JustPearlyThings - April 22, 2023


She CALLED -OUT Sneako, but Gets OBLITERATED


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

231.14612

Word Count

2,123

Sentence Count

167

Misogynist Sentences

34

Hate Speech Sentences

15


Summary

In this episode, we are joined by our good friend and former co-host of the podcast, to discuss the current state of feminism in the music industry. We discuss what it means to be a woman in the 21st century and why it s so important to have a conversation about it.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Can I tell a factual story?
00:00:01.620 My parents.
00:00:02.620 Sorry, Cardi B, one of the biggest rappers actually came out on Twitter
00:00:06.160 and she said she wants to stop rapping and just focus on raising her children
00:00:09.060 because that's what makes her happy.
00:00:11.100 So do you still feel like, you know, being a rapper is what's going to give you genuine happiness
00:00:15.180 if the biggest rapper in the world is willing to give that up?
00:00:18.580 She got cash.
00:00:20.180 And they sell you a lie.
00:00:21.680 They go on a song and say, I don't cook, I don't clean.
00:00:24.280 And then they really want to.
00:00:25.860 Or Beyonce will make a song, all the single ladies, and she's married.
00:00:28.440 And stayed with a guy that she did.
00:00:30.980 And they're instilling this brainwashing because it sounds good
00:00:33.700 because it makes you feel empowered.
00:00:35.020 It gives you dopamine in the moment,
00:00:36.240 but it's not really what gives you long-term serotonin, actual happiness, actual higher purpose.
00:00:40.740 It's a drug.
00:00:41.360 It's like smoking a cigarette.
00:00:42.500 Can you hunt?
00:00:44.640 Yeah, I can.
00:00:45.540 Yeah?
00:00:46.000 Can you fight?
00:00:46.880 Of course.
00:00:47.500 Okay, that's good.
00:00:48.280 I think this is...
00:00:50.700 So you're good.
00:00:51.860 You're still a hard man deep down.
00:00:53.860 Even though you started a career online looking for trouble, you're still a man.
00:00:57.160 No, I didn't start a...
00:00:58.260 There's a lot of men that can't do that.
00:01:01.060 I'll ask them, can you hunt?
00:01:02.180 They're like, can you fight?
00:01:04.000 And we tell them to.
00:01:04.620 And this is the reason that Justin Waller is so successful
00:01:06.620 and why people need this online is because men can't live in this,
00:01:10.140 I don't believe in, I'm not going to say you need to improve
00:01:12.960 or else you're going to fall behind.
00:01:14.200 Women can believe in this delusional...
00:01:16.160 They can just believe in nothing.
00:01:17.980 They can say, I'm going to be a rapper with cats when I'm 65,
00:01:20.460 and then people won't check you.
00:01:21.500 And if I do check you, I'm misogynistic.
00:01:23.640 When you uplift men and you tell them the truth,
00:01:25.520 it's like, yo, thank you for telling me that.
00:01:27.020 I need to improve.
00:01:28.040 Women don't want to hear it.
00:01:28.900 They want to stay in this cycle of nothing.
00:01:31.720 Yeah.
00:01:32.200 I guess, I mean, because obviously you're not sitting here with guys
00:01:35.160 that are not like you,
00:01:36.900 then you can't sit here and obviously say,
00:01:38.960 yeah, women are also acting a bit more masculine.
00:01:40.880 I do.
00:01:41.220 I have my friends from back in the day, from back in New York.
00:01:43.260 A lot of them are still in the same spot that they were in college,
00:01:45.160 and I tell them, man, you got to step your game up.
00:01:47.140 That's good.
00:01:47.580 I'll talk to them the same way.
00:01:49.000 It sounds aggressive, but people need to hear that.
00:01:51.380 Because no one talks to them like that.
00:01:52.620 Okay, so that's nice because you saying that
00:01:54.800 and you being able to own up to that
00:01:56.720 brings more balance to your argument
00:01:57.980 because the problem is when we sit in these conversations,
00:02:00.540 we're usually saying women, women, women, women.
00:02:01.900 Well, the difference is for the men to get on this podcast,
00:02:04.420 here's the difference.
00:02:05.460 You can just be a girl and be on this podcast.
00:02:07.400 We don't really care what you've done.
00:02:08.620 To be a man on this podcast,
