JustPearlyThings - May 22, 2023


Rude Woman Interrupts Pearl And she gets KICKED OUT


Episode Stats

Length

14 minutes

Words per Minute

183.71335

Word Count

2,632

Sentence Count

3

Misogynist Sentences

19

Hate Speech Sentences

11


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 have you guys ever had a conversation with your parents about marriage no right yeah yeah what'd
00:00:07.120 they tell you oh my i mean my mom has been married once she wasn't married to my dad actually um but
00:00:17.440 she had three kids from him so that automatically showed me that you don't have to be married in
00:00:21.680 order to build a life right um are they still together no okay no they're not um my mom
00:00:29.520 ultimately doesn't really believe in love at the moment oh wow it's like yeah so you really didn't
00:00:34.400 have like an example to look up to well what is love who do you who do you go to about relationship
00:00:40.080 questions um no one not really i don't really i don't really um talk to i'm very like to myself
00:00:53.760 i keep to myself because i feel like that's where i find my peace and um i feel like not everybody
00:00:59.760 can relate to my mindset so i don't necessarily go to anyone i don't know yeah i guess that makes sense
00:01:06.960 um my parents i grew up in quite a toxic household so i wouldn't say that i've gone to my parents
00:01:14.720 for any relationship marriage advice but my friends my best friend's parents have been married for 20
00:01:19.680 plus years and i really look up to their marriage i see how they are with each other and it also showed
00:01:27.120 me what to like accept and like my like what i expect from a relationship kind of like i don't know
00:01:34.000 like when you see like a a successful like marriage and a successful relationship it kind
00:01:38.960 of was like okay like i strive to have that in the future but have you ever asked them about how they
00:01:45.280 stayed married and like what advice they would have for you communication is that what they said yeah
00:01:50.320 communication is so important okay what about you never um where do i go for advice i thought for
00:01:58.400 relationship advice i don't go anywhere for relationship advice i've never actually thought about doing such
00:02:03.600 thing actually are your parents still married yeah yeah yeah what do you think they would say does
00:02:09.040 your mom listen to your dad for the most part yeah yeah so you think that might be a good way to go about
00:02:15.520 it it has it has its ups and downs coming from an african household so i can't really like
00:02:22.880 touching that too tough where are your parents from nigeria nigeria yeah
00:02:27.600 what are what are some of the cons of submission not having your own mind and somewhat being
00:02:36.560 manipulative you you think that um women are related they're manipulated by men yeah yeah how so
00:02:46.880 being controlled yeah there's a potential for that yeah like they have their own mind they know what is
00:02:53.360 right they know what is good but just because that's what the man wants that's what's gonna go
00:02:59.120 because of what they've said even though within them they know no when did your mind start to because
00:03:05.920 i'd imagine it your it wasn't your whole life that you thought this way no no so when when did you start
00:03:12.400 to think that was bad um properly
00:03:19.520 last year when i realized it and you're 22 yeah 22 so around 21 so you're in school right yeah yeah
00:03:28.080 and when i started realizing it was when i was like 14 15 okay yeah who do you think has better
00:03:37.520 outcomes traditional relationships or modern that's a hard one because the reason why i said
00:03:44.480 that because it all stands from culture as well so it's like it all depends like for example muslims
00:03:51.040 and christians you can't really like put them in the same conversation because there's times when they
00:03:56.560 have arranged marriages and they have to go with what their family says or what the husband says and
00:04:04.080 they're not allowed to have like maybe like businesses of their own is that right is that
00:04:08.080 wrong i don't i don't think that i think a lot of them work in like family businesses yeah but i'm
00:04:14.080 talking about having their own businesses do women do all of them want to work with do women typically
00:04:18.880 want their own businesses are women typically good at business yes yes there's a lot of successful
00:04:24.480 no black and white women who are having successful businesses but you know what i'll actually like
00:04:30.160 stop you there for a second because like i think it's modern day society that has pushed women to
