JustPearlyThings - April 19, 2023


SNEAKO VS Modern Woman


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Length

11 minutes

Words per minute

226.31734

Word count

2,577

Sentence count

272

Harmful content

Misogyny

42

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Hate speech

25

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about how women in the west are more depressed than other countries, the importance of a career and why it s a good thing for women to work. We also talk about the difference between women and men when it comes to mental health.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Are women happier in the West? 1.00
00:00:01.720 I think so.
00:00:02.500 I don't think so.
00:00:04.140 Let me just think this through with you, okay?
00:00:08.520 How would we measure if women are happier in the West or in other countries? 0.96
00:00:11.980 The rate of women on what?
00:00:13.720 Antidepressants.
00:00:14.660 Because you would agree, depressed women take drugs, right? 0.99
00:00:17.960 I beg you.
00:00:18.420 To not be depressed, right?
00:00:21.220 Okay.
00:00:21.900 So if the women in the West are on antidepressants higher, that means our results are not good. 0.69
00:00:26.440 If we're more obese than other countries, our results are not good.
00:00:30.400 So, yeah, we're more successful.
00:00:33.720 Not in terms of happiness.
00:00:35.360 You're basic success monetarily.
00:00:37.620 Success is about enjoyment of life.
00:00:39.680 It's not about wrapping and making.
00:00:40.960 Wait, I thought y'all weren't paid equally.
00:00:43.120 What?
00:00:43.680 I thought you weren't paid equally.
00:00:46.140 That's not what she said.
00:00:47.140 Are you financially successful?
00:00:49.600 No, she means more financially independent.
00:00:51.680 Success is not about how much money you're making.
00:00:53.020 Because financial independence is important.
00:00:54.920 For example, I'll give you a reason why.
00:00:56.700 The average woman makes like $25,000 a year. 1.00
00:00:59.820 No, financial independence is important.
00:01:00.680 So they're not that successful.
00:01:02.480 Can I ask you a question?
00:01:03.460 That's poverty.
00:01:04.380 Okay, compared to the countries.
00:01:07.280 Where they probably would have a better lifestyle because they live off of their family's income.
00:01:12.240 Of their husbands.
00:01:13.900 You know, sister, can I say something here?
00:01:16.480 It's important for women to have financial stability because you can't always rely on men to be there to give you things. 1.00
00:01:22.620 It's not just because men are trash and men are not reliable.
00:01:25.480 Everybody dies, which means that you as a woman need to also be able to count on a way to stabilize yourself. 0.99
00:01:31.900 Because if you do have children, you also need to be able to provide for the children so things go wrong, for example.
00:01:37.220 So that's why certain things like financial independence and having a career can be important for women. 1.00
00:01:41.480 And I know this because I speak about my mom from experience.
00:01:44.500 If she didn't go to work and she was a housewife, if she didn't go to work, we would have been suffering. 0.99
00:01:49.720 We should have had to go jump in bed with somebody else to provide for her, which she didn't do. 1.00
00:01:53.560 So she went to work.
00:01:54.520 So it's a good thing.
00:01:55.400 It's a good thing for women to go and work and have a career. 1.00
00:01:57.320 I don't think what we're trying to say that women working is a bad thing. 1.00
00:02:01.680 What we're trying to say is women putting work over family is a bad thing. 1.00
00:02:05.520 Because if you go back to what Pearl said, the results have been bad.
00:02:08.820 They've been horrible.
00:02:09.420 Also, as well, a lot of work is not really what it's cracked up to be.
00:02:12.320 I mean, it seems like women have worked really, really hard and fought really hard to be able to go and work in cubicles for, you know, eight hours a day, which is pretty shit. 1.00
00:02:19.620 You know, let's face it.
00:02:21.280 Most people aren't going to become Cardi B.
00:02:22.840 Most people aren't going to become like a world-famous rapper or, you know, like a super influencer, right?
00:02:28.900 Most jobs are not very good.
00:02:30.440 So why is this importance put onto that when actually most people are trying to get out of work because it's, you know, out of normal jobs because they're so terrible.
00:02:38.300 It's because feminism made these women think that being a mother is a bad thing, that they're oppressed, that they compare it to cows, to being bred. 1.00
