00:37:39.120I think if they start taking away some of these government benefits for women, I think we're going to see a huge influx in the amount of women on sex, doing sex work.
00:38:12.820I mean, that's a whole different mode, isn't it?
00:38:13.440Well, the shoot, yeah, because the Instagram stuff, I mean, you don't even need to officially be, well, I mean, you know more about this than me, but you don't officially need to be on a sugar site.
00:38:24.000Because if you're getting guys flying into DMs anyway, saying, hey, come to Miami or whatever, and I'll pay the ticket.
00:38:30.780And, you know, then that, yeah, it's happening.
00:38:33.880And it's clear, it's clearly happening because you look at these women and you can see.
00:39:07.360And I don't think, I mean, in a way, I don't think it's, how can I put this?
00:39:13.900I don't think it's a terrible thing if it does become more transactional because I think the transactional nature of it has always been there to some extent.
00:39:21.560It is a masculine, you know, people say, oh, you're simping beta, you know, you're paying and all that kind of shit.
00:39:27.960But the reality is that, well, as I think it was Sartain said, you know, money is a proxy for competency, right?
00:39:36.800Women are fine, fine, fine, fine, uh, competency and men attractive.
00:39:41.140And look, at the end of the day, what's more fun?
00:39:44.180If you've got two dudes of equal, like, attractiveness or physicality or whatever, and one is saying, hey, let's go to, let's go to Italy for the weekend.
00:42:36.060I don't know if it's true or not, but that's like, it was on this Twitter account that got, so don't quote me.
00:42:43.660But I think it was like a pull on the things that like men value.
00:42:49.060I mean, outside of being thin, it was like boobs was like the next one.
00:42:53.540I think that's somewhat dependent on the guy.
00:42:56.520I mean, I think some guys, you know, value it more than others.
00:42:59.100But again, on that Chris Williamson thing, again, with Piers Morgan, one of the things he was saying was that one of the problems you've got in modern society is that if you look at like movies and stuff like that, women are always seen as being immediately perfect.
00:43:12.640And he quoted some film examples, which I forget, but he was basically saying, look, she's already perfect.
00:43:17.360And the only reason she's facing any adversity is because of the patriarchy or the outside society.
00:43:21.860And he said, that's not a very empowering message for women because the message isn't we'll go to the gym or work on this or do that for the most part.
00:43:29.320Now, the message for guys, as we know, is that, you know, the message is, no, get in shape, lift, fucking get your money up, get your style up, you know, all that kind of stuff.
00:43:37.600And in a way, I think for men, that's a good thing because it has encouraged, well, not all of us, but it's encouraged a lot of us to do those things.
00:43:44.380And I just think as a human being, it's good to do those things.
00:43:46.580Yeah. So if you were going to make a self-improvement course for women, what would, so obviously one is fitness.
00:44:06.280It's got to, there's got to be some sort of beauty component, hasn't there?
00:44:08.800There's got to be dressing for your body shirt.
00:44:10.500I mean, I mean, Brittany Bendy sees this, you know, but, but, you know, a lot of, unfortunately, a lot of it for women is, is, is physical.
00:44:18.800But, but what about some of the more mental things?
00:44:20.740Well, I think, I think, I mean, you, you, you've said yourself like women, you know, why don't women learn some kind of a useful trade that isn't only fans?
00:44:29.840You know, why don't they learn how to, I don't know, code or learn how to like, like, so that they've got some sort of a skill set that isn't just based within their looks, you know, because even if she gets married and she has a kid, maybe this is, there's, there's something she can do, you know, some kind of business on the side.
00:44:45.200I mean, that doesn't seem to get encouraged very much, you know, and then I suppose you've got the spiritual practices, but they do, they do get pushed a bit, don't they?
00:44:54.800But you're, I mean, it's, you know, the mindfulness and all that shit, you're probably not on board with that, you know, but.
00:44:58.820Well, I'm, I would be on, on board with it if there was like real ones, which is most of them are just, I just haven't found many that really have substance.