00:04:35.440 want their own businesses and to become like ceos and stuff because traditionally a lot of women like
00:04:40.640 they stay at home the man is the breadwinner you know they look after the kids they they do whatever
00:04:45.600 they do but like modern day society is like oh women should be bosses too and women should go for
00:04:50.880 this i think there is definitely added pressure for that i think every single one can be a business woman
00:04:55.520 and be a boss but there is that added pressure with with the media that definitely is that you
00:05:00.480 can scroll on tick tock and then it's not it's not a good or a bad thing i guess it just kind of
00:05:05.040 depends what you want so that goes back to when women didn't have the rights to vote is that i think
00:05:10.720 we should go back to that i decided that yeah is that good or bad like that was good pardon it's good
00:05:16.160 yeah it's good yeah yeah okay cool thank you yeah i'm done i think that women are bad at business
00:05:27.200 you think there's certain aspects depending on what it is you can't say no they're not good at
00:05:31.600 hair hair business or eyelash businesses because a guy i think that men make more logical decisions
00:05:37.920 and women make a lot of decisions based off emotion yeah no because men have had more time yeah because
00:05:43.760 we do know we do know that females are more emotionally wired than men yeah yeah 100 100
00:05:49.600 and i do feel like women make a lot of decisions based off emotion a lot of the time yeah they do
00:05:54.240 they do and that's why that's why they may not necessarily if i get in an argument i literally
00:05:59.360 like if i'm dating someone i get in a fight an argument i'm really heated i literally have to
00:06:02.800 give myself like a three hour four hour break just to like control my emotions then go back on it on a
00:06:09.680 calm head because i was i would say some rash things out of emotion like i said emotion is you
00:06:15.360 know women us females all about like the feeling and emotions but men just don't really care you
00:06:20.240 know what i just looked up i was just curious founder i i just did the first big beauty brand i could
00:06:25.760 think of l'oreal who founded it a guy oh it's a guy yeah actually that's a lot with fashion designers
00:06:33.040 if you look at women i just don't think women manage people well and to get a really really big
00:06:39.440 business business is about money and men are all about their money their income and they're all about
00:06:44.400 the numbers they don't care about feeling they care about emotions which is good in which is
00:06:48.480 which is good in business which is why yeah like which is why they're very driven in okay money
00:06:53.520 numbers like pretty little fingers owned by a guy no it is it is and they're all about you know driving
00:06:58.400 that and they'll and they get rid of people that like are bad immediately yeah where it's like
00:07:02.720 women we're like oh we'll keep them all yeah and and i say this i say this all about good customer
00:07:08.960 service but i say this as someone that's like doing it i'm like 90 a woman couldn't do what i do
00:07:14.640 and i don't and i couldn't do it without men like i could i could if i didn't have the structure of
00:07:19.200 guys around like i couldn't do it a hundred percent even with me when i'm filming my music videos and
00:07:23.760 doing all these shows and like tools or whatever like a lot of them are men actually that's the
00:07:29.280 reason why a lot of women yeah that's the reason why a lot of women go to men for advice because
00:07:33.520 they're not like what's that word they're just logical they're just straight up yeah yeah and also
00:07:42.080 like to be a ceo or like an owner of a business you have to be ruthless like yeah you have to be
00:07:47.200 ruthless like not a lot of women have that in them to have that stern like control you know what
00:07:51.760 phrase do you know what phrase i think is reversed when they say behind every successful man is a
00:07:56.960 successful woman i think it's the other way around behind every successful woman is a successful man
00:08:01.760 i agree because if you if you look at even like pop stars like a lot of times there's always a mentor
00:08:06.800 isn't there someone mentoring them that is so true yeah that is true and if you look at
00:08:10.960 that's much you know i think like even from my personal experience as well
00:08:15.760 i look up to like a lot of guys who were like big in the music industry who i'm close with and who
00:08:19.680 are like famous famous and i've learned a lot like so much even even yeah i talked to i talked to
