JustPearlyThings - Why Can’t Most Women Be Happy For Their Husband's Success

00:00:00.000 believe in freedom of speech truly but if you say the wrong thing you say the wrong word whatever

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00:00:58.260 you don't have to but feel free anyway so today we have a lot of stories going on

00:01:03.740 and sometimes i just look at this world of craziness and i think about the world i grew up in

00:01:13.440 versus now and i realize traditionalism has been gone since before i was born

00:01:21.480 now to be fair i would say most people i grew up around were married

00:01:26.820 and maybe half stayed married so most of my childhood people were married you know if they

00:01:35.100 weren't married the first time they got remarried but when you think of the idea of monogamy you know

00:01:40.760 it's dead i mean one partner for a lifetime i just do not see that anymore i i i may be one-off

00:01:51.840 couples here and there but they're still young most of them um and one other thing that i realized is

00:01:59.380 also dead is privacy it is becoming more and more difficult to remain an anonymous individual online

00:02:09.040 because everywhere you go is recorded um really you can go to the street someone comes up to you

00:02:19.900 ask you a question boom you could be a viral sensation look at the omala whatever concert guy

00:02:26.740 this is just a man minding his business going with his girlfriend to a concert and do you know what

00:02:34.600 happens he becomes a meme forever forever just all he was doing was going to a concert with his

00:02:44.640 girlfriend but alas so now the couple that reminded me of this is a couple that i've actually i i'm not

00:02:54.180 on tiktok i've been banned too many times and then when i would go on tiktok i would just see like

00:02:59.700 pearl hit like just all these women triggered over me and i'm like guys you're ruining my

00:03:04.880 app experience but i am back i did make a post today anyway it doesn't matter but there's a couple

00:03:10.620 that's on tiktok called matt nabby and matt nabby have a couples channel um where they document their

00:03:18.980 journeys with their children and as a couple and maybe when i was younger i guess i didn't

00:03:23.700 really see a problem with this i guess but the older i get the more i see that i mean couples

00:03:32.280 channels really just never work out they never work out and i i would warn parents against putting

00:03:40.800 their children on the internet you don't know what weird psychos there are out there it's one thing

00:03:47.020 when they're old enough to make their own decision right you know but i don't know if it's the best idea

00:03:53.500 to have all of this private information about your kids and your personal life online one thing that

00:03:59.860 i really respect about candace owens for example i have no idea what her children look like i don't

00:04:06.480 if she has them it's maybe a one-off thing you know i i know they did a couple podcasts with her and her

00:04:15.080 husband when they first got married but none of it was anything super crazy they didn't circulate their

00:04:21.060 content around that because i think when you get to that point you're really sacrificing your

00:04:27.300 children's right to grow up in privacy but it's going to be so interesting because i mean it's it's

00:04:35.520 a whole new world where now you can google almost anybody and figure out all you need to know about

00:04:40.820 their parents their siblings whatever i mean i have people stalk my family all the time and harass you

00:04:47.660 know send you know stuff towards them so it's interesting because we really are losing privacy

00:04:56.380 as a society so it's interesting because when i was younger we almost lost marriage monogamy in a way

00:05:03.300 you know i was part of that generational change and now we're losing privacy so this couple got into

00:05:12.120 some hot water now i'm reading that the first controversial video was matt was cleaning the

00:05:19.640 house so it's matt abby i think they have one to two kids

00:05:25.400 okay is it going

00:05:29.320 okay don't be fooled by me picking up my house because i'm not typically the one that does and don't be

00:05:34.360 fooled by me taking care of my son because most of the time my wife doesn't have to abby really wanted to 0.99

00:05:38.600 go to the gym tonight so i'm on griffin duty and i wanted to surprise her with a clean house when she 0.99

00:05:42.440 got home in our relationship we naturally take on more traditional marital roles and i don't think

00:05:46.600 there's anything wrong with that and despite what the internet says there's absolutely nothing wrong 0.97

00:05:50.840 with microwaving breast milk just kidding that was really dumb i am so sorry for making that stupid

