JustPearlyThings - April 13, 2023


Shocking FACTS About SIMPING


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

189.13043

Word Count

1,769

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

3

Hate Speech Sentences

1


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 um today's topic is do modern women want simps um so um i want to go around what do you guys
00:00:10.400 think a simp is and what is the hardest someone has simped for you
00:00:18.320 so start here and then go around well um
00:00:25.280 um i don't know i don't know can't think i don't know what the heart what the biggest
00:00:29.680 thing someone's done for me um well i always cry i've been i always um my partner always lets like
00:00:43.120 makes me cry like on special occasions you know that just does like things for me like that um
00:00:48.080 just goes out their way for me kind of you know to make me feel special do you feel like that's
00:00:53.040 something because it seems like it's reciprocated right okay what is a simp to you
00:00:59.680 simp is somebody like you said that puts a woman on a pedestal yeah yeah i don't think that's a bad
00:01:06.880 thing though okay yeah do you like simps i don't like the word simp i wouldn't call him i wouldn't
00:01:12.720 call my partner a simp but um kind of okay okay what are you saying it's a good thing if your partner
00:01:20.960 puts you on a pedestal yeah yeah interesting okay what's the question again what is what is
00:01:28.960 a simp yeah and what is the hardest someone has simped for you what is a simp a guy that
00:01:35.120 he puts a woman on a pedestal for no reason especially for no reason even if it's like
00:01:41.600 the girl is not even his girl it's just a girl but he puts her on a pedestal from day one from the
00:01:47.680 from the beginning like some guys they operate like that like you know i'm saying they just look at
00:01:52.720 women and in general as like oh your goddesses queens when really and truly she's she's a human
00:01:58.080 being she eats booze does everything that we do like do you get what i'm saying so there's that
00:02:03.680 um simping for me like uh i think it's just like normal stuff like um because obviously as a guy
00:02:09.680 it's different girls don't really tend to simp for guys really like do you know i mean um usually
00:02:16.560 um when a woman is simp for me it's usually like just spending money on me when not needing to
00:02:21.280 like oh do you want me to buy do you want to do that or like you know just
00:02:25.600 going out of their way like for instance i had one girl that you know she would always call me
00:02:30.160 oh do you need me to drive you here do you need me to drive you there do you get what i'm saying and
00:02:33.680 it's like bruv i'm not even i'm just chilling like you get me it's calm in it cool down but
00:02:38.800 i appreciate it though yeah i was gonna say did you like that or no i i kind of did but at the same
00:02:43.600 time because i didn't like her that much it kind of became annoying so i kind of see it from a
00:02:47.600 girl's point of view when a guy's simping for a girl when the girl don't really like him you're just
00:02:52.800 wasting your time because that's not going to make the girl like you it's going to make the girl
00:02:56.000 use you that's all that's going to happen in it you know what i'm saying so that that's my that's
00:03:00.480 my take on that have you ever simped for a girl like do you know what yeah honestly let me bring
00:03:06.640 them yes and no yes and no yes and no i'm about to speak what's wrong with this girl listen yeah
00:03:12.080 at the end of the day all guys have simped in it all guys i remember back in the day back in the
00:03:16.960 days though like how old not no recent team how old like 13 that's our phone yeah so you're you're
00:03:24.720 very removed yeah oh yeah that's when you just disney you know aladdin all them kind of things
00:03:30.640 i just wanna i just want a nice girl to go picnics with yeah all of them yeah so boom now i remember
00:03:36.720 one girl like i just bought a phone case like i just bought a phone case i was just thinking i was
00:03:41.440 walking and i saw a phone case i thought rah she will like that you know and i just bought it for
00:03:46.160 her and them times i didn't have no peas do you know what i'm saying i have no money so i just bought
00:03:50.160 it and then boom like that was it like you know what i mean but apart from that like not really you
00:03:55.120 know you know what i'm saying not really still um a sim to me is someone who uh essentially does
00:04:09.360 something like goes out of their way for someone that isn't one deserving of it or two isn't doing
00:04:17.120 anything so if you just sitting on the couch not doing anything and your man's like oh i'll do this
