JustPearlyThings - June 16, 2023


Rude Old Woman Gets Kicked Out…


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10 minutes

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2,217

Sentence count

234

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Misogyny

15

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Toxicity

22

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12

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In this episode, the guys debate if it's a woman's duty or a man's duty to have sex with his wife. They also debate if a woman is weak for not sleeping with her husband when she wants to.

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00:00:00.000 I thought it was your duty to have sex with your husband. 1.00
00:00:02.800 So I'm just kidding. 1.00
00:00:03.360 Are you? 0.65
00:00:04.280 Like marriage is an exclusive sexual contract.
00:00:08.400 If you deny your partner sex, like who is he supposed to go get it from?
00:00:13.000 Yeah, but even in military, you're not always on duty.
00:00:15.460 You're only on duty on a certain time.
00:00:17.320 No, you're always on duty.
00:00:18.320 You're not supposed to be on duty.
00:00:19.340 Like say if you were the horse guard parade, you're only on duty while you stand there.
00:00:23.780 No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:00:29.740 If you start messing with you.
00:00:30.680 So essentially you get to be a wife when you feel like it. 0.59
00:00:33.300 No, what I'm trying to say is you always use these negative words and negative connotation.
00:00:38.800 Like for me, this is, this is part, like.
00:00:41.680 What was negative about doing your duty?
00:00:43.720 No, because for me that's not a duty, it's a pleasure.
00:00:46.760 It's not a duty.
00:00:47.460 No, it is a duty.
00:00:48.820 I'm going to back her up.
00:00:49.420 Duty is a very different thing.
00:00:50.700 What if I wanted to find pleasure?
00:00:52.620 What if I wanted to find pleasure with another woman? 0.99
00:00:55.480 Then you are weak.
00:00:56.620 You're always on duty.
00:00:58.460 So then you're on duty.
00:01:00.400 So then you're on duty.
00:01:01.680 Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:01:02.100 So he's weak for sleeping with another girl, but the girl's not.
00:01:05.620 Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:01:07.200 No, wait.
00:01:08.180 But the girl is not weak for not sleeping with her husband.
00:01:11.380 No, no, no.
00:01:11.820 Let's get real.
00:01:13.900 I'm sorry, but I really need to put an end to this, like, oh, what should we do?
00:01:18.340 We should do whatever we want in the end of the day.
00:01:20.520 No, you shouldn't do whatever you want. 1.00
00:01:21.880 That's the selfish nature that's going to get your ass alone and dying with a dog. 1.00
00:01:28.840 Did it get you recently, I hear? 1.00
00:01:30.720 But listen, let me just go back.
00:01:32.360 Did what get me?
00:01:32.940 Did what get me?
00:01:33.520 What are you just saying?
00:01:34.220 Like, you're bringing it out to me and, like, oh, shouldn't be doing it.
00:01:38.060 Wait, wait.
00:01:38.460 What did what get me and what?
00:01:41.320 Let's just go back to it.
00:01:42.220 No, no.
00:01:42.540 Back up your statement.
00:01:45.640 I'm not going to even go into this.
00:01:47.320 Okay, fair play.
00:01:47.980 Well, you brought it up.
00:01:48.940 I know I did, but it's like he didn't insult you.
00:01:51.440 No, I'm not insulting, but he's not letting me finish.
00:01:54.300 I said to him.
00:01:55.100 You're insulting him personally when he didn't insult you.
00:01:57.340 I didn't mean to insult him.
00:01:58.400 That probably came out wrong, but you can't say that.
00:02:01.760 It's okay.
00:02:02.120 I have this effect on women on the podcast. 1.00
00:02:04.440 I have this effect on women. 1.00
00:02:05.640 You don't have any effect on me, I'm afraid, you know, but you can't go immediately use that,
00:02:09.560 oh, I'll go sleep with somebody.
