The Church is a Breeding Ground for 304's
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Summary
In this episode the guys and girls have been asked how long should a woman wait to have sex with a guy before she opens her legs to a guy? How long should women wait for a guy to be in a relationship before they have sex?
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the last time i had sex was about what seven weeks ago oh my word what about you then has
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any of the women had sex within the last couple weeks or something no but it's not by choice
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trust me ross it's not it's not it's not it's not that is by choice it's not a great well it is by
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choice so i didn't mean it wasn't by choice but it's not like i'm happy about it but i also it's
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like a you gotta think bigger than the temptation of the dick i'm not i'm not gonna lie i'll be
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so honest with you yeah i'll be honest i'm saying this i respect i don't care you don't believe you
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yesterday in my mind i'm thinking about the bigger picture there's a bit of self-control
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okay so for me i feel like the bigger picture is if i don't open up my legs
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i feel like it's a better gateway for a guy to take me serious more so i feel like i don't want
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to the reason why i'm not having sex right now is because i feel like the next guy i want to i don't
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want to have sex with a guy and it just be that so you're in a vetting period where you're you're
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trying to identify that guy to open sesames for no i just feel like for me i want to i want it to be
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more deeper i want it to go down the relationship bro you haven't got someone that you think cool i
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don't want a relationship with you so you're in a vetting so you haven't got that i had that i did
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have that and you wanted more for yourself and then i was like nah what am i doing let's ask the
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guys girls what what should girls do how long should how long would you wait for a girl before
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you're you're saying no seven days okay okay i understand seven days seven seven days what about
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you i can only speak for myself personally every girl i've had sex with i've never waited more than
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five or six days anyway hey you see a big dog you know just so yeah and a big dog i don't know any
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different so it's hard to answer that question okay five how long would you wait only the five was
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like between five and six days because that's all i've ever done come see this hoony mother
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what if what if what if she was she seemed wifey how long would you give her even in that that's
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what i'm saying she's got a week do you want to be married at some point possibly possibly
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how long would you wait if i'm looking at her like wifey potential yeah i want her to at least
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wait two weeks two weeks okay and then how long how long is too long a month okay now seriously i'm
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sticking to my seven days seven days are balance okay see i'll be honest yeah see me i'll i'm
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willing like it's a bit of a i'm willing to wait longer for you to respect your thing if i feel like
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it's genuine that you're trying to figure me out if i'm you're trying to actually see assess me as
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is he like a proper guy and whatnot if i feel like you're just you're like you're not actually trying
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to figure me out you're just trying to prove a point to yourself that you can wait then see
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you're not gonna hear from me again but in general it doesn't matter what like no matter what the man
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them say like they've said two weeks seven days whatnot really and truly like i could wait for you i
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could wait two months because i feel like whatever whatever but try not the man them are beating
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there's next girl like three now so it's just where you can do that approach but you have to also
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know the consequence is more than likely the man them are beat like you you're he's been with you
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all night he ain't got nothing i got to kiss and rub up and that's it and then what he's out the door
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okay auntie what do you think from from your perspective how long how long should women wait
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if they're not i just want to ask another way around let me change it for you i you ask the men i want to
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answer ladies is that right can i do that yeah go ahead go i want to ask the ladies from the time
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what's the longest time you spent from seeing a guy you liked to sleeping with the guy and was either
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one what's the longest i'm here seven days i want to hear from the women what's the longest you went
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from meeting a guy and you said i like him to actually sleeping with him what's the longest gap
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start anyway for me the longest ever would be um my my my ex-partner my baby dad that i was with for
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eight years because we lost our genie to each other so obviously yeah there was over a year
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a year from the time you saw him too so when i lost my genie to him he lost his so what about
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the time you saw him that's the longest gap you've ever had no not from the time i saw him because we
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established we liked each other after we met each other but from the time that we realized that we
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that we're enough that we're for each other yeah there was no pressure on sex because he never
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sorry because he never had sex neither so he didn't put pressure on me because it was both virgins so
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that time was right for us so was he the one no he wasn't okay then i'm just asking i'm just asking
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so and the next lady please the next lady so i um waited three months for a guy i really liked because
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i thought the whole mind the whole theory of you know keep it close you know i mean anyway i got played
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and i took her out because that's what i said yeah i mean i did take it out with that one simply
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because it was one of them i i i yeah i took a loss basically he played me basically and i was like
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you played yourself no i didn't you have held the pussy for three months no but what did you do you
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help to be fair what did you expect from a man for three months if the girl fucks actually you
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didn't say that okay thank you yeah okay all right um you lots were saying if they fuck quick that's a
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red flag not me i didn't say that did you not you said if you play games with him you lose out oh okay
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okay all right i'll be fair then but no yeah i i don't feel like i played myself i just feel because
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i do feel like i do feel like the the majority not every guy but i do feel like the majority of
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guys have the same mindset of you as if you fuck too quick it's already so let me say so let me say
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something you waited three months yeah you made the guy you like wait three months so you see in
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previously so wait wait aren't you for previously yeah there i bet there's guys that you ain't even
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like that much that you probably beat within weeks like a week because you don't like them like
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that no but obviously for you lot i hear what you lot are saying but you see for men
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do you know what bro for men you have to see it from the man's point of view it's kind of like
