JustPearlyThings - May 11, 2023


She Tried To CAP On Air About THIS


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8 minutes

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Word count

1,866

Sentence count

148

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Misogyny

23

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In this episode, we talk about why bad boys are better than good boys and why the average chick should go for a bad boy. We also talk about women sleeping up and why they should go with a guy that s better than the average guy.

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00:00:00.000 Do you think that's good advice for the average chick? 0.98
00:00:03.680 To try to change a bad boy?
00:00:06.400 I think it's like to find the guy that actually loves you,
00:00:09.640 no matter what he does.
00:00:10.780 As long as he loves you.
00:00:12.200 But is that typically the...
00:00:13.600 Because usually, if I'm just thinking stereotypically,
00:00:16.120 the bad boy has a bunch of women after him. 1.00
00:00:18.280 So what are the odds that the average chick is going to get him? 0.98
00:00:22.060 You don't think for the average chick she should go for the nicer guys? 0.99
00:00:24.360 I think, giving myself as an example,
00:00:27.420 as a playboy,
00:00:28.620 when you find the girl that you actually love,
00:00:32.480 and she knows that you whatever, whatever you do,
00:00:35.220 but you actually are in love with each other,
00:00:37.660 then it's fine.
00:00:38.640 You have a nice, long, fulfilling relationship.
00:00:41.160 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:00:42.200 She has an interest to change you. 0.99
00:00:45.700 You want to be with a virgin girl, 1.00
00:00:47.520 that you take her virginity. 0.99
00:00:48.780 Easy as, that's the best aspect.
00:00:50.300 She never gets bored, you're happy, easy as.
00:00:53.160 But if you're with some girl that's ugly, 0.97
00:00:54.840 that no one wants her,
00:00:56.080 she's not loyal or whatever.
00:00:57.360 Right, but knowing that women sleep up, 1.00
00:01:01.300 is that really good advice for the average chick? 0.51
00:01:03.400 Because she's probably sleeping up.
00:01:05.340 What's sleeping up?
00:01:06.040 Most girls sleep up. 1.00
00:01:07.700 So it's like,
00:01:08.600 you know only 20% of men really get sex like that,
00:01:11.460 like 15, 20% of men.
00:01:12.940 So when you guys sleep with someone,
00:01:13.980 it's probably the top 20% of men.
00:01:15.520 And so like,
00:01:16.380 why do women think all men cheat?
00:01:17.840 Like,
00:01:17.980 why do you guys date assholes?
00:01:19.400 Because the assholes have options.
00:01:20.380 We don't know any different.
00:01:21.160 No,
00:01:21.380 no,
00:01:21.560 it's because like,
00:01:22.260 you guys want the top tier men.
00:01:24.260 And so if you're dating a guy that's an asshole,
00:01:25.940 a guy that's cheating,
00:01:26.640 that means he can cheat.
00:01:27.980 One out of three men are either virgins,
00:01:29.460 or haven't had sex in the past year.
00:01:31.280 So if you're going for a guy that's in the top percentage,
00:01:34.060 like he's more likely to cheat.
00:01:35.480 And so that's what I'm saying.
00:01:36.220 Like,
00:01:36.360 if you're a girl that's a five or six or seven can sleep with an eight, 0.95
00:01:39.240 nine or 10,
00:01:39.880 but it doesn't make you an eight,
00:01:40.900 nine or 10.
00:01:41.700 And so the problem is like,
00:01:42.940 when you're talking,
00:01:43.840 I'm thinking if she's going for the top 20% of guys,
00:01:46.640 which usually I would say they're more of the assholes because they can be,
00:01:50.380 right?
00:01:50.580 And the guy's not going to treat you as special if he's got multiple,
