JustPearlyThings - August 19, 2023


Proof That Modern Women Make Horrible Choices


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In this episode, we discuss whether dating has become harder or easier in today's day and age. Do you think it's harder to find a relationship if you have a small cock? Or is it easier if you've got a big cock?

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00:00:00.000 Today's topic, has modern dating gotten harder or easier?
00:00:05.780 So for the single people on the panel,
00:00:11.820 did you have a question?
00:00:12.860 No, no, no.
00:00:13.700 I'm sorry, I thought you were gonna say something.
00:00:14.700 So for the single people on the panel,
00:00:17.300 would you say that it's easy in today's day and age
00:00:21.120 to find a relationship?
00:00:23.840 So I think it's maybe not easy to find a relationship.
00:00:27.360 I think it's easy to find potentials and to go on dates
00:00:30.920 and to meet people, but to take it to the next step
00:00:33.920 or have longevity and actually have a real relationship.
00:00:37.500 I think that can be quite tricky in this day and age
00:00:39.880 because we're so transactional and so everyone's moving around.
00:00:43.640 And do you think most men want relationships?
00:00:47.940 I think it depends on the man, but I think some do,
00:00:52.620 some do, but I think a lot probably don't.
00:00:55.080 I think in big cities, it's really tricky.
00:00:57.300 I think because there's so much choice.
00:00:58.880 Like I said, it's just, there's so much choice
00:01:02.080 that you always got your eyes open.
00:01:03.860 And who do you see being more unwilling to commit,
00:01:06.620 men or women?
00:01:08.380 From my experience and from people I know,
00:01:11.480 I do think guys slightly are,
00:01:14.140 they're kind of less likely to
00:01:16.400 because they generally don't want to commit
00:01:20.280 because for, you know, when I speak to friends and stuff,
00:01:22.940 they generally just think that there's more fish in the sea.
00:01:28.060 Yeah.
00:01:28.900 So, so that can be, I think technically that's that.
00:01:31.040 And more girls I know tend to want relationships 1.00
00:01:34.420 and they, they say they want relationships
00:01:36.120 and are searching for that.
00:01:37.360 Okay.
00:01:38.320 Do you think it's easy to find a relationship
00:01:40.400 in today's day and age?
00:01:41.680 I think it's well, fucking easy.
00:01:42.980 I catch a cock every weekend. 0.70
00:01:44.600 She said relationship.
00:01:46.400 Yeah, relationship.
00:01:47.400 Not cock.
00:01:48.400 Calm down.
00:01:49.280 I'm curious, like,
00:01:50.920 cause you guys mentioned before the show,
00:01:52.460 you guys do OnlyFans, right?
00:01:54.140 Yeah.
00:01:54.980 Promote it, Lily Phillips.
00:01:56.920 Alexis Reed.
00:01:57.840 Hey, don't buy.
00:01:58.680 They'll go.
00:01:59.920 So do you, what, what's it like dating with OnlyFans?
00:02:03.800 Great.
00:02:04.480 Yeah.
00:02:04.800 I mean, I have a lot of men like in my DMs
00:02:06.860 wanting to date and stuff like that.
00:02:08.140 I have a lot of like, um, guys wanting to be like cooks,
00:02:10.560 hot wife, like wanted to share me and stuff like that, 1.00
00:02:12.600 which I love.
00:02:14.260 Um, and do you, like, do you, is that what you want?
00:02:17.080 No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:02:20.000 When, when would you like,
00:02:21.200 would you want to get married?
00:02:22.320 I think 30 years.
00:02:23.320 30 years.
00:02:24.320 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:02:25.060 But like, it depends if anyone will take me
00:02:26.700 after they want a cock up ass, you know what I mean? 1.00
00:02:28.780 It's like, fair point.
00:02:32.200 And does that, does that concern you or no?
00:02:34.960 You don't really care.
00:02:35.800 I'm not going to lie.
