Single Women Get PISSED with Men for Labelling Them as Whores
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the fact that women can't be hoes forever, and why it's so important to have a hoe phase in your life. We also discuss our own hoe phases, and what we would do if we were in a situation where we had to have sex for money.
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So today's topic, drumroll, I don't know how, okay, I'm scared now, I know the anticipation, women can't be hoes forever, oh yeah, I mean, okay, okay, so question for the women, and remember you don't have to answer if you don't want to, have you ever had a hoe phase, and how long did it last, I don't think I'm out, no I'm joking,
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well I can't really answer that question, I've been with my husband for nine years, where is your husband, gangster, we got married on our nine year anniversary, so I mean I was 15 when I met him, we started dating at 16, yeah, and they've kind of been together ever since, can we get a round of applause for that, like I think we can get a round of applause for that,
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for sure, appreciate it, appreciate it, I mean, could you not have it together, pardon, could you not have heard it together, I don't like Sharon, I'm not a fan of Sharon, and I know that she's the same, so to be fair, we thought we'd keep it simpler, and just be us two, and just fucking do it,
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that's cute, that's cute, that's cute, that's cute, what about you guys, ever had a hoe phase,
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um, I attempted to, and then I realised it's just not for me, um, yeah, that's pretty much it, I don't want to share anymore,
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can I ask how long it lasted, because it sounds like not that long, um, it lasted for about two months, but I feel like it's not for the week,
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no, yeah, like, I've attempted to before, but I just, I think I fall in love too easily with people,
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and also I don't like that feeling of like being used, or like someone's only, like, interested in you sexually,
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I think that's so, like, ill, so, hold on, are you, are you the sugar baby, yeah, I mean, I mean, it's good,
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it's good for money, but, but isn't that like multiple people, yeah, but it's more online, the way I do it,
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oh, okay, so no physical, yeah, like, usually they're from America, and they're just real desperate to talk to,
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like, a girl, and, yeah, it's like Andrew Tate's, like, girls type stuff, yeah, like, where they would just,
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like, talk to each other, yeah, literally, like, giving them false hope, giving them false promises,
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oh, so you're manipulating people to take that money, is that what you're saying, online?
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I'ma take your side on this one, like, there is a group of,
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you said peace, I was just asking the question,
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okay, yeah, I would never, I would never do it with someone I genuinely like, like,
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money's not something that impresses me, but if someone's going to give it to me,
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I know someone that I worked with that's now stopped working and she's she does
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she's like a dominatrix and she she does like pay picks something yeah that's
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literally I mean I've never been there to actually know you literally just call
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them pathetic put them down and it gets them all they actually asked they actually
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ask her to record them as they withdraw money from their ATM yeah and and she'll
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be like good boy those are the men that do exist hiding in the closet I'm just
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saying so you try to hope a short period of time yeah I mean I did it like I did
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like my one little hook-up or afar and I was just like it wasn't even like
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anything deep I literally yeah like a little touch and I just didn't like that
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feeling of being used and I didn't like I wasn't getting money in return so yeah
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what would you if you were getting money in return I mean I don't mind being I
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can't do for money that's what you just said if it was touching then it would
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have been okay so that isn't just I can do that is I got change of money I guess
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I wouldn't have sex for money but I definitely I don't know someone was like
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kind of touch up give you a mess I've been paid for a massage before I think
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most girls in London know how to be eye candy especially if you like Mayfair
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clubs I mean I used to be a promoter when I was like 18 19 and as much as I
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felt bad for saying to the girls like you know you're a bit you know you're not
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gonna get in or she's your friends gonna have to pay at the same time it's like
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you kind of understand that you have all these footballers and all these
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celebrities and rich business people paying 10 15 grand for a table why does
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their club differ from anyone else in Camden where you can just walk in and
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not pay that much so you have to differ somehow and it's you have to accept
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your eye candy at that point because you're going in for free you're drinking for
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free but is that a ho phase that would be an eye candy isn't a ho phase yeah not
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really when I was younger I'm still young so wait pull your mic closer I'm just
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just yeah go ahead I know you guys are sharing so it's a little hard and when I
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was younger would I have called it a ho phase no was I open to exploring and did
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I date yes and so I guess other people may have seen that as a ho phase but I
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didn't see it as a ho phase I was exploring and also when you go to buy a
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car you try out all the cars first you don't just pick the first car but except in
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this I'm a Gemini so I ain't never gonna pick the first car I need to try I mean I just I'm not
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very good at choosing one thing straight away and sticking to that one thing in
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that moment and just being like okay I'll have that kind of pop and that's even if
