JustPearlyThings - Simp Gets SILENCED By This Truth Bomb

00:00:00.000 But you know what, I went to Ghana, I was on holiday and I actually found out the Ashanti tribe, actually the queen, like the king has to go to the queen for advice.

00:00:08.820 So they make sure that the queen is older than the king and actually they have to be related.

00:00:12.720 So in Ashanti tribe, your wife can't be your queen. 0.95

00:00:15.080 It has to be your older sister or your auntie, someone that you can actually take advice from.

00:00:19.840 So I wouldn't say take.

00:00:21.160 Do you think tribes like that, like typically have stood the test of time across the world typically?

00:00:27.040 Where, I mean, with their habitat and how their cultural maneuvers help them, I mean, they're still functioning.

00:00:34.780 No, I'm saying like, do you think it's common for female-led societies to stand the test? 0.98

00:00:40.180 It's not a female-led society, it's still the king. 0.94

00:00:42.320 The king is still the king, but I'm talking about advice.

00:00:44.960 Like if, let's say, another tribe came to invade, the king doesn't take advice from anyone but the queen.

00:00:51.580 But the queen is older than the king, so they've lived longer.

00:00:53.940 And I guess they have more, I don't know, what women have, special stuff that women may embody, that men wouldn't be.

00:01:00.160 No.

00:01:04.260 I think our person.

00:01:05.780 So the king has like, if there's an invasion, the king doesn't consult his generals.

00:01:10.100 He does.

00:01:10.860 No, no, no, no, no, advice.

00:01:12.280 He does consult with generals, but to make certain moves, the only person that can, that he goes to in private is the queen.

00:01:19.700 So the queen says, okay, you know what?

00:01:21.360 I think he just goes to in private to go and sleep with her, bro.

00:01:24.000 It's a sister.

00:01:24.880 That's what, it's a sister.

00:01:26.100 It's a sister.

00:01:26.800 Your family member is saying.

00:01:27.720 Yeah, you can't, your wife is no queen if you are a king in Ashanti tribe. 1.00

00:01:32.620 What?

00:01:33.260 How big is this tribe?

00:01:34.860 It's Ashanti tribe.

00:01:35.880 I don't know anything about the Ashanti.

00:01:38.860 I'm sorry.

00:01:39.820 I'm not a...

00:01:40.500 Yeah, no, it's fine.

00:01:41.300 It's fine.

00:01:41.600 I just know typically tribes that get wisdom from women haven't stood the test of time. 1.00

00:01:46.480 No, I mean, they have.

00:01:47.520 The whole coronavirus question.

00:01:48.760 No, no, I'm saying in general.

00:01:51.180 Yeah, yeah.

00:01:51.940 I understand that.

00:01:52.460 But what I'm trying to say is we've seen women tear down kingdoms. 1.00

00:01:56.260 If they were not smart there, then they won't be able to manipulate kings to kill each other.

00:01:59.920 If you go back to Asian days, you've got women actually finesse, maneuvering, and literally ruling kingdoms. 1.00

00:02:05.160 Yeah, they're more likely.

00:02:07.280 They're more likely to wage war.

00:02:09.180 Women, queens. 0.99

00:02:09.820 I'm not going to kill each other over anything, bro.

00:02:11.240 No, no, no.

00:02:11.840 I'm talking about...

00:02:12.700 You've got people...

00:02:13.480 No, no.

00:02:13.780 Men will kill each other over, oh, I want this piece of land.

00:02:17.940 Like, men kill each other over anything.

00:02:19.480 So when people bring...

00:02:20.400 I'm talking about kingdoms, bro.

00:02:22.060 I'm talking about women actually... 1.00

00:02:23.440 Yeah, it's even kingdoms.

00:02:24.200 Men invade kingdoms just to go and steal iron, just to go and steal stone. 0.92

00:02:29.740 Like, literally any...

00:02:31.600 That's not...

00:02:32.320 I just think that's not fair.

00:02:33.480 No, no.

00:02:33.900 I get what you're saying, but what I'm saying is that, though, you can't say you can't seek advice from your wife.

00:02:39.820 I think if you trust her, that's why you picked her to be your wife, then you should be able to, in comfort, consult with her.

00:02:46.220 No one is saying you shouldn't get advice.

