JustPearlyThings - She Said This To Make A POINT

00:00:00.000 could you guys deal with that um a guy that you're having kids with a family with you're

00:00:05.660 you're his wife but he has girls from time to time i think men cheating is the new norm

00:00:11.520 as sad as it is yeah i i i really do like this like i don't agree with it at all

00:00:18.680 but i think all men do it to be honest whether it's physically or mentally it could be like

00:00:25.440 all men to be honest we've got too much choice in the woman or just the men that you with

00:00:31.460 majority of the men i have one you got to understand the privileges that have it

00:00:40.980 so you got to understand your your beauty is is extremely valuable yeah so let's say you're i'm

00:00:46.760 not judging you i'm just saying say you're eight or nine you're a beautiful woman yeah you got to

00:00:52.000 understand that your value is extremely more than a girl that's six or seven yeah yeah so

00:00:58.060 the type of men that you're gonna gonna entertain is gonna be a different type of level you're gonna

00:01:03.320 get a lot more attention you're gonna get a lot more interest you're getting a lot more like

00:01:06.920 chasing than than the average man i gotta think about this yeah think about this cool think about

00:01:11.820 the time he was most in love with a guy the most yeah the most do you think he had like he was higher

00:01:16.840 value than the guys that he didn't fall in love with like more money more protection more respect

00:01:22.600 for other people higher status did you feel like that he was in love with him more than the other

00:01:27.060 guys that you had he was in love with no you don't think about the money or anything if you're fully

00:01:31.880 in love with that guy that's all that matters yeah but yeah what makes you like in love with him do

00:01:36.600 you find that a guy that's more high value you love him more than a guy that's some dicker broke

00:01:42.840 boy course you're someone who's got stability do you know what i'm saying did you think you love

00:01:47.880 that guy more or the guy that's some broke where that doesn't offer anything i think it depends how

00:01:51.720 they treat you i think women fall in love with like words and how you're so let's say let's say

00:01:57.640 let's say some homeless guy a peasant yeah cool charmed you with his words yeah

00:02:02.280 he's like oh my baby but you've got to be physically attracted to him as well cool he had muscles he had the

00:02:07.000 push-ups in his street okay let's say let's say whatever you want let's say he spoke his words 0.99

00:02:12.040 to you yeah yeah he's like my baby ashton you're so beautiful why the fuck you look beautiful you 0.99

00:02:16.840 know what i'm saying like oh my days i can't stand you do you know what i'm saying yeah would that 0.99

00:02:22.120 fucking make you fall in love with him well no i wouldn't i wouldn't fall in love with just one 0.97

00:02:26.920 conversation anyway it's the um consistency of it because any any guy at the start they'll tell 1.00

00:02:34.600 you what you want to hear they'll pick themselves up they'll do all of this so you're telling me

00:02:38.920 you're telling me cool exactly you're telling me you're telling me so a homeless guy that stays

00:02:43.160 consistent in telling you my baby i love you and if you're like on the street you're gonna fall

00:02:49.240 for it but he's homeless but he's homeless be realistic girls but he's homeless build with him 1.00

00:02:53.000 oh my things bro oh girl come on where do you know homeless man are you gonna do a homeless one

00:02:59.000 i'm like yeah all right yeah there's some crack heads down the street i can introduce

00:03:07.560 i'll give you a bit of money you can do what you want with it you can have romeo spitting the most

00:03:10.920 beautiful poetry you've ever heard to you every single day showing up on time to dates giving you gifts

00:03:17.240 right and that man doesn't have something outside of words you will not give him the time of day

00:03:22.520 you will dry up and let's just be honest i hope i hope you don't like come on we should not be

00:03:28.600 dating broke man like that is if you had a daughter you would not tell her to date a guy that's

00:03:33.240 completely broke i think i think i think i think this whole ambition but what is the ambition it's

00:03:38.600 money later like that's what you mean because you only have so much time like when we say ambition

00:03:42.760 that's all it means you have to make money eventually you're gonna do something eventually no i'm not

00:03:46.600 i'm not saying that women like we all need to date a guy that makes like a ton of money

00:03:50.680 but like it's like sustainability to say to say we can't gold dig a little bit it's just like

00:03:55.080 we don't want to go this bro if a rich man wants to take me out and love me and marry me yeah

00:04:00.920 i don't think it's about it's money bro i don't think it's about i don't think it's about money

00:04:07.800 this is what i'm saying like i like a man with ambition whether like you obviously gotta have some

00:04:13.000 sort of money do you know what i mean like because you can't just be broke and have ambitions and

00:04:17.560 you just don't you know what i mean you're just a bit lost and you don't know yourself clearly but

00:04:22.120 like if you have drive i will be ambitious with you and i'll make sure you get to that place but how

