Sneako On After Converting To Islam
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Summary
In this episode, I'm joined by a good friend of mine, who is a streamer and content creator. We talk about a variety of topics, including his experience with drugs and alcohol, dating in the modern era, and what it's like being a Muslim in America.
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it leads the world in childless middle-aged women yeah the birth rate is a climate because they're
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over they're overworking themselves right now the work the work culture is really strong and
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that's what happens in an industrialized society uh they will that's just natural um yeah women
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without children at 50 years old is almost 30 percent am I crazy that's more what is it in
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america uh 20 percent or uk oh this one doesn't have america I'm sorry this is you no u.s is 15
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sure wow it's raising a lot too yeah no I just wonder why because I believe you that the women
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are better they are yeah like well better they're definitely more feminine yeah so I just I just
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wonder like why they're having a lot of the same issues so you think they're overworked due to
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difficulty getting married a preference not to have children because there are putting off having
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children or due to infertility and I met there's a girl was getting there's a there's a girl on my
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team from japan um and she's having the same I mean she's here now but she's was raised there and
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she's like 36 or 37 she's I think this is this happens in first world countries it goes up and
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down like I think there'll be a boom soon but it seems like it's a financial problem for the most
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part like these guys are overworked and they they really want it to be perfect for them to start
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having kids they want everything they need to be married and there's no hookup culture there so
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I went to Japan you know I was younger you did when I was 12 my mom sent me on a plane to Japan
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by yourself yeah who'd you stay with um some friend that she had in high school and what was
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your experience um well they didn't really they didn't really like me I'm gonna be honest when I
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was 12 yeah because I don't think my mom told them that I was coming I think there was some
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miscommunication so I just ended up with this random lady in Japan but my impression was that the
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kids worked super hard like that they only had like two weeks of summer school I remember
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the technology was better and I hated the food back then which is a shame because I love Japanese
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food now but yeah I was only 12 so you know what do you what do you what do you really look at when
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you're 12 yeah it's interesting that's that makes me uh think I didn't that there wasn't what I saw
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I saw a lot of families but yeah there's got to be something to overworking the population like that
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do you think you see what you want to see no because I think that I think that liberals see
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what they want to see but I also think that like we see what we want to see in a way everyone's like
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worldview influences how they see the world but it's also like one thing you won't really see in Japan is
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uh dogs the Japanese people that they I saw way more kids than I saw dogs but in the west like in
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Miami a lot in New York you'll see way more young people walking around dogs like even dogs in a
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stroller dog in a purse rather than have kids because they would rather be a dog mom how do you
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date in this modern era it's so interesting people that are a little bit like more traditional minded
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do you date in a traditional way I'm hypocritical too we talked about the hypocrisy in the conservative
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world uh like I just converted to Islam like you know I have multiple girlfriends which is haram
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you know you're supposed to wait until marriage but you have to find ways to navigate the world that's
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in front of you like when the Quran was written stuff like that we didn't have woke garbage we
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didn't have uh this indoctrinated world so you have to find you have to pick and choose how to how to
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navigate as a man judging you I'm just wondering no no I mean I'm judging myself because like I'm trying
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I would like to be a good Muslim eventually but you know I still drink yeah I'm not perfect but I told
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you to go sober with me remember you said you would I did yeah on that stream yes yes I did a stream
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with you yes yes I did a stream with you in Miami and I said like that you would go sober and then
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you told the chat you would go sober with me for how long it was like a month or something I definitely
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didn't do yeah no I know and then it was like two days later you're like yeah I can't do that I can't
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I can I can but I quit weed it then yeah I mean we all have our battles it's like if I had to quit
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sugar tomorrow I don't even see it as a battle it's just like I enjoy it yeah I just you know like
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later tonight I'm gonna go out with some some of my friends and it's just just make social
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situations more enjoyable um but you know eventually it could be better but that's the
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way I see it to navigate as a man is to it's to see that your attention and your time is the most
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valuable thing you have uh and women are incentivized to take advantage of your time and attention and to
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pretty much ruin your life like women will destroy men if you look at any good man like you'll see how
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soul crushing it is when they get involved with one woman and who's not elevating you is not pushing
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you forward so in my opinion the best way is to have multiple girlfriends and then they pretty much
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worship you uh they're in love with you and you like the girls I talk to like I'll text them like
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once a day or something like that and see them maybe once a month something like that but they
