Simp Gets SILENCED By This Truth Bomb
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss whether or not you should be able to seek advice from your wife. We discuss the Ashanti tribe and how they have stood the test of time, and why women should be allowed to ask for advice from their wives.
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But you know what, I went to Ghana, I was on holiday and I actually found out the Ashanti tribe, actually the queen, like the king has to go to the queen for advice.
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So they make sure that the queen is older than the king and actually they have to be related.
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So in Ashanti tribe, your wife can't be your queen.
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It has to be your older sister or your auntie, someone that you can actually take advice from.
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Do you think tribes like that, like typically have stood the test of time across the world typically?
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Where, I mean, with their habitat and how their cultural maneuvers help them, I mean, they're still functioning.
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No, I'm saying like, do you think it's common for female-led societies to stand the test?
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It's not a female-led society, it's still the king.
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The king is still the king, but I'm talking about advice.
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Like if, let's say, another tribe came to invade, the king doesn't take advice from anyone but the queen.
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But the queen is older than the king, so they've lived longer.
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And I guess they have more, I don't know, what women have, special stuff that women may embody, that men wouldn't be.
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So the king has like, if there's an invasion, the king doesn't consult his generals.
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He does consult with generals, but to make certain moves, the only person that can, that he goes to in private is the queen.
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I think he just goes to in private to go and sleep with her, bro.
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Yeah, you can't, your wife is no queen if you are a king in Ashanti tribe.
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I just know typically tribes that get wisdom from women haven't stood the test of time.
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But what I'm trying to say is we've seen women tear down kingdoms.
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If they were not smart there, then they won't be able to manipulate kings to kill each other.
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If you go back to Asian days, you've got women actually finesse, maneuvering, and literally ruling kingdoms.
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I'm not going to kill each other over anything, bro.
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Men will kill each other over, oh, I want this piece of land.
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Men invade kingdoms just to go and steal iron, just to go and steal stone.
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I get what you're saying, but what I'm saying is that, though, you can't say you can't seek advice from your wife.
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I think if you trust her, that's why you picked her to be your wife, then you should be able to, in comfort, consult with her.
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She said you shouldn't get advice from your wife.
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So whatever that reason is, you should be able to go to her, like, listen, I want to run the spy quickly.
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I just think of a boss, like, employee relationship.
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Like, you might consult the employee, but it's still, like, is your boss really coming to you like that?
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No, but your partner is not necessarily your employee, I don't think.
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Well, when you say partner, that's an egalitarian model.
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Feminists have, like, ruined our language, and once you hear it, you can't unhear it.
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I think there's a difference between being even and being equal.
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I think the men should be superior, and the women are below them.
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I mean, that could work, but they have to be...
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Like, for example, like our fingers, for example...
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They're all different sizes, but they're all equally respected.
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If someone came and said, which finger would you want to lose?
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They all work together, and that's what I'm trying to explain.
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I think relationships where you're keeping score just don't work.
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Even in a relationship would be, okay, for example...
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If I go outside and I'll hunt, you know, I go out there to hunt, and I come home, I expect
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my wife to have made something, cooked something.
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Because, like, for example, I mean, in 1800, they got eight kids.
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So, isn't that, like, because isn't that the one thing we do?
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I suppose some guys who don't really care about kids, you know?
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But, like, there's some guys who really are also in some different vibe, like, okay.
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I want kids, but I know some guys will be like, nah, bro, it's not for me.
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Well, I think when the government, you know, takes your kids from you and gives them to
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But I'm saying in general, wouldn't it just be, like, if we're going to go off of even,
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like, for example, the average man makes more than the average woman, but the average
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We're going to go, like, it starts with looks, right?
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If you look at the severe obesity stats, it's, like, women are, like, double.
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I'm just saying that, you know, respect can be evenly shared across, but you don't have
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Also, I think we've been going at the women, really, but the reality is, in truth, it's
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Men, men today don't even know what they are meant to be doing in a marriage, and that's
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The truth is, the reason why gender roles work is because when a woman is taking care
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of the kids, building the home, that should be her primary focus.
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How can she do that and still be making decisions for the family?
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The man is meant to protect, provide, and come with the decision-making.
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I'm just making a general point on what is happening in society today.
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So it's not just the women that have the problem.
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Women, obviously, don't want to play their part to a large extent.
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There are still very good women out there, but to a large extent, women are, like, trying
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to be men, and men also are trying to be women.
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But it plays with the traditional part of it, where marriage is meant to be a traditional
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Yeah, but it's just interesting because when we talk about, like, women making decisions,
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like, this wasn't even argued about 100 years ago.
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The traditional part of it, marriage is meant to be traditional, but the majority of women
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I'm going to read Super Chats for a second, and then I'm going to go to the next one.
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Also, guys, I've been tweeting where you can submit questions for the panel on Twitter.
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I always put the title of the show, so make sure you follow my Twitter or Super Chats.
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According to NOP 2017 of men who cheat, 56% are one-time cheaters, 28.5% cheat twice,
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It is something where they may have cheated once, and then they build up something in
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their mind that every time they go out, they're cheating, and therefore they're a serial cheater.
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I think that's why social media messes us up so much.
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I don't think we're meant to deal with that many problems.
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Yeah, because it's just in our ear all the time.
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Cheating means breaking rules to achieve a goal.
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A woman's body changes for a man, where a man is the same or better with many sex partners.
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C. Matherson, these women need to get used to sharing a man because, to be honest, most
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average men won't have anything to do with them.
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They will listen to what they feel like, fight you when they don't, and undermine you
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Anyway, let me not even say what I was going to say.
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No real men are going to put their hand on women.
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There's no good reason for a man to hit a woman regardless of what she says or does.
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Men and women are different, and we can't hold them until the same standard.
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I would actually 100% agree with that if we admitted that men and women are not equal and
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But I think as long as the laws and society are treating us as equals, it's equal rights,
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Women will cry about men abusing women, but won't go to the police, but will go online
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and tell everybody else to make them handle it just to find out she's lying in the end.
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She's getting shot or destroying the man's life.
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Matt Butcher, guys, go ahead and bust your ass to provide and see it go unappreciated.
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The more you ask, the more you provide, the more they want.
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Matt Butcher, guys, go ahead and bust your ass to...
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Claire, interrogation questions are great until she gets mad.
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Then your vulnerability will be thrown in your face and used to insult you.
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Math time, 23.5% of divorces include a claim of abuse.
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That includes the expanded definition and false claims.
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C. Matherson, it is entirely not okay that most women
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We are afraid of women, but we must protect ourselves from accusations.
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if they could be crushed by an accusation alone, what would they do?
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Matherson, Pearl asked the women how much more they expect men to take
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Kanye has to pay billionaire Kim Kardashian $200K a month in child support.
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A woman's career is for herself and to remain independent.
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Matt Butcher, thank you for putting male and female relationships back on track
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See, Matherson, your personalities are not attractive.