JustPearlyThings - Private Eye Russ Joins In Studio to Reveal women's Dark Secrets ｜ The Sitdown

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00:09:35.960 You know,

00:10:05.960 it's funny.

00:10:07.960 You know,

00:10:37.960 you know,

00:10:39.960 we're going to be a bit of a

00:10:40.960 know,

00:10:41.960 you know,

00:10:43.960 you know,

00:10:45.960 you're doing a lot of work.

00:10:46.960 You know,

00:10:47.960 you're doing a lot of work.

00:10:48.960 And so I would, I brought in business for him.

00:10:49.960 And in exchange, he sponsored me in Florida, you need a sponsor. It's a two-year internship, two years, 40 hours, documented investigative work. And so I did that. And, you know, wind up working, he's retired now. And then wind up just doing my own thing. But, you know, as we were talking before, my first case, most private investigators do surveillance. And some of them just stay in that, in that particular lane. There's nothing wrong with that. It's a good living.

00:11:05.960 My first case was a homicide. So I got thrown in the deep end. You know, as a licensed P, I got thrown in the deep end right away. And I've done a ton of, ton of those actually.

00:11:16.960 So what did you have to read? Like you had to figure out who did it or?

00:11:20.960 Well, the, the, and so the homicide, the homicide I worked on this particular, on these particular instances were under what's called negligent security.

00:11:29.960 Okay.

00:11:30.960 So if you go to a shopping mall or apartment complex or whatever, something bad happens to you, say you're hurt badly, put in a wheelchair or deleted, your family can sue.

00:11:41.960 And so initially what we're doing is we're helping the attorneys get the raw materials they need to prove negligence on part of the property owner or business owner or whatever it is.

00:11:51.960 So what, what usually winds up happening is as you're interviewing people, tracking people down and talking to more people, you actually wind up getting more information about what actually happened than, than law enforcement typically does.

00:12:05.960 Most of these.

00:12:06.960 Oh, cause they want to have a guard up against you.

00:12:08.960 Like no one wants to get incriminated.

00:12:10.960 So yeah.

00:12:11.960 Yeah.

00:12:12.960 Like I just think of the cop, you're naturally, you don't want to be dragged into something.

00:12:16.960 Yeah.

00:12:17.960 But, but also too, even further than that, you know, a lot of these cases occur in lower income areas and, you know, honestly, you know, are they really going to work that hard?

00:12:27.960 You know, like, like two knuckleheads, one, one guy, you know, they're getting a paycheck anyway.

00:12:32.960 Yeah, exactly.

00:12:33.960 And, and that's, that's not a, that's not to put down law enforcement or whatever, but you know, they've got so many things to work on.

00:12:39.960 When I'm working on a case, I'm working on that case.

00:12:42.960 They might be working on 30 homicides.

00:12:44.960 I might be working on just that one.

00:12:45.960 So then there's the time factor I've got more time to put in because I'm being paid specifically to work on that.

00:12:51.960 And so I almost always wind up with more information than, than law enforcement.

00:12:55.960 And, and even some of the unsolved ones, I'll, I'll find out who's, who's, who's working on them.

00:13:01.960 You might be interested.

00:13:02.960 I'm actually working on a case right now to try to help a guy get free.

00:13:04.960 He was falsely convicted to life in prison for homicide.

00:13:08.960 And, uh, we found some witnesses that will say that, no, he didn't actually do it with somebody else.

00:13:13.960 No way.

00:13:14.960 No, seriously.

00:13:15.960 It's a heart attack.

00:13:16.960 So how did he, like, how did he get pinned for it?

00:13:18.960 Um, was it on purpose or was he wrong place, wrong time?

00:13:21.960 Uh, no, here's, well, here's what happened.

00:13:23.960 He, a couple of different things happened with him.

00:13:26.960 So he was near where it happened, but there were three individuals that saw what happened.

00:13:30.960 But because of this, no snitching code that they have in the streets, you know, they think talking to the police is snitching.

00:13:37.960 Well, you know, you don't have to say who did it necessarily, but they didn't come forward and say that this guy didn't do it.

00:13:43.960 And so he had a choice to take a life in prison or the death penalty.

00:13:47.960 And so obviously, you know, he took, he chose, he chose life in prison.

00:13:50.960 But, you know, since then it was uncovered that, um, there were three individuals that, that will actually say, and actually got a statement from one of them, um, saying an affidavit saying that, no, it wasn't him.

00:14:02.960 Um, you know, he didn't actually do it.

00:14:04.960 It was somebody, it had to be somebody else.

00:14:06.960 And there's another one he's locked up right now.

00:14:08.960 So I'm trying to get a, get a chance to go see him, to get a statement from him too, to try to get the guy free.

00:14:13.960 Not that he's an, an angel, but I think what happened was the, the detective that was working on this.

00:14:19.960 And I won't put his name out there.

00:14:20.960 Obviously the detective just didn't like the guy because, because he missed him so many other times or so many other things that he was like, okay, you know what?

00:14:27.960 Maybe he didn't, maybe he didn't do this.

00:14:29.960 However, he did so much, so many other things.

00:14:32.960 And so we got him.

00:14:33.960 And so, um, but, um, you know, hopefully luck of the Irish, we can, we can get this guy free.

00:14:39.960 We got one statement so far.

00:14:41.960 We're going to try to add another one and maybe get the guy justice.

00:14:45.960 So in your work, what percent of your cases are like homicides?

00:14:50.960 What percent are, um, traffic, human trafficking rings, um, marriage, like, you know, well, the, the, I don't even really.

00:14:59.960 The, the human trafficking things, uh, typically when I'm working those, I'm volunteering.

00:15:05.960 So I volunteer.

00:15:06.960 No way.

00:15:07.960 Yeah.

00:15:08.960 I volunteer for a couple of nonprofits that use a network of private investigators, ex military guys, um, and your retired detectives to try to search for missing and exploited children.

00:15:18.960 And so that's, that's how I, I get involved in those.

00:15:21.960 But, um, and the reason they use PIs is we usually have really good interest.

00:15:25.960 I got really good information network in Florida, like a lot of information, a lot of people that, um, you can't, you know, information you can't get from Google or, or any place else.

00:15:34.960 You need people that are in that world and, and in that life.

00:15:37.960 And so you've got to, you know, they are, they are the literally quintessential shadowy underworld figures.

00:15:43.960 Most of these guys.

00:15:44.960 Um, however, you know, information is information.

00:15:48.960 And if, um, you know, the way I, the way I try to quantify it, like I had one person object because I, I actually had to, I paid cash to a convicted sex offender to find a child.

00:16:00.960 And so they were like, how could you give that guy money?

00:16:02.960 I said, look, at the end of the day, man, if you come to me and you say, Russ, my child is missing, I want you to get my child.

00:16:08.960 Do you care how I get your child or do you just want your child back? 0.99

00:16:11.960 You know what I'm saying?

00:16:12.960 Right.

00:16:13.960 And so, so at the end of the day, I'm not method, um, I'm not constrained by methods.

00:16:18.960 Police are, and a lot of times they understand.

00:16:20.960 I don't have to play by their rules.

00:16:21.960 You know, I can make up my own rules as long as I don't go too far, obviously, but I can make up my rules.

00:16:26.960 Within the confines of the law, yeah.

00:16:27.960 Yeah.

00:16:28.960 And, and sometimes I push those boundaries, but at the end of the day, my job is to bring a child back home.

00:16:32.960 I'm going to bring them home.

00:16:33.960 And so that's how the, so, so the human trafficking side, um, you know, I, um, yeah, they'll, they'll pay you, they'll compensate you for your expenses.

00:16:42.960 Something gas or whatever it might be.

00:16:44.960 Cause it's usually a lot of, you usually got to drive a ton.

00:16:46.960 What are the typical human trafficking cases?

00:16:49.960 Like, is it all women or? 0.54

00:16:51.960 No.

00:16:52.960 Really?

00:16:53.960 Cause you only hear about it with women. 1.00

00:16:55.960 You only hear about the women. 1.00

00:16:56.960 Um, the boys tend to get shuffled to the back.

00:16:59.960 Yeah.

00:17:00.960 Um, and nobody really cares, but there are just as many young men, young boys, especially being trafficked as there are women.

00:17:06.960 Um, and, and the thing about the, the boys is, you know, well, both, both cases.

00:17:12.960 If you don't find these children within a certain amount of time, uh, they could disappear down a dark hole and may never be seen again.

00:17:19.960 And so, um, you know, the people that will engage the services of these.

00:17:25.960 Yeah.

00:17:26.960 There's no way the evil evil doers, you know, there's no other way to put it.

00:17:30.960 And it's not just, it's not just men that are trafficking children.

00:17:33.960 It's, it's actually, I'd say 40% of them are women. 1.00

00:17:36.960 Really?

00:17:37.960 Yes.

00:17:38.960 Yeah.

00:17:39.960 Well, if you think about it, it makes sense because if you want to lure a young person or a child, is a man going to be better at that?

00:17:45.960 A woman.

00:17:46.960 Or a woman. 0.78

00:17:47.960 Yeah.

00:17:48.960 And so, um, and so if, you know, these guys that, that engage in this sort of thing, um, they're, they're, they're evil guys.

00:17:55.960 Um, and, and there's no way any of us could, could understand, or even your, your audience could ever understand anybody who would, who would, you know, try to do that.

00:18:03.960 But if you can't get them back within a relatively short period of time, they're gone.

00:18:08.960 Where do they go?

00:18:09.960 Um, a lot of them don't survive very long.

00:18:12.960 And are they all doing sex work usually?

00:18:15.960 Mostly.

00:18:16.960 Okay.

00:18:17.960 Yeah.

00:18:18.960 Mostly.

00:18:19.960 Look, the market for boys being trafficked is more lucrative than the market for girls being trafficked.

00:18:26.960 No way.

00:18:27.960 Dudes that, that want to do that will pay more. 1.00

00:18:31.960 Uh, I can't, I can't tell you why.

00:18:34.960 Um, but, but it, it happens and it's always tragic when it does.

00:18:38.960 And so how does it like, what's a typical case?

00:18:40.960 Is it, are they recruited through school?

00:18:42.960 Are they?

00:18:43.960 Um, school.

00:18:44.960 Um, again, we talked about, about these, this being a portal.

00:18:47.960 Yeah.

00:18:48.960 It's a portal.

00:18:49.960 If your child has one of these and you do not have your child's phone jacked, meaning you

00:18:54.960 can see everything remotely that's going on on their phone, wherever the phone is, whatever,

00:18:59.960 whoever's texting them, uh, gaming apps are a big thing.

00:19:03.960 Um, we had one case where a child was lured, uh, into hanging out with a, with a, with an

00:19:09.960 adult male, uh, using, I almost say the name of the game to avoid the litigation.

00:19:14.960 Right.

00:19:15.960 It was an augmented reality game.

00:19:16.960 Mm-hmm.

00:19:17.960 So it was a location based game.

00:19:19.960 And so, but you could actually contact each other through the, through the game itself.

00:19:23.960 Mm-hmm.

00:19:24.960 And, uh, you know, as we, as we kind of reverse engineered what happened, um, you know, there

00:19:30.960 were two opposing factions, I guess you could call it.

00:19:35.960 And it was like capture the flag.

00:19:37.960 Well, you know, you could see who was, was on that flag or whatever.

00:19:41.960 And the, the, the predator used this particular game to, um, entice and ensnare young boys.

00:19:50.960 Uh, and so he, you know, who knows how many times he was successful doing that.

00:19:55.960 So I try to tell people, man, you have to know, you know, everything that your child is doing

00:20:00.960 on this or their computer if you don't know.

00:20:03.960 And so, you know, I'm a private investigator.

00:20:04.960 My son has known, knew from early on.

00:20:07.960 I said, look, I'm going to spy on every single thing you do until you're 18.

00:20:12.960 I said, make friends with it.

00:20:14.960 That's just, that's just how it's going to be.

00:20:16.960 And, and, you know, you know, you know, and you don't have to catch everything they do.

00:20:19.960 So if they tell a little white lie, who cares? 0.91

00:20:21.960 Mm-hmm.

00:20:22.960 You know, you, you're looking for things that are going to lead to, um, harm, you know?

00:20:26.960 Um, you know, and, and so, you know, if my son tells me a lie like, Dad, your hair looks

00:20:30.960 great.

00:20:31.960 You know, it doesn't look great, obviously.

00:20:32.960 Cause it's just, it's really nothing there.

00:20:34.960 Yeah.

00:20:35.960 You know, he's, he's full of, you know what, but you have to understand what your children

00:20:38.960 are doing.

00:20:39.960 You have to know who they're hanging out with.

00:20:40.960 And I think what happens is parents get, some parents get into a state of complacency.

00:20:45.960 They think if they live in a nice neighborhood, guess what?

00:20:47.960 If you do a sex offender search, like I live in a nice, I live in a nice area.

00:20:52.960 Yeah.

00:20:53.960 I live in Werner Park.

00:20:54.960 Um, I went a little bit further out, like to a place called Oviedo is outside Orlando

00:21:00.960 as well, too.

00:21:01.960 Not a bad neighborhood, you know, very nice homes.

00:21:04.960 There were more sex offenders in a one mile radius of a friend of mine's, um, um, address

00:21:12.960 in Oviedo than from my old neighborhood in the Bronx.

00:21:17.960 There were more in the suburb.

00:21:20.960 There are guys that have, there are millionaires that are sex offenders.

00:21:23.960 Some of the, some of them haven't been caught.

00:21:25.960 Most of them haven't been caught, so they don't wind up on a registry.

00:21:28.960 And so, you know, there is no safe neighborhood when it comes to predatory human beings.

00:21:34.960 They come in all shapes and sizes from every socioeconomic background.

00:21:38.960 Um, you know, you're not safe because you live in a nice neighborhood or even a gated

00:21:43.960 community.

00:21:44.960 You still have to be vigilant when it comes to your children.

00:21:46.960 I think what happens is people provide a safe space.

00:21:48.960 They think everywhere there is safe.

00:21:49.960 Yeah.

00:21:50.960 Not necessarily.

00:21:51.960 So when these boys or girls get kidnapped, do they typically stay in the U.S.

00:21:56.960 or they're like raped and killed immediately?

00:21:59.960 Or how does, I'm just wondering what the typical like life cycle is maybe?

00:22:03.960 Well, it's, it's, it's a little bit different for every case, depending on who's trafficking

00:22:06.960 them.

00:22:07.960 But what happens is that they typically want to get the child out of the area.

00:22:11.960 And so a Greyhound bus is still a very common way to transport kids.

00:22:16.960 Uh, and so, um, like one of the things.

00:22:19.960 Why a bus and not a car?

00:22:20.960 Wouldn't they?

00:22:21.960 Well, well, because the, the, the trafficker doesn't want to move the child themselves.

00:22:25.960 Oh.

00:22:26.960 You know what I mean?

00:22:27.960 And so it's a lot easier to pick up a child from the bus station than to go drive, you

00:22:30.960 know, 20 hours to pick a child out from, from out of state.

00:22:33.960 Okay.

00:22:34.960 Um, and if the child goes on of his, of his or her own accord, then it looks like they're

00:22:39.960 a runaway initially.

00:22:40.960 And so a runaway is going to be handled differently than a kidnapping or, you know what I mean?

00:22:45.960 By, by enticement.

00:22:46.960 Cause that's what it is.

00:22:47.960 They're kidnapping them by enticing them away.

00:22:48.960 And typically what they'll do is they'll masquerade as a young person.

00:22:53.960 Um, the, the catfishing and they'll get them out of their area. 0.93

00:22:57.960 And as soon as they get their clutches on them, they, they start working on them and

00:23:03.960 creating a dependency on them, on, on the, the predator.

00:23:07.960 Um, and, um, they're out of their area.

00:23:09.960 Oh, you know, your, your parents don't want you.

00:23:11.960 They don't love you.

00:23:12.960 They don't care.

00:23:13.960 I'm going to take care of you.

00:23:14.960 And even in many cases, drugs are introduced to create a drug dependency.

