JustPearlyThings - Single Women Get PISSED with Men for Labelling Them as Whores

00:00:00.000 So today's topic, drumroll, I don't know how, okay, I'm scared now, I know the anticipation, women can't be hoes forever, oh yeah, I mean, okay, okay, so question for the women, and remember you don't have to answer if you don't want to, have you ever had a hoe phase, and how long did it last, I don't think I'm out, no I'm joking, 1.00

00:00:30.000 well I can't really answer that question, I've been with my husband for nine years, where is your husband, gangster, we got married on our nine year anniversary, so I mean I was 15 when I met him, we started dating at 16, yeah, and they've kind of been together ever since, can we get a round of applause for that, like I think we can get a round of applause for that, 0.72

00:01:00.000 for sure, appreciate it, appreciate it, I mean, could you not have it together, pardon, could you not have heard it together, I don't like Sharon, I'm not a fan of Sharon, and I know that she's the same, so to be fair, we thought we'd keep it simpler, and just be us two, and just fucking do it,

00:01:16.000 that's cute, that's cute, that's cute, that's cute, what about you guys, ever had a hoe phase, 0.97

00:01:23.280 um, I attempted to, and then I realised it's just not for me, um, yeah, that's pretty much it, I don't want to share anymore,

00:01:32.320 can I ask how long it lasted, because it sounds like not that long, um, it lasted for about two months, but I feel like it's not for the week,

00:01:42.160 no, yeah, like, I've attempted to before, but I just, I think I fall in love too easily with people,

00:01:49.800 and also I don't like that feeling of like being used, or like someone's only, like, interested in you sexually,

00:01:56.160 I think that's so, like, ill, so, hold on, are you, are you the sugar baby, yeah, I mean, I mean, it's good,

00:02:04.800 it's good for money, but, but isn't that like multiple people, yeah, but it's more online, the way I do it,

00:02:10.720 oh, okay, so no physical, yeah, like, usually they're from America, and they're just real desperate to talk to, 0.86

00:02:15.760 like, a girl, and, yeah, it's like Andrew Tate's, like, girls type stuff, yeah, like, where they would just,

00:02:21.360 like, talk to each other, yeah, literally, like, giving them false hope, giving them false promises,

00:02:24.720 oh, so you're manipulating people to take that money, is that what you're saying, online?

00:02:30.400 no, like, I'm just,

00:02:31.520 she's capitalizing on your company,

00:02:33.520 absolutely, that's exactly what it is,

00:02:36.960 I'ma take your side on this one, like, there is a group of,

00:02:39.520 exactly, no, no, no, no, I hate, 0.77

00:02:41.520 you said peace, I was just asking the question,

00:02:44.000 okay, yeah, I would never, I would never do it with someone I genuinely like, like,

00:02:47.920 money's not something that impresses me, but if someone's going to give it to me,

00:02:51.440 I know someone that I worked with that's now stopped working and she's she does

00:03:02.900 she's like a dominatrix and she she does like pay picks something yeah that's 1.00

00:03:08.900 literally I mean I've never been there to actually know you literally just call 0.97

00:03:16.920 them pathetic put them down and it gets them all they actually asked they actually 0.82

00:03:33.520 ask her to record them as they withdraw money from their ATM yeah and and she'll 0.99

00:03:39.900 be like good boy those are the men that do exist hiding in the closet I'm just

00:03:44.300 saying so you try to hope a short period of time yeah I mean I did it like I did

00:03:55.280 like my one little hook-up or afar and I was just like it wasn't even like

00:03:59.600 anything deep I literally yeah like a little touch and I just didn't like that

00:04:04.760 feeling of being used and I didn't like I wasn't getting money in return so yeah

00:04:09.980 what would you if you were getting money in return I mean I don't mind being I

00:04:19.040 can't do for money that's what you just said if it was touching then it would

00:04:24.440 have been okay so that isn't just I can do that is I got change of money I guess

00:04:29.060 I wouldn't have sex for money but I definitely I don't know someone was like

00:04:34.520 kind of touch up give you a mess I've been paid for a massage before I think