00:02:36.460 I think there are a lot of dirty men out there 1.00
00:02:38.720 that like whores. 1.00
00:02:39.700 So yeah, I don't think they mind.
00:02:42.580 Okay.
00:02:44.740 Pearl, come on. 1.00
00:02:45.260 It's a bit serious.
00:02:46.100 We're on a serious podcast.
00:02:47.400 Okay.
00:02:48.540 All right.
00:02:49.380 All right.
00:02:49.980 What do you think?
00:02:50.580 Do you think it's easy to find a relationship
00:02:52.280 in today's day and age?
00:02:54.080 Um, I think it's easy enough.
00:02:56.260 Yeah.
00:02:56.540 I mean, if someone doesn't want a relationship,
00:02:58.760 it doesn't really matter.
00:02:59.600 But if you want a relationship, it's easy to find one.
00:03:02.180 I mean, as long as you've got a big cock 0.95
00:03:04.440 and a tight pussy, it doesn't matter. 1.00
00:03:07.180 Do you think it's easier for men or for women
00:03:09.240 to find a relationship?
00:03:10.840 I think definitely if you've got a small cock, 1.00
00:03:13.380 it's harder to find a relationship.
00:03:15.180 I mean...
00:03:16.180 I mean, so it's all about, it's all about the set.
00:03:20.100 What do you think's more...
00:03:21.860 I have a question.
00:03:22.860 I have a question.
00:03:23.860 What do you think's more of a death sentence
00:03:24.860 on the dating market for a guy?
00:03:25.860 Small...
00:03:26.860 I don't want to say it.
00:03:27.860 Cock.
00:03:28.860 Are you scared of cock, Pearl?
00:03:30.860 Okay.
00:03:31.860 But, um...
00:03:32.860 Or...
00:03:33.860 Or broke.
00:03:34.860 What do you think's a bigger death sentence?
00:03:35.860 Oh, small cock.
00:03:36.860 Yeah.
00:03:37.860 Death...
00:03:38.860 Small cock or what? 0.70
00:03:39.860 Broke.
00:03:40.860 Broke.
00:03:41.860 Broke.
00:03:42.860 No, it's broke as well.
00:03:43.860 If he's broke, you're not getting to the penis, I think.
00:03:44.860 Yeah, maybe...
00:03:45.860 I don't know.
00:03:46.860 You think the money is more of a death sentence?
00:03:47.860 Yeah.
00:03:48.860 Because it's the start.
00:03:49.860 But what if he's hot?
00:03:50.860 Yeah.
00:03:51.860 If he has to be really hot, no?
00:03:52.860 I make enough money on my own.
00:03:53.860 Has anyone here...
00:03:54.860 Raise your hand if you've dated a guy without a job?
00:03:55.860 Just curious.
00:03:56.860 Oh, me.
00:03:57.860 Fucking hell for three and a half years.
00:03:58.860 All right.
00:03:59.860 So it's not a complete death sentence.
00:04:00.860 There's three chicks. 1.00
00:04:01.860 Yeah.
00:04:02.860 He was good in bed.
00:04:03.860 He was good in bed.
00:04:04.860 He was good in bed.
00:04:05.860 He was good in bed.
00:04:06.860 He was good in bed.
00:04:07.860 He was good in bed.
00:04:08.860 Do you know what?
00:04:09.860 He just had a massive cock. 0.66
00:04:10.860 It was about eight inches.
00:04:11.860 It was very thick.
00:04:12.860 And I just thought, I can't leave this cock.
00:04:13.860 I couldn't leave it.
00:04:14.860 I loved bouncing on it every time.
00:04:15.860 How long were you with him?
00:04:16.860 Three and a half years.
00:04:17.860 Wow.
00:04:18.860 No job, but just good sex.
00:04:19.860 Three and a half years.
00:04:20.860 Yeah.
00:04:21.860 He used to call me a gold digger if he bought me a McDonald's as well.
00:04:23.860 Classy beard.
00:04:24.860 I love it.
00:04:25.860 Wow.
00:04:26.860 Go ahead.