00:02:10.900 You have to respect that we are not machines.
00:02:13.480 Women are not machines. 1.00
00:02:14.320 I mean, it's a must.
00:02:15.400 No, no.
00:02:16.580 I didn't say you're a machine.
00:02:19.620 But his point was that she said it's about pleasure.
00:02:22.380 And so he's saying if it's about pleasure, then let me go sleep.
00:02:25.420 I didn't mention.
00:02:26.680 The pleasure of being with my men.
00:02:28.860 That doesn't matter what time it is, I'm not on the clock or off the clock.
00:02:32.700 Let me add some context.
00:02:34.160 Let me add some context.
00:02:35.780 That's what I'm trying to say.
00:02:36.800 Let me add some context to the statement that I made.
00:02:39.420 And I didn't say my wife was neglecting me sexually.
00:02:43.880 But you don't have a wife.
00:02:45.340 Just listen.
00:02:46.220 Again, allow me to finish my sentence and add some context to this theoretical situation we're talking about.
00:02:54.860 I was saying, because you mentioned it was about pleasure.
00:02:58.560 I said, so what if another woman were to offer me pleasure outside of the relationship? 0.96
00:03:03.180 But, I mean, you always bring in other women. 0.99
00:03:05.820 Let's bring in. 0.63
00:03:06.720 Let's do it.
00:03:07.260 But who's husband are you?
00:03:08.660 Can I say something in her support?
00:03:11.220 I'm sorry.
00:03:12.000 There's only one queen. 0.99
00:03:13.500 Same way for me.
00:03:14.460 There's only one king.
00:03:15.760 And that means to be known.
00:03:17.720 Hey, but kings throughout history have always had concubines. 0.91
00:03:21.640 If we're going to go that route.
00:03:22.400 Look, I don't care who had what.
00:03:24.340 I'm just going to use that analogy.
00:03:26.300 I am in, like, I know my analogy seemed to be funny for you.
00:03:30.060 But my analogy, they fit into what I am.
00:03:32.500 Well, the analogy is not funny.
00:03:34.220 But, I mean, this is the Andrew Tate argument, isn't it?
00:03:35.940 Where the wife is, the head woman, she is my queen. 1.00
00:03:40.080 She is the queen.
00:03:41.340 Absolutely.
00:03:42.120 But that doesn't mean that he won't necessarily, on occasion, entertain.
00:03:48.120 Which is fine.
00:03:48.980 But he would never be my man.
00:03:51.760 That's the only thing.
00:03:53.720 I don't need to give anyone advice.
00:03:56.600 Can I just say something?
00:03:58.080 If you really think that you're going to get a money.
00:03:59.640 What you're saying is, like, it's about my pleasure, and it's all about me.
00:04:03.740 No, that's not what I said.
00:04:05.680 That's not what I said.
00:04:06.560 Wait, wait, wait.
00:04:06.820 Yes, you just said it's about pleasure.
00:04:08.420 This is just twisting the words.
00:04:10.000 It's about just twisting the words.
00:04:11.840 If you are married, you can make all the comments in the world.
00:04:14.440 If you're not in a marriage, just assuming that's how it should be, I think it's really unfair.
00:04:19.140 The answer is, yeah, the response to that scenario is this.
00:04:25.040 They should just compromise.
00:04:26.120 If it's that much of an issue for her, then she's saying, look, don't wake me up in the middle of the night, but I'll wake you up in the right way.
00:04:33.600 Yeah, you shouldn't be.
00:04:34.240 That's exactly what I mean.
00:04:35.280 That, for me, is pleasure.
00:04:37.360 I disagree.
00:04:38.320 I really think sex is a duty. 0.95
00:04:40.060 I think you're supposed to listen to your husband.
00:04:42.800 That's just maybe the wife. 1.00
00:04:44.080 I might disagree with you, pal.
00:04:45.620 Wife, too.
00:04:46.320 Listen.
00:04:46.800 This is what you guys do.
00:04:48.640 It's like, wait, but this is what you do.
00:04:51.000 She's not married either.
00:04:51.920 Whenever you guys don't like a response.
00:04:54.960 Dude, I am the one that is married here, so I'm happily married.
00:04:57.340 Okay, if you're going to over-talk me, you're going to go.
00:04:59.540 Stop.
00:04:59.740 Yeah, I'm happy to go to be honest.