00:45:08.600I think a lot of women, not a lot of women, some women that I've dated actually, they actually don't do very much, you know, and with the greatest respect, you know, they get up, they look at a bit of social media, they watch some Netflix.
00:45:22.100Sometimes they exercise, sometimes they don't, they're not very disciplined with that, they're, they're sort of, that it would be, in my humble opinion, I think it'd be better if they had just more shit going on.
00:45:34.420So it's like, okay, because like the fundamentals of my life, like I, I always like to exercise, I like to train every day, I like to do some, some meaningful work, I like to read, or at least listen to audio books.
00:45:43.720I like to, you know, what else? I don't know, like, obviously take care of fashion, shit like that. Like, I think there are certain pillars that I think men have, and money as well, getting your money up.
00:45:54.900Now for women, that's, in theory, less necessary, because you're, you're waiting for the guy who's going to come and pick up the tap.
00:46:01.640But even so, I just think for having a meaningful life, if you could get some of those pillars in place and work towards those, because you must be happy, because I mean, you, you know, you've got a, you've got a job, you're doing, you're doing cool stuff in media.
00:46:13.580I mean, surely that must bring you some satisfaction above.
00:46:16.680Absolutely. But I think, I think what I always say to women is that you should, because I get a lot of messages on Instagram, TikTok saying, how do I act busy? How do I make him see that I'm busy? And I'm like, no, no, no, you're not meant to be acting like you're busy. Actually get busy.
00:46:34.940Start doing things in your life. You know, cultivate yourself, inspire yourself, go and learn a hobby, you know, learn a skill. I don't know. Do something with yourself and make something of yourself so that you actually are busy.
00:46:48.520And then you're not sitting there checking your phone to see if he's texted you or, because when you're busy, you're not checking your phone. I promise you, you're not checking your phone all the time.
00:46:56.060You know, or take up some kind of creative pursuit, if you're like writing or painting or something.
00:47:01.060Yeah, like a passion project or something.
00:47:02.440Yeah, it just seems like, I'm not saying every woman, but I've certainly, you know, dealt with some women and it seems like behind the nice Instagram facade, there's just not a lot going on.
00:47:14.460Yeah, because the thing is with those type of women is that it's all about the image. It's how do I appear on social media.
00:47:23.900If I had to redo my 20s, I would become a personal trainer at like 21. I feel like if you're in your early, no, no, because hear me out. If you're 18 or like, what's college really going to do? I think that college, you kind of learn nothing.
00:47:38.680So it's like, what is the one skill that'll benefit women for a lifetime, whether it's dating, you could go into even if you let's say you want to be a businesswoman, your looks. So you should max that out. Like, you should, like 17, 18, or, you know, when you're in your early 20s, I would get a job at fitness.
00:47:59.040Yeah, to start anyways, and you can get a job and whatever later.
00:48:02.800It reminds me of those, you know, those Abercrombie Fitch models in the stores. They had to be very, very good looking and just aesthetically pleasing to get that job.
00:48:14.040I think even with fitness, though, I mean, there are a lot of women and they do work out and they are very disciplined and that's great. But I also think there are some women who kind of don't because they can sort of, well, no, because they can kind of coast because they're great.
00:48:27.700You know, it's like, okay, it's fine now, but you want to set that foundation, really. And also, it's better for your mental health as well. You know?
00:48:37.020Yeah, I just think, I don't know. I feel like beauty is subjective because what could be beautiful to you may not be beautiful to Myron, for example. I don't know.
00:48:50.380Even if it's different men or even if it's different races and stuff, men still rate the same, like they did an experiment where they had men submit celebrities that they found attractive and it was the same sort of face shape.
00:49:07.200Even if it was like a different race, it was still like the same eye width apart. It was still the same like lip.
00:49:12.500Yeah, but I think when we're speaking about this, I think what we're trying to say is like different guys have different specs.
00:49:33.460Like try to fix these things about yourself so that you can be the best version of yourself because, and then, you know, you do stand a chance of meeting someone.
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