00:05:55.800 joke getting the bottle feed griffin turned out to be a treat because it was something that i hadn't 0.83

00:05:58.840 gotten to do in a while when he was a newborn it was my job to feed him when he woke up at night but now

00:06:02.520 that he's gotten older he really doesn't do that as much anymore i actually spend most of my time with him now

00:06:06.200 just going because then he'll make really cute noises back to me and it melts my heart now i'm

00:06:11.000 going to apologize in advance to abby because i really do not know where her stuff goes the most

00:06:15.320 in the closet and griffin tried to rip my nipple off abby came home a bit earlier than i was expecting 0.93

00:06:19.320 which kind of ruined the surprise she didn't really have a whole lot of time to look around though

00:06:22.680 because she had to get right to pumping so i rushed to finish up the job it's kind of funny how

00:06:26.440 when you've been married a while something as simple as cleaning can go a really long way i'm not a

00:06:31.240 perfect person and there's definitely things i can do to improve so okay so apparently tiktok was

00:06:39.080 outraged they were outraged at a man

00:06:45.080 who does whose wife does the majority of the chores now this used to be standard but for some reason

00:06:50.600 women feel that it is offensive that they have to work and do chores here i was thinking that 1.00

00:06:56.600 everybody does chores i mean how do you take care of yourself like why do we why do we and it's very

00:07:07.160 nice of her to do that for her husband why are people criticizing something that is working you know

00:07:14.920 for them okay so apparently they were mad about this but the next video that goes viral now

00:07:26.600 why do women ask questions that we don't want answers to 1.00

00:07:35.400 if you ask a man a question 0.75

00:07:41.400 and the answer hurts your feelings but this is something that i think we need to bring back it's

00:07:47.560 called taking the l

00:07:53.640 because sometimes you ask a question like do i look fat in this dress yes yes

00:08:04.360 and you're like ouch that hurt

00:08:08.600 but you asked you know what what did you what did you think was gonna happen what is that

00:08:17.560 is that crazy is that okay anyway so she asked a question that i i don't and to be fair to be

00:08:27.240 fair she was not the one offended she was not the internet was offended but everyone's saying she

00:08:32.840 was abused or all this terrible stuff because he answered a question honestly okay that they chose to

00:08:41.240 put online i'm i'm pretty sure their stuff's edited does it feel different down there after birth yeah

00:08:48.120 actually i feel like it goes back but it doesn't go back to exactly how we talked about this the other

00:08:53.960 day and i was kind of surprised to hear you say that you never told me until i asked you i always

00:08:57.960 heard oh it goes back to normal but it doesn't go back to exactly the way it was before so um maybe i

00:09:03.960 shouldn't go into too much detail we can go we can say whatever you still like it after i still

00:09:08.840 like it of course you like it as much i would say so that doesn't sound

00:09:13.560 and he was trying to lie he was trying to lie but it just wasn't

00:09:31.320 look we just gotta stop stop asking these questions i think that's the solution here this is a bit

00:09:36.360 tmi for the internet you know but anyway so the comment section weighs in and they say

00:09:46.760 i love how all this man does is passively aggressively i love how all this man does is

00:09:54.520 passive aggressively bring down his wife now i want to say that this is projection

00:10:01.480 this is most certainly projection because men don't do that

00:10:06.920 men communicate very directly when they say something they mean it there's not all these

00:10:12.200 hidden meanings and sometimes we think as women that men communicate like we do

00:10:18.520 and they do not no they do not um so that's her projecting i'm sure i'm gonna get eaten alive for

00:10:27.720 saying anything except how amazing it is but all his song um oh we have to do number three hold on

00:10:36.360 i oh i was okay um

00:10:46.200 we want to try to if it like refers to a video i want to try to get the comment like with the video

00:10:51.240 you know what i'm saying blessing um okay but i'll do the video okay so then guys the last one

00:10:59.880 the last one is

00:11:02.360 matt over here releases a song

00:11:12.520 he releases a song now

00:11:13.880 now

00:11:18.920 now the internet is freaking out i guess this song is being passive aggressive towards his wife

00:11:24.600 give me your bad days mistakes losing you cool and your library books that are long overdue