00:04:22.320 for you i'll do that for you you just have to sit there do nothing probably freedom i'll do everything
00:04:26.480 for you it's just like huh i don't i don't i think that's a simp but have i ever had anyone simp for me
00:04:34.160 no never not that i can think of no no no no no one that she registers no yeah no i'm being serious
00:04:44.080 no no one no no one in the friend zone no okay all right okay what are you sasha um it's kind of like
00:04:53.920 similar to what all of y'all like what have y'all said so like a person a simp is a person who does
00:05:01.200 for another person but like they're not dating they're not talking you know i'm married whatever
00:05:07.440 um they and they get like the person could treat them like crap but they still do things for them
00:05:12.080 they'll do it they'll do whatever they want for them but um as of i don't think i've ever been a
00:05:18.080 simp and i don't think anyone's ever simped over me unless you count like one time somebody paid for my
00:05:25.360 nails but i didn't i don't know who he was like i just met him yeah that's the same and then that's
00:05:34.080 the most though yeah yeah pretty much like everybody was saying when they're a bit over the top
00:05:41.120 and um in in terms of their gestures or like over complimenting a bit too much and things like that
00:05:47.200 and usually it's about superficial things um like looks and stuff and um like they're not romantically
00:05:53.200 involved they're just you know complimenting and i don't know what to do justice for you um
00:05:58.640 i i have probably simped for somebody a long time ago um but i had somebody sent for me i hate even
00:06:08.560 saying that but um i don't want to say it's i don't want to embarrass him what if he's watching
00:06:13.360 out of respect i don't know but it was um yeah like i i felt because i didn't find him attractive
00:06:18.800 and stuff i was just like okay stop you know i i have respect for you and i want you to maintain
00:06:23.600 your dignity so yeah that's pretty much it sounds like the worst way to be let down yeah
00:06:32.720 because you're so nice about it but it's like someone said i want you to stop to remit so you
00:06:37.920 can maintain your dignity you know you know it was it was so bad because i didn't want to like
00:06:43.600 hurt his feelings that i was like maybe should i just go out with i was like no no can i ask you a
00:06:50.160 question can i ask you two questions what did he do that was like the major thing that was simple
00:06:55.120 and the second question why didn't you find him attractive uh okay i i didn't find him attractive
00:07:02.240 because um uh i me as a person when i'm like interested in a man it's not about his job it's it's
00:07:09.200 more of like the hobbies like are you he didn't he wasn't interested in anything he was interested
00:07:14.480 in you though yeah oh okay yeah but didn't that have been important that that's really what's
00:07:21.840 important yeah but i'm not a hobby like come on it just and then um i remember when he um when i asked
00:07:27.840 him like do you have like come on you must have something right because that's like attractive like
00:07:32.000 he always has another yeah you know he's more to his life and everything like that and then um
00:07:36.000 he said oh no um when i when i get with you my life will start and i was like wow and i kind of
00:07:41.680 wow yeah so uh mad still yeah but i did help him though i was like hey you seem like you're interested
00:07:48.400 in this why don't you go and then i kind of just was you was you distracted him was you physically
00:07:52.960 attracted to him um i mean he wasn't terrible but because it's more like the character thing
00:08:00.720 because because a guy can be average but when he has a character he's just like wow
00:08:04.400 um and i yeah so you did find him attractive no i i i didn't he didn't because he was missing that
00:08:10.480 element no okay no that's yeah anyway no because there can there can be there can be some good
00:08:16.800 looking guys but if they're just like yeah and personality you're like so it's a waste of looks yeah
00:08:24.480 so was it his personality or his hobbies that turned you off no but his personality and it's like his lack of
00:08:31.760 hobbies it's because of his personality it's like kind of just like oh okay that makes sense yeah i
00:08:37.440 mean what what good is looks i mean you can have good looking children right who have no hobbies no
00:08:45.040 the kids will have hobbies just the guy won't yeah yeah but that's their dad yeah don't know who wants
00:08:49.840 to marry as long as he makes money it doesn't matter no he's he needs character he was boring as many of
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