00:01:53.340 like the average chick isn't going to slow him down.
00:01:56.760 Pearl.
00:01:56.980 And I think it's also the average of what environment you're in.
00:02:00.960 Because if you,
00:02:02.060 most women sleep with the guys they work with. 1.00
00:02:05.060 So if you look in the workplace,
00:02:06.440 they're everybody's sleeping with everybody.
00:02:08.560 It don't matter where you work.
00:02:09.260 I've worked several jobs,
00:02:10.260 wherever you're working,
00:02:11.640 there's girls sleeping with someone I've worked with. 1.00
00:02:14.420 That is not the case at the JPG network.
00:02:17.900 I'll tell you that.
00:02:18.560 In general,
00:02:19.760 wherever you work,
00:02:21.400 people are sleeping together because the guy that's sleeping with all the girls in the 1.00
00:02:26.180 campus,
00:02:26.580 you don't heard things about them,
00:02:28.100 whether whatever their sexual or status or whatever,
00:02:30.660 and you know the guy,
00:02:32.500 how he is,
00:02:33.300 he's a player,
00:02:34.080 he sleeps with all the girls on, 0.59
00:02:35.140 on whatever job.
00:02:36.040 And you still choose to,
00:02:37.880 you still choose to do that.
00:02:39.520 But it's also a sense of maturity.
00:02:40.900 If the woman actually knows like what she wants, 1.00
00:02:44.400 then,
00:02:45.940 and she's matured in her mind.
00:02:47.520 A lot of us girls are delusional and immature.
00:02:49.500 And we'd like to go for bad boys because we're in our immature state.
00:02:54.820 That's a fact.
00:02:56.300 As once you've matured and you know what you like and what you,
00:03:00.220 you value,
00:03:01.300 you've what you like and you value within yourself.
00:03:04.340 I don't know if I'm explaining this correctly.
00:03:06.140 I'm good.
00:03:06.540 You're doing good.
00:03:07.020 Yeah.
00:03:07.720 You're good.
00:03:08.160 I personally don't like bad boys anymore.
00:03:13.000 And I think I was in an immature era.
00:03:15.420 Yes,
00:03:15.700 you did.
00:03:18.000 You're telling me right now,
00:03:19.240 yeah,
00:03:19.760 you have a go for a guy that's not a bad boy.
00:03:21.940 That's loyal.
00:03:22.520 Right now,
00:03:23.120 he gets no bitches, 1.00
00:03:24.020 he's a virgin.
00:03:24.540 A guy with ambition and drive and knows himself and knows how he looks after a woman is so attractive than a bad boy that doesn't know himself and only disrespect a woman.
00:03:37.760 Do you sleep,
00:03:38.760 who do you sleep with faster? 1.00
00:03:42.220 What do you mean?
00:03:43.040 Who do you sleep with faster? 1.00
00:03:44.260 That's a good point.
00:03:45.080 That's a very good point.
00:03:45.780 The bad boy or the good guy?
00:03:48.400 Courtney's very different though.
00:03:49.860 She holds herself back a lot.
00:03:51.620 And I have huge respect for this girl.
00:03:53.400 Okay,
00:03:55.080 but could you answer the quote?
00:03:57.880 Because you said you've dated cheaters in the past,
00:04:01.560 right?
00:04:01.860 Yeah,
00:04:02.040 yeah,
00:04:02.220 yeah.
00:04:02.720 And so like the way men will see it is when you're at the younger you are,
00:04:05.920 the more valuable,
00:04:06.880 the like higher value you have as a woman, 1.00
00:04:09.480 right?
00:04:09.640 You know,
00:04:10.100 you know,
00:04:10.520 if you're 50 and you're 20,
00:04:12.420 you're more valuable to men at 20,
00:04:14.000 right?
00:04:14.240 When it comes to looks,
00:04:15.120 like what they're attracted to.
00:04:16.440 So it's like when you have the most to give and you have the lowest body count,
00:04:20.420 you choose the bad boys.
00:04:21.480 It's like you're kind of seen as like leftover to the nice guys.
00:04:24.720 And it's,
00:04:25.380 it's kind of like,
00:04:25.940 okay,