00:05:01.360 Okay, goodbye.
00:05:01.680 Go.
00:05:02.080 Thank you very much.
00:05:03.620 Oh, my God.
00:05:04.740 I got to see you live.
00:05:05.840 Where's the camera?
00:05:07.780 Send a super chat right now so we can get that kick out, Cam.
00:05:10.920 Whoa, whoa, whoa.
00:05:11.800 What's happening?
00:05:12.780 Because the thing is, I'm engaged, so am I allowed to talk about it?
00:05:15.960 No, but this is the thing.
00:05:17.000 It's like when women don't, like, it's so feminine. 1.00
00:05:19.760 It's like when women don't like what you have to say, they'll attack you personally. 1.00
00:05:23.100 And she started to do it to you.
00:05:24.580 She does it to me.
00:05:25.220 But it's like, is what we're saying true or is it not true?
00:05:27.600 That's the whole point.
00:05:28.840 To bring the...
00:05:29.820 Sorry.
00:05:30.120 The more a woman hates my message, the more I know I'm on the right path. 1.00
00:05:33.020 The thing where you took it away from reality because the original discussion was about being
00:05:38.900 woken up in the middle of the night.
00:05:40.320 Nobody can deal with sleep depravity very well. 0.79
00:05:43.760 I was woken up last night by a woman who wanted to have sex with me and I didn't want to have 1.00
00:05:47.360 sex, but I endured. 0.95
00:05:49.300 I went through with that. 0.76
00:05:50.640 I was enduring last night.
00:05:52.540 No, no, no.
00:05:53.000 I was literally enduring last night.
00:05:54.900 I didn't want to deal with that.
00:05:55.700 It's a persistent complaint.
00:05:58.400 Because she's a nice girl.
00:05:59.380 If I keep getting woken up every night, I am not going to be with that person for very long.
00:06:03.120 That's the reality of the conversation.
00:06:05.360 But what's Johnson...
00:06:06.200 So, John, you're saying that you were with a woman last night and you didn't particularly
00:06:09.000 feel like putting out, but for the team, you endured.
00:06:12.300 I didn't want her to make a hit piece on me online.
00:06:16.100 You know what?
00:06:16.760 I think I can see it from both sides of the coin.
00:06:18.660 I think if...
00:06:19.620 I've never been in a relationship where I've ever wanted sex and I've been refused it.
00:06:25.480 It's just never happened.
00:06:26.520 So, I can't really relate.
00:06:27.980 But I can imagine how frustrating it would be.
00:06:30.240 I think if...
00:06:30.940 But I also agree. 0.84
00:06:31.840 If she's asleep and you're waiting for her to go to sleep, then waking up for sex, 0.63
00:06:35.100 that can't be nice for over a long period of time.
00:06:37.640 If it's a one-off here and there, yeah, you should do it.
00:06:39.640 But I just think if you're waiting for her to go to sleep,
00:06:42.160 I think they can be compromised.
00:06:43.680 I think if you love her and you respect her,
00:06:46.040 you don't have to just say, oh, well, that's when I want it.
00:06:47.740 There is compromise.
00:06:48.340 But also, if she's asleep and you need it,
00:06:49.800 wake up, yeah, yo.
00:06:51.160 But I think my point is the mindset.
00:06:53.520 It's not even about the action.
00:06:55.040 It's like you're supposed to have a selfless mindset in marriage.
00:06:57.440 It's not supposed to be about you.
00:06:59.200 Yeah.
00:06:59.500 Yeah, that's the same way as both ways then.
00:07:00.800 And that was my point when they were talking.
00:07:02.440 It was always about them.
00:07:03.540 It's about my pleasure.
00:07:05.220 Yeah.
00:07:05.580 No, I agree.
00:07:06.280 Don't confuse it.
00:07:07.180 Don't confuse it, please.
00:07:08.180 What I said about pleasure, don't confuse it.
00:07:10.440 Please don't – I know it's easy to point fingers and say that's what you think.
00:07:14.440 But let me just clarify it again.
00:07:17.100 What I said about pleasure is –
00:07:18.820 You also said I'm not on the clock 24-7, so that's me.
00:07:21.980 Yeah, so I'm talking about duty.
00:07:25.600 For me, duty is a negative connotation.