00:04:39.140 most girls in London know how to be eye candy especially if you like Mayfair 1.00

00:04:43.460 clubs I mean I used to be a promoter when I was like 18 19 and as much as I

00:04:48.200 felt bad for saying to the girls like you know you're a bit you know you're not

00:04:53.360 gonna get in or she's your friends gonna have to pay at the same time it's like

00:04:58.220 you kind of understand that you have all these footballers and all these

00:05:01.820 celebrities and rich business people paying 10 15 grand for a table why does

00:05:07.220 their club differ from anyone else in Camden where you can just walk in and

00:05:11.420 not pay that much so you have to differ somehow and it's you have to accept

00:05:14.820 your eye candy at that point because you're going in for free you're drinking for

00:05:17.900 free but is that a ho phase that would be an eye candy isn't a ho phase yeah not

00:05:21.500 really when I was younger I'm still young so wait pull your mic closer I'm just

00:05:28.760 just yeah go ahead I know you guys are sharing so it's a little hard and when I

00:05:32.200 was younger would I have called it a ho phase no was I open to exploring and did 1.00

00:05:38.900 I date yes and so I guess other people may have seen that as a ho phase but I

00:05:44.360 didn't see it as a ho phase I was exploring and also when you go to buy a 0.99

00:05:47.400 car you try out all the cars first you don't just pick the first car but except in

00:05:51.260 this I'm a Gemini so I ain't never gonna pick the first car I need to try I mean I just I'm not

00:06:06.380 very good at choosing one thing straight away and sticking to that one thing in

00:06:10.340 that moment and just being like okay I'll have that kind of pop and that's even if

00:06:13.700 I go into the shop to buy a packet of crisps it takes me a minute so how long

00:06:17.260 did the kind of ho phase it sounds like you're not you're hesitant to call it a

00:06:21.940 ho phase but yeah because I don't like to label why should we label it a ho I mean 0.99

00:06:26.220 that's what it is kind of why to describe it I think everyone has a ho phase yeah yeah well 0.90

00:06:31.180 yeah um how long did it last um hmm well I was in a nine-year relationship with my

00:06:38.020 son's dad so it stopped then and then it started again and then it stopped and it

00:06:42.220 started again I think in between relationships like where I've been like

00:06:46.060 like total how much time would you say a year total maybe like two three months

00:06:50.500 between yeah I'm saying yeah we'll go with that two years yeah we'll go with that okay

00:06:55.120 yeah

00:06:56.620 we'll go with that whatever you want no we'll go with a year

00:07:01.360 I'm just asking the question we'll go with a year in total in the 35 years I've been on this earth

00:07:07.180 yeah okay okay Danelva what about you I haven't had a ho phase I've been mostly in relationships

00:07:14.320 almost back to back I have experienced but no I've never been a ho but that's the same as not 1.00

00:07:21.520 labeling it as like you experienced I experienced I said what I said I said what I said it was being

00:07:28.600 like in total I've been in relationships for about ten years and I've only been single for just a year

00:07:36.700 that's crazy do you know I think P I think that if you are not this lady right here with a ring on 1.00

00:07:47.020 her finger you're stuck in the whole face forever and until you get a ring wait wait wait wait when

00:07:52.600 you say ho face can I just I'm so sorry to do this but when you say ho face are we talking sleeping with 0.96

00:07:58.600 men or we say it doesn't matter even though I was young I was 15 I was seeing loads of guys at the

00:08:06.200 same time I mean I didn't do anything with him I didn't even hold hands with them yeah but I was

00:08:10.220 continuously talking to loads of guys this is what I'm saying but the thing with me was it was from a

00:08:15.280 young age even like when I was seven my first boyfriend I broke up with him because he had bad grades

00:08:20.180 and I went out to his best friend but like to cut to go back to like no point is that the whole phase

00:08:27.020 exists that's your like as a single woman that is your mission to get out of that area in my eyes 1.00

00:08:33.080 because if you're single you can access the whole phase anytime you like like women have the power to 1.00

00:08:39.680 be at home minding a business and they can just pull out their Rolodex and call somebody and they know

