JustPearlyThings - She SHAMES Him for his Preferences and GOT DESTROYED @whatever

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00:00:15.960 33 why would you be dating a 19 year old what's wrong with oh

00:00:20.060 oh wow this is very loud what's wrong with that i mean you're what do you have in common with a

00:00:27.960 19 year old that just graduated high school what what do i have in common with a 33 year old

00:00:34.320 litigation attorney i don't know i don't maybe you guys could talk about movies in the 80s or

00:00:38.980 something but like but i feel like 19 she's not even old enough she says red flag for you to take

00:00:44.480 her to a bar though like i guess i don't really drink like that though i don't really i mean let's

00:00:48.600 say it's an event or something well so i don't go to bars or clubs i'd rather masturbate with sandpaper 0.77

00:00:54.540 i have something to add to what she said let me address the age thing then i'll have to address

00:01:00.940 the body count thing so um this is another one that always comes up men are always shamed for

00:01:06.600 their preferences men's preferences are always almost almost always met with contempt derision

00:01:11.860 shame yeah and that's totally true look at why isn't she shamed for dating an older guy like why is 0.98

00:01:17.000 he shamed for dating the younger guy like i think it's one thing if he's like a big player you know and

00:01:23.040 whatever that's like a different story but it's like if she wants to date him and she's over the

00:01:29.060 legal age of consent and he wants to date her what is the issue and then the other issue you get in

00:01:33.780 it's like you'll have girls saying they were groomed at like 21 22 like 23 years old even 19 like that's

00:01:40.040 old enough to know what you're doing so my issue is when these two people date they put all of the

00:01:44.760 onus of responsibility on him like oh he's the bad guy if he wants to date a younger woman but there are

00:01:50.180 shows called like cougar island where 40 year old women date 20 something year old men no one cares

00:01:55.020 about that in one way or another nobody shames women for their preferences standards and boundaries 0.69

00:01:59.800 but um so just to make something clear um most of women like i've dated yeah and is it predatory if a 0.99

00:02:05.620 super beautiful woman goes after an ugly rich guy is that predatory you know because she's abusing her 1.00

00:02:10.860 looks and beauty a couple years i'd say are between the age of 25 and 34 in fact i dated a 45 year old

00:02:17.000 uh no younger than 25 um i might have gone on a date with a girl who's 21 at one point but mostly

00:02:24.520 i'm dating around my age like 20 mid to late 20s to early 30s but well you girls what is your

00:02:30.500 perspective on like age gaps what do you what do you guys think because i feel like a lot of women

00:02:34.460 they prefer like guys that are older right i think it depends i prefer guys that are older i don't

00:02:40.000 think there's anything wrong with that well let me look and it also depends on the type of guy like if

00:02:44.080 he's a good dude and he's 33 and he wants to marry you and start a family with you like what's wrong

00:02:48.520 with that if they want the same things that so do you guys think that guys your age are immature

00:02:53.160 our age are your age you think they're immature for the most part yeah so how can you simultaneously

00:02:59.380 hold that position but also shame me for wanting to date someone younger if you want to date i assume

00:03:06.560 you're more attracted to men who are older because they're more mature maybe they're more attractive

00:03:09.920 maybe they have their shit together maybe they're more willing to commit to you whereas these i mean

00:03:14.360 i don't want to speak for all the men who are younger but they're for the street streets i'm

00:03:20.000 kidding i'm kidding guys no but i did want to add to what she said what if you like already fell in

00:03:25.620 love with the girl and like we're in a committed relationship and she lied about it and then you

00:03:31.860 found out later would you break up with her also at what point are you asking her what's your body

00:03:36.760 count at what point am i asking are you going on the first date and you're like no i'm usually not

00:03:42.700 overt i'm not overt about that sort of questioning so i wouldn't be like how many men have you slept

00:03:48.220 with i'm i mean it could somehow come up organically for you know on the topic of that but i mean i'd

00:03:53.900 honestly try to suss it out in other ways i'd probably ask like have you ever ever done any swinging

00:03:59.800 i think threesomes can kind of be a good indicator more than threesomes foursomes can kind of 0.99

00:04:04.640 be an indicator of promiscuity i feel like a lot of people would lie about that yeah the other

00:04:09.360 thing is yeah and that's the thing like guys will never actually know you know girls can lie but the

00:04:14.000 thing is if you've done enough guys can smell it on you they're not stupid and you know some girls do 1.00

00:04:18.580 get away with it but it's like how long how long can they really get away with it before you know

00:04:23.260 parts of your past come back to bite you in the ass you know especially nowadays everyone's got a 0.66

00:04:27.400 smartphone shit gets around be careful if you do even if you are overtly asking there's no guarantee

00:04:34.280 that they're going to tell you the truth so i mean age can kind of be an indicator like you know

00:04:39.920 if they're a bit older i mean you can start making some assumptions um that's not a guarantee though

