JustPearlyThings - May 05, 2023


She Got Called Out After Saying This..

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
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Andrew Tate Ashton
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Length

9 minutes

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233.71

Word count

2,151

Sentence count

272

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Misogyny

10

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Toxicity

33

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9

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In this episode, we talk about women falling in love with the wrong guys, cheating, and why women should go for the "bad boys" in the dating world. We also talk about why women fall in love faster with the "good boys" and why it's a bad idea.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 The reality is, yeah, the girls that will give it to a guy in an instant, 0.64
00:00:04.620 it's not the same thing as, like, if they'll give it to a guy
00:00:07.680 that waits for, like, three months, four months, you know what I'm saying?
00:00:11.120 It depends on his value.
00:00:11.800 A guy's not going to wait three, four months.
00:00:13.060 It depends on his value, bro, listen.
00:00:14.500 It depends on his value.
00:00:15.700 Let's say he's a proper valuable guy, yeah?
00:00:18.020 She'll give it to him quicker than a low-value guy.
00:00:20.360 Do you understand?
00:00:21.160 Because in her instinct, it makes more sense to give it to him quicker.
00:00:24.880 Do you understand?
00:00:25.920 For a low-value or high-value?
00:00:27.540 Huh?
00:00:27.960 You said for a low-value or high-value?
00:00:29.800 That's true.
00:00:30.540 No, I agree with you.
00:00:31.740 Like, women sleep with the men like we like more quicker. 1.00
00:00:34.420 But that's the whole point we're making.
00:00:36.280 It's like when, for the bad guy, you sleep with him quick
00:00:39.420 and you make the nice guy wait.
00:00:41.380 Attractive and arousal.
00:00:42.220 But the issue, and that's why I'm like,
00:00:43.780 I don't know if I would encourage women to go for bad boys 1.00
00:00:46.100 because it's like, what are your odds of actually getting one?
00:00:49.960 At the end of the day, they're more protective.
00:00:51.800 They'll protect them more.
00:00:53.280 They'll look after them more.
00:00:54.380 They tend to have money because they're aggressive.
00:00:55.960 They're aggressive in life.
00:00:57.260 They know what they want, so they get money.
00:00:58.780 You know what I'm saying? 0.99
00:00:59.820 That comes with getting bitches easy as, there's nothing to do about it. 1.00
00:01:03.560 You know what I'm saying? 0.99
00:01:04.600 Cool. 0.99
00:01:04.920 Except the fact that he has bitches. 1.00
00:01:06.180 He's going to love you for the rest of his life. 1.00
00:01:07.780 He's going to have kids with you.
00:01:08.900 You know what I'm saying?
00:01:09.300 It's a beautiful thing.
00:01:10.360 It makes me smile.
00:01:10.980 When, like, let's say I'm imagining myself having kids with my girl.
00:01:14.480 Oh, it's very cute.
00:01:15.680 That's so good. 0.80
00:01:16.400 So what if I just fucking scared, like, just, like, whatever? 0.89
00:01:19.240 Do you know what I'm saying? 0.71
00:01:19.940 Could you guys deal with that?
00:01:21.840 A guy that you're having kids with, a family with.
00:01:25.140 You're his wife, but he has girls from time to time.
00:01:27.600 I think men cheating is the new norm.
00:01:32.380 As sad as it is.
00:01:33.420 Yeah.
00:01:33.920 I really do, like, dislike.
00:01:36.800 I don't agree with it at all.
00:01:39.140 But I think all men do it, to be honest.
00:01:42.920 Whether it's physically or mentally, it could be, like.
00:01:45.160 All men? 0.95
00:01:46.560 To be honest, we've got too much choice in the world that we live in now. 1.00
00:01:48.900 All men or just the men that you fuck with? 1.00
00:01:52.120 I've got too much choice, bro. 1.00
