JustPearlyThings - Post Wall Woman Gets Put On The Spot

00:00:00.000 but also i feel like going back to that point um you could i i feel like i could be the best

00:00:05.360 mother i could raise my kids with you know the best morals and you know all of that right and 0.99

00:00:13.120 if i do not have money to give my son he could go out and steal he could go and you could give

00:00:20.160 your son all the money in the world and he can still steal he can go outside which could steal

00:00:24.880 threaten to stab someone because i could not afford to give my son that can work you know you're just

00:00:32.720 proving her point because no no wait wait wait you're just proving her point because she's saying

00:00:38.080 that it's about morals and values and you're saying and you're going back to you're proving

00:00:42.640 your point because you're saying no it's about money she's saying no it's about morals and values then 1.00

00:00:46.080 you say no it's about money because if we don't have money he's going to steal and she says no it's

00:00:49.600 about morals and values but she's saying no yeah and i'm and i'm saying back to that that i could

00:00:54.960 bring him up with the best morals ever i could be like listen we are this kind of you can swing that

00:01:00.800 every direction you could have a rich kid and he could still steal because it happens when he is

00:01:04.960 let me finish when he has seen other children with iphones and nice nice trainers and all these

00:01:11.840 things and he comes home and i as his mother i cannot afford to buy him that phone i can't afford to

00:01:17.200 pay his phone bill he is going to go down the wrong path so do you think all these guys who are in

00:01:23.440 gangs and are banged up they come from broken homes the majority of them come from broken homes giving

00:01:30.800 your child everything financially yes i personally believe yeah a child has his own has his or her own

00:01:41.200 mind by a certain age no and they're going to be whoever they want to be based on what you put into

00:01:46.960 them that's fine yeah but they have the old mind yes i want to steal they're going to steal don't

00:01:51.440 matter what background to come criminals are from all walks of life but they are more likely to steal

00:01:56.800 when they don't have it at home no it's not about money it's about single parent homes

00:02:02.320 it's single mother homes that's where most criminals come from yes yes yeah single parent homes and and 0.94

00:02:06.960 they come from broken homes it's from women's poor decisions yes poor decisions some of them have abusive 1.00

00:02:14.640 dads some of them have alcoholic dads i mean the list goes on so it was the choice to have a child

00:02:21.200 with an alcoholic dad but you don't sometimes always do that you can it was your choice not to vet him

00:02:28.320 enough before you had a kid with him what do you mean what if an experience happening he becomes an

00:02:32.880 alcoholic he becomes an alcoholic something someone dies in his family or he loses his money 0.96

00:02:38.080 that's an ignorant you can pick you could pick someone that doesn't drink 0.93

00:02:44.640 no okay well i'm gonna go out and ask for someone who doesn't hold on you see the kardashians who was 0.98

00:02:49.840 the one that went yeah that was wrong i just i just think it's about accountability everything and

00:02:56.720 everything in life is your own fault no it's all based on your decision because if i can prevent

00:03:03.280 something whose fault is it whose fault is it no one ever wanted to pick shoes whose fault is it then

00:03:09.440 the out your outcomes in life whose fault are they it's ours they're our fault so if you pick bad

00:03:16.320 men or you pick a man that doesn't stick around whose fault is that ours but it's not always the

00:03:21.760 person no you can't say if you have a bad judging character whose fault is that my fault

00:03:29.600 i don't think that you can i don't like we spoke about this before people change so that's

00:03:34.400 irresponsible for them to say but you're saying but like you haven't even people change so you

00:03:38.480 can't say that okay like for example yeah but you still meet someone and they're not an alcoholic and

00:03:42.960 they become one it's still your choice you've got to take accountability for that you choose

00:03:46.960 that one thing i understand well alcoholism is heritable so you could look at their family and

00:03:51.760 think hmm his dad's an alcoholic his grandpa's an alcoholic even if the person changes yeah even if

00:03:57.840 the person changes you still have to sit down and take responsibility if that person for example

00:04:04.000 if that person does change you can say okay i made this choice that was my choice i get that

