JustPearlyThings - The Church is a Breeding Ground for 304's

00:00:00.000 the last time i had sex was about what seven weeks ago oh my word what about you then has 0.63

00:00:05.800 any of the women had sex within the last couple weeks or something no but it's not by choice 0.92

00:00:11.960 trust me ross it's not it's not it's not it's not that is by choice it's not a great well it is by

00:00:17.220 choice so i didn't mean it wasn't by choice but it's not like i'm happy about it but i also it's

00:00:20.960 like a you gotta think bigger than the temptation of the dick i'm not i'm not gonna lie i'll be 0.98

00:00:25.820 so honest with you yeah i'll be honest i'm saying this i respect i don't care you don't believe you

00:00:30.500 yesterday in my mind i'm thinking about the bigger picture there's a bit of self-control

00:00:41.480 okay so for me i feel like the bigger picture is if i don't open up my legs

00:00:55.640 i feel like it's a better gateway for a guy to take me serious more so i feel like i don't want

00:01:01.420 to the reason why i'm not having sex right now is because i feel like the next guy i want to i don't

00:01:06.140 want to have sex with a guy and it just be that so you're in a vetting period where you're you're

00:01:10.580 trying to identify that guy to open sesames for no i just feel like for me i want to i want it to be

00:01:19.220 more deeper i want it to go down the relationship bro you haven't got someone that you think cool i

00:01:24.580 don't want a relationship with you so you're in a vetting so you haven't got that i had that i did

00:01:29.900 have that and you wanted more for yourself and then i was like nah what am i doing let's ask the

00:01:34.900 guys girls what what should girls do how long should how long would you wait for a girl before 1.00

00:01:41.300 you're you're saying no seven days okay okay i understand seven days seven seven days what about

00:01:47.280 you i can only speak for myself personally every girl i've had sex with i've never waited more than 0.72

00:01:52.660 five or six days anyway hey you see a big dog you know just so yeah and a big dog i don't know any

00:01:59.020 different so it's hard to answer that question okay five how long would you wait only the five was

00:02:04.500 like between five and six days because that's all i've ever done come see this hoony mother 1.00

00:02:07.560 what if what if what if she was she seemed wifey how long would you give her even in that that's 1.00

00:02:12.180 what i'm saying she's got a week do you want to be married at some point possibly possibly

00:02:19.360 how long would you wait if i'm looking at her like wifey potential yeah i want her to at least 1.00

00:02:28.420 wait two weeks two weeks okay and then how long how long is too long a month okay now seriously i'm

00:02:36.560 sticking to my seven days seven days are balance okay see i'll be honest yeah see me i'll i'm

00:02:45.200 willing like it's a bit of a i'm willing to wait longer for you to respect your thing if i feel like

00:02:52.520 it's genuine that you're trying to figure me out if i'm you're trying to actually see assess me as

00:02:57.480 is he like a proper guy and whatnot if i feel like you're just you're like you're not actually trying

00:03:03.560 to figure me out you're just trying to prove a point to yourself that you can wait then see

00:03:07.660 you're not gonna hear from me again but in general it doesn't matter what like no matter what the man

00:03:12.880 them say like they've said two weeks seven days whatnot really and truly like i could wait for you i

00:03:19.700 could wait two months because i feel like whatever whatever but try not the man them are beating

00:03:23.320 there's next girl like three now so it's just where you can do that approach but you have to also

00:03:30.580 know the consequence is more than likely the man them are beat like you you're he's been with you

00:03:36.080 all night he ain't got nothing i got to kiss and rub up and that's it and then what he's out the door

00:03:40.680 all right cool when shelly hands down the road 1.00

00:03:43.040 okay auntie what do you think from from your perspective how long how long should women wait 1.00

00:04:00.080 if they're not i just want to ask another way around let me change it for you i you ask the men i want to 0.59

00:04:05.760 answer ladies is that right can i do that yeah go ahead go i want to ask the ladies from the time 0.85

00:04:10.580 what's the longest time you spent from seeing a guy you liked to sleeping with the guy and was either

00:04:16.360 one what's the longest i'm here seven days i want to hear from the women what's the longest you went 0.99

00:04:21.640 from meeting a guy and you said i like him to actually sleeping with him what's the longest gap

00:04:26.760 start anyway for me the longest ever would be um my my my ex-partner my baby dad that i was with for

