JustPearlyThings - July 24, 2023


She Interrogates All Of Her Dates


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Length

9 minutes

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176.75005

Word count

1,637

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

8

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Toxicity

4

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Hate speech

2

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about how to interrogate a man and how to get him to pass the interrogation process. We also talk about the 5 questions to be asked to get a man to pass these 5 questions.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 then i would say like if you're gonna have a household um at least 25k because that's what
00:00:07.560 it takes to run the house okay thank you go ahead what are your deal breakers um my
00:00:13.800 third deal breaker is uh not passing my interrogation process okay oh that's what you
00:00:23.260 you you have you wanted to do an interrogation show didn't you yes i okay what's your interrogation
00:00:28.800 process um so there's a series of five questions i have my personal five questions that i ask to
00:00:35.400 actually use in my own day in life okay my five questions are the first one is do you drive it
00:00:43.440 sounds very basic but yeah do you drive um do you have any past traumas and if so
00:00:49.460 and what are you doing to resolve them how many baby mothers do you have
00:00:54.020 is this a problem that we run into multiple baby moms yes oh yeah okay a lot of some guys 1.00
00:01:10.140 they have children okay okay how many baby moms is too many well that's a trick question you see 0.84
00:01:17.080 because if they actually say they have a baby mother then i know what time of day is if they
00:01:20.540 don't respond to the question as my child's mother then i understand what the dynamic in
00:01:25.740 the situation is so that's actually a trick question okay but i'd like to hear zero would you would
00:01:33.460 you deal with one i would have to compromise i'll be compromising okay two no no okay so what
00:01:42.020 other questions do you ask how many streams of income and so if he says he's a plumber
00:01:50.540 no other his one stream of income is that okay
00:01:53.980 you're in the slumber
00:01:55.740 electric
00:01:57.100 we could do bus driver i just pick a trade drivers are making a lot of money
00:02:03.180 that's not a mask no they all do all the trades i mean my questions are not wrong and right it's
00:02:09.800 just for me to understand the individual and if he said three then i know i have a bonus there
00:02:13.940 if he says zero i know i have a problem if he says one or two then i just understand his work
00:02:20.740 effort and where he would like to go the last question i normally ask is what is a male's purpose
00:02:26.580 in four words and these questions it sounds very military as i'm saying it but i slight in the
00:02:32.900 conversation it's a way how i do it but if they fail those those five questions yeah door breaker
00:02:38.820 okay so i'm just curious one stream of income deal breaker or no not a deal breaker okay pass that
00:02:47.620 question and the trauma you think men want to be questioned about their like past trauma
00:02:53.860 it's how they respond to the question actually okay so what's all right ask ask him here are your
00:03:00.500 questions i want to see if he passes or not so um do you have any past traumas and if so what are you
00:03:09.140 doing to resolve them um yeah i went to therapy actually um yeah and that helped me a lot it was
00:03:14.820 um because i was raised by my grandparents and kind of not like being raised by my mom kind of had
00:03:19.060 a little like you know but now me and my mom are cool like me and mom are like best friends i speak
00:03:23.380 to my mom like every day and it's just been very brought a lot of healing to me so yeah it's been good
00:03:29.300 and actually i will urge every guy out there to if you've got any sort of you know disruption with
00:03:35.940 your parents whether your father or mom just deal with it because yeah you have to and they they're
00:03:41.380 here what you're gonna do you just have to deal with it and love them and receive the love that
00:03:44.660 they give you it gives you a lot of healing yeah thank you for answering was that a good answer the way
00:03:50.020 how he answered gave me a lot of information about him just then and there and it also let me know
00:03:56.420 that he actually this he has he has a past trauma and he actually done something to resolve it i'm
00:04:01.380 more for the end result and the fact that he actually did something rather than sit down and feel safe
00:04:06.020 himself he passed the question yeah ask another one i want to i want to see how he does i want to see
00:04:13.620 keep going and this is fun um okay what is the most purpose in four words i think it's to provide protect
