JustPearlyThings - May 03, 2023


SNEAKO On Why He Converted To Islam


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

209.59332

Word Count

1,943

Sentence Count

204

Misogynist Sentences

22

Hate Speech Sentences

16


Summary

In this episode, we talk about the differences between Christianity and Islam, and how they affect our lives. We also talk about what it means to be a Christian and a Muslim, and the differences in the roles of men and women in those religions.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 You're kind of reminding me how much of a bad Catholic I am, because I'm like, I don't even remember the answer to these questions.
00:00:05.280 I mean, that's what it is. You're eating crackers that are his body, and you're drinking his blood.
00:00:09.000 There's more to it. It's like...
00:00:10.560 That's what it is. I grew up Catholic. I almost got confirmed.
00:00:12.720 Yeah, but it's like, that's what Jesus did at the Last Supper, is like, take this...
00:00:16.580 Jesus ate his own body?
00:00:18.300 Yeah, sort of.
00:00:19.440 Weird.
00:00:19.900 I don't know if it was like...
00:00:20.760 What type of dude is eating his body?
00:00:21.720 I mean, well, I think that's what...
00:00:22.600 And he's God at the same time?
00:00:23.840 That's where the Christians and the Catholics, like the Christians say, oh, that was just a symbol.
00:00:27.920 I'm sorry. The Catholics are going to roast me. I'm a bad Catholic. I don't know what to tell you.
00:00:31.660 But the Catholics believe, like, we actually... Yeah.
00:00:36.500 Yeah, well, I grew up Catholic. I guess the hardcore, there's a lot of division there.
00:00:39.820 But you know that in the Koran, they talk more about Jesus than Muhammad.
00:00:43.640 Jesus is brought up all the time. He's not actually God, though.
00:00:50.160 That's the difference in Catholicism, why it didn't really make sense to me, because how could you be a human and God?
00:00:55.080 Catholics believe that Jesus is God and God is God, but they're the same, like, father, son.
00:01:01.160 It's like this weird... That doesn't make any sense to me, but in Islam, the reason that I converted is Allah is the one true God.
00:01:08.540 That's the one... That's the creator of the universe, the creator of everything.
00:01:11.500 Jesus was there to spread his message. Muhammad was the prophet.
00:01:14.160 And then we are all his people. We are all his creation.
00:01:17.440 And that just makes the most sense to me, because, like, what's the best explanation for why the world exists?
00:01:21.820 There must be a creator. But instead of, like, a human half-body eating...
00:01:26.020 Yeah. That is a little confusing.
00:01:28.720 That's why I like... It's just there's one creator.
00:01:30.680 And also, they're really strict on their beliefs on masculinity and femininity,
00:01:36.400 on the differences between men and women and our roles and what we should be doing.
00:01:40.440 I went to the mosque, and I was with some well-respected people in the Islamic community.
00:01:46.900 I don't want to say... I was with them, and after the first time praying there, you get on the rug, and, you know, you do all that.
00:01:53.520 And I asked them when we were leaving, I'm like, why are there no women here?
00:01:57.700 Like, I didn't even... I never thought about them before.
00:01:59.540 I was in the mosque, and, like, I never noticed, like, there's no women here.
00:02:03.260 And then I asked them that question. He looked at me like I was stupid.
00:02:06.040 Like, they're at home. They're cooking.
00:02:08.720 Like, why would they... They don't need to... They pray at home. They don't need to be here.
00:02:10.960 It's the men's job to go out and provide and to go and... But they don't...
00:02:15.020 And I never even realized that they don't... That they're not there,
00:02:17.920 because the division between men and women is extremely important, respected, and it's ingrained in the culture.
00:02:23.840 But that's not the same in any of these other religions.
00:02:28.160 That's true. And a lot of Christian... And I would say in Catholic religions, the women are leading relationships.
00:02:34.220 They're in charge.
00:02:34.800 Yeah.
00:02:35.140 Happy wife, happy life.
00:02:36.200 Yeah. What's the other one? She wears the pants.
00:02:39.140 I mean, I heard that all the time growing up. She wears the pants in a relationship.
