She Gets FINISHED For Giving Women Wrong Advice on How To Get Men
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In this episode, we talk about when is the right time to settle down and what to look out for in a potential partner. We also talk about what it means to be single at a certain age and how to deal with it.
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like there's this guy the guy that i'm talking to at the minute like i literally just got back from
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portugal to see him and like i can tell like i feel like he would be ready to like kind of settle
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down but if i met him when he was like 22 there is no way like i can i'm the right like i feel
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like me and him have amazing amazing chemistry like it's all perfect like best time i've ever
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had with someone but at 22 he's good looking he's six foot four like he's talented he's ambitious
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like there's no way he would have just wanted to like in my mind i don't think he would have wanted
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to like settle down with anyone at that point because he has like the world at his fingertips
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and that's what women don't i don't think modern women understand that another thing people never
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talk about is that younger men go quite well with older women yes there you go no she said young
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young women all the men synergize well with younger women and you said the opposite yeah i'm saying
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younger men also synergize with older women because if you're someone who likes casual
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relationships right older women are great less stress i see all these guys chasing these young
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girls and i'm looking at them like you're not you don't want a long-term relationship anyway
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you're going to get stressed out she needs attention every five seconds there's going to be all this
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drama i think we're talking about relationships here we're not talking about just flings yeah that's
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that's for fun yeah i'm talking about for fun yeah yeah forget that it's different but i thought
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at that point you might as well both be young like okay let's make an agreement i didn't know
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you're basing relationships on just like having children in these times you're basically you're
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wanting these people to have children and then be together forever it is about having children
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why else would a man get married if he doesn't get kids out okay and this is what i'm saying
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what if they had children already then why would he get married in 2022 yeah no i don't want marriage
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if we're making about children if we were making about children then i would say just pick somebody
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that is genetically fit somebody that is somewhat emotionally healed and have a baby with them
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and then let them live their life you live your life you got a baby and together you can have a baby
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baby why wouldn't you pick someone that just wasn't damaged like i know i know a guy that's dating
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because everyone is i know i know most people have trouble i know at some level even if you've got
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both heads i know like it's so simple there's two times there's two types there's two types listen
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there's two types of relationships you're gonna get like i don't know why people are making it hard
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you can either pick somebody who has the end result already and fit in or you can find somebody
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and journey with them and if you have unfortunately and if you haven't made the decision to journey
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with somebody in your teens you miss the boat the boat has already sailed listen if you've reached
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a certain point if you reach a certain age because in other parts of the world they make it clear
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if you're over 30 and you're unmarried without children in china is like 25. no actually in the
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in the in the us it's like um they used to have a term i can't remember what it was not even
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leftover it was like a maid is like 26. is that what it used to be yeah it's like uh there's some
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i mean they wouldn't say that nowadays but but you're at leftover women over 35. that's it so just
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accepted that if you've waited this long and you haven't got what you got you're gonna just take
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what you're gonna get and if you're smart enough and you're young and you know that what your value
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is make smart detroit smart decisions now that's all it is you just have to be real about it like
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i'm at a certain age i haven't done certain things by this age this is my reality and that's just anything
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do you think it's a bit weird to give women advice i'm not giving women no advice i'm giving women
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advice on how to get men no he's just it's just saying what it is yeah like it's not an advice
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like me saying the sky is blue is not me advising somebody that the sky is blue the sky if you get
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very lonely there's simps out there that's anything for you you'll never be lonely let me let me just
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jump in fast wait wait wait wait wait like you know dating app data by 30 50 of your options are gone
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basically 30 like the the men that were attracted to you at like at 20 50 percent gone okay i don't
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let me let me jump in i'm not i'm not even i'm not talking about you wait wait wait
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and so you can't go to men and say you should want this you should want this they don't want it
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and if you weren't smart enough to get with a guy in your early 20s it is what it is you're
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probably not going to get the men you want and any man that wants you is probably going to be a simp
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sorry it is what it is and it's okay and as a man and remember this and as a man i am more likely
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to get the woman i actually choose and want if we're not exceptions to the rule where you kind of
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you know you get girls early at an older age i have to work my way up to a status to then pick
