JustPearlyThings - April 22, 2023


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In this episode, we discuss what it means to be a traditional woman and why it's important to be submissive to your husband. We also talk about the difference between a Christian and Muslim woman, and why we should all submit to our husbands.

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00:00:00.000 Traditional women are usually married, they usually submit to their husbands, they usually are the one that's cooking for everyone at the park. 1.00
00:00:06.080 I think the greatest thing would be how do you see traditional women because in different, even in the UK, in different parts, there's different parts of, if you look at Liverpool, if you look at travellers, everyone has a traditional type of how they bring, if you look at any culture, they all have a different traditional way and in their life.
00:00:26.180 They have different traditions, but I would still say the archetype of a traditional woman is the same.
00:00:31.420 It's the same.
00:00:32.420 No, because if you look at travellers, if you look at, no, no, no, no, if you look at travellers, they're very crisp, no, no, no, they're very strict, they're very prominent, they're, they are.
00:00:45.180 Travellers, that is nothing, what does that have to do with anything? 0.97
00:00:48.180 I'm just saying when you look at, they're part of traditions, they're part of traditional women, of course they are.
00:00:53.180 Travellers? 0.94
00:00:54.180 Yes, they are. 0.99
00:00:55.180 They're gypsies. 1.00
00:00:56.180 Okay.
00:00:57.180 I don't know anything about gypsies.
00:00:58.180 We don't really have those in the US.
00:01:00.180 They're not big in the US.
00:01:01.180 We have loads of them here.
00:01:02.180 We don't, we actually don't, actually we don't call them that.
00:01:05.180 No, no, no, no.
00:01:06.180 They're not allowed to get an education.
00:01:07.180 They literally have to like get married at a very young age and have children and raise
00:01:11.180 them.
00:01:12.180 Oh, okay.
00:01:13.180 Okay.
00:01:14.180 No, we don't.
00:01:15.180 Yeah, I know, but we don't call, let's not get this.
00:01:16.180 We don't call them that.
00:01:17.180 Let's be very.
00:01:18.180 Call them what?
00:01:19.180 Gypsies. 0.99
00:01:20.180 Because they're not gypsies. 1.00
00:01:21.180 They call themselves gypsies. 1.00
00:01:24.180 They do call themselves gypsies. 1.00
00:01:25.180 I'm just saying that they're also, they, they're very strategic in their belief.
00:01:28.180 They're very, in their faith and how they're brought up and what they believe in as the
00:01:34.180 same as a Muslim woman, a Muslim culture is, a Catholic culture is, a Hindu culture is, 0.98
00:01:40.180 a Buddhism culture is.
00:01:41.180 There's different types of traditional women. 1.00
00:01:43.180 Yes.
00:01:44.180 And they're all falling to the same.
00:01:46.180 So we can't, we can't sit here and say, okay, so what would yours be?
00:01:49.180 Okay.
00:01:50.180 We're going to, we're going to have to go back and forth all night.
00:01:52.180 If you're going to talk about, there's different types of people.
00:01:55.180 Like that's the general argument you keep making.
00:01:57.180 I just think you're stereotyping one person.
00:01:58.180 Yeah.
00:01:59.180 I stereotype a lot.
00:02:00.180 So we'll get over it.
00:02:01.180 Okay.
00:02:02.180 So, um, I, I don't need to get over that.
00:02:03.180 It's not me.
00:02:04.180 You do have to get over it if you want to stay.
00:02:06.180 So I stereotype on the show.
00:02:08.180 Yes.
00:02:09.180 Okay.
00:02:10.180 Yeah.
00:02:11.180 Men, men do like thin women. 1.00
00:02:12.180 That's yeah.
00:02:13.180 Thank you.
00:02:14.180 Um, okay.
00:02:15.180 So, um, what did you say what you did to become traditional?
00:02:21.180 Sorry.
00:02:22.180 The only thing that stuck to my head, you said something really interesting,
00:02:24.180 which is submission.
00:02:25.180 And I think this is the big difference in the Western culture with other
00:02:29.180 traditional cultures, because traditional cultures are more receptive to this
00:02:33.180 concept of submission.