00:04:27.860 Personally, I don't really care about something.
00:04:29.860 I don't know.
00:04:30.860 I don't know.
00:04:31.860 I don't know.
00:04:32.860 I don't know.
00:04:33.860 I don't know.
00:04:34.860 I don't know.
00:04:35.860 I don't know.
00:04:36.860 I don't really care about the size of it.
00:04:39.860 I just like the money.
00:04:40.860 No, she's asking.
00:04:41.860 Is it harder for women or men? 0.98
00:04:43.860 Oh, is it harder for women or men? 0.82
00:04:46.860 Definitely men because women are more fussy. 1.00
00:04:50.860 Even the fat tings are quite fussy these days.
00:04:53.860 Fat girls. 1.00
00:04:55.860 Fat girls. 1.00
00:04:56.860 Fat girls. 1.00
00:04:57.860 You think fat chicks have too high of standards? 1.00
00:05:00.860 Yes, definitely.
00:05:01.860 You think they should settle a bit because they're too big?
00:05:04.860 Yes, definitely.
00:05:05.860 And these looks on their own size.
00:05:07.860 Oh.
00:05:08.860 Oh.
00:05:09.860 That's true.
00:05:10.860 I've had so many fat...
00:05:11.860 I want a muscly man.
00:05:12.860 You're not your fat ting.
00:05:13.860 Why do you want a muscly man? 1.00
00:05:14.860 I could be a chubby chaser.
00:05:16.860 Well, I've had so many fat chicks come on the show and say they want a thin guy. 1.00
00:05:21.860 I'm like, why?
00:05:22.860 Don't you want to like...
00:05:23.860 It's a fetish.
00:05:24.860 They do a 10.
00:05:25.860 I see it all the time though.
00:05:26.860 Couples.
00:05:27.860 The guy's like a one and the girl's like a zero. 0.84
00:05:29.860 It's a 10.
00:05:30.860 All the time.
00:05:31.860 Between them, they're a 10.
00:05:32.860 I wonder how they find their coochies with all their roles. 1.00
00:05:35.860 Oh my God.
00:05:37.860 That's fine.
00:05:38.860 I don't know.
00:05:40.860 Okay.
00:05:41.860 Okay.
00:05:42.860 What about you?
00:05:43.860 So I think that a relationship is fundamentally a difficult thing because everybody is quite
00:05:48.860 complicated.
00:05:49.860 And because of the complexity of humans, I think that just the idea of having a relationship,
00:05:54.860 we actually underestimate how difficult it is to find a complimentary partner.
00:05:58.860 Because for example, if we think of the fact that we're all different, you know, I think
00:06:01.860 it's very easy for us to say like whether or not, I don't even know necessarily that dating
00:06:06.860 is easier or harder today.
00:06:08.860 Or just the fact that finding a partner who matches you, who wants the same things in life
00:06:13.860 as you, who wants to share the same things in life as you is a difficult thing.
00:06:16.860 I mean, I know there's one lady who is married. 1.00
00:06:18.860 I'm sure she could comment on that.
00:06:19.860 But I think that just the idea of, you know, two people meeting, and I think that you definitely
00:06:23.860 need to have a level of contentment within yourself and being very positive within yourself
00:06:29.860 and feeling that sense of, you know, strong sense of self in order to find a partner who
00:06:34.860 can match you.
00:06:35.860 What do you mean by it's hard to find someone that matches you?
00:06:39.860 Do you want someone that's exactly the same as you?
00:06:41.860 So when I say match, I don't mean as in the same, I mean matches in the sense of like you
00:06:45.860 compliment each other.
00:06:46.860 Because I believe that, you know, fundamentally speaking, when it comes to a relationship,
00:06:50.860 a man and a woman are supposed to compliment each other.
00:06:52.860 And I know that, especially discussing this with previous boyfriends, you know, the most
00:06:56.860 important thing is that you both have those things like shared values, shared interest,
00:07:00.860 you both sort of bring out the best in each other.