00:02:10.120 you've had to have done something.
00:02:11.580 Yeah.
00:02:11.960 They're not just going to,
00:02:12.620 you think they're going to go to a club
00:02:13.640 and recruit guys to be here?
00:02:15.720 Yeah, yeah.
00:02:16.140 You wouldn't sit here.
00:02:17.420 These guys are accomplished in their field.
00:02:19.060 That's why we get to sit down with average women.
00:02:21.040 And do you know why you get to sit down
00:02:22.520 with average women, not me included, obviously?
00:02:25.340 You're above average, you're different.
00:02:27.060 Thank you.
00:02:27.780 Because actually there's a massive need
00:02:29.880 and urge for people to get on to women,
00:02:34.340 which I do get.
00:02:35.500 But then there's also a moment
00:02:36.840 where you have to chill out
00:02:37.840 because you're not actually speaking
00:02:39.140 to just average women.
00:02:40.680 You don't actually know it's from anywhere.
00:02:41.840 So when you have an attitude
00:02:42.860 of almost like wanting to make us patronize
00:02:47.140 almost what we say
00:02:48.580 with such a challenge,
00:02:50.640 yay, that's why you come across as misogyny.
00:02:52.660 Well, I need to get through
00:02:53.320 because this is a common problem
00:02:54.680 that a lot of guys face.
00:02:55.660 She started off by saying
00:02:56.480 she's vibrating with misogyny
00:02:57.920 and then...
00:02:58.540 You're vibrating, not me.
00:03:00.060 And what I feel to say...
00:03:02.040 And then people don't check that.
00:03:03.120 Like, it's important to check that out.
00:03:04.940 You can't just let that slide.
00:03:05.940 What I feel to say...
00:03:06.140 Hold on.
00:03:06.160 What I feel to say...
00:03:07.060 Actually, never mind.
00:03:09.900 Exactly.
00:03:10.500 Like, you need to call it out
00:03:12.060 when people make no sense
00:03:12.940 or else we're going to keep living in clown world.
00:03:14.300 Can I challenge you both?
00:03:15.780 Can I challenge you both?
00:03:18.260 So...
00:03:18.820 I feel like these new age internet men
00:03:21.460 are, like, very destructive
00:03:23.000 to these young men out there
00:03:24.240 because you have an opinion,
00:03:27.000 you have a voice,
00:03:27.700 you're very vocal about it
00:03:28.820 and you stand strong in your point
00:03:30.380 and, like, you know,
00:03:31.520 you've got this Andrew Tate passport bros thing
00:03:33.520 is what you're getting at
00:03:35.060 because that's going back
00:03:36.700 in different countries.
00:03:37.640 Women are feminine,
00:03:38.400 la-di-la-di-la,
00:03:39.760 sounding like some nonsense stuff
00:03:41.660 that other guys jump
00:03:42.800 because the guy's never going to look
00:03:44.080 at a woman for influence.
00:03:45.880 Like, let's be real.
00:03:47.180 Real...
00:03:47.780 Well, not real men.
00:03:48.480 A lot of men will not look...
00:03:49.620 And this is why...
00:03:51.080 In rap and other careers fields
00:03:54.480 where women are at the top,
00:03:56.480 men will not...
00:03:57.300 They don't look at you
00:03:58.960 and think,
00:04:00.280 oh, this person can influence...
00:04:02.780 This person can influence me
00:04:04.460 or this person...
00:04:05.660 It can't come from a woman
00:04:07.000 but whereas if Andrew Tate does it,
00:04:08.520 it's like,
00:04:08.800 oh, yeah, let's jump on the bandwagon
00:04:10.260 because he's a guy,
00:04:11.040 I'm a guy.
00:04:11.640 Like, you only want to relate to someone
00:04:13.080 because of...
00:04:13.840 Yeah, but one of the reasons...
00:04:14.820 A gender role.
00:04:15.740 Like, let's be real.
00:04:16.640 One of the reasons that's happening, though,
00:04:18.320 is because people like Tate
00:04:20.080 and, you know,
00:04:20.860 the gentleman sitting here
00:04:21.960 are redressing the balance
00:04:23.780 because they're...
00:04:24.440 And the reason that they've been so popular
00:04:26.320 and they've blown up to such an extent
00:04:27.520 is because they're going against
00:04:28.940 what is the prevailing narrative.
00:04:30.240 And the prevailing narrative
00:04:31.340 is basically telling guys,
00:04:32.580 you know, be a nice guy,
00:04:34.820 buy flowers,
00:04:36.200 you know, take on 15 dates,
00:04:37.300 you know, this kind of thing.
