She GOT ROASTED for Saying This
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In this episode we talk about the one that got away or the one who got away. Do you believe in the one? Is there a one out there for everyone or is there someone for everyone else?
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so um today we're talking about the one that got away or the one actually we'll start with the one
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so tell me do you guys believe in the in the one and tell me why yes or no you know what yeah yes
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i know i'm a little i'm a little bit over her i won't lie to you so like i'll have the one for
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like a month and then i'll be like he's not even all that like why am i moving like this so yeah
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yeah you're like me i believe there's the one out there i feel like obviously time is just the
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essence so i feel like there's a different time for everyone my best friends nan and granddad have
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been together for 58 years me i'm single living my best life to further notice but when it comes it
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comes but i do believe it will come i don't believe there's the one because i think you could have
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multiple ones so i feel like yeah i don't think there's just one significant person so i feel
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like in your lifetime you could have more than one the one so no i don't how many your ones have you
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had i'm just curious how much time have you got yeah it's been a few years now anyway
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to be honest i feel like you choose the one mm-hmm so don't they choose you or they choose you you meet
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that person that um ticks all the boxes and then you just say yep you're good to go yeah um i tend
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to agree with him i think you choose the one because um i mean like especially in this day and
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age is too much like we've got too much choice and um we can kind of like siphon out what we want what
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we don't want you know we've most of us have been around the block enough to know like what we will
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tolerate and not tolerate so yeah it's easy you're in the block big dog what's that been around the
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block yeah no you know i'm gonna be different i believe in that there's the one that one person that
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even if there was a good person in your life like 20 years ago even if you're with a man or
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woman now that person if i say the one that person from way back when sticks in your brain
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that's the one i believe there's one for everyone
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i'm just lucky that i got my one i left my one i got my one i'm with my one and how is there a one
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for everyone if there's 55 if there's more women than men on the planet it's 55 women 45 men
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um maybe some of them double up in it hang on a minute look how many ones she had yeah we're
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willing to i just said i got one she said she had multiple ones i mean she's not not at the same
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time no but i mean she got a multiplication table she yeah i mean we were talking about the one and
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she was like yeah there's a one this time one that time one that time one yeah we're talking about
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the one yeah she's got five d ones right but that's how you work it out it wouldn't be the one it's not
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the one exactly exactly but we were saying the one and she had multiple you said you said you
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believe in the one you think there's someone i believe that how is how is there someone for
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everyone if there's more women on the planet than men if there's more women apparently men that means
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that some people got more than one ones or they got the same one so some girls have to share yes
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i'm not sharing my but you don't know you might not know
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i don't get a relationship i don't jump from relationship i don't jump from man i will know
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when it's the right time i'm not talking about you jumping from a man i'm talking about you having
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the same man for about 10 years he could be your one and then you find that there's another woman
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that's been out there 15 years and she is also so he's his one man that means there's not one for
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everyone i mean men are different to women some people just miss out well you don't you don't
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think like is that a term we hear more for women or for men yeah but that's what i'm saying women
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say like he's the one but you don't hear men say that because they don't care that men are nasty
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they just want to escape you think most men are nasty i think women are last year women
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the only way you can get away with saying all men are nasty is for your lesbian
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that's what i'm saying and if you're not a lesbian now if you're not a lesbian you can't sit here
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and turn around and say that all men are nasty say that all the men that you've had a nasty yeah
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i don't believe that all men are nasty do not talk about it unless you are a lesbian if you are
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if you are lesbian then say listen right that means that she's gonna have nasty men no it does that
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means she's gonna have nasty men she can't turn around here no no no no no she can't turn around here
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and sit down and say that all men are nasty and expect to have a man if you're gonna turn around
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and say that all men are nasty expect to have a woman tell them because that means that you don't
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want a man because that man's gonna be nasty so if you're gonna say that the man she's dealing with
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a nasty i can understand that or some men are nasty but i'm gonna sit here and let a woman just
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expect all the men because i love men and to say that all men are nasty all men are not nasty some men are
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nasty or all the men she's dealing with a nasty you know what you can't say that because that means
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that he's nasty he's nasty he's nasty he's nasty he's nasty because you know what
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wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait
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do you know what do you know what it is it's a lot of women do this right you generalize
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all men into one category based on your dating experience all right so you're saying that
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like just because all the men you've dealt with yeah were nasty don't mean not all men but your
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statement was all men are nasty but i'm trying to say i have so many friends that have told me
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their experiences we all have similar experiences echo chambers i'll tell you i'll tell you the
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numbers behind it one out of three men under 30 or their virgins or having had sex in the last year
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most women are sexually active women are more nasty than men by and large it's because it's because it's
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because women only select a very small percentage of men on dating apps we only swipe right five percent
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of the time so the reason you think men are trash is because you're all sleeping with the same ones
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so like who said about who said anything about nastiness doesn't quit i don't think having
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sex yeah it doesn't mean you're nasty it just means you're in tune with yourself i never said sex
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okay nastiness is just about no i'm not nastiness is a quality it's not about having sex describe
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what you mean by nasty okay what do you tell me what you mean by nasty i think humans are innately
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selfish and that's what i'll say and that's what i mean by no humans i'm human i'd take offense
