JustPearlyThings - April 22, 2023


She CALLED -OUT Sneako, but Gets OBLITERATED


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Length

9 minutes

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Word count

2,123

Sentence count

167

Harmful content

Misogyny

34

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Toxicity

9

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Hate speech

15

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Summary

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In this episode, we are joined by our good friend and former co-host of the podcast, to discuss the current state of feminism in the music industry. We discuss what it means to be a woman in the 21st century and why it s so important to have a conversation about it.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Can I tell a factual story?
00:00:01.620 My parents.
00:00:02.620 Sorry, Cardi B, one of the biggest rappers actually came out on Twitter
00:00:06.160 and she said she wants to stop rapping and just focus on raising her children
00:00:09.060 because that's what makes her happy.
00:00:11.100 So do you still feel like, you know, being a rapper is what's going to give you genuine happiness
00:00:15.180 if the biggest rapper in the world is willing to give that up?
00:00:18.580 She got cash.
00:00:20.180 And they sell you a lie.
00:00:21.680 They go on a song and say, I don't cook, I don't clean.
00:00:24.280 And then they really want to.
00:00:25.860 Or Beyonce will make a song, all the single ladies, and she's married. 1.00
00:00:28.440 And stayed with a guy that she did.
00:00:30.980 And they're instilling this brainwashing because it sounds good
00:00:33.700 because it makes you feel empowered.
00:00:35.020 It gives you dopamine in the moment,
00:00:36.240 but it's not really what gives you long-term serotonin, actual happiness, actual higher purpose.
00:00:40.740 It's a drug.
00:00:41.360 It's like smoking a cigarette.
00:00:42.500 Can you hunt?
00:00:44.640 Yeah, I can.
00:00:45.540 Yeah?
00:00:46.000 Can you fight?
00:00:46.880 Of course.
00:00:47.500 Okay, that's good.
00:00:48.280 I think this is...
00:00:50.700 So you're good.
00:00:51.860 You're still a hard man deep down.
00:00:53.860 Even though you started a career online looking for trouble, you're still a man.
00:00:57.160 No, I didn't start a...
00:00:58.260 There's a lot of men that can't do that.
00:01:01.060 I'll ask them, can you hunt?
00:01:02.180 They're like, can you fight?
00:01:04.000 And we tell them to.
00:01:04.620 And this is the reason that Justin Waller is so successful
00:01:06.620 and why people need this online is because men can't live in this,
00:01:10.140 I don't believe in, I'm not going to say you need to improve
00:01:12.960 or else you're going to fall behind.
00:01:14.200 Women can believe in this delusional... 1.00
00:01:16.160 They can just believe in nothing.
00:01:17.980 They can say, I'm going to be a rapper with cats when I'm 65,
00:01:20.460 and then people won't check you.
00:01:21.500 And if I do check you, I'm misogynistic.
00:01:23.640 When you uplift men and you tell them the truth,
00:01:25.520 it's like, yo, thank you for telling me that.
00:01:27.020 I need to improve.
00:01:28.040 Women don't want to hear it. 1.00
00:01:28.900 They want to stay in this cycle of nothing.
00:01:31.720 Yeah.
00:01:32.200 I guess, I mean, because obviously you're not sitting here with guys
00:01:35.160 that are not like you,
00:01:36.900 then you can't sit here and obviously say,
00:01:38.960 yeah, women are also acting a bit more masculine. 1.00
00:01:40.880 I do.
00:01:41.220 I have my friends from back in the day, from back in New York.
00:01:43.260 A lot of them are still in the same spot that they were in college,
00:01:45.160 and I tell them, man, you got to step your game up.
00:01:47.140 That's good.
00:01:47.580 I'll talk to them the same way.
00:01:49.000 It sounds aggressive, but people need to hear that.
00:01:51.380 Because no one talks to them like that.
00:01:52.620 Okay, so that's nice because you saying that
00:01:54.800 and you being able to own up to that
00:01:56.720 brings more balance to your argument
00:01:57.980 because the problem is when we sit in these conversations,
00:02:00.540 we're usually saying women, women, women, women.
00:02:01.900 Well, the difference is for the men to get on this podcast,