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a woman i want some dudes are lucky we got we got the the luck of the draw looking good being
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such symmetrical being you know appealing to women in my in our age but for majority of men
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they have to work their ass off to get to the point to get the woman they want what were you
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gonna let him go no i was gonna say that on the topic what you were saying about how we're giving
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advice to women i was going to give the advice to men and i do think like that's something that's
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missed out quite a lot in these conversations nowadays which is young guys if you plan ahead and
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you want to have a focus and a vision for yourself then that's probably a good time that if you do
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have something around you that's actually right and pushing you forward in the right direction
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maybe consider that more than you would when you most of your boys would that just jump onto the
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next thing because i feel like that kind of creates a pattern as well within guys and i don't
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think that's talked about i would say like to me a lot of these redpool guys they just sound like
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they bitch a lot because it's kind of like dude it's in your power in it like oh women don't do this
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then find someone who doesn't it it's really that simple it's really it's not that hard i like
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him again just go find someone like like i don't i don't walk around the club and then complain that
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like oh these guys are doing this yeah i'm not a fan of it alex half of red pill is self-improvement
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that's like half of it yeah there's so it feels a lot like complaining there's so many yeah because
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women aren't used to being used to being complained about ever like i'm sorry but women complain about men
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all the time but all the time so so if women have to hear what men have to say and they don't like
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it sorry i don't really feel bad for you like men have been hearing this for years i don't want no
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script but we have a lot of that we have that's why i fucked your bitch you fat motherfucker what what
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we have a lot of male friends that um would go through a long stage of the whole phase and then
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they will realize it's actually not fun the only reason that it's fun is because i can actually go back
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to my boys and say yo guess who i slept with they didn't actually enjoy it that much they
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actually would rather settle down it's all about your catalog bruv yeah that's what i was gonna
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say i think guys want a girl to settle down with at the end but i i know some guys that are very happy
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with their rotation put it this way like one thing i've noticed as well yeah like um if you
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like bump into like what they would call a pretty hoe and she sees she sees the girls that you slept
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with before and she doesn't feel like they're on your level you don't get access to that hoe and i've
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seen that happen bare times oh you said with her you think you can come to me yeah you look desperate
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now can i say something can i just i i think i i think it's my responsibility as a woman to praise good
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behavior okay when i see it in a man nemesis no i have issues with you but i'll say something if men
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were thinking more along the lines of these two where they say actually sex is not really what
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motivates me towards a woman men would have much better luck sense needs to go out the window more
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wait let me caveat what i said all right so you like intellect i only filtered women out sexually
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between ages of like 19 18 and like 26. it's only something i've recently stopped doing because i
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have things are working out very well right now and i no longer have the need to prioritize that
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certain aspect of relationship you know you reach a certain age so i do think it's it's phases right
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a young dude yeah dude do it figure it out but you will get bored yes so we're still okay okay guys
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nah i do not agree with that that's very simpish bro i do not agree with that no no no no no no
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explain to me because bro a man will go through his whole life build his career and old dudes why
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do they call old dudes pervs because that's what they're thinking about right because they're still
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at it granddad is still okay but that's a sex addiction it's not desperate it's not no
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that's it listen you're not gonna try and deny my my sexual hormones as a male i am i'm an alpha i am
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a hunter and that will never ever die all right then no no let's be real let's be real let's be real
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that's why that's why when you said that you lost your virginity in uni it was a shock over the bench
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because most men are expected to be hunting from as soon as they hit their rights rights of passage
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your balls dropped yet your voice dropped yet because that's what we know like let's not take
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that away from us being men that's why women like men that are like that that's why if you was getting
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sex during that age group you know what type of dude you had to be you had to be confident you had to
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have style you have these are things that create us as status do you see what i'm saying no she was smart
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enough to see his project trajectory she knew that this guy's fit he does what i like i'm a pick i'm
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a choose she made a wise decision and he made a wise decision by recognizing that he needs to value
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himself but i also like i said i was seven years old when i broke up with my first boyfriend because
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he had bad grades yeah and i literally said all right if you're gonna have bad grades you're not