00:02:48.000 What I was saying is, like...

00:02:49.220 Well...

00:02:50.100 She said you shouldn't.

00:02:51.760 She said you shouldn't get advice from your wife. 0.84

00:02:53.240 And I'm saying that.

00:02:53.740 You picked her to be your wife for a reason. 1.00

00:02:55.400 So whatever that reason is, you should be able to go to her, like, listen, I want to run the spy quickly.

00:02:58.960 What do you think?

00:02:59.720 I just think of a boss, like, employee relationship.

00:03:03.780 Like, you might consult the employee, but it's still, like, is your boss really coming to you like that?

00:03:11.340 No, but your partner is not necessarily your employee, I don't think.

00:03:15.460 Well, when you say partner, that's an egalitarian model.

00:03:18.660 Feminists have, like, ruined our language, and once you hear it, you can't unhear it. 1.00

00:03:21.900 Because what does partner... 0.83

00:03:22.860 Like, what does that symbolize?

00:03:25.260 Partnership.

00:03:26.020 What does that mean?

00:03:27.220 Partnership doesn't mean you have to be equal.

00:03:28.800 But you've got to be even.

00:03:30.160 Look, I think that's a big...

00:03:31.080 I think there's a difference between being even and being equal.

00:03:33.600 I don't think...

00:03:34.540 Okay, all right.

00:03:35.220 I think the men should be superior, and the women are below them. 1.00

00:03:38.760 I mean, that could work, but they have to be...

00:03:41.800 It has to be even.

00:03:43.180 Their respect has to be even.

00:03:44.100 They have to be equal.

00:03:45.040 Like, for example, like our fingers, for example...

00:03:46.240 What do you mean even?

00:03:48.080 Okay, go ahead.

00:03:48.740 Sorry, go ahead, go ahead.

00:03:49.500 Look at our hands, for example, right?

00:03:50.720 All our fingers, right?

00:03:51.860 They're all different sizes, but they're all equally respected.

00:03:56.100 If someone came and said, which finger would you want to lose?

00:03:58.000 You said none.

00:03:58.900 But they're not even, are they?

00:04:00.100 They all work together.

00:04:01.200 They all work together, and that's what I'm trying to explain.

00:04:03.660 You don't have to be equal to be even.

00:04:05.760 You can be...

00:04:06.400 You know what I'm saying?

00:04:06.980 That makes sense.

00:04:08.280 So...

00:04:08.840 I think relationships where you're keeping score just don't work.

00:04:13.120 And when it's like, we need to be even...

00:04:15.000 Yeah, but even...

00:04:16.000 What does even mean in a relationship?

00:04:19.480 Even in a relationship would be, okay, for example...

00:04:22.200 If I go outside and I'll hunt, you know, I go out there to hunt, and I come home, I expect

00:04:28.580 my wife to have made something, cooked something.

00:04:30.740 So we both have even chores.

00:04:33.780 Well, do you...

00:04:34.660 Wouldn't it then be very uneven today?

00:04:38.240 Well, I don't know.

00:04:40.140 Because, like, for example, I mean, in 1800, they got eight kids.

00:04:44.740 Now they get 1.4.

00:04:46.140 So, isn't that, like, because isn't that the one thing we do?

00:04:50.340 Bear children.

00:04:52.560 Actually, not every guy wants kids.

00:04:54.180 I suppose some guys who don't really care about kids, you know?

00:04:56.440 But, like, there's some guys who really are also in some different vibe, like, okay.

00:05:00.240 Yeah, you're right.

00:05:00.940 I want kids, but I know some guys will be like, nah, bro, it's not for me.

00:05:03.600 I'm like...

00:05:03.960 Well, I think when the government, you know, takes your kids from you and gives them to

00:05:08.300 the woman, it's, like, a tough... 1.00

00:05:09.880 Yeah, so...

00:05:10.800 But I'm saying in general, wouldn't it just be, like, if we're going to go off of even,

00:05:15.100 like, for example, the average man makes more than the average woman, but the average 0.87

00:05:19.240 woman's fatter than the average man. 1.00

00:05:22.480 We're going to go, like, it starts with looks, right?

00:05:24.720 Yeah, yeah, I mean...

00:05:26.600 If you look at the severe obesity stats, it's, like, women are, like, double. 0.96

00:05:30.680 I mean, I'm not, I'm not justifying nothing.

