JustPearlyThings - August 19, 2023


She Got In Her Feelings After Pearl Told Her This...


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In this episode, we discuss whether or not women should have more kids, the benefits of education and why it s better to marry a rich man than a poor woman. We also talk about virginity and why women don t have enough.

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00:00:00.000 They want the people that don't have kids is because they if they don't have the money to support it, they want them to have the best education, the best out of life.
00:00:07.600 Right. It's keeping up with the Jones.
00:00:09.340 Well, no, it's like women is to put them in good stead for the future because you can put anyone into any school. 1.00
00:00:14.780 Fine. I went to a normal school. The schools make you dumber.
00:00:18.000 I went to I went to great schools. I would say I didn't learn much from them.
00:00:21.880 I went to both. And I'm just saying that a lot of people do wealthy people and people that want to, you know, make better choices for their offspring, then try and put them in school.
00:00:32.420 And so it does. That does. I understand the reasoning, but people.
00:00:36.640 OK, you know what the average woman, how many kids she had 200 years ago, like a football. 1.00
00:00:41.840 Two point five. Something's saying. No, no. Seven. Two hundred years ago, it was seven.
00:00:47.500 Yeah. No contraception. OK. Who wants to pop seven kids out there? 1.00
00:00:51.420 More. OK. OK. So, so, so how is it that we were poorer then, but we had more kids?
00:00:57.840 Because inflation. Because of lifestyle. Today's society, everything's more expensive.
00:01:02.020 I want to make something very clear because it's very obvious that a lot of people here are speaking about this issue of kids don't actually know anything about raising kids.
00:01:08.480 The reality is you don't have to be rich to give your kids the best at life.
00:01:12.960 Agreed. I come from a family that was essentially basically an almost middle class.
00:01:17.040 I would say middle class family. But my father sacrificed a lot, as long as well as my mom, to put us in the best schools.
00:01:24.360 They weren't rich, but we went to schools with rich people.
00:01:27.180 So you don't have to be rich to put your children, give your children the best in life.
00:01:32.180 You just have to sacrifice.
00:01:33.640 But the problem is people today are too selfish and would rather provide for themselves first before they provide for their kids.
00:01:39.420 I think a lot of people set up that they want to have like good homes that like they want the foundations already so that it is easier when I know I don't think that's true.
00:01:49.280 I think I think that now I think most women are really selfish nowadays. 1.00
00:01:54.280 I think most women wouldn't give up their Botox. 1.00
00:01:56.500 They wouldn't give up their they wouldn't give up their fake nails.
00:01:59.160 They wouldn't give up their pound of makeup.
00:02:00.940 They wouldn't give up new clothes.
00:02:02.700 They wouldn't give up their lifestyle for a family.
00:02:05.340 And I think that's why we're going to see half of women single and childless. 0.99
00:02:08.300 I think it's going to be higher.
00:02:09.380 Actually, I think most women won't have kids unless there's some changes in the laws, because I just don't see in the market a lot of wives that are genuinely selfless. 1.00
00:02:19.520 You know what?
00:02:20.080 What percent of women would not go on any trips, would not go shopping, would not eat out for years. 1.00
00:02:25.980 But the men do not do that as well.
00:02:27.680 The men.
00:02:28.000 No, men only men only make 20 percent of consumer buying decisions.
00:02:32.200 I mean, let's just look in real life.
00:02:34.220 What do we see?
00:02:37.220 Do we see men buying the expensive clothes, the expensive cars?
00:02:41.820 I just think society now allows women to have their own kind of goals.
00:02:45.180 No, you know what's funny?
00:02:46.040 It's only the men you see.
00:02:48.020 Count the men at Tesco.
00:02:49.960 Count the men just working average jobs.
00:02:53.140 It's only the guys you guys see, because you're attracted to them.
00:02:56.220 Why do you encourage women to marry rich men, then, if that's how you think?
00:02:58.940 I don't encourage women to marry rich. 1.00
00:03:00.760 But you said it's a better thing.
00:03:02.020 I'm going to explain it, okay?
00:03:04.240 I don't think it's a bad thing to marry rich.
