JustPearlyThings - She Described Modern Women In 3 Words

00:00:00.000 so you you do think there's a one or you don't no i don't necessarily not one specifically no

00:00:05.520 okay so you think there's good ones and bad ones yeah what do you guys think is there a one

00:00:10.160 i think there's one foot sorry go ahead um i feel like there's one for every point where you

00:00:17.120 kind of upgrade yourself because i feel like through life you're constantly upgrading yourself

00:00:23.120 so you may have a certain standard at one age but then you get older and that standard might change

00:00:29.200 so i don't think women can upgrade themselves i think we only downgrade ourselves no unless you're 1.00

00:00:35.680 fat and you lose weight yeah no there's a lot of things i feel like sometimes okay um i'm just

00:00:46.240 thinking like what do you get when you're older as a woman because if you upgrade yourself like it would 1.00

00:00:50.720 have to happen over time you're just you have more bodies you're usually in worse shape you're older

00:00:57.040 less eggs i guess that depends on the person because i'm not a person that's you know scandalous

00:01:03.040 but yeah on my hand how many people and i'm over a certain age well and i'm very happy for you i

00:01:08.320 think that's great but it's still more than you had 10 years ago because time is fast

00:01:14.160 yeah yeah but you can look better let's say let's say you're 20 or 21 let's say 21 yeah legal

00:01:20.000 so then obviously you look nice you're young you know and then you're 30 right and let's say your

00:01:26.080 career gets better maybe you look better because you know you're going team you're taking what you

00:01:30.320 eat you know i said you can if you lose weight yeah or not really like let's say get in shape

00:01:36.880 not really like lose weight but just get in shape you know you look better than 10 years ago let's say

00:01:41.760 but that's an upgrade um overall no because if a guy wants children he's still got to say well

00:01:51.200 how many eggs does this woman have left maybe i can just 90 are gone should i just go to the back 1.00

00:01:58.240 but men don't want that men don't want um like they don't want to go like you have to spend like

00:02:03.280 what twenty thousand dollars to maybe the the majority of um in vitro fertilizations that don't work

00:02:09.120 yeah so the majority like the majority don't even work

00:02:13.840 but yeah i mean you know my opinion yes go ahead can i quickly just clarify when i meant upgrading i

00:02:20.800 didn't mean upgrading as um so much i meant like interpersonally like how you deal with people and

00:02:28.160 the things that you look for oh you think you can be kinder not just kinder i feel like

00:02:32.720 like there's different when you're younger you're more naive and the the longer you go on and the

00:02:43.760 more you speak to people and go through your your diff your values change your morals might change

00:02:49.200 usually the younger ones we go for the bad boys and then yeah do that in our 20s and then in our 30s

00:02:56.640 for like nice guys i'm here i'm ready would you say it's a fair assessment or an unfair assessment

00:03:06.160 what for me personally just in general i don't i don't know your life but just in general

00:03:10.800 i think on a whole in general maybe but me personally no no well you went for nice guys in your 20s

00:03:17.760 yeah okay and in your 30s you're going for bad boys no no no i wouldn't say i changed but um

00:03:23.360 so i'm just curious what's the change that happened from your 20s to your 30s i think the type of people

00:03:29.760 that i pick because when you start off relationships i feel like you you do different things so some

00:03:38.880 relationships you might jump couple steps sometimes you you don't stick to certain things and i feel

00:03:44.640 like as i've gotten older i want to get to know the person first so we don't cross paths

00:03:52.800 somewhere later along down the line it's more experience as well isn't it yeah because you

00:03:58.480 can learn from your past mistakes for example yeah so then you have more damage and baggage

00:04:05.200 yeah who doesn't no i'm not saying that the men don't too the men certainly do the women do but my

00:04:12.000 whole point men i think that baggage is different on them because they learn from their mistakes and they

00:04:17.200 get better where women i think we get traumatized and in general we get worse i don't think women 1.00

00:04:23.600 like leave relationships thinking they did wrong made a mistake and get better i think they usually

00:04:29.040 get traumatized and make the men of the future pay for the mistakes of their past

00:04:34.320 i think i'm wrong right no i think it's true do you guys feel like modern women learn from their mistakes

00:04:39.360 i think they don't really care about you know you don't learn from their mistakes at all no i wouldn't

00:04:46.560 say i agree to you i feel like modern women these days are just very naive like for example going 1.00

00:04:51.440 back to the video of the girl um like you said it didn't sound believable it sounded like someone

00:04:55.920 that was hurt and it sounded like someone that's been through so much and now she's just being like

00:05:00.160 mean to the world not realizing that is actually hurting herself not only that the aging process and her

00:05:05.280 eggs expiring that's what i mean by like we need to consider these things and then it'll be like

00:05:10.480 a coat because the girls will say oh i don't know if i want children but they always wanted children

00:05:15.360 before and then it's like they switch they switch their answer because they're running out of time

00:05:20.400 yeah they do that a lot what do you guys think

00:05:27.920 um what about what about about this conversation yeah like do you think women date bad boys in their

00:05:34.480 20s and then nice guys in their 30s yeah 100 yeah oh they're not they're not in super hard they

00:05:40.400 feel this one no no 100 like obviously i know like growing up obviously being younger now whatever like

00:05:45.520 i wouldn't say i was never a bad boy obviously i know you know people i know i've been in situations

00:05:51.040 where like i've known girls or you might like a girl whatever and that's what she goes for um i feel

00:05:56.880 like you know right as time progresses like i feel like maturity kind of makes you think like is that

00:06:02.640 really what i want is that going to be but at the same time on the other hand as well like what is

00:06:08.480 a bad way nowadays like you can't always just judge someone do you get me on whatever like someone

00:06:14.080 could be a bad boy and still be a nice nice guy in a nice person but just not committed oh is that

00:06:19.760 what we say when we say bad boys that what we mean no when i think of a bad boy i think of

00:06:24.400 because there's geeks that would cheat you know as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock

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JustPearlyThings - April 27, 2023

She Described Modern Women In 3 Words

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