JustPearlyThings - June 01, 2023


Post Wall Woman Acknowledges This Harsh Reality


Episode Stats

Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

197.80986

Word Count

1,987

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

39

Hate Speech Sentences

34


Summary

Why do women date up, why do men date down? Is there an equality in the dating market? Is women the prize or are men the prize the prize? Why does a woman that is dating up date up and a woman who is dating down? What is the difference between a high value woman and a low value woman?


Transcript

00:00:00.000 women if women date up wouldn't that make men the prize
00:00:03.300 that's a good point really yeah yeah i get the point but i don't i still don't see men as the
00:00:13.400 prize why not like so let me get this right you've acknowledged the point
00:00:18.780 i understand where i understand the point allow me to finish so you've acknowledged the point
00:00:25.660 right but you don't agree can you explain why no i you asked me who are the prize and relate i
00:00:33.280 still i'm still i'm in an iron about the question about the the question anyway like who's the prize
00:00:40.060 sort of because then it's like the whole value thing and all that sort of stuff so that's why
00:00:45.240 i just said women just to give an answer that women are the prize because of what they bring
00:00:52.540 to a relationship or whatever it is right i just said it just whatever but then what was it you
00:00:57.220 said again that why do women date up i said i said do women date up or down so if majority of the women
00:01:03.320 here said date up yeah why would then a man would be the prize yes but then dating up you're not dating
00:01:10.680 down so so if they're dating up then the men are dating down because oh no but yeah but if women
00:01:18.260 are dating up and men are dating down you're saying yeah women are not the prize that a man is the
00:01:25.080 prize yeah so the men would just date men because men are the prize why are men dating down if a man
00:01:31.160 is the prize wouldn't all men just date all men oh no no no no no no no this is okay okay okay okay
00:01:39.520 okay because okay we're talking we're talking about straight people okay so they wouldn't they
00:01:44.620 Why would men date each other
00:01:46.340 When they're straight
00:01:47.000 You just said men
00:01:48.560 That would make men the prize
00:01:50.500 Yeah because men could date up
00:01:52.560 But they don't
00:01:53.480 They date down
00:01:54.240 So then men would be the prize
00:01:55.820 That means they don't have a choice
00:01:57.140 There are some women
00:01:59.220 That would be up
00:02:00.340 There are some women
00:02:01.220 That would be down
00:02:02.000 There are women that would be up
00:02:03.220 Like Oprah's up right
00:02:04.560 So then a man has to be above her
00:02:07.080 To date down to her
00:02:08.680 Is that what you're saying
00:02:09.280 No Oprah's not up
00:02:10.200 No I'm just general
00:02:11.560 Like I'm just saying
00:02:12.340 Like value, money, whatever
00:02:13.900 I can't think of a young rich woman
00:02:15.240 No no no that's not up though
00:02:16.320 So what's up then
00:02:17.440 Got a point
00:02:17.920 The biology aspect
00:02:20.240 So a woman that is up
00:02:22.060 Or a woman that is down
00:02:23.560 Margot Robbie
00:02:24.640 So someone that's young