00:11:33.480 when you're breaking apart i'll be the glue to your mess at least i'll try my best so give me yours

00:11:43.160 okay and now the and this is what i call reaching

00:11:54.760 this is what i okay because and i have to pull up okay i'm sure i'm going to get eaten alive for

00:12:00.440 saying anything except how amazing it is but all of his love songs are about abby's faults not his

00:12:05.960 he jokes about cheating on her they don't have a healthy relationship now this is what i call women 1.00

00:12:12.120 wanting us to fail i know a guy did not make that comment

00:12:19.000 another girl weighs in hannah rose she says why are people being so mean this is a representation of

00:12:24.520 love it's realistic you're growing old with your best friend two independent separate unique people are

00:12:29.720 joining their lives together forever or at least that's the goal a couple a lot of couples go

00:12:35.640 through the whole trying to navigate two people living in a space big enough for one child and that

00:12:41.320 adds to the strain that there are ebbs and flows when it comes to finances jobs mental health families

00:12:46.920 and much more okay so

00:12:55.640 all right guys so here here's the problem here's the problem

00:12:59.720 women want each other to fail and women always police each other's speech patterns what happens 1.00

00:13:07.880 is the men say something and it's honest blunt or direct and the women we don't like honesty we love 0.61

00:13:15.640 being lied to it's why we got the botox all the caked on makeup it i mean most of being female 1.00

00:13:23.240 existence is deception how many women have bbls boob job i mean this is becoming the norm even if you don't 1.00

00:13:29.160 do any of that filters jesus like you know how many times girls come up came on the show and i would 1.00

00:13:36.440 see their instagram it didn't even look like the same person so women love to be lied to so then what 0.97

00:13:41.880 will happen is even if a couple's getting along whatever the friends will come in and say he shouldn't

00:13:47.720 talk to you like that and then boom you know what we have a problem an issue um

00:13:59.240 now i guess there is another video

00:14:04.280 here's another one surprising my wife with the saddest song i have ever written about feeling empty inside

00:14:10.840 i wrote the song about feeling empty inside i'm wondering if i'm depressed i can't be right it

00:14:19.640 don't make sense i'm no doctor but that's not like me i'll put a smile on my face and play the part to

00:14:29.080 i hide the pain because there's a couple kids in the back seat it's funny how you think you know just

00:14:37.080 what you want when you're eight years dressing up the spider-man it's funny how i haven't really changed

00:14:46.760 got my age because i'm still trying the best i can okay you know how women 1.00

00:15:15.000 say to be vulnerable not her but the internet kind of shows how women often react to men being

00:15:22.920 vulnerable about their feelings he comes out he said he's having a hard time because and i think

00:15:28.760 people go through this in their 20s maybe 30s where you get to a point where you get everything that you

00:15:34.280 want and you know it's we're entitled we're americans it's not enough you know

00:15:41.560 so this is that's my point that's my point um i think we're gonna go on to the next topic but

00:15:54.680 this is what i mean people just get so mad over nothing and i just i see these couples channels

00:16:03.000 and what tends to happen is they just the internet gives problems that they didn't originally have

00:16:11.640 they always break up they always divorce it is just not a healthy place for kids to be raised and i

00:16:18.600 don't recommend it okay so give me a second guys um

00:16:29.800 okay oh i am excited to talk about this i am excited to talk about this so apparently twitter was broken

00:16:41.720 twitter was broken because women cannot be made fun of on the internet so there was a guy that posted

00:16:51.320 why don't men want western women okay and he posted a video with it where

00:16:57.480 they're okay and this is the video okay

00:17:07.240 i need some water

00:17:09.240 i need some water

00:17:11.240 i need some water

00:17:13.240 i need some water

00:17:15.240 i need some water

00:17:17.240 i don't

00:17:25.960 is

00:17:35.160 hey

00:17:45.000 okay so what happened here women posted something on the internet for attention 1.00

00:17:56.760 fine i nobody's stopping you men built the internet for us to post all right well not for

00:18:04.840 us but men men built the internet nobody stopped from posting right then we get a bunch of cry baby 0.88

