JustPearlyThings - August 19, 2023


Redhead Attempted to Check Pearl and Failed MISERABLY!!!!


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Length

12 minutes

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225.96101

Word count

2,751

Sentence count

8

Harmful content

Misogyny

22

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Hate speech

11

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Summary

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In this episode we talk about cheating in a relationship, sex, sex in a marriage, sex with a married man, sex after marriage, cheating and sex after divorce. We also talk about sex in an open relationship and how to deal with it.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 rich guys are more like it's a cheat to be honest and yeah i love men that cheat
00:00:07.200 i appreciate the honesty because most women do they just won't say most men cheat anyway like
00:00:13.040 if you think that your boyfriend's not cheating on you then you're deluded but why do you like it
00:00:16.880 there because like it just spices the relationship is a bit toxic yeah like he goes and then he
00:00:23.360 puts his cock inside you i mean there's there's biological reasons why we feel the way we feel 0.96
00:00:29.120 right so like i've heard pickup artists like pickup coaches they'll go out with a ring 0.74
00:00:34.240 because more women approach them when they have a wedding ring yeah it's horny when you're in a 1.00
00:00:37.920 relationship and and so it's basically it's pre-selection because back in the day we would
00:00:43.840 have to look at a guy and and decide if he could take care of other women because if he could take 1.00
00:00:47.920 care of the other women then he could take care of us so there's like there's evolutionary reasons
00:00:52.160 why we feel the way we feel not only that but it's horny as if you go out and meet a guy he's
00:00:56.240 married and then you're i definitely don't want to disagree wait so you you prefer wait you prefer
00:01:01.360 to hook up with married guys overnight oh definitely if they've got a girl at home and they're just 0.99
00:01:06.080 the shot out of you no it's horny like it's just really do you do you like seek out married men i 0.95
00:01:13.520 won't personally but if they come to me they come to me do you not like feel guilty about it by
00:01:17.200 someone else's husband it's you know what it's their problem it's them it's them the one who
00:01:21.920 are fucking you like they're the one who are in a relationship but you're still partaking in it 0.97
00:01:26.240 it's nothing to do with me but you still willingly walked into that bed so it is
00:01:32.080 it takes two to tango bit yeah but like i don't really care if the guy cheats it's not it's literally
00:01:37.440 for you guys every hole's a goal yeah definitely that's it so your game plan is well it's got nothing
00:01:43.040 to do with the guy anyway i mean it's got nothing to do with the girl sorry yeah that's what i mean
00:01:47.360 the guy's problem the guy's the one that's doing the wrong but would you not if the guy was if you
00:01:52.160 knew he was married would you not think oh no i don't want to touch you because you know that's
00:01:55.040 i'm already wrong and breaking up a family i know because it's kind of horny well you don't you don't
00:01:59.600 think you're in the wrong too you know what i don't really care like you're young you'll learn when
00:02:06.960 you're older nobody's his problem at the end of the day like he's the one seeking out girls yeah but
00:02:12.560 what if the bitch is crazy nah because if it was me and my husband was going out and 1.00
00:02:15.760 fucking a girl and he came home to me i'd be like oh he's still coming home to his wifey i don't 0.97
00:02:20.640 really care you wouldn't mind if your husband was cheating on you you're fine with it yeah you're in
00:02:24.720 an open relationship then that's not really no open on his side not on my side but that have some
00:02:28.880 self-respect like it's not about respect it's about every guy you want your man to be into you not
00:02:36.880 when a guy fucks someone it doesn't mean anything it doesn't mean he loves them no it doesn't but like
00:02:41.200 have some self-respect if that man's yours that man's yours like i don't share my toys for that
00:02:46.400 particular reason i'm sorry but i find it so sad that you're this decent to start desensitized about
00:02:52.080 yes relationships and love and sex it's worrying yeah but love and sex is different for guys though
00:02:57.440 they're two different things guys that love a girl doesn't mean sex and love is two different things
00:03:01.520 definitely different but but guys if you're if you if you married someone right you made a contract
00:03:07.120 like marriage doesn't mean anything nowadays you can marry someone you know those people get married
00:03:11.360 for no reason apart from the women the one in a wedding dress is it the drama do you guys just
00:03:15.760 like the drama i just find it horny like married men when they fancy you just try to be real for
00:03:20.240 like boyfriend that's what i mean so it's attention it's attention it's just like yeah yeah so you just
00:03:25.840 want attention yeah yeah that's it attention from it and stuff like that so what were you not getting