00:23:20.960 Mm.

00:23:21.960 Uh, one of the, one of the challenges for us who are searching for the kids is these, these

00:23:26.960 traffickers understand that they're going to be people and not, not in all cases, but

00:23:30.960 in some cases, people like me hunting for them and law enforcement or whatever.

00:23:33.960 Law enforcement doesn't really get involved unless they're specifically told to, because

00:23:37.960 they got so many other things to do.

00:23:39.960 And so, um, they'll change their, they'll alter their appearance sometimes drastically.

00:23:44.960 And so, um, there are a lot of different ways to start looking for them.

00:23:49.960 Obviously I don't want to put them all out because I don't want them to watch and, and

00:23:52.960 learn how to get around it.

00:23:54.960 But one of the things they do is they'll put these, they'll put these children, they'll

00:23:58.960 make them look grown up and they'll put them on the adult, um, sex marketing sites for 1.00

00:24:07.960 people who are sex working.

00:24:08.960 Right.

00:24:09.960 They're independent contractors or they have a business manager or a pimple, whatever 0.99

00:24:13.960 you want to call it.

00:24:14.960 They'll put them on there, but they'll make them look older, but they'll put verbiage

00:24:16.960 in the, whatever narrative, you know, that, that will, it's kind of like a dog whistle

00:24:22.960 to people who, who are looking for those.

00:24:25.960 Yeah.

00:24:26.960 And they'll understand that that's an underage child.

00:24:28.960 And, and so they'll, they'll initially be, um, you know, can I say the R word or I'll 0.98

00:24:37.960 grapevine.

00:24:38.960 Yeah.

00:24:39.960 They'll say graped, uh, by the individual who trafficked them.

00:24:41.960 And then they'll start marketing them to their friends and then more people and, and these

00:24:47.960 children will be just passed around.

00:24:49.960 Um, and, and yeah, yeah.

00:24:51.960 Yeah.

00:24:52.960 And so is this in the United States?

00:24:53.960 It's in the United States of America.

00:24:54.960 So they do stay here.

00:24:55.960 That happens here in the United States of America.

00:24:57.960 No, I was just wondering if like some of them flee the country or something to do it.

00:25:02.960 Not typically.

00:25:03.960 Sometimes, sometimes, and it depends on, on, on where, you know, who's doing it, but there

00:25:09.960 are some children that are actually, um, requested.

00:25:13.960 Now that happens rarely.

00:25:15.960 Like some evil dude say, Hey, I want you to grab that child. 0.97

00:25:18.960 That happens extremely rarely.

00:25:20.960 Um, but, but for the most part, they'll stay right here in the United States.

00:25:23.960 This is one of the biggest human trafficking markets.

00:25:26.960 This is the biggest human trafficking market in the world, United States of America.

00:25:29.960 So do mothers that put their kids on the internet, put their kids at risk for this

00:25:35.960 kind of thing?

00:25:36.960 Yes.

00:25:37.960 Yeah.

00:25:38.960 Yes.

00:25:39.960 I see like people putting baby pictures in a really, really like in diapers or even

00:25:46.960 no diapers on, you know, there are guys out there.

00:25:49.960 Okay.

00:25:50.960 The, the worst offenders besides the social media ones.

00:25:54.960 And I don't think they're doing this out of any malfeasance.

00:25:56.960 Right.

00:25:57.960 They just don't understand.

00:25:58.960 But women who put their children on their dating apps with them, that is the worst thing 1.00

00:26:03.960 you can do.

00:26:04.960 What you're going to attract, you're not going to attract for the most part, you're going

00:26:07.960 to attract some guys that don't mind single moms, but, but one of the things, one of the

00:26:12.960 things I found, um, just from some of my investigations were that, that, uh, child

00:26:18.960 grapists tend to have a type.

00:26:21.960 Okay.

00:26:22.960 Like very, very specific criteria.

00:26:25.960 And if they see that criteria, one of the things some of these guys will do is they will

00:26:28.960 ingratiate themselves with the moms. 0.63

00:26:31.960 Uh, and, and, um, I actually try to enter their social circle if they're married or something.

00:26:36.960 Um, like, well, well, typically they'll, they'll, they'll be, you know, most, most fathers

00:26:42.960 aren't going to let their kids pictures be put on the internet like that.

00:26:45.960 Right.

00:26:46.960 It's usually moms that are doing it. 1.00

00:26:47.960 Yeah.

00:26:48.960 Let's be honest.

00:26:49.960 And again, not do any malfeasance.

00:26:50.960 They want to show off their children.

00:26:51.960 Okay, fine.

00:26:52.960 But what they have to understand is that the internet is a very big place and you've got

00:26:55.960 to, you've got the good with the bad.

00:26:57.960 And so I worked a, um, a protection job is a corporate protection job where, you know,

00:27:03.960 they, they hired me.

00:27:04.960 They're like, okay, one of our employees, and again, I won't go into any names or anything

00:27:08.960 like that, but one of our employees found out that her long time live in boyfriend has

00:27:13.960 been, has groomed and molested her daughter. 1.00

00:27:16.960 Who's 15 now for the last five years.

00:27:19.960 And so, um, he's, he's made threats against her.

00:27:25.960 And so we want you standing by until he goes to trial.

00:27:29.960 And so initially it was 30, this thing wound up like 90 days, man.

00:27:32.960 Oh, and by the way, the guy was a competitive shooter.

00:27:34.960 Oh, that's just awesome.

00:27:35.960 You know what I mean?

00:27:36.960 Yeah.

00:27:37.960 And so, um, and so that ratcheted things up.

00:27:40.960 And so what I did was I got them to spend money for some more investigators.

00:27:43.960 And I said, look, I'll be here, but I want my guys watching him.

00:27:47.960 I want to know where this dude is.

00:27:49.960 You know what I mean?

00:27:50.960 I want to know where this dude is, uh, because I didn't want to, you know, supersonic round,

00:27:54.960 uh, to perforate my brain case.

00:27:56.960 Right.

00:27:57.960 And so it, and it got really, really tense and, and these things are always kind of,

00:28:01.960 but, but there are guys out there that will target women just so they can get close to 0.99

00:28:06.960 their kids.

00:28:07.960 So one, some of the common tactics they'll use is they'll use the babysit.

00:28:11.960 You know, the, Oh, you need to go get your hair.

00:28:14.960 You don't watch your kids for you.

00:28:16.960 It's a trap.

00:28:17.960 It's a trap.

00:28:18.960 Never turn over your kids to anybody.

00:28:20.960 Um, the, you know, besides the babysitting thing, there was a case in Orlando where,

00:28:25.960 um, a woman, a single mom, two kids, five and eight years old would let the maintenance 1.00

00:28:31.960 guy watch her kids. 0.94

00:28:33.960 Oh my gosh.

00:28:34.960 So she could go to the club and go do this and hang out with her girlfriends. 1.00

00:28:38.960 He's such a nice guy.

00:28:39.960 And he would buy the kids video games.

00:28:41.960 I mean, do they realize that people don't even vet their family?

00:28:44.960 Like, like family members do it that you've known for years.

00:28:47.960 Yeah.

00:28:48.960 Yeah.

00:28:49.960 Yeah.

00:28:50.960 Yeah.

00:28:51.960 And then they found out, you know, later after who knows how long that this guy did it, but

00:28:55.960 even, it even got worse, even worse than that.

00:28:58.960 So he would buy them video games to, to buy their silence.

00:29:01.960 Oh, but even worse, the guy who hired him knew that he had molested a child before out

00:29:09.960 in the West coast and hired him anyway, because he said, Oh, he wouldn't, he wouldn't do that

00:29:13.960 again.

00:29:14.960 And, and so my, my message to single parents, moms, but especially moms, not so much dads,

00:29:19.960 but moms, especially because you're going to be the ones targeted because you are going 1.00

00:29:23.960 to be viewed as the weak link.

00:29:24.960 All right.

00:29:25.960 And I'm not saying that you are, but I'm saying that that's how you're going to be targeted

00:29:28.960 for that.

00:29:29.960 So you gotta, you gotta be on guard.

00:29:31.960 Men don't like children. 0.61

00:29:33.960 Fair.

00:29:34.960 I said it.

00:29:35.960 No, it's okay.

00:29:37.960 I don't like kids.

00:29:38.960 I don't like kids.

00:29:39.960 I don't like kids.

00:29:40.960 I feel like dad's like, it's like over like seven.

00:29:44.960 They start to like, I love my son because he's my son.

00:29:48.960 Right.

00:29:49.960 I don't.

00:29:50.960 And look, here's the thing.

00:29:51.960 And having said that, I, I've helped out so many children to help recover so many children.

00:29:54.960 I'll help children.

00:29:55.960 When I say I don't like them, I don't want to hang out with them.

00:29:57.960 Right.

00:29:58.960 Cause most people don't raise their children properly, you know?

00:30:00.960 And, and I'm not, I'm not putting that kind of energy and dealing with some offspring

00:30:05.960 that's not mine.

00:30:06.960 Most men feel that way.

00:30:08.960 Sorry.

00:30:09.960 Some people might object to that, but that's the truth, ladies. 0.99

00:30:11.960 So if a guy is volunteering to look after a child that is not his.

00:30:16.960 Why?

00:30:17.960 He's either genuinely trying to get in your good graces, but there are other women out 1.00

00:30:23.960 you're not special.

00:30:24.960 I know you think you're special.

00:30:25.960 You're not, uh, you're special just like everybody else.

00:30:28.960 Right.

00:30:29.960 And so, um, but you have to always keep in the back of your mind that this individual

00:30:33.960 could be trying to get close to you because that gives them easier access to your child.

00:30:38.960 So use more caution, man.

00:30:40.960 Yeah.

00:30:41.960 So the cases that you, so you do murder cases, you do, um, human trafficking cases.

00:30:48.960 What's another type of case?

00:30:49.960 Um, I've done a ton of, um, let's call it pre pre marital inspection.

00:30:55.960 So, so say for instance, you're going to buy, say you're gonna buy a light.

00:30:58.960 You look like a Lamborghini person.

00:30:59.960 No, you know, you don't look at it.

00:31:00.960 You look like a Ferrari person.

00:31:01.960 I'm a Honda Civic.

00:31:02.960 Oh, you saw.

00:31:03.960 But you look like a G-Wagon Ferrari person, right?

00:31:08.960 I don't know cars.

00:31:09.960 I don't know what that means.

00:31:10.960 Okay.

00:31:11.960 You know what a G-Wagon is?

00:31:13.960 No, I don't.

00:31:14.960 How do you not know what a G-Wagon is?

00:31:15.960 I just don't know cars.

00:31:16.960 I've always had a Honda Civic.

00:31:17.960 Okay.

00:31:18.960 Well.

00:31:19.960 They get great mileage.

00:31:20.960 You see the gas.

00:31:21.960 Oh my God.

00:31:22.960 It's not about mileage.

00:31:23.960 The G-Wagon, the G-Wagon is not about mileage.

00:31:27.960 It probably gets about 10 miles a gallon on a freeway.

00:31:30.960 It's about the prestige and the look.

00:31:32.960 You know what I mean?

00:31:33.960 Okay.

00:31:34.960 So, but before you buy one, if you buy one used, you want to get a pre purchase inspection.

00:31:38.960 Okay.

00:31:39.960 You want a mechanic, a trusted mechanic to go in and look and make sure, check out the,

00:31:43.960 the, um, the maintenance records, make sure it matches up with what's actually been

00:31:46.960 done in a car and make sure that you're not buying a ticking time bomb or engine that's

00:31:51.960 going to grenade or whatever else.

00:31:53.960 Hmm.

00:31:54.960 I do the same thing for men who are thinking about engaging a woman for long-term relationship

00:31:58.960 or marriage.

00:31:59.960 So there's, there's different tiers of it.

00:32:01.960 There's, there's your basic look and then there's a really super deep dive, which involves

00:32:06.960 things like active surveillance and, and things of that nature.

00:32:09.960 And, um, you know, so that's, that's something I, and again, I take that really seriously

00:32:15.960 because again, if, if, if I mess things up, um, I could be sending some poor dude to the

00:32:21.960 gallows of our life of misery.

00:32:23.960 What if she like praise?

00:32:25.960 Uh, you know, you just want to open up all the cancer.

00:32:31.960 Okay.

00:32:32.960 Here's the thing.

00:32:33.960 One of the jobs I did before I became a licensed private investigator, I was head of security

00:32:38.960 for a very large congregation for a very prominent religious leader.

00:32:41.960 It was a mega church.

00:32:43.960 Um, fortunately him and his wife were two of the most gracious people and actual godly

00:32:49.960 people I've ever met.

00:32:50.960 His wife was probably the most gracious woman I've ever met.

00:32:52.960 Uh, like super nice people that would do anything for you.

00:32:56.960 But I, I was able to interact with a lot of the gospel superstars that people worship

00:33:03.960 today.

00:33:04.960 And here's, here's what I can say.

00:33:06.960 Most of them, 90% of them are not, they're living like devils while they're trying to tell

00:33:13.960 you to live like angels.

00:33:15.960 So if you have a woman and you meet a woman in church because you think you're getting something 0.99

00:33:20.960 better than outside of church, I got bad news for you, bro.

00:33:23.960 Um, you're not getting anything any better.

00:33:25.960 You're just going to get a really self-righteous individual.

00:33:28.960 That's going to pretend that they are better.

00:33:30.960 Not necessarily.

00:33:31.960 Um, or you're going to get a recycled three or four that wants a break from the treadmill.

00:33:36.960 And so she goes to church to find refuge and find some poor schmo that doesn't know 1.00

00:33:40.960 about her past.

00:33:41.960 Uh, and again, these might sound like harsh words.

00:33:44.960 However, um, you know, I don't, you know, I don't, I, you know, I, I don't make a habit

00:33:49.960 of trying to butter people's backsides.

00:33:51.960 Um, I, I have to give people the truth and sometimes it's ugly.

00:33:55.960 Sometimes it's, it's difficult to, to hear.

00:33:58.960 And, you know, people will hear me say that and they think I'm anti-Christian.

00:34:01.960 I'm not anti-Christian.

00:34:02.960 I'm, I am a Christian.

00:34:03.960 I'm not always a very good one.

00:34:06.960 I'll admit it.

00:34:07.960 I'm not always a very good one, but, uh, what I, what I object to is people being fooled

00:34:12.960 and using God and church and religion, uh, as a way to trick people.

00:34:18.960 And one of the people, you know, some of the groups that women get tricked too, but men

00:34:22.960 are tricked, uh, way more often.

00:34:25.960 Hmm.

00:34:26.960 And so, um, a woman going to church, what does that mean?

00:34:29.960 Um, does, does that look, here's the thing.

00:34:31.960 I was head of security.

00:34:32.960 I would see women at the club the night before on Saturday night. 1.00

00:34:36.960 They'd still be in their club clothes, church on Sunday morning.

00:34:39.960 Wow.

00:34:40.960 Still be in the club clothes, church on Sunday morning.

00:34:43.960 They're backing that thing up and doing whatever else Saturday night.

00:34:46.960 Yeah.

00:34:47.960 Sunday.

00:34:48.960 They're a holy moly.

00:34:49.960 Right.

00:34:50.960 And so, um, look, and that's not to, to say that they're worse, but what I'm saying

00:34:56.960 is that they're not better.

00:34:57.960 Right.

00:34:58.960 You know, you still have to, you can't.

00:35:00.960 So here's the thing.

00:35:01.960 You cannot use religion or religious affiliation as a, as a vetting method.

00:35:08.960 All right.

00:35:09.960 It's, it's, it's because I've seen it just, I've seen the absolute opposite.

00:35:13.960 In some instances, I've seen women in church act way, way worse, um, than, than women who, 0.99

00:35:18.960 than women who don't go to church at all. 0.82

00:35:20.960 So, and, and part of that is there's, there's, um, there's a belief that you're getting something

00:35:26.960 better.

00:35:27.960 So it hits harder when you find out.

00:35:29.960 They don't see it coming.

00:35:30.960 No, man.

00:35:31.960 No, man.

