Simp Tries To Dodge Pearl’s Questions
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss sex and sexless women, and whether or not it's possible to turn a hoe into a housewife. We also discuss whether it's ever possible for a woman to have a baby at the age of 30, and what it means to be a childless woman.
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can you turn a hoe into a housewife why don't we go around you can start and go with myself
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it depends i think if the right man is with the girl then she can be changed into a housewife so
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it just all depends on the individual the influence and the circumstances that they've
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been through for their life but i've been with girls that may have had like numbers behind them
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and i think that when they was with me i perhaps could have changed them into a housewife but
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it's not every woman so it could be just that particular person but again it goes down to
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the individual okay what is there um anything that a girl can't come back from
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it depends when you say that that's like an open question um is there anything a girl can't come
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from it depends on the situation like because i'm not really i'm not i don't i don't really judge
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people so i couldn't really say that there's something that they couldn't come back from but
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me personally as long as i don't really ask too much questions about your past because once
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you're with me i'm all about our future so i don't really focus on what you've done before me
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so as long as you're not carrying on with the stuff you was the stuff you was doing beforehand then it
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wouldn't really bother me and it's and from where i'm not gonna have like maybe a friend approach me
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and say yeah she done this then i don't think it's really gonna be a problem but that's just my
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personal perspective on it okay what do you think me um i think many have tried i don't really
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i don't really feel like it's possible um i believe that a leopard never changed its spots so
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yeah i'm i'm always a believer um i feel like i've actually had conversations with guys about this
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and i personally haven't been in that boat but i know a lot of girls do end up being the housewife
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and a lot of us good girls be like hey what did i do wrong but i feel like some guys do feel like
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when a girl does have enough experience and they've gone through all of that stuff like having to change
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guys or like sleep around i know i'm really really trying for these girls um i'm trying to play devil's
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advocate um why it's simply because everybody deserves a second chance just because you've
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done something when you was younger doesn't necessarily mean you're the same person 10 baby
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mamas 10 baby mamas i thought we were talking about a woman yeah but he just had one he just had one
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wild year he impregnated 10 women as long as it wasn't wow it was with me because if it wasn't me i'd be
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like no no it was before he met you okay i mean yeah today i'm not really the type to really go for
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the baby for this okay but for the day yeah no no no no isn't like maybe if i'm like 10 years from
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now maybe i might look at the situation different because i'll be a little bit older to the point
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where like who do you exactly think doesn't really have a child at that age i don't right oh
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why'd you say that because i don't and neither does he what that you both don't have kids
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seeing that does that's not very common though about five or six or seven of my my friends all
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in the same boat no kids all professional or make money or majority of people i know have kids
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i'm like literally like i'm like one of the few that don't i'm like that goldfish in the tank was
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like how come you haven't got kids yet why don't why do you not in that way but like i'm not in a
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position to want kids yeah so i just think that it's just probably where you're looking because
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if you step out a little bit further a lot of people actually don't have kids or they don't
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have baby moms or or they lie 50 of women that hit 30 are single and childless actually are they
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they're childless for the people that i know to my knowledge i'm going from what i know
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i don't mean they didn't kill you yeah i just know a lot of people lie so you might feel like
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somebody doesn't have a child or they have a child and they didn't know they had a child
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okay um why don't you go uh turn a hoe to housewife no why not
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i think it depends on your definition of a housewife but if you're talking in its traditional
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way i would say no i think too much experience a lot of negative ones i think for someone who
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would fit the definition of a hoe i don't think i think by then they're just damaged goods
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but what is a hoe though yeah yeah that's a good question that's my next question so why don't you
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two answer and then we'll talk about that my definition of a hoe is a girl that's slept around
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a lot indiscriminately um i couldn't necessarily put a number on it but i'd say a girl who's not really
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been concerned about whether she's got any connection with the guys that she's been sleeping
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where if she's just been having a good time racking up the body count i would consider
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that to be a hoe okay yeah i feel like you can easily change to one as all you need is probably
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just a change of culture because that's what you'll have to do first thing when you change
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your culture and stay somewhere else so you do think you can turn a hoe into a housewife
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definitely for the time being for sure i like that optimism for for how long a lifetime
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not lifetime but definitely for uh the first two months
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so you can turn into a housewife for two months and then her her hoe comes back
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okay now you can't turn the hoe into housewife no no no can you turn a hoe into a wife yeah it
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happens all the time yeah because then if you look at all these rappers they're doing all the
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time yeah but if you look at rappers as your idol then you're idolizing celebrities we don't look to
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rappers as as of course but in terms of looking at people who are turning hoes into housewife
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they're the majority of people who are doing it how long do the um do the marriages last probably
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not long because if you're looking at kanye west and king kate that didn't last long at all
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so then these are very bad examples to use very bad examples then she's not a wife yeah she just
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short term she was a wife she was a wife but she's not a wife that's true maybe it depends on
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how people interpret the definition of a hoe then because then some people might feel like certain
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things that women have done in their life that's that's not really a hoe actually yeah let's let's
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let's ask the men what are you when when does a girl become a hoe
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a girl becomes a hoe when she has to start lying about how many people she slept with
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automatically you're a hoe then because for the moment you start lying you're not even being true
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to yourself um so that's when it starts so the moment you have to start lying to yourself and lying