00:03:29.920 the attention from anywhere else no plenty so you just want attention from married men that pain for 0.75
00:03:35.360 her fans i mean they're the ones who are watching it got it okay well it's women's fault for picking 0.97
00:03:40.720 husbands then isn't it can i ask you girls a question what made you what made you girl ladies 1.00
00:03:45.760 decided to want to do any fans um honestly no i've always been like really sexual like hypersexual like
00:03:51.200 yeah i don't think that's a good or bad thing some women just have higher sex yeah and and then i was 1.00
00:03:56.000 i was doing it for free anyway you know i was spreading my legs for free i might as well make
00:03:59.040 some money on the side but i don't understand like that in 10 years time when you're how old 32 years
00:04:04.080 old you're going to be with a man and then your kids you can have kids one day and they're going to
00:04:07.040 look back and find porn of you like i don't do porn i don't get in a vagina or a titta do you know what 1.00
00:04:12.640 i mean like are they not gonna are you not gonna be ashamed in that sense that you know what in elbert's
00:04:17.040 words they can cry in a ferrari i think you say that now but when it's like actually in real
00:04:23.040 life happening it's going to be a total different situation personally i mean i don't want kids
00:04:28.400 anyway so like you know it's my life i'm going to live my life i don't do anything that i'm going
00:04:33.680 to be ashamed can i ask you a question have you been in love before yeah you have yeah because it
00:04:39.760 just sounds to me like you haven't because i don't know there is something that when you're in love
00:04:45.520 if you go out and someone else like that hurts it hurts and it doesn't like to be desensitized
00:04:52.960 like i don't care i don't feel anything like if you were in love with someone you're telling me
00:04:56.960 that if like they went and cheated on you that wouldn't bother you the only thing that would hurt 0.94
00:05:00.880 is if they got an std and then they gave it to me um going back to you did you did you change your sort
00:05:07.200 of standing after you uh that relationship that you were in love with in because apparently he cheated
00:05:12.400 on you so that did something change in your in your like yeah i guess i don't really care anymore
00:05:16.560 like so basically heartbreak made you just be like it no i've always been quite like
00:05:22.640 weird about sex like i i just i don't think it's that deep i don't find sex that deep like
00:05:27.120 there's sex and there's being in a love that's completely different but in that relationship
00:05:31.120 that's fundamentally wrong because when it comes to females having sex we release oxytocin when we 0.99
00:05:36.160 have sex with guys so we bond to them and we have a certain connection with them men don't release
00:05:41.440 oxytocin that's why it's different when a guy cheats it i agree with that it's different when a guy cheats
00:05:46.080 because a guy doesn't have that bonding hormone so yeah but if a woman is doing that and you're 0.99
00:05:50.800 saying you're not feeling anything i feel like maybe that does come from a place of hurt more
00:05:54.160 than like because biologically that's what happens regardless of if you think you're a bad bee or you
00:05:58.960 think you can have sex like a man like any woman who thinks like that probably has a lot of hurt 0.99
00:06:03.120 underneath i don't know i've never gotten like attached to a guy when i slept with them
00:06:07.200 never no no no no like so what is love to you then like what explain it i don't know when you really
00:06:14.160 deeply like the person okay and that's not to do with sex no okay so what is it then what is it for
00:06:21.840 you just when you really fancy someone okay but if it's not physical it's not to do with sex what do
00:06:27.200 you define as love who knows what love is it's just a feeling isn't it i think love's an action i don't
00:06:34.480 think like being obsessed with someone but being obsessed with someone is just an infatuation if you
00:06:38.320 really love somebody you care about them and you you make you take the actions to show them that
00:06:43.040 you care that's that's what love is because if we say love's a feeling it can go away and that's
00:06:47.680 why people say i don't love you anymore and then they or is it right people do just stop most people
00:06:52.400 do just it's mostly just women that do that it's not really man it's just the way yeah women get
00:06:58.560 what about men who cheat and abuse on their partners i mean let's not just blame everything
00:07:02.000 on women now it's like mostly women though it's like mostly like seven men are more likely to
00:07:06.160 cheap 70 to 80 percent of the time they make up the stats anyway i really i really i really think
00:07:12.160 that i don't make up stats lady well you said something about basically basically what what's
00:07:19.360 stat on abortion well you said that one of three women have had an abortion that's not actually true
00:07:23.520 it was predicted that one of three women had that's what that's what planned parenthood says yeah 1.00
00:07:27.840 i actually had a check on that stat and actually it didn't say that i actually said the rates of
00:07:31.520 abortion have actually decreased in the usa okay
00:07:36.160 all right thanks for letting me know there's something about one in five people in the usa