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okay if a guy if a guy takes you on a first date and it's it's the nicest first date you ever been
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on like you you can all think of one where he just went above and beyond for you and you knew he
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liked you a lot and and to guys it's like the quicker you sleep with them it's the more you like
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them really yeah so why do they say those things though when like like i'm not saying all guys
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again but why do they say that oh man fucked her on the first night she's a jez or like they'll be
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like yeah yeah i because because because and this is and this is this is why it's like a double-edged
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sword because they they want they want you to be a hoe just for them yes it's kind of like it's kind of
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like you want a guy that treats you better than he treated all these other hoes like like you know
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what like if he fucked a couple girls whatever one night sale whatever he he took me serious and
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that's the same way with guys it's like it's like she said no to all them but she let me hit it but
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it's like it's a different thing than when yeah and then they a lot of them do say it's put them
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off before like they because because he thinks that's some immature man it's because it's because
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it's because it's because it's because he thinks you're doing it with everyone and so as i said it's
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there's no winning there's no secret i think if there's a secret formula on how how to get what you
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want out of a relationship like everyone would buy it there's no winning secret but i'm saying like
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that the reason that it puts them off is because they think you're doing it with everyone and women
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lie so much like how the hell are they supposed to know men lie so much too though if when i when i
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was dating if i met a girl when she put out on the first date i'm thinking she's doing that to every
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single man she's going and date with do you know i mean so and then i'm not going to believe anything
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she says if a girl puts out on the first date and says her body counts five i'm like you're lying
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what if what if she put out and then you heard from your friend that he she turned him down
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would that change it or no i'm just curious no because she probably turned she could have just
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said yes to bear other men okay fair enough go ahead auntie because i was asking and it was mom's
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when she first met i'm not gonna ask this young lady i don't want to ask because i don't want to
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know i don't want to know this is a question not for you i'm not asking you nothing so just listen
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right i don't want to hear so what it is no i was the same question that i was saying but now
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now you said you met him when you was a virgin you said you put out after how many years but
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nobody's sure about the one i met my partner and we were friends hanging out with each other
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with a group of friends for over two years well i got to know him before
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no he didn't see me like that we were friends no he was friends he was friends though that's
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different i liked him he liked me and we was hanging out with a load of guys so
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we became friends and then when we hit it off and we started sleeping together nobody else got
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in between how long did it take though when you're friends when you hit it off i'm gonna be friends
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for two years i'm not gonna say no innit you're gonna ask me i'm gonna say yes you know what kind
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of person i was like i don't even feel comfortable actually using these questions i apologize i feel
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like i feel like that's in your point of view because i took so long to get to know him yeah
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right and we became friends that's the one he's ready to do i didn't have a problem but
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my man waited patiently in the friends on the first night to him he would have bent you over
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same way so that's just your perspective too you see that's your thing no what i'm trying to say
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the difference is the young ladies right is that when they hang out with women they don't find
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that shit from women you understand i hang out with men so and then how men works i didn't care
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who he been over because it wasn't me i see you know i've been best friends with men and seen them
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got with girls and sleep with girls i'm like watch out for that girl do you know i mean because i'm
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like the friend the proper with the guys yeah so when you get to when he got to know me and he
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realized that you know what she's all right then when it comes to having sex i know men are like
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you're asking me i'm gonna say yes because you know that if you got a woman that got of a group of
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friends a group of male friends nobody's gonna approach you but there's one guy that would
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approach you and said you know what and i liked him so i said well why not he goes well i'm gonna say no
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come on in two years i've been watching you i'm not gonna say no so you see auntie auntie but
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the difference like it's a generational thing right because because they jump right no because
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because this is the generational thing like before if if a guy if a girl was turning guys down on the
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first date and making him wait guys knew that like she wasn't sleeping around because she usually wasn't
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but the problem is now guys are putting in all this effort and waiting for a girl and they find
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out she screwed everyone else before him and so but in your days like women i would assume women
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weren't like sleeping around they didn't sleep around right but like he said if i if i knew that
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i weren't gonna sleep with him he's gonna go and sleep with other people i don't mind because it's
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not me and auntie could i'm aware of it that much the same way how you said you know he might take me
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out on a date drop me off to my doorstep and go screw someone do you think i don't care about that
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because i know that you dropped me home we had a nice time go and get your rocks so you don't feel
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like he got played but no i don't feel like i got played she sorry so i don't want to say she but
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she felt like she got played in that night no because she was that girl i was going back to
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she was that girl when i said she i saw this it's different though because my mom my mom was sitting
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in the friend zone for two years i mean so you weren't even dating like that but she was trying
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i got to know him first let me ask you one question you said meantime he was getting to know
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me he was smashing you you said you said meantime he was getting to know him yeah you you you
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he was smashing someone else yeah i'm sorry not someone various people so i apologize for this
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yeah i really do yeah yeah go for it were you smashing people yeah yeah thank you thank you
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not during that time for two years for two years not doing that time