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gonna go to you you're not gonna have a good job you're not gonna take care of my kids at seven
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years but i'm gonna go back but i understand what you're saying but to close my point is what what
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what makes what what shows that she's a different kind of woman is that she was willing to fight
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for it because like she said she broke he broke up with her three times okay but but modern women
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just like we was here on the other day like just the other day should modern women compete for men
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what was it unanimous unanimous answer no no no no no no that's what's it what was it it was it was
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we asked if modern women should compete for a man and most women said no i would not compete for a
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man i said hell yeah isn't it natural competition like isn't it just a natural sorry isn't it just a
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natural thing that you automatically no but i mean like without that would be the center of his
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no i mean you can be in competition and you never know you're on competition that's what i was about
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to say without them like actively subconsciously we're always in competition because if we see
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if we walk into a room as a group of girls and we see a guy and he is the hot one we're automatically
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hoping that well not hoping but we would have made the most effort to be there yeah well of course but
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i mean we're talking about women um and so yeah no i think subconsciously naturally women compete
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and i think as a as a woman if you're not like willing to like fight for your man and like
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actually put in the effort to like nurture that relationship and make it really special
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like that's not the one like i think a lot of modern women nowadays they want to just sit on their ass
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not do anything like and they expect this guy to make like fucking eight figures and like
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be on his hands and knees for her doing everything that like doing something that i always say is
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like you know everyone um that will we live in a culture where it's very replaceable and it's like
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oh uh if he can't have me at my worst he can't have me he shouldn't have me at my best so what
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you're gonna be a moody bitch all year round and then all of a sudden he's gonna like just wait for
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that one day you're in a good mood to and a lot of modern women place so much value on money and
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status money and status isn't going to emotionally fulfill you and make you happy you need to find
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someone who has that ambition that drive to make their self better to make their self like someone
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with talent someone with like i don't know it's not all about money it's like not impressive
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so please don't cut the other guests off go ahead no i was just saying that i my eggs and over 150
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and it wasn't loving it was at moments and i put all the i was trying to be that the nine years
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no that was after the nine years we were both in the military together me and my son's dad
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um and so i met him in iraq and so my point was that like that money thing it doesn't make you happy it
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was the most miserable relationship for me personally that i've ever been in like yeah we have money but
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are we happy together no so like it's like for me that that isn't like the ultimate goal of like
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i call them dudes finances that's why he wasn't financing me though because i paid all my own
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bills i did everything myself and i always have done so it's not like he was financing me it was just
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he looked like i sat like in it like i went to porsche and i drove out with the nissan micro because
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the package the outside of it wasn't what the inside was saying so for me it isn't the you know you can
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no i also wanted to add on to it quickly because back to that quickly the british renner thing i
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felt like loads of modern day women they'll see instagram girls be getting birkin bags and assume
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that's value but i want to look at one situation like there's a rapper called lil baby and he had
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a baby mama called jada wader and he gave a porn star that he cheated on his girlfriend with 15 000
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dollars so that's the same amount of money you can get a birkin bag with so you need to ask yourself
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what's the value of a birkin because to us people that are regular joes of course you see a 15 grand
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bag and think i want that but if the mistress is also getting the value of that bag that's equivalent
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to both guys taking me on a date to i don't know gaucho and the beat but she's cheating on me with
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to gauchos so the truth is money is not i feel like money to an extent does build a relationship in
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terms of like you know providing and stuff but there's morals there's emotional support there's
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so much things like i feel like people have just lost morals nowadays yeah how how old are you 19
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yeah um at some point like women aren't going to date a bum for so long like i think this sounds
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nice but like at some point there's a minimum amount of money yeah yeah i'm saying there's a
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have a minimum yeah yeah like yeah we don't need them to like make six figures or anything like
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that but it's like i i just think i just think to say that money isn't important at all is kind
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of like no no i didn't say that i feel like like i said to a certain extent like you need to provide
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and play your role as a man but i feel like girls don't even like 50k 80k is good but girls one million
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figure like rap like half of these high value men aren't even good men like well and you wouldn't