00:02:46.440 They don't see any value in being a mother. 1.00
00:02:49.820 They compare themselves to men all the time.
00:02:51.700 They want to go fix cars like we do.
00:02:53.220 They want to go rap like we do.
00:02:54.360 Why is it men don't fix cars only? 0.98
00:02:56.740 See?
00:02:57.120 And why is it men not rap only?
00:02:58.520 All right, because women aren't as good at it. 1.00
00:03:00.540 Well, if I get stuck in the middle of nowhere, I don't have my phone.
00:03:03.640 Good thing I can change my tire.
00:03:04.920 Wait, wait, wait.
00:03:05.580 Look at the survival skills.
00:03:06.780 Look at, Denalva, wait.
00:03:08.500 The top ten rappers of all time, are they men or women?
00:03:11.580 There's a woman in there. 1.00
00:03:12.660 There's a woman in there. 1.00
00:03:13.440 Are the majority, stop.
00:03:15.060 Come on.
00:03:15.860 Are the majority men or women?
00:03:18.440 Men.
00:03:18.760 Definitely men.
00:03:19.260 Okay, so women aren't as good at it. 1.00
00:03:21.040 Well, that doesn't mean that they're not as good at it.
00:03:23.600 That's exactly what they're saying.
00:03:24.440 No, that doesn't mean that.
00:03:26.780 That's exactly what they're saying.
00:03:28.000 It's not.
00:03:29.180 Do you know why?
00:03:30.140 Because that's the same thing as saying women have only just started going into science because it's more encouraged.
00:03:34.960 But because there's more men engineers, they're all better than women. 1.00
00:03:38.640 No, women can't be good at it. 1.00
00:03:39.960 But they're just still trying to go into things because we are still catching up with something that's been there for men for a very long time.
00:03:45.700 No, because we're picking in, like, they're trying to push women into industries we're not naturally good at. 1.00
00:03:51.760 Listen, Wrapping is like poetry.
00:03:53.600 You're basically saying no one can't write poetry as good as a man.
00:03:55.880 Wait, Denalva, wait.
00:03:56.560 Jesus.
00:03:57.360 Wait, Denalva.
00:03:58.720 It's like we were trying to make women into men and we're not men. 0.59
00:04:02.460 No, rapping is not for men because rapping is art.
00:04:06.360 If women wanted to do it and were good at it, they would do it. 1.00
00:04:12.100 Men as rappers sell more because whatever it is that they're rapping about as well is more like it helps men feel empowered, feel this.
00:04:21.120 There's a certain advantage for men within that industry.
00:04:24.000 Can I ask you a question?
00:04:25.360 Why aren't men, like, top of the, what's the word, top of the list when it comes to, like, the beauty influence?
00:04:32.560 They are, though.
00:04:33.780 No, they're not.
00:04:34.860 They are not.
00:04:35.540 Because we're pre-funning and mostly.
00:04:37.340 Modelling.
00:04:38.000 The modelling industry.
00:04:39.120 Exactly.
00:04:39.620 Why aren't men...
00:04:40.100 Who dominates the modelling industry?
00:04:41.700 In men or women? 0.53
00:04:42.400 Why does Giselle make more than Tom Brady? 1.00
00:04:44.860 Exactly.
00:04:45.560 Clearly because they're better at it.
00:04:47.140 Women are better at makeup. 1.00
00:04:48.540 Men are better at other things.
00:04:49.780 We need to stop acting like we can do the same things.
00:04:52.200 No, it's not.
00:04:52.740 Because women are visually... 1.00
00:04:54.100 Sometimes there's exceptions.
00:04:56.060 Sometimes there's exceptions.
00:04:57.200 I know there's a male YouTuber who can probably do more makeup than me.
00:05:00.420 But if we're talking on a general sense, let's be real.
00:05:03.080 Let's be realistic.
00:05:03.680 Because women please the visuals. 1.00
00:05:05.700 You just argued, aren't you?
00:05:06.800 You just talked.
00:05:08.020 And we're good at that.
00:05:08.860 It's true.
00:05:09.420 But we also need to admit...
00:05:11.760 I'm getting to ask why.
00:05:12.180 I said because.
00:05:13.100 I'm not arguing.
00:05:14.100 I'm agreeing.
00:05:14.860 But the same way we can admit women are better at this and women are better at visuals.
00:05:19.780 And so why are we so afraid to admit that men are better than other things than we are?
00:05:23.720 Exactly.
00:05:24.580 For example, I would not want to have a man running a nursery school because I wouldn't 1.00
00:05:29.700 want to leave my small child with a man. 0.86
00:05:31.260 I'd rather leave a man with a woman. 1.00
00:05:31.880 But then why do you argue so hard with men?
00:05:34.740 I don't argue.
00:05:35.820 Wait.
00:05:36.440 Wait.
00:05:36.780 That men are better rappers than women because the results show it. 0.98
00:05:41.440 No.