00:01:53.900 I would say majority of the men.
00:01:55.320 I have not spoken to one man that hasn't that great for me.
00:02:00.940 So you've got to understand your beauty is extremely valuable.
00:02:04.660 Yes.
00:02:04.820 So let's say you're, I'm not judging you.
00:02:07.040 I'm just saying, just exaggerating.
00:02:09.020 Say you're eight or a nine.
00:02:10.320 You're a beautiful woman.
00:02:11.240 Yeah.
00:02:11.380 You've got to understand that your value is extremely more than a girl that's six or seven.
00:02:16.100 Yeah, yeah.
00:02:17.420 So the type of men that you're going to entertain is going to be a different type of level.
00:02:22.780 You're going to get a lot more attention.
00:02:24.340 You're going to get a lot more interest.
00:02:25.600 You're going to get a lot more, like, chasing than the average man.
00:02:28.400 All right, guys, think about this.
00:02:29.480 Yeah, think about this.
00:02:30.440 Cool.
00:02:31.160 Think about the time he was most in love with a guy.
00:02:33.240 The most, yeah?
00:02:34.360 The most.
00:02:35.160 Do you think he had, like, he was higher value than the guys that he didn't fall in love with?
00:02:38.220 Like, more money, more protection, more respect from other people, higher status.
00:02:44.180 Did you feel like that?
00:02:45.380 You was in love with him more than the other guys that you had, you was in love with?
00:02:48.340 No, you don't think about the money or anything.
00:02:50.860 If you're fully in love with that guy, that's all that matters.
00:02:54.220 Yeah, but what makes you, like, in love with him? 0.99
00:02:56.200 Do you find that a guy that's more high value, you love him more than a guy that's some dickhead, broke boy, puss, yo? 0.99
00:03:04.160 Someone who's got stability. 0.98
00:03:06.100 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:03:06.620 Do you think you love that guy more or the guy that's some broke boy that doesn't offer anything to your life?
00:03:10.720 I think it depends how they treat you.
00:03:12.060 I think women fall in love with, like, words and how you're treated. 1.00
00:03:15.000 All right, cool.
00:03:15.240 So let's say some homeless guy, a peasant, yeah? 1.00
00:03:19.840 Cool.
00:03:20.280 Charmed you with his words, yeah?
00:03:21.920 He's like, oh, my baby, you're so beautiful.
00:03:23.480 But you've got to be physically attracted to him as well.
00:03:25.660 Cool, he had muscles. 0.99
00:03:26.480 He had the push-ups in his fucking street. 1.00
00:03:28.100 Okay. 1.00
00:03:29.080 Yeah?
00:03:29.960 Whatever you want, darling.
00:03:30.900 Let's say he spoke his words to you, yeah?
00:03:32.280 He was like, my baby, Ashton, you're so beautiful. 0.99
00:03:35.120 Why the fuck do you look beautiful? 0.99
00:03:36.300 Do you know what I'm saying? 1.00
00:03:37.460 Like, oh, my days, I can't stand you.
00:03:39.940 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:03:40.760 Yeah. 1.00
00:03:41.280 Would that fucking make you fall in love with him? 1.00
00:03:43.640 Well, no. 1.00
00:03:44.440 Exactly.
00:03:44.720 I wouldn't fall in love with just one conversation anyway.
00:03:47.840 It's the consistency of it.
00:03:51.140 Consistency.
00:03:51.500 Because any guy at the start, they'll tell you what you want to hear.
00:03:55.460 They'll big themselves up.
00:03:56.640 They'll do all of this.
00:03:57.160 So you're telling me.
00:03:57.820 All the game here.
00:03:58.580 You're telling me, cool.
00:03:59.280 Exactly.
00:03:59.820 They'll love on you.
00:04:00.920 You're telling me, so a homeless guy that stays consistent in telling you, my baby, I love
00:04:06.200 you.
00:04:07.060 And if it's consistent, you're going to fall for it.
00:04:09.460 But he's homeless.
00:04:09.760 But he's homeless.
00:04:10.360 Be realistic, girls.
00:04:11.380 But he's homeless.
00:04:12.220 Build with him.
00:04:13.360 Oh, my days, bro.
00:04:14.440 Oh, girl, come on. 1.00
00:04:16.280 Do you know homeless me?
00:04:17.660 Are you going to do a homeless one?
