JustPearlyThings - March 16, 2023


The DELUSION Of This Woman Is OUTRAGEOUS


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11 minutes

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162.28867

Word count

1,907

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

11

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Hate speech

7

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about what it means to be a woman in the 21st century and how to deal with men who don t make six figures. We also discuss the difference between a woman and a man who makes six figures or more.

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00:00:00.080 so in north carolina what percentage of the population what percentage of men
00:00:05.520 in this country make six figures or more what do you think that is
00:00:10.800 six figures in the us is like 80 000 pounds here and it's roughly the percentages are similar
00:00:16.400 okay i have zero clue i'm not going to lie i would say what what percent yeah of men make that much
00:00:25.600 money 40 40 is that a lot is that too much that's way too much that's what you're really
00:00:33.280 like not even close see so this is what social media does i think all these people the average
00:00:41.600 salary is like 40 like 45 really thousand i think in the us i think here it's like 40 000 pounds
00:00:48.400 something like that i think it's like five percent i'm not closer to ten so oh ten percent all right
00:00:57.520 so the question is what do those men who make that kind of money who all women tend to want
00:01:05.360 what do they want i feel like they want arm candy somebody who can um have more to bring to the
00:01:14.480 table than just looks but um also bring balance to their life i feel like i can help them out on um
00:01:24.240 okay slow down i'm not understanding you said they want arm candy then you contradicted yourself
00:01:30.800 do you they want somebody that more than just looks yeah arm candy but something behind you know
00:01:37.680 a brain with it and you know more in depth do you own do you know any men who make six figures or more
00:01:44.800 my dad and my uncle do you excuse me do you know any men that you are related to that make six figures or more
00:01:54.080 unrelated to yeah but you are not related to not on a personal level
00:02:03.520 so you don't know them you don't know what they want but you want him ma'am i'm going to suggest that
00:02:12.720 you really don't know what you want
00:02:19.680 and saying six figures is just something that you get taken from out there but i'm not hearing this
00:02:27.680 rooted to anything what do you want ultimately do you want to be married children what yes i want to be
00:02:34.560 married do you want any children yes how many um i have a son now so okay how old is your son
00:02:45.920 he's 13 where's the father he's not enough in his life i said where's the father well he's
00:02:57.680 not like in it like i would like him to be
00:03:02.000 all right so um go ahead and take this down ma'am 0.98
00:03:04.880 men who make the kind of money you're talking about have options and typically that i don't
00:03:10.960 want to deal with women who are have 13 year old sons who are used to dating men who this doesn't 0.82
00:03:17.680 sound appealing
00:03:21.760 is he right or wrong he's right yeah yeah because as he said there's options like if that six figure
00:03:29.600 man wanted to go and get someone that is his preference without that child and without those
00:03:34.000 issues that she's talking about he would yeah freely happily go and get that easily yeah did your
00:03:39.440 mom find did she date after your dad yes was it hard for her having kids yeah especially four girls 0.92
00:03:46.640 yeah oh that's a hard sell oh boy just four girls all right i'm trying to like because i think about
00:03:52.800 this stuff like if i had a girl like how i would package her to the men and so when you come in with
00:03:57.600 the hair i'm like why do you do this but i don't know you're into girls apparently how did you know that 0.93
00:04:02.960 you said you hooked up with the sister on the show so but i feel like women oh yeah i feel like we're
00:04:11.120 all i feel like women i feel like are you full-blown lesbian or just like a half i feel like sometimes
00:04:19.280 women become lesbians because they're traumatized you think so yeah i think they're not really lesbians 0.99
00:04:24.880 sometimes you don't give me real lesbian energy really yeah you're too feminine that's because it 1.00
00:04:29.360 takes me time to open up i this is me like when i want to be presented in front of obviously something
00:04:35.200 public behind clothes doors i'm wearing a t-shirt i'm wearing my my jogger it's not about it's not
00:04:41.120 about your clothes it's about your attitude oh yeah it's like when i talk to you you're not you don't
00:04:45.360 have that like masculine i'm not saying i just have this scary you can tell me if i'm wrong i could be
00:04:50.720 wrong i have a lot of theories all right i have a theory that women will become lesbians or bi after a 0.94
00:04:55.360 traumatic breakup or because they're just so sick of men or when they get to a certain age where they
00:05:01.360 can't get the men they want anymore so it's like they go for the 20 of men right tall good looking
00:05:07.120 and once they can't get attention from them anymore then they'll start dating women it's like around 30
00:05:12.720 usually roughly they're like god because they would rather be with a girl than a guy they don't like
