JustPearlyThings - July 24, 2023


She Made This Claim And Got DEBUNKED


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

168.10765

Word Count

1,549

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

26

Hate Speech Sentences

12


Summary

In this episode, we discuss the current state of women in the UK, the role women play in society and the impact of social media on our perception of the world. We also discuss the reasons why women should leave a marriage.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 so you think women have always been the same now they just leave instead or like now they're it's
00:00:05.620 just out in the public yes i feel like now we can see more like before we wouldn't know what's
00:00:10.680 happening in someone else's family but now you've got people filming what's happening in their own
00:00:14.380 household and posting on social media or like everyone i think people have an opinion you've
00:00:19.320 got someone just laying laying in his bed at home could just say whatever and i'll get to me
00:00:23.320 whereby way back i wouldn't know what he thinks or she thinks so i'm just stuck my own little
00:00:27.160 world that i've created for myself my own perception of the world but now your perception
00:00:31.200 can be injected by anyone someone from dubai can say something and i can see on twitter and feel
00:00:36.240 offended like what was this whereby before there's no twitter it's no social media it's not internet
00:00:40.500 just live in your own world okay what do you think well i actually agree with the statement
00:00:48.660 and the reason why i agree with the statement is because guys do
00:00:53.640 generally have to work much harder now and the reason why i feel that they need to work much harder
00:01:00.480 is in terms of inflation and in terms of inflation in the last 10 years it's absolutely ridiculous
00:01:08.520 there's no chance for young people and the government just keeps raising inflation they say they
00:01:14.560 raise raise raise the wages but however the inflation rises just above the wages so then a lot more has
00:01:23.940 to go in for them to get a lot out in terms of women um do they give less well i can't speak for every
00:01:33.120 woman it depends on how that woman thinks and what her perspective is remember no it depends
00:01:40.120 so again i wouldn't pigeonhole every single female some females yeah are gold diggers and some females
00:01:49.500 are not what what value do women in 2023 bring the average chick um well if you're average i'm not sure
00:01:58.980 about the average but however i was brought up in a way where we were raised to support our men
00:02:08.080 and to stand beside our men so i mean they may not have had a lot but you would support them in their
00:02:14.620 endeavors or their dreams etc um and you'd be that backbone um towards their goals or their dreams etc
00:02:23.040 do you think most women do that um i can't speak for most women but for what i've seen
00:02:29.480 for the females that are around me no they don't okay so yeah especially with like half of like how can
00:02:36.120 we say we're supportive if half of us leave you know what i mean i think in terms of leaving um
00:02:43.180 it's like because you know it's like you if you're going to support you got to stay and support him
00:02:47.580 you know again i know you say you don't like the word depends but however i wouldn't recommend for
00:02:54.820 someone to stay in an abusive relationship so if someone's being why is abusive why is abusive the
00:03:00.320 first thing that comes to your head because i'm not saying that's the first thing it's the first
00:03:05.760 thing you said yeah but i've known women that have left from relationships because of physical
00:03:11.740 abuse is that the majority um i can't really speak for the majority
00:03:16.540 you think the majority of men are abusing women you think that's probable
00:03:21.380 no okay so like why is it the first thing that comes to your head
00:03:25.180 um you're saying it's about support and leave yeah i'm saying circumstances right but i'm saying
00:03:31.640 if half of women are leaving and then the first thing you say is abuse i'm just i'm asking why
00:03:35.860 that's the first thing i'm saying that could be one of the things i'm not saying that's the first
00:03:40.960 thing i'm just saying no i'm saying that's the first thing you said though yeah so my first thing
00:03:46.080 i would say if a relationship is abusive then you have the right to leave okay
00:03:51.620 right but like my my point was that half of women are leaving and so i'm saying we can't be supportive
00:04:00.040 if we're leaving like half of us you know what i mean well