00:07:28.340 Whereas pleasure, my man's pleasure for me is a positive connotation.
00:07:31.740 Marriage is a duty, though. 0.98
00:07:32.680 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:07:33.460 Duty above all.
00:07:34.300 Give me a chance to explain.
00:07:35.860 So you're looking at the same coin from a different –
00:07:38.340 but one sounds a little bit uncomfortable,
00:07:41.020 whereas the other one makes, you know,
00:07:43.880 it feels like I would always pleasure my man.
00:07:46.720 I don't need to have a duty to pleasure my man.
00:07:49.440 No, no, I understand.
00:07:49.520 What you're saying is it should always be pleasure.
00:07:50.960 So I'd rather call it volunteering work, you know?
00:07:53.260 Yeah, I understand what you're saying.
00:07:54.400 Do you understand what I mean?
00:07:55.280 And those two sounds very different.
00:07:57.540 I get you, but if a burglar breaks into the house,
00:07:59.540 it's not my pleasure to go and defend my family.
00:08:01.440 It's my duty to go and defend my family.
00:08:03.100 Yes, but that's different.
00:08:04.180 You're talking about burglary.
00:08:05.120 I'm talking about my husband.
00:08:06.500 No, no.
00:08:07.080 It's not a burglar.
00:08:08.800 No, I think it's the same thing,
00:08:10.820 because he's talking about when he has to do something
00:08:12.620 he doesn't want to do, and we're talking about –
00:08:14.200 But it's different.
00:08:14.980 This is a protective mode.
00:08:16.160 You're protecting your family.
00:08:17.680 Yeah, no, no.
00:08:17.920 I'm protecting my marriage from giving it –
00:08:21.080 Yes, but it's different.
00:08:21.900 You're protecting your marriage from sleeping with your mom
00:08:23.480 when you don't want to, so he doesn't go and –
00:08:24.880 He's not even –
00:08:25.860 Wait, wait, wait.
00:08:26.260 He's not even protecting –
00:08:27.940 I'm not protecting.
00:08:28.960 I'm actually sustaining my marriage by being with my man
00:08:31.600 because we just love to do whatever we want to do.
00:08:34.100 But what Ty said is even more, if you want to rank it, right?
00:08:38.360 When someone's burglaring your house,
00:08:41.000 he's risking the ultimate asset, his life,
00:08:44.960 to protect your life.
00:08:47.440 Yeah, but we were talking about someone waking you up
00:08:50.860 in the middle of the night to have some fun times,
00:08:53.600 and then all of a sudden you ended up in a place
00:08:56.320 where someone is coming to attack us.
00:08:58.560 Guys, it's amazing.
00:08:59.020 It's still duty.
00:09:00.380 You said marriage is a duty.
00:09:01.440 Yeah, but this is what I'm saying is,
00:09:03.560 for me, I would rather have a –
00:09:05.540 Like, I understand what you mean,
00:09:08.080 and it's duty in a sense,
00:09:09.240 but to see your whole marriage as a woman
00:09:12.260 or as a man as a duty,
00:09:15.220 I understand why people don't want to get married.
00:09:17.220 How would you react if he said no to sex for you?
00:09:24.540 I mean, I would respect it,
00:09:26.320 but he cannot say no to me too often.
00:09:28.140 That's tough. 1.00
00:09:32.940 You cannot make this shit up. 1.00
00:09:34.940 You can't make this shit up. 1.00
00:09:37.940 You're going to go. 1.00
00:09:38.940 Go home. 1.00
00:09:39.460 Get the fuck out of here. 1.00
00:09:40.560 Get out of here. 1.00
00:09:41.940 You cannot make it up.
00:09:43.740 Listen, why is this happening across the globe?
00:09:46.840 Why is this happening on the whatever podcast?
00:09:49.420 Why is this happening on Fresh and Fit?
00:09:51.280 And why is it happening on the pregame? 0.99
00:09:53.400 What the fuck is going on here? 0.98
00:09:55.620 Come on, guys, 0.99
00:09:56.240 but I also wanted to make a joke.
00:09:57.840 I liked it a lot.
00:10:00.140 Why?
00:10:01.140 I've been on all three of these shows
00:10:03.340 on three different corners of the earth.
00:10:05.580 Why is this happening?
00:10:07.040 You guys just recruit the women. 1.00
00:10:09.080 It's just great.