JustPearlyThings - Simps Fail to Understand this concept

00:00:00.000 do modern women want simps um so um i want to go around what do you guys think a simp is

00:00:09.200 and what is the hardest someone has simped for you

00:00:12.920 so start here and then go around well um

00:00:18.120 um oh i don't know i don't know i can't think i don't know what the heart what the biggest thing

00:00:27.380 someone's done for me um

00:00:30.020 well i always cry i've been i always um my partner always lets like makes me cry like on special

00:00:41.840 occasions you know that just does like things for me like that um just goes out their way for me

00:00:46.940 kind of you know to make me feel special do you feel like that's simping because it seems like

00:00:52.120 it's reciprocated right okay what is a simp to you simp is somebody like you said that puts a

00:00:59.780 woman on a pedestal yeah yeah i don't think that's a bad thing though okay yeah do you like simps

00:01:06.880 i don't like the word simp i wouldn't call him i wouldn't call my partner a simp but um

00:01:12.220 kind of okay okay what are you saying it's a good thing if your partner puts you on a pedestal yeah

00:01:19.700 yeah interesting okay what's the question again what is what is a simp yeah and what is the hardest

00:01:28.720 someone has simped for you what is a simp a guy that he puts a woman on a pedestal for no reason

00:01:35.880 especially for no reason even if it's like the girl is not even his girl it's just a girl but he

00:01:43.060 puts her on a pedestal from day one from the from the beginning like some guys they operate like that

00:01:48.680 like you know i'm saying they just look at women as in general as like oh your goddesses queens when

00:01:53.540 really and truly she's she's a human being she eats poos does everything that we do like do you get 0.91

00:01:59.500 i'm saying so there's that um simping for me like uh i think it's just like normal stuff like um because

00:02:06.400 obviously as a guy it's different girls don't really tend to simp for guys really like you know

00:02:10.700 what i mean um usually um when a woman is simp for me it's usually like just spending money on me 1.00

00:02:17.500 when not needing to like oh do you want me to buy do you want to do that or like you know just

00:02:22.420 going out of their way like for instance i had one girl that you know she would always call me oh do

00:02:28.040 you need me to drive you here do you need me to drive you there do you get what i'm saying and

00:02:31.200 it's like bruv i'm not even i'm just chilling like you get me it's calm in it cool down but

00:02:35.480 i appreciate it though yeah i was gonna say did you like that or no i i kind of did but at the

00:02:40.940 same time because i didn't like her that much it kind of became annoying so i kind of see it from a

00:02:45.180 girl's point of view when a guy's simping for a girl when the girl don't really like him you're just

00:02:50.360 wasting your time because that's not going to make the girl like you it's just going to make the girl 1.00

00:02:53.480 use you that's all that's going to happen in it you know what i'm saying so that that's my that's my

00:02:58.160 take on that have you ever simped for a girl like do you know what yeah honestly let me bring

00:03:04.200 them yes and no yes and no i'm about to speak what's wrong with this girl listen yeah at the

00:03:09.840 end of the day all guys have simped in it all guys i remember back in the day back in the days though

00:03:15.260 like how old not no recent team how old like 13 that's our farm yeah so you're you're you're very

00:03:22.540 removed yeah oh yeah that's when you just disney you know aladdin all them kind of things you're

00:03:27.600 grown i just wanna i just want a nice girl to go picnics with yeah all of them yeah so boom now i

00:03:33.400 remember one girl like i just bought a phone case like i just bought a phone case i was just

00:03:38.140 thinking i was walking and i saw phone because i thought rah she would like that you know and i 0.51

00:03:43.080 just bought it for her and them times i didn't have no peas do you know what i'm saying i have no money

00:03:46.960 so i just bought it and then boom like that was it like you know what i mean but apart from that

00:03:51.460 like not like not really you know you know you know i'm saying not really still

00:03:55.760 okay just um a symptom to me is someone who uh essentially does something like goes out of their

00:04:08.300 way for someone that isn't one deserving of it or two isn't doing anything so if you just

00:04:15.820 sitting on the couch not do anything and your man's like oh i'll do this for you i'll do that

00:04:20.640 for you you just have to sit there do nothing probably freedom i'll do everything for you it's

00:04:24.420 just like huh i don't i don't i think that's a simp but have i ever had anyone simp for me no

00:04:31.860 never not that i can think of no no no no one that she registers no yeah no i'm being serious

00:04:40.700 no no one no no one in the friend zone no okay all right okay what are you sasha um it's kind of

00:04:51.260 like similar to what all of y'all like what have y'all said so like a person a simp is a person who does

00:04:58.340 for another person but like they're not dating they're not talking you're not married whatever

00:05:04.280 um they and they like the person could treat them like crap but they still do things for them

00:05:09.480 they'll do what they'll do whatever they want for them but um as of i don't think i've ever been a

00:05:15.620 simp and i don't think anyone's ever simped over me unless you count like one time somebody paid for

00:05:22.680 my nails but i didn't i don't know who he was like i just met him yeah that's the same