00:18:13.160 women complaining about being made fun of none of you women were going on tangents when the men men 0.59

00:18:21.560 are made fun of all the time they're made fun of for being incels a lot a lot of you a lot of you

00:18:28.120 tradcon women that were upset that these women were being made fun of i mean they're dancing badly 1.00

00:18:34.280 and what happens when you post dancing badly on the internet and then everybody's trying to again

00:18:39.880 this is going back to women always police speech patterns so when men start making fun of them 0.62

00:18:50.680 where's the original one of them getting made fun of but okay well

00:19:01.000 there's but okay i saw it on twitter though guys there there was like three different people that

00:19:06.280 came out and they're all they're all dunking on these chicks they're all saying basically saying

00:19:12.120 these women are not wife material and that's fine they're allowed to feel like that and everybody 1.00

00:19:17.800 all the women are arguing they're all getting mad because the men are making fun of them

00:19:23.800 guys it's a cool it's a cruel hard world you're on you're on the internet i mean i get made fun of

00:19:30.760 every day of every day of my life um so if you post for attention you got it here you go here you go okay

00:19:41.160 guys so the next section we're going to talk about um oh okay let me pull this up so guys i i find it so

00:19:57.400 interesting okay i find it so interesting that

00:20:11.000 traditional conservatives believe in holding men accountable they don't believe that it's okay

00:20:20.600 for a man to be broke they don't believe that it's okay for a man to not take care of his family

00:20:27.400 they don't believe it's okay for a man to be out of shape and if a man is fat broke and lazy

00:20:38.120 they have no problem telling him that but if a woman is fat broke and lazy in a 304 1.00

00:20:46.920 it's always she was lied to 0.74

00:20:51.160 if a man is a criminal

00:20:53.080 was he lied to if he's 16 let's just say and he does an armed robbery

00:21:03.160 was he lied to or did he want to commit a crime

00:21:08.920 when women are 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25

00:21:14.520 and make a poor decision it's always because feminism 1.00

00:21:23.560 lied to us

00:21:25.560 now to be fair i probably had this same opinion at one point but the more i thought about it the more

00:21:32.840 i thought about how different women make completely different decisions 1.00

00:21:36.920 i know women at 22 that got married i actually know women younger than that that got married

00:21:45.560 because that's what they wanted to do and when people have the most choice

00:21:50.920 i i mean you see what they want to do but if women choose 1.00

00:21:57.960 to go crazy it's just so interesting how trad cons always blame feminism who created feminism 0.58

00:22:11.880 who pushed it who agreed to it who voted for it women and i know they'll say some men too

00:22:20.200 if all men voted the last hundred years would have been completely conservative 0.76

00:22:27.400 everyone said i was crazy when i said women shouldn't vote 1.00

00:22:32.440 anyway so i saw this reaction and i wanted to point out the speech pattern i'm gonna go

00:22:39.880 it's wrong so bad but my boyfriend just wants a monogamous relationship it's 2024 expecting to be

00:22:46.120 with one person for your entire life is like unreasonable i'm a young 18 year old latina i'm

00:22:51.800 trying to get my face blasted by multiple men okay that actually is like the most heartbreaking

00:22:56.840 thing i've ever heard how is it possible that we have indoctrinated an entire generation of women 0.99

00:23:04.600 and and this language is subtle but notice

00:23:09.000 what if what if there was this 18 year old guy saying you know what i just want to steal

00:23:16.120 i want to rob stores i just want to steal would i wonder if she would have the same point of view 0.92

00:23:22.840 where she said well we've indoctrinated an entire generation of men to think stealing is okay

00:23:31.160 what about when men cheat

00:23:34.520 well we've indoctrinated an entire generation of men to think cheating's okay why is it when women 0.87

00:23:41.560 do the wrong thing it's always somebody else's fault okay and nothing personal against her

00:23:48.120 she seems like a nice woman it just grinds my gears it grinds my gears 1.00

00:23:56.600 when we are always always always always blaming the men and when women we can't take accountability for 0.50