00:02:43.140 Like, there are so many couples that I can point to and say, yeah, that's...
00:02:46.640 And they'd be like, oh, she got asked the wife if she wears the pants.
00:02:50.280 And then, oh, yeah, the wife.
00:02:51.540 Yeah.
00:02:52.220 Well, it's, like, in America, and I'll say, like, I think this definitely affected me.
00:02:57.060 It's, like, men and women are kind of raised the same.
00:02:59.640 And they don't really talk about our differences.
00:03:01.720 And even, like, being in sports, you know, that's, like, a typically, like, male-dominated, like, you know,
00:03:07.840 men are better at sports, right?
00:03:09.600 Really?
00:03:10.920 No.
00:03:11.240 Well, now we got in our leagues.
00:03:13.260 Get them out.
00:03:13.960 Get them out.
00:03:14.760 Good thing you got out of volleyball.
00:03:15.840 Now you'd be destroyed by Dylan Mulvaney.
00:03:18.980 Actually, I think you could beat him up.
00:03:20.580 I think you got him.
00:03:21.360 I actually rejoined the team after I told you I quit.
00:03:24.180 Hey.
00:03:24.680 Yeah.
00:03:25.360 That's good.
00:03:25.860 Yeah.
00:03:26.260 So, I don't...
00:03:26.780 We'll see.
00:03:27.360 We'll see.
00:03:27.780 But what I realized is, like, a lot of times, like, the women in sports are a little bit
00:03:33.740 more masculine because we're kind of, like, being trained and raised.
00:03:36.720 It's competitive.
00:03:37.480 Yeah.
00:03:37.840 And that's what I realized.
00:03:40.440 Like, I think women, like, we are happier when they push our differences.
00:03:44.580 But the thing is, in America, they act like we're exactly the same.
00:03:47.200 Why not do that?
00:03:51.860 The big wake-up call was going to Japan and seeing.
00:03:54.680 And you have to go.
00:03:55.820 You have to go just to see how the women act.
00:03:57.900 Because this is a big part of your show.
00:03:59.340 And I think it will give you a new perspective.
00:04:00.480 The women there don't have a drop of testosterone in their body.
00:04:05.000 Like, just the way that they smile, the way that they talk to you, how high-pitched their
00:04:09.400 voice is.
00:04:11.160 It's like, whoa.
00:04:12.040 And it's just so nice.
00:04:13.220 It's just so soothing and pleasant.
00:04:15.080 Like, you order something.
00:04:15.960 Oh, okay.
00:04:16.460 Okay.
00:04:16.660 And you're like, oh.
00:04:19.020 And you just want to protect them.
00:04:21.900 Just naturally, you feel more like a man because you want to protect and you want to provide
00:04:26.800 for her.
00:04:27.240 You just want to create that nice environment for this beautiful, feminine woman.
00:04:32.320 And then you realize there, like, the amount of bullshit that you need to put up with with
00:04:39.600 these women in America and London, how combative they are and how hard it is for them to submit.
00:04:45.360 Like, it's not in their nature.
00:04:47.160 Everything in the culture is steering them away from being feminine.
00:04:51.460 It's like, now you, this, it's just the Cardi B thing.
00:04:54.960 You need to be the tip-top guy in order to make a woman submit.
00:04:58.460 But women are happy to just do that in Japan, the way that they dress.
00:05:02.440 They're just way more girly and not in, like, an overly sexual way.
00:05:06.180 None of them have their cleavage out.
00:05:07.780 They're always have, they're not showing too much, like, skin.
00:05:12.360 They, but they dress extremely girly with their dresses and their fingernails.
00:05:16.500 And, like, someone would walk around with cat ears because it's goofy.
00:05:19.460 And you, you, you see there, like, why am I putting up with women who want to be men at
00:05:28.680 the same time when you could just go to a different place and find an actually feminine woman?
00:05:34.200 You, you understand why so many guys are, are just, are just giving up.
00:05:38.440 Yeah.
00:05:39.060 You get it.
00:05:39.620 Like, and even now that the guys who are becoming women in the West, like, they just want,
00:05:44.400 you see the types of guys that they, that they want.
00:05:46.720 And they're like, yeah, I just need a stud, like, I need an ultimate.
00:05:49.400 They just want to get f***ed.
00:05:50.960 They just want someone else to take control.
00:05:52.360 It's relinquishing control because it's so hard to be in control when you all, it's a constant battle.