00:35:32.960 And it's like, they're stepping into a freeway and that truck is right there and they just

00:35:35.960 bam.

00:35:36.960 And all of a sudden, when they realize it, when they come to me after they find out something's

00:35:39.960 wrong, usually like we talked about before, they're in crisis mode.

00:35:42.960 Um, well, you know, the way to avoid that is understand her past.

00:35:47.960 That's the best peak you will get into her future.

00:35:50.960 And so when we talked about earlier, if you, if you can, if you can live with, nobody's

00:35:56.960 going to be perfect.

00:35:57.960 If you can live with her worst that she's ever done, then you have a better chance of weathering

00:36:03.960 whatever storm you might have to going forward.

00:36:05.960 But if you don't know what her worst is, you're not able to make an informed decision.

00:36:09.960 And what I try to do is give guys an opportunity to make an informed decision because that's

00:36:13.960 all any of us should ever want.

00:36:14.960 If you got a woman with, um, you know, like that PPI inspection for the Lamborghini or 1.00

00:36:20.960 Ferrari or G wagon, you got to do some homework on the G.

00:36:22.960 Um, but if, if, if you think you're getting a car that has 10,000 miles, but it's the, the

00:36:31.960 speedo has been rolled back.

00:36:32.960 You know, how much, how much wear and tear is building that engine, the chassis, the electronics,

00:36:37.960 the interior, the upholstery, everything.

00:36:41.960 And, and compare that to, you know, and again, people, you know, people will get all upset.

00:36:46.960 But, you know, at the end of the day, I know a lot of women will give the, uh, the reply, 1.00

00:36:51.960 a woman's past shouldn't matter. 1.00

00:36:53.960 Well, I'm sorry, sister.

00:36:54.960 It does matter to men.

00:36:55.960 It may not matter to you, but it matters to men for so many different reasons.

00:36:59.960 One reason is, uh, your reputation.

00:37:02.960 You know, like I actually know guys who have married the neighborhood,

00:37:06.960 the neighborhood pass around, but didn't know they were the neighborhood pass around.

00:37:11.960 And they found out after they got married.

00:37:13.960 Now imagine how that guy feels knowing that he has a woman that everybody has been with.

00:37:18.960 How did he find out?

00:37:19.960 I mean, cause I feel like men, women will snitch. 1.00

00:37:23.960 Men just do not snitch.

00:37:25.960 We were talking about that earlier, but like they, they could be banging on other dudes what they want. 1.00

00:37:30.960 Well, in this particular case, he hired, he hired me because he thought she was cheating.

00:37:34.960 Was she?

00:37:36.960 And yeah, she was.

00:37:38.960 And, and, and I was like, you know, and this was easy work.

00:37:41.960 And I was like, yeah, dude, she's, she's probably, I said, I'll find, I'll find, I'll look for documentation.

00:37:45.960 But yeah, she probably is.

00:37:46.960 He's like, well, how do you, how do you know?

00:37:48.960 I said, everybody slept with her, man.

00:37:49.960 He said, really?

00:37:50.960 I said, dude, I slept with her. 0.88

00:37:52.960 Um, like everybody, everybody got.

00:37:55.960 So you got hired for someone.

00:37:56.960 Yeah.

00:37:57.960 Yeah.

00:37:58.960 And it's like, you know, and not normally you wouldn't just come out and say this, but you know, it's like, okay.

00:38:03.960 It's so crazy.

00:38:04.960 Women can be with like a hundred dudes and none of them will snitch. 0.94

00:38:07.960 No.

00:38:08.960 Well, they will say something if it's their, their homeboy.

00:38:12.960 Yeah.

00:38:13.960 If it's their pal, they'll say something.

00:38:14.960 Now you get different reactions from guys.

00:38:18.960 Like I'm a PI.

00:38:19.960 I've given people documentation.

00:38:21.960 Like, yeah, she's cheating. 1.00

00:38:22.960 No, I don't believe it.

00:38:23.960 Like, dude, you hired me to get this.

00:38:24.960 This is, this is like, literally I got video.

00:38:27.960 Like, why am I here?

00:38:28.960 I got video of a woman getting bent over and cheeks clapping and all the rest of that stuff.

00:38:35.960 And, and the dude was still like, well, that doesn't look like her.

00:38:38.960 Like, come on, dude.

00:38:39.960 Like, come on, bro.

00:38:42.960 I was just, I was just telling someone this the other day.

00:38:45.960 When a guy wants to simp, you cannot stop him.

00:38:47.960 No, no.

00:38:48.960 At some lessons, you just got to learn the hard way.

00:38:50.960 Yeah.

00:38:51.960 And, and so he hired me cause he, he thought she was, she was messing around.

00:38:54.960 And, um, you know, I, I didn't know this guy before they got married.

00:39:00.960 I met him after he hired me.

00:39:02.960 And so I was like, I was like, well, yeah, she probably is.

00:39:08.960 And he was like, well, how has it been?

00:39:10.960 Everybody's been with her, man.

00:39:11.960 Like she was just that, like, literally she would just, she was just very generous.

00:39:16.960 Uh, let's just put, she was very generous with her time and her presence.

00:39:20.960 And so, um, so for him, that was a bitter pill.

00:39:23.960 It was a really bitter pill to swallow, man, because I mean, imagine somebody that you, you know, when, when, and again, we, I wrote about this called the, a woman as a brand ambassador.

00:39:33.960 So very rarely is a man, a woman's brand ambassador.

00:39:37.960 Typically the woman is going to be the man's brand ambassador, meaning she represents you. 0.96

00:39:43.960 She represents hopefully the best part of your judgment.

00:39:47.960 Right.

00:39:48.960 And so you're, because you're bringing this person in and they are, they're representing your name, your, your family, not just you, but your mother, your father, your family name in general, uh, your children.

00:40:00.960 She has access to your money. 0.99

00:40:02.960 And so, you know, all these other things.

00:40:04.960 And so if you get that decision wrong, that's going to say a lot to people, not necessarily because you did it on purpose, but that's going to say a lot to people about you as a, as a man and your ability to make decisions.

00:40:16.960 Is if you marry the town pass around, uh, now some guys are comfortable with that.

00:40:21.960 Hey, do your thing, you know, but most guys are not.

00:40:25.960 How do you categorize women? 0.74

00:40:27.960 So I'd imagine when you're doing, um, like when I, I did enough interviews, you kind of start to see like patterns and trends and like, you kind of group, start to group people.

00:40:37.960 Is there a way that you do that with women? 1.00

00:40:39.960 Um, like from what, like, will, will she cheat or what type of, what's she, her past?

00:40:44.960 Yeah. Like, I don't know, women, it could be by profession that they do this. 1.00

00:40:48.960 It could be by a school. It could be like, I don't know.

00:40:51.960 I'm just curious over the years, you've, how long have you been doing this for?

00:40:55.960 Um, I, I got my license in, um, 2000.

00:41:01.960 Well, it was actually before 2009, but there's a two year internship.

00:41:04.960 So it was really 2007, but 2009 is when I got the, the, um, the full license after I completed the internship.

00:41:11.960 Okay. So I've been doing it since then.

00:41:13.960 So, yeah. So you, I mean, you have to have, um, patterns that you've seen.

00:41:18.960 Like if I've noticed, if I've learned anything is that people aren't as special as they think.

00:41:23.960 And most people do our statistics and do fallen.

00:41:26.960 Like, um, it's kind of like the hoe and the simp in church. 1.00

00:41:30.960 You know, that's what I've seen.

00:41:32.960 But so with women, how do you categorize them typically? 0.99

00:41:36.960 Uh, well, I'll look at it this way.

00:41:39.960 I, I look at women the same way.

00:41:41.960 Most guys will evaluate women as a, as a straight male, healthy, aggressive, heterosexual male.

00:41:49.960 Um, first category is would I, or would I, wouldn't I?

00:41:53.960 But more importantly, before then, would she, or wouldn't she?

00:41:57.960 So I can talk to women and tell within a few minutes or even just watch them to tell if, if they're available very, very quickly. 0.97

00:42:05.960 Some women just aren't available. 1.00

00:42:07.960 You know what I mean?

00:42:08.960 And it's not necessarily to me, but whoever, right?

00:42:10.960 So one of the things I look for is the attention hounds, the attention to women that are constantly, not just the way they dress,

00:42:19.960 but they're constantly looking around to see who's, who's watching them.

00:42:24.960 And, and they're looking for that attention.

00:42:26.960 And if they get that intention, um, sometimes they're looking for engagement after that, you know, attention.

00:42:32.960 And so that's a, that's a big thing.

00:42:35.960 Um, and, and again, you know.

00:42:37.960 So you'll follow a girl and see if she's like looking around for attention.

00:42:41.960 Not, not even if I'm followers, I'm just women I meet in general.

00:42:44.960 Okay.

00:42:45.960 You know, um, just because I, I, I observe, I watch everything.

00:42:48.960 Um, and sometimes it's a little bit of a curse and sometimes I'll notice things that I don't even want to see, you know, but, but I'll see them, you know, just because of my, my past and just my brain is wired.

00:42:59.960 Right.

00:43:00.960 My brain is wired to find things that people are trying to hide.

00:43:03.960 Yeah.

00:43:04.960 It's been like this since I was a, I was a kid.

00:43:06.960 Again, sometimes it's a, it's a little bit of a curse, uh, just cause you don't want to know everything about some people.

00:43:11.960 Sometimes, you know, you just want to think that just an ordinary person.

00:43:14.960 And then, you know, I'll see things like friends of mine and their wives are fitting in some of these patterns.

00:43:19.960 I'm just like, Oh man.

00:43:20.960 I was like, what do you say?

00:43:22.960 Cause you know, both of them.

00:43:23.960 Right.

00:43:24.960 So what do you say?

00:43:25.960 What do you do?

00:43:26.960 And so I had a recent thing.

00:43:27.960 I'll ask your opinion on this.

00:43:28.960 Okay.

00:43:29.960 I had a recent thing.

00:43:30.960 I, what would you guys do on my, my dog walks?

00:43:33.960 I typically walk my dogs if I'm around, uh, three times, say three times a day.

00:43:38.960 And excuse me, I'm sweating.

00:43:40.960 Uh, I've always sweated a bunch.

00:43:42.960 It's the studio too.

00:43:43.960 Yeah.

00:43:44.960 These things tend to, I, I, I sweat like a, um, I sweat like a, like a person who's in the desert.

00:43:49.960 So sorry.

00:43:50.960 So I don't want to, I don't want to blind anybody with my shiny bald head.

00:43:53.960 Um, but so, so here's what happened.

00:43:57.960 Um, I'm walking my dogs, take them to a park.

00:43:59.960 Right.

00:44:00.960 And it's by one of the tennis courts.

00:44:01.960 We've got a bunch of tennis courts in my neighborhood.

00:44:03.960 Um, that's when you know you're in a good neighborhood.

00:44:05.960 If you don't have any basketball courts, but tennis courts, you're in a nice neighborhood.

00:44:08.960 So, um, and so with, with one of my neighbors goes on power walks in the middle of the day,

00:44:16.960 she walks, she walks to the park and gets in a car.

00:44:21.960 And I was like, but she couldn't see me.

00:44:23.960 I guess I was actually picking up dog doo.

00:44:25.960 Be responsible.

00:44:26.960 Pick up your dog doo doo.

00:44:28.960 Don't, don't be like that.

00:44:29.960 And so I was like, that wasn't her.

00:44:31.960 That wasn't her husband.

00:44:32.960 You know what I mean?

00:44:33.960 So I was like, okay.

00:44:34.960 You know?

00:44:35.960 And so I let it go.

00:44:36.960 And another time I see her get picked up, same pattern, same car.

00:44:41.960 And so, um, and this, this happened more than once.

00:44:46.960 And so I hung out and then saw him drop her off.

00:44:50.960 And then she proceeds on her power walking thing again and goes back home. 1.00

00:44:54.960 And I was like, not her husband.

00:44:57.960 Husband's at work, uh, providing a great living.

00:45:00.960 He's a surgeon.

00:45:01.960 Um, so she hired, you know, she, she married the high value guy.

00:45:04.960 All right.

00:45:05.960 Uh, and the guy who picked her up wasn't a brokey. 1.00

00:45:06.960 He was driving a, um, seven series Beamer.

00:45:08.960 So, you know.

00:45:09.960 What was she one to 10?

00:45:11.960 Uh, looks wise.

00:45:12.960 Uh, she's, uh, she's a little bit higher, man. 0.57

00:45:16.960 She's like an eight and a half, nine man. 0.75

00:45:18.960 Like she's, uh, I would eat if she wasn't married, I would eat sushi off her naked backside. 1.00

00:45:24.960 Okay.

00:45:25.960 She's that attractive. 1.00

00:45:26.960 Okay.

00:45:27.960 You know what I mean?

00:45:28.960 Is that descriptive?

00:45:29.960 Yeah.

00:45:30.960 I'm, I'm, I'm the king of analogies.

00:45:31.960 You'll find.

00:45:32.960 Um, but, and so, and obviously I, I don't mess with married.

00:45:36.960 I stay away from married women. 1.00

00:45:37.960 Um, but, and so I said, okay, what would you guys do?

00:45:41.960 And I got a range of answers from, oh, you have to tell them.

00:45:44.960 I know the guy.

00:45:45.960 How well, but we're not like pals.

00:45:48.960 I've smoked cigars with them, with other guys in the neighborhood a couple of times.

00:45:52.960 While we're drinking.

00:45:53.960 You know what?

00:45:54.960 This has happened to me before.

00:45:55.960 And if they stay together, it's so awkward.

00:45:59.960 So, so.

00:46:00.960 Cause then the snitch is the bad guy.

00:46:03.960 So, so, so, so what would you do?

00:46:05.960 Yeah, exactly.

00:46:06.960 Nothing.

00:46:07.960 Sorry.

00:46:08.960 Not like it.

00:46:09.960 There was a time where I would have, but I'm sorry.

00:46:11.960 Too many of you simps.

00:46:12.960 It's bit me in the ass, but I got to let you guys suffer.

00:46:15.960 Yeah.

00:46:16.960 Some guys were like, oh, you got to do it.

00:46:17.960 And this is the bro code.

00:46:18.960 Okay.

00:46:19.960 I get the bro code thing, but I still got to live in that neighborhood.

00:46:21.960 Exactly.

00:46:22.960 Exactly.

00:46:23.960 That's the.

00:46:24.960 So here's how I handled it.

00:46:25.960 Okay.

00:46:26.960 Again, one of my strong suits is problem solving, right?

00:46:29.960 Okay.

00:46:30.960 And so I, I love problem solving, solving problems.

00:46:31.960 I love finding creative ways to solve problems.

00:46:34.960 So what I did was I said, okay, I clocked the times that she would be there.

00:46:38.960 It was right around the same time every day.

00:46:40.960 I started booking the tennis court around that time and inviting one of the neighborhood,

00:46:45.960 older guys in the neighborhood that plays.

00:46:47.960 He's man, this guy is a, even though he's the guys in his seventies, man, but he went

00:46:52.960 to college on a, on a tennis scholarship.

00:46:54.960 Dude, this guy is such a ringer. 1.00

00:46:55.960 Like he'll have you running around the court all day.

00:46:58.960 So I invited him to go play tennis.

00:46:59.960 I booked a tennis court and I positioned myself so that my back was to the pickup point and

00:47:07.960 he was facing the pickup point.

00:47:09.960 And so, um, golf, I still love both of them.

00:47:13.960 But that wasn't her husband, but the guy knew her husband.

00:47:16.960 Well, okay.

00:47:17.960 Yes.

00:47:18.960 Okay.

00:47:19.960 If he knew him well.

00:47:20.960 Yes.

00:47:21.960 He's known him for a long time.

00:47:22.960 Yeah.

00:47:23.960 So, so, uh, and then he stopped and was like, I turned around, I go, Hey, oh, is that such

00:47:29.960 and such?

00:47:30.960 He's like, yeah.

00:47:31.960 And he's got this really concerned look on his face.

00:47:34.960 Let's go.

