The Biggest Problem in Modern Relationships
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Summary
What is the biggest problem facing men today and what is the problem facing women today? In this episode, we will be discussing the problems facing men and women and how they are to blame for them. We will also be discussing how women are more self-accountable than men and how that is a good thing.
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What is the number one problem facing men today, and what is the number one problem facing women today?
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The number one problem with men is that they don't tell women the truth,
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and the number one problem with women is that they can't handle the truth. Simple.
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That's a good paradigm to start from, because it's actually very interesting you say that.
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A lot of women say, I just want a man who's honest, and then the second you're honest, she's like, what?
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It's like, well, then don't ask me for honesty. Of course I fucking lie.
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I don't think it's the biggest problem, but it certainly is a problem in relationships today.
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The biggest problem with men today is that I think the world is becoming hyper-competitive.
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Most men are not aware and understanding of how quickly there's going to be a genuine shift
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in between those who have things and those who do not have things.
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Not just finances, but also female status, everything else.
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And it's becoming harder and harder for men to play.
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And a woman, if you ask her what she wants from a man, she's like, I don't want much.
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I just want to find a nice man who's a millionaire and six foot tall and funny and charismatic
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and interesting and spontaneous and looks after me and doesn't cheat.
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Like, they name all this shit that most dudes are never going to have.
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And you end up with people, top Gs, who own everything on the planet they could ever possibly
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And then you've got other guys who have nothing.
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And then you've got dudes who are just blocking girls left, right, and center.
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And that's what the problem with being a man is today.
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But society punishes men for not being self-accountable, but society does not punish women for not
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If you're a man and you're arrogant and you think you're something when you're not, trust
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me, society will teach you very quickly that you don't matter when you don't get laid and
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If you're a chick and think you're something when you're not, you can run around with your
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ego, still get dates, still get laid, still have a fairly sensible social life.
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Society as a whole doesn't come along and slap you in the face with realizations.
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If you're a man and you think you're something you're not, it is a ticking time bomb
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This is why men in general are more self-accountable because the men who are not self-accountable
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So those who are successful are very self-accountable people.
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They look at themselves and go, okay, the only way I'm going to get and progress further,
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the reason she left me, the only way I'm going to do better, make more money, et cetera,
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They think, oh, he left me because it's him and I lost my job because my boss and this
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No, you women don't look in the mirror and change a fucking thing.
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No, because don't forget what you're forgetting right now is they can't change it because
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I don't agree with what you just said because 90% of cosmetic surgery is by women.
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Women are trying to change as much as possible.
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They think that because they're a man, you're going to be attracted to them.
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You're just playing video games and you expect a woman to want to fuck you.
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And then she won't and society will teach them a lesson.
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They might be able to pull off a little blag with a girl for a year or so, but in general,
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In general, they're going to struggle to find partners.
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I agree with you with the cosmetic surgery thing.
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Women are happy to change their appearance and change how they look, but they're not happy
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The women are changing what the men don't care about.
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No, the women are doing that for themselves because the men don't care about it.
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The men would rather a woman change her stinking attitude than put on all that makeup and hair
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But the women will go out there like, oh, I'm going to change this.
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If you look at a man and the man said, yeah, he's fat.
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The man will most, if he's feeling bad about himself, he wants to make that.
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Get her BBL, get her lips done, put on her makeup, put on her hair and say the big old
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fat person that she is and say, oh, it's body positivity.
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And the women are not getting all this cosmetic surgery for the men.
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What man wants a woman that's going to turn around, go and have an operation and can't
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sit on a plane because her ass has been injected or been interfered with?
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Or wake up in the morning before you've got to hit the house.
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She's got to put on, I'm sure I worried about some of the men because they must go out
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with a woman and then when they wake up in the morning, they think, who the hell is she?
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By the time you take everything off, women need to change their attitudes before they
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I'm sure that even more than that, change your attitude because women have got there and
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they want to change this, they want to change that.
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If you learn to, the same way how women can go out there and learn to put makeup on, learn
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to cook, learn to wash by hand, learn to please a man.
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I'm saying, it's like you're, we had literally just talked about this off camera when we,
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when you guys came here from the airport, when we were talking about, oh, what's the value
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system or the point system for a woman who cooks versus a woman who can suck good dick
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No, but I'm saying is, is that Pearl, if you can correct me if I'm wrong, but quoting
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her was that when she interviewed people on the street, that there was more points given
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to something like a sexual return as opposed to, oh, wash this is my hand.
