JustPearlyThings - March 29, 2023


Simp Tries To Dodge Pearl’s Questions


Episode Stats

Length

12 minutes

Words per Minute

212.1547

Word Count

2,752

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

29

Hate Speech Sentences

23


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 can you turn a hoe into a housewife why don't we go around you can start and go with myself
00:00:10.220 it depends i think if the right man is with the girl then she can be changed into a housewife so
00:00:17.900 it just all depends on the individual the influence and the circumstances that they've
00:00:22.740 been through for their life but i've been with girls that may have had like numbers behind them
00:00:29.000 and i think that when they was with me i perhaps could have changed them into a housewife but
00:00:34.300 it's not every woman so it could be just that particular person but again it goes down to
00:00:39.500 the individual okay what is there um anything that a girl can't come back from
00:00:45.400 it depends when you say that that's like an open question um is there anything a girl can't come
00:00:52.360 from it depends on the situation like because i'm not really i'm not i don't i don't really judge
00:00:57.760 people so i couldn't really say that there's something that they couldn't come back from but
00:01:01.020 me personally as long as i don't really ask too much questions about your past because once
00:01:06.600 you're with me i'm all about our future so i don't really focus on what you've done before me
00:01:10.720 so as long as you're not carrying on with the stuff you was the stuff you was doing beforehand then it
00:01:16.020 wouldn't really bother me and it's and from where i'm not gonna have like maybe a friend approach me
00:01:20.920 and say yeah she done this then i don't think it's really gonna be a problem but that's just my
00:01:25.600 personal perspective on it okay what do you think me um i think many have tried i don't really
00:01:31.820 i don't really feel like it's possible um i believe that a leopard never changed its spots so
00:01:38.280 yeah i'm i'm always a believer um i feel like i've actually had conversations with guys about this
00:01:48.240 and i personally haven't been in that boat but i know a lot of girls do end up being the housewife
00:01:55.120 and a lot of us good girls be like hey what did i do wrong but i feel like some guys do feel like
00:02:02.820 when a girl does have enough experience and they've gone through all of that stuff like having to change
00:02:10.100 guys or like sleep around i know i'm really really trying for these girls um i'm trying to play devil's
00:02:16.020 advocate um why it's simply because everybody deserves a second chance just because you've
00:02:21.260 done something when you was younger doesn't necessarily mean you're the same person 10 baby
00:02:24.640 mamas 10 baby mamas i thought we were talking about a woman yeah but he just had one he just had one
00:02:30.320 wild year he impregnated 10 women as long as it wasn't wow it was with me because if it wasn't me i'd be
00:02:35.920 like no no it was before he met you okay i mean yeah today i'm not really the type to really go for
00:02:43.120 the baby for this okay but for the day yeah no no no no isn't like maybe if i'm like 10 years from
00:02:50.140 now maybe i might look at the situation different because i'll be a little bit older to the point
00:02:54.660 where like who do you exactly think doesn't really have a child at that age i don't right oh
00:02:59.740 why'd you say that because i don't and neither does he what that you both don't have kids
00:03:05.360 seeing that does that's not very common though about five or six or seven of my my friends all
00:03:10.060 in the same boat no kids all professional or make money or majority of people i know have kids
00:03:15.820 i'm like literally like i'm like one of the few that don't i'm like that goldfish in the tank was
00:03:20.960 like how come you haven't got kids yet why don't why do you not in that way but like i'm not in a
00:03:26.340 position to want kids yeah so i just think that it's just probably where you're looking because
00:03:30.400 if you step out a little bit further a lot of people actually don't have kids or they don't
00:03:33.700 have baby moms or or they lie 50 of women that hit 30 are single and childless actually are they
00:03:40.920 they're childless for the people that i know to my knowledge i'm going from what i know
00:03:46.120 i don't mean they didn't kill you yeah i just know a lot of people lie so you might feel like
00:03:53.300 somebody doesn't have a child or they have a child and they didn't know they had a child
00:03:56.540 okay um why don't you go uh turn a hoe to housewife no why not
00:04:06.080 i think it depends on your definition of a housewife but if you're talking in its traditional
00:04:11.940 way i would say no i think too much experience a lot of negative ones i think for someone who
00:04:19.760 would fit the definition of a hoe i don't think i think by then they're just damaged goods
00:04:24.460 but what is a hoe though yeah yeah that's a good question that's my next question so why don't you