00:04:38.180 And all of that kind of thing
00:04:39.640 hasn't worked.
00:04:40.620 But the first thing that he said
00:04:41.660 is that he's a nice guy.
00:04:42.860 So refine what you mean by...
00:04:43.760 But he's a nice guy.
00:04:44.520 Yeah, so what does that mean then?
00:04:45.960 So he's a nice guy
00:04:46.800 but he's like this
00:04:47.620 and he's like that.
00:04:48.280 Like, it's not making any sense.
00:04:49.540 Like I said,
00:04:50.020 these internet boys,
00:04:51.000 a lot of men on the internet
00:04:52.260 are being brainwashed.
00:04:53.820 Like the women,
00:04:55.500 okay, yeah,
00:04:56.080 the women are being brainwashed
00:04:57.240 but yeah,
00:04:57.840 we have maybe a few sensible men
00:04:59.580 who can, you know,
00:05:00.940 you're not going to go
00:05:01.640 for every single woman anyways.
00:05:02.980 There's one wife.
00:05:03.980 One wife, one wife.
00:05:04.800 What did they say?
00:05:05.840 What did they say that's not true?
00:05:07.720 What have they said that's not true?
00:05:08.880 Andrew Tate.
00:05:09.440 One thing he said,
00:05:10.800 not true.
00:05:11.440 No, I don't disagree with what he...
00:05:12.680 I don't disagree with what
00:05:14.320 Andrew Tate says.
00:05:15.520 I'm just saying that he's influenced.
00:05:16.960 Okay, okay, sorry, sorry.
00:05:16.980 Sneeko, what did he say
00:05:18.640 that's not true?
00:05:19.300 It's how he's saying it.
00:05:20.500 Like, there's a way to say it
00:05:21.800 and I don't agree.
00:05:22.560 And a lot of it is...
00:05:23.700 No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:05:25.180 That's enough.
00:05:25.620 That's enough.
00:05:26.140 That's enough.
00:05:26.560 That's enough.
00:05:27.020 That's the perfect point
00:05:27.980 because brainwashing implies
00:05:29.240 that you're lying,
00:05:30.180 that you're feeding him a lie.
00:05:31.160 It's not what I'm saying
00:05:32.420 because you can't refute any of it.
00:05:33.600 It's how I'm saying it
00:05:34.400 and this is the Western world.
00:05:36.080 We prioritize the way you feel
00:05:37.680 your vibrations of misogyny
00:05:39.320 over what is true
00:05:40.400 and what's false.
00:05:41.180 But people are not going to listen to you
00:05:42.660 if you're not telling the truth.
00:05:43.880 What you're saying is
00:05:44.680 flying over a lot of people's heads.
00:05:47.160 Yours.
00:05:47.360 No, not mine
00:05:48.480 because I don't believe
00:05:49.560 in what you're saying anyways.
00:05:50.680 You said you know a woman's nature.
00:05:54.000 You will never know a woman's nature.
00:05:56.280 You don't bleed once a month, bro.
00:05:58.000 You're never going to know
00:05:58.880 what it's like.
00:05:59.360 That's got nothing to do with that.
00:05:59.760 No, but it's a woman's nature.
00:06:01.180 So what are you talking about?
00:06:02.240 It's a woman's nature,
00:06:03.440 female nature.
00:06:04.440 It goes hand in hand.
00:06:06.280 So what's your point?
00:06:07.120 I want to hear from you.
00:06:08.600 You haven't talked much.
00:06:09.880 Yeah, no.
00:06:10.500 I don't think that's got anything
00:06:11.720 to do with it.
00:06:12.460 And another thing,
00:06:13.200 I want to go back
00:06:13.800 to the misogyny thing.
00:06:15.400 I feel like people just throw around
00:06:17.140 whatever they feel,
00:06:18.520 whatever they want to say
00:06:19.380 but they don't want to hold
00:06:20.160 accountability.
00:06:21.680 Like you don't,
00:06:22.780 you can just say whatever.
00:06:24.440 You can say whatever
00:06:25.460 but he can't say the same thing
00:06:27.460 because then he will,
00:06:28.600 you know,
00:06:29.100 you will throw a bitch for it.
00:06:30.500 Can I challenge the both of you?
00:06:32.480 I'm sure most of you guys
00:06:33.680 can agree that men
00:06:34.580 are becoming more feminine.
00:06:36.540 Can you kind of understand
00:06:38.000 why that's forced women
00:06:39.920 to almost become more masculine?
00:06:41.720 But this is why.
00:06:42.560 No, but that's because of women.
00:06:43.940 Can we just say,
00:06:44.520 yeah, can we just say one thing though?
00:06:46.000 This is why,
00:06:47.600 because you've mentioned
00:06:48.160 Andrew Tate,
00:06:48.760 people like that,
00:06:49.340 and obviously,