00:03:06.520 My point is, today, a 22-year-old virgin would have crazy amount of options, because there's no virgins.
00:03:13.880 I was just going to say, you're going to find a 22-year-old virgin.
00:03:16.000 No, that's my point.
00:03:16.680 That's my point.
00:03:17.560 They're not there.
00:03:18.560 So, a chick that's a 22-year-old, good-looking, in-shape virgin, she's going to have way more options than most chicks on the market. 1.00
00:03:25.700 But nobody thought of that as a strategy.
00:03:27.560 But how would you know?
00:03:28.340 How would you identify yourself as a virgin to a normal man?
00:03:30.520 Okay, okay.
00:03:31.300 They won't know for sure, but most men can tell.
00:03:34.500 You can still have a tight coochie. 1.00
00:03:36.020 Do you really think that men would prefer that?
00:03:38.760 Yes.
00:03:39.040 Honestly.
00:03:39.640 Yes.
00:03:39.900 There's an evolutionary reason.
00:03:41.440 They always have to ensure paternity. 0.97
00:03:43.700 So, I mean, I think the value of virginity is almost, how do I put it?
00:03:47.360 Like, because there's, as she was saying, there's no way to ensure it.
00:03:51.200 Most guys just don't even ask and assume she's lying.
00:03:53.560 Like, they don't even believe you.
00:03:54.480 They don't know any differently.
00:03:55.160 I was going to say, no, anyone could just lie about it.
00:03:57.100 Correct.
00:03:57.500 I would prefer a man that's a virgin. 1.00
00:03:58.580 But the truth, I just believe the truth always comes out.
00:04:01.120 And you can tell.
00:04:01.600 I've had chicks come on the show and say they're virgins, and it's just so obvious. 0.98
00:04:04.680 Because it's like, you pick up trauma with each guy that breaks your heart.
00:04:09.700 Do you know why most women don't know that men prefer virgins?
00:04:12.060 Because most women are dating to have sex. 1.00
00:04:14.640 Most women are not dating to get married. 1.00
00:04:16.260 True.
00:04:16.420 So, you don't know what people that want to get married actually want.
00:04:21.800 That's true.
00:04:22.320 I agree with that.
00:04:23.220 That's actually true.
00:04:23.660 I think a lot of people are dating, a lot of girls and women I know are dating to get relationships 0.90
00:04:28.480 because they want something.
00:04:30.600 Stability.
00:04:31.480 Relationships, but not marriage.
00:04:32.740 That's his point.
00:04:34.360 I think like a third or half of kids are born out of wedlock now.
00:04:39.380 I think that's a lot to the ages.
00:04:40.540 I think if you're under the age of 30, more likely it's been that kind of statistic that
00:04:43.960 who aren't dating for love, they're not dating to have a family.
00:04:47.780 I think it's like the older, the older the chicks. 1.00
00:04:49.900 The generational thing.
00:04:50.860 Correct.
00:04:51.320 You're admitting what guys are complaining about, which is that women sleep with all these 1.00
00:04:56.580 dudes in their 20s and then are like praying for a Hail Mary.
00:05:00.000 Men do the same thing as well.
00:05:02.040 Men do the same thing.
00:05:03.080 They just don't get the stigma as women do. 1.00
00:05:04.280 No, they're not.
00:05:04.940 50% of men ages 18 to 21 are virgins.
00:05:08.180 That's because they can't get sex there, but they want to. 0.99
00:05:10.340 Correct.
00:05:10.520 They want to have sex. 0.84
00:05:11.600 That is the point.
00:05:12.200 Because women are number men. 1.00
00:05:13.420 Also, that makes them better.
00:05:14.040 It's like if you go to a club, statistically, there's more women than men. 1.00
00:05:18.240 Shh.
00:05:19.480 Thank you.
00:05:20.020 Because we're all fucking the same guys.
00:05:22.220 No.
00:05:22.560 That's why.
00:05:23.380 Have some standards.
00:05:23.980 Okay, no.
00:05:24.820 Have some standards.
00:05:25.120 Everybody is.