00:02:26.500 Someone who's young
00:02:27.160 Yeah exactly
00:02:27.780 So someone young
00:02:28.940 Actually I think she hit 30
00:02:29.940 I gotta find someone that's 22
00:02:31.220 Young and pretty basically
00:02:35.840 Yeah
00:02:36.140 Virgin
00:02:37.120 With a lot of eggs
00:02:39.280 So if she's young and pretty
00:02:41.180 And works in Tesco
00:02:42.460 Yes
00:02:42.900 That means he's dating up
00:02:46.160 Yes
00:02:46.520 It depends on her personality as well
00:02:48.660 Okay
00:02:48.980 Her personality
00:02:49.460 All of that
00:02:50.140 She works in Tesco
00:02:50.920 Personality
00:02:51.340 She's 20
00:02:51.900 She's young
00:02:52.480 Her body count is zero
00:02:54.240 Whatever
00:02:54.660 Then the man is dating up
00:02:56.820 Do you know her?
00:02:58.180 There's some guys
00:02:58.820 That might want to get her
00:02:59.660 No because you guys are
00:03:00.240 That's the point
00:03:02.520 So she would be considered
00:03:04.060 High in the
00:03:05.140 So she's high value
00:03:06.280 In the dating market
00:03:08.400 Yes
00:03:08.820 So then
00:03:09.780 Wait
00:03:10.840 So now
00:03:11.240 Here's my thing
00:03:12.560 You're now starting to understand
00:03:14.500 How men think
00:03:15.520 We're totally
00:03:16.560 Different
00:03:17.220 I'm getting
00:03:18.340 Yeah the clock is right
00:03:20.040 So if that is a woman
00:03:21.740 That is high value
00:03:22.960 Yeah
00:03:23.380 And then
00:03:24.700 Why would that woman
00:03:26.180 Want to date you?
00:03:27.600 Wouldn't she want to date
00:03:28.580 Someone high value
00:03:30.280 Someone up?
00:03:31.240 Yeah
00:03:31.460 You know what
00:03:40.740 I see where you're going with this
00:03:41.720 Because you're saying
00:03:42.300 High value women
00:03:43.460 Go for high value men
00:03:45.020 Yes
00:03:45.400 You're saying
00:03:45.740 There's an equality there
00:03:47.480 Yeah
00:03:47.940 So then the low value man
00:03:50.340 Who's trying to date up
00:03:51.840 She doesn't want you
00:03:53.020 Correct
00:03:53.500 You're absolutely correct
00:03:56.100 Yes
00:03:56.680 That's why
00:03:57.860 That's why one in three men
00:03:58.820 Are virgins
00:03:59.240 Or haven't had sex
00:03:59.940 In the past year
00:04:00.560 Because nobody wants them
00:04:01.680 So you're saying
00:04:02.920 Men are dating down
00:04:04.120 Yes
00:04:04.760 So by dating down
00:04:05.840 You're saying
00:04:06.260 He's dating someone
00:04:07.260 Over 25
00:04:08.920 30
00:04:09.380 Whose body count is up
00:04:11.220 Whose eggs are
00:04:12.260 Cracked and scrambled
00:04:13.540 Yeah I mean
00:04:13.980 Guys will
00:04:14.380 Guys will
00:04:14.720 He's dating down
00:04:15.720 Guys will put up
00:04:16.480 With more than men do
00:04:17.660 So he'll put up
00:04:18.620 With more
00:04:19.160 And date down
00:04:19.880 I'm sorry
00:04:20.040 Yeah yeah yeah
00:04:20.540 The guy will put up
00:04:22.100 With more and date down
00:04:23.320 Yes
00:04:23.980 Because he doesn't have a choice
00:04:25.120 But he'll still cheat
00:04:26.400 On that woman
00:04:27.020 He still has a right
00:04:27.840 To not be monogamous to her
00:04:29.240 Because her value is low
00:04:31.320 It depends
00:04:32.320 But you don't have a choice
00:04:33.500 Because no
00:04:34.060 The high value woman
00:04:35.140 Doesn't want you
00:04:35.860 So you're dating down
00:04:37.340 Right but a lot of
