JustPearlyThings - Sneako On After Converting To Islam

00:00:00.000 it leads the world in childless middle-aged women yeah the birth rate is a climate because they're 1.00

00:00:03.760 over they're overworking themselves right now the work the work culture is really strong and

00:00:08.620 that's what happens in an industrialized society uh they will that's just natural um yeah women 1.00

00:00:14.900 without children at 50 years old is almost 30 percent am I crazy that's more what is it in

00:00:20.120 america uh 20 percent or uk oh this one doesn't have america I'm sorry this is you no u.s is 15

00:00:28.180 sure wow it's raising a lot too yeah no I just wonder why because I believe you that the women 1.00

00:00:34.100 are better they are yeah like well better they're definitely more feminine yeah so I just I just

00:00:40.060 wonder like why they're having a lot of the same issues so you think they're overworked due to

00:00:44.680 difficulty getting married a preference not to have children because there are putting off having

00:00:49.300 children or due to infertility and I met there's a girl was getting there's a there's a girl on my

00:00:54.320 team from japan um and she's having the same I mean she's here now but she's was raised there and

00:00:59.660 she's like 36 or 37 she's I think this is this happens in first world countries it goes up and

00:01:07.780 down like I think there'll be a boom soon but it seems like it's a financial problem for the most

00:01:11.940 part like these guys are overworked and they they really want it to be perfect for them to start

00:01:16.880 having kids they want everything they need to be married and there's no hookup culture there so 1.00

00:01:21.460 I went to Japan you know I was younger you did when I was 12 my mom sent me on a plane to Japan

00:01:26.640 by yourself yeah who'd you stay with um some friend that she had in high school and what was

00:01:32.200 your experience um well they didn't really they didn't really like me I'm gonna be honest when I

00:01:37.640 was 12 yeah because I don't think my mom told them that I was coming I think there was some

00:01:42.500 miscommunication so I just ended up with this random lady in Japan but my impression was that the 0.77

00:01:48.420 kids worked super hard like that they only had like two weeks of summer school I remember

00:01:54.100 the technology was better and I hated the food back then which is a shame because I love Japanese 1.00

00:01:59.900 food now but yeah I was only 12 so you know what do you what do you what do you really look at when

00:02:05.120 you're 12 yeah it's interesting that's that makes me uh think I didn't that there wasn't what I saw

00:02:10.120 I saw a lot of families but yeah there's got to be something to overworking the population like that

00:02:16.100 do you think you see what you want to see no because I think that I think that liberals see

00:02:22.040 what they want to see but I also think that like we see what we want to see in a way everyone's like

00:02:26.660 worldview influences how they see the world but it's also like one thing you won't really see in Japan is

00:02:32.300 uh dogs the Japanese people that they I saw way more kids than I saw dogs but in the west like in 1.00

00:02:38.140 Miami a lot in New York you'll see way more young people walking around dogs like even dogs in a

00:02:43.120 stroller dog in a purse rather than have kids because they would rather be a dog mom how do you 1.00

00:02:48.000 date in this modern era it's so interesting people that are a little bit like more traditional minded

00:02:53.200 do you date in a traditional way I'm hypocritical too we talked about the hypocrisy in the conservative

00:02:57.280 world uh like I just converted to Islam like you know I have multiple girlfriends which is haram

00:03:02.520 you know you're supposed to wait until marriage but you have to find ways to navigate the world that's

00:03:07.820 in front of you like when the Quran was written stuff like that we didn't have woke garbage we 0.96

00:03:12.280 didn't have uh this indoctrinated world so you have to find you have to pick and choose how to how to

00:03:18.140 navigate as a man judging you I'm just wondering no no I mean I'm judging myself because like I'm trying

00:03:22.440 I would like to be a good Muslim eventually but you know I still drink yeah I'm not perfect but I told

00:03:29.700 you to go sober with me remember you said you would I did yeah on that stream yes yes I did a stream

00:03:36.640 with you yes yes I did a stream with you in Miami and I said like that you would go sober and then

00:03:42.880 you told the chat you would go sober with me for how long it was like a month or something I definitely

00:03:47.940 didn't do yeah no I know and then it was like two days later you're like yeah I can't do that I can't

00:03:53.200 I can I can but I quit weed it then yeah I mean we all have our battles it's like if I had to quit

00:03:59.540 sugar tomorrow I don't even see it as a battle it's just like I enjoy it yeah I just you know like

00:04:04.080 later tonight I'm gonna go out with some some of my friends and it's just just make social

00:04:07.760 situations more enjoyable um but you know eventually it could be better but that's the

00:04:13.940 way I see it to navigate as a man is to it's to see that your attention and your time is the most

00:04:21.200 valuable thing you have uh and women are incentivized to take advantage of your time and attention and to 1.00

00:04:26.600 pretty much ruin your life like women will destroy men if you look at any good man like you'll see how 1.00

00:04:32.000 soul crushing it is when they get involved with one woman and who's not elevating you is not pushing

00:04:38.040 you forward so in my opinion the best way is to have multiple girlfriends and then they pretty much

00:04:43.860 worship you uh they're in love with you and you like the girls I talk to like I'll text them like

00:04:48.620 once a day or something like that and see them maybe once a month something like that but they

