JustPearlyThings - Post Wall Woman Says I am WAY TOO Jealous

00:00:00.000 question would you give up monogamy for a man give up what monogamy what is that like he what he 0.51

00:00:07.200 cheats for a guy that you like for the right yeah i i i'm way too for me no i yeah i know i don't

00:00:16.320 think i can trust that guy again no i would just i'm too jealous i'll kill people are you monogamous 0.68

00:00:22.640 now yes oh yeah yeah so in a way it's like in a way aren't you not monogamous now

00:00:32.640 like a situationship it's not monogamy like usually the girl is monogamous but the guy isn't 0.96

00:00:38.320 so it's funny no it's funny so there's girlfriend i had to make this i had to have this like thought

00:00:43.200 too but it's like if you've ever been in a situationship in a way you're sharing a guy

00:00:47.520 she's really thinking about it now yeah but i'm i'm not in i wouldn't be in a like committed

00:00:55.920 relationship with someone and it's like yeah it's us and um and then be okay with him sleeping with

00:01:04.400 anyone else would you be okay i don't say okay with it but what about accept it no even if i wanted to

00:01:11.040 like i don't like i don't judge other people who do maybe i would like to want to but i'm telling you

00:01:16.160 like someone would die i i think i think most girls would for the right guy except i'm not

00:01:25.440 they might go crazy okay here's the thing about me i am a little bit oblivious because i'm very

00:01:30.160 much in my own i i always say i've never been cheated of not that i know of maybe i'm so oblivious 0.90

00:01:35.520 like i would not check a man's phone i mean he if he did cheat and he would be i'm so dumb for me he 0.73

00:01:42.640 would be so dumb for me to find like i don't check a man's phone or like but i think you will

00:01:49.200 probably if i did find out if i did find out if i walked in on him with someone else i honestly i

00:01:55.600 don't think i would accept it i would like to be like why like why did you do that because men like

00:02:01.680 to yeah but i i i would do that four days straight i would i don't know why most women say no like why 1.00

00:02:08.480 wouldn't you i had one of my friends he was like really men like to new girls

00:02:14.160 in multiple you know but what if not all of them you know i i tell you like i coach a lot of men

00:02:19.280 i coach a lot of men no not you're talking okay not all men okay i have a question like to

00:02:26.480 different women and go through the whole thing of meeting a new woman and no no okay i i have a

00:02:32.560 question do you think most men if they're in like tiger woods position because i actually no i used to i

00:02:38.080 used to think like you i used to think oh they would never like like i know these guys that would

00:02:42.560 never cheat but it's like most of those guys aren't in the position where women are chasing them down

00:02:47.600 and hunting them down i don't know i've seen those guys and some of them don't yeah

00:02:54.320 i've literally seen those guys i've hung out with those guys i've i've got a lot of male friends

00:02:58.560 and they i mean there are there are exceptions but i just don't but then i wouldn't go out with

00:03:04.320 somebody like in that's why i wouldn't go out with a footballer even if i could i mean when i was

00:03:08.160 younger i could but i wouldn't i why would you want to go out with a guy who does have women throwing 1.00

00:03:13.920 themselves on him all the time like why she said about pre-selection but then i was gonna say now

00:03:18.720 like if the guy high value whatever whatever you're kept you don't have to worry about anything you can

00:03:23.440 just play football all day and then come home yeah do four days straight yeah now and then on the

00:03:29.280 fifth day he's with becky from no we're done what is it that no becky with a good hair really that

00:03:35.600 sounds like a pretty good life yeah no you're telling me so you're you're 42 you're 42 you have

00:03:40.480 a daughter and now you get you get to just be a stay-at-home wife just once a week just made me 1.00

00:03:45.120 think no just once a week he's good looking we're gonna have to get the police up here again

00:03:51.120 definitely you're not gonna have to get the police but no no that's like that's what i'm saying like my no

00:03:59.280 okay i i would be too jealous i would i am way too probably arrogant to know

00:04:11.040 what if you listen to what you had to say remember what you said before about listening

00:04:14.560 yeah but if he needs new whatever like he needs to go and have like i know i can't live with that

00:04:21.200 i can't live with that yeah see it's i'm also listen i'm also a germaphobe you won't hear how i was

00:04:25.840 cleaning this like that is the other thing like i can't that even if i could get over it emotionally

00:04:32.160 which i don't think i could i could not get over the germs and the the disgustingness of sleeping

00:04:37.440 around i cannot tell you yeah see but it's so interesting because in a way like you you had a

00:04:43.600 cat your head yeah i mean you talked about a casual relationship so essentially most women have 0.99

00:04:48.960 like essentially you are you're getting over that now no but if i've made a commitment yeah

00:04:55.760 no that would be different for me what's the difference um

00:05:06.000 the difference would be in yeah there's a commitment i've given my word you've given your word

00:05:11.200 and we're going to be exclusive and then if you go and do that behind my back no okay no i know i

00:05:19.760 would want to know why no i i under what do you what do you see but this is like a lack of understanding

00:05:24.560 of guys do you know 100 i don't get it i mean i think even good guys would have a hard time if

00:05:30.400 they're in a position where women are throwing at themselves at them every day most guys most guys 1.00

00:05:35.040 i wouldn't be with a man i would not be with a man but you're saying you wouldn't you wouldn't

00:05:39.520 throwing themselves at him all the time i wouldn't but the guy you're with probably is

00:05:44.480 that's my point is like the guy you're with he said he's athletic you said he's got a good job you

00:05:49.520 said he's tall like he probably is in a position where women are throwing themselves at him that's 0.99

