She Thinks That Promiscuity Is Healthy
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Summary
In this episode, the ladies discuss promiscuousness and the perils of sleeping with other people in order to keep a healthy sex life. Are you a slut if you have slept with 50 dudes in your 30s?
Transcript
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50 could be could be all right what about you kirsten six six okay byronique first off it really
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ain't nobody motherfucking business i like the fact that people is all about slut shaming and
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body count look we get horny to us bitches like some dick you know we shouldn't have to if you
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can't be in a relationship you should be able to get that dick you feel me like it's it's healthy
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that's a part of being healthy it's not just your physical that you know is all a part of it you
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need to get that vitamin d like you understand what i'm saying so it shouldn't be nobody shaming about
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how many bodies you got a lot you feel me like it is what it is like and you know to be honest shit i
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forgot i stopped counting after 10 because it ain't nobody motherfucking business you can literally catch
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aids after having sex fucking one time or you know you could beat and fuck a million people and not
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have nothing you get what i'm saying so it don't matter if you had a brother would you would you
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tell him it doesn't matter and like the girls he's picking look i tell him strap up if you want to make
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sure you don't die out here you understand what i'm saying but if you want to be promiscuous honey
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it's it's 2023 baby it ain't our grandparents time no more no but i meant like i'm not talking about
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like short term i'm talking about long term so what do you mean like if you want to get married
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should you be fucking other people in your marriage no no i'm saying like if you if your
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brother had two girls to pick from all things being equal one slept with 50 dudes one slept with
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two who would you tell him to pick it that ain't got nothing to do with it that ain't got nothing to
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do with nothing like my grandpa you say it's about the what the person is their heart their soul their
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spirit we don't give a fuck about who they didn't fuck that don't mean and what money that none of that
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but i think the idea is like if she's been with 50 people like how how what are the odds your brother
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or the guy is going to be the best she's ever had like how is he supposed to compete with
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is that what should matter and also if you ask me how many of my actual committed real if if you
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ask me how many of my relationships i've cheated on zero zero i might i might be a motherfucking
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slut but i am not a like liar cheater any of that bullshit i do not i didn't say you're a liar i know
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i'm just saying that's another stigma it's like but just because just because my body count is high
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and my my sex drive is high does not mean that i'm i can't be in a committed relationship one day
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when i'm ready anywhere from i don't even know how many people but my current boyfriend is the most
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sexually comfortable person i have ever been with and like it's amazing right and but like my my thing
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is we can make inferences based on data and all of the data says that when women are virgins on
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their wedding night they that is the highest chance they have at a happy successful marriage
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that's all they've ever had they don't know better can i say something because they don't know better
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so why do you need to know better shit because because most of the time because most of the time
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if you get better like if you slept with 50 dudes there's no way you're going to keep the best guy
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out of the 50. why not why not because as you get older you realize it's not just about the size of
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his dick you learn so much and you get it out of what you want hold on wait so to me if you marry
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the girl let's say you're 35 you're both 35 years old whatever who cares about the whole like age thing
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you're 35 and she slept with 50 people you said 50 people let's just say you have somebody who's 35
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with one person women reach the height of their horniness in their 30s who's more likely to cheat on
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you because you're just not self-satisfying her because she has no experience she doesn't know
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any better i'm saying this isn't even a personal thing like i'm talking about numbers data why are
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we debasing the human complex experience to data and statistics and i can take and i can take and i
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can take it anecdotally where you know the girl that's on only fans is saying she's on antidepressants
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like there's more problems when you sleep with more people and i think like why do you think that is
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and i think ignoring this is just delusional why do you think that is then why do you why because i don't
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think women are meant to sleep around like that i think that only fans and antidepressants have
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correlation is delusional do we not have needs just as much as men want pussy we want dick like or
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are women horny sure yes but that doesn't mean we're meant to be sleeping with a whole bunch of
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dudes but men are and i think and i think what what can attest to this is the one who waited till she
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was married married is the one that is like or is the one that's married here and seems to be in a
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happy healthy relationship could that be that is because the majority of virgins on their wedding
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day are religious that is a religious thing and in the bible it says that you were supposed to be
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without one person for the rest of your life so could that be because that is a religious thing i
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think religion is great i think religion helps so i think it's beautiful but i don't take and i think
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that that's if you want to make that decision for yourself that's fine but i'm not sit here and
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judge other people who don't try and throw data statistics and i'm saying let's look at results
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like i i think just like in good faith okay you want to look at results i've been with maybe 50
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people and i'm telling you as a person sitting right in front of you that the person i am with
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right now is my favorite okay well i'm really happy for you i really am but i'm saying across the board
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like this is the thing with women like you always take it personal like i'm talking about you and i'm
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not talking about you guys personally but we look at society as a whole the outcomes for women for
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sleeping around are not good we're more divorced we're more on antidepressants we're less happy
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than we've ever been but that's not just women that's men and women and that's also why i said
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you're doing it again you're doing it again i can't make a statement about women without saying
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but men men have issues you put us all in the same book no because we in order to have a conversation
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in order to have a conversation about anything we have to have generalization but that's also why i said
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yeah to an extent body count shouldn't matter i just don't know why we can't like open up the
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conversation to also just discuss promiscuity in general i think because you're right there's a
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lot of depression associated with promiscuity but on both genders it happens there's a lot of guys
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who it's not the same though it affects women more and the data will tell you that you're like the best
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outcome is when they're both virgins on their wedding night like that is the best i've never taken this
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survey by the way so they don't have my idea i'm not really sure what the source is okay they've done
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they've done multiple studies on this but promiscuity i think you mean the people who stay together
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but the people no no they ask them if they're happy in their marriage that's what they would do
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they would come back 10 years later and ask if they're happily married yes or no to be honest
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living in la if i would have been waiting for marriage for a nigga to put a ring on my finger
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i would have been dead like you you'll fuck around and die a virgin like waiting are you kidding me like
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ain't no way and i just want to from the men you want but one in three men are one in three men are
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sexless so there are men that will wait but the problem is like women can sleep in la
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women can sleep up so typically women sleep above their level i don't disagree with you when you
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say that like full promiscuity is not good for you when i got most of those sexual partners that i
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have were when i was young and i was not happy with myself and yeah i regret it and it didn't make
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me feel good and i spent a long time not being with anybody but i also on the we agree we agree it's
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not good for women i think i wasn't done okay um so yeah i don't disagree that full promiscuity is
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is not great for you but i do not 100 do not agree that being with one person for your entire life
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is good for you as many of you know i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized on a daily
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