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But we literally just talked about this yesterday.
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I did a street interview and I asked the guys, would you rather have a girl that gave good
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But I think that's more for like a one night stand.
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But what I'm trying to say is that if you, all the women out there and they're talking
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about, well, some of the women want to be settled down, they want a man.
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Look at, when you're doing street interviews, you're doing single people.
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Look at the people there that are happily married and ask them what they do.
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Because all the things that the women out there are doing, you can be a housewife.
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You can suck head just as good as any old tramp on the street.
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And I can say that because I'm 32 years in Canton.
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Auntie, you can't say attraction is not important though.
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You can't say attraction is not important though.
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A man is not going to find you attractive and then think, oh, because you can cook well.
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Would you be with a girl that's 5 out of 10 because she can cook?
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Well, firstly, that's not what she said to be fair.
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And secondly, I'd be with a 10 out of 10 who can cook because I'm top G.
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But to make the point, I think what you have to understand is what men are looking for in a relationship.
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So you did the street interview and you're asking single people, probably young people, probably idiots who know they're on camera talking shit about good head all this garbage.
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What men are interested in, in life, not just in their relationship, but in their life as a whole is status.
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I don't think most people understand, especially women, how competitive the male world is and how competitive it is for status.
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Men buy the faster car, not to drive any faster because of status.
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That's why we want to go to the gym and get big and strong because of status.
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So what's the number one thing we want our female to give us?
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But another thing she could do is if I turn up home and I come home with my boys and she says, I'll cook you all a steak.
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That's all my boys going, Ross, you just been out all night and she's here and she's going to cook for all of us and she'll clean up and tidy up.
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That's the kind of girl a man's not going to want to lose because it makes him look good.
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Listen, dick can only be sucked in so many ways.
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This is a very serious point because the Western world has collapsed in real time and it's a failed society.
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And one of the reasons it's a failed society is because of the over-sexualization, especially of females as a whole.
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If a woman comes up to me and goes, I'll be the best sex you ever had, I am fucking revolted.
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Don't come and talk to me about fucking sucking dick.
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No woman who's running around talking about sucking dick can make me look good.
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These are old school things, but it's not about the act.
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So basically, it's a straight shooting sort of conversation.
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But I think that sometimes we get distracted and we talk about the bicker bicker between men and women.
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I think that the problem that men and women have is the consequences of the bad decisions that the 1% of powerful men make on our behalf.
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Because our problems are on a societal level, less than between women and men.
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That is why there's a lot of competition between men.
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This chase for status that they will never get.
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Because they're the ones that drive the machine that runs this.
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But then think about the men that are at the top now.
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And this is why it feels very good to sit next to somebody like you and just say, do you know what?
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I appreciate that you say things that are really true.
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You expose a very toxic truth and a very true truth as well that is out there.
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But the reality is on the trenches, when you go to the grassroots, people don't feel the way that you feel.
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So my job here is really not to try and make it about men and women.
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It's to make you understand that actually we need to start changing the narrative.
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But the idea that this is 1% of men have created this terrible society.
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It's always been a small elite group of men who are in charge of the world.
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And unfortunately, now we're fighting battles in different ways.
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The days of old, a man proved his worth by going to war.
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Basically, every man at any point in his life was going to end up going to war.
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Now men don't have to go to war as much depending on where you live in the world.
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And one of the true expressions of testosterone in trying to really express your ability and
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your combative ability now in the modern world is power and influence.
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So in the olden days, you'd go to war, you'd come back with a ribbon.
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Nowadays, you've got X amount of followers, you can move the world with money.
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So you're talking about high status males and that it's always been that way.
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Now you have a whole contingent of men who aren't dead.
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Okay, they didn't die in a ditch, but they're lonely as fuck jerking off.
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I'm not sitting here actually shitting on women in any way.
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I think women have a biological instinct to a degree to try and find the best mate they
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can because it gives them the highest chance of survival and the harsh realities of the world.
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And if they look at a man who's not capable, they just don't feel an attraction to him.
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And that's why I actually, I'm largely misunderstood.
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Women are guilty of certain things, but I have a massive amount of blame to place on men
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because there's so many men who are genuinely incompetent.
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I don't understand why people are always going for the 1%.