00:47:35.960 All right.

00:47:36.960 Uh, I think it's your serve.

00:47:37.960 He's like, and I just left it at that and he dealt with it.

00:47:41.960 Yeah.

00:47:42.960 Yeah.

00:47:43.960 And so I, I didn't tell him, I just put him in position to see.

00:47:46.960 Yeah.

00:47:47.960 Um, even though the guy wasn't the client, some people say, Oh, I'm a snitch.

00:47:50.960 Okay.

00:47:51.960 Technically I'm a professional snitch.

00:47:53.960 No, that's what I do for a living.

00:47:56.960 You know what I mean?

00:47:57.960 I'm constantly diving people out.

00:47:58.960 Well, that's smart.

00:47:59.960 Cause then like, cause if you tell them the problem is one, they might not believe you

00:48:03.960 and then it's awkward for you.

00:48:05.960 Yeah.

00:48:06.960 Two, they do believe you and then they fight and then they tell them that you're the person

00:48:10.960 that, that's what happened to me.

00:48:12.960 I told, and then they fought and then they stayed together.

00:48:16.960 So I was the best.

00:48:18.960 I'm like, okay, you know what?

00:48:20.960 I'm like, suffer, suffer.

00:48:22.960 I don't care.

00:48:23.960 Yeah.

00:48:24.960 And so, and so that's, that's how I handled that.

00:48:25.960 Right.

00:48:26.960 That particular thing.

00:48:27.960 And, and, uh, because I was like, man, yeah, you hate watching guys dangle, you know,

00:48:32.960 over, over a volcano and you can save them, but you don't do it.

00:48:36.960 You don't do anything to save them.

00:48:38.960 And so I, so I let his friend, uh, cause that guy's really good friends with him.

00:48:41.960 Um, I know him casually.

00:48:42.960 I know the other guy better.

00:48:43.960 Him and I smoke cigars all the time.

00:48:45.960 Um, and, uh, so did he find out, did he tell the husband?

00:48:49.960 Um, from what I, from the gossip I got in the neighborhood, I never asked, um, the older

00:48:55.960 guy what happened or what he did, but the gossip I got from the neighborhood is that, um,

00:49:00.960 um, he did indeed find out, uh, what was going on with his, um, with his, with his spouse.

00:49:06.960 Are they staying together?

00:49:07.960 Uh, no, no, they're getting divorced.

00:49:09.960 No, no, he's, he's bouncing.

00:49:10.960 Yeah.

00:49:11.960 Apparently.

00:49:12.960 He's probably screwing a nurse anyways. 1.00

00:49:13.960 Well, well, apparently she, this was her college boyfriend.

00:49:17.960 No way.

00:49:18.960 That she told him not to worry about.

00:49:20.960 It's always the guy, it's always the guy they say not to worry about.

00:49:25.960 I'll tell you, I'll tell you a story from school.

00:49:27.960 So I was on a team with a girl and she, it was, I transferred in.

00:49:33.960 Um, and before I even like knew her, she dated this guy freshman year and they dated.

00:49:40.960 They didn't even date that long.

00:49:41.960 Like, I don't know, two, three months, but I guess she was kind of stuck on.

00:49:45.960 I mean, you know how it is.

00:49:46.960 Like she was stuck in him forever.

00:49:48.960 Senior year.

00:49:49.960 She has a new boyfriend and we were at like, it's called like a day party, like a dirty.

00:49:53.960 It was like St.

00:49:54.960 Patrick's day or something.

00:49:55.960 And I'm waiting to go to the bathroom.

00:49:58.960 Right.

00:49:59.960 And I'm like, why is this taking so long?

00:50:01.960 It's taking forever.

00:50:02.960 And she walks out with the guy from freshman year.

00:50:07.960 And the, her boyfriend came to the party later and had no idea they're still together to this day.

00:50:12.960 And you know, what makes it worse is she wasn't a whore. 0.99

00:50:16.960 Like she wasn't like, you would expect there's different girls on our team that I, you would maybe expect that from, but she did not, at least as far as I knew, she did not have the reputation of sleeping around with, sorry, sleeping around with a bunch of people, you know? 1.00

00:50:33.960 You know, so this guy, I'm like, he would have no idea because she, like, really, she had a good reputation.

00:50:39.960 I was, I couldn't even believe it.

00:50:42.960 And, and yeah, and I was not going to be the one.

00:50:45.960 I'm sorry, pal.

00:50:46.960 Too many of you guys, you tell, you know how mad they get at me for being like, cause, cause there's guys who will say, oh, um, they want like a virgin wife or like, and, and I say guys like two bodies.

00:51:00.960 I'm like, good luck.

00:51:02.960 And then they tell me I'm like evil.

00:51:04.960 They're like, oh, well that's just you.

00:51:06.960 Or that's just like you, you, you, um, it's just the women, you know. 1.00

00:51:10.960 And I'm like, look, it's like, like, like, like, it's just women on podcasts. 0.99

00:51:16.960 Like here's the thing, man.

00:51:18.960 Finding like, if you do find a virgin, I actually know a guy and we, we talked about this briefly.

00:51:25.960 You find a virgin.

00:51:26.960 Um, she was using her virginity as a, and her sexuality as a method of control over guys that she was messing with. 1.00

00:51:32.960 Like literally holding it over the head, their heads like the sword of Damocles.

00:51:35.960 You know what I mean?

00:51:36.960 And these guys were all chomping at the bit.

00:51:38.960 And she was just playing these guys like, just like, like a fiddle.

00:51:42.960 Um, guys get over the whole wanting a virgin thing.

00:51:46.960 It's not going to happen.

00:51:47.960 If a woman tells you that she is a virgin, odds are that she's lying.

00:51:50.960 Um, you know, when, when you talk about the data, whenever they pull, they show these polls.

00:51:55.960 Oh, only 20% of women who were pulled said, said they were cheating. 1.00

00:51:58.960 Oh my God.

00:51:59.960 Yeah.

00:52:00.960 Okay.

00:52:01.960 You guys believe that nonsense.

00:52:02.960 And the workarounds, it's like, they'll, they'll give oral, then say that doesn't count.

00:52:08.960 And that's the, the virgin.

00:52:11.960 I found five types of virgins. 1.00

00:52:13.960 One lying to work around virgin.

00:52:16.960 They do.

00:52:17.960 And I was on the phone.

00:52:18.960 I talked to this lady the other day and I was like, I don't know how these guys believe

00:52:22.960 these women when they're like 27 or 28 that they're virgin. 1.00

00:52:25.960 Okay.

00:52:26.960 Like 19.

00:52:27.960 Okay.

00:52:28.960 But like 27, what was she doing for the past decade?

00:52:32.960 Yeah.

00:52:33.960 And then she was like, Oh, but I was.

00:52:35.960 And I was like, don't make me do this.

00:52:38.960 And I was like, and I told her, I'm like, really, you did nothing else.

00:52:41.960 And she's like, Oh, well, of course I did other.

00:52:43.960 And I was like, come on.

00:52:45.960 And again, you know, maybe some guys, maybe some guys think that if a woman gives throat 0.75

00:52:49.960 hugs, um, that, that she's still a virgin.

00:52:52.960 Uh, sorry, bro.

00:52:53.960 Yeah.

00:52:54.960 But if you gave three throat hugs at the same time, are you still a virgin?

00:52:57.960 Come on.

00:52:58.960 That logic makes no, you can get an STD from it.

00:53:01.960 So like you can get an incurable STD, but you're a virgin.

00:53:04.960 Get out.

00:53:05.960 I'm so, I, you don't understand.

00:53:08.960 Like I had interviewed a thousand women and I was just so done by the end.

00:53:12.960 I'm like, are you one girl on the show said she was a virgin before the show.

00:53:17.960 She told a different guy on the show that like, she was telling him about this day, her

00:53:22.960 situationship.

00:53:23.960 And he, on the show was like, you just, and then three, the ones that use it as marketing

00:53:31.960 and they can't give up like the Lolo Joneses, you know, I don't know if she was, but let's

00:53:36.960 say she was telling the truth.

00:53:37.960 Like she couldn't give up the clout for being a virgin.

00:53:40.960 So like, yeah.

00:53:41.960 And like, she's, she's destined to be alone.

00:53:43.960 Yeah.

00:53:44.960 Because she's just, you know, she's, she seems like kind of a weirdo. 0.99

00:53:47.960 Yeah.

00:53:48.960 And, and that's what you're going to get.

00:53:49.960 If you get a woman in her thirties or forties, who's a virgin, she's going to be strange. 1.00

00:53:54.960 You know, to maintain that that long, she's got to be unusual. 0.96

00:53:58.960 And you talk to the guys and you're like, oh, strange is okay.

00:54:00.960 I'm like, trust me.

00:54:01.960 No, you don't want a weirdo.

00:54:03.960 It's not what you think.

00:54:04.960 Yeah.

00:54:05.960 You don't want a weirdo wife. 1.00

00:54:06.960 And, and, um, you know, like, okay.

00:54:08.960 Or like I've talked to women who, um, I've let people swim in the Hershey highway.

00:54:15.960 Let's just say.

00:54:16.960 Right.

00:54:17.960 I don't get it.

00:54:18.960 Back door.

00:54:19.960 Oh, back door.

00:54:20.960 Okay.

00:54:21.960 Okay.

00:54:22.960 You never heard Hershey.

00:54:23.960 I've heard all these people.

00:54:24.960 You never heard that terminology.

00:54:25.960 No one's used that.

00:54:26.960 You never heard a G wagon.

00:54:27.960 No, I knew.

00:54:28.960 Okay.

00:54:29.960 I knew what a, I've heard G wagon.

00:54:30.960 I just.

00:54:31.960 Okay.

00:54:32.960 Well, I wouldn't, I wouldn't be able to identify it.

00:54:34.960 I'm not a, I don't pay attention to cars.

00:54:37.960 I just don't care.

00:54:38.960 Hershey highway.

00:54:39.960 No.

00:54:40.960 I know what a Honda civic is.

00:54:43.960 Well, that's what Hershey highway means.

00:54:46.960 And I know women that have done that. 1.00

00:54:48.960 Like guys do that.

00:54:49.960 And they're like, oh, I'm a virgin.

00:54:50.960 Are you?

00:54:51.960 You know, like, ah, sorry.

00:54:56.960 Probably not.

00:54:57.960 Uh, but there are some women that, that believe that, uh, there are surgeries that women can 1.00

00:55:02.960 get.

00:55:03.960 Oh my God.

00:55:04.960 You know what I'm saying?

00:55:05.960 Let it go.

00:55:06.960 Just be a ho. 1.00

00:55:07.960 Let it go.

00:55:08.960 There are surgeries.

00:55:09.960 You know what I mean?

00:55:10.960 Porn stars are getting married nowadays.

00:55:12.960 Let's not let it hold you back.

00:55:13.960 It's not gonna, there's someone that's going to do it.

00:55:16.960 I mean.

00:55:17.960 And there's one, there's some, there's one woman on the internet. 1.00

00:55:19.960 I don't remember her name.

00:55:20.960 Um, I don't remember what podcast it was on.

00:55:22.960 She was talking about how God restored her coochie.

00:55:24.960 And then, and the other woman was like, wait, don't you have five kids? 0.99

00:55:29.960 Make it stop.

00:55:31.960 It's like, I'm sorry, man.

00:55:32.960 You know, but there are, there are ceremonies in churches.

00:55:37.960 This is why I say, you know, watch out for the church con.

00:55:40.960 Yeah.

00:55:41.960 Trad con.

00:55:42.960 They put the con.

00:55:43.960 Yeah.

00:55:44.960 In, in trad con.

00:55:45.960 And so they've got this whole praying and restoring virginity.

00:55:50.960 Born again, virgin.

00:55:52.960 That's a crock of nonsense.

00:55:55.960 That's, that's, that's okay.

00:55:56.960 Where does it say that in the Bible?

00:55:57.960 Some guy came up with that to market it, um, to, to get away to market women that are 0.99

00:56:03.960 coming off the streets that they want to get married to these knuckleheads sitting in the 1.00

00:56:08.960 pews who believe everything this guy with a suit on says, because he's got a Bible in

00:56:12.960 front of him, whether he's preaching from the Bible or not, there's a whole different

00:56:14.960 thing, but they're just going to believe.

00:56:16.960 And they're going to, they're going to get sold a, um, you know, they're going to get

00:56:19.960 sold a really bad used car.

00:56:21.960 Yeah.

00:56:22.960 And, and, uh, instead of trying to get women to understand that there's going to be a day 0.85

00:56:28.960 of reckoning for your behavior, just like men, there's a day of reckoning for you simple 0.94

00:56:33.960 long enough.

00:56:34.960 You're going to get bit.

00:56:35.960 All right.

00:56:36.960 If, if you're a, if you're going down that three or four train or stroll or lane forever,

00:56:41.960 uh, at some point you're going to run out of tread on those tires.

00:56:45.960 I don't know.

00:56:46.960 Riley Reed just got married to a decent looking dude. 1.00

00:56:49.960 Okay.

00:56:50.960 He's a decent looking dude, but really, um, like, like this, this dude is an empty shell

00:56:53.960 inside now.

00:56:54.960 Let's be honest.

00:56:55.960 Do you know what?

00:56:56.960 I think what happens and you could tell me if I'm wrong, guys look at the conservative

00:57:00.960 women and then they start to not notice the difference. 1.00

00:57:03.960 And so they just say, well, at least like Riley Reed, and I've talked about this on the

00:57:08.960 show.

00:57:09.960 I think she pulled it off cause she brings in her hot friends to do threesomes. 1.00

00:57:13.960 So like, yeah, like that would be a big selling point.

00:57:16.960 I know.

00:57:17.960 Okay.

00:57:18.960 So, so she's, she's adding value.

00:57:19.960 Yeah.

00:57:20.960 That's a value add.

00:57:21.960 Right.

00:57:22.960 I always ask the chat.

00:57:23.960 I'm like, guys for like a threesome once a week, would you put up with it?

00:57:27.960 I'm not saying you should, or you would.

00:57:29.960 Right.

00:57:30.960 Yeah.

00:57:31.960 Eventually there's going to be a taker.

00:57:33.960 Look, most, you know, most, and I told you, I did some work for some of the, the, um,

00:57:38.960 the adult film industries in Los Angeles.

00:57:41.960 Right.

00:57:42.960 I was doing some protection work when I lived in California.

00:57:45.960 And so a lot of these women that guys see on screen, if they saw them without their makeup, 0.98

00:57:52.960 they would be horrified.

00:57:53.960 Yeah, I know.

00:57:54.960 Like, like seriously, they would be, they would screech like, Oh my God, is that what she 0.96

00:57:57.960 really looks like?

00:57:58.960 Yeah.

00:57:59.960 Is that what she really looks like?

00:58:00.960 Yes.

00:58:01.960 That's what she really looks like.

00:58:02.960 Um, not to mention most of them are drug addicts.

00:58:03.960 Um, just because they, they, they get into that just because they, um, the, to kill the,

00:58:09.960 the feeling of how they're throwing their life down the toilet, man.

00:58:14.960 You know what I mean?

00:58:15.960 And so there's a lot of drug addiction.

00:58:16.960 There's a lot of really twisted, um, sexual proclivities.

00:58:19.960 A lot of them wind up with, um, um, being nymphomaniacs where they gotta have it all the

00:58:26.960 time.

00:58:27.960 And so, you know, that might sound like a good thing.

00:58:29.960 And we talked about this also too, that might sound like a good thing, but okay, what happens

00:58:32.960 if you get injured?

00:58:33.960 Like that, that dude I know who married literally a nymphomaniac and he hurt his back.

00:58:38.960 And so he couldn't do anything.

00:58:39.960 Like he was like literally bedridden and she went buck wild.

00:58:44.960 Yeah.

00:58:45.960 Why?

00:58:46.960 She had to have it somewhere.

00:58:47.960 Right.

00:58:48.960 She had to get it from somewhere.

00:58:50.960 And so, you know, guys gotta be, guys gotta be a lot more discerning and, um, be, you

00:58:56.960 stop being so, um, stop being so trusting.