00:04:29.600 two answer and then we'll talk about that my definition of a hoe is a girl that's slept around
00:04:34.340 a lot indiscriminately um i couldn't necessarily put a number on it but i'd say a girl who's not really
00:04:44.820 been concerned about whether she's got any connection with the guys that she's been sleeping
00:04:48.120 where if she's just been having a good time racking up the body count i would consider
00:04:52.820 that to be a hoe okay yeah i feel like you can easily change to one as all you need is probably
00:05:02.040 just a change of culture because that's what you'll have to do first thing when you change
00:05:07.260 your culture and stay somewhere else so you do think you can turn a hoe into a housewife
00:05:13.120 definitely for the time being for sure i like that optimism for for how long a lifetime
00:05:22.180 not lifetime but definitely for uh the first two months
00:05:26.200 so you can turn into a housewife for two months and then her her hoe comes back
00:05:35.660 she's like the streets are gone to the streets
00:05:38.080 okay now you can't turn the hoe into housewife no no no can you turn a hoe into a wife yeah it
00:05:48.420 happens all the time yeah because then if you look at all these rappers they're doing all the
00:05:52.940 time yeah but if you look at rappers as your idol then you're idolizing celebrities we don't look to
00:05:57.700 rappers as as of course but in terms of looking at people who are turning hoes into housewife
00:06:03.540 they're the majority of people who are doing it how long do the um do the marriages last probably
00:06:07.800 not long because if you're looking at kanye west and king kate that didn't last long at all
00:06:11.820 so then these are very bad examples to use very bad examples then she's not a wife yeah she just
00:06:16.620 short term she was a wife she was a wife but she's not a wife that's true maybe it depends on
00:06:22.900 how people interpret the definition of a hoe then because then some people might feel like certain
00:06:27.080 things that women have done in their life that's that's not really a hoe actually yeah let's let's
00:06:31.380 let's ask the men what are you when when does a girl become a hoe
00:06:36.020 a girl becomes a hoe when she has to start lying about how many people she slept with
00:06:42.980 automatically you're a hoe then because for the moment you start lying you're not even being true
00:06:46.740 to yourself um so that's when it starts so the moment you have to start lying to yourself and lying
00:06:51.380 to other people you're a hoe so if she is honest and says 50 she's not a hoe oh no she's still a hoe
00:06:57.660 but she's just a honest hoe we respect the honest ones as well yeah no i'm still not gonna wife her
00:07:05.120 but i respect the honesty so here's the thing um we said before um a woman has the right to choose a
00:07:10.000 woman has um the right to wear what she wants a woman has autonomy and sovereignty of her body
00:07:14.300 a woman can have consensual sex wherever she chooses to be but those are the woman's rights and
00:07:18.680 men have our own rights and doesn't mean we have to take it for that so what we're trying to say is
00:07:23.060 women can do whatever they want we don't judge you personally but us as men have with certain
00:07:27.300 standards and we don't want to be with a woman that slept for example my friend or a friend's
00:07:31.500 friend or something like that men and women see sex differently um a lot of women argue that they
00:07:36.200 don't and they treat it the same but you women still don't mind seeing a guy that sees a lot of
00:07:41.000 other girls where us men we detest that but what what if like um i feel like the reason why i'm i feel
00:07:47.960 like i'm standing for certain women is because what if they're psychological problems what if
00:07:54.040 you are judging somebody from the cover of what you see them as but they actually are somebody that
00:07:59.160 just deserves good love what if it's somebody that is willing to change their colors for you
00:08:03.540 i think that's a feminine point of view because we always try to change men okay but like from the
00:08:08.760 man's point of view it's like once you've lost your purity it's gone but okay so somebody could judge
00:08:13.880 me per se they might look at me and be like okay i don't like the way that she dresses i don't like
00:08:17.760 her point of views but if it was a thing where you sat down and we was to have like a night out
00:08:22.360 just me and you as girls and i told you about my past and the reason why i've done certain things
00:08:26.920 and like i'm ready to like give myself to somebody that i really trust and really love do you not
00:08:31.740 believe i deserve a second chance i mean i think no one deserves anything
00:08:35.260 i think you kind of it's like what do you qualify for and so it's it's if if you you know did certain
00:08:43.640 things in the past like i just think you're eliminated from certain guys but don't worry
00:08:47.620 one in three men are virgins or haven't had sex in the past year there's someone