00:04:18.760 I'm like, yeah.
00:04:19.440 All right.
00:04:20.820 There's some crackheads down the street I can introduce.
00:04:24.540 No, I'm serious.
00:04:25.900 I'm like, there's a homeless.
00:04:26.700 I'll give you a bit of money.
00:04:27.840 Hold on.
00:04:28.060 You can do what you want with it.
00:04:28.960 You can have Romeo spitting the most beautiful poetry you've ever heard to you every single
00:04:33.060 day, showing up on time to dates, giving you gifts.
00:04:36.960 Right, yeah.
00:04:37.440 If that man doesn't have something outside of words, you will not give him the time of day.
00:04:42.000 You will dry up.
00:04:43.360 And let's just be honest.
00:04:44.260 Point blank, period.
00:04:45.420 I hope you don't.
00:04:47.040 Like, come on.
00:04:47.600 We should not be dating broke.
00:04:49.140 If you had a daughter, you would not tell her to date a guy that's completely broke.
00:04:53.920 I think this whole ambition.
00:04:56.760 But what is the ambition?
00:04:58.220 It's money later.
00:04:59.240 Like, that's what you mean.
00:04:59.920 Because you only have so much time.
00:05:01.680 Like, when we say ambition, that's all it means.
00:05:03.080 You have to make money eventually.
00:05:04.280 You're going to do something eventually.
00:05:05.780 Now, I'm not saying that women, like, we all need to date a guy that makes, like, a 0.98
00:05:09.320 shit ton of money.
00:05:10.700 But, like, it's like, to say we can't gold dig a little bit. 0.86
00:05:14.340 It's just like, we don't want to get this broke.
00:05:15.960 If a rich man wants to take me out and love me and marry me, yeah.
00:05:20.560 Baby, I'm here.
00:05:21.680 You know?
00:05:22.300 And the thing is, I don't even think it's about this money, bro.
00:05:24.300 I don't think it's about money.
00:05:25.980 You know what I'm saying?
00:05:26.480 Listen.
00:05:26.900 Go on.
00:05:27.280 Go on.
00:05:27.520 This is what I'm saying.
00:05:28.560 Like, I like a man with ambition.
00:05:31.080 Whether, like, you obviously got to have some sort of money.
00:05:33.620 Do you know what I mean?
00:05:34.140 Like, because you can't just be broke and have ambitions and you just don't, you know
00:05:38.740 what I mean?
00:05:39.020 You're just a bit lost and you don't know yourself clearly.
00:05:41.700 But, like, if you have drive, I will be ambitious with you and I'll make sure you get to that
00:05:47.460 place.
00:05:48.020 But how long does that last?
00:05:49.940 Because a man can have ambition and do nothing.
00:05:52.160 That's what I'm saying.
00:05:52.980 If you do nothing, then you're just giving me words. 0.99
00:05:55.920 You're not actually showing me shit. 0.99
00:05:57.240 But I was like, let's just say, oh, I want to do this and that. 0.99
00:06:01.860 And I'm making action and I'm trying to make it happen.
00:06:05.380 So the man still has to perform.
00:06:07.240 So ambition is sort of a temporary acceptance for you.
00:06:12.440 I'll accept ambition as long as it leads somewhere.
00:06:15.620 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:06:16.000 But if I'm in with you for six months to a year and you haven't transformed this into
00:06:20.620 something else, then I'm going to leave you.
00:06:22.020 So, again, men...
00:06:22.820 Just not working hard enough.
00:06:24.140 That's not about working hard.
00:06:25.020 Some men just aren't destined to do anything with the light.
00:06:27.620 That's the average man.
00:06:29.440 That's the average man.
00:06:30.560 And that's what this podcast talks about.
00:06:32.860 The acceptance of the average man.
00:06:34.760 And why I ask for the question of the respect, the lack of respect for a man.
00:06:39.200 If you want something bad enough, you'll go get it.
00:06:40.980 Listen, bro.
00:06:41.860 For a man, it takes long to build himself up.
00:06:43.840 You know what I'm saying?
00:06:44.300 Exactly.
00:06:44.980 It takes a long time.
00:06:46.440 You can't just get to somewhere overnight.