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to that no no no no no i'm not i think i'm very kind but it's kind of men
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you can't turn around and you can't turn around and tell the whole human race
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okay let's let let's let them yeah we didn't get to the men for for me personally i feel like
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you can have more than one soulmate in life yeah but there's always the one like there's always the
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one you can have more than one soul mate but there's always the one there's not plural there's
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always like the one or maybe not always but if you find the one there's just that one and you
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are now when you leave her in it yeah when she's gone and 10 years later you can have you can find
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another soul mate though but you never remember the one and they're not you don't know one no there's
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a difference there's a difference there's a difference there you could get but you're so
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you're cool if you're saying to someone they're your soul mate that's like you can get deeper than
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soul mate you can you can how do you get in one song you can go you could get something you can
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go into twin flames you could get deeper than soul mate trust me but you could get deeper than
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soul mate trust me look it up but there's always the one like whether she's in your life or out your
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life even for women as well like whether they're in your life there's always that one
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okay what do you think so my thing is here i believe there's the one in it and i'm gonna
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know when i get that one because that one is gonna stop me from being my dog and and i
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want to get there because i love i love loving it you know what i mean but at the moment i'm just
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living but there is the one in it you know what i'm saying and but i'm just saying something as well
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like what's your name sorry what's your name yeah sharon you need to slow down with calling every
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man a stink bag because i know some good i know that's a stink bag in it i know some good niggas
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out there i know some man that would die for the gallop well these men why these men because you're
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young and you're young and you're young and you're still you're still messing with the little niggas
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them that's that's trying to run around and beat you and your bedroom at the same time which you
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know saying there's nothing wrong with that man just trying to get anything wrong with that but you
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see the thing is that what what you like you you know sorry i i say this all the time in it a lot of
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women's got this whole thing where they think they'll be watching disney movies and think that's
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life that's relationship that's not relationship it ain't just women that think that there's some
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men as well i'm a man i don't think like that but we said something we said something in order to have
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a conversation we have to make generalities and and who watches disney movies women or men yeah but
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then you're getting at her so generalizing saying that man yeah but then you're generalizing because
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because by and large men aren't because by and large men aren't nasty by and like statistically
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there's no piece of data that you can find out there that says by and large men are nasty but he
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didn't he didn't it didn't generalize she said all he said all he didn't say all when he's talking about
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disney he didn't say all she said all men so out of the men and the women i don't hear the men they're
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waiting for their princess to come i'm always hearing women talking about how how many frogs
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i have to kiss before i reach the prince i never hear a man saying that i've heard that
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no what we're trying to say is that disney don't work for men so when they're saying about the women
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that gay men you're talking about because i hear no man saying oh i'm waiting for my princess to come
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i'm sorry i can kiss her she's in your way i've heard that i've heard that so many men i said
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i'm gonna say they're waiting for the queen queen ain't got nothing to do with disney no no no no no
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if you ask if now hang on a minute let me speak hang on a minute let me speak
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if you ask a black man yeah about queen got nothing to do with disney yes nothing to do with disney
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and if you ask a black woman about her prince or something right or whenever this frog's gonna come
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it's always something to do with disney but you will never ever hear a black man say that he wants
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a queen and and the empress and it's to do with disney it's always tribal no but you don't understand
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where it comes from it don't come from disney it comes from the ancestor it comes from africa and that's
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what i'm talking about when they when he's talking about the girls and their disney they're waiting for
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their prince to come and then they turn around like the women normally do and say oh what about
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the men the men's doing it they call it a queen queen and disney come totally different in disney
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you got princess but you never hear a man talking about princess you never hear a man talk about
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princess you always hear a man talk about his queen and when his queen comes if you look at
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hang on a minute if you look at the rastafarians and the black men and the african men right when you
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hear him talking about his queen it got nothing to do with disney but you can't say nothing to do
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with disney they're talking about yeah that's also generalizing but how do you know
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when you say nothing about a queen a queen that has nothing to do with disney because if a man
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no no no let me finish let me finish let me finish let me finish if you hear a man talk about his
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queen it's his black queen if you're talking about his princess it's his black princess and it comes
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from africa don't come with nothing to do with disney and that somebody said they've got rastafarians in
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go and ask your father if he's talking about his queen if he mentions disney exactly so when the men
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are talking about queen don't come to disney she's talking about her prince will come he's talking
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about her listen you're talking about disney he said that where you're coming from is disney
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she's bringing up the queen a queen for a black person has nothing to do with disney and she's
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putting the woman there he's putting the woman there that's his queen that's his emperor he's gonna
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carry on his chest disney may not carry that they want a horse to carry you they'll carry over
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so sorry so for me i've got a queen in it the queen is the person that gave birth to me in it
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my empress is going to be the girl that i sit down with you know what i'm saying yes so my
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queen this you want to change it as a woman as a woman empress you know me the empress is the team
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that i'm going to second along with in it but i got my queen of my queen queen's my mother you
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get what i'm saying that's nice but you guys are watching too much disney thing i think that's
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last as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this
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