 no i just did reactions to these they are not but i feel like what most people don't like about

00:06:30.880 body positivity or the people at the top of these movements is they're they're claiming that they're

00:06:36.480 a victim you know what i mean they're saying i you know i need to pay for two plane tickets

00:06:41.680 or you know i get treated differently well that's all on you you you have the power to change that so

00:06:47.200 100 percent it's it you you can't it's it's just again like we said earlier the game people aren't

00:06:53.760 always overweight because they air like you need to remember a lot of people are overweight because they're

00:06:58.800 ill or something happened and that's how they're overweight so that's why you can't discriminate

00:07:04.720 discriminating but i'm saying you you've got to take the victimhood away from fat people the general

00:07:09.920 fat person that doesn't have a disease it doesn't have you know a pre-existing condition they they

00:07:16.960 ultimately just people get nasty and that's what happens and that's that okay you don't need to feel

00:07:24.320 sorry for them but just don't be nasty it's 100 in your control but we'll say we'll shame guys for

00:07:30.000 being short having little they'll say short man syndrome he's got a this he's got a that and nobody

00:07:35.440 and nobody has sympathy for men but for some reason like when it's body positivity now we're supposed to

00:07:41.200 have sympathy when that's in your control also guys guys relax honestly we're just educating it right

00:07:50.000 so it's just to live a light life you just have to things you have to see things lightly seriously

00:07:58.320 everyone's relaxed i know i know we're relaxed but i think i'm gonna i'm gonna let him go though so go

00:08:02.880 ahead where if i was actually where you live where do you live me yeah um at the moment i live in essex

00:08:10.000 yeah yeah my answer to you you live in your body first oh before you live in your house oh i live

00:08:14.720 in my body okay that's true when you get up in the morning yeah yeah and you have breakfast yeah you

00:08:20.800 have the opportunity to make your diet better right listen do you not eat for breakfast porridge and

00:08:26.240 water the same way you take care of your house is the same way you take care of your body you live here

00:08:29.920 first so as much as you try to take care of everything outside of your body it's the same way you could

00:08:35.600 take care of yours because that's where you live first you know i don't know you live anywhere else

00:08:39.920 i don't know anyone who eats porridge and water i actually eat that and i'm now i'm used to it and

00:08:44.800 i'm just saying generally yeah i have porridge every day as well the same way you could take care of

00:08:49.840 everything else in your life you can but i mean you have the opportunity just like i said i keep stating

00:08:54.480 that i am doing those things no this is not to you this is generally okay i don't think anybody here

00:09:01.360 is arguing that nobody here is saying you should be obese you should eat unhealthily you should be

00:09:05.760 okay with eating unhealthily my argument is like you should not hold yourself back for being overweight

00:09:11.520 you should just live your life i would say you can't not hold yourself back by being overweight i

00:09:16.880 would say if you are overweight you are holding yourself back you're going to get less opportunities

00:09:20.560 you're not going to have as long of a life you're going to have health problems you're going to

00:09:24.960 have mental health problems there is no way to not hold yourself back because of your weight all

00:09:30.320 of those things and still say you can still want to do those things you can still want to be

00:09:34.800 healthier in the same way i want to be healthier and i'm trying to lose weight but like i still

00:09:38.240 won't stop myself doing things now because of my weight i won't feel insecure because of my weight

00:09:42.160 i won't stop myself but your weight will stop you from doing certain things like like i'm even just

00:09:47.280 first thing that comes to my head can i ask you why why won't you stop stop what stop doing things

00:09:55.520 so i'm oh well i enjoy doing yeah because like why would i not go to the beach with my friends and

00:10:00.720 enjoy my summer and like just what's more important though you're enjoying your friends

00:10:05.840 what was that sorry what's more important your health or your friends i'm still working on my

00:10:10.480 health but like what i'm saying is i'm not going to stop myself living my life because i'm overweight

00:10:15.600 now i'm not going to put my life on pause because i'm overweight i don't think anyone should don't

00:10:19.840 you don't need to put your life on pause or you just have to commit yourself yeah yeah but you say

00:10:24.400 that like um i shouldn't be posting bikini photos on instagram and i shouldn't be doing this and i

00:10:28.640 shouldn't be in a nobody's seen at the beach i'm pals just said that no i would say that

00:10:34.960 so like you saying that i would say well i am going to do that and i'm still going to lose weight and

00:10:39.360 i'm still going to try and be healthy i'm still going to work on my issues but like i'm i'm also

00:10:43.440 going to live my life and do all the things that i want to do and i think that everybody overweight

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JustPearlyThings - June 24, 2023

Plus Size Model EXPOSES The Fact That She's Dating A Cuck

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