00:04:20.180 and to provide protect and also to live out his divine purpose that's that's so protect provide
00:04:32.500 bear children so reproduce and to live his dream so whatever gift that you know god has given you
00:04:39.300 you have to make sure that you manifest that in life before you die before you leave this planet
00:04:43.700 so live his dreams in one word what does that mean um to give out whatever to give out to lift to
00:04:50.100 live out his gifts so whatever gift that he's got is to bring it into fruition just yeah so if you
00:04:56.740 can put that in one word what would that one word be to be alive so that's three words
00:05:04.740 fulfillment yes that's it can i date you you sound
00:05:09.140 what did what do you think of that answer no he missed 50 what was wrong with the answer uh protect
00:05:23.780 and provide is uh definitely uh the two words um again like i said there isn't any wrong or right
00:05:29.940 answers but the four words that i'm looking for is protect protect provide hunt and lead
00:05:34.580 okay you're actually not the first girl that's come on the show and said she wants a guy to like kill
00:05:49.620 an animal but i'm like we live in london i mean like where is he gonna go hunting i mean one in terms of
00:05:58.900 do you pick berries but but modern daily obviously we don't do hunting yeah living in like you said
00:06:05.540 london 21st century so a man's hunting now he's going to sainsbury's and buying the food or providing
00:06:12.420 the money to buy the food but is that another sense what i said like provide yeah exactly yeah but that
00:06:17.620 that's what men have to what i'm saying is from um i don't know her name but anyway like she said hunting
00:06:22.820 but that's what she kind of means but obviously you can't go and shoot a deer or whatever so you have
00:06:28.580 to go sainsbury's and buy i want i want to hear i want to hear from the guys what these questions
00:06:35.140 do you would these be like a red flag or a green flag massive red flag bro really personally i feel
00:06:41.300 like she's in a mission i feel like she's looking for love like she's she's here like which is a good
00:06:46.260 thing but then if i'm not really on that kind of vibe then you're trying i would just like okay
00:06:50.660 why do you say it's a red flag king because when it comes to like relationships the same way women 1.00
00:06:56.740 expect men to be tucked be tactful about how they approach them how they ask them certain questions
00:07:04.820 i expect a woman of intelligence to do the same thing you can't just be asking me direct questions 1.00
00:07:10.900 as if we're like in an interrogation doesn't make any sense yeah but she said she doesn't do it like
00:07:15.780 how she yeah those five questions last within a two-hour conversation you won't even realize i'm
00:07:20.980 asking these questions for that purpose because it's a two-hour conversation what i'm saying is if you
00:07:24.740 deliver it exactly the way you delivered it it's not it's just gonna be of course that won't be
00:07:29.460 genuine and anyone would not even answer to be honest of course so i have a question what is the
00:07:36.580 role of a wife i expect you'll say it's to bear children uh no okay um well to be supportive i think
00:07:47.060 and encouraging and kind and respectful and give men a lot of what they need as long as it isn't insane
00:07:52.740 and ridiculous but i think i work as a dominatrix and i think too often wives fail to do that and 0.97
00:07:57.780 men come to me for things that women should often be providing themselves yeah question actually um
00:08:03.140 because interest i have a theory i'm like what can we learn from sex workers and i think one thing
00:08:09.460 i've always heard from sex workers is a lot of times men seek out sex workers because their wives are 0.99
00:08:14.420 not sleeping with them is that true um yes i'm sure that's true or just listening to them actually or just
00:08:19.540 respecting them i had a man recently paid me to so he could cry in my arms because his their son had
00:08:24.260 just died and his wife just wasn't providing any emotional support or um they just really want
00:08:29.140 their wives to wear stockings i don't think that's really unreasonable um yeah um i don't sleep with
00:08:35.540 men so i'm not entirely confident on that um yeah how does that work with your husband he doesn't mind
00:08:40.580 no he thinks it's just ridiculous and fun yeah he just hears the beating noises now she's off 0.90
00:08:46.180 he doesn't think spanking's sexy but you don't you don't do anything sexually with them no okay no 0.99
00:08:52.100 just beat them up wow that's interesting do you know women that do have sex with them i don't actually 1.00
00:08:59.060 no okay no it just it's just you kind of live in your own little world yeah yeah okay 0.99