00:06:49.960 as you said,
00:06:50.380 the gentleman here,
00:06:51.560 the reason that those people
00:06:53.100 have risen to prominence
00:06:54.100 is because
00:06:55.060 the West is out of balance,
00:06:57.740 right?
00:06:58.080 They are there redressing the balance.
00:06:59.800 They're going against
00:07:00.560 the prevailing narrative.
00:07:01.840 And the main thing
00:07:02.880 that they're preaching,
00:07:03.840 everybody,
00:07:04.440 is self-improvement
00:07:05.140 because men have to,
00:07:05.960 like you said,
00:07:06.680 men have to step up.
00:07:07.900 We don't get a choice
00:07:09.020 to not step up.
00:07:10.680 We can't just say,
00:07:11.300 oh, well,
00:07:11.660 I'm just, you know,
00:07:12.340 I'm just living my truth
00:07:13.540 and, you know,
00:07:14.060 it's all going to be fine.
00:07:15.100 We have to put in the work,
00:07:16.340 otherwise we're just going
00:07:17.060 to get left on the sidelines.
00:07:18.380 Women have more advantage
00:07:19.660 than that for the most part.
00:07:20.720 But to go back,
00:07:21.320 sorry to stop you,
00:07:22.020 just to go back to my question,
00:07:23.460 like,
00:07:23.760 can you both understand
00:07:25.200 why women have now
00:07:26.520 become more masculine?
00:07:27.960 So for example,
00:07:28.540 like a woman,
00:07:29.260 her husband has left the family
00:07:30.620 and now she's forced
00:07:31.500 to become more masculine
00:07:32.960 and work and just do
00:07:34.040 more masculine things.
00:07:35.400 So would you guys
00:07:36.380 now look down on her
00:07:37.500 because she's been forced
00:07:38.740 to play a position
00:07:39.420 that she had no choice
00:07:40.540 but to play?
00:07:41.240 Yeah,
00:07:41.380 but women leave
00:07:42.540 more marriages
00:07:43.060 than men do.
00:07:44.820 Like 80% of divorces
00:07:46.500 are initiated by women.
00:07:47.320 I forgot what you were talking about.
00:07:48.280 And women,
00:07:49.060 women always worked,
00:07:50.060 they just worked in the house.
00:07:52.280 Like they always worked,
00:07:53.020 they were in the field,
00:07:54.300 on the plow.
00:07:55.320 Like if anything,
00:07:55.900 they worked more
00:07:56.500 in previous generations.
00:07:58.140 But they still kept
00:07:59.060 their femininity.
00:07:59.960 What I'm trying to say
00:08:00.600 is that women have become
00:08:01.620 more masculine
00:08:02.420 and I feel like,
00:08:03.900 do you guys
00:08:04.640 somewhat understand why
00:08:06.360 or do you think
00:08:07.020 we're just waking up
00:08:07.780 and deciding
00:08:08.280 let's just be feminine?
00:08:09.380 Because as much as
00:08:10.240 I feel like feminism
00:08:10.980 is a dark thing,
00:08:12.480 there's a slight part of me
00:08:13.520 that can understand
00:08:14.280 why women have been forced
00:08:15.580 to play this masculine role
00:08:17.240 and do you guys
00:08:17.900 even acknowledge it
00:08:18.720 or do you guys still think
00:08:19.700 it's a mindset thing?
00:08:20.560 This is why it's not misogyny.
00:08:21.980 I completely understand why.
00:08:23.280 I think a lot of trans people,
00:08:24.300 for example,
00:08:24.860 are men turning into women
00:08:26.340 because it's getting harder
00:08:27.140 to perform as a man
00:08:28.020 and so they'd rather go
00:08:29.100 and become women
00:08:29.880 in that sense.
00:08:30.660 The brainwashing is equal.
00:08:32.100 There's an equal amount
00:08:33.120 of brainwashing
00:08:33.820 on the masculine side
00:08:35.340 to become more feminine
00:08:36.260 and to paint your nails
00:08:37.380 and to act like that
00:08:39.760 and you see it being pushed
00:08:40.920 by YouTube
00:08:41.340 and these platforms.
00:08:42.320 They encourage it.
00:08:43.160 They clap it.
00:08:43.740 They're very,
00:08:44.640 Yas Queen,
00:08:45.080 they say Yas Queen to men.
00:08:46.500 You see who the men
00:08:47.340 that are getting propped up
00:08:48.120 and the most famous pop stars
00:08:50.040 and music celebrities.
00:08:50.920 They're all,
00:08:51.720 you see the agenda.
00:08:54.020 As many of you know,
00:08:55.960 I was just banned on TikTok
00:08:58.000 and we are demonetized
00:08:59.720 on a daily basis
00:09:01.000 on this platform.
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