She Had Trouble Accepting This Fact About Marriage
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Summary
In this episode, the brother and sister duo of the and are joined by their aunt and uncle to discuss a variety of topics. They discuss the difference between the modern woman and the women of their grandparents and the older generation, and how to deal with challenges in marriage.
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all i had to say can i ask you a question about that yeah what age group was them oh he was
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i was 27 at that point that was 10 years ago and he was almost 60 then yeah so is that it's an
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older it's an older mindset it's an older mindset where he said i don't compromise because that
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doesn't make any sense i cooperate with her so we can get to an end goal because it's that's our
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duty and i respect her no matter what she respects me as well but i respect her but like my point was
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like them women of that generation that's that's different women bro it's very different it's a
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very it's also a very different culture than what we're used to in the west they're the same women
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that raised us though it's very true it's very true but but but i don't what did that be wouldn't
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that be our grandparents generation almost because i don't because it seems like there's like a change
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when it's like the our parents like it seems like our grandparents were the ones like man had side
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chick across town she still stayed yeah my my my granddad has a whole had two other whole families
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yeah and it is what it is but i don't i don't like growing up my grandma was my rock right my anything
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my mom and dad told me get out of here like i don't they weren't the parents that they could have
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been no offense you know what they could have been so the way i look at it is i look at that older
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generation i go okay respect duty and cooperation is the only way that long-term thing can can
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possibly work like auntie was saying like everybody was saying the happiness is fleeting that's not
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gonna stay like even today like we was all joking and laughing in there but if people saw that part
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they would be like how are they different now like we're very calm everybody cool now right
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we were talking earlier everybody's having a great time earlier we could talk a little more
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shit but i'm saying like even in this moment even in this room we switched up didn't we everybody
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switched up to be oh i'm gonna be on camera i gotta be cool and shit so it's like that kind of that
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energy so i really respect that everybody you know yeah i'm not gonna overtake you go ahead bro
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they got two more just quickly throw some wood in the fire yeah go ahead so you know like this is why
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it's nice to look at the women but look at the men as well he said the man the uber driver said
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it's about compromise i was not compromise it's about cooperation i respect her so it's a duality
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we can never just look at the modern woman to be the one that doesn't know how to cooperate because
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the man the ones that say submission so did it all of this type of stuff so ham is that's the problem
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well but i think i think the idea is that if 70 to 80 percent of women are leaving then like you start
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with the 70 to 80 percent before you look at the 30 yeah that's great but surely we want the 70 to turn
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into like the 30s everybody to get married his wife was a housewife she did submit i don't know
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if that's important well i don't know if that's what he's saying he said cooperation but they
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cooperated like how they wanted their relationship to work so she how does it get to a point where
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sometimes you'd be like sometimes i want to throw through a wall 50 years yeah exactly so is that
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constant submission i don't think so because challenges in marriage come from those things
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it's respect i think the idea is though in a long marriage like at the end of the day someone has
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to make the final decision exactly like like someone has to lead the relationship in cooperation and
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respect it doesn't come to a veto well yeah but there's but there's but there's different ways to do
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like okay if there's a ceo of a company and he knows that this employee is like disgruntled when
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he works this way he may compromise what he wants to do in order to make the employee happy at times
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but it's still his decision yeah but i still get my will which means that the disgruntled person the
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one that made the complaint and said this is not cool ceo actually you're making the wrong decision
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the ceo will analyze and say okay cool which means that the lack of submission from the employee
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actually made the ceo because it is his decision and that's what i'm saying right but there's a way to
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like bring up your your disagreements in like a submissive way where it's like it's like you
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you bring it up politely but you still know he's making the final decision not you that then comes
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down to respect and not submission but why is being polite submissive exactly it's respect i i think the
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idea i'm sorry i might have misspoke but i'm saying like like because a lot of girls will come off very
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argumentative and they they just want to like get their point across and just like they're frustrated and
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i'm saying like like you can bring up a concern but the idea is like i trust you to make the
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decision i i think a lot of i think a lot of women i think a lot of modern women get hung up on the
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word submission yes it's the word yeah it's it's it's the word itself can we correct that to our body
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gets a bit confused with submission because not just the girls i'm telling you now i brought that up
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because the mandem thinks submission is bitch shut up your mind well the the no but you you get to
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no no no no no that's not the guys that that's the kind of guys that listen to you told me you
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last time man was here some guy was telling bitch your mind that's what submission is and people like
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yeah who said that last show do you remember that who said that last show i was here no no no no that's
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the guy that was sitting here was that and that's what a lot of men think that they think submission
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is that you tell your woman to shut up because i'm okay no but i'm saying i'm saying okay that's what
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other guys say they come for me on the on the comments all the time no no no no that's that's why
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i'm not moving man i just said the right things no did i say something no i think i think the idea last
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show was that you you were talking about like you dated the rapper right no we're talking about
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you like bad boys no i no i like one bad boy on the rebound what do you actually have a question
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what do you think of michael just like do you know what why are you doing that i love this question
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oh you're trying it you're trying it you're trying it listen yeah is this like a match
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look at we said michael can i say wait he didn't even yeah he didn't want to give his government
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name in the beginning but wait wait wait why are you getting involved
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michael is a libra right now i'll tell you what that means because i i i tried trouble with
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it's a good way it's a point of reference for description so i i approached him first he's got
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like the tattoos the gold teeth the gold jewelies wait did you say you you approached him first yeah
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i'm a confident woman i'm not afraid and i was like okay so he fits a certain stereotype he looks like a
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certain way so you may come across you can make a judgment but actually hearing what he's had to say
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and how he's spoken he's quite balanced he's he's just a a hardcover but sweet story can i ask can i
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ask can i ask can i ask you a question don't worry i've got the socials already
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a hardcover sweet story is that what a libra is because i've lied tons of times just to get some
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pussy about my horoscope some some guess you're a pisces isn't it no oh then gemini nope
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gemini nope nope see but i would be all those things back in the day
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what is what is the big all right guys what is the biggest lie you've ever told to get laid that's
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a good one okay okay you said you said i love you you said my dad dad he might as well be
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an initial question on whether love relationships and marriage were based on happiness yeah uh no it's
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it's based on practicality and you know offspring etc outside of that i have no real interest
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she doesn't know don't worry i'll take it i'll take it
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i think marriage you have to actively get up and say i want this to work like it's not just going to
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fall into your lap you have to look at it like almost a job like you're going to commit to this
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person respect them take their feelings into consideration you have to literally get up
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and actively work on it every day or it's not going to work basically