00:02:34.180 And I think a lot of times in the Western culture, we are, um, they don't really know
00:02:39.180 what that means.
00:02:40.180 And this is why there's the conflict.
00:02:42.180 That's, that's just what I wanted to say.
00:02:44.180 Okay.
00:02:45.180 But to add on that, what submission is, is, you know, we see like sometimes the
00:02:52.180 love as it's one sided, you know, I want to, I'm going to give him this so I can get
00:02:56.180 this, but actually true love is not, I'm going to give this to get this.
00:03:00.180 A true love is sacrificial love.
00:03:02.180 And I love that we agree.
00:03:04.180 I thought we were going to not disagree.
00:03:05.180 No, I think that the most like selfless people get the most in general.
00:03:09.180 Yeah.
00:03:10.180 Yeah.
00:03:11.180 Yeah.
00:03:12.180 And this is, I think this is the, and it's sacrificial love.
00:03:13.180 So submission, if a man is submitted to his cause, to his purpose, to his mission,
00:03:18.180 to God, you know, a woman can submit to him, can feel comfortable to submit to him.
00:03:22.180 But the problem that we're facing right now in culture is that women don't feel safe to 1.00
00:03:27.180 submit to men because men are not submitted to a cause or to a purpose.
00:03:31.180 And this is the reason why women don't feel, you know, safe to be submissive. 0.92
00:03:37.180 Oh, because of the men.
00:03:39.180 Could you say that one more time?
00:03:41.180 The part about the men are not what?
00:03:43.180 Sorry.
00:03:44.180 So when we talk about submission, you know, we women, our natural desire is to submit.
00:03:51.180 Our natural desire, no matter how much a woman wants to fight about it, we want to submit. 0.94
00:03:56.180 But the reason why women don't submit, because I know I was like this as well.
00:04:00.180 And I'm still like this.
00:04:01.180 Actually, a man needs to be submitted to, and man doesn't need to be submitted to a woman, 1.00
00:04:06.180 but a man needs to be submitted to a cause, to a purpose and to faith or to God.
00:04:11.180 And this is where a woman needs feel safe to be submitted. 0.91
00:04:15.180 Yeah.
00:04:16.180 But there are men that do that.
00:04:17.180 And I guess the question is like, why are you picking men?
00:04:19.180 I mean, not you, but if you're in that situation, why are you picking men that don't have that?
00:04:24.180 This is really good.
00:04:25.180 And you know what?
00:04:26.180 I put my hands up and I do this mistake as well.
00:04:29.180 Wouldn't you guys agree that men will do anything to get laid?
00:04:32.180 Yes.
00:04:33.180 Yeah.
00:04:34.180 Yeah.
00:04:35.180 So it's like if the men, if the men are a certain way, it's like, because we're not rewarding good behavior.
00:04:40.180 Yeah.
00:04:41.180 But you know what?
00:04:42.180 We're in a, we're in a society now where women will do the same. 1.00
00:04:46.180 Women do what? 1.00
00:04:47.180 We'll do anything to have fun, have sex. 0.81
00:04:51.180 A lot of women now, I don't know if you realize, how old are you? 1.00
00:04:55.180 I'm 26.
00:04:56.180 Okay.
00:04:57.180 So I'm 20 years older than you.
00:04:58.180 A lot of women now in their forties plus don't really kind of want that whole thing. 1.00
00:05:03.180 They just want to go out and have fun, play the game.
00:05:06.180 Yeah.
00:05:07.180 It's really sad.
00:05:08.180 Actually.
00:05:09.180 They should be married and like at home, but they're in the streets.
00:05:11.180 Well, when you get to that age, tell me how sad you are.
00:05:14.180 No.
00:05:15.180 If I'm in the streets at 40, so yeah, I will be sad.
00:05:19.180 I'm not in the streets.
00:05:20.180 I have a very good lifestyle.
00:05:21.180 I wasn't talking about you.
00:05:22.180 No, I didn't think you were, but you said it was very sad.
00:05:27.180 So I'm saying to you, if you feel that's very sad, then when you get to our age, then
00:05:32.180 that's what I'm saying.