00:08:50.840 there's always someone i just think there's there's a lot of onus on the men put that we have to accept
00:08:56.600 bad behavior previous stuff we we no one is no one has to allow anyone's previous history that's why
00:09:03.780 if you've ever done a crime in the past before that you know if you go for a job some jobs you can't
00:09:08.080 go for and that's just the way it is so i think a lot of times women want us to to to be counselors
00:09:14.740 and be psychotherapists for their previous trauma which we had no part in and that and that is fine
00:09:20.080 if the guy that wants you is prepared to take that but you shouldn't go into the world thinking that
00:09:25.620 anyone has to be there to to fix any of your what i'm trying to figure out is why men
00:09:30.500 most men always get looked upon like like they're not a hoe why is it different for women than
00:09:38.040 it is for men because men and women are different they are because they are because it's easy for
00:09:42.780 us to get sex the world doesn't like think highly of you if you do what's easy and men getting sex
00:09:48.780 is hard so if they do what's hard it's valued if we do what's easy it's not so for you for example
00:09:55.280 for you um as a lady you're very pretty um attractive thank you um black woman and and on
00:10:01.600 instagram i'm not having seen your instagram but i'm sure if you put on your instagram every single
00:10:05.540 day that um you you was lonely and you wanted some company i'm sure you wouldn't have any problems
00:10:09.960 with people messing in you or if you asked you asked for people to take you out but if one of
00:10:14.060 us did that and said that we wanted sex we would probably have our instagram shut down now the
00:10:18.180 difference with us is okay if if if in order for me to sleep with 100 women um especially quality
00:10:25.860 beautiful women i would have to have some type of value about myself in order for you to sleep with
00:10:30.680 100 men you don't have to do anything but just say it and you can just walk down the road and you
00:10:35.080 would find men that will sleep with you um so that's why well what about men that lie what about
00:10:40.320 men okay for example i'm a pretty girl if i do say i'm lonely on my instagram and somebody does come
00:10:45.340 or approach me in a way where like they're coming across as they're good and then they've lied to me
00:10:50.360 or made me feel like they were gonna do something good in my life and then they turned out that it
00:10:54.980 wasn't that or i ended up giving myself to somebody and now they're like yeah i don't want to do you
00:11:00.000 anymore so now that's added on a number to the previous guys that i've done before and it comes
00:11:04.080 across that i'm a home and realistically that wasn't the situation yeah but it's like how many times are
00:11:07.840 you gonna get bamboozled what like i think most guys like okay so like if i'm a home too they're
00:11:12.580 like all right but like when you're like 20 30 by all of them what if i'm a hopeless romantic no you
00:11:19.140 make you make bad decisions so why does it necessarily have to be bad because you're slept with
00:11:23.280 10 or how many people and nothing's come of it so for me as a man all those 10 previous men you slept
00:11:28.760 with they don't add anything to me they're just men that have used you and now left you for me
00:11:32.540 so what you've been better of you doing is is is vetting those guys better your job as a woman is to vet
00:11:38.280 the bullshit that is not our job you need to mitigate these men that come into your life and say
00:11:42.220 right which one is is he serious is he not serious if you give up the goods every single time a guy
00:11:47.620 takes your number takes you out for something to eat that's up to you because what are the ones that
00:11:51.380 lie though no but this is also up to you because you have to you have to differentiate between the men
00:11:55.720 that lie and the men which don't lie if you cannot um separate the good men from the bad men
00:12:00.280 whose fault is that that's not do you understand sometimes it's kind of hard to tell we're not
00:12:05.320 gonna like sit here and be like i think that's that's bullshit come on that's bullshit you know
00:12:09.520 as a girl as a girl you you know deep down you just you're just trying to sell you you just want
00:12:13.720 to change them i hear you you you know deep down which guys in a room you walk into you know which
00:12:18.260 ones are getting laid you know which ones aren't but they love it anyway but the thing is like
00:12:24.320 we want the guys that get laid we don't want the guys that no one else want not necessarily what if
00:12:28.760 i'm not trying to get laid what if it's a thing where i'm literally trying to know you as a person
00:12:33.020 do you want to date someone that no one else wants to date no girls love the bad boy i kind of do though
00:12:39.440 i don't i don't i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform
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