00:04:44.920 i think you can there's there's like some ways you can kind of suss it out you can ask her about her

00:04:49.440 relationship history has she had just no long-term relationships and she's 30 she's probably for the 0.98

00:04:55.760 streets not gonna lie um no offense but if you're 30 and you haven't had any any long-term relationships

00:05:01.300 but you've been casually dating bro that's got to be above 100 probably 100 i'm gonna say

00:05:08.040 what if she had what's that what if she has a lot of hobbies what do you mean a lot of hobbies

00:05:12.800 like she keeps herself busy and you know doesn't sleep around like that there's outliers there's 1.00

00:05:19.400 outliers sure but that's the thing like women we always look for exceptions to the rule and this is 1.00

00:05:23.840 coming with a girl i got a lot of hobbies i sing i play volleyball i do youtube but am i am i the

00:05:29.780 exception do most women my age that i know really have hobbies like that no their hobby is brunch and 0.86

00:05:36.620 mimosas that's their hobby it's like but how are you gonna determine that like an outlier from

00:05:42.480 somebody who's not it's tough it's tough out here i mean there there's a certain kind of does she party

00:05:48.140 a lot does she go to bars a lot does she drink a lot you know so these are kind of other things to

00:05:52.960 kind of suck yeah because guys the way that men see it it's like okay if you walk like a hoe you look 0.99

00:05:57.980 like a hoe and you smell like a hoe how are they supposed to know you're not a hoe so if every 0.99

00:06:01.420 weekend you're in the bars and you're drinking and you're going out and you're partying like is that

00:06:05.420 typically where people find long-term fulfilling happy relationships clubs bars now no are there

00:06:12.380 exceptions sure but a guy is just gonna assume if that's the lifestyle you're living like at some

00:06:16.820 point you got drunk and did something stupid at some point you made a choice you probably regret

00:06:21.320 like men they're not they're not dumb guys so i know this is santa barbara is a very uh pretty

00:06:28.440 much everyone here is an alcoholic so not at the panel but people fucking drink heavy as fucking santa 0.98

00:06:33.680 barbara everyone's at you know so especially ucsb sbcc very heavy party schools so i'm probably not

00:06:39.860 making any fans by saying i'm not a big drinker i don't i don't party i don't go to bars i don't go to

00:06:44.140 clubs but um yeah i think uh someone who's if they frequently partake you know i will say the

00:06:54.220 bigger i get on youtube the more happy i am that really drinking has not been a big part of my 20s

00:07:00.680 um yeah just just so you know i get happier every day i made that choice life it can be an indicator

00:07:07.220 that they're a bit more promiscuous it's not a guarantee but if you're getting fucking tanked

00:07:11.320 three nights a week i can start making some assumptions i could be wrong but uh but he's

00:07:16.000 not gonna take the time to find out like guys guys don't have time to be fbi investigators to

00:07:21.900 figure out how many guys you slept with like what exactly you did if your lifestyle looks a certain

00:07:26.680 way they're gonna assume you are a certain way so yeah there's there's definitely some ways to tell

00:07:31.020 you're giving me the death stare over there jesus put on her i'm just listening and analyzing

00:07:36.180 but uh so okay i addressed body count a little bit but as far as the age goes um i mean so you

00:07:44.660 would take quarrel with like a 30 year old dating a 20 year old i mean i feel like it depends on the

00:07:50.140 situation if somehow miraculously they were to have a lot in common and there was some depth to

00:07:56.960 the relationship i guess it wouldn't be a big deal um do men really care if you i feel like that's a

00:08:02.800 female point of view like i feel like women want to have stuff in common with the guys but like the 0.93

00:08:08.380 things that men typically want from women is like cooking you know motherly instinct like stuff that 1.00

00:08:14.000 like really i guess it's a bonus but king do you guys care do you care that much no he's shaking his

00:08:19.480 head like i feel like that's like a woman's point of view like men don't really care i don't know i feel

00:08:24.600 like there's a fine line between where it's predatory and where it's not so it's it's hard to say

00:08:31.500 there's and this is the thing it's only predatory based on how she feels if she feels like it was 0.98

00:08:37.420 predatory then it was predatory so if the relationship doesn't work out and i've had girls 0.97

00:08:40.740 on my show they're in a relationship with a guy with two three years and then suddenly it's predatory

00:08:45.840 a lot of things that it depends on i mean i reject i reject that entirely any this idea of it

00:08:53.280 being predatory i absolutely can i add something to it reject it um i think i agree with her that

00:09:00.800 it depends but i think it depends on the power play if somebody is a 20 year old girl let's say 1.00

00:09:06.000 powerful has her career has her things together let's talk about celebrities kylie jenner her

00:09:15.920 boyfriend five six years older than her i think in that situation is not as predatory because they

00:09:21.760 have a lot in common she has her career together wait so you're saying wasn't she underage i don't 1.00

00:09:27.240 female logic just does not make sense so girl underage not predatory over okay the the power 1.00