00:05:33.100 I'm just saying that, you know, respect can be evenly shared across, but you don't have

00:05:37.060 to be equal.

00:05:38.300 Also, I think we've been going at the women, really, but the reality is, in truth, it's 0.98

00:05:44.320 not just the women that have this issue. 0.99

00:05:45.700 Everyone has the issue.

00:05:46.580 Men, men today don't even know what they are meant to be doing in a marriage, and that's

00:05:50.720 the fact.

00:05:51.360 The truth is, the reason why gender roles work is because when a woman is taking care 1.00

00:05:57.440 of the kids, building the home, that should be her primary focus.

00:06:00.880 How can she do that and still be making decisions for the family? 1.00

00:06:03.760 It doesn't make sense.

00:06:05.000 That is the role of the man.

00:06:06.240 The man is meant to protect, provide, and come with the decision-making.

00:06:09.980 That's why women look for leaders. 1.00

00:06:12.060 Yeah, but she doesn't have to decide, though.

00:06:13.760 I'm not saying that.

00:06:14.420 No, I'm not going at you.

00:06:15.360 I'm just making a general point on what is happening in society today.

00:06:18.440 So it's not just the women that have the problem. 1.00

00:06:20.200 Yeah.

00:06:20.460 Women, obviously, don't want to play their part to a large extent. 1.00

00:06:24.640 There are still very good women out there, but to a large extent, women are, like, trying 1.00

00:06:27.760 to be men, and men also are trying to be women.

00:06:30.400 So it's like...

00:06:31.160 But it plays with the traditional part of it, where marriage is meant to be a traditional

00:06:36.020 and most women these days are not traditional. 0.83

00:06:38.840 Yeah, but it's just interesting because when we talk about, like, women making decisions, 0.99

00:06:44.300 like, this wasn't even argued about 100 years ago.

00:06:46.560 That's my point.

00:06:47.120 Yeah.

00:06:47.600 The traditional part of it, marriage is meant to be traditional, but the majority of women 0.93

00:06:51.460 these days are not traditional.

00:06:53.420 I'm going to read Super Chats for a second, and then I'm going to go to the next one.

00:06:57.360 Also, guys, I've been tweeting where you can submit questions for the panel on Twitter.

00:07:04.360 So make sure you follow my...

00:07:06.400 I say...

00:07:07.120 I always put the title of the show, so make sure you follow my Twitter or Super Chats.

00:07:12.600 Okay.

00:07:13.160 Dr. David Baker.

00:07:15.340 According to NOP 2017 of men who cheat, 56% are one-time cheaters, 28.5% cheat twice,

00:07:23.280 and 15% are serial cheaters.

00:07:25.820 Most times, it can be worked out.

00:07:28.020 That's the other thing I was thinking about.

00:07:29.460 If only 15% of men are serial cheaters...

00:07:32.400 Like, I literally was thinking about this.

00:07:34.340 Why has every woman dated a serial cheater? 0.93

00:07:37.960 I think.

00:07:38.820 It's like we almost search for it.

00:07:41.140 Yeah.

00:07:42.340 They're looking for it.

00:07:43.240 It is something where they may have cheated once, and then they build up something in

00:07:47.400 their mind that every time they go out, they're cheating, and therefore they're a serial cheater.

00:07:50.340 But they don't actually know for a fact.

00:07:52.620 Yeah, that's true.

00:07:53.100 We make up stories.

00:07:54.460 Yeah.

00:07:54.680 It's like for whatever...

00:07:55.460 Easily.

00:07:55.760 I think that's why social media messes us up so much.

00:07:58.960 I don't think we're meant to deal with that many problems.

00:08:02.260 I think that's why we get the abuse.

00:08:04.300 That's always what women say. 1.00

00:08:07.060 Yeah, because it's just in our ear all the time.

00:08:09.760 Okay.

00:08:10.740 Horace Davis.

00:08:11.900 Cheating means breaking rules to achieve a goal.

00:08:14.900 A woman's body changes for a man, where a man is the same or better with many sex partners. 0.92

00:08:21.020 Righteous polygamy is a cure in this society. 1.00

00:08:24.540 C. Matherson, these women need to get used to sharing a man because, to be honest, most 1.00

00:08:29.820 average men won't have anything to do with them. 0.99

00:08:32.520 F.S.