00:08:45.340 somebody's gonna show up like that's the same thing as you saying that every man has the capability to

00:09:00.940 kill therefore every man is a murderer that's so yeah but you know what Jordan Peterson says the

00:09:05.200 same thing a dangerous man is a good man a weak man isn't a good man you want a man to be able to 0.93

00:09:10.820 be dangerous but control it that's what makes a great man that's why a woman is not a hoe because 1.00

00:09:16.260 when she is controlling it she's not a hoe she still has she's a wife when she's controlling it 1.00

00:09:20.480 Denalva wouldn't you say that if a woman's acting like a hoe she's a hoe yeah but just because you're 1.00

00:09:25.020 single doesn't mean you're a hoe I didn't say that no what he said as long as you're single you're stuck in a 1.00

00:09:32.660 whole phase now what he was saying is is every woman as we know we all have options we all have

00:09:37.820 options right so what he's saying is that any given time I have the option to be like you know 0.96

00:09:43.580 what I want to fuck so I'm gonna press this thing and power ranger man is gonna come through that's 0.94

00:09:48.620 what he was saying so in his mind it's like if you're single you have the potential to be in that 0.99

00:09:54.220 whole phase yeah everybody has okay I think I understand you're so you're basically saying like

00:09:59.840 you might as well be a hoe because you have the option to and you're never gonna know yeah and that's 0.99

00:10:03.380 up to you and women have that freedom because we as like I said we as men we would never ever know

00:10:07.700 wait wait can I just jump in yeah go on would you say that is the option or the power to because those

00:10:12.380 are two very different things I mean well she she has the option to exert that power true you know 0.98

00:10:18.680 the reason I say I put the spin on it is just because I feel like if you're gonna go down that

00:10:24.020 whole path and that's very different than just having the option to kind of dip your toe in every

00:10:29.000 once and all yeah you got the option not like either one is good or yeah I hear what you're

00:10:33.080 saying but then it falls into that like language where it would fall under dating oh I'm dating

00:10:37.880 again now on our first yeah do you see what I'm saying so it depends on the intention and where

00:10:42.020 you're doing it from but that's why I ask but that's why I ask what we mean by hofes because if we

00:10:46.460 mean by hofes that someone's sleeping around because if you're going on a date and then on the second

00:10:50.480 date you're sleeping with someone I would say that's a hofes but if you're going on a date and you're like 1.00

00:10:56.240 actually on a second one you know I don't feel that I'm gonna go on the next day and the next

00:11:01.580 day in the next day I don't know so I have a question for the girls did anyone feel like they

00:11:10.160 got anything out of the hofes like a positive experience anyone money for it what I did get

00:11:23.600 out of it was understanding myself and what I did want and what I didn't want from like because

00:11:29.660 if there's one thing being in a long-term relationship I've been in long-term relationships

00:11:32.900 like my son's dad nine years my last relationship to three years I got a lot from them but what you

00:11:38.240 get out of it like quite quickly is like your ics your dislikes your okay I'm not gonna do that I

00:11:44.540 don't actually like that type of guy or I don't I maybe don't vibe with this type of person so I got

00:11:49.400 a lot from that do you think that hofes is make women more picky yeah 100% because then you can go 1.00

00:11:58.580 through men quite quickly and be like yeah I don't want to make hofes is make women less attached yes 0.93

00:12:07.220 yeah I don't have a yes or 1 million percent so I don't know about that actually actually I was on

00:12:13.640 on my hand here I was speaking to one of my best friends and she's slept with a few guys and she's 1.00

00:12:20.180 in a relationship but she and I and I kind of speak to her about you know like she we have a mutual

00:12:26.420 understanding of we don't kind of you don't judge her for being a ho okay she hasn't slept with many 0.76

00:12:37.520 guys like it's still under 10 like way less under 10 but it's not one like me do you know I mean so

00:12:45.020 for her and I said to her that's a flex I speak to her about like power bonding and stuff like that

00:12:54.560 and she she said you know we have a very under very respectful relationship where we allow each other

00:13:01.820 to fulfill our points and she'll just say you know what even though I'm in the relationship you because 0.91

