JustPearlyThings - Producer Educates Modern Women On The Panel

00:00:00.000 wait wait wait so i want to talk actress and singer they don't typically make good wives 1.00

00:00:05.240 i mean let's look at the big actresses and singers of our generation taylor swift selena 1.00

00:00:10.120 gomez they all end up by themselves so it like success comes at a cost unfortunately and in fact

00:00:16.160 that's a big that's a big process as well i don't agree i don't know who said it just now but

00:00:21.620 someone said oh you know the man doesn't want to be with that girl who who's seen and stuff and i

00:00:26.620 used to think that like for so many years because i would never find like a guy who was like okay with

00:00:32.640 my lifestyle and things like that but i found someone who loves what i do not only loves it

00:00:38.940 he celebrates it he's on the red carpet taking photos of me celebrating what i do and championing

00:00:44.220 me so that is out there and i don't think that makes you any less of a choice but i still submit

00:00:50.040 to my man well give i'm saying give him a choice if you i said to him yeah right now i'll change

00:00:53.800 everything about my life yeah i'll stop doing all of this and i'll just be no no but i'm saying to

00:00:59.340 you if you gave him the choice what would he pick what do you mean what would he rather but he's

00:01:04.060 would he rather you be out there no no no he doesn't have a choice the reason he loves that about me

00:01:08.720 no no he doesn't have a choice he doesn't have a choice what do you think he would pick the

00:01:12.800 the reason he loves it is because he loves you yeah yeah because he doesn't have a choice he didn't

00:01:16.920 choose he didn't find you more attractive because of your career he because because he loves you and cares

00:01:23.140 about you he's like well if this contributes to your happiness then i love that yeah i love you

00:01:27.180 that's what yes but i'm just and that wasn't my point my point was that like oh it's the man has

00:01:32.900 to be at the top and the woman has to just be submissive i'm saying that look our dynamic is

00:01:37.740 different yeah i'm at the top and he's like they're supporting me and they're with you but he

00:01:42.220 doesn't have a choice i'm still submissive no the dynamic is the same you just have different careers

00:01:46.260 just like your career you're on the spotlight yeah but i'm still submissive and that doesn't make him

00:01:49.940 any less of a man or anything no one's saying no i'm saying if you gave him a choice what do you

00:01:53.620 think he would pick well i don't know maybe the girl who works and to answer and to answer your 0.88

00:01:59.980 question where you it's basically women if we want a certain type of guy we neither either need 1.00

00:02:04.940 to improve right we need to get in the gym we need to learn what men want cook become become more

00:02:10.600 submissive learn from married women or lower your standards and get what you get you know i really i

00:02:17.380 think it's pretty simple there are some really ugly guys that cheat and and manipulate i want to i 0.90

00:02:24.360 want to i'm going to break this down for you because the problem is women think that ugly guys 1.00

00:02:28.740 like most ugly ugly guys are just on their level to be honest because women find 80 percent of men 0.94

00:02:33.920 as ugly unattractive so you only find two out of every 10 men attractive so that that's the problem 0.97

00:02:40.240 is when you look at like what like what women rate as attractive it just means you're like shooting 0.98

00:02:45.140 too high typically i'm not you but like in general yeah but also this is another thing like it's clear

00:02:50.360 women don't actually know what to look for in men yeah because everything we've said today have been 0.99

00:02:54.820 all superficial ugly guys rich guys handsome guys it doesn't affect their characteristics you need to

00:03:02.540 look at the character of a man it doesn't matter what he looks like it doesn't matter how much money

00:03:06.200 he makes if his character is flawed once his character is flawed he can be the richest guy on earth

00:03:10.320 he's still gonna cheat on you so you need to look at the character of a man then you look at his bank

00:03:15.680 account but then then you look at how do you find a character how do you see the character in men that

00:03:20.240 lie don't don't listen to what he says listen to what he does look at what he does so look at what

00:03:25.700 he does yeah so first of all ideally if you're looking for a man for anything serious i'm not

00:03:30.300 talking about if you want to have sex if you're looking for a man for everything anything serious

00:03:33.100 first of all you shouldn't be the one trying to vet a man on your own but like that's the worst thing

00:03:37.640 you should do as a woman trying to vet the man you're going to take serious because one 0.93

00:03:41.360 you're most likely going to be clouded by his lies or the way he's going to speak to you the

00:03:47.060 romantic date he's going to take you on you need to look either in your friend group or your family

00:03:51.620 and get other people to vet the man for you that's that is the first thing you should do never try to

00:03:56.880 other men though yeah but this was this was standard practice back in the day it was like

00:04:01.480 your father would be the one yeah you know i mean look at i mean look at look at who we pick when

00:04:07.960 left to our own devices every chick has a toxic ex-boyfriend every chick has a boyfriend that 0.99

00:04:12.180 cheated on her um and it's like we we pick we're more likely to re reproduce with literal criminals

00:04:18.240 than non-criminals or there's something like that so it's like what happens when we're left to our

00:04:23.720 own devices it's not good because we're just too emotional like we can't make us not women we're

00:04:28.620 emotionally led men are much more logical so it's like my brother like literally it's like if i if i

00:04:35.540 bring him a couple questions about it he'll ask me a couple questions and it's like yes no and he's

00:04:39.760 usually right yeah that's so true yeah where where women it's like well but well he might i'm not sure 0.86