00:05:26.220 Only 15% of men, only 15% of men are over six foot.
00:05:30.900 Half of these chicks, half of chicks, you said you had a boyfriend that cheated on you. 1.00
00:05:35.440 Most chicks have had a boyfriend. 1.00
00:05:37.540 That's the point.
00:05:38.520 We're all screwing the same guys.
00:05:39.800 But women have cheated just the same. 1.00
00:05:41.520 That's the, I'm not disagreeing with you, but women date up and across mating hierarchies. 1.00
00:05:46.180 They always have.
00:05:47.440 And men choose women who are better than them. 0.72
00:05:49.740 No, they don't.
00:05:50.900 Women are so delusional that they think they're better than men nowadays. 1.00
00:05:55.080 When we.
00:05:55.560 We're equal.
00:05:56.200 Shh.
00:05:56.780 Wait.
00:05:57.220 Then we have nothing to offer them.
00:05:59.360 Nowadays, we do not.
00:06:01.300 What do women have to offer in 2023? 1.00
00:06:03.440 We don't give them kids. 0.93
00:06:04.400 We don't give them youth.
00:06:05.260 And we don't give them purity.
00:06:06.340 From a historical and evolutionary point of view, that's what you were supposed to bring to the table.
00:06:10.520 We're still youth.
00:06:10.980 Yeah, but now men just want to flip through.
00:06:12.760 If you give them that, then.
00:06:13.600 Right.
00:06:13.840 Okay, people like that.
00:06:14.760 Yeah, I completely agree with you.
00:06:15.780 But then there's other self-respective women who do give them that kind of stability. 1.00
00:06:19.360 Okay, okay.
00:06:19.840 What's.
00:06:20.300 Now the new virgin is under five bodies. 0.99
00:06:22.740 That's the new virgin.
00:06:23.440 The new virgin is someone who doesn't do only fans.
00:06:25.320 Wait, wait.
00:06:25.340 No, okay.
00:06:25.800 No, no, no, no.
00:06:27.080 I've talked to the guys.
00:06:28.180 You become a hoe at like 10 now in modern times. 1.00
00:06:30.960 At 10, that's like a hoe. 1.00
00:06:32.120 At least 15.
00:06:32.580 Right, okay.
00:06:33.280 Are you, are you in like.
00:06:34.220 No, no.
00:06:34.340 So, so, so, wait.
00:06:35.620 So, at 10, at 10 bodies, this is just like from interviewing the guys, they've roughly said, once you've slept with 10 men, you're a hoe. 0.89
00:06:42.820 Before that, five to 10, they'll take it.
00:06:45.560 But they're, under five is like a godsend.
00:06:47.840 They're like, what?
00:06:48.680 No, but wait.
00:06:49.400 But in, in history, in history, that would have been unacceptable.
00:06:55.340 That too would have been, you've been thrown out.
00:06:57.580 You're a concubine now. 0.99
00:06:58.580 But that society.
00:06:58.800 I'm just wondering, these guys that are saying it, are they also sleeping with less than 10?
00:07:04.340 I'll answer.
00:07:04.920 Or is that just what they want from women? 1.00
00:07:06.500 I'll answer this.
00:07:07.260 Wait.
00:07:07.740 And I think in, in the point isn't like right now we have nothing to offer as a group.
00:07:12.640 One in 25 of us under 35 is on, on only fans.
00:07:16.120 You know, maybe it's one in five of us have an STD.
00:07:19.460 24 of those one out of 25.
00:07:20.900 So, and so to answer, to answer your question, a hundred percent of women want 20% of men.
00:07:25.580 The dating apps is the number one way people under 30 are meeting nowadays.
00:07:28.640 My question, my question was about guys.
00:07:31.240 I'm going to, I'm going to, I'm going to explain it.
00:07:32.760 Okay.
00:07:33.300 We only swipe right 5% of the time on dating apps.
00:07:36.380 That's the number one way that we are meeting.
00:07:39.140 What does that tell you?
00:07:40.960 That most, wait, that most women are sleeping with a minority of the guys because we're all matching
00:07:48.240 with the same guys and sleeping with them.
