JustPearlyThings - Protection is a MAN'S RESPONSIBILITY

00:00:00.000 is protection a right or a privilege and i would want everyone to go around and say yes and you

00:00:05.940 could say why um no because right is it a right or a privilege oh i think it's a privilege okay

00:00:14.820 um because certainly people don't get protected um if they do certain things and to be honest i 0.96

00:00:21.620 don't think anyone deserves it you know if you act like a dick and someone's a bang in the face 0.88

00:00:26.380 i'm not going to protect you so you know like it's just it's one of them ones it's a privilege 0.96

00:00:30.700 that some people get and some people don't yeah i would agree that it's a privilege

00:00:35.300 yeah it's a privilege you have to earn it and by the decisions you make whether it's the streets

00:00:40.920 you walk down or where you live whatever yeah i would also say it is a privilege because the way

00:00:48.420 i see a right a right is something that's automatic so if i have to compel someone to do something

00:00:54.920 then it can't necessarily be a right um so if someone is going to protect me i'm i'm in a

00:01:00.760 privileged position i think it's a privilege um i think when it comes down to it whatever we're

00:01:09.400 dealing with uh nobody can protect us better than ourselves so if we're expecting someone else to

00:01:16.860 protect us we're abdicating our own responsibility to protect ourselves um at that i mean at that point

00:01:23.820 then we have to realize okay are we what are we surrendering to other people are we just going

00:01:30.420 to live our life letting someone else do our dirty work so i think if we expect someone else to protect

00:01:35.940 us we're just being lazy honest yeah i'm gonna agree as well i think it's a privilege you're not

00:01:44.540 no one own owes you that no one owes you to be to protect you and it's funny because you said

00:01:50.420 pearl in the uh when you went interviewing people i think you mentioned that uh men get attacked as

00:01:56.400 well there's like a there's a higher percentage of men being attacked and back in my day in my day

00:02:02.500 still my day uh i'm still young uh back when i was younger at least i was in a band and very extreme

00:02:09.020 looks like big hair and makeup and all that stuff and i used to get bitten up all the time we used to

00:02:13.620 get followed around so it's it's true like women think they are the only ones who are vulnerable 1.00

00:02:18.140 they're the only ones who are being chased by men and follow around but it's not true i used to get

00:02:22.540 bitten up all the time so i take that do you think it's a man's duty to protect um his girlfriend or

00:02:31.900 wife yes girlfriend or wife okay yeah you have to you know that's because one if you don't she's most 0.99

00:02:40.000 likely gonna leave you and two you know why would you want why would you be okay with your girl or wife

00:02:46.320 being in danger if you can stop it from happening or at least help the situation

00:02:50.960 come back to me come back to me

00:02:56.280 it's a hard one i definitely think so if your woman's if you know if that's the woman you picked 1.00

00:03:03.500 and she's in your corner you gotta have her back come what may so yeah

00:03:07.980 yeah i think if you even look like biologically like the way a man is built he's he tends to be

00:03:16.600 most of the time stronger faster quicker and so like just by that advantage he has he sort of is in

00:03:24.880 a better position to protect his wife or woman or even kids so i would say that's a that's a

00:03:31.460 responsibility that men have women can also protect themselves but um a man should protect yeah

00:03:38.020 i believe that a man should protect his wife as the mother of his child outside of that no 0.80

00:03:49.360 exactly that's what i was thinking and and that's and i might disagree with you no no disrespect but i

00:03:57.120 might disagree with you on the fact that because he has more physical ability that obligates him

00:04:03.760 to protect because what if the world's war was reversed what if she's a female bodybuilder and he's 0.58

00:04:11.940 just a you know a dude that works in an office does she now have that obligation to protect because 1.00

00:04:19.040 she's the one more in a position to physically repel the attack i think it as a man regardless of

00:04:29.940 circumstances if this is my woman this is the woman that prepares my meals this is the woman that's 1.00

00:04:35.780 taking care of my child i don't want anything to happen to that woman because i want to make sure that 0.97

