JustPearlyThings - Red Pilled Millionaire's Advice To Men In Their 20s

00:00:00.000 you can also see why from a guy's point of view it's like risky with a girl that's older

00:00:04.000 because it's like more baggage that he has to deal with more guys that he that he really has

00:00:09.260 to compete with and rollo tomasi has a phrase it's not the number but it's like the number of

00:00:14.020 like alphas or i can't i'm butchering this please don't rush me but it's basically like the number

00:00:19.300 of high value guys that she's been with because if she's been with drake um i don't know the ceo

00:00:25.640 of budweiser like how how is you know tom dick or harry gonna compete with that gfg 0.75

00:00:31.480 you know she's always gonna feel like she's settled and nobody wants to feel like they 0.89

00:00:37.060 settled in a relationship but men can live with it women can't i think anyway do you think that's 0.99

00:00:43.140 true well one thing that i that i really i'm very passionate about like in our business uh we're in

00:00:47.020 the suit selling business but really we recruit and hire young men uh and and my pitch is very

00:00:51.000 simple i hire young men and teach them how to make a million dollars a year that's what i do in my

00:00:53.880 business right uh our company you know offices in 27 countries across the world uh most of the guys

00:00:59.260 that work with us are in their early to mid 20s when they start we teach them how to build value

00:01:02.640 and i tell the guys this i'm like don't get married in your 20s they go what i'm like you're going to

00:01:06.220 be working 80 hours a week with us just commit to that work 80 hours a week and when you're not

00:01:10.300 working go to the gym why because by the time you get to 27 28 30 you're going to have a lot of money

00:01:16.120 and a lot of muscles and then you can live the life that you want and that's what i teach so it's like

00:01:21.080 the the sort of what this conversation cultivates to is like yeah we can talk about what's a high

00:01:26.360 value woman but the deeper question is how does a man get a high value woman because there is such 0.98

00:01:33.820 a thing as a high value so how do you get that so i want to ask you girls what do you think how

00:01:36.640 does a man get a high value if you think you're a high value woman how does a man get you and don't 1.00

00:01:40.580 say lazy and funny i think definitely every man should go to the gym because that's the first thing

00:01:47.700 a woman looks at you don't even have to be particularly good looking but if you're fit 0.97

00:01:51.940 and you've got you look like you can protect someone you've got presence in a room then that

00:01:55.940 works straight away and then if you're you have to be more than that so if you're funny it helps if

00:02:01.400 you've got charisma if you've got a good job if you've got drive um and then i think the soft nice

00:02:09.420 stuff actually probably comes last or the cuddly i think women can live without that i think you need it 1.00

00:02:14.860 a bit but i think when men start with that and that you know you go out with the nice guy and

00:02:20.100 he gets you flowers but he's not strong and he's not driven and he's not it kind of makes you feel

00:02:24.220 a bit sickly that they get you the flowers and they're nice to you all the time it's kind of too

00:02:28.140 much yeah honestly and that sounds but that's why nice guys don't get the girl it's because that they

00:02:34.200 because they have nothing else to compete on it's because it's the easiest thing to to project

00:02:40.160 but it doesn't require sacrifice but it's not that because i was thinking earlier that

00:02:44.700 if those guys just went to the gym and got a bit more presence that's easier than trying to get

00:02:51.700 those guys to be nice and lovely and you know and potentially commit so you know we always go for

00:02:59.740 those guys hoping that they're going to choose us when actually they can choose from so many women 1.00

00:03:03.740 and they don't care and they don't have any rush to settle down why are they going to do that for us

00:03:08.800 what as opposed to sorry the nicer guys if you get a guy in the middle that's kind of like a five

00:03:14.600 across the board he can kind of like boost up a bit and that that that's good well what do you think

00:03:20.300 i think if i see my man treat his mum with respect you know treat treat his the women in his family

00:03:28.880 how they should be treated because i've seen a lot of guys and they they're horrible to their parents

00:03:34.360 who was your last boyfriend three years ago they're my only boyfriend okay was he nice to his mom

00:03:39.940 yeah very nice who ended the relationship um me

00:03:45.380 so let's obviously listen to what women do 1.00

00:03:49.360 but um why he was nice to his mom

00:03:53.300 yeah he was nice to his mom but he also liked to

00:03:56.980 do a lot of really bad things so that didn't do it for me but

00:04:01.140 that is definitely a big thing though still the parents um

00:04:05.320 looking at hygiene so you want to get laid be nice to your mother

00:04:09.400 and shower all right hygiene um for me

00:04:13.140 i like a man with money gonna say it because i need to feel stable as well you know and women

00:04:19.440 like to be looked after i appreciate the honesty i like to be looked after

00:04:22.780 we don't cap on the show and i feel like you there's a lot of times where how much

00:04:28.820 give me a number a lot so i've been single for quite a while now and i feel like i'm looking after

00:04:34.860 myself all the time it gets to a point you get fed up with that and you actually just want

00:04:39.080 a nice masculine man to take care of you and put you in his arms i like that and everyone's