00:04:38.020 High value women die alone
00:04:39.320 Because
00:04:39.840 That's not what I'm talking about
00:04:40.900 I mean
00:04:41.180 High value women die alone
00:04:42.400 Some
00:04:42.800 Guys you should put more emphasis
00:04:45.140 Somewhere else
00:04:45.840 Wait wait wait
00:04:46.480 What are we defining
00:04:47.260 As a high value woman
00:04:48.240 Sorry sorry
00:04:48.380 I'll explain
00:04:48.880 A lot of
00:04:49.240 Sorry
00:04:50.240 I'll explain
00:04:51.520 I'll explain
00:04:53.140 A lot of
00:04:53.540 Eight to tens
00:04:54.160 That are very pretty
00:04:55.000 Die alone
00:04:55.480 Because they can't
00:04:56.040 Leave the streets
00:04:56.540 Because they're so used
00:04:57.240 To the attention
00:04:57.880 Like
00:04:58.820 Sorry go ahead
00:05:01.460 Guys
00:05:01.840 What do you mean by that
00:05:02.620 They're so used to the attention
00:05:03.760 This is like
00:05:05.720 Honestly
00:05:06.080 I've just heard this from guys
00:05:07.420 This is like
00:05:08.100 Strictly
00:05:08.560 This is just
00:05:09.020 The experience
00:05:10.240 That I've had
00:05:10.720 Like talking to guys
00:05:11.660 The last like
00:05:12.280 Two years
00:05:12.860 Yeah
00:05:13.160 And they just say
00:05:14.020 A lot of girls
00:05:14.580 That are like
00:05:14.920 Very pretty
00:05:15.640 And they're given
00:05:16.240 Like that's the most
00:05:17.400 Valuable thing
00:05:18.060 You can be given
00:05:18.720 Is extreme beauty
00:05:19.840 Like you come out
00:05:20.480 You can get a modeling contract
00:05:21.620 And girls waste it
00:05:23.240 And they waste their best years
00:05:24.860 That doesn't make you
00:05:25.520 High value
00:05:26.080 You're right
00:05:27.040 Sorry sorry
00:05:27.720 Technically if we're gonna go
00:05:29.260 High value woman
00:05:30.000 The man
00:05:30.340 I misused the term
00:05:31.640 Like a high value woman
00:05:32.680 Technically has to be chosen
00:05:33.800 By a high value man
00:05:34.700 I just meant like
00:05:35.880 Like very attractive women
00:05:37.580 That are like
00:05:38.340 The most sought after
00:05:39.500 They wouldn't be
00:05:40.100 You're right
00:05:40.520 I used the wrong term
00:05:41.060 They're still in the streets
00:05:41.800 Yes
00:05:42.620 And I'm saying like
00:05:43.700 A lot of like
00:05:44.740 The most beautiful women
00:05:45.940 Die alone
00:05:46.760 Because they're
00:05:47.600 They're so used to being
00:05:48.600 Like an eight to ten
00:05:49.660 That's their whole personality
00:05:51.140 They can't
00:05:51.860 They can't break out
00:05:52.680 They've never been bullied
00:05:53.420 Like if you tell a girl
00:05:54.780 She's not special
00:05:55.700 They freak out
00:05:56.800 Which is weird
00:05:57.320 Most people aren't special
00:05:58.320 That would make you low value
00:05:58.580 Go ahead
00:05:59.340 That would make you low value
00:06:00.480 Who?
00:06:01.780 If you're beautiful
00:06:02.940 But you don't have
00:06:03.640 Any other qualities
00:06:04.420 You're still in the streets
00:06:05.460 Correct
00:06:05.700 You're still a hole
00:06:06.300 You're low value
00:06:07.140 Yeah
00:06:07.480 The equivalent would be
00:06:08.640 A fucking
00:06:09.440 I don't know
00:06:09.840 A cryptocurrency
00:06:10.380 Well you're not low value
00:06:12.360 In the dating game
00:06:13.480 In the dating game
00:06:14.480 If you're beautiful