00:58:59.960 You know, women, we talked about how women investigate men. 0.88

00:59:02.960 It is miles ahead of what most men do. 0.82

00:59:05.960 Women, if they want to marry you, I'm not talking about the guy, they just want to hump. 1.00

00:59:09.960 Right.

00:59:10.960 That's different.

00:59:11.960 They're not going to look into that guy at all.

00:59:12.960 They just feel what they feel and they're going to act on it.

00:59:14.960 That's different.

00:59:15.960 That's more primal, right?

00:59:16.960 Uh, if she wants to marry you, I can almost guarantee you she does not have that primal desire

00:59:20.960 for you.

00:59:21.960 All right.

00:59:22.960 You know what I mean?

00:59:23.960 Don't get upset about it.

00:59:25.960 But they will, they will vet their, their past.

00:59:28.960 They will try to find past girlfriends and interview them.

00:59:31.960 Like they'll contact them.

00:59:33.960 Um, we talked about some of these apps where they share information.

00:59:36.960 They'll research your phone number, reverse image searching.

00:59:39.960 They'll look for anything they can, um, to, to, to vet you and see what type of person

00:59:45.960 you are.

00:59:46.960 That's before they really get to know you.

00:59:47.960 Then they'll study you.

00:59:48.960 If they want to marry you or be long-term relationship, they'll study everything you do.

00:59:52.960 So they know your personality and your behavior, excuse me, inside and out.

00:59:57.960 And so, um, you know, guys that are marrying, uh, women that are adult film people, you know,

01:00:02.960 I think that's a very, that's a tiny percentage of men.

01:00:06.960 Right.

01:00:07.960 That's not, okay.

01:00:08.960 Do most men want to hook up with a porn story?

01:00:10.960 Of course.

01:00:11.960 I know.

01:00:12.960 You know, it's been a crazy to watch.

01:00:14.960 I recently interviewed, um, a pretty like pretty well-known fighter.

01:00:21.960 Um, and there was someone else at like the place I was interviewing that I asked him, would

01:00:27.960 you accept a woman with an only fans? 0.89

01:00:30.960 And it's been amazing how in the last five years, how normal it is for men to accept it.

01:00:36.960 As long as they don't smash on camera, like it, and I know it's like, it's almost like disheartening,

01:00:45.960 you know, and I'm like watching like men that have other options.

01:00:48.960 I'm like, why are you accepting that?

01:00:50.960 Because there's, there's, it's been, there's less stigma because it happens so much.

01:00:55.960 Yeah.

01:00:56.960 You know, like look at, look at COVID.

01:00:57.960 How many women got on only fans during the COVID stuff? 1.00

01:01:00.960 Yeah.

01:01:01.960 Like hundreds of thousands.

01:01:03.960 Right.

01:01:04.960 And now, okay.

01:01:05.960 The vast majority of them didn't make a dime on only fans.

01:01:08.960 No, the average is like two 50.

01:01:11.960 It's like nothing.

01:01:12.960 The average, they don't, they don't make anything.

01:01:14.960 Can you imagine?

01:01:15.960 You put in your most prized possession on the internet and making $250 a month.

01:01:20.960 And, and then, and then, you know, so you look at it from this standpoint, if you're

01:01:23.960 a guy, you marry a woman, everyone's seen her private parts. 1.00

01:01:27.960 That's supposed to be something special.

01:01:28.960 Now you're not getting a virgin.

01:01:30.960 We already talked about that.

01:01:31.960 Yeah.

01:01:32.960 But do you want everybody to have seen it?

01:01:35.960 Yeah.

01:01:36.960 Do you know what the challenge is though?

01:01:38.960 I think sometimes the girls can kind of wipe it decently clean where it's not easily 1.00

01:01:43.960 accessible.

01:01:44.960 You can still find traces of it.

01:01:46.960 Yeah.

01:01:47.960 But normal people aren't going to like look that hard.

01:01:50.960 You know what I mean?

01:01:51.960 Yeah.

01:01:52.960 So yeah.

01:01:53.960 And, and you'll find it, right?

01:01:55.960 Yeah.

01:01:56.960 I've actually, I told you one I found recently where she actually did scrub it.

01:01:59.960 But, um, but you know, I found it, I didn't, didn't find all the content, but I found the

01:02:03.960 page and I found the, um, the, the, what they call the thumbnail or screenshot or whatever

01:02:07.960 it is from, from her page.

01:02:09.960 And you know, this was a woman who had previously denied, uh, to my client that she'd had any

01:02:15.960 sort of only fans.

01:02:16.960 Um, and then, you know, then we talked about how some of her associations, she was hanging

01:02:20.960 out with a bunch of scumbags.

01:02:21.960 Right.

01:02:22.960 Like her friends are dirtbags.

01:02:23.960 There's no, there's no way to put it.

01:02:24.960 Like she had a bunch of dirtbags. 1.00

01:02:25.960 I'm like, these are the guys I look, I know a lot of shady characters.

01:02:28.960 I wouldn't hang out with these guys.

01:02:29.960 Um, you know, and, and, um, you know, and so, you know, he wound up disqualifying her

01:02:35.960 because this is a very, you know, guys that, that tend to, um, from what I've seen tend

01:02:41.960 to stay married longer and have more successful marriages are guys that tend to vet women the 0.99

01:02:47.960 same way women vet men. 1.00

01:02:48.960 Um, you know, women will look at things sometimes, unfortunately. 1.00

01:02:53.960 Okay.

01:02:54.960 How much can I get from this guy when I pull the ripcord on our marriage and send him plummeting

01:02:59.960 earthward to the, uh, the finely polished, uh, floors of the family court and go splat.

01:03:04.960 How much can I get out of this?

01:03:05.960 Uh, but men are not looking like that.

01:03:07.960 You know, like I know a guy who married a woman just because she had a huge boobs, you 0.99

01:03:13.960 know, and, and he was shocked.

01:03:15.960 Right.

01:03:16.960 Uh, when she wound up, she thought her vajayjay was so good that everybody should have some.

01:03:21.960 And he was surprised.

01:03:23.960 It's like, it's like, dude, it's like, what?

01:03:26.960 Like, dude, like what?

01:03:27.960 Like, you know, really hot woman blinds a man. 0.90

01:03:30.960 Yeah.

01:03:31.960 And sometimes, sometimes I'm like, do you not notice she's a terrible person?

01:03:35.960 And, and you know, but, but the reason some really good looking women wind up being such 1.00

01:03:40.960 awful human beings is because no one ever tells them to go, go kick rocks.

01:03:45.960 Right.

01:03:46.960 You know, and, and, um, you know, and, and if guys would stop putting up with bad behavior

01:03:52.960 more, uh, you know, these, these behavior patterns wouldn't just get like, okay, women who are 1.00

01:03:57.960 really violent when they get older, this is a, that's a, that's a woman that has a young 1.00

01:04:01.960 girl and a young lady and teenager or whatever else.

01:04:04.960 She was never stopped and checked.

01:04:06.960 And, and so, you know, you see some of these videos where they're just doing awful things.

01:04:11.960 Um, and it's like, you know, no guy ever just punched them.

01:04:14.960 And, but if you do punch them, then all, then you're the bad guy.

01:04:17.960 You know, she hits you.

01:04:18.960 You know, she hits you.

01:04:19.960 Uh, you just got to take it.

01:04:20.960 But if you hit her back now, you're, you're an evil doer.

01:04:23.960 And I hate to say it, but at the early ages, somebody needs to punch them, punch them in

01:04:28.960 the face.

01:04:29.960 You know, as men, we grow up understanding that if I, if I mess with a bigger, stronger

01:04:35.960 opponent, odds are, I'm going to get flattened.

01:04:38.960 So you don't mess with a bigger, stronger opponent.

01:04:41.960 Women never really, most don't learn that lesson of, uh, from an early age on the opposite. 1.00

01:04:47.960 You know, guys are told not to hit them back and women know that guys, most guys aren't

01:04:51.960 going to hit them back.

01:04:52.960 So they get emboldened.

01:04:53.960 And, um, and, and, you know, so, you know, I remember talking to me, well, you know, what

01:04:58.960 would you say to guys?

01:04:59.960 I said, you know what, dude?

01:05:00.960 I said, technically you, you supposed to be able to defend yourself.

01:05:04.960 However, if you defend yourself against a woman who's attacking you, odds are you're

01:05:08.960 going to go to jail.

01:05:09.960 That's the truth.

01:05:10.960 And so the best thing you can do as a guy is get the hell out of there.

01:05:13.960 Um, don't stay in that relationship.

01:05:15.960 You got to get out of it.

01:05:16.960 I know guys now, um, that are frightened of their wives, not because physically they

01:05:22.960 can't overcome them.

01:05:24.960 They can overcome them.

01:05:26.960 He's got to sleep though.

01:05:27.960 He doesn't know what he'll do.

01:05:28.960 But not just that.

01:05:29.960 If he, if he does do something, um, all she has to do is call the police and say, he did

01:05:34.960 this, his, his life is over.

01:05:36.960 Right.

01:05:37.960 You know, so that's what they're really frightened of.

01:05:39.960 You know what I mean?

01:05:40.960 And, and I see it, I see a lot of it.

01:05:42.960 And, um, you know, I remember I was out one day and I was shadowing, uh, I was shadowing

01:05:49.960 somebody and, you know, some woman started getting really belligerent with me. 0.98

01:05:53.960 And I just told her, I said, look, if you think I'm one of these dudes that won't punch

01:05:56.960 you in the face in front of everybody, I said, go ahead, try me, see what happens.

01:05:59.960 Try, see what happens.

01:06:01.960 I said, I said, I'm confident that I could beat you up and your friends.

01:06:04.960 So go right ahead.

01:06:05.960 Uh, naturally I'm not going to go around punching women in the face, but I just wanted her out 1.00

01:06:08.960 of, I just wanted her out of my, out of my space. 1.00

01:06:10.960 But some women can get so, I'm not saying all, I'm talking about just a certain percentage 1.00

01:06:16.960 of them, um, can get so obnoxious because they've never had that discipline instilled

01:06:22.960 in them.

01:06:23.960 You know, their dads will protect them.

01:06:24.960 Their brothers will protect them.

01:06:25.960 That's replaced by police and the courts and everything else.

01:06:29.960 And so they feel like they're untouchable until they run into that guy who doesn't care about

01:06:34.960 that.

01:06:35.960 And that's the guy they usually wind up sleeping with and dating for years.

01:06:40.960 Talking about what a horrible abuse, abusive person he was.

01:06:42.960 And they dated for 10 years.

01:06:44.960 What percent of women under 30, do you think have actually, let's say what percent of women 0.91

01:06:50.960 between 18 to 25 right now, do you think have done some sort of sex work?

01:06:56.960 Um, I'd say probably 50%.

01:06:58.960 Really?

01:06:59.960 That high?

01:07:00.960 Yeah.

01:07:01.960 Yeah.

01:07:02.960 And so look, there's, and we talked about this, just my own category.

01:07:04.960 And how attractive, what's like the minimum floor?

01:07:06.960 Cause I mean, half of them are going to be fat.

01:07:08.960 Can they still?

01:07:09.960 Uh, you know, here's the thing.

01:07:10.960 There are, there is a market for obese women.

01:07:13.960 Okay.

01:07:14.960 There are some guys who like obese women. 0.98

01:07:15.960 Um, you know, I would say the, the floor would be probably be a five, but when they

01:07:22.960 put on makeup, they're going to be a six, maybe a seven, six and a half.

01:07:25.960 And so it's just a young makeup looks like, yeah, exactly.

01:07:28.960 It looks magical at that stage, you know, but, uh, there's, there's all types, but you

01:07:33.960 know, there's, there's different types of sex work, you know, just my own categories.

01:07:37.960 I've got two main categories, hard sex work and soft sex work, right?

01:07:42.960 So soft sex work has more categories to it.

01:07:44.960 Hard sex work is they're on the streets doing the host role on the trail, the track, whatever 0.83

01:07:49.960 you want to call it.

01:07:50.960 Every city, every major city has one, even the smallest cities have one where they walk

01:07:53.960 up and down the street, right?

01:07:54.960 The street walkers.

01:07:55.960 Then you've got the, the women that are on the, the escort sites. 1.00

01:07:59.960 Um, you know, similar to the old back page.

01:08:02.960 And the funny thing is back page wasn't even a major player when it came to.

01:08:06.960 That sort of, that sort of work, the sex work, you know, they're, they're actually minor,

01:08:11.960 but everybody heard about them.

01:08:13.960 There's so many more.

01:08:14.960 There's dozens of them.

01:08:15.960 Um, Snapchat nowadays.

01:08:17.960 Uh, Snapchat is a big way they market.

01:08:20.960 Um, Instagram is more on the soft side.

01:08:23.960 And so the soft, soft, um, sex work goes in different categories.

01:08:29.960 You've got the, um, from Instagram, you know, the IG, um, you know, I showed you that screenshot

01:08:35.960 of that investigation.

01:08:36.960 A young lady sent me her price list on over, over IG instant message.

01:08:42.960 Then you've got, um, your sugar baby sites.

01:08:46.960 Sugar babies are, are sex workers. 1.00

01:08:48.960 They are sex workers, but they've got plausible deniability because somehow it's legal. 0.94

01:08:53.960 So you got, um, sex work, but it's a subscription.

01:08:56.960 You pay a monthly, a weekly fee for a certain amount of visits.

01:08:59.960 Um, and supposedly these visits are only for dinner and companionship.

01:09:03.960 We play Frisbee and go play golf and yeah.

01:09:06.960 Okay.

01:09:07.960 Whatever.

01:09:08.960 That's, that's, that's nonsense.

01:09:09.960 Uh, it's, it's, it's BS.

01:09:11.960 And then you got the cuddle sites.

01:09:13.960 So people will pay people to cuddle with them. 0.83

01:09:16.960 They'll pay a professional cuddler to lay down with them in bed or on the couch and cuddle.

01:09:21.960 And do you see a difference in socioeconomic class?

01:09:24.960 Not anymore.

01:09:25.960 Uh, used to be, it was mostly driven by, uh, poverty.

01:09:30.960 Uh, but you know, as you've seen from some of the, some of my series on, she's not doing

01:09:34.960 it for the money.

01:09:35.960 There are young women coming from very wealthy backgrounds.

01:09:37.960 Lily Phillips had a good background.

01:09:39.960 You know what that is?

01:09:40.960 Yeah.

01:09:41.960 She came from a wealthy family.

01:09:42.960 She's Mrs. 101.

01:09:43.960 Yeah.

01:09:44.960 Yeah.

01:09:45.960 She, you know, I, she was on my show before she did it. 0.96

01:09:48.960 Yeah.

01:09:49.960 I didn't know that.

01:09:50.960 Yeah.

01:09:51.960 And the crazy thing is she was actually more pleasant than a lot of the, like, I, what I

01:09:55.960 like about her, she owns it.

01:09:56.960 She's like, yeah, I'm not, she doesn't, people try to shame her behavior and she's like, no,

01:10:01.960 I just like having sex.

01:10:03.960 Yeah.

01:10:04.960 She's honest.

01:10:05.960 You know, you know, you see some guys on there and they're like, Oh, she's a victim.

01:10:08.960 And it's like, she doesn't claim victimhood. 0.69

01:10:12.960 So why are you claiming it for her?

01:10:14.960 And then a more soft, um, sex work is that, that older dude that helps her pay a bill every

01:10:21.960 now and then, but she needs paid. 0.96

01:10:23.960 That dude's not doing it because he likes her.

01:10:25.960 That's the older dude, um, that coach Greg had that thing.

01:10:29.960 I got money.

01:10:30.960 That's the guy who, if she needs, if she can't make her car note, you know, um, I know a guy,

01:10:35.960 I know a guy who runs a, um, um, he owns property and most of his tenants are college students.

01:10:43.960 Um, and, um, there are several women that when they can't pay their rent, they pay a different way. 1.00

01:10:51.960 That's sex work. 1.00

01:10:52.960 You know, okay.