00:07:03.860 Do you think you need shared interest?
00:07:04.860 Do you need shared interest?
00:07:05.860 I don't think you need to have anything in common.
00:07:07.860 Why?
00:07:08.860 Yeah, I just, I find-
00:07:09.860 You've got six girlfriends, so you must have a lot in common.
00:07:11.860 I find that usually when couples have too much in common, it's like they almost compete
00:07:16.860 with each other.
00:07:17.860 I find that like couples that are more different seem to work better.
00:07:21.860 Well, you definitely do need to have shared interest because otherwise, what else are you
00:07:25.860 going to have, you know, to share?
00:07:27.860 Men don't really like to talk, so they'd probably be happy to not talk. 0.56
00:07:30.860 They just like to talk.
00:07:31.860 Well, I don't know how it's necessary, I don't know how it's possible to have a stable relationship
00:07:35.860 without talking.
00:07:36.860 You'd be surprised.
00:07:37.860 I mean, I'd say that definitely, especially, especially people who've been married for like
00:07:41.860 40, 50 years, you know, the idea of both of you having shared interest, having things
00:07:45.860 that find you together.
00:07:46.860 Well, ask the husband if he'd like his wife to talk less. 1.00
00:07:48.860 I know regarding my parents, for example, the fact that they both had, you know, a lot
00:07:52.860 of shared interest.
00:07:53.860 That's really something which helped to make the relationship last.
00:07:56.860 And that was really something because obviously, you know, good sex is necessary.
00:07:59.860 I think that's more of a female thing, just my point of view. 1.00
00:08:02.860 I really think it's more of a female thing than a guy. 0.86
00:08:04.860 So you think men are stupid?
00:08:05.860 No, I don't think they're stupid.
00:08:06.860 You just said men don't like to talk.
00:08:08.860 No, I said they don't like to talk to us because we just talk in circles and like yap a 1.00
00:08:12.860 bit more.
00:08:13.860 I don't think so.
00:08:14.860 I think women are stupid. 1.00
00:08:19.860 I actually do think that women as a whole aren't the smartest. 1.00
00:08:23.860 I mean, it can appear that way when you have some YouTubers like to make women look really
00:08:29.860 idiotic.
00:08:30.860 We are idiotic.
00:08:31.860 Well, when you have, you know, on YouTube, very populist YouTubers who like to use their
00:08:35.860 platforms to make women look stupid. 0.96
00:08:36.860 No, it's not.
00:08:37.860 No one makes anyone look dumb.
00:08:38.860 Trust me.
00:08:39.860 You can't.
00:08:40.860 It's very easy to make people look dumb.
00:08:41.860 Especially in correct context.
00:08:42.860 No, it's either they're dumb or they're not dumb.
00:08:45.860 You know, I've had tons of.
00:08:46.860 I think intelligent men want intelligent women. 1.00
00:08:47.860 No, I've had tons of smart gals come on here and not look dumb. 1.00
00:08:51.860 If you're dumb, you look dumb.
00:08:52.860 But I just think as a group, if we look in the last hundred years, what we've chosen,
00:08:57.860 it hasn't been the smartest.
00:08:59.860 Like, okay, no offense guys, but it's like one out of 25 of us under 35.
00:09:03.860 There are more women going to university now. 1.00
00:09:05.860 Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:09:06.860 One out of 25 of us are under 35 around OnlyFans and university.
00:09:10.860 I think, I think university makes us dumber.
00:09:13.860 Maybe that's what you think.
00:09:14.860 I know everyone would agree with you.
00:09:16.860 I'm sure a lot of academics are professors.
00:09:17.860 All the man wants you to do is shut your mouth and put his cock in it. 1.00
00:09:22.860 You've got to respect the girls on OnlyFans.
00:09:24.860 They make money.
00:09:25.860 Like, you've got to respect the hustle because they're making an effort.
00:09:27.860 Like, you know, it's business effectively.
00:09:29.860 Oh no, I agree.
00:09:30.860 I actually don't think that going on OnlyFans is actually a bad thing.