00:13:07.400 I've slept with more guys I love my boyfriend but I can imagine not being with him I can you know imagine

00:13:14.180 you know if me and him break up if we divorce I'm going into deep-rooted depression I'm losing

00:13:26.600 my job I'm moving back in my parents I can't imagine but because I don't I'm not looking I

00:13:33.200 don't I can't even comprehend do you think that's healthy though to be that attached that bonded to

00:13:38.120 somebody that you don't like your end of your you being an individual being on this planet on this

00:13:44.720 earth yeah it's so rooted in somebody else's existence that if they died or even if they died

00:13:49.940 sorry whenever when I be extreme there if you went if you weren't together anymore that you would

00:13:54.740 then lose yourself I mean I have a dog that we have a dog that's five years old and I know she's

00:14:10.580 gonna die in ten years and I will literally cry every day knowing that she's gonna die before me

00:14:14.660 but with him it's completely different and it's like yeah I can understand how some people can see

00:14:19.580 that as like a insecurity or like like some people may see as an insecurity or codependence and stuff

00:14:28.700 like that but I I think we I can I hope I can speak for that we choose to live our life together as

00:14:38.540 individuals we are very very different people and I think we we you know we we choose to live together

00:14:48.080 but can I ask you cannot do you think yeah that you the reason why you feel that way is because

00:14:55.040 you come from a different world because you did say you came when you was a teen you see your friend

00:14:59.840 that you're talking about was she born here yeah yeah she's she's English yeah and this is why men

00:15:05.060 are going to the east and finding wives I always hear yeah actually all the dating coaches say to go to

00:15:11.780 yeah it's not it's not it's not to buy a bride it's just like they have more feminine traditional 0.91

00:15:26.240 women that tend to be in shape and pretty apparently I've never been to Poland yeah I mean I grew up going 0.97

00:15:31.820 to school and you know woman would be walking to school in high heels makeup ready yeah like I've 0.80

00:15:38.840 been to Germany um which it's not Poland but yeah but it's like compared to America and even here the

00:15:46.280 girls are like 10 times prettier like I was in I went to a wedding I was like oh my god like they 1.00

00:15:51.860 would blow everyone here out of the water does makeup and heels high heels define femininity no no 1.00

00:15:57.380 I'm not naturally I'm just saying there is there is a standard that they want to keep up they will

00:16:01.940 always want to represent their men it's not it's not it's a sense of vanity the same way there are

00:16:06.440 Latin women dressed in a certain way and they have a certain standard of beauty and I do understand

00:16:11.900 actually when you look to certain extremities of the world you do see femininity in more in like

00:16:17.520 higher levels it's good for some people it's not good for some people do you understand what I mean

00:16:21.440 because actually when we look at these countries that have this sort of thing realistically economically

00:16:26.000 they are suffering in different ways which means that we need to look at the society we have

00:16:29.480 issues here but there's also a certain way that we work that helps us actually survive there's

00:16:35.180 corruption that's why things are kind of messed up still but I say bring shame back I say that all

00:16:42.240 the time really you know these are not one of the reasons why men kill themselves because

00:16:46.460 it's terrible I think what's going on with the in the world now and everybody's acting concerned is

00:17:13.160 that they don't understand everybody's suffering mentally this is not about bringing shame it's

00:17:17.000 about no everybody needs to be strong you don't need shame to be strong you absolutely do need

00:17:28.880 shame to be strong you do because it's like if your mom yells at you you learn not to do something like

00:17:34.700 okay I'll give you an example I was overweight and then you know what made me lose weight the guys at

00:17:38.720 work we're saying like oh I would never date a girl over 200 pounds and I just hit to like 205 or

00:17:44.600 something because I was like oh no I can't I can't be that it's like that the shame helped me but it's

00:17:59.680 like you can either be a weak person and let shame break you or you can be a strong person and let it

00:18:04.240 motivate you okay let me give you an alternative that is one of them you can shame somebody but you could

00:18:08.520 also say do you know what you could be so much more beautiful if you're healthier you know try

00:18:13.560 something like that no but there's money if that works then America wouldn't have a I can't say