00:05:59.140 But they want someone else to take control and just let the work, you know, give up.
00:06:04.040 It's just giving up.
00:06:05.320 It's not, it's not feeling like a woman.
00:06:06.920 It's just like, f***, man.
00:06:08.320 I hate this.
00:06:09.180 And I think it's even good for American women to see it because it gives us an example,
00:06:13.400 which a lot of women in the West don't have.
00:06:15.260 Like, what, what feminine women examples do we have in media?
00:06:19.220 What feminine, like, even most.
00:06:20.780 Oriana.
00:06:21.580 Oriana Grande, I think is a pretty good example.
00:06:25.220 There's very few.
00:06:28.760 I just, I don't really get the, I don't, I'm not, I don't know much about her.
00:06:34.620 There's very few.
00:06:35.500 There's very few.
00:06:36.000 But the way she acts, she's kind of, she kind of acts in everything.
00:06:38.580 Like, she covers her wrist.
00:06:40.000 She's like, she kind of acts like that.
00:06:42.120 I just mean like, like women that are truly traditional with like traditional skills.
00:06:47.000 We had a girl that taught an episode of wife school and she was like teaching me like cooking
00:06:52.000 basically.
00:06:52.460 Right.
00:06:52.920 And I was so inspired just being around her to be just spending a day with her because
00:06:57.400 she was just so like the most feminine woman I've ever met in my life.
00:07:00.640 And I think that like in the West, a lot of times, especially people from single parent homes,
00:07:05.520 they've never met someone like that.
00:07:07.840 And it's not all those, the women, it's not their fault either.
00:07:10.520 A lot of the time it's the weak men.
00:07:12.360 Like women can't be in their feminine nature if they're around a bunch of.
00:07:15.800 But why are the men weak?
00:07:17.360 Because the women are masculinized too.
00:07:19.180 It's when you, when you act like there's no division, when you separate the idea that we're different.
00:07:25.260 I have a different take.
00:07:26.400 What's your take?
00:07:26.740 So my take is it's the government because of the way that relationships are set up by
00:07:31.880 the government.
00:07:32.620 And I think that's why, so if me and you are in a contract, right?
00:07:35.980 If we're, if we're married, right?
00:07:37.640 And I get paid to walk away and you lose everything by walking away.
00:07:42.040 You're always going to be trying to make me happy so I don't walk away.
00:07:45.620 I think that influences relationships.
00:07:47.800 And I think that's the shift where you see in relationships where women started like wearing
00:07:52.700 the pants.
00:07:53.500 Yeah, we don't disagree, but there's many factors.
00:07:56.740 Like that, that's a major factor.
00:07:58.540 The music that we listen to.
00:08:00.080 The media.
00:08:01.060 It's everything.
00:08:01.980 It's just Western culture.
00:08:03.900 It's all of it.
00:08:05.480 There's the separate, like not having any identity.
00:08:07.640 People are always arguing and people, the beliefs that we have, everything is steering
00:08:13.220 us in that direction.
00:08:13.980 So my other question too, as you mentioned Japan, why are the women still so unmarried and
00:08:18.720 single there?
00:08:19.260 I know it's a big problem.
00:08:21.240 So it's like.
00:08:21.680 Is that a true stat?
00:08:22.480 Mm-hmm.
00:08:22.940 What are the stats on that?
00:08:24.540 I don't, you may look it up.
00:08:25.860 I can.
00:08:26.640 Sure.
00:08:27.040 Okay.
00:08:27.480 But it's like, it's like.
00:08:29.780 There's a lot of single women in Japan.
00:08:31.220 Mm-hmm.
00:08:32.040 Yeah.
00:08:32.340 And I don't.
00:08:32.760 I heard that.
00:08:33.020 I didn't see that.
00:08:33.960 When I went there, I heard a lot of rumors about Japan.
00:08:35.980 Like they talked about how creepy it was.
00:08:38.280 Like one thing that people hear is that they sell girls panties and vending machines.
00:08:41.820 I didn't see that.
00:08:42.440 Um, they talked about how, how many single, like how creepy guys are on the train.
00:08:48.220 I didn't see.
00:08:48.760 I was on the train every single day.
00:08:50.300 There wasn't any, any creepy stuff like that.
00:08:52.500 And you actually will see it in New York.
00:08:54.280 You'll see people smoking on the train and taking a piss in the corner.
00:08:57.780 But Japan is not like that.
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