00:02:04.420 here's the difference.
00:02:05.460 You can just be a girl and be on this podcast.
00:02:07.400 We don't really care what you've done.
00:02:08.620 To be a man on this podcast,
00:02:10.120 you've had to have done something.
00:02:11.580 Yeah.
00:02:11.960 They're not just going to,
00:02:12.620 you think they're going to go to a club
00:02:13.640 and recruit guys to be here?
00:02:15.720 Yeah, yeah.
00:02:16.140 You wouldn't sit here.
00:02:17.420 These guys are accomplished in their field.
00:02:19.060 That's why we get to sit down with average women. 1.00
00:02:21.040 And do you know why you get to sit down
00:02:22.520 with average women, not me included, obviously? 0.88
00:02:25.340 You're above average, you're different.
00:02:27.060 Thank you.
00:02:27.780 Because actually there's a massive need
00:02:29.880 and urge for people to get on to women, 1.00
00:02:34.340 which I do get.
00:02:35.500 But then there's also a moment
00:02:36.840 where you have to chill out
00:02:37.840 because you're not actually speaking
00:02:39.140 to just average women. 0.99
00:02:40.680 You don't actually know it's from anywhere.
00:02:41.840 So when you have an attitude
00:02:42.860 of almost like wanting to make us patronize
00:02:47.140 almost what we say
00:02:48.580 with such a challenge,
00:02:50.640 yay, that's why you come across as misogyny.
00:02:52.660 Well, I need to get through
00:02:53.320 because this is a common problem
00:02:54.680 that a lot of guys face.
00:02:55.660 She started off by saying
00:02:56.480 she's vibrating with misogyny 1.00
00:02:57.920 and then...
00:02:58.540 You're vibrating, not me.
00:03:00.060 And what I feel to say...
00:03:02.040 And then people don't check that.
00:03:03.120 Like, it's important to check that out.
00:03:04.940 You can't just let that slide.
00:03:05.940 What I feel to say...
00:03:06.140 Hold on.
00:03:06.160 What I feel to say...
00:03:07.060 Actually, never mind.
00:03:09.900 Exactly.
00:03:10.500 Like, you need to call it out
00:03:12.060 when people make no sense 0.87
00:03:12.940 or else we're going to keep living in clown world.
00:03:14.300 Can I challenge you both? 0.86
00:03:15.780 Can I challenge you both?
00:03:18.260 So...
00:03:18.820 I feel like these new age internet men
00:03:21.460 are, like, very destructive
00:03:23.000 to these young men out there
00:03:24.240 because you have an opinion,
00:03:27.000 you have a voice,
00:03:27.700 you're very vocal about it
00:03:28.820 and you stand strong in your point
00:03:30.380 and, like, you know,
00:03:31.520 you've got this Andrew Tate passport bros thing
00:03:33.520 is what you're getting at
00:03:35.060 because that's going back
00:03:36.700 in different countries.
00:03:37.640 Women are feminine, 1.00
00:03:38.400 la-di-la-di-la, 0.99
00:03:39.760 sounding like some nonsense stuff
00:03:41.660 that other guys jump
00:03:42.800 because the guy's never going to look
00:03:44.080 at a woman for influence.
00:03:45.880 Like, let's be real.
00:03:47.180 Real...
00:03:47.780 Well, not real men.
00:03:48.480 A lot of men will not look...
00:03:49.620 And this is why...
00:03:51.080 In rap and other careers fields
00:03:54.480 where women are at the top, 1.00
00:03:56.480 men will not...
00:03:57.300 They don't look at you
00:03:58.960 and think,
00:04:00.280 oh, this person can influence...
00:04:02.780 This person can influence me
00:04:04.460 or this person...
00:04:05.660 It can't come from a woman 1.00
00:04:07.000 but whereas if Andrew Tate does it,
00:04:08.520 it's like,
00:04:08.800 oh, yeah, let's jump on the bandwagon
00:04:10.260 because he's a guy,
00:04:11.040 I'm a guy.
00:04:11.640 Like, you only want to relate to someone
00:04:13.080 because of...
00:04:13.840 Yeah, but one of the reasons...
00:04:14.820 A gender role. 1.00
00:04:15.740 Like, let's be real.
00:04:16.640 One of the reasons that's happening, though,
00:04:18.320 is because people like Tate
00:04:20.080 and, you know,
00:04:20.860 the gentleman sitting here
00:04:21.960 are redressing the balance
00:04:23.780 because they're...
00:04:24.440 And the reason that they've been so popular
00:04:26.320 and they've blown up to such an extent
00:04:27.520 is because they're going against
00:04:28.940 what is the prevailing narrative.
00:04:30.240 And the prevailing narrative
00:04:31.340 is basically telling guys,
00:04:32.580 you know, be a nice guy,
