She Loves Drug Dealers
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Summary
In this episode, we have a special guest on the show, a man who has been in the industry for the past 10 years. He's a serial entrepreneur, entrepreneur, social media guru and all round good bloke. We talk about how he got his start in the game, his love of drugs and how he fell in love with the wrong type of men. We also talk about what it's like dating an ex-drug dealer and the crazy things he's been up to.
Transcript
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can you explain things that you've heard that bit that turned you on in conversation like oh yeah
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like because you're saying that you like when he doesn't like you you like assholes yeah like bad
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guys yeah you like drug dealers yeah you can say that so what are you talking about when you said
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that you've met you've met future fathers and your type is the tracksuit guy with the gucci purse
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mandem with the a machete in his bag and the xl bullies any what xl bullies what is that dog i i
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i'm not from here i mean oh all right so you know that that's not is that who you want to have kids
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with yeah okay who do you have kids with why so that's anything i'm attracted to really i don't
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like guys with real jobs just don't like it so you prefer somebody like this is going to be the
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father your children the likelihood that he goes to jail is 10 times higher than somebody who's
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working regularly yeah but like when they turn like maybe like 25 then they gotta get a real job
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so you want to date an ex-drug dealer yeah they'd be like they can do it like now for now because
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obviously they're young but if i have kids with them and stuff they gotta fix up and get a real job
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you don't think that you're going to become unattractive to them because you just said you
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don't like guys at real jobs i know but it's just for now but i think when i'm a bit older
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why i don't know i don't know that's just my mind i don't know it's weird okay what type of
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girl do you like i like nice girls i like girls that
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i like you yeah i don't know if uh you already know you know
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yeah you did not help blessing was behind the camera laughing during the imagine we're on a date
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we're on a date and you hear laughter at the conversation and not like because the conversation
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was going it was laughing at what her answers were so i'm just like you kind of dug me up
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you must have some crazy crew stories that a lot of people can't relate to wild i want to hear the
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most wild story oh the most wild story okay so we have this show well i say it's a show it's a game
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show on board um that basically you're required to get into teams and you you have to bring us
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different items so we call out whatever item it is and they bring it by the end of it um it gets
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as wild as guys have to swap underwear with people so you have people in the room with like
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literally hundreds of people and people are naked and men are wearing women's thongs and women are in
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the boxes so yeah it definitely gets wild okay is it like for married couples who are bored and
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they're trying to spice it up it's like a swingers group no so the funny thing is it's not so it's it's
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not family friendly it's obviously over 18s but in the sense as you get put into teams with random
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people so you might be in a team of a couple of your family members but reality you're in a team
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of maybe 15 people of strangers and you all become friends and then you're partnered up in a team
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to try and win a bottle of champagne that's it that is it they do this all for a bottle of champagne
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yeah what have you learned about human nature from that because it's pretty funny how you can get men
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to put on women's thongs strangers on a random boat in the middle of the sea and you could die
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it's absolutely correct you know a bottle of champagne but it's made it normalized to me so
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when i come home and explain this story to people they're like it's so crazy but because i see it week
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in week out it's like oh you wouldn't do this you would do this for a laugh as well and people are
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like absolutely not but yeah what do you think it is about the environment that makes them step out of
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their comfort zone like that so easily americans it's americans it's americans we even say that
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like an american americans i'm telling you brits wouldn't do it you bring that you bring that here
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and you wouldn't do it you'll have everyone sitting there like nah nah nah that's not for me that's not
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for americans are willing to come out of their comfort zone a bit more you like you post it on
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instagram yeah you get all these brand deals always yeah wow and you know i never get any brand deals
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really i've been doing it for around 10 years and there's people that their whole thing is getting
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that but yeah you have that good like presentation personality obviously those are very presentable
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oh thank you you got the teeth and uh the way your makeup is and the smile like i could see you look
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like you could sell like sell a house i would buy a car from you oh thank you if we buy any car that
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could be my next one a 98 mercedes and i had 120 000 miles and you presented it the right way you
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distracted me with those and i'm looking down here i'm grabbing the key put it in the car i'm out of
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here i had to spend 100k on this old car because because you have that presentation quality i know i
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do i do love that i love i do love that but i feel like you hold some some of that too i'm not gonna
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lie yeah i don't think i could sell a car i can't sell i don't think i could sell a car as easily
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maybe i wouldn't be able to create the lie to that level i'd be like this car is a piece of shit
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what do you think about people who don't want to have kids with somebody who's jabbed
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i think that's extra because i don't think you're going to like grow a fourth leg or anything
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um from the jab i do feel like there are other things that it could affect i.e. fertility and stuff
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like that down the line which we will never know until it comes about but um realistically i don't
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think it's going to create an alien baby so we never know i know we say never know but i doubt it
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very much i mean they just got rid of that original the original jab they don't they banned it oh i know
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i know yeah and we made it what's your what's your type what type of guys do you attract what type
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guys do you want to attract okay um my type has changed so much so a timeline i i would say
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somewhere in between now this i love a man that goes to the gym so someone that is really fit
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got six pack good pecs that type of thing but i'm swaying off of that so much i was obsessed with
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the bigger the better before now more so just someone that takes care of their appearance
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someone that is driven um adventurous spontaneous and caring someone that's a family goer love people
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that is close with their mom and have siblings around that just know how to handle kids because
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obviously we're of the age of that's going to happen so yeah um definitely caring sweet nature about
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them what about you what do you like in a female i think all those same qualities when i look for
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a partner when i well not a partner when i look for a girlfriend i'm looking at motherly qualities
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it doesn't really matter what age it is we had a couple uh 19 year olds come in and they're just
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they're gonna keep clubbing for a long time and they don't really exude any motherly qualities so i
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don't think that's worth investing my time into right now i like a girl who could provide a spiritual
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balance yeah i have a lot of headaches and problems in my life a lot of people that try to attack and
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there's a lot of people that i'm that i'm up against yeah and i do approach everything i do with love
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but if i don't have that type of balance of i'm having more problems at home in my relationship
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then it's just gonna then i'm gonna be a wreck and i need to have that that those nurturing qualities
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so what is a red flag with you like something that a woman just can't have
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i think um if she doesn't respect her father okay i think that you could always tell how they're
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going to act in relationships based on how they interact with their family and if they don't have a
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good relationship with their siblings or if they have a bad family environment they're always
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fighting with them they speak poorly about them if there's friction there you're going to see those
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same traits in the relationship always definitely like people just emulate their parents relationships
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people emulate their family that's their method of loving and of a relationship style so i think
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that's a good way to tell how they're going to act and especially for women if they don't respect
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their father and a lot of time if their father's not in their life then there are going to be a lot
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of issues yeah and you can definitely train a girl you can mold her in a sense but you need to have more
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experience maturity you need to be much more masculine you need to be smarter you need to be better than
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her in so many different ways and is that really worth the guy who's at that point does he really want to
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invest his time into fixing a girl who's 100 uh she's great but i'm exhausted and this is only like
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what a 10 minute date i can't imagine like a relationship let's go camping let's go twerking
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let's go woo canoeing i'm in here now like already okay but yeah good personality great assets uh great to
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look at i wanted to look at i wanted to but she's a lot of work she's she needs a lot of entertainment