00:04:28.680 long does that last because a man can have ambition and do nothing that's what i'm saying if you do 0.91

00:04:33.720 nothing then you're just giving me words you're not actually showing me shit i was like actions let's 0.90

00:04:39.320 just say oh i want i want to do this and that and i'm sure i'm making action and i'm making trying to 0.91

00:04:44.760 make it happen so the man still has to perform so ambition ambition is good as ambition is sort

00:04:50.520 of a temporary acceptance for you i'll accept ambition as long as it leads somewhere yeah but

00:04:56.360 if i'm in you with you for six months to a year and you haven't transformed this into something else

00:05:01.480 then i'm gonna leave you so again men just not working hard enough that's not about working hard

00:05:05.240 some men just aren't destined to do anything with the ladies that's the average that's the average man and

00:05:10.840 that's what that's what this podcast talks about the acceptance of the average man and why i asked

00:05:15.880 for the question of the the respect the lack of respect for a man listen bro for a man it takes long

00:05:23.240 to build himself up you know what i'm saying exactly exactly it takes a long time you can't just get to

00:05:27.240 somewhere overnight like you said you're showing action you're showing action it's gonna take him a

00:05:31.000 long time you know what i'm saying yeah like showing action like little steps that's what i'm talking

00:05:34.680 about i'm not talking like um are you willing to wait for like at least five years exactly seven years eight

00:05:39.000 years no i wouldn't say five years you get done now or never you want to get done it doesn't happen

00:05:43.080 that's harder for a guy do you know what i'm saying like he has to build himself up get respect listen

00:05:47.880 you know and become known be respected get the money get more money get even more money where you can

00:05:52.760 look after a family that takes a long time i can't lie broken evil fingers are every listen bro

00:05:57.880 people fingers to get rich quick scheme you will think it's a get rich quick scheme it's not for a man it's

00:06:04.280 hard and you guys don't understand how hard it is for a man like well you should say about anju tate

00:06:09.080 isn't it like he was nothing at 24 years old exactly and now look at him and all the women

00:06:13.240 want him now how many years did i think i think at least what yeah five five six seven years

00:06:18.200 you know what i'm saying sorry so building yourself up as a man takes years like i don't care if you're

00:06:23.080 like 19 and you work in some mcdonald's yeah i would i'll tell you not to get a find the girl because

00:06:29.800 when you find the girl and you work in mcdonald's then everyone in mcdonald's is a threat to you

00:06:34.280 know what i'm saying like let's say your girl's going for the drive-through and there's mcdonald's

00:06:37.640 workers there they're all a threat bruv they're a threat he's yours you have to risk because if you

00:06:43.720 would date the mcdonald's worker then you would date another mcdonald's worker so it's like if you

00:06:49.000 if you're a top like 10 or 5 guy the odds of him her replacing you is like what is she gonna do but

00:06:55.800 that's the problem with like sleeping up you know what i mean because if you're a five or six or seven

00:07:00.440 and you sleep with an eight nine or ten now you think you're on that level

00:07:03.720 and any guy that you date after is gonna not feel like enough this is why so many women won't date 1.00

00:07:08.600 average men even though they're average women like you don't see like there's a there's a stream where 0.82

00:07:12.920 they asked them would you date a bus driver this is a woman with a kid and she said no but this girl

00:07:17.640 had a child so she's below average in the fact that she has a kid because when you come into a kid with

00:07:22.600 a relationship you're immediately below average when it comes to women it's difficult from there yeah yeah 1.00

00:07:27.080 because now he has to he has to deal with your kid and she wouldn't date the average guy and you could say

00:07:31.720 you know you don't blame them but like we don't live in la-la land someone's got to date average

00:07:35.800 men you know what i like not every girl i think the reality of the world is the reality of the world is

00:07:42.440 yeah you're either a broke guy and no one no girl wants you because let's be real no one wants a 1.00

00:07:47.320 broke guy no matter what he says no matter what he says to you the poems the letters anything doesn't 0.98

00:07:52.120 matter bro you're broke nothing matters but same as if you're an ugly girl no offense like no offense to 1.00

00:07:58.120 women if you're an ugly girl then you don't you don't matter either especially if you're fat 1.00

00:08:02.360 that's the worst bro no i'm not a fat phobic i'm just saying let's be real yeah in the average world 1.00

00:08:07.320 if in the average world if you're fat and you're ugly no one cares about you especially same thing 0.95

00:08:12.760 as if you're broke and you're a guy no one cares about you it doesn't matter about your looks

00:08:16.600 but if it goes you've got to go and earn that respect exactly exactly and this is harsh truth of reality

00:08:21.960 you have to get used to it as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized

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JustPearlyThings - May 11, 2023

She Said This To Make A POINT

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