00:04:34.820 buy flowers,
00:04:36.200 you know, take on 15 dates,
00:04:37.300 you know, this kind of thing.
00:04:38.180 And all of that kind of thing
00:04:39.640 hasn't worked.
00:04:40.620 But the first thing that he said
00:04:41.660 is that he's a nice guy.
00:04:42.860 So refine what you mean by...
00:04:43.760 But he's a nice guy.
00:04:44.520 Yeah, so what does that mean then?
00:04:45.960 So he's a nice guy
00:04:46.800 but he's like this
00:04:47.620 and he's like that.
00:04:48.280 Like, it's not making any sense.
00:04:49.540 Like I said,
00:04:50.020 these internet boys,
00:04:51.000 a lot of men on the internet
00:04:52.260 are being brainwashed.
00:04:53.820 Like the women, 1.00
00:04:55.500 okay, yeah, 0.98
00:04:56.080 the women are being brainwashed 0.99
00:04:57.240 but yeah,
00:04:57.840 we have maybe a few sensible men
00:04:59.580 who can, you know,
00:05:00.940 you're not going to go
00:05:01.640 for every single woman anyways.
00:05:02.980 There's one wife.
00:05:03.980 One wife, one wife. 0.97
00:05:04.800 What did they say?
00:05:05.840 What did they say that's not true?
00:05:07.720 What have they said that's not true?
00:05:08.880 Andrew Tate.
00:05:09.440 One thing he said,
00:05:10.800 not true.
00:05:11.440 No, I don't disagree with what he...
00:05:12.680 I don't disagree with what
00:05:14.320 Andrew Tate says.
00:05:15.520 I'm just saying that he's influenced.
00:05:16.960 Okay, okay, sorry, sorry.
00:05:16.980 Sneeko, what did he say
00:05:18.640 that's not true?
00:05:19.300 It's how he's saying it.
00:05:20.500 Like, there's a way to say it
00:05:21.800 and I don't agree.
00:05:22.560 And a lot of it is...
00:05:23.700 No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:05:25.180 That's enough.
00:05:25.620 That's enough.
00:05:26.140 That's enough.
00:05:26.560 That's enough.
00:05:27.020 That's the perfect point
00:05:27.980 because brainwashing implies
00:05:29.240 that you're lying,
00:05:30.180 that you're feeding him a lie.
00:05:31.160 It's not what I'm saying
00:05:32.420 because you can't refute any of it.
00:05:33.600 It's how I'm saying it
00:05:34.400 and this is the Western world.
00:05:36.080 We prioritize the way you feel
00:05:37.680 your vibrations of misogyny
00:05:39.320 over what is true
00:05:40.400 and what's false.
00:05:41.180 But people are not going to listen to you
00:05:42.660 if you're not telling the truth.
00:05:43.880 What you're saying is
00:05:44.680 flying over a lot of people's heads.
00:05:47.160 Yours.
00:05:47.360 No, not mine
00:05:48.480 because I don't believe
00:05:49.560 in what you're saying anyways.
00:05:50.680 You said you know a woman's nature. 0.74
00:05:54.000 You will never know a woman's nature. 1.00
00:05:56.280 You don't bleed once a month, bro.
00:05:58.000 You're never going to know
00:05:58.880 what it's like.
00:05:59.360 That's got nothing to do with that.
00:05:59.760 No, but it's a woman's nature. 1.00
00:06:01.180 So what are you talking about?
00:06:02.240 It's a woman's nature, 1.00
00:06:03.440 female nature. 1.00
00:06:04.440 It goes hand in hand.
00:06:06.280 So what's your point?
00:06:07.120 I want to hear from you.
00:06:08.600 You haven't talked much.
00:06:09.880 Yeah, no.
00:06:10.500 I don't think that's got anything
00:06:11.720 to do with it.
00:06:12.460 And another thing,
00:06:13.200 I want to go back
00:06:13.800 to the misogyny thing.
00:06:15.400 I feel like people just throw around
00:06:17.140 whatever they feel,
00:06:18.520 whatever they want to say
00:06:19.380 but they don't want to hold
00:06:20.160 accountability.
00:06:21.680 Like you don't,
00:06:22.780 you can just say whatever.
00:06:24.440 You can say whatever
00:06:25.460 but he can't say the same thing
00:06:27.460 because then he will,
00:06:28.600 you know, 1.00
00:06:29.100 you will throw a bitch for it. 1.00
00:06:30.500 Can I challenge the both of you? 1.00
00:06:32.480 I'm sure most of you guys
00:06:33.680 can agree that men
00:06:34.580 are becoming more feminine.
00:06:36.540 Can you kind of understand
00:06:38.000 why that's forced women 1.00
00:06:39.920 to almost become more masculine?
00:06:41.720 But this is why.
00:06:42.560 No, but that's because of women. 1.00
00:06:43.940 Can we just say,
00:06:44.520 yeah, can we just say one thing though?
00:06:46.000 This is why,
00:06:47.600 because you've mentioned
00:06:48.160 Andrew Tate,