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Why don't you just find a regular 9 to 5 person that's going to look after you?
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If it weren't for part of one, no, no, that's social media.
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When I meant 1%, it's not the 1% of attraction.
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I mean the actual people that are in charge of the things that run the world the way that
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It's always been an umbrella we've lived under.
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So as he very rightly said, society has now evolved.
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Before men went to war, now men don't go to war.
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So there's a lot of sense of no purpose that they need to find.
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And then on the women's side is that the same way that society evolved and made men feel
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less purpose, they have now had to take on bigger purposes.
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They have to go to work like they didn't have to do before.
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They have to take care of the family and work and do all of these things and now deal
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with the fact that men are feeling a little bit like out of, you know...
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What is wrong with you going out there, find a regular nine to five person, right?
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Cause I'm always saying the women say, Oh, we ain't got enough money.
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Everybody wants to go and find these top earning money.
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Find a nine to five, work regular, save your money, learn to cook or not have takeouts
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Then you should direct this to the men that feel upset because they're not like
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There's not a girl on this panel or on the planet today who couldn't walk outside and
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find a man who's going to be nice to her, loyal to her and make her his queen.
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So they'll sit there and go, No, I want Chris Brown.
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And they'll be like, I can't believe he cheated.
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Well, what the fuck do you think is going to happen?
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You have to make a decision what you truly want in your life.
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If you truly want to just find a man who's going to look after you and take care of you,
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You can find that all day, but you're going to have to settle to a degree where a lot
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They'd rather chase a fraction of a real G's time than have a hundred percent of the time
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of a fucking dude who they don't, who they don't respect at that level.
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And it's kind of like going to a car dealership.
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But if you want to get a Ferrari, it comes with, it comes with headaches.
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Men like me don't have to be, and you know that.
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So why the fuck are you here trying to tell me what to do?
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Cause you know, I don't have to be loyal and all the girls I'm fucking don't have to be loyal.
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So why are you sitting here pretending you expected me to be loyal when everyone knew
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from ground up day one, it was never going to ever fucking happen.
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They sit there and decide, no, I want this, this, this, this, this, this.
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Then you're going to have to accept he ain't going to be loyal to you.
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No, because all y'all ever talk about is your exes that cheated on you.
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Oh, good thing I'm irregular and extraordinary.
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But do you not think it's because we're not holding men accountable?
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So when a man, because he's a top G, cheats on a woman, it's like, well, what do you expect?
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When you should actually turn around to him and say-
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Accountable for his natural evolutionary biology.
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You're okay with your woman cheating on you then?
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It's a wrap when she cheats on you, but you can cheat on her.
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There has not been in the history of humanity across any culture, any book, any story, any fable,
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there has never been across the history of humanity any respect put on the name of a promiscuous female ever.
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You name the biggest conquerors that you can possibly name from history.
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They all had a hundred wives, bunch of children, big G, conquered the world.
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There has never been a single female who's been celebrated for a promiscuity ever in history.
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So yes, we are completely and utterly different.
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And if a man is at a complete top level of his life and ticks every single box.
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And if he decides to be loyal, which some do, and I can be loyal and I have been loyal.
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But there's also times in my life where I think, fuck it.
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I don't want to be and get a new girlfriend every single day of the week.
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If a woman decides to do the same purely because her value is high enough to attract so many males,
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because she's beautiful, for example, it is completely different.
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And I'm going to explain to you why it's completely different.
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It is impossible for a female to be promiscuous on a long enough period of time without devaluing
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herself because she is fucking people she shouldn't be fucking.
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There is no way she is sleeping with endless men and all of them are either high value men
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If you find a woman who slept with 50, 100 dudes, she's either fucking dudes which aren't
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at her level or haven't worked hard enough to try and get the pussy she was just too drunk
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to realize he's a loser who plays video games or she's fucking a top G who barely texts her
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So either way she's fucking dude she shouldn't be fucking or a guy who's at the level who
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doesn't give her the right amount of attention.
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For a woman to find a guy who's truly on a level who truly treats her the way she should
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If that you ain't just going to go out there fucking a new dude every week and say, yeah,
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Yeah, he treats me good enough to get my pussy.
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It's actually beautiful about the universe because it's equal and opposite forces.
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When you devalue yourself, it's kind of like men can smell it on you.
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I can just look at a bitch and go, oh, as many of you know, I was just banned on tick
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tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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