00:04:08.400 however people don't like i said people change so if i've chose this person in the beginning and

00:04:12.720 everything but you still got a statement i checked yeah i will take responsibility at that

00:04:16.000 time that i've chosen this person they've changed they've now walked out my child's life

00:04:19.520 that's my error because i i didn't see my fault i didn't see the signs from the beginning maybe

00:04:24.720 they weren't there but it's my error i get that you can take accountability however you can't sometimes

00:04:29.520 you can't see it from the start because it's not there but it's still your responsibility at

00:04:34.080 the when it happens not you can't just say it's still a poor choice no i'll be real because life

00:04:39.280 life events changes people so say for example their mum might have died and that was their close unit

00:04:45.040 a person that actually they could talk to and in tunes with them that could just throw them off

00:04:50.000 do you know what i mean yeah and they're looking for you to be that sort of person we're not looking

00:04:54.320 at the people that have entire midlife crises no but you're saying it's your it's your fault

00:04:59.520 basically we're saying in general yes your choices are your fault your outcomes are your fault

00:05:03.680 it depends on the circumstances if you pick a guy that that can't get through the mother of his

00:05:08.160 that his mother dying that's how are you meant to know that though

00:05:11.600 how how will show symptoms oh my gosh 90 90 90 of single mothers like there are warning signs 1.00

00:05:18.400 there are warning signs you know it they know it they're warning signs i don't i don't know about

00:05:22.080 that i don't know i don't know about that i think that's a bit that's a bit biased to be fair because

00:05:27.520 you might have i don't think it's biased i just think it's being honest with yourself

00:05:31.120 the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior yeah yeah that's how our brain works like

00:05:35.520 it's how it's literally all of work for all of human so time like your your brain goes off of

00:05:41.040 i think women live in a state of denial and like that's where there's a problem you can look at his 1.00

00:05:45.760 parents like did he did he have a stable family to look up to like there are warning signs i do

00:05:50.240 agree with that point but even if there's warning signs or if there isn't like it happened

00:05:53.920 whatever happens happens it's still your choice regardless of what the the past is you can

00:05:58.080 judge the past and still get it wrong it's still your fault it's your life sometimes in life

00:06:02.160 you take l's and yeah it's still your fault you took the l yeah and i think when you're in

00:06:06.160 denial you create a bigger mess by being in denial of your i mean it's easier to take accountability

00:06:11.520 so that was my fault and think what can i learn from this but you're never going to learn you're

00:06:15.040 never going to learn if it's not your fault yeah yeah well then that would make that person like

00:06:19.920 pick a better partner i guess yeah yeah if you take accountability but if you say oh people change

00:06:24.880 there was no warning signs then you're going to make the same mistake again and again and then you're 0.65

00:06:29.520 going to keep blaming everybody else and that's where women get bitter and say men are trash but it's not 0.86

00:06:34.400 that's why i said in the beginning of the podcast maybe sometimes you need to look in yourself 0.87

00:06:39.040 like to see what you can fix within yourself by being more accountable i do agree with that

00:06:43.680 actually yeah yeah yeah true yeah that's still and this is why i say red flags are very important

00:06:49.120 take it and leave it literally but maybe sometimes you're the red flag

00:06:59.840 um okay i'm going to read super chats and then we're going to close out and do final thoughts

00:07:03.920 um okay i'm going to refresh the page guys make sure you like the video that is the most important metric

00:07:08.800 that youtube uses to push out these streams um also guys um our new show schedules thursdays and

00:07:14.960 saturdays i'm going to up it to three days a week once season ends but i have games during the week

00:07:19.680 okay h vargas 207 the lady next to pearl you may get a sex six figure man but i promise you he'll 1.00

00:07:26.480 contribute half of his half his pay in that relationship um the lady who homeschools her child

00:07:32.480 your frame of mind is priceless for a six figure man and you actually have the chance to attain that 0.98

00:07:37.360 just say something the flipper episode um damn some of these girls are getting good at changing 1.00

