JustPearlyThings - June 06, 2023


She Got SCHOOLED For THIS


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Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

228.20662

Word count

1,829

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

9

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Hate speech

5

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss what it means to be a woman in the 21st century and why it's important to have a man in your life that you can trust and respect. We also discuss the difference between being a woman and a woman's man and how it affects a man's perception of a woman.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 again most most guys want a girl that will submit to him and trust his judgment right would you
00:00:04.960 agree with that yeah so so if his judgment and he says hey you know what i don't want there to be
00:00:10.080 problems could you change your top like your boobs are out or whatever it is and you have to say well
00:00:14.640 but like that's a headache to him no but the thing is what you're describing is a conversation and i
00:00:19.680 think as though if you have a conversation you say oh you know what you're wearing i can't i don't
00:00:23.120 like it i'll be like fez at least we're having a conversation about it you're not coming at me
00:00:26.400 with but even but even but even if he just says it even if he just says hey change your top of
00:00:30.960 course yeah that's fine but it's not like he's not it's not about how you say it but he's telling you
00:00:36.800 what to do in that instance that's what she didn't say that he said a dumb bit he said it's controlling
00:00:41.840 to tell me what i can and cannot wear so he says change your top like to me i think i think it's
00:00:46.880 sexy when a guy when a guy has standards yeah and he i think it's i think it's attractive i agree and
00:00:53.600 so when a guy hears that you won't do it that's a small thing to him that's a small thing that's
00:01:00.400 that's why i got a question for you yeah so when gertrude gertrude yeah and gertrude and patrick is
00:01:07.520 still together from 1901 yeah and patrick patrick been telling gertrude gertrude don't show your knee
00:01:13.200 gertrude is not showing his knee but they're still together and he waited for gertrude for five years
00:01:17.600 to bang gertrude because you know gertrude was a good girl i might have waited for you for three months
00:01:21.360 can i can i can i can i just say something what's your name young man rick rick can i just say
00:01:26.560 something on and off all the hard times whatever him telling what to do and me doing what he tells
00:01:36.400 me what to do him telling me that my head is big him telling me that my cheeks look like two slaps of
00:01:42.000 leather that i need to lose some weight him telling me four weeks late and you know what 32 years and
00:01:47.440 counting there there you see there you go because gertrude listen just did you know what i'm saying
00:01:53.760 you know i'm mad you know why why does a man tell your baby i beg you just cover your boobs up what's 1.00
00:01:57.920 wrong with that is it is it is it out there for display for other man to be like wow you're saying
00:02:02.400 baby or is it his titties isn't it and in general in general yeah now you know what i'm pretty sure there
00:02:07.760 was more marriages than than now and then another thing yeah they weren't happy marriages how do you
00:02:13.520 know how do you know that because there were a lot of abusive marriages why did you say that 0.99
00:02:19.280 most grandparents are happy about their marriage yeah i wasn't finished i wasn't fit but most
00:02:24.720 grandparents in general are happily married the majority of grandparents it's when it gets to our
00:02:30.240 parents that's when it kind of starts breaking down you know the majority of grandparents are happily
00:02:35.200 married and let me just flip it quickly yeah you see as a woman like all right so you see how much
00:02:39.280 you look social circles now yeah you see like the women that are like with partners like in
00:02:44.240 relationships so you see like you lot are going out you got that one friend that she's in a
00:02:48.240 relationship but she's at every turn up with you every turn up wearing what she wants she's the last 1.00
00:02:53.120 one on the dance so ain't you like thinking all right you got a man like you're me but then but then
00:02:58.400 there's a one there's the ones that is in a relationship like i would i would think girls will see it a 0.98
00:03:04.080 little bit better that oh like her man comes after the raven and picks her up and she kind of
00:03:09.200 carry you've noticed that since she's been in a relationship she kind of carries herself a little
00:03:13.360 bit different like she ain't like every turn up she come out like birthdays but not every turn up 0.92
00:03:18.000 it's a little bit different like and while you're shaking waiting for a uber waiting for the man to
00:03:22.480 pull up in the foreign like her man's there outside and picking up and go on in with her like
00:03:26.960 there's other little things going on don't you i don't know can i ask you three would
00:03:30.800 i i agree with you so much okay i agree with you i don't get what's the question
00:03:35.760 no but what i said is it's been i'm just it's going off of what pearl said about um black when