00:07:51.260 And we can find this just on dating apps and they'll, and now it's crazy.
00:07:54.880 We're getting even more data because it logs like who you meet with, you know, how it,
00:07:58.400 like that'll ask them, like the women who, who you meet with, who you didn't, whatever.
00:08:02.660 And so it's like, we, we have this data and this has always been known.
00:08:07.420 The King had concubines.
00:08:09.560 The peasant had a wife, this like history. 0.92
00:08:12.580 It hasn't changed.
00:08:13.820 The only difference now is that it's like, it's more polygamous now in our thirties where
00:08:17.980 we are in our twenties, where we choose monogamy in our thirties.
00:08:20.900 Okay.
00:08:21.260 But my question was, you said that you'd interviewed guys and they prefer to sleep with women that
00:08:29.640 have had less than 10 partners.
00:08:31.040 No, they'll sleep with whoever they prefer to marry women, they'll sleep with anyone. 1.00
00:08:36.360 They don't care.
00:08:37.000 So their preference is to marry somebody who's had sex with less than 10 people.
00:08:41.260 But what about them?
00:08:42.300 Have they slept with more than 10 or less?
00:08:44.840 Or is this just what they're in there?
00:08:46.440 That's what I'm asking.
00:08:47.280 All of the men prefer this by and large.
00:08:50.200 They might not, they might say, oh, we want to, we want a whore or whatever, but it's usually 0.99
00:08:54.960 just because they want to sleep with the whores because I see who they date and it's never 1.00
00:08:59.460 a girl that's out there.
00:09:01.100 So it's just a preference.
00:09:03.620 No, it's not a preference.
00:09:04.680 I can actually explain it a little bit better.
00:09:06.900 So if you have to think about it, what do women bring to a relationship? 1.00
00:09:11.060 They bring the ability to be a kid and further the generation.
00:09:14.620 So with that, essentially, historically, women needed to be pure because men needed to ensure 0.99
00:09:20.180 paternity.
00:09:21.140 So that's what women bring. 1.00
00:09:22.060 Men, on the other hand, our sexual endeavors have nothing to do with relationships because
00:09:28.000 we bring provisioning and protection.
00:09:29.940 Right.
00:09:30.440 So they don't have to be pure?
00:09:31.520 No, we don't.
00:09:32.040 Got it.
00:09:32.660 But I don't think women's own degree is to be pure. 1.00
00:09:34.480 Double standards.
00:09:35.060 Okay.
00:09:35.380 I have a question.
00:09:36.460 I have a question.
00:09:36.900 Got it.
00:09:37.280 Would you ever break up with a guy for his body count who is too high?
00:09:40.560 Raise your hand if you would.
00:09:42.260 Yeah.
00:09:42.620 Depends how fat he was.
00:09:43.280 Okay.
00:09:43.620 100%.
00:09:44.300 Okay.
00:09:44.680 It depends.
00:09:45.340 Okay.
00:09:45.620 I mean, this is absolutely ridiculous that you just said that women have to be pure, but men can
00:09:49.720 go around and fuck whatever they want. 0.57
00:09:51.480 Like, that's ridiculous.
00:09:52.760 Okay.
00:09:52.880 Okay.
00:09:53.500 I prefer if they were pure, for sure.
00:09:55.100 Yeah, of course.
00:09:56.020 Okay.
00:09:56.280 Okay.
00:09:56.460 Of course.
00:09:56.760 That's everyone's preference.
00:09:57.920 Wait.
00:09:58.020 That's a preference for women as well. 1.00
00:10:00.240 Wait.
00:10:00.260 Wait.
00:10:00.780 My God.
00:10:00.940 Is it?
00:10:01.320 Yes or no?
00:10:01.980 Stop.
00:10:02.300 Is it a preference?
00:10:03.440 Would you prefer a guy who's slept with less?
00:10:05.920 Stop.
00:10:06.180 Or is it going to turn around to you and say, oh, I'm a dirty dog.
00:10:08.360 I've fucked everybody.
00:10:09.040 That's why you're going to get in trouble.