00:09:33.860 I think that it depends on people's life circumstances.
00:09:36.860 Well, no, I was going to say life circumstances, because for example,
00:09:38.860 people who are very poor.
00:09:40.860 Like, I wouldn't really look down on a woman for doing LonelyFans.
00:09:42.860 I'd want to look at the context.
00:09:44.860 LonelyFans?
00:09:45.860 Yeah, right.
00:09:46.860 LonelyFans, do you think they're poor?
00:09:48.860 Do you think they're poor?
00:09:49.860 Well, I don't know.
00:09:50.860 I don't know anything about you.
00:09:51.860 You just said, like, more people from their background are likely to be poor
00:09:55.860 if they do OnlyFans.
00:09:56.860 Well, I definitely think that, you know, there's definitely something to be said
00:09:59.860 for, say, women of more impoverished backgrounds choosing to say things like OnlyFans.
00:10:03.860 What do you think is smarter?
00:10:05.860 You're wrong, girl. 1.00
00:10:06.860 What do you think is smarter?
00:10:08.860 What do you think is smarter?
00:10:09.860 Doing OnlyFans or not doing OnlyFans?
00:10:11.860 Doing OnlyFans.
00:10:12.860 Okay, I know what you guys are going to say.
00:10:14.860 I'm asking her.
00:10:15.860 I mean, it really depends on the context.
00:10:17.860 Just answer the question, yes or no?
00:10:19.860 I'm answering the question, darling.
00:10:20.860 You could say that choosing to do OnlyFans is actually a very smart choice.
00:10:23.860 If you're, say, a woman who's very attractive and doesn't feel like she has any other options,
00:10:27.860 you could actually say that.
00:10:29.860 Okay.
00:10:30.860 Can an attractive woman marry rich? 1.00
00:10:32.860 Yeah.
00:10:33.860 I think anyone can marry rich.
00:10:34.860 Okay.
00:10:35.860 Okay.
00:10:36.860 Okay.
00:10:37.860 So is it better to depend on one man who loves you or a bunch of simps that are paying you $5.99?
00:10:43.860 Simps.
00:10:44.860 I know what you guys think.
00:10:45.860 Depends on yourself.
00:10:46.860 I know.
00:10:47.860 I'm asking in general.
00:10:48.860 I know every person's different, but if we have to pick one, what's a better choice?
00:10:53.860 I mean, again, it depends on the woman. 1.00
00:10:54.860 No, no, no.
00:10:55.860 I need one.
00:10:56.860 I'm not going to answer like that.
00:10:57.860 I'm not going to answer like that.
00:10:58.860 I'm not going to answer like that.
00:10:59.860 I'm not going to answer like that.
00:11:00.860 It's not really a yes or no question because it does depend on the circumstance.
00:11:01.860 Can I answer that?
00:11:02.860 Okay, sure.
00:11:03.860 Marrying a rich man.
00:11:04.860 Okay.
00:11:05.860 Thank you.
00:11:06.860 Thank you.
00:11:07.860 Or an attractive woman who wins her own money.
00:11:08.860 That's also good.
00:11:09.860 So, I mean, she can do that too.
00:11:11.860 I'm allowed to have my own opinion though.
00:11:12.860 So, I think that attractive woman should marry a rich man. 0.88
00:11:16.860 Why the fuck do you need to do work if someone could do it for you?
00:11:19.860 To be honest.
00:11:20.860 Do you not like being independent?
00:11:22.860 You can be independent, but that's where you're brainwashed and then you're single when
00:11:26.860 you're 45 and then you're wishing you did it.
00:11:28.860 Oh mate, I've got so many guys in my DMs like I won't be single.
00:11:31.860 Yeah, because if you marry a rich guy, that doesn't like mean that he loves you.
00:11:37.860 And also, if you marry a rich guy, then he's just going to think, oh, you have to do this,
00:11:43.860 you have to do that, like just because he gives you money.
00:11:45.860 You can pay for a chef.