01:10:53.960 If you're having sex with somebody who's going to pay your rent or is going to pay your phone bill,

01:10:57.960 is going to pay your car note or your insurance bill.

01:10:59.960 That's sex work, you know, like, like pure and simple, you know?

01:11:02.960 And so, uh, but people will look at it as though, as though it isn't, but it is indeed sex work.

01:11:07.960 So that's part of the, what I call a soft sex work.

01:11:09.960 You get soft sex work where they got some plausible deniability and the hard sex work where their,

01:11:15.960 their picture is on there and they're just, that's who they are.

01:11:18.960 That's what they are.

01:11:19.960 And that's gotta be more difficult to track, right?

01:11:21.960 Like I'd imagine.

01:11:22.960 Soft sex work?

01:11:23.960 Yeah.

01:11:24.960 It depends.

01:11:25.960 What about like high end escorts?

01:11:26.960 Are they?

01:11:27.960 Um, high end escorts?

01:11:28.960 What do you mean?

01:11:29.960 Where they come from?

01:11:30.960 Are they more difficult to track because no, no, no, no.

01:11:34.960 You just have to know the right people.

01:11:35.960 Um, I, I got friends in low places and I know, I know a ton of dark siders, uh, dark 1.00

01:11:43.960 siders in case your audience doesn't know guys who engage, um, sex workers for their services

01:11:49.960 and they do it regularly.

01:11:50.960 Uh, they call themselves hobbyists.

01:11:52.960 Some of them, um, I know one guy, he sees a different, um, sex worker five, six times a

01:11:58.960 week.

01:11:59.960 He knows them all.

01:12:00.960 He, and so when I need answers about things, you know what I mean?

01:12:03.960 Um, even, you know, and, and there's a whole network of them all over the globe of the,

01:12:10.960 of these guys.

01:12:11.960 And if a woman is engaged in sex work, one of these guys knows about it.

01:12:15.960 Now, even on the escort side, there are escorts that are called UTRs, which is under the radar.

01:12:21.960 So she doesn't have any, any advertisements anywhere.

01:12:24.960 She's not showing up any databases anywhere, but she's doing regular sex work and she's 1.00

01:12:29.960 getting paid for, for services on a regular.

01:12:32.960 So it's not always easy to find, but you can find it.

01:12:37.960 Uh, you just have to know the right place to look and not just necessarily people, but trends.

01:12:41.960 I'll talk to some of these guys and be like, okay, what's going on?

01:12:43.960 What's this?

01:12:44.960 What's that?

01:12:45.960 Or something I don't, I've never seen before.

01:12:47.960 And they'll break everything down for me.

01:12:49.960 And I even had, um, on more than one occasion where I've sent them a picture of a, of a young

01:12:56.960 lady that I knew was doing sex work, but I didn't have any, any documented proof. 1.00

01:13:00.960 And they're like, Oh yeah, I've seen her like 20 times.

01:13:03.960 Uh, like this guy, like some of these guys, they have a ton of money.

01:13:06.960 Right.

01:13:07.960 They have a ton of, of disposable income.

01:13:09.960 And so they literally go out of their way to meet and see every new girl they can.

01:13:17.960 And so, and these guys spread the word.

01:13:20.960 And so these women will, you know, they'll reach out to a guy, some of the soft sex work 1.00

01:13:25.960 and say, Oh, you know, I need some help paying my bill.

01:13:27.960 Okay.

01:13:28.960 And so, Hey, look, if you need to make more money, I can introduce you to some friends

01:13:31.960 of mine.

01:13:32.960 And that's how they wind up doing the under the radar thing.

01:13:34.960 And do you see, cause I'm Kevin Samuels would talk about how high end escorts often

01:13:40.960 end up getting married by one of their clients.

01:13:42.960 Yes.

01:13:43.960 That's really common.

01:13:44.960 Yes.

01:13:45.960 Um, so high end escorts are typically what they call low volume.

01:13:49.960 So low volume, they might see one or two guys a week where the high volume women will 1.00

01:13:54.960 see five, six, seven, eight guys a day.

01:13:57.960 Yeah.

01:13:58.960 Now they're, they're making, they're making less money per person, the high end escort.

01:14:02.960 Um, you know, if you want to spend a weekend with one of the really, really sought after

01:14:06.960 escorts, you, you paying, you paying 25 grand for a weekend, you know, just for her to hang 1.00

01:14:11.960 out with you.

01:14:12.960 And during that weekend, she's going to expect you to take her here, take her there.

01:14:15.960 Um, some of them come from wealthy backgrounds, not all of them though.

01:14:18.960 Uh, and, and so what, what happens is, and we talked about this again, again, people are

01:14:25.960 gonna get angry about this, but sex workers understand the male psyche better than most

01:14:32.960 modern.

01:14:33.960 I'd say why married wives. 1.00

01:14:36.960 Yeah.

01:14:37.960 Yeah.

01:14:38.960 Yeah.

01:14:39.960 Wives, wives understand their husbands from the standpoint of how they can, you know,

01:14:43.960 they can spot lies or this, that they don't understand how to make their husbands happy. 1.00

01:14:48.960 Because we talked about it before, they see it as a, as degrading to want to make their,

01:14:53.960 what do they call them?

01:14:54.960 Pick me's and all of this is nonsense.

01:14:56.960 Yeah.

01:14:57.960 Okay.

01:14:58.960 So making your husband happy is somehow, um, that's somehow bad, but you want your husband

01:15:01.960 to make you happy, but you don't want to return the favor.

01:15:04.960 And so, um, and again, some of the, and we talked about a case I worked on recently.

01:15:09.960 I want to, um, interviewing like, like 40, like a little bit over 40 escorts on a human

01:15:16.960 trafficking case I had to work on.

01:15:18.960 And so I had to track them down, contact them, actually interview them.

01:15:21.960 And a bunch of them will say that they've actually saved marriages because they're providing

01:15:27.420 something that the guy's wife is not providing anymore, which is physical, um, gratifying 0.99

01:15:34.300 physical contact.

01:15:36.300 You know, just doing that one thing on a regular basis would make more marriages pleasant. 1.00

01:15:42.060 But there are so many women that have been taught to utilize sex, like a cudgel to beat 1.00

01:15:47.460 their husbands over the head with withholding it, you know?

01:15:51.060 Oh, you don't, you do this, you do that.

01:15:53.060 Then I'll might give you some.

01:15:55.060 Okay.

01:15:56.060 So now you're working on a might.

01:15:57.060 I married this woman.

01:15:58.060 I might get some versus I pay 150, 200, $300 and I get a sure thing.

01:16:03.060 Or some of these women with their dating requirements. 1.00

01:16:06.060 Oh, well you have to take me here.

01:16:07.060 You have to pay for my babysitter. 0.97

01:16:09.060 You know, first of all, look, if you're too broke to pay for your own babysitter, you

01:16:12.560 shouldn't be going on dates.

01:16:14.060 Um, pay for your own babysitter.

01:16:15.060 Sorry.

01:16:16.060 Yeah.

01:16:17.060 I'm sorry.

01:16:18.060 You know, you're not, not really sorry.

01:16:19.060 Just, you know, just stop making demands like that cause they're ridiculous.

01:16:21.060 Oh, I want to be taken to this restaurant.

01:16:23.060 You have to pay at least $500.

01:16:25.060 Okay.

01:16:26.060 So I'm going to pay a babysitter.

01:16:27.060 How much is a babysitter?

01:16:28.060 Like 200 bucks a night or something like that?

01:16:29.060 Maybe.

01:16:30.060 I don't have kids.

01:16:31.060 I don't know.

01:16:32.060 I don't, I don't even know what it would be, but, but let's say 200 bucks a night.

01:16:35.060 Then you, you spend say four or $500 on a nice dinner somewhere, right?

01:16:40.060 That's a decent dinner somewhere or a nice restaurant.

01:16:42.060 Um, and so you're looking at six, $700 for a maybe versus $150 for exactly what I want.

01:16:52.060 This is one of the things that's driving.

01:16:54.060 There's more and more, I'm seeing more and more women engaged in sex work than ever before. 1.00

01:16:59.060 Do you think it's also, they get access to higher value guys that they wouldn't get access

01:17:05.060 to, especially like the high end escorting.

01:17:07.060 Um, cause I can imagine like the guy, like a 20 year old is going to get like a, a better,

01:17:14.060 get access to a better guy escorting than you're going to find like on a college campus

01:17:18.060 or, you know, in terms of like value in society, whatever.

01:17:22.060 Well, to, to be a high end escort, number one, you've got to be in the upper echelons of looks.

01:17:27.060 Uh, so, and, but also to your body has to be in, in really good shape.

01:17:32.060 So you, you have to have much more discipline in, in general, right?

01:17:38.060 Because these guys that, um, I know guys that use really expensive escorts and like these women 1.00

01:17:44.060 are nines and tens, you know, like, like they're, they're knockouts in every facet, man.

01:17:50.060 You know what I mean? And, and again, I'm not talking about women who look good in makeup. 0.88

01:17:54.060 Um, the real beauty comes from bone structure.

01:17:57.060 And so these women are born at the, at the upper end of things. 1.00

01:18:00.060 Then when they put on makeup, they're out of this world.

01:18:02.060 And so these are the women that are getting the, the really discerning guys.

01:18:06.060 Now, having said that there is a new breed of, of recently or newly wealthy guys

01:18:13.060 that don't understand their value, the tech bros.

01:18:16.060 And I've actually done some work for some of the tech bros.

01:18:18.060 Some of the tech bros and crypto guys are big targets.

01:18:23.060 They're huge targets.

01:18:24.060 Yeah.

01:18:25.060 Even streamers too.

01:18:26.060 Like young.

01:18:27.060 I mean, I see that a lot of my industry.

01:18:29.060 That's why I was telling you that, um, the, the one girl, the Amareth, um, her husband

01:18:35.060 came on my show the other day and I was, I was telling her like, not her directly, but

01:18:39.060 I knew she was watching.

01:18:40.060 So I was like, if this doesn't work out, streamers are your future.

01:18:44.060 Cause those are the only ones that are going to date.

01:18:46.060 Yeah.

01:18:47.060 They'll do it.

01:18:48.060 They will.

01:18:49.060 I don't know for how long, but they'll do it for a bit.

01:18:51.060 Yeah.

01:18:52.060 And, and, and your high value, high value targets, um, high value male men are high value targets.

01:18:57.060 And once you get to that higher level of wealth and the upper echelons of income, um, here's

01:19:02.060 what happens.

01:19:03.060 You're no longer the target of the normie chicks.

01:19:06.060 Right.

01:19:07.060 Now you've got the super sophisticated, really dedicated, really smart, really slick, uh, predatory

01:19:16.060 women who, who have an, uh, an innate or even learned understanding of the male psyche.

01:19:23.060 And they understand how to play their cards just right.

01:19:27.060 And so those are the ones that, that, you know, guys really got to be careful of because

01:19:31.060 they understand, uh, the dynamics and the science of attachment.

01:19:35.060 They understand, um, what do they do?

01:19:38.060 Like what's their, what's their playbook?

01:19:40.060 Here's what I would say to guys.

01:19:43.060 And this is what there's, this is their playbook.

01:19:45.060 They are so good at what they do.

01:19:47.060 You'll think you got game and you rolled up on her and you were so slick and so smooth. 0.95

01:19:55.060 And so just, you were just on top of things.

01:19:59.060 Right.

01:20:00.060 You just think you're the man.

01:20:01.060 I'm the man.

01:20:02.060 I just walked up and macked on this chick. 1.00

01:20:04.060 You know what?

01:20:05.060 Hoes are so good at that. 1.00

01:20:07.060 I know exactly.

01:20:08.060 She drew you into a trap.

01:20:11.060 Yeah.

01:20:12.060 She pulled you into a trap.

01:20:13.060 She made the first move, but made him think he did.

01:20:15.060 It made you think it was your idea.

01:20:16.060 Yeah.

01:20:17.060 Yeah.

01:20:18.060 And so like, I'm a hunter.

01:20:19.060 And so some guys do what they call like the bait hunt.

01:20:22.060 And so the bait hunt is you put some animals, food source somewhere, and then you wait till

01:20:27.060 it shows up and you shoot it.

01:20:28.060 Um, I don't really call that hunting.

01:20:29.060 Yeah.

01:20:30.060 That's more like killing, but whatever.

01:20:31.060 I actually do what they call spot and stalk.

01:20:33.060 I'm actually on the ground walking.

01:20:34.060 I'm not in a tree stand, but women understand what you want. 1.00

01:20:38.060 They understand how to market and maximize everything they have because they know that men are visual

01:20:45.060 first and foremost, we're visual creatures.

01:20:48.060 You know, this is why the, the, the female, um, beauty products, clothing, they eclipse those 1.00

01:20:55.060 of men, like a factor of 10, maybe more.

01:20:58.060 They're like, like there's way more money put into that.

01:21:00.060 Why?

01:21:01.060 Um, the, the better a woman looks, the more chances she has in, in landing a guy that she might want. 1.00

01:21:08.060 Right.

01:21:09.060 And so, but these women are already on the higher end of the spectrum, but they also understand 1.00

01:21:13.060 that they've got competition from women that are just as attractive as they are and just 0.98

01:21:18.060 as smart as they are and just as dedicated to getting what they want.

01:21:21.060 And so they have competition.

01:21:23.060 And so they're fighting the competition, but they're going to pull you into thinking

01:21:26.060 that it was your idea.

01:21:27.060 It wasn't your idea.

01:21:29.060 You're not that slick, dude.

01:21:30.060 I'm sorry.

01:21:31.060 Uh, it wasn't your idea.

01:21:33.060 Um, you tried, but, but she wanted you to win.

01:21:37.060 You know what I mean?

01:21:38.060 Yeah.

01:21:39.060 And you're only going to get a partial victory.

01:21:41.060 These chicks, if, if now, if they're escorts, then you'll, you know, even then the high end 1.00

01:21:47.060 escorts don't just give it up.

01:21:48.060 If you just flash them, Hey, here's 10 grand, meet me at whatever.

01:21:51.060 Even then they're going to make you work for it.

01:21:54.060 The high end ones.

01:21:55.060 Why?

01:21:56.060 Because they understand that the more you want to be with them, the more they can charge

01:22:01.060 you.

01:22:02.060 And so that, that the science of desire, right?

01:22:05.060 And so if I'm, and we talked about this before, I'm walking around with a full nut sack.

01:22:10.060 I'm already compromised.

01:22:12.060 I'm already somewhat compromised.

01:22:14.060 Yeah.

01:22:15.060 And so my brain isn't working the way it should.

01:22:17.060 So every set of pretty feet, long legs, shapely backsides, perky boobs, pouty lips, pretty faces,

01:22:24.060 nice hair, all of those.

01:22:25.060 Now I'm going to be paying more attention to those.

01:22:28.060 And as their, their beauty goes up and these high end, I actually know a couple of women 1.00

01:22:32.060 that are actually on the upper ends of, of the, the escort business, I guess you could

01:22:38.060 say.

01:22:39.060 And, um, I think I told you about one of them.

01:22:41.060 She was, she was, you know, she was a Disney girl.

01:22:44.060 She was a Mouseketeer. 0.96

01:22:45.060 Mm.

01:22:46.060 Uh, and when I say good looking, holy smokes.

01:22:49.060 Like.

01:22:50.060 Smoke show.

01:22:51.060 Dude, it's, it's like, like literally man, like, like I've actually had to meet her places

01:22:56.060 and, and dudes are constantly swooping in and circling.

01:23:01.060 And like, like we have no, there's no romance between us at all.

01:23:04.060 Yeah.

01:23:05.060 Um, she's, she's been, um, she's been a witness for me on a couple of different cases, a few

01:23:09.060 different cases.

01:23:10.060 And she just, she's got, she knows she's got so much power over guys. 0.97

01:23:19.060 And, and she understands how to use that.

01:23:21.060 And the best way to use it is not use it.

01:23:23.060 Do you know what?

