JustPearlyThings - April 27, 2023


She Described Modern Women In 3 Words


Episode Stats

Length

6 minutes

Words per Minute

185.83678

Word Count

1,257

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

4

Hate Speech Sentences

5


Summary

In this episode, we discuss the process of aging and what happens when you get older. Is it better or worse than when you were younger? Do you upgrade yourself as a woman as you grow older, or do you stay the same?


Transcript

00:00:00.000 so you you do think there's a one or you don't no i don't necessarily not one specifically no
00:00:05.520 okay so you think there's good ones and bad ones yeah what do you guys think is there a one
00:00:10.160 i think there's one foot sorry go ahead um i feel like there's one for every point where you
00:00:17.120 kind of upgrade yourself because i feel like through life you're constantly upgrading yourself
00:00:23.120 so you may have a certain standard at one age but then you get older and that standard might change
00:00:29.200 so i don't think women can upgrade themselves i think we only downgrade ourselves no unless you're
00:00:35.680 fat and you lose weight yeah no there's a lot of things i feel like sometimes okay um i'm just
00:00:46.240 thinking like what do you get when you're older as a woman because if you upgrade yourself like it would
00:00:50.720 have to happen over time you're just you have more bodies you're usually in worse shape you're older
00:00:57.040 less eggs i guess that depends on the person because i'm not a person that's you know scandalous
00:01:03.040 but yeah on my hand how many people and i'm over a certain age well and i'm very happy for you i
00:01:08.320 think that's great but it's still more than you had 10 years ago because time is fast
00:01:14.160 yeah yeah but you can look better let's say let's say you're 20 or 21 let's say 21 yeah legal
00:01:20.000 so then obviously you look nice you're young you know and then you're 30 right and let's say your
00:01:26.080 career gets better maybe you look better because you know you're going team you're taking what you
00:01:30.320 eat you know i said you can if you lose weight yeah or not really like let's say get in shape
00:01:36.880 not really like lose weight but just get in shape you know you look better than 10 years ago let's say
00:01:41.760 but that's an upgrade um overall no because if a guy wants children he's still got to say well
00:01:51.200 how many eggs does this woman have left maybe i can just 90 are gone should i just go to the back
00:01:58.240 but men don't want that men don't want um like they don't want to go like you have to spend like
00:02:03.280 what twenty thousand dollars to maybe the the majority of um in vitro fertilizations that don't work
00:02:09.120 yeah so the majority like the majority don't even work
00:02:13.840 but yeah i mean you know my opinion yes go ahead can i quickly just clarify when i meant upgrading i
00:02:20.800 didn't mean upgrading as um so much i meant like interpersonally like how you deal with people and
00:02:28.160 the things that you look for oh you think you can be kinder not just kinder i feel like
00:02:32.720 like there's different when you're younger you're more naive and the the longer you go on and the
00:02:43.760 more you speak to people and go through your your diff your values change your morals might change
00:02:49.200 usually the younger ones we go for the bad boys and then yeah do that in our 20s and then in our 30s
00:02:56.640 for like nice guys i'm here i'm ready would you say it's a fair assessment or an unfair assessment
00:03:06.160 what for me personally just in general i don't i don't know your life but just in general
00:03:10.800 i think on a whole in general maybe but me personally no no well you went for nice guys in your 20s
00:03:17.760 yeah okay and in your 30s you're going for bad boys no no no i wouldn't say i changed but um
00:03:23.360 so i'm just curious what's the change that happened from your 20s to your 30s i think the type of people
00:03:29.760 that i pick because when you start off relationships i feel like you you do different things so some
00:03:38.880 relationships you might jump couple steps sometimes you you don't stick to certain things and i feel
00:03:44.640 like as i've gotten older i want to get to know the person first so we don't cross paths
00:03:52.800 somewhere later along down the line it's more experience as well isn't it yeah because you
00:03:58.480 can learn from your past mistakes for example yeah so then you have more damage and baggage
00:04:05.200 yeah who doesn't no i'm not saying that the men don't too the men certainly do the women do but my
00:04:12.000 whole point men i think that baggage is different on them because they learn from their mistakes and they
00:04:17.200 get better where women i think we get traumatized and in general we get worse i don't think women
00:04:23.600 like leave relationships thinking they did wrong made a mistake and get better i think they usually
00:04:29.040 get traumatized and make the men of the future pay for the mistakes of their past
00:04:34.320 i think i'm wrong right no i think it's true do you guys feel like modern women learn from their mistakes
00:04:39.360 i think they don't really care about you know you don't learn from their mistakes at all no i wouldn't
00:04:46.560 say i agree to you i feel like modern women these days are just very naive like for example going
00:04:51.440 back to the video of the girl um like you said it didn't sound believable it sounded like someone
00:04:55.920 that was hurt and it sounded like someone that's been through so much and now she's just being like
00:05:00.160 mean to the world not realizing that is actually hurting herself not only that the aging process and her
00:05:05.280 eggs expiring that's what i mean by like we need to consider these things and then it'll be like
00:05:10.480 a coat because the girls will say oh i don't know if i want children but they always wanted children
00:05:15.360 before and then it's like they switch they switch their answer because they're running out of time
00:05:20.400 yeah they do that a lot what do you guys think
00:05:27.920 um what about what about about this conversation yeah like do you think women date bad boys in their
00:05:34.480 20s and then nice guys in their 30s yeah 100 yeah oh they're not they're not in super hard they
00:05:40.400 feel this one no no 100 like obviously i know like growing up obviously being younger now whatever like
00:05:45.520 i wouldn't say i was never a bad boy obviously i know you know people i know i've been in situations
00:05:51.040 where like i've known girls or you might like a girl whatever and that's what she goes for um i feel
00:05:56.880 like you know right as time progresses like i feel like maturity kind of makes you think like is that
00:06:02.640 really what i want is that going to be but at the same time on the other hand as well like what is
00:06:08.480 a bad way nowadays like you can't always just judge someone do you get me on whatever like someone
00:06:14.080 could be a bad boy and still be a nice nice guy in a nice person but just not committed oh is that
00:06:19.760 what we say when we say bad boys that what we mean no when i think of a bad boy i think of
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