00:04:04.940 and unless someone knows the reason why they're leaving every every relationship and every partnership
00:04:13.620 has their reasons why they leave what are good reasons to leave a marriage well i would say abuse
00:04:20.300 okay outside of abuse which we agree is the minority right um outside of abuse i don't know i feel like
00:04:28.880 it really really depends or say someone's a heavy gambler okay gambling gambling and abuse but you
00:04:36.640 would you agree those are minority cases not majority yeah i guess so yeah okay okay okay so
00:04:42.960 are there any other good reasons to leave outside of that i would say no so wouldn't you say the majority
00:04:49.140 of women are not supportive yeah yeah i would say okay okay what about you hoflation true or false
00:04:56.160 i would partially agree with that statement so i agree with the part where there isn't much quality
00:05:04.240 woman that are left that has dropped massively um i slightly disagree with the part where men have to
00:05:12.800 work extra hard now and days compared to the men back in the days um on two aspects financially is more
00:05:21.080 easier to gain financial success if you just understand the strategies to it in today's timing
00:05:29.260 and in terms of finding a woman um i think it's absolutely easy for males to find a decent woman
00:05:38.080 only because females are now degrading themselves and they're showing it in front of the whole world
00:05:44.400 in the public so men are now able to now look at that and say okay well i don't want you that they
00:05:49.260 can filter more easily because females are just upcoming degrading themselves what is a decent woman
00:05:55.520 a decent woman a decent woman would carry such qualities that would facilitate being a mother
00:06:07.900 a wife and a lady and some of those will come from the parenting how they were raised in the first
00:06:15.200 place and then part of that will also be down to their decisions that they make in life do you think
00:06:22.380 the majority of women were raised to be wives no okay what if a guy wanted 10 kids where would he get
00:06:29.760 that are there women that want to give 10 kids nowadays no do you know what do you know what the
00:06:36.860 average guy got um in 1800 no eight kids per woman but that's the thing there is quality woman out there
00:06:48.020 it's just more easier to filter through it now right so what does a quality woman give to a man
00:06:53.500 a quality woman is is basically a woman that most men would dream to have or the type of woman that
00:07:03.080 grandparents were okay okay so what what does she give like what does she bring to the table a quality
00:07:09.960 woman i don't i don't agree with females bringing anything to the table no but you said it's not that
00:07:15.600 hard for a man to find a quality okay but i'm saying we have to define what is a quality woman
00:07:20.040 i can define to you what type of woman that they won't want okay but no i'm asking what
00:07:26.080 because you said a quality woman i'm saying what would they want right like how many kids does a
00:07:31.700 quality woman bring is she a virgin is she like what like how old is she what does a quality woman look
00:07:37.840 like okay she'll be well groomed okay um she'll be well presented well spoken um quite intelligent
00:07:47.720 in that sense she would also have the skills to know how to cook and well how to use the kitchen
00:07:56.800 app i would normally say to people two things a woman should know how to um feed the hunger and
00:08:03.000 heal the sick within the kitchen okay those are two qualities um that woman should have what about age
00:08:08.800 age doesn't really hold really much weight because you can be a quality woman for the rest of your
00:08:15.180 life could be 50 so a 40 year old woman is equally as quality as a 20 year old woman they could still
00:08:21.500 be quality woman at just different ages they're probably better who's better you could probably
00:08:28.160 even be better at an old age you might get a bit more mature so kind of experienced what what do
00:08:35.460 you bring at 40 that you wouldn't have at 20 a bit more of a mature attitude are older women generally
00:08:42.620 known for being more agreeable and better yeah no they are maybe you've not ever experienced them
00:08:52.340 i've only interviewed hundreds of women it doesn't matter there's thousands of millions of us
00:08:56.460 there is a lot there's a lot of things that we haven't experienced you know that we can't really
00:09:01.260 comment okay what are what are women over 30's reputation that are still single good or bad
00:09:05.860 oh the reputation defines them as a person yes oh right yeah i don't agree