00:24:04.840 poor decisions to actually believe they have more value and they will be happier because they want

00:24:11.960 to be passed around to as many men as possible it blows my mind i think that those women i think she's 1.00

00:24:20.600 happy doing what she's doing now when the consequences come which this digital footprint

00:24:27.640 and it might be fake i don't know but let's say it's real there's gonna be i mean no guy's gonna

00:24:35.160 take her seriously after that so there there are consequences right but this idea that women aren't 1.00

00:24:45.240 happy doing that women don't like the consequences but there are women that are hypersexual and that's 1.00

00:24:51.240 just what they want to do simultaneously we live in a culture that condemns the objectification of

00:24:58.040 women but then at the same time we've convinced women that the only way to be empowered the only way to 1.00

00:25:03.160 be free the only way to be liberated from the bondages of such a culture is to want to be objectified is

00:25:09.080 to want to be passed i think this is a fundamental fundamental misunderstanding of women 0.52

00:25:15.640 women like being objectified now please please i need to get a button that says not all women are 0.99

00:25:30.520 and i say this because i look at i look outside okay i look at where the world is going

00:25:36.280 and when women have choice you know when i was in vegas there were women with stickers 1.00

00:25:41.080 on their boobs i couldn't even believe it that's what they wanted to do they weren't crying about

00:25:48.280 objectification until they couldn't get the attention from being objectified anymore that's when they start 0.79

00:25:54.200 crying about it around and used for your body i don't know who needs to hear this today but you are

00:25:59.640 worthy of so much more than that you are worth i don't think she is

00:26:04.840 no no you she probably is right because she's like a a pretty young normal chick 1.00

00:26:19.720 i mean that's on the internet forever what what is she going to be worth at this point

00:26:27.080 i mean you know we and all of history there's always been concubines they have a place 1.00

00:26:31.880 they have a don't shoot the messenger okay a man who will cherish you who will respect you

00:26:42.760 that's over for her yeah and even if she finds him she won't respect him anyway

00:26:49.480 so i mean clearly she has one she doesn't respect him so it doesn't matter women get men that cherish

00:26:56.840 them all the time and they don't treat him well so you not use you

00:27:12.840 yeah so i just i need to see the simping stop

00:27:17.320 really and truly i i need to see the simping go away because

00:27:26.360 all i see now is just excuses and it's like okay

00:27:33.480 how are we gonna oh my boyfriend how are we gonna paint the chick saying she wants to be passed 0.97

00:27:38.200 around does a girl lie to by feminism she's telling you exactly what she wants to do 1.00

00:27:44.520 i just can't it all drives me nuts so you know it is what it is okay last but not wait i wanted to go

00:27:57.960 oh yeah there's comments okay

00:28:04.200 i am getting confused um

00:28:14.520 hold on guys yeah so her

00:28:23.800 okay so she said feminism has destroyed women's sense of inherent value and worth by convincing us 1.00

00:28:30.760 that we'll be happier and liberated by being passed around with as many men as possible

00:28:36.600 again notice this language feminism has destroyed it not women not you made your bed lie in it 1.00

00:28:45.720 it's feminism has lied to you and you still deserve a man who will cherish you 1.00

00:28:51.640 and then we act surprised when we we live in a culture and society that objectifies women 1.00

00:28:58.600 think about this who is the culture for

00:29:05.560 women make up 80 percent of consumer buying decisions 1.00

00:29:10.040 when you look at media meant for males sure in transformers there will be a hot chick there'll be 1.00

00:29:16.360 a megan fox but i would argue that the culture is far less sexual when it is geared towards men

00:29:23.160 you might have you know in megan fox in transformers a male geared movie she wasn't the focus i mean 1.00

00:29:33.080 don't get me wrong she looked great she looked really good looking chick but when you see media 1.00

00:29:40.280 that's made for women it's far more sexual i i mean there are 50 shades of gray that was made for women 1.00

00:29:50.760 so even the idea of objectification i think that women are far more sexual than men 0.98

00:29:57.480 i really you know everyone tells me i'm wrong on this and i don't really care so i responded what's