00:05:34.180 Yeah.
00:05:35.180 I would be sad.
00:05:36.180 I was 46 and not married.
00:05:39.180 Well, let's revisit that when you're 46 years old.
00:05:42.180 It doesn't necessarily mean if you're 46 or 50 or 55, if you're single, you're not going
00:05:48.180 to be happy.
00:05:49.180 I don't believe in that.
00:05:50.180 Yeah.
00:05:51.180 I agree with that.
00:05:52.180 True.
00:05:53.180 Yeah.
00:05:54.180 You might not, but I would.
00:05:55.180 I would be really sad.
00:05:56.180 Yeah.
00:05:57.180 I mean, I'd either be childless or divorced.
00:06:00.180 Maybe because, yeah, maybe because I'm a few words, maybe I'm just counting.
00:06:05.180 But there's women that choose not to be married, that choose not to have children. 1.00
00:06:10.180 Yeah, but you're engaged.
00:06:11.180 You're not single.
00:06:12.180 You said there's women that choose not to be married. 1.00
00:06:14.180 Married and they choose not to have children.
00:06:15.180 Yeah.
00:06:16.180 And they also choose to go on antidepressants.
00:06:17.180 I've got 24-year-old beautiful daughter.
00:06:19.180 I actually don't think it's a choice.
00:06:20.180 I've got a beautiful 24-year-old daughter.
00:06:22.180 That should have been on our show tonight.
00:06:25.180 And I think we could have addressed that, but she's not here.
00:06:28.180 Well, you could always get a cat.
00:06:30.180 What?
00:06:31.180 You could always get a cat.
00:06:32.180 About a little 24.
00:06:35.180 Yeah, but I don't think, I don't think.
00:06:37.180 I'm allergic to cats.
00:06:38.180 Well, there you go.
00:06:41.180 But I don't think women actually choose to be single and not have children. 0.85
00:06:45.180 I think they end up being mis-educated.
00:06:48.180 Yeah, it's like, would you rather be with a guy that, okay, show of hands.
00:06:51.180 Would you rather be with a guy you love, respect, with, wait, wait, wait.
00:06:54.180 Three billion people.
00:06:55.180 Wait, wait, I'm asking the four on my couch.
00:06:57.180 Okay.
00:06:58.180 All right, seven billion.
00:06:59.180 All right, all right.
00:07:00.180 So, would you rather be with a guy that you love, respect, and admire, and are attracted
00:07:04.180 to, or would you rather be single?
00:07:06.180 I'd rather be on my own.
00:07:08.180 Okay, okay, lady, lady, lady, lady. 0.97
00:07:10.180 This is a hand.
00:07:11.180 Take all of those boxes.
00:07:12.180 This is a hand.
00:07:13.180 Okay.
00:07:14.180 I'm not going to raise my hand.
00:07:15.180 Who says, if you don't raise your hand for one, you can go.
00:07:18.180 You can either cooperate with the show, or you can not cooperate.
00:07:20.180 I'm going to, I'll give you the reasons why I'm not cooperating, because I don't think
00:07:23.180 that.
00:07:24.180 Because this isn't, this isn't your show.
00:07:25.180 No, not my show.
00:07:26.180 I don't want to be your show, but I'm just saying that's my perspective.
00:07:29.180 Okay.
00:07:30.180 So, you can cooperate, or you can not cooperate.
00:07:31.180 So, what you're telling me is, I have to agree with you.
00:07:33.180 No, I'm saying you have to answer questions.
00:07:34.180 Pick one of two options.
00:07:35.180 I'm on a show.
00:07:36.180 I would understand if it's something personal, but this isn't crazy.
00:07:37.180 I can put my hand up, or I can say no.
00:07:38.180 She wants to go.
00:07:39.180 You have to choose one.
00:07:40.180 Okay.
00:07:41.180 All right.
00:07:42.180 Would you, okay.
00:07:43.180 I feel like I'm talking to like a 10 year old right now.
00:07:44.180 I feel like I'm listening to one.
00:07:45.180 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok, and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this
00:08:00.180 platform.
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