00:05:28.300 and then that's the most though yeah yeah pretty much like everybody was saying when they're a bit

00:05:37.180 over the top and um in in terms of their gestures or like over complimenting a bit too much and things

00:05:44.340 like that and usually it's about superficial things um like looks and stuff and um like they're not

00:05:49.900 romantically involved they're just you know complimenting and i don't know want to do

00:05:53.860 justice for you um i i have probably simped for somebody a long time ago um but i've had somebody

00:06:04.220 simp for me i hate even saying that but um i don't want to say it's i don't want to embarrass him

00:06:09.160 what if he's watching okay out of respect i don't know but it was um yeah like i i felt because i

00:06:15.200 didn't find him attractive and stuff i was just like okay stop you know i i have respect for you

00:06:19.420 and i want you to maintain your dignity system yeah that's pretty much it that's like the worst

00:06:26.940 way to be let down yeah even though because you're so nice about it but it's like someone said i want

00:06:33.560 you to stop to remit so you can maintain your dignity you know you know it was it was so bad

00:06:39.440 because i didn't want to like hurt his feelings that i was like maybe should i just go out i was like

00:06:44.420 no no can i ask you a question can i ask you two questions what did he do that was like the major

00:06:51.500 thing that was simping and the second question why didn't you find him attractive uh okay i i didn't

00:06:58.940 find him attractive because um uh i me as a person when i'm like interested in a man it's not about his

00:07:05.660 job it's it's more of like the hobbies like are you he didn't he wasn't interested in anything he

00:07:11.360 was interested in you though yeah oh okay yeah but shouldn't that have been important that that's

00:07:18.820 really what's important yeah but i'm not a hobby like come on it just and then um i remember when he

00:07:24.120 um when i asked him like do you have like come on you must have something right because that's like

00:07:28.860 attractive like he always has another yeah you know he's more to his life and everything like that

00:07:32.620 and then um he said oh no um when i when i get with you my life will start and i was like wow and i

00:07:38.360 kind of wow yeah so uh mad still yeah but i did help him though i was like hey you seem like you're

00:07:45.600 interested in this why don't you go and then i kind of just was you was you distracted him was you

00:07:50.020 physically attracted to him um i mean he wasn't terrible but because it's more like the character

00:07:57.420 thing because because a guy can be average but when he has a character he's just like wow

00:08:01.240 um and i yeah so you did find him attractive no i i didn't he didn't because he was missing that

00:08:07.980 element no okay no that's yeah anyway no because there can there can be there can be some good

00:08:14.320 looking guys but if they're just like yeah and personality you're like so it's a waste of looks

00:08:20.700 yeah so was it his personality or his hobbies that turned you off no but his personality and

00:08:27.700 it's like his lack of hobbies it's because of his personality it's like kind of just like oh

00:08:32.080 okay that makes sense yeah i mean what what good is looks i mean you can have good looking children

00:08:38.960 right who have no hobbies no the kids will have hobbies just the guy won't yeah yeah but that's

00:08:45.480 their dad yeah don't matter he wants to marry as long as he makes money that's all it doesn't matter 0.81

00:08:49.440 no he needs character sounds like he was boring all right let me ask you basically let me ask you

00:08:55.560 another question yeah so your ex-boyfriend the guy that you did get in a relationship with what was

00:09:00.140 his hobbies i don't have an ex-boyfriend oh okay fair enough oh okay yeah fair enough um i think i

00:09:07.500 thought you said you simped for someone earlier oh yeah yeah but i wasn't like oh it was a boyfriend

00:09:12.600 yeah yeah i don't want to get into that i was really young okay yeah um okay so um since we're

00:09:23.100 on the topic of simps in the manosphere there are two simps but i'm going to focus on the first one

00:09:29.220 there is the king of simps they call him and i personally didn't know who he was but i found out

00:09:37.020 about him his name is derrick jackson okay oh derrick um i want to know what you guys know of

00:09:43.360 derrick jackson and what what is your opinion on him i just know he tries to be the motivation of

00:09:54.200 like helping women and giving them advice and doing this and doing that but he ended up cheating on his

00:10:00.980 wife and then exposed it to the world yeah and she was on the side just looking stupid too so i mean 1.00

00:10:10.300 that's the most i haven't seen all his videos but i've seen a few but that was i think that was enough

00:10:14.720 i used to i used to watch a lot of his videos because he would be on instagram and i'd be like oh some

00:10:20.600 of the stuff that he's saying it sounds good so i followed him and seeing like where when he did cheat

00:10:28.040 on his wife is like you think back to his videos and it's just like sir when you were in that car

00:10:33.840 were you leaving or were you going are you you were telling on yourself the whole time you're like

00:10:38.480 man if you don't like your wife if she looks like this she looks like that you need to do this if you 1.00

00:10:43.780 don't like being with her how are you going to cheat on them and then go back to them it's just like

00:10:48.020 but you did it how are you going to tell the people not to do it and you did it can i know i was just

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JustPearlyThings - March 24, 2023

Simps Fail to Understand this concept

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