00:30:02.680 interesting is that trad cons who push personal responsibility don't push accountability onto

00:30:09.240 women when given freedom the majority of women do not choose monogamy 0.64

00:30:14.440 um i think i have a second comment on this one

00:30:22.680 well i don't and i i believe my second part of the comment was

00:30:28.120 and by monogamy i mean at 22 when women have the most choice most women do not choose to get married 0.84

00:30:35.160 there's nothing wrong with that if that girl wants to do that her life but i swear do not cry

00:30:41.640 to me about the consequences later and say you were lied to that that's where

00:30:48.120 okay seen a few reels of her bragging about being passed around at a frat parties 1.00

00:30:53.720 and how much she loves being used when she's 30 and she's still single we will she will wonder where 0.61

00:30:58.920 all the good guys are lisa lopez said i started teaching my daughter at a young age to respect her

00:31:04.440 body and she got older and i explained that her body is not meant to be passed around i expressed to

00:31:09.880 her to wait until she's with the right man and she's in love and that she has a future with 1.00

00:31:13.960 a man she respects and a man that respects her and her morals her morals and values have gone out

00:31:20.840 the window these days thankful she valued what i taught her and it's making is making different

00:31:25.800 choices than most women her age

00:31:30.840 salt lake superman says beyond sad these girls be up see again beyond said these girls believe the lies

00:31:38.600 of feminism who is feminism voted for who voted for feminism 0.99

00:31:46.520 who who created this mess it was pushed by mostly women i know there was a couple men 0.99

00:31:54.120 but let's just call it what it was most of those men had their wives in their ear women women push for 1.00

00:32:02.760 this stuff when women lead societies and relationships they crumble they go downhill 1.00

00:32:08.840 okay they should really be following ladyship don't forget as well that many guys are helping contribute

00:32:14.840 to this problem it's not true the number one way people under 30 are meeting is dating apps

00:32:24.520 women swipe right five percent of the time on dating apps 1.00

00:32:27.960 five percent of men contribute to this problem if we're being generous we can go with 20 percent of

00:32:34.520 men 80 percent of women are contributing to this problem no no women are the ones that are doing hookup 1.00

00:32:43.640 culture it is not men most men do not have the option they should not be sleeping with as many girls as 0.99

00:32:52.280 they can either and this is the same thing we always bring it back to the men why can't we have a conversation

00:32:57.960 about women without saying but men but men but men but men it drives me crazy it drives me crazy okay

00:33:13.960 now

00:33:14.280 the last thing we're going to talk about today

00:33:21.240 just stop using dating apps i mean if i if i was to advise not really an advisor but if i was to advise

00:33:28.440 i think women should use dating apps i think men shouldn't i mean you're clearly at an advantage on 0.98

00:33:33.800 dating apps as a chick you get like a bajillion matches as a guy i would i would say not don't waste

00:33:42.120 your time do not waste your time

00:33:46.360 okay so last but not least

00:33:51.800 all right guys so i have been covering tom brady and giselle for a couple of months now

00:33:57.400 now we all know giselle dated leonardo dicaprio and leonardo dicaprio's exes

00:34:04.680 they just never seem to do better if they do they seem to divorce him i mean you got with leo

00:34:11.400 and you think how do you do better than leo tom brady okay tom brady has accepted

00:34:18.600 giselle budichens romance with jujitsu instructor began years ago reports say tom brady tom brady

00:34:25.720 reportedly has accepted ex-wife giselle budichens romance with

00:34:31.720 jacquim valent began years ago according to the daily mail the former nfl star is learning to adapt to

00:34:38.840 the new dynamic his family is now in after page six exclusively reported that the supermodel and

00:34:45.080 her jujitsu instructor were a couple and deeply in love tom has been dating and is all about growing

00:34:50.760 his relationship with giselle and moving to a place where they can co-parent a news source told the outlet

00:34:58.200 though insider told people that budichens and valente did not begin dating until june 2023 eight months after

00:35:05.240 brady and the mom of two finalized their divorce the former tampa bay bunker buccaneers quarterback

00:35:11.320 reportedly isn't buying her timeline if she wants to have people think she began dating jacquam only