00:04:35.600 eight years because we lost our genie to each other so obviously yeah there was over a year

00:04:40.540 a year from the time you saw him too so when i lost my genie to him he lost his so what about

00:04:45.020 the time you saw him that's the longest gap you've ever had no not from the time i saw him because we

00:04:49.780 established we liked each other after we met each other but from the time that we realized that we

00:04:53.780 that we're enough that we're for each other yeah there was no pressure on sex because he never

00:04:57.940 sorry because he never had sex neither so he didn't put pressure on me because it was both virgins so

00:05:02.680 that time was right for us so was he the one no he wasn't okay then i'm just asking i'm just asking

00:05:09.080 so and the next lady please the next lady so i um waited three months for a guy i really liked because

00:05:16.980 i thought the whole mind the whole theory of you know keep it close you know i mean anyway i got played

00:05:21.620 and i took her out because that's what i said yeah i mean i did take it out with that one simply

00:05:27.020 because it was one of them i i i yeah i took a loss basically he played me basically and i was like

00:05:33.860 you played yourself no i didn't you have held the pussy for three months no but what did you do you 1.00

00:05:39.780 help to be fair what did you expect from a man for three months if the girl fucks actually you 1.00

00:05:44.680 didn't say that okay thank you yeah okay all right um you lots were saying if they fuck quick that's a 0.82

00:05:50.400 red flag not me i didn't say that did you not you said if you play games with him you lose out oh okay

00:05:55.100 okay all right i'll be fair then but no yeah i i don't feel like i played myself i just feel because

00:06:00.180 i do feel like i do feel like the the majority not every guy but i do feel like the majority of

00:06:05.500 guys have the same mindset of you as if you fuck too quick it's already so let me say so let me say 0.82

00:06:11.100 something you waited three months yeah you made the guy you like wait three months so you see in

00:06:16.540 previously so wait wait aren't you for previously yeah there i bet there's guys that you ain't even

00:06:21.560 like that much that you probably beat within weeks like a week because you don't like them like

00:06:25.320 that no but obviously for you lot i hear what you lot are saying but you see for men

00:06:29.780 do you know what bro for men you have to see it from the man's point of view it's kind of like

00:06:38.940 okay if a guy if a guy takes you on a first date and it's it's the nicest first date you ever been

00:06:44.260 on like you you can all think of one where he just went above and beyond for you and you knew he

00:06:48.960 liked you a lot and and to guys it's like the quicker you sleep with them it's the more you like

00:06:54.540 them really yeah so why do they say those things though when like like i'm not saying all guys

00:07:00.020 again but why do they say that oh man fucked her on the first night she's a jez or like they'll be 1.00

00:07:04.980 like yeah yeah i because because because and this is and this is this is why it's like a double-edged

00:07:09.520 sword because they they want they want you to be a hoe just for them yes it's kind of like it's kind of 0.97

00:07:17.320 like you want a guy that treats you better than he treated all these other hoes like like you know 1.00

00:07:22.900 what like if he fucked a couple girls whatever one night sale whatever he he took me serious and 0.75

00:07:27.700 that's the same way with guys it's like it's like she said no to all them but she let me hit it but

00:07:35.440 it's like it's a different thing than when yeah and then they a lot of them do say it's put them

00:07:41.380 off before like they because because he thinks that's some immature man it's because it's because

00:07:46.160 it's because it's because it's because he thinks you're doing it with everyone and so as i said it's

00:07:53.760 there's no winning there's no secret i think if there's a secret formula on how how to get what you

00:07:59.980 want out of a relationship like everyone would buy it there's no winning secret but i'm saying like

00:08:04.220 that the reason that it puts them off is because they think you're doing it with everyone and women

00:08:07.720 lie so much like how the hell are they supposed to know men lie so much too though if when i when i

00:08:13.180 was dating if i met a girl when she put out on the first date i'm thinking she's doing that to every 1.00

00:08:18.040 single man she's going and date with do you know i mean so and then i'm not going to believe anything

00:08:23.240 she says if a girl puts out on the first date and says her body counts five i'm like you're lying

00:08:26.840 what if what if she put out and then you heard from your friend that he she turned him down

00:08:31.540 would that change it or no i'm just curious no because she probably turned she could have just 0.95