00:05:54.480 like three out of five things that you want most of the time yeah like all right then i'll forget

00:05:58.880 about him i'm loving you like no which is which is gone man like no you got me thinking no no i

00:06:05.600 wouldn't i i i probably actually you're right i'll ask him about that i don't know so i think me and

00:06:13.600 i don't know if that's i think me and my question no it's just i had a guy point this out to me once

00:06:22.400 like that like women will say they won't accept like non-monogamy yet most women have been in a 0.99

00:06:27.760 situationship at some point which is non-monogamy so it's kind of like a double-edged but i have

00:06:33.040 friends that their their husband just cheated on them a few times and they're still living together

00:06:38.000 yeah no a lot of girls yeah i mean think about it it's like okay if you're if you're like 45 right

00:06:44.800 50 40 let's just say 45 and you get into a relationship with a guy or you've been with a

00:06:49.840 guy and you find out he cheated and he pays for everything it's like what so you're gonna leave

00:06:54.720 what's on the other side now you get to work for the next 30 40 years and this is why i'm saying

00:07:02.400 like would a man do that like that's what i'm saying my would a man stay with a woman who cheated 0.65

00:07:06.880 on him no no but cheating but cheating is different for men yeah but but yeah that's what i i think my

00:07:13.920 brain is like a matter i could not get over that like i am no yeah maybe maybe you couldn't my brain

00:07:20.480 doesn't have that part where he could accept that i couldn't but do you see what i'm saying i think

00:07:25.040 i would go with my calling you see what i'm saying though but you're in a situationship

00:07:31.120 now and so in a way you are accepting it

00:07:37.200 you think about that do you know what i'm saying because it's it's just like it's a contradiction

00:07:41.920 because you're saying i could never accept it but if you're in a non-monogamous relationship i'm not

00:07:46.000 in a relationship it's a type of relationship right situation it's a situation i'm not trying

00:07:51.760 to shame you for it i think i think it's really common that's why i'm going to end it thank you

00:07:56.960 very much you know i know she's not saying it she just got me thinking don't jump to conclusions

00:08:06.400 it's just interesting how i'll talk to girls about this and they'll be like no i would never i would

00:08:10.880 never accept that and then a lot of those girls same girls are in situationships and if you're in

00:08:16.800 a situation yeah i don't think i could i would like to be one of those i don't think i physically could

00:08:24.480 do it i honestly don't think i have it in me i saw that football man it is it's the high testosterone i

00:08:31.280 don't think i have it in me no i mean you're not that's common but it's again it's still a contradiction

00:08:36.880 because you are you know so you have it in you gotcha you know no because i don't know

00:08:46.640 you don't know if i yeah if i knew that's what i'm saying i'm very oblivious i don't

00:08:52.160 i don't stalk man i don't check the phone i don't like i i don't would you look the other

00:08:56.320 what about if you just looked the other way and you know he might but no she's i i would say

00:09:03.680 80 percent he isn't but then i don't know what do you have reason to believe he isn't but i don't

00:09:14.400 know 100 he might be you're just trusting it no it's not even trust it's like no it's not even trust

00:09:22.160 it's just i'm just looking at the reality and putting situation yeah and i don't think he would

00:09:29.280 be but it could be could be but if i did see it or if i had evidence or if i did even think no he

00:09:36.960 probably is no i would just ask him i would step away if he doesn't care about you he's gonna tell

00:09:42.720 you the truth i i asked him kind of four or five months in and he said he wasn't but i haven't asked

00:09:52.160 him recently oh but i know you said that the the headache that you gave him was within six months

00:09:57.360 and then four or five months and you asked him if he's sleeping with anyone else so yeah maybe after

00:10:00.880 i gave him a headache you said you said you were not in relationship with no but she's saying i'm

00:10:07.520 still in a situation ship would you but do you agree that you're in a situation ship oh yeah i am in a

00:10:13.920 situation do you know do you do you know it to be true that he isn't sleeping with anyone else i don't

00:10:23.120 know 100 no okay you guys are trying to break up these relations yeah what's going on man we have

00:10:29.200 a case that it just so happens that mandana is that it's good the point she's making i'm i get it and i

00:10:36.400 100 like agree like um that's why i don't i don't judge me i don't think women who stay with their

00:10:44.720 men retreat i don't think oh my god you should leave him i have i don't you know what's interesting

00:10:48.720 we had a guy um who um he talked about that he would break up with girls because he just felt like

00:10:59.440 he couldn't stay faithful to them like he just couldn't do it no no and this is a dude that paid

00:11:04.080 for everything he like 100 would take care of the bills and um the and he ended up like marrying

00:11:12.800 this last girl because she said she could accept it and that girl i don't know i mean she ended up

00:11:18.640 winning when you think about it because she got the deed to the house she got the well if that's

00:11:23.040 your game yeah i mean i guess when you do have your own money i guess that maybe that's what it doesn't

00:11:30.480 appeal to me it doesn't mean anything to me for him to pay for everything well um it would be nice

00:11:35.120 to be paid for everything and then you can just buy new football boots and stuff no i'd rather have

00:11:38.160 them to myself i think it depends what is important for for that for that yeah for me it's more important

00:11:44.000 to have them to myself than having but even even if it's just looks like a guy you're really attracted

00:11:48.160 to even if it's height like you know i mean most i mean either way it's most guys that you want

00:11:56.160 there aren't enough like more women want them yeah you know it's usually not just you 0.99

00:12:00.480 yeah no 100 i said that tim i was like i bet all the

JustPearlyThings - May 22, 2023

Post Wall Woman Says I am WAY TOO Jealous

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