00:11:46.860 I mean, he's taking care of me.
00:11:48.860 He's not really handing it to me.
00:11:50.860 A man that has money doesn't mean that he takes care of you.
00:11:52.860 I mean, do you expect guys to do anything for you in a relationship?
00:11:57.860 No.
00:11:58.860 You don't expect them to take you on dates?
00:12:00.860 He's licking me out once in a while, but that's not it.
00:12:03.860 Well.
00:12:04.860 Don't you think a relationship should be about two people putting an effort together?
00:12:07.860 A hundred percent.
00:12:09.860 But in case, it's two different types of efforts.
00:12:11.860 Yes.
00:12:12.860 Women are way more emotional and I'm not here to provide for my man and take him on dates. 1.00
00:12:16.860 That's good.
00:12:17.860 And he's going to take me on the dates.
00:12:19.860 It's just how it works.
00:12:20.860 I feel like men and women are different.
00:12:22.860 They're not the same.
00:12:23.860 I don't give a shit what anyone says.
00:12:24.860 And that's the facts.
00:12:25.860 Yeah.
00:12:26.860 No, I agree with you though.
00:12:27.860 Yeah.
00:12:28.860 One is a cock, one is a pussy. 1.00
00:12:29.860 And you're a girl or a boy.
00:12:30.860 And that's exactly where it starts.
00:12:31.860 Yeah.
00:12:32.860 That's exactly where it starts.
00:12:33.860 But my whole point is, I just think as a group, we don't make the best decisions.
00:12:36.860 No.
00:12:37.860 And I'll, you know.
00:12:38.860 Well, women. 1.00
00:12:39.860 Yeah, as women. 0.59
00:12:40.860 Cause we all could have, we all could have like at 22, just like married rich, you know?
00:12:45.860 Don't you think that's a bit superficial?
00:12:47.860 Very.
00:12:48.860 Why would you not just want to be rich yourself?
00:12:50.860 Exactly.
00:12:51.860 Well, then where's the female Elon Musk? 1.00
00:12:54.860 We can't figure it out.
00:12:55.860 You know what's funny?
00:12:57.860 The top OnlyFans models tend to work for men.
00:13:00.860 That's true.
00:13:01.860 That manage them.
00:13:02.860 So we can't even figure out how to sell sex better.
00:13:04.860 Like most of the time when women. 1.00
00:13:05.860 Because we're useless.
00:13:06.860 Most of the time when women sort of. 1.00
00:13:08.860 We're useless bitches. 1.00
00:13:09.860 You know, honestly, nowadays, kind of.
00:13:11.860 You know, most women that make a lot of money monetize beauty in some way. 1.00
00:13:15.860 So we think we're so much smarter, but you're really just monetizing beauty.
00:13:18.860 No, that is smart.
00:13:19.860 That's why feminism makes no sense. 1.00
00:13:20.860 It's smart for women to monetize the beauty if that's the only thing they've got to work 1.00
00:13:23.860 on.
00:13:24.860 Some of us have only got one thing to work with and it's this.
00:13:26.860 Well, well, but that's the point.
00:13:28.860 It's like we could have married rich, but most girls, we don't think of that.
00:13:31.860 And I'm like, you know.
00:13:32.860 Most rich guys, like you don't, I don't really think like most rich guys are attractive.
00:13:37.860 I know.
00:13:38.860 I don't want to go.
00:13:39.860 I could never get with a guy just because they have money.
00:13:41.860 They're not fit and they have a big company.
00:13:42.860 But you could marry.
00:13:43.860 You could marry.
00:13:44.860 Yeah.
00:13:45.860 I was like, you could marry average too.
00:13:46.860 Huh?
00:13:47.860 I was just using rich as an example.
00:13:48.860 You could marry average and he could provide you a middle class lifestyle.
00:13:52.860 I don't want a middle class lifestyle.
00:13:54.860 Also rich guys.
00:13:55.860 That's the point is women nowadays, we pick materialism over a family. 1.00