00:04:26.060 imagine if you,
00:04:27.840 if you found out,
00:04:29.100 if you're dating a guy and you found out for their anniversary,
00:04:32.240 his ex-girlfriend,
00:04:33.340 he spent a ton of money on,
00:04:34.740 took her on trips,
00:04:35.620 did all this stuff.
00:04:36.540 And the most he's ever done for you is taking you to Taco Bell.
00:04:38.800 You'd be pissed,
00:04:40.440 right?
00:04:40.540 A hundred percent.
00:04:42.200 That's how men feel when they find out you slept with Tom,
00:04:44.940 Dick and Harry after one night,
00:04:46.540 but you made him wait a month or a week.
00:04:48.640 That shows that you're different,
00:04:50.040 right?
00:04:50.540 No.
00:04:51.100 Okay.
00:04:51.380 But what if he said that to you?
00:04:54.700 Like,
00:04:54.840 Oh,
00:04:54.980 it shows you're different.
00:04:55.920 I took you to Taco Bell.
00:04:58.360 You're a prick.
00:04:59.740 And that's how guys see it.
00:05:02.340 So they see it as,
00:05:03.540 Oh,
00:05:03.640 when you were younger,
00:05:04.540 fitter,
00:05:04.980 like hotter,
00:05:06.240 you,
00:05:06.760 you gave your best years to the bad boys.
00:05:09.260 And now it's like to them now.
00:05:11.540 And like they,
00:05:12.140 and it seems like,
00:05:13.360 and I genuinely believe those are the guys that women really want.
00:05:16.100 But once you realize you can't tame them,
00:05:17.680 then you go to the nice guys.
00:05:18.880 I don't know how to feel about that analogy.
00:05:20.580 You know,
00:05:21.340 what do you,
00:05:21.900 what do you not feel about it?
00:05:24.040 I don't know.
00:05:24.960 Like the Taco Bell thing.
00:05:27.840 No,
00:05:28.320 what she's basically saying is,
00:05:30.060 all right,
00:05:30.360 imagine I'm dating.
00:05:33.100 Her.
00:05:33.820 Layla.
00:05:34.380 Layla.
00:05:35.240 And I take it to a five,
00:05:36.680 five star hotel,
00:05:40.420 five star dining.
00:05:41.960 And you've seen this.
00:05:43.160 You've seen this on my stories.
00:05:44.240 I post it.
00:05:44.760 We break up,
00:05:45.340 whatever.
00:05:45.780 And then when I take,
00:05:46.560 I take you to Taco Bell.
00:05:48.960 What would you think you're worth when you've seen me take a woman and treat her right? 0.99
00:05:53.700 You understand?
00:05:54.160 Are you dating?
00:05:56.140 We're just,
00:05:56.920 maybe not.
00:05:57.680 It doesn't matter what you've seen.
00:05:59.540 Okay.
00:06:00.180 But you've seen me take women, 1.00
00:06:01.540 whether you don't know who we're dating or not.
00:06:03.200 Yeah,
00:06:03.420 I'd be pissed.
00:06:04.360 Exactly.
00:06:04.800 So how do you think a man would feel when he knows that you've given up in a day or two,
00:06:09.020 and then you're sitting here demanding like,
00:06:10.180 oh,
00:06:10.260 you got to do all this.
00:06:11.100 You got to jump through this loophole.
00:06:12.460 You got to take me on this amount of dates.
00:06:14.300 You got to wait this amount of months.
00:06:16.100 What are you talking about?
00:06:17.080 The sad reality is,
00:06:18.160 yeah,
00:06:18.740 the girls that will give it to a guy in an instant, 1.00
00:06:22.020 it's not the same thing as like,
00:06:24.000 if they'll give it to a guy that waits for like three months,
00:06:26.900 four months,
00:06:27.460 you know what I'm saying?
00:06:28.540 It depends on his value.
00:06:29.220 A guy's not going to wait three,
00:06:30.160 four months.
00:06:30.460 It depends on his value,
00:06:31.320 bro.
00:06:31.420 Listen,
00:06:31.860 it depends on his value.
00:06:33.120 Let's say he's a proper valuable guy.
00:06:35.060 Yeah?
00:06:35.420 She'll give it to him quicker than a low value guy.
00:06:37.760 Do you understand?
00:06:37.980 Because in an instinct,