00:07:41.760 their whole story mid-sentence shock shocking how a guy could get confused um h vargas 207 top 10 0.85

00:07:49.920 top 10 of 10s lineup one beyonce two rihanna three kerry washington four kelly roland um five

00:07:57.200 five gabriel gabriel union six jasmine tux uh seven aja naomi king um eight lupita nyong

00:08:07.040 nine tyra banks um 10 pearly get pearly's guest who claims to be a 10 nine eight stay in your lane 0.88

00:08:13.520 ladies um taylor man 40 a woman's educational status predicts their children's educational 0.92

00:08:19.440 status but men's educational status shouldn't um gooby 69 um so the left hand side of the couch went 1.00

00:08:25.600 from wanting a business that makes her money but doesn't require much work to making a charity and

00:08:31.120 naming it after her daughter c dumbledorff left of the couch just said it all she has a degree but can't 1.00

00:08:35.840 do it 15 year old math you're a feminist robot you just walk around with the programming and vote 1.00

00:08:40.640 how you're told sentience oh i had to respond to these slags it's not okay if an older man goes after 0.99

00:08:46.880 a 18 to 21 year old woman and he's a pedo and she's too inexperienced but a prepubescent child can 0.96

00:08:53.440 claim their gender without question modern women are really society's downfall um sean bruters for the 1.00

00:09:00.000 girl who thinks children can make their own choices how would you feel if your 15 year old 0.81

00:09:03.440 daughter wanted to date a 30 year old c dumbledorff children can make up their own minds future

00:09:08.160 mother of a trans d mccoy pearly please add a timer or something so everyone has a chance to speak

00:09:13.040 you'll get less people cutting each other off maury you're gonna be in the world regardless so your

00:09:18.320 child should be raised as a degenerate because everyone else is nice logic jaylem um for the mothers 0.99

00:09:23.760 on the panel when was the last time you sat with your child and helped them do their homework or took 0.90

00:09:28.240 time to understand what's currently going on with their life outside of with parents c dumbledorff her

00:09:33.040 selfishness is grotesque her daughter is being taught intergenerational moral bankruptcy um in

00:09:38.880 iran subal um when she says can you let me finish but doesn't actually let anyone finish it's crazy

00:09:45.520 what they're saying um morgan jones you do realize your friend ally believes in a hobby um eric don nisky

00:09:52.640 the most attractive women here are the most realistic about their situation example pearl the blonde lady 1.00

00:09:57.920 with the red nails the lady opposite of pearl um id 30 um gus by the way 90 free toe pie um 0.99

00:10:06.080 moms take the w today um matthew wiggly someone please defend this woman good on her for not wanting 1.00

00:10:12.320 to be an only pal and go out and set an example by having a working life i'm a doctor my mom nurse

00:10:18.320 set a good example and work ethic into me sam aden better question is why would you not work for your

00:10:23.760 man when you could make better use of your time to take the time where you actually go back to the

00:10:29.040 family um despicable d um top tip for women if kids aren't your priority if the streets are career 1.00

00:10:36.400 shine bright a brighter light for you don't have kids um id 30 i'm a 30 year old unicorn um i was

00:10:43.360 raised by i was raised without a father and a workaholic mother i'm now interested in finding someone

00:10:48.400 should i fake it till i make it or am i fudged in the dating world should i have a high standards or go

00:10:52.640 with the flow kcf sack when you ask a female if she has accountability she answers one two three c 0.96

00:10:58.560 i have accountability then she's too traumatized to speak but she wasn't that traumatized that she

00:11:03.840 couldn't leave the room and sat in the corner while watching her man dominate another woman she 1.00

00:11:08.000 loved it but claims victimhood rubbish 304 can't take accountability be easy 716 have y'all ever

00:11:14.480 heard that women are socially superior to men how about you say what you mean instead of saying yes 1.00

00:11:18.960 yes and expecting him to read your mind and do what you want when you said yes

JustPearlyThings - August 10, 2023

Post Wall Woman Gets Put On The Spot

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