00:09:35.500 that she has from being this business mogul a five to six year age gap is predatory how old is she how

00:09:42.900 old is kylie well yes compare that to a 32 year old man going to a college party picking up a college

00:09:49.160 girl who doesn't well i don't recommend that and doesn't have anything in common with her i'm not

00:09:52.580 in fucking del playa trying to i'm not saying you no no i'm not trolling i'm not i didn't say it was 0.99

00:09:58.360 you but i'm just saying in general it's different because in that case it seems like he's just looking

00:10:03.680 for a girl who's you know younger doesn't have money he can manipulate he can gaslight you know all 0.72

00:10:10.240 those things but again i think it depends on the circumstances um and what they have in common

00:10:16.160 so like if you would date a youtuber that's maybe 21 and you know you have a lot in common i wouldn't

00:10:23.000 think that's creepy but again if you date a college girl who's 19 so you think if if i were to date a

00:10:29.480 19 year old college girl that would be creepy personally yes okay why why is it articulate why

00:10:37.340 well it's just imagine let me ask you let me i want you can answer that but

00:10:43.860 is the reverse also creepy so there's this concept of cougars so absolutely so you think

00:10:51.060 so is the reverse do you take quarrel with the reverse with the this if you want to put it the

00:10:58.780 exact same ages again are you going to shame cougars i think are you cougar shaming how dare you

00:11:04.600 how dare you cougar shame i'm standing up for the cougars cougars go after those college boys get them

00:11:11.440 again i think it depends on the stage of life they're in if you're somebody who's

00:11:15.820 in their 30s a woman with a full-time career a job why are you dating a boy that has to do 0.77

00:11:21.800 homework till 10 p.m you know or has to go to the library to study for his finals it's kind of a

00:11:27.500 little weird you know but again if it's a 20 year old who has his job you know is a can we just make

00:11:32.800 it an age thing like why are you inputting all these factors would that stand up in the court of law

00:11:38.260 was he of age or not of age was she of age or not of age it's like as women we go through all of

00:11:43.620 these loopholes to just like make things make sense that don't make any sense now it's like based on

00:11:48.700 what job he has huh there's nothing wrong with that just depends on what stages of life they're in

00:11:54.040 well i mean first off i would say heaven forbid a man find a woman who is at her peak physical 0.99

00:11:59.840 attractiveness attractive um so and i think i was more physically attractive when i was younger so

00:12:06.920 there's that uh i mean there's also when you're younger you've had fewer sexual partners and we

00:12:13.200 just talked about it i mean most men whether you like it or not value sexual purity in a woman now

00:12:19.600 don't get me wrong i know some 19 year old girls that have been fucking run through they've hooked 1.00

00:12:23.560 up with like 100 men and i'm not even exaggerating chris knows her she's not not in the chris doesn't

00:12:30.780 know her in the biblical sense but he knows who i'm talking about and she's been with 100 guys but

00:12:35.860 it happens to be the case that someone who's younger has had fewer sexual partners men

00:12:40.460 find that attract an attractive quality in women you know guys our life would be so much easier if

00:12:46.680 we just accepted reality okay i could i could be mad i'm 26 i could be mad maybe guys 26 would prefer

00:12:53.120 to date a girl 22 or you could just date guys 10 to 15 years older you could just play the game like

00:12:58.340 why don't we just play the game why do we have to be mad like what the game is just play even

00:13:02.840 okay if you're a 40 year old woman okay you could whine that the 40 year old men aren't into you or 1.00

00:13:07.420 you could date the 50 something year olds now you might whine and be like oh well i don't want the

00:13:13.240 50 something year olds well that's the game i don't know what to tell you it's like we think that whining

00:13:17.560 about the rules is going to change them it just is what it is take it take it for what it is

00:13:22.840 i feel like that's a big reason why like you know you see older guys you know there's a certain point

00:13:28.060 where the girl starts getting older that you know she gets hit on a lot less by you know by guys

00:13:33.040 because i feel like they're the focus on younger the focus is on younger girls i feel like i mean i

00:13:38.440 noticed this when i was a freaking in college like it was like the freshmen would come in and all the

00:13:44.240 guys were like this is like fresh me i mean you know now it just is what it is it just is what it

00:13:51.260 is it's like because they want to find you know someone who's not who's less promiscuous yeah okay

00:13:58.240 um i really question why again as women guys we just need to accept reality for what it is it is

00:14:04.980 what it is uh men prefer younger women because they have fertility and youth and historically um you know

00:14:10.860 men would prefer women that were virgins because then they would know that the kid was theirs and not 0.98

00:14:15.820 someone else's and we could argue with reality all day or we could just accept it and i think that we

00:14:19.820 should move more towards accepting reality so let me know what you guys think like the video on your

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JustPearlyThings - May 03, 2023

She SHAMES Him for his Preferences and GOT DESTROYED @whatever

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