JustPearlyThings - May 24, 2023


She Thinks That Promiscuity Is Healthy


Episode Stats


Length

7 minutes

Words per minute

219.43372

Word count

1,705

Sentence count

2

Harmful content

Misogyny

12

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Hate speech

19

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Summary

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In this episode, the ladies discuss promiscuousness and the perils of sleeping with other people in order to keep a healthy sex life. Are you a slut if you have slept with 50 dudes in your 30s?

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 50 could be could be all right what about you kirsten six six okay byronique first off it really
00:00:09.540 ain't nobody motherfucking business i like the fact that people is all about slut shaming and 0.99
00:00:14.820 body count look we get horny to us bitches like some dick you know we shouldn't have to if you 1.00
00:00:20.240 can't be in a relationship you should be able to get that dick you feel me like it's it's healthy 0.76
00:00:24.940 that's a part of being healthy it's not just your physical that you know is all a part of it you
00:00:30.840 need to get that vitamin d like you understand what i'm saying so it shouldn't be nobody shaming about
00:00:35.440 how many bodies you got a lot you feel me like it is what it is like and you know to be honest shit i 0.88
00:00:41.660 forgot i stopped counting after 10 because it ain't nobody motherfucking business you can literally catch 0.91
00:00:46.780 aids after having sex fucking one time or you know you could beat and fuck a million people and not 0.82
00:00:52.960 have nothing you get what i'm saying so it don't matter if you had a brother would you would you
00:00:58.000 tell him it doesn't matter and like the girls he's picking look i tell him strap up if you want to make 0.90
00:01:03.840 sure you don't die out here you understand what i'm saying but if you want to be promiscuous honey
00:01:09.080 it's it's 2023 baby it ain't our grandparents time no more no but i meant like i'm not talking about
00:01:14.940 like short term i'm talking about long term so what do you mean like if you want to get married
00:01:19.660 should you be fucking other people in your marriage no no i'm saying like if you if your 0.97
00:01:23.380 brother had two girls to pick from all things being equal one slept with 50 dudes one slept with 1.00
00:01:28.260 two who would you tell him to pick it that ain't got nothing to do with it that ain't got nothing to
00:01:32.860 do with nothing like my grandpa you say it's about the what the person is their heart their soul their
00:01:38.100 spirit we don't give a fuck about who they didn't fuck that don't mean and what money that none of that 0.92
00:01:42.840 but i think the idea is like if she's been with 50 people like how how what are the odds your brother
00:01:48.480 or the guy is going to be the best she's ever had like how is he supposed to compete with
00:01:52.260 is that what should matter and also if you ask me how many of my actual committed real if if you
00:02:01.220 ask me how many of my relationships i've cheated on zero zero i might i might be a motherfucking 0.86
00:02:07.240 slut but i am not a like liar cheater any of that bullshit i do not i didn't say you're a liar i know 0.96
00:02:14.440 i'm just saying that's another stigma it's like but just because just because my body count is high
00:02:19.060 and my my sex drive is high does not mean that i'm i can't be in a committed relationship one day
00:02:25.900 when i'm ready anywhere from i don't even know how many people but my current boyfriend is the most
00:02:32.060 sexually comfortable person i have ever been with and like it's amazing right and but like my my thing
00:02:39.020 is we can make inferences based on data and all of the data says that when women are virgins on
00:02:44.280 their wedding night they that is the highest chance they have at a happy successful marriage
00:02:48.280 that's all they've ever had they don't know better can i say something because they don't know better
00:02:54.300 so why do you need to know better shit because because most of the time because most of the time 0.63
00:02:59.500 if you get better like if you slept with 50 dudes there's no way you're going to keep the best guy
00:03:03.520 out of the 50. why not why not because as you get older you realize it's not just about the size of
00:03:08.800 his dick you learn so much and you get it out of what you want hold on wait so to me if you marry 0.86
00:03:17.680 the girl let's say you're 35 you're both 35 years old whatever who cares about the whole like age thing
00:03:21.100 you're 35 and she slept with 50 people you said 50 people let's just say you have somebody who's 35
00:03:26.900 with one person women reach the height of their horniness in their 30s who's more likely to cheat on 1.00
00:03:32.620 you because you're just not self-satisfying her because she has no experience she doesn't know
00:03:36.660 any better i'm saying this isn't even a personal thing like i'm talking about numbers data why are