00:05:19.520 and they feel like girls are more understanding yeah yeah what's your experience dating men versus
00:05:25.200 women oh well i've never really you've never dated a girl i've never dated a girl oh okay but i have
00:05:31.200 spoken to girls and i i have found myself more attracted to girls weirdly enough more it'll i feel
00:05:37.680 like you'll go back we need to think so yeah we need to fix her we need to do some conversion but that came
00:05:43.440 from when i was really young i've always found girls like appealing most girls do most girls if
00:05:50.960 you like um survey like if you survey them or whatever like they did some test most girls are 1.00
00:05:57.200 attracted to girls really to some level i mean it doesn't mean they'll like have sex with them but
00:06:01.520 like yeah but you know hook up with a sister 0.99
00:06:04.240 i mean it's it's all right it's right we all got we all got troubles we all got troubles in life
00:06:13.360 but but i feel like yes that sometimes girls it's like a phase and then they'll go back to the guys
00:06:20.000 yeah that is so i feel like that you're not too far gone we're gonna bring her back
00:06:26.640 we're gonna we're gonna
00:06:27.600 uh so the kind of man you're talking about do you do you understand what i'm saying
00:06:36.400 yeah but um i was thinking once i start booking a section with you that um i can't change men
00:06:43.920 i know but i can approve myself would you what would you expect me to do what the hell what you can't
00:06:53.120 undo a child i feel like she's sort of answering her own questions as well in this interview she's
00:07:00.720 allowing herself to like see things from a different perspective in terms of now you're being
00:07:06.720 questioned you're not asking the question you're being questioned so now you it's like the answers
00:07:11.600 are coming out unwontedly does that make sense i feel like i have a lot to offer to those type of
00:07:18.480 me okay but see you should have stopped right there i just told you i cannot change men and
00:07:27.440 you said once i book a session with you i'm not a miracle worker i'm telling you what they want
00:07:34.000 and you're still saying yeah but i want this what'd you say i said don't expect anything crazy like i'm
00:07:38.960 not gonna like snap and you have a six-linger man in front of your door flower you see why they say 0.85
00:07:43.120 women are delusional yes like okay if you were like 22 25 we can work with it yeah we can work 1.00
00:07:53.680 with it all right but with the child yeah yeah that's a big that's a big good luck yeah especially
00:08:02.400 because guys well i think he might talk about this guys will judge you by the guys you've dated before
00:08:07.600 so it's kind of like if they say you made a kid with someone and he's not in the picture they're like
00:08:11.760 why like what did you you know it's like it's not fun but it's like either you can't pick and you
00:08:17.680 like the bad boys and you're not going to be satisfied with a nice guy or or it's like why didn't
00:08:24.080 or you're too like you don't you won't let the dad see the kids it's like another thing that they
00:08:30.720 you know oh well so like when girls will talk bad about their exes i'm like god you guys are telling
00:08:36.080 now you're just stop they don't want you you dated this man but i have been working on myself this
00:08:44.080 year and um okay ma'am but okay 35 13 year old son with a sketchy father why would a man who's in the
00:08:56.000 top 10 percent of earners who women across the country want want that um because i have a lot to
00:09:07.040 offer um i feel like would you want your son to if you had a son making that kind of money would you
00:09:16.800 want him to bring home a woman who had a 13 year old son from a sketchy father or would you prefer him
00:09:23.840 to get a woman who had no children who's younger and easier to get on his program
00:09:32.000 depending on his age see see what i mean see what i mean this goes so deep for black women
00:09:39.760 they will even that should have been an easy question no i would not want my son to bring i
00:09:45.600 want the best for my son that should have been the appropriate answer that's why i sat up
00:09:51.440 that is you should want the best for your son of course but this is but and are you thinking
00:10:07.120 if he brought home a woman yes i feel like i'm the exception to the rule no you're not that's the
00:10:13.360 problem you all think you're the exception to the rule but but your life is proven to you that you're not
00:10:18.480 not my love life is not that good i agree with you that's my point and ma'am and that's my point
00:10:26.480 you ladies all feel like listen you ladies all feel like you're the exception to the rule 0.51
00:10:33.680 and then when someone like myself comes along and gives you a a dose of reality instead of just accepting
00:10:40.480 it it's like yeah but yeah but i'm special you don't know any men on this level that are not your
00:10:50.000 father that aren't related to you that means you don't know these men you don't know where to go get
00:10:55.280 them you don't know what they want but you're still saying pick me they don't want mid 30 year old baby
00:11:03.040 mamas are trying to be polite man but they don't want those i asked your question did you hear what i 1.00
00:11:10.960 said did you hear me literally literally do you think
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