00:08:35.340 said yes to bear other men okay fair enough go ahead auntie because i was asking and it was mom's

00:08:42.380 when she first met i'm not gonna ask this young lady i don't want to ask because i don't want to 1.00

00:08:46.320 know i don't want to know this is a question not for you i'm not asking you nothing so just listen

00:08:51.460 right i don't want to hear so what it is no i was the same question that i was saying but now

00:08:58.260 now you said you met him when you was a virgin you said you put out after how many years but

00:09:04.040 nobody's sure about the one i met my partner and we were friends hanging out with each other

00:09:11.080 with a group of friends for over two years well i got to know him before

00:09:16.540 no he didn't see me like that we were friends no he was friends he was friends though that's

00:09:21.420 different i liked him he liked me and we was hanging out with a load of guys so

00:09:24.460 we became friends and then when we hit it off and we started sleeping together nobody else got

00:09:29.680 in between how long did it take though when you're friends when you hit it off i'm gonna be friends

00:09:34.760 for two years i'm not gonna say no innit you're gonna ask me i'm gonna say yes you know what kind

00:09:37.640 of person i was like i don't even feel comfortable actually using these questions i apologize i feel

00:09:40.840 like i feel like that's in your point of view because i took so long to get to know him yeah

00:09:46.320 right and we became friends that's the one he's ready to do i didn't have a problem but

00:09:50.220 my man waited patiently in the friends on the first night to him he would have bent you over

00:09:54.240 same way so that's just your perspective too you see that's your thing no what i'm trying to say

00:10:00.120 the difference is the young ladies right is that when they hang out with women they don't find

00:10:04.540 that shit from women you understand i hang out with men so and then how men works i didn't care 0.94

00:10:10.080 who he been over because it wasn't me i see you know i've been best friends with men and seen them

00:10:14.320 got with girls and sleep with girls i'm like watch out for that girl do you know i mean because i'm

00:10:18.020 like the friend the proper with the guys yeah so when you get to when he got to know me and he

00:10:22.760 realized that you know what she's all right then when it comes to having sex i know men are like

00:10:25.720 you're asking me i'm gonna say yes because you know that if you got a woman that got of a group of 1.00

00:10:30.160 friends a group of male friends nobody's gonna approach you but there's one guy that would

00:10:34.260 approach you and said you know what and i liked him so i said well why not he goes well i'm gonna say no

00:10:38.960 come on in two years i've been watching you i'm not gonna say no so you see auntie auntie but

00:10:44.220 the difference like it's a generational thing right because because they jump right no because

00:10:48.720 because this is the generational thing like before if if a guy if a girl was turning guys down on the 0.99

00:10:54.460 first date and making him wait guys knew that like she wasn't sleeping around because she usually wasn't 1.00

00:10:59.320 but the problem is now guys are putting in all this effort and waiting for a girl and they find

00:11:05.160 out she screwed everyone else before him and so but in your days like women i would assume women 1.00

00:11:11.300 weren't like sleeping around they didn't sleep around right but like he said if i if i knew that

00:11:16.380 i weren't gonna sleep with him he's gonna go and sleep with other people i don't mind because it's 0.54

00:11:20.120 not me and auntie could i'm aware of it that much the same way how you said you know he might take me

00:11:24.860 out on a date drop me off to my doorstep and go screw someone do you think i don't care about that 1.00

00:11:28.480 because i know that you dropped me home we had a nice time go and get your rocks so you don't feel

00:11:32.900 like he got played but no i don't feel like i got played she sorry so i don't want to say she but

00:11:37.600 she felt like she got played in that night no because she was that girl i was going back to

00:11:41.720 she was that girl when i said she i saw this it's different though because my mom my mom was sitting

00:11:46.240 in the friend zone for two years i mean so you weren't even dating like that but she was trying 0.53

00:11:50.520 i got to know him first let me ask you one question you said meantime he was getting to know

00:11:55.100 me he was smashing you you said you said meantime he was getting to know him yeah you you you

00:12:02.060 he was smashing someone else yeah i'm sorry not someone various people so i apologize for this

00:12:07.680 yeah i really do yeah yeah go for it were you smashing people yeah yeah thank you thank you

00:12:14.960 not during that time for two years for two years not doing that time

00:12:18.740 no not during that time

JustPearlyThings - June 01, 2023

The Church is a Breeding Ground for 304's

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