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to other people you're a hoe so if she is honest and says 50 she's not a hoe oh no she's still a hoe
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but she's just a honest hoe we respect the honest ones as well yeah no i'm still not gonna wife her
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but i respect the honesty so here's the thing um we said before um a woman has the right to choose a
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woman has um the right to wear what she wants a woman has autonomy and sovereignty of her body
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a woman can have consensual sex wherever she chooses to be but those are the woman's rights and
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men have our own rights and doesn't mean we have to take it for that so what we're trying to say is
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women can do whatever they want we don't judge you personally but us as men have with certain
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standards and we don't want to be with a woman that slept for example my friend or a friend's
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friend or something like that men and women see sex differently um a lot of women argue that they
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don't and they treat it the same but you women still don't mind seeing a guy that sees a lot of
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other girls where us men we detest that but what what if like um i feel like the reason why i'm i feel
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like i'm standing for certain women is because what if they're psychological problems what if
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you are judging somebody from the cover of what you see them as but they actually are somebody that
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just deserves good love what if it's somebody that is willing to change their colors for you
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i think that's a feminine point of view because we always try to change men okay but like from the
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man's point of view it's like once you've lost your purity it's gone but okay so somebody could judge
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me per se they might look at me and be like okay i don't like the way that she dresses i don't like
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her point of views but if it was a thing where you sat down and we was to have like a night out
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just me and you as girls and i told you about my past and the reason why i've done certain things
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and like i'm ready to like give myself to somebody that i really trust and really love do you not
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believe i deserve a second chance i mean i think no one deserves anything
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i think you kind of it's like what do you qualify for and so it's it's if if you you know did certain
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things in the past like i just think you're eliminated from certain guys but don't worry
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one in three men are virgins or haven't had sex in the past year there's someone
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there's always someone i just think there's there's a lot of onus on the men put that we have to accept
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bad behavior previous stuff we we no one is no one has to allow anyone's previous history that's why
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if you've ever done a crime in the past before that you know if you go for a job some jobs you can't
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go for and that's just the way it is so i think a lot of times women want us to to to be counselors
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and be psychotherapists for their previous trauma which we had no part in and that and that is fine
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if the guy that wants you is prepared to take that but you shouldn't go into the world thinking that
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anyone has to be there to to fix any of your what i'm trying to figure out is why men
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most men always get looked upon like like they're not a hoe why is it different for women than
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it is for men because men and women are different they are because they are because it's easy for
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us to get sex the world doesn't like think highly of you if you do what's easy and men getting sex
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is hard so if they do what's hard it's valued if we do what's easy it's not so for you for example
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for you um as a lady you're very pretty um attractive thank you um black woman and and on
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instagram i'm not having seen your instagram but i'm sure if you put on your instagram every single
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day that um you you was lonely and you wanted some company i'm sure you wouldn't have any problems
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with people messing in you or if you asked you asked for people to take you out but if one of
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us did that and said that we wanted sex we would probably have our instagram shut down now the
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difference with us is okay if if if in order for me to sleep with 100 women um especially quality
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beautiful women i would have to have some type of value about myself in order for you to sleep with
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100 men you don't have to do anything but just say it and you can just walk down the road and you
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would find men that will sleep with you um so that's why well what about men that lie what about
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men okay for example i'm a pretty girl if i do say i'm lonely on my instagram and somebody does come
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or approach me in a way where like they're coming across as they're good and then they've lied to me
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or made me feel like they were gonna do something good in my life and then they turned out that it
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wasn't that or i ended up giving myself to somebody and now they're like yeah i don't want to do you
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anymore so now that's added on a number to the previous guys that i've done before and it comes
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across that i'm a home and realistically that wasn't the situation yeah but it's like how many times are
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you gonna get bamboozled what like i think most guys like okay so like if i'm a home too they're
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like all right but like when you're like 20 30 by all of them what if i'm a hopeless romantic no you
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make you make bad decisions so why does it necessarily have to be bad because you're slept with
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10 or how many people and nothing's come of it so for me as a man all those 10 previous men you slept
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with they don't add anything to me they're just men that have used you and now left you for me
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so what you've been better of you doing is is is vetting those guys better your job as a woman is to vet
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the bullshit that is not our job you need to mitigate these men that come into your life and say
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right which one is is he serious is he not serious if you give up the goods every single time a guy
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takes your number takes you out for something to eat that's up to you because what are the ones that
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lie though no but this is also up to you because you have to you have to differentiate between the men
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that lie and the men which don't lie if you cannot um separate the good men from the bad men
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whose fault is that that's not do you understand sometimes it's kind of hard to tell we're not
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gonna like sit here and be like i think that's that's bullshit come on that's bullshit you know
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as a girl as a girl you you know deep down you just you're just trying to sell you you just want
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to change them i hear you you you know deep down which guys in a room you walk into you know which
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ones are getting laid you know which ones aren't but they love it anyway but the thing is like
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we want the guys that get laid we don't want the guys that no one else want not necessarily what if
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i'm not trying to get laid what if it's a thing where i'm literally trying to know you as a person
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do you want to date someone that no one else wants to date no girls love the bad boy i kind of do though
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i don't i don't i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform
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