JustPearlyThings - She EXPOSED This Fact About Hypergamy

00:00:00.000 that you say that well i just think of it as like like mating strategies like women want to get

00:00:03.940 attention from high status men that's instagram yeah where men want to screw as many people as 0.87

00:00:09.620 possible so like how many i don't know anyone that got married and closed their instagram

00:00:13.240 i don't know anyone that did it like my age anyway actually i told you're right so yeah so i'm saying 0.58

00:00:18.880 modern women are shitty wives why would you close your instagram i don't i don't understand that 1.00

00:00:22.560 because it's advertised you know i was having more 0.99

00:00:24.940 pull up pull this up i mean i i think it really depends you can't tell me that's not advertising

00:00:35.320 i mean she is a model i mean yeah she's a model that's her job like you know what you could argue 1.00

00:00:41.120 justin bieber's job is to screw groupies on tour yeah but he's not the model what it's different

00:00:49.340 he's he's not a model right so i do get what you're saying though he's a world famous pop star

00:00:54.660 yeah but still he's a singer what do world famous pop stars do they screw groupies on the tour bro

00:00:59.980 this is a tale as old as time that's fair i mean i do it's part of the job yeah it is

00:01:05.900 what does chris brown do on state come on no is that his job yeah yeah and you know you can just

00:01:15.000 tell she would have none of that if he was doing that yeah but it's like we're in a society where

00:01:19.740 men aren't told they can do that they're controlling if they tell a girl to close her instagram

00:01:23.120 but women immediately want you to stop sleeping with other girls and and you can tell like i know 0.98

00:01:28.600 so many people in relationships who have told people unfollow her stop liking her photos i know

00:01:33.380 get rid of her if you do it to a man or if you're in a relationship with another girl and you tell her 0.98

00:01:38.320 not to do that you're the bad person well you've got to be careful you have to it goes one or two

00:01:43.400 like you have to look at it see i think that's a standard respect thing you've got to be careful

00:01:48.440 if you're going to do one way and not accept it backwards yeah but there's different hold on hold

00:01:54.080 on i feel this might be controversial but i feel like there are different um there are different

00:01:59.500 reasons and there's people with different circumstances for example if there was if

00:02:03.880 you was dating someone and she was for example like a content creator or something and she had she

00:02:09.380 was in you know instagram engagement groups so if she was in an engagement group in an engagement

00:02:14.240 group there are rules you have to like everyone's photo to help each other with the algorithm right

00:02:18.980 so would you then turn around to your girlfriend and say to her i don't want you liking pictures

00:02:23.900 of other girls the standard person isn't honest like i'm not i'm not famous on instagram i don't have

00:02:29.160 to do any of that i'm just saying but would a good wife argue with him when he asked that and say 1.00

00:02:33.560 well but my instagram grouper would she just say okay whatever you say honey

00:02:36.960 yeah in a really traditional setup that she she would give it up probably you know she would 0.99

00:02:42.620 if he's making six figures well regardless of no regardless if he's making six figures she should

00:02:48.700 be like listen you know we're married now that is the i've made this commitment in the in the eyes

00:02:53.580 of the law and in the eyes exactly and in the eyes of god so that's more important to me than

00:02:58.140 having an instagram account you know that's what she would have said in the back of the day okay so i

00:03:02.040 have a question why does he have to be making six figures to have to be listened to

00:03:05.500 and do you have the same energy if a woman's mid does she is she if she's average looking does she 1.00

00:03:09.960 not is she not able to ask for loyalty that's a good question like you know she's average looking 1.00

00:03:16.340 so why why does she get to ask for that i don't know i don't i don't really know how to answer that

00:03:23.140 because i just feel like women do definitely look at men's financial status and we can sit here and

00:03:31.640 argue about that all the time but at the end of the day there is survival and women will always try 1.00

00:03:38.420 to go with someone above her level or at least on her level she will never go low so you said six

00:03:45.480 figures that's 10 that's not realistic that's 10 percent of men no i know i i was just trying to

00:03:51.140 be funny there but like um no but i'm just saying like realistically she will always go above or on the 0.99

00:03:59.120 same level so she's never going to go low so financial status does get looked at and that is 0.98

00:04:05.720 actually how men earn respect from women i feel like it's one of the ways that if you want to earn

00:04:11.600 respect from a woman you need to do that you need to be making bank yeah no brokies i'm being real 0.99

00:04:18.040 i'm being absolutely real you know i'm not gonna sugarcoat it you do need to be working hard how much

00:04:24.140 does he have to make what about an average guy um i don't know i don't know what the average salary

00:04:28.980 here is what is it like 40 30 depends on your age so like 25 year olds can be earning like 35 000

00:04:36.080 all right um which in london isn't going to be very much in in the standards of earning six figures

00:04:42.380 and then it's on it's unfair to expect that off someone you've got the average you've got the

00:04:48.020 average uk wage though which is probably like it's going to be weighted higher in london yeah well

00:04:51.600 yeah because you've got extremities you've got you know if you're looking at the mean it's going to

