JustPearlyThings - May 11, 2023


She Tried To CAP On Air About THIS


Episode Stats

Length

8 minutes

Words per Minute

207.69487

Word Count

1,866

Sentence Count

148

Misogynist Sentences

23

Hate Speech Sentences

17


Summary

In this episode, we talk about why bad boys are better than good boys and why the average chick should go for a bad boy. We also talk about women sleeping up and why they should go with a guy that s better than the average guy.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Do you think that's good advice for the average chick?
00:00:03.680 To try to change a bad boy?
00:00:06.400 I think it's like to find the guy that actually loves you,
00:00:09.640 no matter what he does.
00:00:10.780 As long as he loves you.
00:00:12.200 But is that typically the...
00:00:13.600 Because usually, if I'm just thinking stereotypically,
00:00:16.120 the bad boy has a bunch of women after him.
00:00:18.280 So what are the odds that the average chick is going to get him?
00:00:22.060 You don't think for the average chick she should go for the nicer guys?
00:00:24.360 I think, giving myself as an example,
00:00:27.420 as a playboy,
00:00:28.620 when you find the girl that you actually love,
00:00:32.480 and she knows that you whatever, whatever you do,
00:00:35.220 but you actually are in love with each other,
00:00:37.660 then it's fine.
00:00:38.640 You have a nice, long, fulfilling relationship.
00:00:41.160 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:00:42.200 She has an interest to change you.
00:00:45.700 You want to be with a virgin girl,
00:00:47.520 that you take her virginity.
00:00:48.780 Easy as, that's the best aspect.
00:00:50.300 She never gets bored, you're happy, easy as.
00:00:53.160 But if you're with some girl that's ugly,
00:00:54.840 that no one wants her,
00:00:56.080 she's not loyal or whatever.
00:00:57.360 Right, but knowing that women sleep up,
00:01:01.300 is that really good advice for the average chick?
00:01:03.400 Because she's probably sleeping up.
00:01:05.340 What's sleeping up?
00:01:06.040 Most girls sleep up.
00:01:07.700 So it's like,
00:01:08.600 you know only 20% of men really get sex like that,
00:01:11.460 like 15, 20% of men.
00:01:12.940 So when you guys sleep with someone,
00:01:13.980 it's probably the top 20% of men.
00:01:15.520 And so like,
00:01:16.380 why do women think all men cheat?
00:01:17.840 Like,
00:01:17.980 why do you guys date assholes?
00:01:19.400 Because the assholes have options.
00:01:20.380 We don't know any different.
00:01:21.160 No,
00:01:21.380 no,
00:01:21.560 it's because like,
00:01:22.260 you guys want the top tier men.
00:01:24.260 And so if you're dating a guy that's an asshole,
00:01:25.940 a guy that's cheating,
00:01:26.640 that means he can cheat.
00:01:27.980 One out of three men are either virgins,
00:01:29.460 or haven't had sex in the past year.
00:01:31.280 So if you're going for a guy that's in the top percentage,
00:01:34.060 like he's more likely to cheat.
00:01:35.480 And so that's what I'm saying.
00:01:36.220 Like,
00:01:36.360 if you're a girl that's a five or six or seven can sleep with an eight,
00:01:39.240 nine or 10,
00:01:39.880 but it doesn't make you an eight,
00:01:40.900 nine or 10.
00:01:41.700 And so the problem is like,
00:01:42.940 when you're talking,
00:01:43.840 I'm thinking if she's going for the top 20% of guys,
00:01:46.640 which usually I would say they're more of the assholes because they can be,
00:01:50.380 right?
00:01:50.580 And the guy's not going to treat you as special if he's got multiple,
00:01:53.340 like the average chick isn't going to slow him down.