00:18:22.080 that word anymore an obesity issue because people genuinely mean like the body positivity that's huge

00:18:32.220 in America we're huge it's not much better here you guys are much less obese nope no that's what

00:18:37.980 I'm saying do you know why we're not why people here are more obese actually is because they're not

00:18:42.020 taught how to be better to themselves for example I'm Portuguese I know listen my diet listen the diet

00:18:48.640 the the things that people are miseducated all the time the food here is disgusting I'm not gonna lie

00:18:52.820 I come from Portugal I know the difference between the population and the population here it's all 1.00

00:18:56.820 because of miseducation we are not taught to tell people to have the tools to independently grow

00:19:01.480 that's it that's an excuse it's not like Jamie in 2022 there is no excuse you have access to the

00:19:11.040 internet yeah I could type in a YouTube video and get the world's best nutritionist giving me a video

00:19:15.580 on nutrition for free and it's pretty much common sense fruits vegetables common sense is not common

00:19:20.860 but at the same time if you've been programmed from deep like reprogramming your brain to eat a

00:19:27.040 different way it is hard work so as a lazy society we're all lazy that's why we like to watch quick

00:19:33.220 gratification is a thing it's easy to press I come from a country of pork and potatoes and yet all the 0.98

00:19:43.300 fucking one at a time one at a time we're not we're not doing the over talking then go ahead 0.98

00:19:58.120 good my family everyone in my family is absolutely massive and I mean I look at a packet of crisps and 0.99

00:20:04.900 I put on like five kilos like my metabolism but I make conscious decisions and I mean I reckon if I

00:20:10.960 lived in Poland I'd probably be stick thin I probably would it wouldn't you know be going to the gym and 0.99

00:20:15.640 trying to grow my legs and so forth I'd be trying to be as skinny as possible but you know I chose

00:20:21.280 a partner that's in the gym industry and he teaches me certain things other things I'll google myself

00:20:26.980 because he can't teach me about you know woman's nutrition it's it's all about accountability and 1.00

00:20:32.500 making your own choices and when I said earlier just coming back to my point because I never finished

00:20:37.960 it I think there's a difference between shame and bullying I think it's different when you point 0.98

00:20:42.600 out to people oh you should be doing this because you're fat you're ugly you're I don't think we need 0.89

00:20:48.040 that as a society I just think that yourself you should be able to look at yourself and see and be 0.99

00:20:55.060 realistic and you know I mean in this country people go to freaking asda in slippers and pajamas and

00:21:00.580 then get back into their own bed in those clothes I mean I put even that is it's not right for me

00:21:06.760 like do you want to put your best foot forward no matter where you go no I definitely think the

00:21:11.080 world needs like bullying and a little bit people being offended because if you ask anyone that's

00:21:17.200 actually successful they'll tell you the reason for their successes is their most negative parts

00:21:21.500 of their life winning doesn't teach anybody anything when you lose it motivates you to win

00:21:27.340 like now in school they're doing like no first second third place in school you know school sports days

00:21:33.920 you're not teaching children to win like the guy who's the fastest doesn't feel special now because

00:21:39.860 the guy who's the slowest got the same medal as him you should know that he's the slowest so there's

00:21:44.660 a gap like now everything's kind of all blurred lines there's no definitive kind of clear winner and

00:21:50.360 everybody wants to be the winner but they don't actually have the ability or the skills to be the

00:21:54.840 winner so it's like you need somebody to come and ruffle feathers a little bit in the military that's what

00:21:59.920 they do they break you down as a military for six years and they break literally they break you 0.99

00:22:04.340 down they like throw your bed mattress out the window your shit this is to make you the best that 0.99

00:22:10.480 you can possibly be so I I agree with it on some sides of things but at the same time there's a line 0.99

00:22:17.300 I'd also like to add it always always seems like this aversion to negative um feedback is always kind

00:22:24.660 of it's always behind a goal to make people less competitive I've never heard someone say oh we

00:22:31.480 shouldn't be negative because it will make you better it's always kind of like to placate at best

00:22:36.060 I've never heard anyone you know coaching someone or trying to reach for excellence say actually let's