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they value that time so much that it's worth not seeing other people and that's the best way I've
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noticed for it to stay focused I've tried um that invested I've made mistakes like starting a
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business with a girlfriend like getting her like oh yeah let's like be a team like we're partners
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like what like it's never gonna work it's a waste of your time and it's better to just have them
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they live their life and don't live with them don't live with your girlfriend especially like if
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you're a young man it's better to keep it separate to work as much as you can and get to that high
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the high level status because it like if I'm if I'm here having having a struggling in dating you
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know rich well-known status all this stuff like that that would check all the boxes for women and
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it's still like I'm still navigating it like imagine what it's like for the average guy so it's better
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to focus on becoming um as high status and as wealthy as possible and learning all these social
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situations and understanding women before you get invested into a long-term relationship in the
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west I think it's easier to find a wife in other places eastern Europe places that have culture but
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if you're in the west like you better just focus on yourself and keep that separate do you want like
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10 sons are you gonna go that route I want a big family yeah I want a big family but you always
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notice that guys like me end up having daughters have you noticed that that's what made me believe in
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God is that all the all the womanizers just God punishes you with like seven daughters in a row
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and then all the all the faithful guys they end up having sons because God's rewarding them
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you were good you didn't have a couple sons good job you didn't you were monogamous you didn't but
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I I think that God will will punish me with a with a couple daughters I was thinking my dad was 50 50 so
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so what what's your sibling ratio well three were like by the biological ones um it's uh four girls
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three boys and then they we adopted so he was cheating a little bit no no no no maybe in past
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relationships or something like that no you know it's crazy my parents have only slept with each other
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no way yeah that's what they they met yeah they met when my mom was like they've been together
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forever when did they meet how old were they my mom uh sorry my mom was 18 we'll say
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um but he was five years older so you know that'd be a groomer nowadays but no he was a good guy and
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my dad was um he's like a nerd you know so you know back then women actually valued the nerds and
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saw potential in them you know where nowadays like I don't think women would give my dad a second look
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or like men like my dad because they're not like you know on instagram a lot of social media like a
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smooth talk like all that stuff but like you know he's he's a good a good man you know yeah I don't
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think women really value social media to that level it's good to like get in the door and to find
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girls but I don't think women care actually I don't think women care at all I think women kind
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of respect you more if they're more mysterious and you don't have that type of presence and like
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who's this guy really I just see what a check mark does to guys and like I have not experienced that
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I mean to be honest like I've had the check mark maybe maybe I'm wrong I don't know I have not
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it's it for me and they don't talk about this in the right but it's been pretty much all about
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character how you carry yourself in my experience the fame has not really it does help it does help
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like if you go to a club and she's like I've seen you before it's pretty you know but when it comes
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to that first interaction the blue check doesn't really never really did much I don't know my point
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is more I just think like a lot of times girls overlook like the nerdy guys and prefer like men
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with like you know status so like I just think of my mom's situation when she was young like she
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valued character first what define him as a nerd if you met him I don't know he's just nerdy guy
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gaming like what is no no like sports fan glasses no no he's just an engineer okay so smart or nerdy
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no my dad's super smart he's like I don't think those two are the same I would say to nerd like
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the 40 year old guy who still has a bunch of no no he's not like that he's my star wars collection
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I don't think of it as a bad thing my dad's just the type of guy to like program for like 10 hours or
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figure out stuff on his business for like 10 12 hours um yeah I don't think your mom ever saw him
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as nerdy she saw him as ambitious probably yeah I don't know I don't know but yeah she told me she
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liked him because he was fun too but I my point nerds aren't fun nerds aren't fun okay maybe the
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nerd is the wrong word yeah just a smart guy yeah it's not flashy yeah I just don't think like
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I don't know I think nowadays I don't think like you know you always hear about like women
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overlooking like certain guys in high school or whatever and then they like come back later like
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I feel like that's kind of like my dad or like certain I don't know oh like that meme where like
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the girl's sleeping with the bad guy yeah and then she's pregnant five years later yeah where did all
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the good guys go and he's rich now that was him yeah I don't know but I don't know I don't want to
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put my dad on blast as many of you know I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily
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