01:23:24.060 People think I'm harsh in my ratings one to 10, but I don't think most men have seen nines

01:23:30.060 or tens if they don't live in LA, Miami, because if there is a nine or 10 in podunk

01:23:36.060 nowhere, she will be in LA, Miami, Vegas, or New York.

01:23:41.060 She'll be there soon.

01:23:42.060 A good place to find nines and tens.

01:23:44.060 All right.

01:23:45.060 I was, uh, when I was working as a, uh, civilian military contractor, you know, sometimes I'd

01:23:50.060 go back cause I'd work three, three months on one month off, six months on one month off.

01:23:55.060 That sort of thing.

01:23:56.060 They gave you a lot of R and R because there was just so much stress and so much, uh, unfortunately

01:24:00.060 violence, uh, that you needed time off.

01:24:02.060 Right.

01:24:03.060 Otherwise guys would start going crazy.

01:24:05.060 And so I went on recommendation of a buddy of mine, a Persian dude actually said, said,

01:24:11.060 you know, my nickname is Chuck.

01:24:12.060 He said, Chuck, my friend, you must go to Czech Republic.

01:24:15.060 Okay.

01:24:16.060 Okay.

01:24:17.060 So I was like, okay, sure.

01:24:18.060 I rented a villa, uh, a car rental car came with it.

01:24:21.060 It was a big place, bigger place than I needed, but I had a whole bunch of cash and you know,

01:24:26.060 you're working in violent areas.

01:24:28.060 You spend, you spend a lot of money, uh, just because you don't know if you don't know your

01:24:32.060 next deployment or your next job is going to be the last.

01:24:35.060 Right.

01:24:36.060 I never saw like, okay, a 10 here would be a six or a seven over there.

01:24:45.060 And I'm not even exaggerating there.

01:24:47.060 There are some of the, and again, everything's subjective, right?

01:24:50.060 Right.

01:24:51.060 But there are some of the most beautiful women on the face of the earth with the Czech Republic, 1.00

01:24:54.060 um, Czech Republic.

01:24:56.060 Is there money there?

01:24:57.060 Um, some, you know, but I found at least in America, it's like wherever the money is,

01:25:02.060 the beauty follows.

01:25:03.060 Oh, that's what they're going to be.

01:25:04.060 Yeah.

01:25:05.060 Yeah.

01:25:06.060 Like LA, you know, I lived in LA for a while, for a very long time, some beautiful women 1.00

01:25:10.060 in LA, like stunning, but, but the Czech Republic, they were all natural beauties.

01:25:14.060 Right.

01:25:15.060 You know, like, like, um, and I did not meet an obese woman the whole time I was in Czech

01:25:21.060 Republic, not saying anything wrong with being obese.

01:25:24.060 If that's, you know, some guys like big women. 1.00

01:25:26.060 I like slim athletically built women. 1.00

01:25:28.060 I don't like big women that I just never have. 1.00

01:25:31.060 Uh, but I'd never met one that was obese or what they call it?

01:25:35.060 Thick.

01:25:36.060 Yeah.

01:25:37.060 You know, there was no, there were, there were no thick women there and they were just absolutely 1.00

01:25:40.060 beautiful.

01:25:41.060 So I went back there like five times.

01:25:42.060 Do you think that plastic surgery works?

01:25:46.060 Um, I think for the short term it might work, but I think, you know, it, it all depends

01:25:52.060 on what you like.

01:25:53.060 I like natural beauty.

01:25:54.060 Um, I don't like, and again, I lived in LA for us.

01:25:57.060 I saw a lot of plastic surgery.

01:25:59.060 And so I could, I can pick it out pretty easily.

01:26:02.060 Um, and, and that's just not my thing.

01:26:04.060 Uh, I, I, me personally, and I think a lot of guys would say is I like women that look 0.99

01:26:08.060 good with minimal makeup, hair pulled back in a sundress and flats.

01:26:12.060 If you can look great in that, guess what?

01:26:15.060 We're, we're, we're good to go.

01:26:16.060 You know, but, um, you know, and, and again, men are so visual, but guys get so caught up

01:26:21.060 in the way things look, they can't see past, um, the very, the very surface.

01:26:27.060 So plastic surgery does work on some guys.

01:26:30.060 Um, you know, but as women get older, I get a neighbor, uh, married to a wealthy guy. 0.97

01:26:36.060 She had a bunch of work done when she was younger.

01:26:38.060 She's 50.

01:26:39.060 Now it looks horrifying.

01:26:42.060 Um, everything else is sagging, but boobs look like two parking cones. 0.76

01:26:46.060 You know what I mean?

01:26:47.060 Yeah.

01:26:48.060 Uh, her lips are just, Oh God, the lips are the worst.

01:26:51.060 You know, another one of my neighbors, she stays in great shape, great body, very slim, 0.99

01:26:58.060 flat.

01:26:59.060 She had some parking cones and she had her lips done. 0.88

01:27:02.060 It looked like somebody punched her in the mouth. 1.00

01:27:04.060 Uh, it just doesn't look right.

01:27:06.060 And, and don't even get me started.

01:27:09.060 BBLs are disgusting. 1.00

01:27:11.060 You know, BBL is the Brazilian.

01:27:14.060 Yeah.

01:27:15.060 Those work.

01:27:16.060 I hate to say it.

01:27:17.060 They're disgusting.

01:27:18.060 They work.

01:27:19.060 I've, I've seen women get those and it just changes. 1.00

01:27:22.060 Like for the short term, the short term, right?

01:27:25.060 Cause they don't look real.

01:27:26.060 It looked like somebody stuck a Lego backside on their, their butt.

01:27:30.060 They look kind of real now.

01:27:32.060 Now.

01:27:33.060 I don't know, man.

01:27:34.060 I've seen something that would look just like, no, some are so bad, but I'm like that.

01:27:38.060 I've seen some where I'm like, I would never have guessed personally.

01:27:41.060 I've seen.

01:27:42.060 Okay.

01:27:43.060 Maybe I'm, maybe I haven't seen the right ones because the ones I've seen, they literally

01:27:46.060 look like somebody took giant chewed up pieces of bubble gum and stuck it in their

01:27:50.060 backsides.

01:27:51.060 Do you know what?

01:27:52.060 They're only $1,500 now.

01:27:54.060 Isn't that nuts?

01:27:55.060 I know I got an ad.

01:27:57.060 In Brazil?

01:27:58.060 No, no, no.

01:27:59.060 I guess that's where you gotta go.

01:28:00.060 No, it was in, um, it was an ad for like a surgeon in Dallas doesn't for 1500 bucks.

01:28:05.060 See, I, I'm like, I think people are a lot more plastic than people.

01:28:09.060 Like, yeah, I think it's going to be bad.

01:28:11.060 Well, you know, you got guys getting plastic surgery.

01:28:13.060 Yeah, I know.

01:28:14.060 Like fake, uh, abs.

01:28:15.060 Oh God.

01:28:16.060 You know, like I have a couple of friends that are bodybuilders and they, they, they

01:28:19.060 would send me pictures of guys that had the fake ab implants.

01:28:22.060 Like that doesn't look anywhere near real or fake pecs.

01:28:26.060 They would just, just go to the, let's go to the gym.

01:28:28.060 Right.

01:28:29.060 Go to the gym and lift man.

01:28:30.060 Okay.

01:28:31.060 There are some genetic limits.

01:28:33.060 Like, like how somebody looks when they're working out has a lot to do with their genetic

01:28:38.060 makeup.

01:28:39.060 And so, um, you know, I, I know a guy, he's actually, he actually does steroids.

01:28:43.060 Uh, he looks like, it looks like crap, but he looks better than he did before.

01:28:48.060 You know what I mean?

01:28:50.060 Um, Oh, steroids definitely work. 0.81

01:28:52.060 Yeah, they do.

01:28:53.060 Um, I'm not saying there aren't side effects, but yeah.

01:28:56.060 And, and you gotta be, you gotta be really careful.

01:28:58.060 It's like with guys that get on, if the guy, guy gets on TRT, I knew a dude that took, um,

01:29:03.060 you know, and the problem with steroids in this country is most of the steroids people

01:29:07.060 are using.

01:29:08.060 And again, I got buddies that are, that are bodybuilders and, uh, most of them are made

01:29:13.060 in somebody's bathtub.

01:29:14.060 No way.

01:29:15.060 No, seriously.

01:29:16.060 And so that's why it's like, okay, if you look at, there's a place called Oxygen Gym in,

01:29:21.060 um, in, I think it's in, is it in Dubai?

01:29:25.060 No, Kuwait, Kuwait Oxygen Gym.

01:29:28.060 And so guys, bodybuilders would go to Oxygen Gym and just get fricking monstrous.

01:29:33.060 You know why?

01:29:34.060 For the first time in their career.

01:29:35.060 Steroids?

01:29:36.060 No, they're getting pure pharmaceutical grade steroids.

01:29:39.060 Oh.

01:29:40.060 You can't really get those here.

01:29:41.060 Uh, what they do is guys will buy precursor chemicals, uh, from China and then mix them

01:29:46.060 in their bathtubs.

01:29:47.060 And so there's always, you know, cross contamination and all the rest of this stuff.

01:29:50.060 And so guys don't know what they're injecting.

01:29:52.060 And I've heard some horror stories from guys.

01:29:54.060 Um, you know, my thing is, you know, I like, I'm not a bodybuilder.

01:29:58.060 I just didn't, I stayed natural my whole life.

01:30:01.060 I had no interest in never doing that just cause I've seen too many guys, um, you know,

01:30:06.060 get really bad side effects, like really bad acne.

01:30:09.060 Um, and then there's, you know, making your junk shrink.

01:30:13.060 Yeah.

01:30:14.060 Like why, like, like that, that, that, that alone should be a deterrent, but guys want

01:30:19.060 to go down that road.

01:30:20.060 Like I got one buddy, he was Mr. Universe, uh, these years ago.

01:30:24.060 Um, and to, to maintain that, that form, they've got to keep juicing.

01:30:30.060 Yeah.

01:30:31.060 He owns a, he owns a gym.

01:30:32.060 And so he's got to keep, he's got to keep that up.

01:30:34.060 And ultimately that's bad for your health.

01:30:36.060 Uh, when you're younger, that's one thing that puts so much stress on your internal organs,

01:30:40.060 your heart, uh, so many things can go wrong.

01:30:43.060 You know, but, um, but back to, back to women with the plastic surgery. 0.99

01:30:47.060 Look, some guys don't mind it.

01:30:49.060 I guess the BBLs have gotten better.

01:30:51.060 I've seen some really.

01:30:52.060 Oh, there's some bad ones.

01:30:54.060 Yeah.

01:30:55.060 God, man.

01:30:56.060 I saw one at the DMV.

01:30:57.060 Literally it's, it's so out of play.

01:30:59.060 Like, okay.

01:31:00.060 I'll just, I'll see these fat women and I'm like, I can't argue that doesn't look 1.00

01:31:03.060 better than before in the gut.

01:31:05.060 I don't know.

01:31:06.060 Well, look, I'm like, they're not going to go to the gym anyway, right?

01:31:10.060 Probably not.

01:31:11.060 Probably not.

01:31:12.060 Yeah.

01:31:13.060 And guys aren't going to really be able to tell, I guess, I guess if that's really good,

01:31:16.060 they can't tell the difference.

01:31:17.060 I don't know.

01:31:18.060 I reacted to a, can you tell who had plastic surgery thing?

01:31:21.060 And I was just surprised at how many I got wrong.

01:31:23.060 You know, I, here's the thing I don't understand, man.

01:31:25.060 Like, like people who genetically are known racially for having giant backsides, getting a BBL. 0.72

01:31:32.060 You already got a giant butt. 1.00

01:31:33.060 I know.

01:31:34.060 How much more do you need?

01:31:35.060 They get it the most.

01:31:36.060 Like you're not going to be able to fit in your car.

01:31:38.060 Like if you had a compact car, you're screwed.

01:31:40.060 I know.

01:31:41.060 You can't fit in a Prius with that backside.

01:31:43.060 Yeah.

01:31:44.060 Or, you know, a convertible unless it's a Cadillac or something.

01:31:47.060 I just don't get.

01:31:48.060 And again, everything is subjective.

01:31:50.060 I just like, I prefer natural.

01:31:52.060 I prefer natural women. 1.00

01:31:53.060 Yeah.

01:31:54.060 That look good with minimal.

01:31:55.060 Do you find that the ones with a lot of plastic surgery have like other issues too?

01:32:00.060 Yeah.

01:32:01.060 Yeah.

01:32:02.060 Look, most women are incredibly insecure. 1.00

01:32:03.060 Most, even the ones that seem really confident are really, really insecure.

01:32:07.060 And that's, you know, and again, that insecurity.

01:32:11.060 We're getting older every year.

01:32:12.060 It just gets worse.

01:32:13.060 Yeah.

01:32:14.060 And that insecurity actually makes them vulnerable.

01:32:16.060 Yeah.

01:32:17.060 Yeah.

01:32:18.060 It does because they're willing to do things to, um, to make someone happy or, or gain someone's

01:32:24.060 or gain validation and how far are they willing to go for that validation?

01:32:28.060 Some are willing to go just a little bit.

01:32:30.060 Some are willing to go really, really far.

01:32:31.060 And so that's, that's a vulnerability.

01:32:33.060 That's another, that's another flag.

01:32:35.060 If you've got a woman that's super, super insecure, she's, unless she can find some way 1.00

01:32:39.060 to get some confidence in her looks and, and those, those insecurities come from childhood.

01:32:44.060 Like I know a woman now, she's beautiful, but her sister, she's about an eight. 1.00

01:32:49.060 Her sister's a 10 and she's insecure because she grew up because her sister was a pretty 1.00

01:32:55.060 one and she was called the smart one.

01:32:58.060 Like, like there she's, she's, she's, she's outstanding.

01:33:01.060 And I'm sitting there like, like, what do you, what are you insecure about?

01:33:04.060 Well, okay.

01:33:05.060 Because it came from, from early, early childhood.

01:33:07.060 So she has this, um, you know, really deeply ingrained insecurity that just, that might never

01:33:13.060 go away. 0.82

01:33:14.060 You know, are there any professions you recommend for women? 0.84

01:33:18.060 Like, like when men are selecting women, are there any that had more green flags or, I

01:33:24.060 mean, a lot of guys will say like from the trads will say, well, she shouldn't have a job. 1.00

01:33:28.060 I'm like, okay, well she's got, she's probably doing something.

01:33:31.060 Is she homeless? 0.99

01:33:32.060 Yeah.

01:33:33.060 I was just wondering if there's like ones where like men.

01:33:37.060 Look, here's the thing.

01:33:38.060 Um, it, it, it, if she's going to be a three Oh four, she's going to be a three Oh four. 1.00

01:33:46.060 And, and there's not a whole bunch.

01:33:48.060 There's nothing you can do about that.

01:33:50.060 Um, there are professions that are more prone to three Oh four activity nurses.

01:33:55.060 Oh yeah.

01:33:56.060 It goes down in hospital, man.

01:33:59.060 It goes down at the hospital.

01:34:01.060 It goes down, uh, surgeons, doctors, um, you know, maybe not, maybe not yours.

01:34:06.060 You're not, maybe not your spouse, but a lot of her other coworkers are.

01:34:10.060 Uh, I, I know a couple of nurses. 1.00

01:34:12.060 I know an oncology nurse and she'll, she'll tell us, tell me stories.

01:34:15.060 Like she'll accidentally walk in.

01:34:17.060 Like there's certain rooms that they'll put up to like a, how do they not have lawsuits

01:34:22.060 for that?

01:34:23.060 Well, nobody knows.

01:34:25.060 Oh, husbands don't know. 1.00

01:34:26.060 Yeah.

01:34:27.060 But don't the women always come out later and not really because most of them are married. 1.00

01:34:31.060 Oh, what are they going to say?

01:34:32.060 You know?

01:34:33.060 Like, so it's that mutually assured destruction thing.

01:34:35.060 Right.