00:01:56.760 Pearl.
00:01:56.980 And I think it's also the average of what environment you're in.
00:02:00.960 Because if you,
00:02:02.060 most women sleep with the guys they work with.
00:02:05.060 So if you look in the workplace,
00:02:06.440 they're everybody's sleeping with everybody.
00:02:08.560 It don't matter where you work.
00:02:09.260 I've worked several jobs,
00:02:10.260 wherever you're working,
00:02:11.640 there's girls sleeping with someone I've worked with.
00:02:14.420 That is not the case at the JPG network.
00:02:17.900 I'll tell you that.
00:02:18.560 In general,
00:02:19.760 wherever you work,
00:02:21.400 people are sleeping together because the guy that's sleeping with all the girls in the
00:02:26.180 campus,
00:02:26.580 you don't heard things about them,
00:02:28.100 whether whatever their sexual or status or whatever,
00:02:30.660 and you know the guy,
00:02:32.500 how he is,
00:02:33.300 he's a player,
00:02:34.080 he sleeps with all the girls on,
00:02:35.140 on whatever job.
00:02:36.040 And you still choose to,
00:02:37.880 you still choose to do that.
00:02:39.520 But it's also a sense of maturity.
00:02:40.900 If the woman actually knows like what she wants,
00:02:44.400 then,
00:02:45.940 and she's matured in her mind.
00:02:47.520 A lot of us girls are delusional and immature.
00:02:49.500 And we'd like to go for bad boys because we're in our immature state.
00:02:54.820 That's a fact.
00:02:56.300 As once you've matured and you know what you like and what you,
00:03:00.220 you value,
00:03:01.300 you've what you like and you value within yourself.
00:03:04.340 I don't know if I'm explaining this correctly.
00:03:06.140 I'm good.
00:03:06.540 You're doing good.
00:03:07.020 Yeah.
00:03:07.720 You're good.
00:03:08.160 I personally don't like bad boys anymore.
00:03:13.000 And I think I was in an immature era.
00:03:15.420 Yes,
00:03:15.700 you did.
00:03:18.000 You're telling me right now,
00:03:19.240 yeah,
00:03:19.760 you have a go for a guy that's not a bad boy.
00:03:21.940 That's loyal.
00:03:22.520 Right now,
00:03:23.120 he gets no bitches,
00:03:24.020 he's a virgin.
00:03:24.540 A guy with ambition and drive and knows himself and knows how he looks after a woman is so attractive than a bad boy that doesn't know himself and only disrespect a woman.
00:03:37.760 Do you sleep,
00:03:38.760 who do you sleep with faster?
00:03:42.220 What do you mean?
00:03:43.040 Who do you sleep with faster?
00:03:44.260 That's a good point.
00:03:45.080 That's a very good point.
00:03:45.780 The bad boy or the good guy?
00:03:48.400 Courtney's very different though.
00:03:49.860 She holds herself back a lot.
00:03:51.620 And I have huge respect for this girl.
00:03:53.400 Okay,
00:03:55.080 but could you answer the quote?
00:03:57.880 Because you said you've dated cheaters in the past,
00:04:01.560 right?
00:04:01.860 Yeah,
00:04:02.040 yeah,
00:04:02.220 yeah.
00:04:02.720 And so like the way men will see it is when you're at the younger you are,
00:04:05.920 the more valuable,
00:04:06.880 the like higher value you have as a woman,
00:04:09.480 right?
00:04:09.640 You know,
00:04:10.100 you know,
00:04:10.520 if you're 50 and you're 20,
00:04:12.420 you're more valuable to men at 20,
00:04:14.000 right?
00:04:14.240 When it comes to looks,
00:04:15.120 like what they're attracted to.
00:04:16.440 So it's like when you have the most to give and you have the lowest body count,
00:04:20.420 you choose the bad boys.
00:04:21.480 It's like you're kind of seen as like leftover to the nice guys.
00:04:24.720 And it's,
00:04:25.380 it's kind of like,
00:04:25.940 okay,
00:04:26.060 imagine if you,