00:04:53.600 they value that time so much that it's worth not seeing other people and that's the best way I've

00:05:00.020 noticed for it to stay focused I've tried um that invested I've made mistakes like starting a

00:05:05.960 business with a girlfriend like getting her like oh yeah let's like be a team like we're partners

00:05:11.000 like what like it's never gonna work it's a waste of your time and it's better to just have them

00:05:18.140 they live their life and don't live with them don't live with your girlfriend especially like if

00:05:23.060 you're a young man it's better to keep it separate to work as much as you can and get to that high

00:05:27.220 the high level status because it like if I'm if I'm here having having a struggling in dating you

00:05:36.060 know rich well-known status all this stuff like that that would check all the boxes for women and 1.00

00:05:42.420 it's still like I'm still navigating it like imagine what it's like for the average guy so it's better

00:05:46.660 to focus on becoming um as high status and as wealthy as possible and learning all these social

00:05:53.160 situations and understanding women before you get invested into a long-term relationship in the

00:05:57.800 west I think it's easier to find a wife in other places eastern Europe places that have culture but

00:06:03.500 if you're in the west like you better just focus on yourself and keep that separate do you want like

00:06:09.780 10 sons are you gonna go that route I want a big family yeah I want a big family but you always

00:06:16.440 notice that guys like me end up having daughters have you noticed that that's what made me believe in

00:06:21.540 God is that all the all the womanizers just God punishes you with like seven daughters in a row 1.00

00:06:27.180 and then all the all the faithful guys they end up having sons because God's rewarding them

00:06:31.800 you were good you didn't have a couple sons good job you didn't you were monogamous you didn't but

00:06:38.740 I I think that God will will punish me with a with a couple daughters I was thinking my dad was 50 50 so

00:06:46.440 so what what's your sibling ratio well three were like by the biological ones um it's uh four girls

00:06:54.340 three boys and then they we adopted so he was cheating a little bit no no no no maybe in past

00:07:03.760 relationships or something like that no you know it's crazy my parents have only slept with each other

00:07:08.000 no way yeah that's what they they met yeah they met when my mom was like they've been together

00:07:13.860 forever when did they meet how old were they my mom uh sorry my mom was 18 we'll say

00:07:19.760 um but he was five years older so you know that'd be a groomer nowadays but no he was a good guy and

00:07:33.760 my dad was um he's like a nerd you know so you know back then women actually valued the nerds and

00:07:40.300 saw potential in them you know where nowadays like I don't think women would give my dad a second look 0.99

00:07:46.120 or like men like my dad because they're not like you know on instagram a lot of social media like a

00:07:51.440 smooth talk like all that stuff but like you know he's he's a good a good man you know yeah I don't

00:07:57.160 think women really value social media to that level it's good to like get in the door and to find 1.00

00:08:02.080 girls but I don't think women care actually I don't think women care at all I think women kind 0.96

00:08:06.560 of respect you more if they're more mysterious and you don't have that type of presence and like

00:08:10.280 who's this guy really I just see what a check mark does to guys and like I have not experienced that

00:08:16.000 I mean to be honest like I've had the check mark maybe maybe I'm wrong I don't know I have not

00:08:20.780 it's it for me and they don't talk about this in the right but it's been pretty much all about

00:08:24.860 character how you carry yourself in my experience the fame has not really it does help it does help

00:08:31.760 like if you go to a club and she's like I've seen you before it's pretty you know but when it comes

00:08:37.500 to that first interaction the blue check doesn't really never really did much I don't know my point

00:08:42.600 is more I just think like a lot of times girls overlook like the nerdy guys and prefer like men

00:08:47.940 with like you know status so like I just think of my mom's situation when she was young like she

00:08:53.400 valued character first what define him as a nerd if you met him I don't know he's just nerdy guy

00:08:59.040 gaming like what is no no like sports fan glasses no no he's just an engineer okay so smart or nerdy

00:09:09.440 no my dad's super smart he's like I don't think those two are the same I would say to nerd like 1.00

00:09:16.880 the 40 year old guy who still has a bunch of no no he's not like that he's my star wars collection

00:09:21.500 I don't think of it as a bad thing my dad's just the type of guy to like program for like 10 hours or

00:09:27.020 figure out stuff on his business for like 10 12 hours um yeah I don't think your mom ever saw him

00:09:32.800 as nerdy she saw him as ambitious probably yeah I don't know I don't know but yeah she told me she

00:09:40.320 liked him because he was fun too but I my point nerds aren't fun nerds aren't fun okay maybe the

00:09:46.620 nerd is the wrong word yeah just a smart guy yeah it's not flashy yeah I just don't think like

00:09:53.580 I don't know I think nowadays I don't think like you know you always hear about like women 0.90

00:10:00.220 overlooking like certain guys in high school or whatever and then they like come back later like

00:10:04.680 I feel like that's kind of like my dad or like certain I don't know oh like that meme where like

00:10:09.620 the girl's sleeping with the bad guy yeah and then she's pregnant five years later yeah where did all

00:10:14.140 the good guys go and he's rich now that was him yeah I don't know but I don't know I don't want to

00:10:21.300 put my dad on blast as many of you know I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily

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JustPearlyThings - May 03, 2023

Sneako On After Converting To Islam

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