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I go into the shop to buy a packet of crisps it takes me a minute so how long
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did the kind of ho phase it sounds like you're not you're hesitant to call it a
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ho phase but yeah because I don't like to label why should we label it a ho I mean
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that's what it is kind of why to describe it I think everyone has a ho phase yeah yeah well
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yeah um how long did it last um hmm well I was in a nine-year relationship with my
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son's dad so it stopped then and then it started again and then it stopped and it
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started again I think in between relationships like where I've been like
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like total how much time would you say a year total maybe like two three months
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between yeah I'm saying yeah we'll go with that two years yeah we'll go with that okay
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we'll go with that whatever you want no we'll go with a year
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I'm just asking the question we'll go with a year in total in the 35 years I've been on this earth
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yeah okay okay Danelva what about you I haven't had a ho phase I've been mostly in relationships
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almost back to back I have experienced but no I've never been a ho but that's the same as not
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labeling it as like you experienced I experienced I said what I said I said what I said it was being
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like in total I've been in relationships for about ten years and I've only been single for just a year
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that's crazy do you know I think P I think that if you are not this lady right here with a ring on
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her finger you're stuck in the whole face forever and until you get a ring wait wait wait wait when
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you say ho face can I just I'm so sorry to do this but when you say ho face are we talking sleeping with
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men or we say it doesn't matter even though I was young I was 15 I was seeing loads of guys at the
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same time I mean I didn't do anything with him I didn't even hold hands with them yeah but I was
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continuously talking to loads of guys this is what I'm saying but the thing with me was it was from a
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young age even like when I was seven my first boyfriend I broke up with him because he had bad grades
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and I went out to his best friend but like to cut to go back to like no point is that the whole phase
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exists that's your like as a single woman that is your mission to get out of that area in my eyes
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because if you're single you can access the whole phase anytime you like like women have the power to
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be at home minding a business and they can just pull out their Rolodex and call somebody and they know
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somebody's gonna show up like that's the same thing as you saying that every man has the capability to
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kill therefore every man is a murderer that's so yeah but you know what Jordan Peterson says the
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same thing a dangerous man is a good man a weak man isn't a good man you want a man to be able to
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be dangerous but control it that's what makes a great man that's why a woman is not a hoe because
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when she is controlling it she's not a hoe she still has she's a wife when she's controlling it
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Denalva wouldn't you say that if a woman's acting like a hoe she's a hoe yeah but just because you're
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single doesn't mean you're a hoe I didn't say that no what he said as long as you're single you're stuck in a
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whole phase now what he was saying is is every woman as we know we all have options we all have
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options right so what he's saying is that any given time I have the option to be like you know
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what I want to fuck so I'm gonna press this thing and power ranger man is gonna come through that's
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what he was saying so in his mind it's like if you're single you have the potential to be in that
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whole phase yeah everybody has okay I think I understand you're so you're basically saying like
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you might as well be a hoe because you have the option to and you're never gonna know yeah and that's
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up to you and women have that freedom because we as like I said we as men we would never ever know
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wait wait can I just jump in yeah go on would you say that is the option or the power to because those
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are two very different things I mean well she she has the option to exert that power true you know
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the reason I say I put the spin on it is just because I feel like if you're gonna go down that
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whole path and that's very different than just having the option to kind of dip your toe in every
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once and all yeah you got the option not like either one is good or yeah I hear what you're
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saying but then it falls into that like language where it would fall under dating oh I'm dating
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again now on our first yeah do you see what I'm saying so it depends on the intention and where
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you're doing it from but that's why I ask but that's why I ask what we mean by hofes because if we
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mean by hofes that someone's sleeping around because if you're going on a date and then on the second
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date you're sleeping with someone I would say that's a hofes but if you're going on a date and you're like
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actually on a second one you know I don't feel that I'm gonna go on the next day and the next
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day in the next day I don't know so I have a question for the girls did anyone feel like they
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got anything out of the hofes like a positive experience anyone money for it what I did get
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out of it was understanding myself and what I did want and what I didn't want from like because
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if there's one thing being in a long-term relationship I've been in long-term relationships
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like my son's dad nine years my last relationship to three years I got a lot from them but what you
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get out of it like quite quickly is like your ics your dislikes your okay I'm not gonna do that I