00:08:32.920 Claire, men shouldn't try to lead.

00:08:35.620 They will listen to what they feel like, fight you when they don't, and undermine you

00:08:39.600 for not leading the way they would.

00:08:41.280 Let them spend their life looking for the one.

00:08:47.360 That guy sounds like...

00:08:49.400 Anyway, let me not even say what I was going to say.

00:08:52.520 Say it, girl.

00:08:53.360 Go say it, go say it. 1.00

00:08:54.880 Like an idiot. 1.00

00:08:59.820 Grow Horse Davis. 1.00

00:09:01.600 The devil is a feminist. 1.00

00:09:03.020 Why didn't the serpent talk to Adam? 0.98

00:09:05.640 C. Matherson.

00:09:07.640 Shy Roney in the house.

00:09:09.980 Boundless Guardian.

00:09:11.020 No real men are going to put their hand on women. 1.00

00:09:14.080 Full stop.

00:09:14.720 There's no good reason for a man to hit a woman regardless of what she says or does.

00:09:18.580 Men and women are different, and we can't hold them until the same standard. 0.97

00:09:21.700 I would agree...

00:09:23.360 I would actually 100% agree with that if we admitted that men and women are not equal and 1.00

00:09:31.440 men are superior.

00:09:32.240 But I think as long as the laws and society are treating us as equals, it's equal rights,

00:09:38.480 equal lefts.

00:09:39.480 That's my opinion on it.

00:09:40.860 Lil Uzi.

00:09:41.900 Women will cry about men abusing women, but won't go to the police, but will go online 1.00

00:09:49.180 and tell everybody else to make them handle it just to find out she's lying in the end.

00:09:54.200 She's getting shot or destroying the man's life. 0.99

00:09:57.040 Matt Butcher, guys, go ahead and bust your ass to provide and see it go unappreciated. 1.00

00:10:01.560 The more you ask, the more you provide, the more they want. 1.00

00:10:05.340 It never ends.

00:10:06.520 Ask me how I know. 1.00

00:10:07.500 Matt Butcher, guys, go ahead and bust your ass to... 1.00

00:10:10.060 Oh, you said the same thing twice. 1.00

00:10:12.500 F.S.

00:10:13.000 Claire, interrogation questions are great until she gets mad. 1.00

00:10:16.760 Then your vulnerability will be thrown in your face and used to insult you.

00:10:20.280 Don't do it.

00:10:20.880 Dr. David Baker.

00:10:22.380 Math time, 23.5% of divorces include a claim of abuse.

00:10:27.960 50% of domestic violence is non-reciprocal.

00:10:31.280 70% is female.

00:10:33.600 45% of the divorce rate is 45%.

00:10:36.540 A maximum of 1.6% of men are one-way abusers.

00:10:42.420 That includes the expanded definition and false claims.

00:10:46.800 C. Matherson, it is entirely not okay that most women 1.00

00:10:50.860 are not virgins.

00:10:52.240 F.S.

00:10:52.680 Claire, this is why we are walking away.

00:10:54.380 We are afraid of women, but we must protect ourselves from accusations.

00:10:58.380 When she is mad and our lives are destroyed,

00:11:01.340 if they could be crushed by an accusation alone, what would they do?

00:11:08.000 C.

00:11:08.640 Matherson, Pearl asked the women how much more they expect men to take

00:11:12.740 in the age of promiscuity.

00:11:14.480 46 and 2.

00:11:20.000 Kanye has to pay billionaire Kim Kardashian $200K a month in child support.

00:11:24.320 A man's career is for family. 0.99

00:11:26.140 A woman's career is for herself and to remain independent. 1.00

00:11:29.380 Matt Butcher, thank you for putting male and female relationships back on track

00:11:33.020 that the rest of nature follows intuitively.

00:11:36.440 Don't F with Mother Nature.

00:11:37.700 You will lose.

00:11:38.320 Keep working on your reading skills, Pearl.

00:11:40.020 See, Matherson, your personalities are not attractive.

00:11:44.340 Those women want us to settle for nothing. 1.00

00:11:46.680 Thank you.

JustPearlyThings - July 24, 2023

Simp Gets SILENCED By This Truth Bomb

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