00:07:39.520 have stds i actually had a look at that one and one and four well it said more um 20 2.5 million
00:07:46.320 cases of stds were important no it's at some point in their lifetime it's at some point in their lifetime
00:07:53.280 2.5 million and i think i think i think i think at the end of the day i think wait say that again well
00:07:58.880 2.5 million stds would be 0.7 percent of the u.s population because the u.s population is 235 million and that's
00:08:05.600 the people who report it because you're going on people you're going on just guesses no one's going
00:08:08.960 to report they've had an std they've done they've done surveys on this too like women say it themselves
00:08:15.760 and i think i think you can really with the cheating stat you know it's pretty similar to be
00:08:20.800 honest i think it's like slightly less but i think you can i think you can i think you can i think you
00:08:25.680 can more likely find out just by asking people and coming to conclusions because like you can honestly
00:08:31.280 get a stat to say anything right there was one study by the institute for family studies so are
00:08:36.320 you gonna are you gonna let me talk are you gonna if you're gonna no it's not your show chick like so 0.76
00:08:44.400 so wait your turn i i really think that at the end of the day like we can come to conclusions based on
00:08:51.520 what we see in real life because you can find one study that says one thing and one study that says
00:08:55.680 another that doesn't make sense are you gonna let me finish or no because if you keep interrupting
00:09:02.160 me you can go i just i told you i told you you can challenge me but i've told you to stop interrupting
00:09:08.000 me and you did this last show too i have no problem going back and forth with you but if you're gonna
00:09:13.120 talk over me every single time you have to go i'm not talking okay okay okay are you gonna are you
00:09:18.960 gonna if you're gonna be combative you can go well it's a discussion i i have no i have no problem
00:09:24.400 having a discussion with you but we we've done we did this last show too okay i think it's okay
00:09:29.920 ones are not necessarily say things that are just deliberately designed to make women look bad on
00:09:33.680 pub well it's not that i'm trying to make women look bad but i think when you look at you know from
00:09:38.160 a historical point of view like the last hundred years what do we have that men value and and i'm
00:09:44.480 just genuinely being honest like a hundred years ago 85 percent of women were virgins and we could go 0.98
00:09:49.520 back and forth on the stats and you could say okay it's not one out of three it's one out of five that's still bad
00:09:54.480 that's still not good right and so i think i think i think i'm i'm not and that's the point
00:09:59.760 like but this is this is my point is you're gonna go personal right no and i just i think and i think
00:10:06.800 like the point is i could say it would have been a better outcome for me had i waited i think it
00:10:10.960 would have been a better outcome for most women had they waited and i think we have a culture that 1.00
00:10:15.840 doesn't tell women that that's the most valuable thing you have and i just think it's lying if we're
00:10:20.880 going to go back and forth and you're going to say oh well it's one in five one in six one in seven
00:10:24.720 who gives a it's bad like a hundred years ago we had um i think 3.4 kids i've seen some stats that
00:10:32.240 said five we had more children we were more married we were on less antidepressants so it seems like the
00:10:38.160 more power we get the more freedom we get it just doesn't go well for us and i think and i think when
00:10:43.440 men build all the buildings they do everything in society they do all the hard jobs in society
00:10:48.880 like i think it's it's fair to say that men are smarter than us by and large that men make better
00:10:54.880 decisions than us by and large i'm not saying there aren't smart women i'm not saying there aren't good 1.00
00:11:00.240 women but if we look at the standards of a hundred years ago we'd all be thrown out myself included i'm
00:11:05.520 not saying i'm so much pearl you're so smart i think you should be a man and so chill out chill out
00:11:10.960 it should have been a man but but so and this is this is my point this is my whatever do you think
00:11:16.080 that a man do you think that the percentage for um wide vaginas was more than if there was more kids 1.00
00:11:22.000 like back in the day girl i don't know i don't i don't know why i don't know why you make everything
00:11:26.960 sexual this is this is crazy but that's that's the whole point is i think we have to draw conclusions
00:11:33.120 about a society and the problem is women have entered the academic space and so half of these studies like 0.99
00:11:38.720 the gender study you know how they they mess up these gender studies departments they make these 0.99
00:11:43.520 really biased like studies and they can tell us water isn't wet when i look in the real world i see
00:11:48.960 women cheating more than men so i don't need a study to tell me that i see more women posting thirst traps 1.00
00:11:54.880 on instagram i see more women monkey branching i see more women leaving marriages like i'm not blind i can
00:12:01.120 see what's in the real world