00:22:41.220 not let's not tell you what bad about yourself because you might stop working hard and I just

00:22:44.840 think that's quite interesting that at best you're trying to placate I think that's a really interesting

00:22:49.500 point especially in between females we're always told don't compare yourself don't ever look at

00:22:55.300 another woman I mean I personally think like how do you know if you're doing good or not if you're

00:22:59.300 not comparing yourself I mean my mom never compared me to other people but it was like well you know um

00:23:05.940 you got an A and she got an A star well it's like if you don't compare the world will for you

00:23:11.900 yeah the world isn't blind you set standards like you you know and I always say like you know when you

00:23:17.380 walk into a room with your friends you know who your prettiest friend is but can I ask you a

00:23:22.540 question though pretty girls always know it's them and I'll have these conversations like there's a 0.98

00:23:29.280 girl I'm thinking of on my team I was explaining this dirt she was like what are beauty standards 1.00

00:23:32.940 blah blah blah and I'm just like okay are you prettier than so-and-so and then she starts laughing

00:23:37.800 and then I'm like okay why are you laughing because you know you are I wouldn't say that there's an issue

00:23:45.440 with comparing it's good to compare so you can benchmark I think there's a problem with shaming

00:23:49.660 for sure because even when you look at sports the best the best like the champions are the ones like

00:23:54.940 who's the best who's the best who's gonna get this because you need no because what we need is

00:23:59.540 encouragement when you're a kid and you're growing up actually when your parents encourage you is when

00:24:03.660 you do the best because you want to when you want to be better you want because it's positive

00:24:07.640 positive reinforcement is actually way more powerful than negative reinforcement and that's it

00:24:12.840 and this is the thing we start to act like adults are not just children in big bodies we all have

00:24:17.660 our inner child that actually the more you keep giving negativity the more we're gonna go into

00:24:21.420 ourselves and be depressed it's about reconstructing us I think the best teachers are the ones that 0.99

00:24:26.840 didn't put up with shit like there's a teacher I had in seventh grade who I swear I got she made my 0.99

00:24:31.560 life a living hell but I could still tell you how to diagram an English sentence better than anyone 0.99

00:24:36.040 there's there's high standards and that's shame but did you when you did something well even though

00:24:41.860 like if you weren't if you weren't listening or you weren't doing something you were meant to do she

00:24:45.440 would be strict but then when you did something well did she praise you or did she tell you did she

00:24:50.900 just ignore the fact that you were I mean because then we don't praise because then when you look

00:24:56.260 she was kind of a was it like validation like my son like when he like he's so you know yeah she

00:25:02.500 knew how to make you chase her value exactly and that's exactly what it is it's like I give you

00:25:06.900 but there's barely any you drip feed the validation isn't it that's kind of weird though like you're

00:25:12.560 trying to you're trying to manipulate them into being great yeah to chase positive kind of validation so

00:25:17.680 I have some I have some strict teachers I used to live right next to my high school and I have a

00:25:23.980 problem I used to have a problem with punctuality so I was two minutes away from my school but I'd

00:25:29.820 always be about 30 seconds late all right or like 10 seconds like I was never on time I was always

00:25:34.660 lost in and she would give me detention if even if I was like five seconds late and this happened 0.94

00:25:39.240 for weeks and I had detention after detention I was like yo I'm literally you just closed the door

00:25:44.000 I put my hand you crushed my hand I'm here on time and she would be like no but when I was on time

00:25:51.460 she didn't congratulate me a cuz you know I was a masculine dude I don't give I don't care what

00:25:55.360 you think and B I think is because she understood that it's not exceptional to do what you're supposed

00:26:00.220 to do and I think that's that that should be the mentality of that you should you should coach kids

00:26:04.360 to be fit for society not to chase validation or oh you know if I tell you something good they're

00:26:09.920 gonna work harder I don't think most people work like that but doing a basic I agree don't give

00:26:15.160 over don't over praise somebody for a basic but if you achieve have an actual achievement just say

00:26:21.780 you won an award would we all clap but wait no one's ever clapped for me when I know you don't