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don't actually like that type of guy or I don't I maybe don't vibe with this type of person so I got
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a lot from that do you think that hofes is make women more picky yeah 100% because then you can go
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through men quite quickly and be like yeah I don't want to make hofes is make women less attached yes
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yeah I don't have a yes or 1 million percent so I don't know about that actually actually I was on
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on my hand here I was speaking to one of my best friends and she's slept with a few guys and she's
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in a relationship but she and I and I kind of speak to her about you know like she we have a mutual
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understanding of we don't kind of you don't judge her for being a ho okay she hasn't slept with many
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guys like it's still under 10 like way less under 10 but it's not one like me do you know I mean so
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for her and I said to her that's a flex I speak to her about like power bonding and stuff like that
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and she she said you know we have a very under very respectful relationship where we allow each other
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to fulfill our points and she'll just say you know what even though I'm in the relationship you because
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I've slept with more guys I love my boyfriend but I can imagine not being with him I can you know imagine
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you know if me and him break up if we divorce I'm going into deep-rooted depression I'm losing
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my job I'm moving back in my parents I can't imagine but because I don't I'm not looking I
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don't I can't even comprehend do you think that's healthy though to be that attached that bonded to
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somebody that you don't like your end of your you being an individual being on this planet on this
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earth yeah it's so rooted in somebody else's existence that if they died or even if they died
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sorry whenever when I be extreme there if you went if you weren't together anymore that you would
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then lose yourself I mean I have a dog that we have a dog that's five years old and I know she's
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gonna die in ten years and I will literally cry every day knowing that she's gonna die before me
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but with him it's completely different and it's like yeah I can understand how some people can see
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that as like a insecurity or like like some people may see as an insecurity or codependence and stuff
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like that but I I think we I can I hope I can speak for that we choose to live our life together as
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individuals we are very very different people and I think we we you know we we choose to live together
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but can I ask you cannot do you think yeah that you the reason why you feel that way is because
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you come from a different world because you did say you came when you was a teen you see your friend
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that you're talking about was she born here yeah yeah she's she's English yeah and this is why men
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are going to the east and finding wives I always hear yeah actually all the dating coaches say to go to
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yeah it's not it's not it's not to buy a bride it's just like they have more feminine traditional
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women that tend to be in shape and pretty apparently I've never been to Poland yeah I mean I grew up going
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to school and you know woman would be walking to school in high heels makeup ready yeah like I've
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been to Germany um which it's not Poland but yeah but it's like compared to America and even here the
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girls are like 10 times prettier like I was in I went to a wedding I was like oh my god like they
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would blow everyone here out of the water does makeup and heels high heels define femininity no no
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I'm not naturally I'm just saying there is there is a standard that they want to keep up they will
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always want to represent their men it's not it's not it's a sense of vanity the same way there are
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Latin women dressed in a certain way and they have a certain standard of beauty and I do understand
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actually when you look to certain extremities of the world you do see femininity in more in like
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higher levels it's good for some people it's not good for some people do you understand what I mean
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because actually when we look at these countries that have this sort of thing realistically economically
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they are suffering in different ways which means that we need to look at the society we have
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issues here but there's also a certain way that we work that helps us actually survive there's
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corruption that's why things are kind of messed up still but I say bring shame back I say that all
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the time really you know these are not one of the reasons why men kill themselves because
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it's terrible I think what's going on with the in the world now and everybody's acting concerned is
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that they don't understand everybody's suffering mentally this is not about bringing shame it's
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about no everybody needs to be strong you don't need shame to be strong you absolutely do need
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shame to be strong you do because it's like if your mom yells at you you learn not to do something like
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okay I'll give you an example I was overweight and then you know what made me lose weight the guys at
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work we're saying like oh I would never date a girl over 200 pounds and I just hit to like 205 or
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something because I was like oh no I can't I can't be that it's like that the shame helped me but it's
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like you can either be a weak person and let shame break you or you can be a strong person and let it
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motivate you okay let me give you an alternative that is one of them you can shame somebody but you could
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also say do you know what you could be so much more beautiful if you're healthier you know try