00:06:47.880 Like you said, you're showing action.
00:06:49.320 You're showing action.
00:06:50.280 It's going to take him a long time.
00:06:51.200 You know what I'm saying?
00:06:51.520 Yeah, like showing action, like little steps.
00:06:53.460 Little steps, that's what I'm talking about.
00:06:54.700 I'm not talking like...
00:06:55.560 Yeah, but are you willing to wait for like at least five years?
00:06:57.540 Exactly.
00:06:57.840 Six years, seven years, eight years?
00:06:59.200 No, I wouldn't say five years.
00:07:00.500 You get it done now or never.
00:07:01.520 You wouldn't get it done now.
00:07:02.220 It doesn't happen that way.
00:07:03.040 It's harder for a guy.
00:07:03.940 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:07:04.760 Like he has to build himself up, get respect, be known, become known, be respected, get
00:07:09.820 the money, get more money, get even more money where you can look after a family.
00:07:13.760 That takes a long time.
00:07:14.680 I can't lie.
00:07:15.260 Bug him.
00:07:15.560 People think it's a get rich quick scheme.
00:07:19.620 Listen, bro.
00:07:20.780 People think it's a get rich quick scheme.
00:07:22.960 It's not.
00:07:23.540 For a man, it's hard.
00:07:24.660 And you've got to understand how hard it is for a man.
00:07:27.100 Well, you can say about Andrew Tate, isn't it?
00:07:29.140 Like he was nothing at 24 years old.
00:07:31.280 Exactly.
00:07:31.520 And now look at him and all the women want him now.
00:07:33.480 How many years did I take?
00:07:35.240 I think at least what?
00:07:36.000 How many years?
00:07:36.380 Yeah, five years.
00:07:36.800 Five, six, seven years.
00:07:38.040 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:07:39.100 So building yourself up as a man takes years. 1.00
00:07:41.980 Like I don't care if you're like fucking 19 and you work in some bullshit McDonald's. 0.99
00:07:46.840 Yeah, I would tell you not to get to find the girl. 0.99
00:07:49.300 Because when you find the girl and you work in McDonald's, then everyone in McDonald's
00:07:52.940 is a threat to you. 0.86
00:07:54.000 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:07:54.420 Like let's say that your girl is going through the drive-thru and there's McDonald's workers
00:07:57.620 there.
00:07:58.180 They're all a threat, bro. 0.90
00:07:59.640 They're a threat.
00:08:00.280 He's yours.
00:08:01.460 You have to risk.
00:08:02.960 Yeah, because if you would date the McDonald's worker, then you would date another McDonald's
00:08:06.660 worker.
00:08:07.180 So it's like if you're a top like 10% or 5% guy, the odds of her replacing you is like,
00:08:13.940 what is she going to do?
00:08:15.300 But that's the problem with like sleeping up.
00:08:17.860 You know what I mean?
00:08:18.340 Because if you're a five, a six, or a seven and you sleep with an eight, nine, or ten,
00:08:21.780 now you think you're on that level.
00:08:23.140 And any guy that you date after is going to not feel like enough.
00:08:26.800 This is why so many women won't date average men, even though they're average women.
00:08:30.440 Like you don't see, like there is a stream where they asked them, would you date a bus
00:08:34.060 driver?
00:08:35.060 And this is a woman with a kid. 0.99
00:08:36.340 And she said, no, but this girl had a child.
00:08:38.380 So she's below average in the fact that she has a kid. 0.99
00:08:41.380 Because when you come into a kid with a relationship, you're immediately below average when it comes
00:08:44.760 to women.
00:08:45.080 It gets difficult from there.
00:08:46.260 Yeah, because now he has to deal with your kid and she wouldn't date the average guy.
00:08:50.900 And you could say, you know, you don't blame them, but like we don't live in la-la land.
00:08:54.320 Someone's got to date average men.
00:08:56.120 You know what I mean?
00:08:56.560 I was just banned on TikTok.
00:08:59.640 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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