00:26:27.100 have us around you then do you because we would clap you know what an award is for exceptional yeah

00:26:33.660 but that's what we're that's what we're striving for now yeah I mean you would think but I think now

00:26:38.740 we give awards for being average you ask like if I go on the street rate yourself one to ten with

00:26:45.940 what like a lot of women when I go on the street I'm a 10 and I'm a 10 oh so you look the same as 1.00

00:26:55.900 Rihanna and their face goes right and I'm they just freeze and they're like yeah remember one to

00:27:01.060 ten I get called Rihanna all the time if I had her money maybe so that means you're adjustable seven

00:27:10.240 then I said humble eight point five that's humble eight point five it's hard to be humble over seven

00:27:18.220 baby I know I'm working with just own it the novel you know I just say I'm an eight point five a

00:27:24.760 humble eight point five when you say eight point five do you say just because of your looks or the

00:27:32.800 whole package the whole package as you know I'll say probably looks at whole package nine whole package

00:27:39.340 nine and and if you were to just say looks 8.5 okay if I think you think you're in the top 15 percent of

00:27:50.680 beauty why aren't you in Hollywood where are your modeling contracts my modeling contracts are not

00:27:55.660 there because I'm not trying to be a model they find you no but I don't want to find people in the

00:28:00.580 small village people listen ask me what people are finding me for are you gonna pose on the spot now

00:28:07.720 she's a model well yeah like I've literally um like just going from posting on Instagram and stuff

00:28:14.140 um I like have been offered to work for Bottega and Puma and like collaborations with like Dua Lipa just

00:28:22.300 from like posting on Instagram like they do they have just found me naturally but also like when I've

00:28:28.660 applied I always get like replies I sound so fucking big-headed but like I do I like I applied for

00:28:37.140 Wilhelmina like yesterday and like this is like one of the biggest modeling like things in the world 0.94

00:28:43.420 I do feel big-headed now like they replied bar it's results so basically you're prettier than me

00:28:49.060 because you're model and I'm not wow no I don't think that I think beauty is very new I'm saying

00:28:53.820 the base on I'm saying results mean something but they don't I'm saying I do I do agree with you 0.99

00:29:05.380 because beauty is so subjective like one person might look at me and and be like fuck like you're 0.92

00:29:11.140 so fucking sexy but then one person will be like no I think no matter what I think there is certain 0.99

00:29:16.780 things um you can look at someone even if they're different no matter what race they are no matter 0.98

00:29:22.540 what um what texture their hair is no matter um you know how they behave their confidence you can look

00:29:30.400 at a person even like someone like you and I I mean we differ so much and someone will say okay

00:29:35.860 she's better looking than this person right because it's subjective no I think like yeah because you

00:29:42.640 gotta remember there's a general consensus for beauty that's been going on for a hundred years

00:29:47.320 no no I think you can just look at someone and say she's about symmetry people that like prefer obese

00:29:53.080 people for example there are certain men that being good looking and being a model or to like

00:29:58.960 being a model you have to have a certain standard because they they're gonna put you as a face of

00:30:03.580 their brand yeah and being pretty is another thing like yeah I'm pretty you need a symmetrical face

00:30:08.500 like girls just symmetry that's what I'm saying like people that are model level pretty get model

00:30:14.140 level results yeah I've never posted an Instagram photo and had a modeling agency reach out to me but

00:30:20.080 I don't think it's crazy like top 15% of beauty that's a lot that's really really high basing

00:30:25.240 beauty on symmetry is very dangerous because beauty does not actually just no that's the standards

00:30:30.820 based on what people are trying to tell you wait wait wait to know that it's not it's not just

00:30:36.340 there look and you could even do like dating app data like you know behind the scenes if you're a

00:30:41.500 ever dating app it ranks you one to ten yeah yeah so like behind the scenes like you have a rating and

00:30:46.660 and and and

00:31:11.320 and and it's what are your matches look like that's your rating what they look

00:31:22.420 like yeah yeah because that's a baby so so like top top five percent or two

00:31:27.640 percent of guys get get top ten percent a girl or something like that or top 20