01:34:36.060 Some married people like messing around with it. 1.00

01:34:37.060 The married people, because you know, they got just, just as much to lose as they do. 0.91

01:34:41.060 And so, um, I would say if you're going to look for a green flag, um, avoid being unequally

01:34:48.060 yoked.

01:34:49.060 Now, not necessarily from education.

01:34:51.060 Education doesn't mean squat, man.

01:34:53.060 I know everybody look, okay.

01:34:55.060 I've got a bachelor's degree.

01:34:56.060 It's in political science.

01:34:57.060 I'm a private investigator.

01:34:59.060 Does it have anything?

01:35:00.060 Does it have anything?

01:35:01.060 Doesn't one have anything?

01:35:02.060 Nothing to do with it whatsoever.

01:35:05.060 It's a piece of paper.

01:35:06.060 Um, I don't hang it up anywhere because I don't think it means anything.

01:35:09.060 Um, I'm not saying anybody else's, uh, if you're in STEM, different story, right?

01:35:14.060 Because you need those.

01:35:15.060 Um, the, the, the issue guys are, are the mistake they're making is they're letting

01:35:21.060 women paint themselves as something that they're not. 1.00

01:35:26.060 Uh, so what women will do is they'll find a way to get into the space of men. 1.00

01:35:31.060 They want to attract, right?

01:35:33.060 Okay.

01:35:34.060 So one of my neighbors are the one who just got a bunch of work done.

01:35:36.060 She wants, she's actually said she wants a wealthy, she wants to marry a wealthy man. 0.99

01:35:40.060 All right.

01:35:41.060 Okay.

01:35:42.060 She got some boobs. 1.00

01:35:43.060 She got some lips.

01:35:44.060 Maybe that helps.

01:35:45.060 Maybe it doesn't.

01:35:46.060 Here's what she started doing. 0.68

01:35:47.060 She started taking golf lessons.

01:35:48.060 Why?

01:35:49.060 She wants to, she wants to be able to participate in things where, where men are.

01:35:53.060 Watch out for women that are making themselves available in your space. 1.00

01:35:56.060 Uh, that's incongruent with where they were before.

01:35:59.060 So be really, really careful of what I call the chameleon.

01:36:02.060 Watch out for the chameleon.

01:36:03.060 Why?

01:36:04.060 Because yeah, maybe she wants you, but why does she want you? 0.99

01:36:06.060 And, and maybe you want her because you think what you see is a genuine article, what

01:36:12.060 she really is, not necessarily.

01:36:14.060 And so, but again, women are really, really good at that, especially if they're on the upper 1.00

01:36:19.060 end of looks and guys will ignore a whole bunch of stuff for, like you said, for hot 0.98

01:36:23.060 women, guys will ignore a ton of stuff. 0.99

01:36:26.060 A ton of red flags.

01:36:27.060 I was like, I, I knew a guy years ago that brought a woman home and beautiful.

01:36:32.060 And I was like, dude, where'd you meet her?

01:36:34.060 She moved in with him.

01:36:35.060 I never saw him with it before.

01:36:36.060 And yeah, he, he owned a tow truck company.

01:36:39.060 Right.

01:36:40.060 And so the guy was making money.

01:36:41.060 He was making really good money.

01:36:42.060 He had a bunch of trucks.

01:36:44.060 Uh, he's doing well.

01:36:45.060 And he was like, I met her at the gas station.

01:36:47.060 I said, what, like you guys were pumping gas?

01:36:48.060 No, no.

01:36:49.060 She was homeless at the gas station.

01:36:51.060 She needed a place to stay.

01:36:52.060 Oh my God.

01:36:53.060 And I'm like, and so, and so that should get, guys will let a chick who's affiliated with 0.98

01:36:57.060 Al Qaeda move with them if they're hot. 0.98

01:37:00.060 I know they always say I can fix her.

01:37:03.060 But, but you know, but, but they'll roll the dice on a hot chick. 1.00

01:37:06.060 Yeah.

01:37:07.060 And so like, if you're ugly, especially if you're a guy, like you ever noticed there's

01:37:11.060 really no beautiful homeless people.

01:37:13.060 Somebody will give you a place to stay.

01:37:16.060 You can be nuts.

01:37:18.060 And so he, he let her move in.

01:37:20.060 She was a, um, she had a meth habit.

01:37:23.060 Um, her parents had thrown her out 20 years old.

01:37:26.060 She was living with them.

01:37:27.060 She was, you know, like most drug addicts, they were, they were stealing. 1.00

01:37:30.060 So he met her, talked to her for a little while, then invited her to get something to eat,

01:37:34.060 got something to eat and said, well, you need a place to stay.

01:37:36.060 And she moved in with him.

01:37:37.060 And I was like, dude, so you let a meth head move in with you and live in your house because

01:37:43.060 she was hot. 1.00

01:37:44.060 Now, was she hot? 1.00

01:37:45.060 Even filthy.

01:37:46.060 She was attractive. 0.79

01:37:48.060 And so really beautiful, really beautiful people.

01:37:51.060 And 22, you could be like a five at 20 or seven in the real world.

01:37:55.060 You know what I mean?

01:37:56.060 But if you're really beautiful, like you could be filthy and have on rags and you're going

01:38:00.060 to look beautiful, but you're not going to get that far down because someone's going

01:38:03.060 to give you a place to stay.

01:38:04.060 Yeah.

01:38:05.060 Is that right?

01:38:06.060 Am I wrong?

01:38:07.060 No, you're totally right.

01:38:08.060 I did this and I'm sitting there like, like, are you serious, man?

01:38:11.060 Yeah.

01:38:12.060 He's like, yeah.

01:38:13.060 So you're saying, but men should watch out for the women that pick up like a hobby or 1.00

01:38:17.060 something.

01:38:18.060 Just to be with them.

01:38:19.060 Yeah.

01:38:20.060 The chameleons.

01:38:21.060 Yeah.

01:38:22.060 But it's not something they actually want to do.

01:38:23.060 Not really.

01:38:24.060 And so that, that might be a temporary, um, endeavor just to get their foot in the door.

01:38:29.060 Right.

01:38:30.060 You know what I mean?

01:38:31.060 And so you always have to, guys have to be realistic.

01:38:33.060 Okay.

01:38:34.060 So if I'm a guy and I'm a three, but I got a ton of money and some chick who's a seven 1.00

01:38:41.060 nines and tens, aren't going out with a three, even if he's a billionaire, they're just not

01:38:44.060 going to do it.

01:38:45.060 They're just not going to do it because they know they can find a billionaire who's better

01:38:48.060 a billionaire who's better looking than that three.

01:38:51.060 They're just not going.

01:38:52.060 Um, and so you have to be honest with yourself.

01:38:55.060 What does this chick want for me? 1.00

01:38:57.060 Well, clearly she wants money, but she won't tell you she wants money, but you have to have

01:39:01.060 it in the back of your head.

01:39:02.060 And if you're willing to do that and you understand what you're signing up for, that's fine.

01:39:07.060 Just, just be able to put yourself in a position to make an informed decision.

01:39:10.060 Stop buying the cover story.

01:39:12.060 You know, there's always a story behind what most women, most women will put their best 1.00

01:39:17.060 foot forward.

01:39:18.060 And so that's why it's like when guys meet women that are mean and nasty, when they first 0.98

01:39:23.060 meet them, like, bro, it's only going to go downhill from there.

01:39:25.060 It's only going to get worse.

01:39:26.060 It's only, it's going to get much, much worse.

01:39:28.060 If that's her best foot. 0.80

01:39:29.060 So have you found like more success with guys that meet at work on the apps?

01:39:34.060 Like where it is?

01:39:35.060 Like the fuse I'm, I'm sure in your profession, you're a complete cynic, but I'm trying to

01:39:40.060 maybe have put a little hope.

01:39:42.060 Um, yeah, I am.

01:39:44.060 I'm a cynic, but I'm like, you know, maybe today I'm feeling hopeful.

01:39:48.060 So yeah, I don't, I don't believe in hope, but here's what I will say.

01:39:51.060 Um, you're wasting your time on dating apps.

01:39:55.060 You might get dates.

01:39:56.060 You're not going to find a chick that you actually want to, because, because, because

01:39:59.060 dating apps aren't set up for that.

01:40:00.060 They're set up so that you keep coming back.

01:40:02.060 And if you're successful, then they go out of business very rapidly.

01:40:05.060 So the algorithms are not set up for you to actually meet somebody that you're actually

01:40:09.060 going to be long-term committed with.

01:40:11.060 Now, if you're just looking for women to smash, smash away date, dating app is a place 1.00

01:40:16.060 to go.

01:40:17.060 Um, Instagram is a new dating app as well, too.

01:40:20.060 You know?

01:40:21.060 Um, and so what I've told guys and guys that I've, you know, they've kind of helped try

01:40:27.060 to guide some of these, some of these, some clients wind up being friends, uh, because,

01:40:31.060 you know, some of these guys, like, especially some of the tech bros, the finance bros, these

01:40:35.060 guys are, they work so much.

01:40:38.060 A lot of them, they don't have the time.

01:40:40.060 Well, you know, before they became wealthy, they were nerds.

01:40:43.060 Yeah.

01:40:44.060 They were nerds.

01:40:45.060 Like Elon Musk, Ashley St. Clair.

01:40:47.060 Yeah.

01:40:48.060 They, they, they, they should have had you on staff.

01:40:50.060 Yeah.

01:40:51.060 They, they know nothing about women.

01:40:52.060 Yeah.

01:40:53.060 Like literally they're, they're like a fish out of water, man.

01:40:55.060 I feel bad for some of these guys.

01:40:56.060 Cause like some of these guys have gotten played so badly, man.

01:41:00.060 And, and so, um, in the wild is the best way to meet women in the wild, meaning natural

01:41:07.060 life, not a bar or club out in the wild.

01:41:10.060 If you can meet a woman out in the wild and you don't have to be, okay, some of the pickup

01:41:14.060 stuff does help.

01:41:15.060 You know what I mean?

01:41:16.060 But you don't have to be a pickup artist to meet a woman.

01:41:18.060 You know what I'm saying?

01:41:19.060 Uh, if you're a pickup artist, you can meet more women. 1.00

01:41:21.060 You know what I mean?

01:41:22.060 Uh, like some of the PUA guys are actually really good.

01:41:25.060 Some of them are fugazi.

01:41:26.060 You know what I'm saying?

01:41:27.060 Some of them are, some of them are, I didn't mean to use fugazi as that, that guy's thing,

01:41:31.060 the no fugazi thing, but some of them are fake.

01:41:33.060 Fugazi means fake with Italian people, but, um, out in the wild is a really good way. 1.00

01:41:40.060 And be careful of referrals though.

01:41:42.060 Okay.

01:41:43.060 Okay.

01:41:44.060 If your buddy who's not married refers you to a woman, she's probably a good, good chick 1.00

01:41:50.060 to me.

01:41:51.060 All right.

01:41:52.060 If your married friend's wife recommends a chick to you, run for the. 1.00

01:41:57.060 That's so funny.

01:42:02.060 That's so true.

01:42:04.060 Yeah.

01:42:05.060 Run, run.

01:42:06.060 Like nobody else would take her.

01:42:08.060 Like most, you know, and, and, and, uh, one of them, I actually did a speaking engagement,

01:42:13.060 not too long ago.

01:42:14.060 Um, and you know, a guy hired me and paid me to talk to his, his, his executive team.

01:42:20.060 And his wife was like, Hey, I want you to meet a friend of mine. 0.93

01:42:23.060 And yeah, she just kind of did this cold and she, she brings it. 1.00

01:42:27.060 The woman has her back turned. 0.98

01:42:28.060 She brings her over and she goes, Hey, I want you to meet.

01:42:32.060 And I was like, and I said her name.

01:42:33.060 She was like, Hey, she gives me a hug.

01:42:34.060 She was like, how do you know each other?

01:42:36.060 I don't know.

01:42:37.060 We met.

01:42:38.060 We've met before.

01:42:41.060 Um, you know, two ships passing in the night.

01:42:43.060 Uh, and, and, uh, and she was like, and she was like, so you want to see her again?

01:42:48.060 I said, no, I've seen enough of her.

01:42:49.060 And she was like, how did you meet?

01:42:50.060 I said, I met her.

01:42:51.060 I said, I met her.

01:42:52.060 I said, I met her.

01:42:53.060 I think, um, uh, that one, I think I met her and on park Avenue and we're in a park,

01:42:58.060 a big shopping district, a bunch of really overpriced stores.

01:43:01.060 A friend of mine has a jewelry store down there and there's a little cafe and a little alcove

01:43:05.060 in there and I was in there just drinking some coffee.

01:43:08.060 She was there and I, and I looked at her.

01:43:10.060 She looked over at me as I just literally gave her the nod.

01:43:14.060 It's just came over and sat with me.

01:43:17.060 Right.

01:43:18.060 And so we talked for a while then wound up, um, we didn't even date.

01:43:22.060 She just came over to my place. 0.99

01:43:26.060 Um, are there any questions from the chat?

01:43:28.060 Any supers or no?

01:43:30.060 Okay.

01:43:31.060 Um, could you put them on the screen if you don't mind?

01:43:33.060 See if they have any.

01:43:34.060 Um, this is Shaw says private.

01:43:36.060 I rest stories are the best.

01:43:38.060 Um, true.

01:43:41.060 Are you familiar?

01:43:42.060 That would be interesting.

01:43:43.060 Yeah.

01:43:44.060 I'm he's a, he's a smart guy.

01:43:46.060 Yeah, he is.

01:43:47.060 He's a very smart guy.

01:43:48.060 I'll recommend him.

01:43:49.060 Uh, is it just those two?

01:43:50.060 Yeah.

01:43:51.060 Okay, cool.

01:43:52.060 Um, also guys, if you want more information on how to dig deeper into a woman's

01:43:56.060 past and we filmed a bunch of content before this for, um, in the school group that Shaw

01:44:01.060 was talking around, not Shaw, Shiv was talking about.

01:44:04.060 So if you guys are interested, the link to that is in the description.

01:44:08.060 It's going to be really cool.

01:44:09.060 We're going to have events at some point too, where I can meet up with everyone.

01:44:12.060 So sign up if you got time.

01:44:14.060 Um, thanks so much for coming.

01:44:16.060 Thank you for having me.

01:44:17.060 Thank you for the hospitality.

01:44:19.060 Thanks for having me out there.

01:44:20.060 It's, um, um, you're, you're one of my favorites, man.

01:44:23.060 You are fearless.

01:44:24.060 And, uh, I think you've got, um, a lot of, uh, really exciting things going on in the

01:44:29.060 future and I'm looking forward to, uh, watching you grow and succeed.

01:44:33.060 Yeah.

01:44:34.060 And you got to take over YouTube.

01:44:35.060 I can't wait for you to like really dive head first into your channel.

01:44:40.060 I think.

01:44:41.060 Well, I'm, I'm actually got some plans in the works of, um, starting to do that.

01:44:45.060 I told you I bought a microphone.

01:44:46.060 So people keep complaining about the, the audio qualities.

01:44:50.060 Okay.

01:44:51.060 All right, guys, I put my money where my mouth is actually bought a mic and I've actually

01:44:54.060 got plans of, um, doing some stories and putting them on video.

01:44:58.060 Awesome.

01:44:59.060 So that'll be coming up soon as well too.

01:45:00.060 Um, well we're going to link your channel in the description.

01:45:04.060 So, um, and your Twitter as well.

01:45:07.060 So guys check that out.

01:45:08.060 Make sure you follow him and subscribe.

01:45:10.060 Thanks so much for coming.

01:45:11.060 I've had so much fun.

01:45:12.060 I love listening to your story.

01:45:14.060 Thank you for having me.

01:45:15.060 Um, but we got to go guys.

01:45:17.060 I got to bring him back to the airport.

01:45:18.060 He's got to go home.

01:45:19.060 So like the video, you guys subscribe to the channel, bring the notification bell, and

01:45:23.060 I'll see you guys next time.

01:45:24.060 Bye.

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JustPearlyThings - May 16, 2025

Private Eye Russ Joins In Studio to Reveal women's Dark Secrets ｜ The Sitdown

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