00:04:44.920 different but that's what i like give me a number how much does he have to make

00:04:47.760 how much as long as i've got a nice house i've got a nice car

00:04:53.020 what does what does a nice house go for in london

00:04:55.540 oh i wouldn't live in england anyway i'd live abroad

00:04:59.140 definitely oh so you're looking for a man in another country

00:05:02.300 no that would want to move so hopefully he's got his businesses all settled and we can go

00:05:06.480 what makes you think that guy will choose you

00:05:09.680 yeah you know what i might never get a rich man in my life

00:05:13.160 but that's what i like so hopefully it get there

00:05:16.740 but okay i might never get there are you taking steps to get there

00:05:20.140 at the moment i'm healing on myself i've got a lot of issues i need to sort out before i can

00:05:24.640 never get a partner okay and that's how are you healing them therapy oh yeah i think therapy

00:05:30.720 makes you crazier no you know what i think all the women i know that go to therapy get worse 1.00

00:05:35.240 yeah and i can actually agree with that but the only reason i'm getting this therapy because it's

00:05:39.300 free at the moment and i do actually need some sort of help is it a male or a female it's a female 0.84

00:05:45.040 i'm gonna just you should go to a male therapist really yeah women shouldn't be therapists 1.00

00:05:50.400 it's just my opinion i'm in i'm in the psychology program at the school i promise you these women 1.00

00:05:55.040 that are giving you they're horrible yeah horrible they're insane men look to solve problems

00:05:59.780 so a guy's gonna tell you if i have this problem let's say you solve it women are just gonna say oh 1.00

00:06:04.400 it's okay tell me about your trauma but i've also have had a men therapist that have made me feel

00:06:11.460 really uncomfortable and flirted with me and that didn't solve any of my problems i felt uncomfortable

00:06:16.720 at my therapy session so to me i'll feel more comfortable with a woman i have a more nurtured

00:06:21.280 how do you flirt just making comments what's your social media and things like that you know 0.96

00:06:26.360 making me feel uncomfortable because everyone he knew that i'm a sa uh no sw an sw a sex wife i'm 0.98

00:06:34.680 allowed to say that right w yeah do you think that helps or hurts with your mental health it hurts it 0.95

00:06:40.360 so so much okay i'll be so real what can you why do you keep doing it then because at that moment i'm

00:06:46.540 like a bit of a loophole where it's a bit hard to come out of it where i'm just used to money being

00:06:52.060 thrown at me i'm scared to go back into a normal job routine how how much in savings do you have

00:06:58.780 savings um do i really have to answer that do you have more than like okay what do you what do you

00:07:05.560 roughly make a year yeah i'd say maybe not on of but altogether maybe i'd say about 50k

00:07:12.020 50k yeah for that's sex work yeah you think you're worth 50k a year no but i don't work a lot

00:07:20.620 though with it i do you know i don't overdo it because when i was a bit younger i overworked and

00:07:26.820 that's when i was doing a really bad play to overdid it so i've taken a bit of a step back i don't even

00:07:31.500 do my only of only fans anymore um i more do like dominatrix and come in and that just keeps me

00:07:39.420 steady for now yeah well i'm just thinking if you want to get out oh no of course of course right so

00:07:44.120 like like it might help to get some savings so then you know i've got savings i've got same don't get

00:07:49.740 me wrong i've got savings but also i've gotten a lot of debt as well and i also had to go for a

00:07:54.320 court case so i'm spending money on solicitors you know things happen in life life's one big journey

00:07:58.680 and i feel like everyone's journey is different some people have a really good life and some

00:08:02.380 people don't have a good life so what made you get into that well um the sex work sort of thing

00:08:08.000 um i used to work in a care home and i was actually very like depressed very low and i wasn't making a

00:08:14.220 lot of money and i had my ex-boyfriend at the time that used to he used to really make me feel low

00:08:19.320 you know and even like we'd go out for meals and he'd say have you got the 10 pound from the meal

00:08:23.440 he used to always make me split and i used to think to myself like like i care for you i love you i

00:08:28.120 treat you try and treat you well and he never gave me that back and then i worked in the care home

00:08:33.580 and i was sitting there one day and i thought i can't do this anymore like my man don't even want

00:08:38.160 to help like help um and then i was sitting there and speaking to one of the old guys that used to

00:08:44.740 look after in the care home and i told him my whole plan about starting the only fans you know

00:08:48.900 and he sat there and he said to me do it why are you not doing it you're gonna be old like me one day

00:08:53.500 sitting in the chair you're gonna like die basically one day just do it and i probably

00:08:58.100 just wanted to subscribe you know what but he didn't make it till that time because he passed

00:09:02.560 away a few months after but i started it and um how old were you i was 19 so you're 19 you're

00:09:09.560 working to care how long you sorry it gets hot it gets very hot you know i was just banned on tiktok

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JustPearlyThings - May 11, 2023

Red Pilled Millionaire's Advice To Men In Their 20s

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