00:06:48.760 people like that,
00:06:49.340 and obviously,
00:06:49.960 as you said,
00:06:50.380 the gentleman here,
00:06:51.560 the reason that those people
00:06:53.100 have risen to prominence
00:06:54.100 is because
00:06:55.060 the West is out of balance,
00:06:57.740 right?
00:06:58.080 They are there redressing the balance.
00:06:59.800 They're going against
00:07:00.560 the prevailing narrative.
00:07:01.840 And the main thing
00:07:02.880 that they're preaching,
00:07:03.840 everybody,
00:07:04.440 is self-improvement
00:07:05.140 because men have to,
00:07:05.960 like you said,
00:07:06.680 men have to step up.
00:07:07.900 We don't get a choice
00:07:09.020 to not step up.
00:07:10.680 We can't just say,
00:07:11.300 oh, well,
00:07:11.660 I'm just, you know,
00:07:12.340 I'm just living my truth
00:07:13.540 and, you know,
00:07:14.060 it's all going to be fine.
00:07:15.100 We have to put in the work,
00:07:16.340 otherwise we're just going
00:07:17.060 to get left on the sidelines.
00:07:18.380 Women have more advantage 1.00
00:07:19.660 than that for the most part.
00:07:20.720 But to go back,
00:07:21.320 sorry to stop you,
00:07:22.020 just to go back to my question,
00:07:23.460 like,
00:07:23.760 can you both understand
00:07:25.200 why women have now 1.00
00:07:26.520 become more masculine?
00:07:27.960 So for example,
00:07:28.540 like a woman, 0.94
00:07:29.260 her husband has left the family
00:07:30.620 and now she's forced 0.87
00:07:31.500 to become more masculine
00:07:32.960 and work and just do
00:07:34.040 more masculine things.
00:07:35.400 So would you guys
00:07:36.380 now look down on her
00:07:37.500 because she's been forced
00:07:38.740 to play a position
00:07:39.420 that she had no choice
00:07:40.540 but to play?
00:07:41.240 Yeah,
00:07:41.380 but women leave 1.00
00:07:42.540 more marriages
00:07:43.060 than men do.
00:07:44.820 Like 80% of divorces
00:07:46.500 are initiated by women.
00:07:47.320 I forgot what you were talking about.
00:07:48.280 And women, 1.00
00:07:49.060 women always worked, 1.00
00:07:50.060 they just worked in the house.
00:07:52.280 Like they always worked,
00:07:53.020 they were in the field,
00:07:54.300 on the plow.
00:07:55.320 Like if anything,
00:07:55.900 they worked more
00:07:56.500 in previous generations.
00:07:58.140 But they still kept
00:07:59.060 their femininity.
00:07:59.960 What I'm trying to say
00:08:00.600 is that women have become 1.00
00:08:01.620 more masculine
00:08:02.420 and I feel like,
00:08:03.900 do you guys
00:08:04.640 somewhat understand why
00:08:06.360 or do you think
00:08:07.020 we're just waking up
00:08:07.780 and deciding
00:08:08.280 let's just be feminine? 1.00
00:08:09.380 Because as much as
00:08:10.240 I feel like feminism
00:08:10.980 is a dark thing,
00:08:12.480 there's a slight part of me
00:08:13.520 that can understand
00:08:14.280 why women have been forced 0.90
00:08:15.580 to play this masculine role
00:08:17.240 and do you guys
00:08:17.900 even acknowledge it
00:08:18.720 or do you guys still think
00:08:19.700 it's a mindset thing?
00:08:20.560 This is why it's not misogyny.
00:08:21.980 I completely understand why.
00:08:23.280 I think a lot of trans people,
00:08:24.300 for example,
00:08:24.860 are men turning into women
00:08:26.340 because it's getting harder
00:08:27.140 to perform as a man
00:08:28.020 and so they'd rather go
00:08:29.100 and become women 0.81
00:08:29.880 in that sense.
00:08:30.660 The brainwashing is equal.
00:08:32.100 There's an equal amount
00:08:33.120 of brainwashing
00:08:33.820 on the masculine side
00:08:35.340 to become more feminine
00:08:36.260 and to paint your nails
00:08:37.380 and to act like that
00:08:39.760 and you see it being pushed
00:08:40.920 by YouTube
00:08:41.340 and these platforms.
00:08:42.320 They encourage it.
00:08:43.160 They clap it.
00:08:43.740 They're very,
00:08:44.640 Yas Queen, 1.00
00:08:45.080 they say Yas Queen to men. 1.00
00:08:46.500 You see who the men
00:08:47.340 that are getting propped up
00:08:48.120 and the most famous pop stars
00:08:50.040 and music celebrities.
00:08:50.920 They're all,
00:08:51.720 you see the agenda.
00:08:54.020 As many of you know,
00:08:55.960 I was just banned on TikTok
00:08:58.000 and we are demonetized
00:08:59.720 on a daily basis
00:09:01.000 on this platform.
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