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something like that no but there's money if that works then America wouldn't have a I can't say
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that word anymore an obesity issue because people genuinely mean like the body positivity that's huge
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in America we're huge it's not much better here you guys are much less obese nope no that's what
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I'm saying do you know why we're not why people here are more obese actually is because they're not
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taught how to be better to themselves for example I'm Portuguese I know listen my diet listen the diet
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the the things that people are miseducated all the time the food here is disgusting I'm not gonna lie
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I come from Portugal I know the difference between the population and the population here it's all
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because of miseducation we are not taught to tell people to have the tools to independently grow
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that's it that's an excuse it's not like Jamie in 2022 there is no excuse you have access to the
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internet yeah I could type in a YouTube video and get the world's best nutritionist giving me a video
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on nutrition for free and it's pretty much common sense fruits vegetables common sense is not common
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but at the same time if you've been programmed from deep like reprogramming your brain to eat a
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different way it is hard work so as a lazy society we're all lazy that's why we like to watch quick
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gratification is a thing it's easy to press I come from a country of pork and potatoes and yet all the
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fucking one at a time one at a time we're not we're not doing the over talking then go ahead
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good my family everyone in my family is absolutely massive and I mean I look at a packet of crisps and
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I put on like five kilos like my metabolism but I make conscious decisions and I mean I reckon if I
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lived in Poland I'd probably be stick thin I probably would it wouldn't you know be going to the gym and
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trying to grow my legs and so forth I'd be trying to be as skinny as possible but you know I chose
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a partner that's in the gym industry and he teaches me certain things other things I'll google myself
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because he can't teach me about you know woman's nutrition it's it's all about accountability and
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making your own choices and when I said earlier just coming back to my point because I never finished
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it I think there's a difference between shame and bullying I think it's different when you point
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out to people oh you should be doing this because you're fat you're ugly you're I don't think we need
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that as a society I just think that yourself you should be able to look at yourself and see and be
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realistic and you know I mean in this country people go to freaking asda in slippers and pajamas and
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then get back into their own bed in those clothes I mean I put even that is it's not right for me
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like do you want to put your best foot forward no matter where you go no I definitely think the
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world needs like bullying and a little bit people being offended because if you ask anyone that's
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actually successful they'll tell you the reason for their successes is their most negative parts
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of their life winning doesn't teach anybody anything when you lose it motivates you to win
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like now in school they're doing like no first second third place in school you know school sports days
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you're not teaching children to win like the guy who's the fastest doesn't feel special now because
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the guy who's the slowest got the same medal as him you should know that he's the slowest so there's
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a gap like now everything's kind of all blurred lines there's no definitive kind of clear winner and
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everybody wants to be the winner but they don't actually have the ability or the skills to be the
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winner so it's like you need somebody to come and ruffle feathers a little bit in the military that's what
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they do they break you down as a military for six years and they break literally they break you
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down they like throw your bed mattress out the window your shit this is to make you the best that
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you can possibly be so I I agree with it on some sides of things but at the same time there's a line
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I'd also like to add it always always seems like this aversion to negative um feedback is always kind
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of it's always behind a goal to make people less competitive I've never heard someone say oh we
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shouldn't be negative because it will make you better it's always kind of like to placate at best
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I've never heard anyone you know coaching someone or trying to reach for excellence say actually let's
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not let's not tell you what bad about yourself because you might stop working hard and I just
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think that's quite interesting that at best you're trying to placate I think that's a really interesting
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point especially in between females we're always told don't compare yourself don't ever look at
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another woman I mean I personally think like how do you know if you're doing good or not if you're
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not comparing yourself I mean my mom never compared me to other people but it was like well you know um
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you got an A and she got an A star well it's like if you don't compare the world will for you
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yeah the world isn't blind you set standards like you you know and I always say like you know when you
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walk into a room with your friends you know who your prettiest friend is but can I ask you a
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question though pretty girls always know it's them and I'll have these conversations like there's a
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girl I'm thinking of on my team I was explaining this dirt she was like what are beauty standards
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blah blah blah and I'm just like okay are you prettier than so-and-so and then she starts laughing