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and a lot of them like it's those you wouldn't be happy in those circles it's not good like if you're
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with a guy that's so out of your league like the other girls are going to be sizing you up and trying
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to steal your man yeah and when you get old he's leaving you yeah because your eggs are old um but okay
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guys i'm tired so i'm gonna wrap this up um i'm gonna read super chats real quick and then we're
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gonna do final thoughts um guys like the video um thank you for the super chats they're all going
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towards blessings monopod um whoa jezek look at that alpha hunter who doesn't have the balls to
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look into the eyes when talking give me a break um sean morris denelva is unhinged and intellectually
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bankrupt um janace i like the merry dude i find it funny that he's in the middle of two extremes the
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simp on his right right and the pimp on his left black is black is panther alex
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and denelva look great together the simp and the 304 the classic tale of simping simping groveling
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and desperation alex bro tone down the simping um mo blizz pearl let's get it right um let's get
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it right men are 304s but not 304 makers sebastian from what i have heard it seems like a winning male
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strategy is wholesome grooming as early as legally possible also self growth and game um whoa jensky
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let's hear you struggle struggle to pronounce my name again i'm sorry i'm sorry um elite gamer any
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self-respecting man would only wife up a girl who had a history of long-term relationships any girl who
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says i needed to heal or find myself has been ran through and you're going to fail miserably in a
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marriage um i think i read the rest also guys um my manager sent me the new members that joined the
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show so shout out to bass pundit justin bryan nakesha mclean sora josie thunderdome um ray rayden
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um okay final thoughts this way go around and then do second row um i feel like
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i feel like women need to be real with themselves and i feel like they need to take accountability
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i feel like in terms of men i feel like men just need to man man up but that's pretty much all i have
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to say um i think that women like well i'm generalizing but i think most modern day women need
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to stop thinking of their self as the prize like you should both be a prize to each other like you
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should both be excited about each other just as much as like one another so yeah i think people need
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to stop placing so much value on their self when they're not actually even emotionally like that
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depth full if you get what i'm saying yeah i don't have said enough i feel um thanks for having me
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i would just say put less value on not value but don't be as greedy i think a lot of women
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and men i guess women will want the six uh value six figure man whatever but um at the end of the
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day if you're picking someone like that in his 30s he's going to feel like he's got the right to
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cheat on you so you're better off in um in investing in someone and seeing someone's potential if you're
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looking to find a husband if you want to be a side chick be a side chick yeah but thanks for having
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me it's been a great time it's been a great time uh what do i have to say you know i think what we
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need to kind of get rid of is like the whole mentality that we've kind of adapted of everyone
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gets a trophy because the fact that people like women aren't able to admit to themselves that they're
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competing with other women for the guys that they want guys need to be aware of that as well
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and i think everyone just needs to know that in the workplace you're competing all against each
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other at the end of the day too but um yeah if everyone just focuses on being the best not even
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the best version of themselves but overdoing the next person i think we'll start going in a better
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direction again i think i think people need to stop sugarcoating and say how it is
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and if that is that and this is that if you're ho you're ho if you're sim you're simp and that's
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that's how you know i'm saying that's how people need to learn man no one's gonna learn man like
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as you're saying shaming that you shaming is useful like you need that so say how it is and stop
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trying to be that person like oh yeah yeah nah nah nah like trying to be the soft person now like say how
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it is this is reality especially in this generation now especially how the social media is and the
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internet is just what's going on this you have to say how it is because people need to hear it
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alex you wanna go um okay three parting points first point is uh we want to be wary of taking on
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feminine behavior i think one i see a lot in the red pill community is constantly talking about the type of
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women that you don't want which is kind of like reminds me of women who only talk about the bad
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boys and xyz it's like bro if you don't like girls who only want a six foot guy eight figures guy and
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you're not that guy then why is that why is that what you talk about in it two be pragmatic be a
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man all you man way too much i'm sick of red pill now because i just hear complaining non-stop
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big up the passport bros i rate those guys get to i was in spain
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they're solution oriented yeah look man like me and people who get it just move actually guys um
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follow austin holloman if you guys want to see um he moved from the u.s to brazil and he's having
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living his best life those women are hot too so listen and if you're in the uk spain spain is down