00:04:27.840 if you found out,
00:04:29.100 if you're dating a guy and you found out for their anniversary,
00:04:32.240 his ex-girlfriend,
00:04:33.340 he spent a ton of money on,
00:04:34.740 took her on trips,
00:04:35.620 did all this stuff.
00:04:36.540 And the most he's ever done for you is taking you to Taco Bell.
00:04:38.800 You'd be pissed,
00:04:40.440 right?
00:04:40.540 A hundred percent.
00:04:42.200 That's how men feel when they find out you slept with Tom,
00:04:44.940 Dick and Harry after one night,
00:04:46.540 but you made him wait a month or a week.
00:04:48.640 That shows that you're different,
00:04:50.040 right?
00:04:50.540 No.
00:04:51.100 Okay.
00:04:51.380 But what if he said that to you?
00:04:54.700 Like,
00:04:54.840 Oh,
00:04:54.980 it shows you're different.
00:04:55.920 I took you to Taco Bell.
00:04:58.360 You're a prick.
00:04:59.740 And that's how guys see it.
00:05:02.340 So they see it as,
00:05:03.540 Oh,
00:05:03.640 when you were younger,
00:05:04.540 fitter,
00:05:04.980 like hotter,
00:05:06.240 you,
00:05:06.760 you gave your best years to the bad boys.
00:05:09.260 And now it's like to them now.
00:05:11.540 And like they,
00:05:12.140 and it seems like,
00:05:13.360 and I genuinely believe those are the guys that women really want.
00:05:16.100 But once you realize you can't tame them,
00:05:17.680 then you go to the nice guys.
00:05:18.880 I don't know how to feel about that analogy.
00:05:20.580 You know,
00:05:21.340 what do you,
00:05:21.900 what do you not feel about it?
00:05:24.040 I don't know.
00:05:24.960 Like the Taco Bell thing.
00:05:27.840 No,
00:05:28.320 what she's basically saying is,
00:05:30.060 all right,
00:05:30.360 imagine I'm dating.
00:05:33.100 Her.
00:05:33.820 Layla.
00:05:34.380 Layla.
00:05:35.240 And I take it to a five,
00:05:36.680 five star hotel,
00:05:40.420 five star dining.
00:05:41.960 And you've seen this.
00:05:43.160 You've seen this on my stories.
00:05:44.240 I post it.
00:05:44.760 We break up,
00:05:45.340 whatever.
00:05:45.780 And then when I take,
00:05:46.560 I take you to Taco Bell.
00:05:48.960 What would you think you're worth when you've seen me take a woman and treat her right?
00:05:53.700 You understand?
00:05:54.160 Are you dating?
00:05:56.140 We're just,
00:05:56.920 maybe not.
00:05:57.680 It doesn't matter what you've seen.
00:05:59.540 Okay.
00:06:00.180 But you've seen me take women,
00:06:01.540 whether you don't know who we're dating or not.
00:06:03.200 Yeah,
00:06:03.420 I'd be pissed.
00:06:04.360 Exactly.
00:06:04.800 So how do you think a man would feel when he knows that you've given up in a day or two,
00:06:09.020 and then you're sitting here demanding like,
00:06:10.180 oh,
00:06:10.260 you got to do all this.
00:06:11.100 You got to jump through this loophole.
00:06:12.460 You got to take me on this amount of dates.
00:06:14.300 You got to wait this amount of months.
00:06:16.100 What are you talking about?
00:06:17.080 The sad reality is,
00:06:18.160 yeah,
00:06:18.740 the girls that will give it to a guy in an instant,
00:06:22.020 it's not the same thing as like,
00:06:24.000 if they'll give it to a guy that waits for like three months,
00:06:26.900 four months,
00:06:27.460 you know what I'm saying?
00:06:28.540 It depends on his value.
00:06:29.220 A guy's not going to wait three,
00:06:30.160 four months.
00:06:30.460 It depends on his value,
00:06:31.320 bro.
00:06:31.420 Listen,
00:06:31.860 it depends on his value.
00:06:33.120 Let's say he's a proper valuable guy.
00:06:35.060 Yeah?
00:06:35.420 She'll give it to him quicker than a low value guy.
00:06:37.760 Do you understand?