00:06:15.560 Like someone that's 300 pounds
00:06:18.420 Isn't gonna get in the same
00:06:19.480 Like she could have
00:06:20.280 A no body count
00:06:21.020 But you're gonna get
00:06:21.500 The initial attention
00:06:22.360 Yeah
00:06:22.780 But if you have nothing else
00:06:23.940 In your hole
00:06:24.640 Yeah
00:06:25.000 Like your background
00:06:26.640 You're just being ran through
00:06:27.600 Correct
00:06:27.820 Correct
00:06:28.160 So at least you
00:06:29.360 But that's why I say
00:06:30.520 Like girls that are eight to tens
00:06:31.660 Often die alone
00:06:32.840 That's what I was saying
00:06:33.920 Because they're so used to that attention
00:06:36.440 That they
00:06:37.180 It's like a drug
00:06:37.880 They can't
00:06:38.980 They can't
00:06:39.460 They can't
00:06:40.340 So wait
00:06:40.860 Wait wait
00:06:41.100 This is just
00:06:42.020 This is just what I've heard from men
00:06:43.640 Okay
00:06:44.220 So like
00:06:45.120 I'm not sure
00:06:45.520 But it depends on
00:06:46.580 No but honestly
00:06:47.460 It depends on your culture
00:06:48.460 Your background
00:06:49.060 You're right
00:06:49.600 Like generally speaking
00:06:51.360 The West
00:06:51.900 If you look at
00:06:53.020 We can go to like
00:06:54.780 Instagram chicks
00:06:56.240 Yeah
00:06:56.480 The majority of them
00:06:58.780 Are single
00:06:59.580 Your Bernice
00:07:00.600 All of them
00:07:01.640 And they may get gifts
00:07:02.880 They may get dated
00:07:04.040 But
00:07:04.600 Are they kept
00:07:06.200 How many of them
00:07:07.700 Do you see that are kept
00:07:09.160 And this is the point
00:07:10.700 But you're referring to looks only
00:07:12.700 But that's what
00:07:13.280 That's what we're saying
00:07:14.060 Eight to tens
00:07:14.800 Yeah but that's
00:07:15.820 That's low value
00:07:16.560 So why
00:07:17.140 No no no
00:07:17.600 So what she's saying is that
00:07:18.960 It starts with looks
00:07:19.480 When you start with looks
00:07:20.760 Like we
00:07:21.200 As much as people want to pretend that
00:07:23.300 You know this personality stuff matters
00:07:25.060 The initial attraction is looks
00:07:27.180 Yeah
00:07:27.840 So when you are
00:07:28.960 Attractive
00:07:30.080 And you have pretty privilege
00:07:31.540 Yeah
00:07:32.460 You're going to get attention
00:07:33.860 So what she's saying is
00:07:35.400 When you get that sort of attention
00:07:36.980 It's like a drug
00:07:38.120 You go out
00:07:39.540 And you know that
00:07:40.540 You're going to have the pick of men
00:07:42.180 Coming to attract
00:07:44.000 And move to
00:07:44.820 And talk to you
00:07:45.560 And sell you dreams
00:07:46.740 Exactly yeah
00:07:47.380 Right
00:07:47.640 But you're still not being kept
00:07:51.100 At the end of the day
00:07:52.400 No one is going to turn that
00:07:54.540 Attraction
00:07:55.440 And those dreams
00:07:56.480 Into marriage
00:07:57.520 Into a ring
00:07:58.400 And they die alone
00:07:59.900 Right
00:08:00.480 I understand that
00:08:01.500 But you could
00:08:01.880 You could say the same
00:08:02.860 For some men
00:08:04.080 But
00:08:05.060 Yeah
00:08:07.020 But that's a man's choice
00:08:09.660 If he chooses not to
00:08:11.040 But like
00:08:11.860 Men have more time
00:08:13.160 Like a dude can be 50
00:08:14.620 And a girl that's 30
00:08:15.820 Will still find him fine
00:08:17.040 But like
00:08:17.860 It's not the same