00:04:46.480 so so you're saying like a man will definitely even if let's just say they're not they're not

00:04:54.040 willing to give you a relationship they should imagine a guy's telling you i want to give you 0.86

00:04:58.220 this i want to imagine he flat buys you all this and then and it takes you to to like be be very

00:05:04.740 thoughtful and be like the perfect person that you would say they should say the actions actions 0.80

00:05:08.640 imagine you do that now you take that person and then they're shit okay but the thing but the thing 0.77

00:05:14.620 is though like if he's all his actions this would all if we all waited until we were married this 0.52

00:05:18.940 would all be solved i didn't want to say this would all be solved like if his actions are representing

00:05:23.540 that he's taking you seriously right and like because you when if you look at a guy's actions

00:05:28.820 you can tell if he's taking you seriously or not like because if you're just having sex and most of

00:05:33.100 the time you're hanging out it's just netflix and chill he's not taking you seriously if he's not

00:05:36.120 introduced you to his friends he's not taking you on holiday all of this stuff he's not taking you

00:05:39.820 seriously you know that right but the thing is the issue is and this comes back to the board

00:05:43.780 women can use sex to get access to guys that are actually out of their league yeah and so what 1.00

00:05:49.520 happens is they're so used to having sex with guys that aren't in their league right they acclimatize 0.91

00:05:56.860 and they think that's their standard and then they go why other guys who are my standard not commit to 0.90

00:06:02.420 me are all guys are trash none of them want to commit but actually it's like your standard isn't who you 0.90

00:06:08.100 have sex with your standard is who you get commitment from right and that's actually where your standard 0.99

00:06:13.360 because the thing is the equivalent for guys is like i'm spending all this money and all this

00:06:17.540 attention on this girl but she doesn't want to be sexually intimate with me we go out on dates i take 0.92

00:06:21.820 her out but like i have all her attention but i don't have any of the intimacy it's because bro you're

00:06:26.820 using money to punch above your weight that's why see what i'm saying yeah no i hear it i definitely

00:06:33.900 i'm gonna i'm gonna read super chats for a second super chat um also guys if you do have a question

00:06:40.380 for the panel you i saw someone asking if i would super i would ask it um i will over 25 dollars okay

00:06:47.320 lionheart richard how do you choose a guy to submit to date with intent maintain your chastity and involve

00:06:53.040 your dad brother uncle are not sexually are that are not men that are not sexually interested in you

00:06:59.560 to scan the men you want a courtship with fs claire pearl bless you but there is no saving society

00:07:06.040 just listen to how these women react to the reality of life it's over walk away fellas they are no longer 1.00

00:07:11.240 worth the risk doug mpa thank you king for thank you king for being for producer for being the voice of

00:07:18.020 reason thank you for pearl for being amazing and having shows like this blue hair tips is a demon she has 1.00

00:07:23.480 the voice of a demon and woman like her should be avoided at all costs shoe um shoe j i didn't even

00:07:30.340 know you had blue hair um i am 23 from the midwest i'd love to share my experience my background i'm a

00:07:36.580 farm mechanic working for a dealership i bring in 50k a year i'm in the national guard i also have a

00:07:41.600 volunteer paramedic i've been cheated on and dumped because of money and being too busy alexander 1284

00:07:47.800 thank you for what you do fresh and fit brought me here stephen sutton um men don't need validation

00:07:54.800 from sex men genuinely don't seek validation like women do sex is important to men as attention and

00:08:00.280 validation is to women a man emmanuel christ ian i really wish the girl on the right would let people

00:08:05.680 finish men don't only lose money and kids men also lose their minds to depression and commit self

00:08:11.660 deletion and delete other people every woman can be desirable as she manages what goes into her body 1.00

00:08:16.780 both food and men pearl you are looking for uh are you looking for talent um on toronto canada um

00:08:26.560 no right now um i might do one or two more in chicago but right now we're gonna sign

00:08:32.680 probably like one or two more people in london um out of this office and then maybe one or two more

00:08:41.640 different la i think we're gonna i'm pretty sure we're gonna do la um london and then chicago but

00:08:48.280 my main uh focus right now is london so we're probably gonna sign people in the next like two

00:08:53.080 weeks so if you are interested in being a talent i'll make sure you dm me and like dm me like what

00:08:58.480 your show pitch is and your instagram whatever it is basically what that means is i do everything so i do

00:09:04.080 the editing the shooting basically everything you just show up and talk but it is a full-time thing so

00:09:09.860 if you want to like just come occasionally this is not for you okay um mac perk hey pearl this is

00:09:16.540 for all the women on the panel if body count doesn't matter then why do women are women super 1.00

00:09:21.640 uncomfortable when asked about it 90 frito pie it's funny how men expect a stable or it's funny how

00:09:27.880 women expect a stable man that provides and etc but never chew oh this is from the last show 0.97

00:09:32.780 okay let me refresh this really cool in it yes yeah like this is i like don't even really get

00:09:41.120 hot anymore because i'm just so used to it it's it's england's it's england's fault because you

00:09:47.840 guys don't have air conditioning i don't understand i'm from america it would be blowing so much in

00:09:54.920 america it would be like cold but yeah i just never hardly ever read it

JustPearlyThings - August 30, 2023

Producer Educates Modern Women On The Panel

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