00:08:26.880 i talked to someone in the freaking um i forgot who someone that worked in the music industry and
00:08:32.160 they said the reason that record labels are like slow to sign girls is because they'll meet a boy and
00:08:38.720 then just yeah just like stop yeah but then that's because they haven't got control over their emotions
00:08:45.200 you've got a lot of women yeah they get into a relationship and they just forget about everything
00:08:49.120 else so again like they make their relationship their whole life and then we keep saying about
00:08:54.880 how you need to love yourself and have self-control boundaries and like yeah don't just drop everything
00:09:00.880 for this i think i mean it just it depends but it depends what outcome you want yeah so it depends if
00:09:06.800 if you want to make a bunch of money and that's your number one priority then sure but i mean i know
00:09:13.120 girls that want 13 kids yeah so how old do you want to say a lot of baby so for a girl that wants
00:09:19.920 13 kids what's the best in a blink of an eye yeah what's the best outcome for her oh there's a guy
00:09:25.200 that'll pay the bills he wants a lot of kids drop everything that's why they'll stay because it's
00:09:31.040 what they want that's why that's why so the girls that like oftentimes if you see like the girls that
00:09:36.080 say don't drop everything you know they don't usually have better outcomes than the girls that do
00:09:40.880 um i mean when it comes to relationships yeah what i would say as well though like behind
00:09:47.120 every like that phrase behind every man there is a successful woman i wouldn't necessarily say like
00:09:51.760 successful in like the financial like sector or something but a woman that's supportive and pushes
00:09:57.440 him to do better like maybe she's there to help him emotionally like he comes home and he's been
00:10:02.480 working a really long day and he knows that he's gonna come into a cooked meal and he's gonna come home
00:10:07.120 to love and support no matter no matter what i think that's really motivating for a man i'm gonna
00:10:13.280 name three billionaires bill gates jeff bezos elon musk divorce divorce single what he's single
00:10:22.400 i don't know he's got like he's got like six baby mama
00:10:30.960 he's a jamaican at all he breeds them he's a jamaican guys they always they breed anything
00:10:38.640 they're literally oh it's not on it don't forget non-shirts major and demons you're about demons
00:10:46.960 um damn okay i'm gonna do the super chats one second guys thank you so much for the super chats
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00:11:31.200 okay um evan show us the notebook pearl i'm tsunami i'm willing to catch i'm willing to fight catch me
00:11:40.000 at ufc 286 318 oh because i said i was gonna fight them equal equal rights equal fights by the way my
00:11:48.640 whole family loves you pearl uh nicholas uh thank you for the soup is that is that fifty dollars in the
00:11:54.480 u.s fifty dollars super chat um evan uh pearl isn't writing anything down show us the notebook
00:12:02.400 pearl i am i am it's just a little bit um petty petty king in the in the words of myron recreational
00:12:13.040 use only the gem um smashable not wifeable isaac if i'm if i'm choosing the mother of my child i'm not
00:12:19.920 looking for a 304 and none of these women are wife material i'm 90 frito pie i said you can't handle
00:12:24.960 it that's why i don't i said i said i said one of that one of the rules is to not interrupt me till
00:12:33.840 i'm done with the super chats that's one of the rules we read them before the shows did you hear
00:12:37.920 that guys i'm getting told off right now let's see who's gonna win in the comments that's no but you
00:12:43.360 paul's in no no no it's not super chat it's about over talk no i'm no it's it's it's to wait till it's
00:12:49.280 wait till i'm done with the super chat it's too okay um you need to go go okay you can't be this
00:12:55.840 rude go go i'm saying go on go go come on go you're gonna kick me out yeah go go
00:13:02.400 i'm not even having me on the show oh my goodness is it am i going now i need to leave anyway i can't
00:13:14.160 even lie oh see you later guys follow me everywhere super official you know the vibe
00:13:24.160 okay zero follow how will you keep the average men from walking away you don't see it now but
00:13:32.720 slowly men are leaving relationships and marriage to western women if you can't change this the us
00:13:38.480 and the uk will fall evan um the best advice to women is to try to get a guy that makes six figures
00:13:44.080 is to wait until they're 40 and triple their body count in the meantime um uh keep up the good work
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