00:04:41.500 my home is still there tomorrow so if anybody comes and threatens her they got a problem with me

00:04:45.720 but if she's just my girlfriend she's a girl that i take you know we go drinks we have some fun 0.82

00:04:52.380 but then doesn't a woman have to be your girlfriend before becoming your wife so what if she's someone 1.00

00:04:57.280 you want to be your wife and then what would you just let her get beat up because she's not your 1.00

00:05:01.980 wife yet but with pearl's question ask it what was the original question um what did i say is it

00:05:09.740 a duty yeah is it a duty to protect your wife or girlfriend as a girlfriend i wouldn't say it's a

00:05:15.760 duty like he needs to i say he can in certain situations he can but as a wife it's his duty

00:05:22.640 because he's in a now committed relationship because he is married to her but this is what i'm asking

00:05:29.460 because you know it's like that question when people say oh can you give wife benefits before you're

00:05:34.080 a wife right so the benefit of being married is that it's my duty to protect you right if i don't

00:05:39.640 do it beforehand i'm guessing you won't marry me when i propose it's the duty word that it is like

00:05:45.740 you can you definitely can but if i put myself in a situation where i am i'm deserving of what comes to

00:05:52.580 me it's not your duty to protect me because i put myself in that situation and in that sense i agree

00:05:59.300 with you i think the word duty is what kind of gets me like i think it's our default as men to

00:06:04.720 be protective but duty i don't know i don't think anyone should have duties you know it's not

00:06:10.740 jobs like what's a woman's duty then i mean i i think a woman has certain duties in the relationship 1.00

00:06:16.860 but you know i agree i agree with you i don't disagree but it's the word duty that i don't know if

00:06:23.240 i will if i would choose that word that's all i agree with both of you actually

00:06:26.980 um i believe that dating is practice for marriage okay so if i want that woman to marry me or want to 0.93

00:06:36.700 marry me i'm going to treat her in a way that gives her a preview of what it's going to be like to be

00:06:42.460 married to me so if i just be like she even if she's a total trash right even if she gets really 1.00

00:06:49.960 drunk and just starts a fight with some guy at the bar and if i just met the girl i'd be like

00:06:56.900 okay see you later nice to meet you i'm out but if this was my woman i've been with her for like 1.00

00:07:05.160 two three years you know we're maybe talking about marriage and there's no way i know her family

00:07:13.300 i'm responsible to her dad okay now this dumb girl i gotta pull her out of here what am i gonna do 0.95

00:07:21.120 so then i'm thinking about it then i feel the sense of duty like i have a responsibility to not 1.00

00:07:28.240 just her but other people that want her to get home okay even if she's being an idiot so question 0.99

00:07:34.700 for the panel why is it okay for a woman to feel entitled to be protected and provided for but it's 1.00

00:07:40.780 wrong for a man to feel entitled to sex and intimacy 0.99

00:07:43.980 there you go 0.98

00:07:47.440 it's that word duty like is it your duty to have sex with me as a as a wife or as a partner yeah i think 0.54

00:07:54.780 so if i'm married to dude yeah i would like that but i don't know if it would be like a duty like

00:07:59.900 oh if you don't do that i i don't know like it's just the word you wouldn't you wouldn't want to

00:08:03.960 expect it okay you wouldn't want your wife to have sex with you whenever you want it yeah but if 1.00

00:08:10.160 look if she told me like look i'm not feeling 100 today i would not be like no have sex i mean yeah 0.96

00:08:15.580 you can have an off day at your job but your job is still like you can have a day where you you're

00:08:21.060 off and you feel sick your boss might say okay it's fine but it's still your job exactly look if

00:08:25.620 she kept doing it be like okay what's what's going on here yeah you're not attractive i would

00:08:29.100 question you're not attracted to me are you doing what what's the reason why yeah but if she 1.00

00:08:33.180 obviously did it like for a few days a week maybe i don't see it as a dude

JustPearlyThings - April 13, 2023

Protection is a MAN'S RESPONSIBILITY

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