00:35:18.520 since june so be it but they have been together longer and they aren't taking it slow tom has accepted

00:35:25.400 it the source told daily mail the insider also told the outlet that brady 46 has no issues with valente

00:35:34.760 and will try to keep things amicable for the sake of his children tom and jacquam are not friends but

00:35:41.560 jacquam is around his kids so tom has to find the good in him and does believe he's a good guy the source

00:35:47.320 claimed if jacquam ever became a father figure to his kids tom will be able to adapt page six

00:35:55.080 broke the news last week that the brazilian jujits the brazilian beauty 43 and valente were a couple

00:36:01.800 when a source saw them kissing on valentine's day in their miami neighborhood beauty chin previously

00:36:07.800 shut down rumors that she and the instructor were anything more than friends he's our teacher and

00:36:12.280 more importantly he's a person i admire and that i trust it's so good to have that kind of energy

00:36:18.360 around my kids she told vanity fair and a cover story in march 2023

00:36:22.520 the former victoria's secret secret angel added i think at this point unfortunately because i'm

00:36:29.000 divorced i'm sure they're going to try to attach me to anything i'm so grateful to know all of the

00:36:34.600 valentine brothers our valente brothers because not only have they helped me and helped my kids

00:36:40.600 they have become great friends to and jacquam especially meanwhile brady has been seen spending

00:36:47.080 time with model erenka shank through sources and told us that he's currently playing the field i know

00:36:52.440 i heard he might date kim kardashian i i was like i don't tom please don't do that do not do that

00:37:00.600 the super bowl champ and buddha chin share son benjamin 14 and vivian 11. he's also a dad to son jack

00:37:08.040 16 with x bridget mohonen okay um okay so a couple things here we got to know where were the red flags

00:37:21.480 in this relationship the number one red flag is she did not take his last name women that do not take a 0.86

00:37:30.840 man's last name are not that in love with the man that they're with and they don't typically believe

00:37:37.640 in traditional marriage now i know a lot of you will make excuse excuses why it's appropriate to use

00:37:46.680 your last name on social media and as a public profile i would argue that that's putting money

00:37:54.760 over your family and if you think that's more important so be it but women that are actually in 1.00

00:37:59.880 love with their husbands and want to be with them and genuinely like them take their last names

00:38:06.760 generally speaking generally speaking

00:38:11.800 okay so you know the comment section weighs in on this the comment section weighs in um

00:38:22.440 okay i'm getting really confused um the comment section weighs in and they say this is why

00:38:28.360 it is so hard for me to be faithful in my past i figured this was always probable and the sting

00:38:34.360 doesn't bite as much when you do it back i've changed my mind since this approach but this is

00:38:40.040 always why um next crypto bit says imagine letting your wife roll around with another dude a few times 1.00

00:38:47.880 a week for years this is so predictable only tom brady couldn't see it coming let me add he was on

00:38:53.560 training camp for weeks and days at a time what could possibly go wrong lads you know um and freddie

00:39:01.960 hook says she's not yours it's just your turn so you know guys this is why men fear marriage this really

00:39:08.360 is because if tom brady is getting cheated on i mean the way women the way a lot of men see it is what

00:39:14.520 what what chance do you have do you think you're better than tom brady um so this is the reality

00:39:23.320 of the market and i i didn't make it this way but a lot of times daily wire people come in and say

00:39:29.480 i'm the bad guy because i i show you know women want everything and the crazy thing the crazy thing about 0.98

00:39:37.240 this is allegedly they divorced because tom brady did not want to retire from football

00:39:46.760 why why did you marry tom brady tom brady you could have married anybody

00:39:55.320 i mean this is the most beautiful woman on the planet right i mean top she's up there 1.00

00:39:59.560 and and you could have had anybody on the planet and you chose tom brady and what do you complain

00:40:07.240 about he's not home enough well then go marry know yourself know how much attention you need 0.62

00:40:15.960 if you need more attention get a less busy guy anyways

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JustPearlyThings - February 29, 2024

Why Can’t Most Women Be Happy For Their Husband's Success

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