00:03:42.000 if a man says to you something like oh change change your clothes that don't wear that or whatever yeah
00:03:47.200 so i'm flipping it i'm saying like because it's it's a way of a um how a man interacts with his
00:03:52.160 woman within a relationship here so i'm saying amongst your social circle don't you see the difference in
00:03:58.000 how like the good things in what a good man will put into his woman amongst your friends
00:04:04.000 in your social circle in terms of like not being at every turn up they've kind of selectively pull
00:04:09.680 up now and when they pull up it's a bit different they're not as out there as it as they was before
00:04:14.320 they're just a little bit more do you know what i mean and more time afterwards they're getting picked
00:04:18.800 up that the man's out there picking them up it's a don't you you don't respect you don't rate that
00:04:22.960 she's like i want that yeah no i feel like i feel like obviously as a single woman or you're
00:04:27.760 outside getting grabbed yeah but i feel like it's all up to the woman of how she wants to act do you
00:04:32.240 understand so i feel like as a single woman if you're outside doing xyz xyz it's going to be
00:04:36.960 different to if you're in a relationship i'm not in a relationship right now but where i see it going
00:04:41.280 with the person i'm talking to right now would i be out there with tia and batia and red but if i was
00:04:47.200 single not to say that i wouldn't have my tia and batia but if i'm wearing a pair of short shorts and i'm
00:04:50.960 going to the club or the festival or wherever i'm going i'm not going to think all right i'm
00:04:55.200 wearing this because i like this but if i have a boyfriend and before i'm leaving the door he's
00:04:58.560 like you know what baby like you're back then that's for me when we're behind closed doors i
00:05:02.960 don't want you wearing that i would i would take that i wouldn't i wouldn't be that nice about you
00:05:07.600 gonna ask you what you wearing but you're going out like that but i wanted to stay in the house
00:05:12.240 i wanted you lots perspective on you as the single woman looking your perspective when you're looking on
00:05:19.200 your friend that's now her relationship status has changed now she's got a man do you not look
00:05:23.360 on that and see how she's i think yeah like and i think it's true because i'm not gonna lie a lot
00:05:28.000 of times i've been in relationships and there's there's a red-eyed friend
00:05:31.600 there's a red-eyed friend evil eye in the girl with the man 1.00
00:05:39.760 you know i make you right because all the time when i was changing my outfit turning down on my
00:05:44.560 language cutting down on my drinking not wearing skirts up to my ass oh even though you're slim 0.95
00:05:50.080 enough to wear it all my friends had issues with me oh he's doing even that he's doing this he's
00:05:56.000 doing that i know what none of them got a man and if they did get a man they'll be doing the same
00:06:00.960 i've had not more men in that one time that i've had none of them have got a man they're miserable
00:06:07.040 especially my sister they're miserable they're unhappy no she had dogs but they died they got
00:06:15.120 they're just miserable you know why because they're always going to turn around and say oh yeah she's
00:06:19.760 got a man but you know what because they're miserable leftovers well all my friends that are in
00:06:24.720 relationships they don't they still will come out or they will still wear this um no i don't have
00:06:31.760 any friends that are married now it doesn't really count how long they've been in a relationship how
00:06:36.080 does it not but auntie how long are you married i'm a leftover woman that got a ring i was proposed 1.00
00:06:40.880 that got a ring so i'm just as the same as you's like just i got more self-respect well it wasn't
00:06:44.480 about coming up it was about how they act when they come yeah but when they yeah that's what i was
00:06:48.720 going to say all my friends act the same they don't act any different and they still will go out wearing
00:06:54.080 titty and okay yeah they're with submissive men i've got one friend that's been with her man for
00:07:00.160 seven years they've got two kids they've got two kids but he's not submissive he's actually very
00:07:05.440 dominant but he's not insecure so his man his his woman going out with her with with whatever she
00:07:14.080 feels like she wants i'm not saying though just just my final point is i'm not saying that if a woman 0.94
00:07:19.200 goes out and like she's wearing a certain where her vagina lips are hanging out or it's really 1.00
00:07:23.360 revealing that that's okay like if i was doing that of course and my mom was like no then yeah
00:07:27.760 because it looks scary but i'm saying if i wanted to wear my cleavage out and stuff like
00:07:31.520 that and he said no i would think he's trying to control me okay okay okay okay listen yeah
00:07:37.680 i'm going to say something to you live your life the way you want to live your life
00:07:41.680 whip your titty them out leave your bum cheeks out when you're alone in 15 black years time but what 0.93
00:07:46.240 makes you think i'll be alone listen because listening no dumb nigger there's some there's some 1.00
00:07:50.880 ways well you said no there's some some so that's a waste man there's nothing that was just a man
00:07:56.960 that let the ladies finally yeah my face is pink yeah i'll go