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and then I'm like okay why are you laughing because you know you are I wouldn't say that there's an issue
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with comparing it's good to compare so you can benchmark I think there's a problem with shaming
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for sure because even when you look at sports the best the best like the champions are the ones like
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who's the best who's the best who's gonna get this because you need no because what we need is
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encouragement when you're a kid and you're growing up actually when your parents encourage you is when
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you do the best because you want to when you want to be better you want because it's positive
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positive reinforcement is actually way more powerful than negative reinforcement and that's it
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and this is the thing we start to act like adults are not just children in big bodies we all have
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our inner child that actually the more you keep giving negativity the more we're gonna go into
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ourselves and be depressed it's about reconstructing us I think the best teachers are the ones that
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didn't put up with shit like there's a teacher I had in seventh grade who I swear I got she made my
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life a living hell but I could still tell you how to diagram an English sentence better than anyone
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there's there's high standards and that's shame but did you when you did something well even though
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like if you weren't if you weren't listening or you weren't doing something you were meant to do she
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would be strict but then when you did something well did she praise you or did she tell you did she
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just ignore the fact that you were I mean because then we don't praise because then when you look
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she was kind of a was it like validation like my son like when he like he's so you know yeah she
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knew how to make you chase her value exactly and that's exactly what it is it's like I give you
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but there's barely any you drip feed the validation isn't it that's kind of weird though like you're
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trying to you're trying to manipulate them into being great yeah to chase positive kind of validation so
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I have some I have some strict teachers I used to live right next to my high school and I have a
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problem I used to have a problem with punctuality so I was two minutes away from my school but I'd
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always be about 30 seconds late all right or like 10 seconds like I was never on time I was always
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lost in and she would give me detention if even if I was like five seconds late and this happened
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for weeks and I had detention after detention I was like yo I'm literally you just closed the door
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I put my hand you crushed my hand I'm here on time and she would be like no but when I was on time
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she didn't congratulate me a cuz you know I was a masculine dude I don't give I don't care what
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you think and B I think is because she understood that it's not exceptional to do what you're supposed
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to do and I think that's that that should be the mentality of that you should you should coach kids
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to be fit for society not to chase validation or oh you know if I tell you something good they're
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gonna work harder I don't think most people work like that but doing a basic I agree don't give
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over don't over praise somebody for a basic but if you achieve have an actual achievement just say
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you won an award would we all clap but wait no one's ever clapped for me when I know you don't
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have us around you then do you because we would clap you know what an award is for exceptional yeah
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but that's what we're that's what we're striving for now yeah I mean you would think but I think now
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we give awards for being average you ask like if I go on the street rate yourself one to ten with
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what like a lot of women when I go on the street I'm a 10 and I'm a 10 oh so you look the same as
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Rihanna and their face goes right and I'm they just freeze and they're like yeah remember one to
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ten I get called Rihanna all the time if I had her money maybe so that means you're adjustable seven
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then I said humble eight point five that's humble eight point five it's hard to be humble over seven
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baby I know I'm working with just own it the novel you know I just say I'm an eight point five a
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humble eight point five when you say eight point five do you say just because of your looks or the
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whole package the whole package as you know I'll say probably looks at whole package nine whole package
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nine and and if you were to just say looks 8.5 okay if I think you think you're in the top 15 percent of
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beauty why aren't you in Hollywood where are your modeling contracts my modeling contracts are not
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there because I'm not trying to be a model they find you no but I don't want to find people in the
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small village people listen ask me what people are finding me for are you gonna pose on the spot now
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she's a model well yeah like I've literally um like just going from posting on Instagram and stuff
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um I like have been offered to work for Bottega and Puma and like collaborations with like Dua Lipa just
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from like posting on Instagram like they do they have just found me naturally but also like when I've
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applied I always get like replies I sound so fucking big-headed but like I do I like I applied for
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Wilhelmina like yesterday and like this is like one of the biggest modeling like things in the world
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I do feel big-headed now like they replied bar it's results so basically you're prettier than me
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because you're model and I'm not wow no I don't think that I think beauty is very new I'm saying
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the base on I'm saying results mean something but they don't I'm saying I do I do agree with you