00:06:37.980 Because in an instinct,
00:06:40.020 it makes more sense to give it to him quicker.
00:06:42.260 Jonathan.
00:06:43.320 For a low value or high value?
00:06:45.240 You said for a low value or high value?
00:06:47.140 That's true.
00:06:47.920 No,
00:06:48.100 I agree with you.
00:06:49.120 Like,
00:06:49.280 women sleep with the men like we like more quicker.
00:06:51.820 But that's the whole point we're making.
00:06:53.680 It's like,
00:06:54.180 when for the bad guy,
00:06:55.840 you sleep with him quick,
00:06:56.860 and you make the nice guy wait.
00:06:58.700 Attractive and arousal.
00:06:59.600 But the issue,
00:07:00.420 and that's why I'm like,
00:07:01.180 I don't know if I would encourage women to go for bad boys,
00:07:03.580 because it's like,
00:07:05.200 what are your odds of actually getting one?
00:07:07.400 At the end of the day,
00:07:08.060 they're more protective.
00:07:09.200 They'll protect them more.
00:07:10.700 They'll look after them more.
00:07:11.780 They tend to have money,
00:07:12.820 because they're aggressive.
00:07:13.540 They're aggressive in life.
00:07:14.660 They know what they want,
00:07:15.620 so they get money.
00:07:16.740 You know what I'm saying?
00:07:17.220 That comes with getting bitches.
00:07:18.700 Easy as,
00:07:19.600 there's nothing to do about it.
00:07:20.960 You know what I'm saying?
00:07:22.000 Cool.
00:07:22.320 Except the fact that he has bitches,
00:07:23.580 he's going to love you for the rest of his life.
00:07:25.400 He's going to have kids with you.
00:07:26.320 You know what I'm saying?
00:07:26.700 It's a beautiful thing.
00:07:27.760 It makes me smile.
00:07:29.000 When,
00:07:29.340 like,
00:07:29.520 let's say,
00:07:30.020 I'm imagining myself having kids with my girl.
00:07:31.880 Oh,
00:07:32.080 it's very cute.
00:07:33.060 That's so good.
00:07:33.660 So what if I just fuck them,
00:07:35.020 I'm scared,
00:07:35.440 like,
00:07:35.680 just,
00:07:35.940 like,
00:07:36.120 whatever.
00:07:36.700 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:07:37.340 Could you guys deal with that?
00:07:39.240 A guy that you're having kids with,
00:07:41.580 a family with,
00:07:42.520 you're his wife,
00:07:43.480 but he has girls from time to time.
00:07:45.560 I think men cheating is the new norm.
00:07:49.800 As sad as it is.
00:07:50.800 Yeah,
00:07:51.320 I really do,
00:07:52.940 like,
00:07:53.780 just,
00:07:54.160 like,
00:07:54.380 I don't agree with it at all.
00:07:56.540 But,
00:07:57.800 I think all men do it,
00:07:59.740 to be honest.
00:08:00.340 Whether it's physically or mentally,
00:08:01.820 it could be like,
00:08:02.580 All men?
00:08:03.660 To be honest,
00:08:04.740 we've got too much choice in the world.
00:08:06.460 All men or just the men that you fuck with?
00:08:09.520 I've got too much choice, bro.
00:08:11.320 Majority of the men.
00:08:12.620 I have not spoken to one.
00:08:15.000 You gotta understand,
00:08:16.000 man,
00:08:16.280 the privilege is invisible to little to have it.
00:08:18.400 So you gotta understand,
00:08:19.140 your beauty is extremely valuable.
00:08:21.800 As many of you know,
00:08:22.820 I was just banned on TikTok,
00:08:25.340 and we are demonetized on a daily basis
00:08:27.840 on this platform.
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00:08:37.940 Like,
00:08:38.640 that's cool.
00:08:38.840 You know,
00:08:39.040 you want to to understand,
00:08:39.700 I love you.
00:08:40.620 I love you.
00:08:41.420 You know,
00:08:55.820 you also have a boyfriend,
00:08:56.240 and a girl,
00:08:57.140 you know,
00:08:57.760 and you're welcome.
00:08:57.900 You know,