00:05:41.860 Because there's more men rappers and they do better at it.
00:05:44.700 It's like I'm talking to a kid right now.
00:05:46.320 You're very childish.
00:05:47.640 I understand why you think she's good TV because you just talk.
00:05:51.200 You're just talking.
00:05:52.700 What are you talking about?
00:05:53.780 Okay.
00:05:54.100 I'll tell you why.
00:05:54.940 For example, rapping.
00:05:56.580 What is rapping?
00:05:57.360 Rapping is us.
00:05:58.280 You write lyrics.
00:05:59.180 It's poetry essentially.
00:06:01.660 Right?
00:06:02.180 Okay.
00:06:02.820 The only difference between poetry and rapping is because when you rap, you flow on a beat.
00:06:07.120 Cool.
00:06:07.460 So that has nothing to do with you being a man or a woman.
00:06:09.680 Now, when it comes to taking care of children and babies, for example, then there, I'm going
00:06:14.900 to say, yeah, it is about being a man and a woman.
00:06:17.060 So there are certain things where the rule does not apply and there are certain things
00:06:19.860 that the rule definitely apply.
00:06:20.960 So I am not stupid, sir.
00:06:22.120 No, but then chill out.
00:06:22.960 I'm not calling you stupid, but just because you're speaking loud, it doesn't mean that
00:06:25.780 you're making a good point.
00:06:26.320 I can't hear myself too well, so obviously I have to project my voice.
00:06:28.740 Listen a little bit because you're not making a good point just because you're speaking up.
00:06:31.920 Okay.
00:06:32.520 Why did I not make a good point?
00:06:33.860 You're not having any stance.
00:06:35.040 You say you're not a feminist, but you're saying that women should be scientists too. 0.57
00:06:38.720 We can rap the same, but also I'm not.
00:06:40.700 Because I'm not a feminist, I just think people have skills. 1.00
00:06:42.700 You've been talking the most out of anyone on this panel and you have no specific point
00:06:46.600 of view.
00:06:47.380 My point of view is simply to say that you guys just want to argue about black and white when there's
00:06:52.700 great points in the middle, the same way that sometimes the rule applies where men are
00:06:56.920 better at something than women. 1.00
00:06:58.260 And sometimes it doesn't.
00:06:59.420 That's why I'm not a feminist. 0.99
00:07:00.700 Dinalva, you've been on too many shows to not know that we are talking about in general.
00:07:06.340 Like I've told you this so many times.
00:07:07.920 And I've been on too many shows to know that I sit here to tell my point so that I can then
00:07:11.780 take the content and put it on my page the right way for my brand.
00:07:15.140 You can say your point, but that doesn't mean you're right.
00:07:20.160 No, but this looks better.
00:07:21.480 So there you go.
00:07:23.300 It's not about, for everybody watching, it's not about making a clear point.
00:07:26.600 It's just, this is her time.
00:07:27.780 She's on camera.
00:07:28.700 You like talking.
00:07:29.680 It's about empowerment.
00:07:30.280 It's about calling bullshit on black and white.
00:07:32.140 You like hearing your own voice.
00:07:34.340 I love my voice.
00:07:35.180 And I like looking at myself.
00:07:36.160 This is narcissism.
00:07:37.420 You have no point of view.
00:07:38.880 You're just here to talk.
00:07:39.940 I agree with you because you're saying things as if I should be a teacher.
00:07:43.180 I'm going to, I'm going to, I want to, I want to hear from you.
00:07:45.860 Cause I, I don't think we have all show.
00:07:48.140 I'm just here getting heated a little bit.
00:07:50.060 I just feel like everything.
00:07:52.280 So feminism, it's just women demonizing everything that women are good at. 1.00
00:07:57.600 So being able to give birth, reproduction is beautiful.
00:08:03.320 It is a beautiful thing.
00:08:05.300 Why are we demonizing it?
00:08:06.640 Why are we relating ourselves to cows?
00:08:09.840 Yeah.
00:08:10.220 I don't get that.
00:08:10.540 Who said that?
00:08:11.420 Who was it that said that?
00:08:12.460 A rapper.
00:08:13.160 It's that true negative mindset.
00:08:14.220 And I hate to bring religion into it, but as a Christian, I can only speak on what I know
00:08:17.460 in the Bible, like the main focus for women is to reproduce. 0.99
00:08:21.320 So for you to try and make it seem like it's a bad thing is literally ludicrous to me.
00:08:25.500 We're on this planet to reproduce.
00:08:26.680 And this is why I say there's nothing else to it.
00:08:28.600 Forget society.
00:08:29.360 Forget everything else.
00:08:30.100 We are literally here to make children.
00:08:32.100 And this is why I said feminism is demonic. 1.00