00:04:56.320 be taking both the i mean does the man expect us to be top 10 20 30 percent of beauty no but why

00:05:03.320 should they not if we're expecting them to be in the higher range i think they do want that yeah

00:05:07.380 they might want it but they're not they're not going to hold out for it because most guys are

00:05:11.200 quite thirsty do you know what i mean we were talking about this the other the other night

00:05:14.540 most guys are quite thirsty they're going to take they're going to take what they could get

00:05:19.120 you know oh oh i mean that's a good point it's a good point have you heard the husband store

00:05:25.100 analogy no oh there's like i hope i say this right there's like a husband store analogy in the

00:05:30.840 manosphere okay and basically every every store or every floor is a different set of husbands okay

00:05:38.580 and you go up a floor um then the only rule is you can't go back down so there's five floors total and

00:05:44.660 you can go up but you can't go down so the first floor is guys that love kids and are and are loyal to

00:05:52.640 you oh sweet and so the women go to the first floor so they go to the first floor and they say you 0.91

00:05:58.280 know what i want more i want to i want to go up so they go to the second floor and then they find

00:06:03.600 the shitty one no no no it gets better it gets better so these guys love kids they're loyal and

00:06:09.240 they're hot oh they're sexy yeah so but they're like well what's on the next floor okay then they 0.90

00:06:19.340 go just curious yeah yeah so they go what's what's what's next curiosity and they say they say they say

00:06:25.180 okay the next floor these guys are hot they make 70 000 a year they love kids and they're loyal

00:06:31.460 but she's on the third floor and she's like well what's what's up what's on the next floor 1.00

00:06:36.900 and so then then she goes next they make six figures love kids loyal everything but she wants to go to

00:06:47.900 the fifth floor and on the fifth floor unfaithful all the husbands are sold out 0.98

00:06:52.820 and there's dogs because die alone

00:06:57.280 i mean so so so that then to make it fair they did a wife score a wife store right 1.00

00:07:03.860 so on the first floor there was women good sex loyal sixes and they never found out was 1.00

00:07:13.400 what was on the second floor

00:07:14.560 i think modern day woman no offense and i know i'm a woman but are super like materialistic

00:07:30.460 i don't agree with that i really i i i love i love most of my friends but i know

00:07:36.020 if they were given the opportunity to go with someone who aren't

00:07:39.360 like over a million they will take it they'll take it and they'll cheat on the person that they love

00:07:43.800 and they feel committed to and they want and that's such an issue

00:07:47.100 well they cheat for money so i mean they would yeah yeah yeah and i think that's a lot of people

00:07:51.980 but people people now have

00:07:53.640 but it's been normalized it's seen as normal now to cheat and it's seen as normal to like be like

00:08:02.620 oh yeah but he's better and they won't

00:08:05.020 why why not just fight because he have money exactly why is that why is that important

00:08:11.120 exactly and that's why guys shouldn't get married because that's the that's the dynamic

00:08:17.560 that's the dynamic but you're as a guy you're entering into a contract with somebody when that

00:08:23.520 is the dynamic that's going on in society and that's and that's very problematic because you're

00:08:28.160 you're basically marrying into it's like it's like buying a house that it's got loads of faults with

00:08:32.080 the house and you're going to have loads of money to pay further down the line it's like you're

00:08:35.080 buying you're getting into a contract with somebody who is being influenced by the society that's

00:08:38.840 basically saying to you there's always going to be better there's always your and and not only is

00:08:43.460 there always going to be better but you deserve better you know you go girl you go on to the next

00:08:47.700 my grandma had 13 kids for a fireman and she submitted to him and that's and that's the

00:09:01.720 thing like modern that's a good job but that's so no but that's beautiful that is what it should be

00:09:06.380 it was an average salary back then and so i'm i'm just saying like you know i think it's this

00:09:11.840 generation this generation is just getting worse but but money shouldn't be the end all and be all 0.84

00:09:18.740 of it and and it is what it is now if you feel that emotionally attached someone like if you're

00:09:25.120 someone like me that doesn't want to particularly get married if you feel that emotionally attached

00:09:29.560 that you're willing to get married you should not just up and leave because someone else has more

00:09:34.340 money or someone else maybe is is more attractive like it should be all taken as i've committed to

00:09:40.660 this person for a reason there was something there unless there's something a lot deeper going on

00:09:44.600 like abuse or or something that is a lot deeper and it's a lot more complex if it's something as

00:09:50.000 simple as that person earns more i'm gonna go with them that's really sad do you think that the woman

00:09:56.080 so would you say you think that the woman should stick it out basically even if there is like a period 0.63

00:10:01.480 of suffering not necessarily stick out but don't work through it work through it say this man that she's

00:10:08.680 with is like literally not hardly making any money they are really struggling like times are really

00:10:14.360 tough for her and do you think that she should just stay and stick it out or do you think she should

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JustPearlyThings - June 07, 2023

She EXPOSED This Fact About Hypergamy

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