JustPearlyThings - August 10, 2023


She Claims That Boss Babes Are High Value Women


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Length

7 minutes

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182.99986

Word count

1,375

Sentence count

3

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Misogyny

10

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Toxicity

4

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Hate speech

3

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In this episode, we discuss the importance of a high value woman and what it means to be a woman who is submissive to a man who values her. We also talk about what a "high value woman" is and why men don't like submissive women.

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00:00:00.000 can you define a high value woman to me or to you um high value woman is someone who first of all 0.99
00:00:06.960 has a lot of respect for herself you know um has a lot of like pride you know works hard
00:00:15.120 do you think men want prideful hard workers
00:00:17.820 well i i i feel like no because men obviously just want someone who's beautiful and is just
00:00:26.300 gonna be submissive and say yes and well that's at least what we're being told but i feel like
00:00:32.500 i think that's not true no men don't like submissive women no i don't think so no because
00:00:39.800 i feel like it's not about being submissive you just have to be kind and you have to be loving
00:00:47.200 and you have to respect your man a lot of women don't actually respect their men yes they like
00:00:53.260 them they're attracted to them they love them but they don't actually respect them and i feel like
00:00:57.400 men want respect from women and they don't get that enough well i i agree with you but but why is that
00:01:03.800 not submission why isn't that part of submission no because i still have a voice you don't think
00:01:10.120 submissive women have voices i don't know i feel like if i'm just going to be saying yes to everything 1.00
00:01:17.040 and doing everything that my man wants then i've kind of lost sense of who i am like i want to have
00:01:23.180 a voice in this partnership i want to have a voice in this marriage and i want to be heard and i want
00:01:27.660 to be seen submission is like he's your boss so your boss can take your opinion into account but
00:01:32.420 at the end of the day he has the final say and men don't they don't feel like they're respected if
00:01:36.920 you don't give them the final say like they don't want a woman that they have to argue with all the 0.99
00:01:40.300 time yeah but you don't have to argue with a man to get your point across if you're with a loving
00:01:45.560 respectful man who hears you and values you he's always going to listen to you he can hear you and
00:01:51.880 listen to you and still tell you no okay like so that's just because if he tells me no
00:01:58.800 it it depends like there's there's certain things that yeah i might be like okay cool i'll submit to
00:02:04.660 you because i would say i'm definitely a traditional woman and there are are you a virgin
00:02:09.660 i'm sorry i'm saying how are you traditional a traditional woman is a 22 year old virgin
00:02:15.060 no as in i have like traditional values the way that i was brought i'm arab i'm moroccan we are brought
00:02:20.480 up in a certain way um and the men that i see in my culture are very traditional they're providers
00:02:27.680 you know they go out they make money and a lot of women in my culture they don't work they just sort 1.00
00:02:35.280 of stay at home and the man goes out and gets the money and they just raise the kids obviously we've
00:02:40.540 moved on from that but i still hold those values in the sense that i'm okay to submit to my man
00:02:47.360 when the time is right or when i feel the time is right but the whole point is that's that's not 0.83
00:02:51.740 submission is when you feel i mean we're women we change our opinions every goddamn day we don't 0.99
00:02:57.080 even know what we want half the time so it's like if you if if if i if i employ blessing and i say
00:03:02.660 blessing turn this camera angle on or i do do this do this and at the end of the day i have the final say
00:03:08.840 and and that's kind of how it is should be anyways when you're submitting to a guy
00:03:13.560 so so you're saying that's what men want they just want someone to go yes i'll do exactly what
00:03:19.960 you tell me to do no they just want to argue all the time with every decision i'm kidding
00:03:24.980 no they just want to fight every day
00:03:29.160 i personally think they're gonna have long conversations about every decisions and just
00:03:35.680 really make you feel heard well i feel like yeah i don't know i i will submit to the right man
00:03:44.120 and if i feel comfortable but i will always have my boundaries set in place firmly sometimes you're
00:03:51.700 not going to feel comfortable i mean in a 30 40 50 year marriage you think you're not going to feel
00:03:55.660 comfortable and sometimes you're going to feel like he's not the right man i mean we change our
00:04:00.840 mind every day yeah 100 so tell me more about the high value woman what else i mean the high value 1.00
00:04:06.800 woman is like someone who like is kind who's nurturing you know um who's gonna support her man 1.00
00:04:14.860 lift him up motivate him inspire him um you know is is fun she has that feminine energy that men crave 1.00
00:04:23.980 um you know um you know the list goes on and i know that men are not stupid they know when they
00:04:31.040 come across a high value woman they know um so yeah do you want to know what i hear when i hear high 1.00
00:04:39.280 value woman oh god designer she won all that instagram like highlighted factor like valentine's day 0.99
00:04:50.580 you better make sure that like you've got the hotel with the little petals and the balloons
00:04:58.140 like holidays it's like it's like give me everything i'm not kim kardashian but um this
00:05:07.220 you know what i mean that's to me what i'm hearing when i'm hearing they read high maintenance woman 1.00
00:05:12.820 this it's money in it you need money for that it's like it's like whenever i hear that i think of the 0.94
00:05:18.140 book why men love bitches it's like they read that book and then it's like that's the whole i'm not 0.99
00:05:22.720 saying you personally it's just that's always what i hear um okay so what percent of the financial 0.97
00:05:29.300 family load do you guys expect to pay to carry for a lifetime 10 10 10 10 okay um yeah i would say
00:05:41.200 10 10 10 i think it changes i think it's like situational i mean ideally like
00:05:51.180 maybe 40 um but i think it changes like you never know what's going to happen the man might suddenly
00:05:59.880 go unemployed so you know i'm gonna have to pick up extra shifts here and there and then i might go
00:06:04.400 unemployed or go on maternity leave and the man's going to take over i think it fluctuates depending on the
00:06:10.200 the situation um yeah like i'm i'm kind of the same there as well um i also like as you said like
00:06:20.700 maternity leave or if i if the man said that he wanted me to be a housewife which i don't think i
00:06:25.260 would ever like take up to do but if he did then i'd expect him to do 100 that i'll be doing the
00:06:29.900 cooking i'll be doing the cleaning but if like i'm working he's working like i don't expect him to
00:06:35.280 say that i'm going to be a complete housewife because there's some men that like i don't what
00:06:39.740 percent what percent i don't know zero percent depending okay so you think he should carry a hundred
00:06:46.780 percent of the bills yeah no that's not true i don't think so i think i'm just using the words that
00:06:54.020 came out of your mouth okay if i'm cooking and cleaning 50 50 50. okay okay so we went from 100
00:06:59.560 percent to 50 50. no depending okay well what does it depend on if i'm working or if i'm not okay do
00:07:06.360 you want to work or do you not i do um okay so i would say 50 50 yeah yeah i don't i can't think of a
00:07:16.080 percent i actually can't been yeah i don't know are we considering that there's kids involved here
00:07:22.600 yeah oh yeah i mean unless unless you don't i feel like i want to change my answer now
00:07:28.620 same i don't know