00:08:19.100 Vice versa
00:08:19.820 You could be 50
00:08:20.840 And a bitch
00:08:21.620 And you're not attractive
00:08:23.000 As a guy
00:08:24.180 Yeah you could be a guy
00:08:25.020 Correct
00:08:25.340 You have all the money
00:08:26.200 In the world
00:08:26.660 But you're just not
00:08:27.600 You don't turn women on
00:08:29.240 Correct
00:08:29.500 Most men have died alone
00:08:30.600 Like
00:08:30.840 I think
00:08:31.660 Only 40%
00:08:32.740 Only 40%
00:08:34.760 Of men have reproduced
00:08:35.600 Throughout history
00:08:36.340 So
00:08:37.520 Or 80% of women have
00:08:38.700 So the majority of men
00:08:39.460 Do die alone
00:08:40.000 You're right
00:08:40.440 It's just a new thing
00:08:41.840 For women
00:08:42.340 Because
00:08:43.660 Like they
00:08:44.160 They get
00:08:45.040 Because they don't
00:08:45.520 Listen to what men
00:08:46.140 Want anymore
00:08:46.780 So how do we fix that
00:08:49.100 Where do we come from
00:08:49.800 What
00:08:50.080 Go ahead
00:08:50.500 How do we
00:08:51.180 How do we like
00:08:51.980 Level the playing field there
00:08:53.080 You're doing it slowly
00:08:54.040 Well I mean
00:08:54.560 To me it's like
00:08:55.160 The
00:08:55.340 It's the
00:08:55.860 You get rid of the
00:08:57.120 Consequence
00:08:57.800 More people do it
00:08:58.860 So if you pay women
00:09:00.020 To leave marriages
00:09:00.840 The more girls
00:09:01.460 Are going to do it
00:09:02.140 They're paid through
00:09:02.820 Child support
00:09:03.440 And through the government
00:09:04.260 Like when you pay
00:09:06.400 Women to make
00:09:06.900 Bad decisions
00:09:07.560 Every bad decision
00:09:08.380 We make
00:09:08.720 We're bailed out of
00:09:09.540 You could be homeless
00:09:10.180 There's a women's shelter
00:09:10.940 To take care of you
00:09:11.720 You could sleep around
00:09:13.560 You can get an abortion
00:09:14.460 To bail you out
00:09:15.140 Like whatever bad decision
00:09:16.160 Women make
00:09:16.840 There's a bailout
00:09:17.980 There's incentives
00:09:18.520 Yeah
00:09:18.880 Like so if you're paid
00:09:20.240 To make bad decisions
00:09:21.280 More women make bad decisions
00:09:22.600 Like they're not going to stop
00:09:23.540 They're not going to stop
00:09:24.100 Till the consequence goes away
00:09:25.100 You get flat
00:09:25.600 Yeah
00:09:25.920 You know
00:09:26.680 That was a big thing
00:09:27.320 In this country
00:09:27.840 What did you say earlier
00:09:30.280 Sorry
00:09:30.520 She didn't
00:09:31.420 She didn't hear it
00:09:32.200 And I said
00:09:32.520 In my day
00:09:33.180 You know
00:09:33.940 Women were just
00:09:34.520 They're getting pregnant
00:09:35.340 To get
00:09:35.640 So it's the first time
00:09:37.800 Pearl had heard of it
00:09:38.560 And I said yeah
00:09:39.280 I said
00:09:40.080 There was a stigma then
00:09:41.760 You know
00:09:42.560 There was a stigma
00:09:43.460 Then after that
00:09:44.260 It was like
00:09:44.740 We're going to get a flat
00:09:45.640 And nowadays
00:09:46.180 It's like
00:09:46.680 Hey I got
00:09:47.260 We're going to spend the most
00:09:53.960 And now
00:09:55.060 It's like
00:09:55.600 It's like
00:09:55.640 You know
00:09:57.220 You know
00:09:57.660 And now
00:09:58.280 You know
00:09:58.840 You know
00:10:00.060 I'm not going to pay
00:10:00.700 て
00:10:01.280 It's like
00:10:01.480 We're going to stay
00:10:01.740 You know