00:31:31.640 percent of girls whatever it is so they have to filter at all and so filter when 1.00

00:31:37.520 we get them all I just think it'd be very different to a specifically woman rate

00:31:46.220 themselves oh yeah yeah I mean I mean we're told from a young age we're special

00:31:51.560 your princesses I don't understand why women don't understand I don't understand 1.00

00:31:57.500 why women don't realize that men control the rating the same way you guys control 0.97

00:32:03.000 rating for us we control the rating for you and you know always trying to pick

00:32:08.100 your own rating and we just be sitting there thinking what is going on like you 0.98

00:32:13.320 don't write us oh he's five foot he ain't got no money he broke he a broke nigga 1.00

00:32:16.500 that's that next to me rated shame oh no he smells you don't smell nice you don't 0.89

00:32:22.200 make it ratings these are all ratings yeah we don't even give you that much ratings 0.99

00:32:26.340 man her face on all that but she got a fat ass cool like mana cool we're nice 1.00

00:32:30.760 with you like we actually quite easy the second we start going in you don't 0.99

00:32:33.700 have standards how can you raise my mouth because the second I go into

00:32:39.580 standards you lot lose your mind but who do you think you are what do you bring 0.96

00:32:44.200 to the table I'm like yo I just wanted my my breakfast made in the morning I

00:32:48.040 want you to say good morning to me it's been nice sorry I said do you get

00:32:52.880 breakfast just another ball man when you when you go into like standards and very

00:33:01.820 firm objective kind of levels I know it's a lot of a lot of women I know go into 1.00

00:33:06.560 this whole like post-modern like but what is beauty everyone's kind of

00:33:10.760 beautiful is that the lines start getting blurred in it I want to play oh I want to

00:33:15.560 play a game so so instead of hmm one decide who does anyone here thin skin

00:33:23.660 everyone with thick skin here okay okay so I want everyone all right first to 1.00

00:33:34.640 start rate yourself one to ten looks wise yeah looks wise just looks eight eight

00:33:40.640 okay yeah I'd say eight six six six six eight point five nine is a whole package

00:33:48.620 okay what do you rate yourself this I usually say five baby okay anyways anyways I mean I'm

00:33:55.460 humble you trying motivation coach coming up now I want the guys to rate the

00:34:04.460 girls so she's she's a she's a ten but minus ten because she's my man's wife in it 1.00

00:34:24.060 okay okay um spiritual lady how do you know spiritual because you got a weird

00:34:31.380 necklace on with shapes like your star sign and like challenging generals stuff like

00:34:38.460 that um I'm gonna stop at the first one actually now you gotta rate everybody okay

00:34:47.400 four three oh my lucky number four also also I don't I don't know you so personality is like three

00:35:07.140 points now we're just going based on looks but just looks

00:35:10.560 I'm six one another point

00:35:32.460 he's got whose goes yeah he's harsh he's harsh I'm not except for me thank you

00:35:39.780 you too you too you don't want to do it right I'm out okay that's fine that's fine if you want to if you want to because she's a wife you could you could you could

00:35:55.140 see I'm fine it's up it's up to you guys you can pick it's you don't have to

00:35:59.820 participate if you don't want to participate I don't go ahead okay what does

00:36:03.420 handle I'm just curious help you women read myself and then I'm gonna have the 1.00

00:36:06.880 women read each other too 1.00

00:36:07.980 where do I stop okay 1.00

00:36:10.700 oh shit um right I'm gonna start with the Nalva 0.99

00:36:14.820 tell me the Nalva 0.99

00:36:16.760 mmm tell me I'm ready I'm gonna give the Nalva an adjustable seven 0.99

00:36:24.840 I like that an adjustable what does adjustable mean so so you know so you know depending on

00:36:30.420 what she says on a particular no like on a normal day you know fresh face no

00:36:36.120 makeup I say seven but if she you know when she gets you know spruced up you

00:36:40.700 know she could get that eight nine and then maybe it's an adjustable one as many 0.99

00:36:44.660 of you know I was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily

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JustPearlyThings - October 14, 2023

Single Women Get PISSED with Men for Labelling Them as Whores

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