00:08:34.560 It is demonic.
00:08:35.680 We're producing.
00:08:37.180 I'm here for more than just to give birth to a child, actually.
00:08:41.640 I can be a mother, but I also, I am an educator.
00:08:44.180 I'm here to help other people.
00:08:44.940 But you're getting it the wrong way.
00:08:45.860 We're not saying that.
00:08:46.480 I'm not here to just give birth to a child.
00:08:48.820 That's what you're saying.
00:08:49.980 Wait, wait, wait.
00:08:50.580 I'm not saying that I'm here to just give birth to a child.
00:08:53.060 Guys, guys, one at a time.
00:08:55.480 One at a time.
00:08:55.940 I'm going to, wait, wait.
00:08:57.040 Thank you.
00:08:57.480 I'm going to let you go.
00:08:58.360 Go ahead.
00:08:58.820 That's not what we're saying.
00:08:59.600 Because when she asked for a fun fact, I said first my career.
00:09:01.920 I'm not saying that I'm here to just become a mother, to just give kids.
00:09:06.260 But we are saying the main, he said the most important thing is motherhood.
00:09:09.420 And you guys are trying to take away from the fact of the matter.
00:09:11.520 The fact of the matter is that the most important thing for a woman is to be a mother.
00:09:15.020 You can want a career.
00:09:16.060 You can want to be rich.
00:09:17.100 Mental health, all of that.
00:09:17.920 That's all nice and fun.
00:09:18.820 But the main factor of life is the most important thing is being a mother.
00:09:22.320 And you guys are just trying to argue with the sake of arguing.
00:09:24.260 Because what you guys are saying, you're just both contradicting yourself.
00:09:26.400 And you're both bumping heads, which makes zero sense whatsoever.
00:09:28.540 What is more meaningful ultimately in life terms?
00:09:30.660 Is it having a child?
00:09:31.720 Is it having a family?
00:09:32.520 Is it having those connections with other human beings?
00:09:35.040 You know, in this brief period of you've got this planet.
00:09:36.720 Or is it going to work at a cubicle for eight hours?
00:09:38.620 What's the most important thing for men then?
00:09:40.580 If women is giving birth ways for you guys? 0.95
00:09:43.020 Creation.
00:09:44.300 Okay.
00:09:45.060 That's a good one.
00:09:45.760 In every way.
00:09:46.740 I'll say creating everything.
00:09:48.300 Inventing, building, maintaining society.
00:09:50.380 Creating children.
00:09:50.920 And then protecting and providing for that family.
00:09:53.820 Including a very good mother and wife.
00:09:56.280 Do you feel like men have been doing a good job at that lately?
00:09:58.400 No, I don't.
00:09:59.040 But I also think that it's in a lot of ways, since the women control the sex. 1.00
00:10:02.780 And the men control their relationships. 0.93
00:10:04.300 The abundance of sex.
00:10:05.740 And the promiscuity.
00:10:07.380 And the agenda that we're currently going through.
00:10:09.340 I think it's making both sides very sad.
00:10:12.580 It doesn't have to be a gray area.
00:10:13.940 That's what you're saying to dismiss the argument.
00:10:15.900 The point is like men have a specific role.
00:10:18.080 And women have a specific role. 1.00
00:10:19.420 That's a black and white that I think we should agree on.
00:10:23.060 Definitely.
00:10:23.840 And we can also agree that men and women are equal.
00:10:25.700 Just in completely different roles.
00:10:27.620 100%.
00:10:28.340 That's all.
00:10:29.740 The world doesn't go without mothers. 0.97
00:10:31.300 Particularly mothers. 0.98
00:10:32.920 They're going to be the foundational base of every human that comes into this world.
00:10:36.620 Not just after the fact.
00:10:38.040 But while she's holding the baby. 0.89
00:10:39.360 How she treats her body while that baby's there.
00:10:41.700 The words that are coming out of her mouth.
00:10:43.340 And that baby can hear you while she's in there. 1.00
00:10:45.280 Everything about that situation and the atmosphere that the mother creates.
00:10:48.520 It's going to have a lot to do with the mental health of that child.
00:10:50.900 Boy or girl.
00:10:52.100 It's the most important job in the world.
00:10:54.180 And then at some point when it's a little boy.
00:10:56.300 I am very big on handing that little boy off to the father.
00:10:59.600 And the father gets to take care of that family.
00:11:02.340 He gets to be a man.
00:11:03.680 He gets to be the hero for that situation.
00:11:05.480 That's what's broken about everything we're talking about.
00:11:07.000 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok.
00:11:10.600 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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