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the road malaga all this they still got a lot of traditional women in spain if you're looking for
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wifey they have the right mindset you got no excuse to be bitching on online about women this and final
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point would be listen as much as we all know the truth about you know promiscuity and this and that
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i would hope you're not the kind of guy who gets off on like calling people hoes and you think that
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does something we all know what it is bro so i would say try and remember to be nice in it because at
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the end of the day you're still dealing with human beings and i think if we were just a bit more
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respectful towards each other we might we might actually you know get on a bit better instead of
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having this like you know divide i see now and i i was previously part of that's what i would say
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okay um you guys may want to judge me for a bad decision that i made but that my bad decision
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did something beautiful to me it allowed me to look back in hindsight and understand what actually
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i did wrong and what other people should do better to not be in the situation that i was in so that is
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simply pick somebody that likes you for who you are and is willing to support you and grow with you
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boys and girls because you cannot just pick somebody for what you want you need what you need
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and that's somebody that is loving and nurturing both ways you need a woman that supports you men
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and women you need a man that supports you and that's it that's simple all right um what i'll say
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is on my final thoughts is that there's been an inflation of hoism there's been an inflation of hoes
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but there hasn't been a match of pimps to match that inflation of hoes get my pimps there's a
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sympademic though there's a big sympademic yeah crazy sympademic which we're struggling from so
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it's it's more deadly than covet exactly right so instead of instead of running from the disease
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and trying to keep six feet away from it you can run to brazil and you know quarantine over there
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if you want to go and quarantine elsewhere by all means but if you still got the balls to fight the
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women that are in our in our ring right now bro like like i said there's been an increase of hoism
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it needs to be an increase of pimpism to put these ladies in check to put them back on the
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track of wanting to be wives because that's what pimps were there for to remind women this ain't cool
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you don't want to be out here on like on this corner in the cold like like you know like the
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statue of liberty you don't want to be standing outside all day so go and be a wife so if you need
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help on how to be a pimp and you're struggling hold out my instagram and if you want to be
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if you're three or four and you want to be a wife and if you think there's no coming back there
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probably isn't however we're gonna try here at just pearly things at just pearly things you
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modern women you 304 sign up for wife school and subscribe to um wife school with pearl um also
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seriously subscribe to my new channel i'm gonna be inviting um different show guests and we're gonna
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react to things in my room or have like little podcasts like i have a whole reaction set up where it's
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like a little less produced like blessing doesn't have to be here for me to use it it'll be a lot
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of fun maybe some freestyling you never know but he's got bars i heard him um okay guys couple
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announcements before we end the show um the first is that we have two clips channels the first is just
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pearly clips and the second is pearl daily um the second is that we have our four membership tiers
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the first you get to be a part of the live chat shout out to the seven or eight members we got tonight
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the second is a part of our discord and our vlogs you want to see me freestyle sign up for that we're
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also going to do a penthouse tour i'm sorry i know i've been promising that for a minute we're going
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to get to it i swear um i don't even want to give you guys a date because i'm afraid we won't live up
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to it our third our third tier um connect with me on social media this means having access to my inbox
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fourth tier you get a one-on-one call with me once a month um also guys um sign or follow my instagram
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just pearly things one followed by tick tock just pearly things dot five and just pearly things six
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um dm the pregame show if you want to come on the show um a lot of guys will dm me to ask him to come
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on the show stop i'm not going to respond to you please please stop asking me to come on the show i
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have a recruiter that's on the pregame show page i don't want to do it anymore but a little advice to
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you if you're a guy and you do want to come on the show there's a lot of guys that want to come on the
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best way to get on is to bring women um because again we have such a backlog of guys that want to
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come on and it's a little bit harder to recruit women so if you want to come on i would say bring
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women um thank you for the super chats oh we just got one more um get pussy let me read this before we
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end uh poppy poop oh poopy puppy women can see their actually rate actual rating and think average to
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below average men are beneath them they leave cheat or get bored and move on women hate settling down with
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good men they know everyone is destined to work sleep and pass with a few things get over yourself
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okay thank you guys for watching and we'll talk to you next time
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