00:03:40.980 we debasing the human complex experience to data and statistics and i can take and i can take and i
00:03:46.640 can take it anecdotally where you know the girl that's on only fans is saying she's on antidepressants
00:03:51.220 like there's more problems when you sleep with more people and i think like why do you think that is
00:03:55.580 and i think ignoring this is just delusional why do you think that is then why do you why because i don't
00:04:02.460 think women are meant to sleep around like that i think that only fans and antidepressants have 1.00
00:04:07.840 correlation is delusional do we not have needs just as much as men want pussy we want dick like or 0.75
00:04:14.000 are women horny sure yes but that doesn't mean we're meant to be sleeping with a whole bunch of 0.99
00:04:19.720 dudes but men are and i think and i think what what can attest to this is the one who waited till she 0.99
00:04:24.740 was married married is the one that is like or is the one that's married here and seems to be in a
00:04:29.660 happy healthy relationship could that be that is because the majority of virgins on their wedding 0.99
00:04:34.360 day are religious that is a religious thing and in the bible it says that you were supposed to be
00:04:38.900 without one person for the rest of your life so could that be because that is a religious thing i
00:04:42.920 think religion is great i think religion helps so i think it's beautiful but i don't take and i think
00:04:47.360 that that's if you want to make that decision for yourself that's fine but i'm not sit here and
00:04:51.880 judge other people who don't try and throw data statistics and i'm saying let's look at results
00:04:57.580 like i i think just like in good faith okay you want to look at results i've been with maybe 50
00:05:03.340 people and i'm telling you as a person sitting right in front of you that the person i am with
00:05:08.080 right now is my favorite okay well i'm really happy for you i really am but i'm saying across the board
00:05:14.480 like this is the thing with women like you always take it personal like i'm talking about you and i'm 1.00
00:05:19.240 not talking about you guys personally but we look at society as a whole the outcomes for women for
00:05:24.900 sleeping around are not good we're more divorced we're more on antidepressants we're less happy
00:05:29.120 than we've ever been but that's not just women that's men and women and that's also why i said
00:05:33.200 you're doing it again you're doing it again i can't make a statement about women without saying 0.89
00:05:36.940 but men men have issues you put us all in the same book no because we in order to have a conversation
00:05:42.680 in order to have a conversation about anything we have to have generalization but that's also why i said
00:05:47.320 yeah to an extent body count shouldn't matter i just don't know why we can't like open up the
00:05:51.360 conversation to also just discuss promiscuity in general i think because you're right there's a
00:05:55.220 lot of depression associated with promiscuity but on both genders it happens there's a lot of guys
00:05:59.800 who it's not the same though it affects women more and the data will tell you that you're like the best
00:06:05.040 outcome is when they're both virgins on their wedding night like that is the best i've never taken this
00:06:09.380 survey by the way so they don't have my idea i'm not really sure what the source is okay they've done
00:06:13.980 they've done multiple studies on this but promiscuity i think you mean the people who stay together
00:06:19.620 but the people no no they ask them if they're happy in their marriage that's what they would do
00:06:23.520 they would come back 10 years later and ask if they're happily married yes or no to be honest
00:06:27.660 living in la if i would have been waiting for marriage for a nigga to put a ring on my finger 0.99
00:06:32.180 i would have been dead like you you'll fuck around and die a virgin like waiting are you kidding me like 1.00
00:06:36.980 ain't no way and i just want to from the men you want but one in three men are one in three men are
00:06:41.580 sexless so there are men that will wait but the problem is like women can sleep in la 1.00
00:06:45.520 women can sleep up so typically women sleep above their level i don't disagree with you when you 1.00
00:06:51.340 say that like full promiscuity is not good for you when i got most of those sexual partners that i
00:06:59.320 have were when i was young and i was not happy with myself and yeah i regret it and it didn't make
00:07:06.780 me feel good and i spent a long time not being with anybody but i also on the we agree we agree it's
00:07:12.840 not good for women i think i wasn't done okay um so yeah i don't disagree that full promiscuity is
00:07:21.800 is not great for you but i do not 100 do not agree that being with one person for your entire life
00:07:29.280 is good for you as many of you know i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized on a daily
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