00:06:40.020 it makes more sense to give it to him quicker.
00:06:42.260 Jonathan.
00:06:43.320 For a low value or high value?
00:06:45.240 You said for a low value or high value?
00:06:47.140 That's true.
00:06:47.920 No,
00:06:48.100 I agree with you.
00:06:49.120 Like,
00:06:49.280 women sleep with the men like we like more quicker. 1.00
00:06:51.820 But that's the whole point we're making.
00:06:53.680 It's like,
00:06:54.180 when for the bad guy,
00:06:55.840 you sleep with him quick,
00:06:56.860 and you make the nice guy wait.
00:06:58.700 Attractive and arousal.
00:06:59.600 But the issue,
00:07:00.420 and that's why I'm like,
00:07:01.180 I don't know if I would encourage women to go for bad boys, 1.00
00:07:03.580 because it's like,
00:07:05.200 what are your odds of actually getting one?
00:07:07.400 At the end of the day,
00:07:08.060 they're more protective.
00:07:09.200 They'll protect them more.
00:07:10.700 They'll look after them more.
00:07:11.780 They tend to have money,
00:07:12.820 because they're aggressive.
00:07:13.540 They're aggressive in life.
00:07:14.660 They know what they want,
00:07:15.620 so they get money.
00:07:16.740 You know what I'm saying?
00:07:17.220 That comes with getting bitches. 1.00
00:07:18.700 Easy as,
00:07:19.600 there's nothing to do about it.
00:07:20.960 You know what I'm saying?
00:07:22.000 Cool.
00:07:22.320 Except the fact that he has bitches, 1.00
00:07:23.580 he's going to love you for the rest of his life.
00:07:25.400 He's going to have kids with you.
00:07:26.320 You know what I'm saying?
00:07:26.700 It's a beautiful thing.
00:07:27.760 It makes me smile.
00:07:29.000 When,
00:07:29.340 like,
00:07:29.520 let's say,
00:07:30.020 I'm imagining myself having kids with my girl.
00:07:31.880 Oh,
00:07:32.080 it's very cute.
00:07:33.060 That's so good.
00:07:33.660 So what if I just fuck them,
00:07:35.020 I'm scared,
00:07:35.440 like,
00:07:35.680 just,
00:07:35.940 like,
00:07:36.120 whatever.
00:07:36.700 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:07:37.340 Could you guys deal with that?
00:07:39.240 A guy that you're having kids with,
00:07:41.580 a family with,
00:07:42.520 you're his wife, 0.57
00:07:43.480 but he has girls from time to time.
00:07:45.560 I think men cheating is the new norm.
00:07:49.800 As sad as it is.
00:07:50.800 Yeah,
00:07:51.320 I really do,
00:07:52.940 like,
00:07:53.780 just,
00:07:54.160 like,
00:07:54.380 I don't agree with it at all.
00:07:56.540 But,
00:07:57.800 I think all men do it,
00:07:59.740 to be honest.
00:08:00.340 Whether it's physically or mentally,
00:08:01.820 it could be like,
00:08:02.580 All men? 0.95
00:08:03.660 To be honest,
00:08:04.740 we've got too much choice in the world.
00:08:06.460 All men or just the men that you fuck with?
00:08:09.520 I've got too much choice, bro.
00:08:11.320 Majority of the men.
00:08:12.620 I have not spoken to one.
00:08:15.000 You gotta understand,
00:08:16.000 man,
00:08:16.280 the privilege is invisible to little to have it.
00:08:18.400 So you gotta understand,
00:08:19.140 your beauty is extremely valuable.
00:08:21.800 As many of you know,
00:08:22.820 I was just banned on TikTok,
00:08:25.340 and we are demonetized on a daily basis
00:08:27.840 on this platform.
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00:08:31.100 please consider sending a super thanks below.
00:08:33.660 Every donation helps,
00:08:35.620 and it helps make what we do possible.
00:08:37.940 Like,
00:08:38.640 that's cool.
00:08:38.840 You know,
00:08:39.040 you want to to understand,
00:08:39.700 I love you.
00:08:40.620 I love you.
00:08:41.420 You know,
00:08:55.820 you also have a boyfriend,
00:08:56.240 and a girl,
00:08:57.140 you know,
00:08:57.760 and you're welcome.
00:08:57.900 You know,