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because beauty is so subjective like one person might look at me and and be like fuck like you're
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so fucking sexy but then one person will be like no I think no matter what I think there is certain
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things um you can look at someone even if they're different no matter what race they are no matter
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what um what texture their hair is no matter um you know how they behave their confidence you can look
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at a person even like someone like you and I I mean we differ so much and someone will say okay
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she's better looking than this person right because it's subjective no I think like yeah because you
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gotta remember there's a general consensus for beauty that's been going on for a hundred years
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no no I think you can just look at someone and say she's about symmetry people that like prefer obese
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people for example there are certain men that being good looking and being a model or to like
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being a model you have to have a certain standard because they they're gonna put you as a face of
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their brand yeah and being pretty is another thing like yeah I'm pretty you need a symmetrical face
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like girls just symmetry that's what I'm saying like people that are model level pretty get model
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level results yeah I've never posted an Instagram photo and had a modeling agency reach out to me but
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I don't think it's crazy like top 15% of beauty that's a lot that's really really high basing
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beauty on symmetry is very dangerous because beauty does not actually just no that's the standards
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based on what people are trying to tell you wait wait wait to know that it's not it's not just
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there look and you could even do like dating app data like you know behind the scenes if you're a
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ever dating app it ranks you one to ten yeah yeah so like behind the scenes like you have a rating and
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and and it's what are your matches look like that's your rating what they look
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like yeah yeah because that's a baby so so like top top five percent or two
00:31:27.640
percent of guys get get top ten percent a girl or something like that or top 20
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percent of girls whatever it is so they have to filter at all and so filter when
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we get them all I just think it'd be very different to a specifically woman rate
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themselves oh yeah yeah I mean I mean we're told from a young age we're special
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your princesses I don't understand why women don't understand I don't understand
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why women don't realize that men control the rating the same way you guys control
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rating for us we control the rating for you and you know always trying to pick
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your own rating and we just be sitting there thinking what is going on like you
00:32:13.320
don't write us oh he's five foot he ain't got no money he broke he a broke nigga
00:32:16.500
that's that next to me rated shame oh no he smells you don't smell nice you don't
00:32:22.200
make it ratings these are all ratings yeah we don't even give you that much ratings
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man her face on all that but she got a fat ass cool like mana cool we're nice
00:32:30.760
with you like we actually quite easy the second we start going in you don't
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have standards how can you raise my mouth because the second I go into
00:32:39.580
standards you lot lose your mind but who do you think you are what do you bring
00:32:44.200
to the table I'm like yo I just wanted my my breakfast made in the morning I
00:32:48.040
want you to say good morning to me it's been nice sorry I said do you get
00:32:52.880
breakfast just another ball man when you when you go into like standards and very
00:33:01.820
firm objective kind of levels I know it's a lot of a lot of women I know go into
00:33:06.560
this whole like post-modern like but what is beauty everyone's kind of
00:33:10.760
beautiful is that the lines start getting blurred in it I want to play oh I want to
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play a game so so instead of hmm one decide who does anyone here thin skin
00:33:23.660
everyone with thick skin here okay okay so I want everyone all right first to
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start rate yourself one to ten looks wise yeah looks wise just looks eight eight
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okay yeah I'd say eight six six six six eight point five nine is a whole package
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okay what do you rate yourself this I usually say five baby okay anyways anyways I mean I'm
00:33:55.460
humble you trying motivation coach coming up now I want the guys to rate the
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girls so she's she's a she's a ten but minus ten because she's my man's wife in it
00:34:24.060
okay okay um spiritual lady how do you know spiritual because you got a weird
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necklace on with shapes like your star sign and like challenging generals stuff like
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that um I'm gonna stop at the first one actually now you gotta rate everybody okay
00:34:47.400
four three oh my lucky number four also also I don't I don't know you so personality is like three
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points now we're just going based on looks but just looks
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he's got whose goes yeah he's harsh he's harsh I'm not except for me thank you
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you too you too you don't want to do it right I'm out okay that's fine that's fine if you want to if you want to because she's a wife you could you could you could
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see I'm fine it's up it's up to you guys you can pick it's you don't have to
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participate if you don't want to participate I don't go ahead okay what does
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handle I'm just curious help you women read myself and then I'm gonna have the
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oh shit um right I'm gonna start with the Nalva
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mmm tell me I'm ready I'm gonna give the Nalva an adjustable seven
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I like that an adjustable what does adjustable mean so so you know so you know depending on
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what she says on a particular no like on a normal day you know fresh face no
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makeup I say seven but if she you know when she gets you know spruced up you
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know she could get that eight nine and then maybe it's an adjustable one as many
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