JustPearlyThings - April 09, 2023


The future is DARK For Modern Women

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
NO Guy Wants To Be Just FRIENDS She SCHOOLED This Modern Woman@MelanieKing1

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Length

7 minutes

Words per minute

201.39

Word count

1,509

Sentence count

157

Harmful content

Misogyny

17

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Toxicity

16

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Hate speech

11

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In this episode, we talk about birth control, feminism, and the future of women in modern society. We also discuss whether or not birth control should be banned in the future, and what it means for women in the modern world.

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00:00:00.000 That they're predicting that 50% of women in childbearing years,
00:00:05.160 so basically between the ages of like 25 and 45,
00:00:07.800 will be single and childless,
00:00:09.120 so much so that there's big companies investing in things like wine, cat food.
00:00:13.460 Wow, that's crazy.
00:00:14.500 I've invested in egg freezing because that's going to become more of a thing as well.
00:00:17.680 Egg freezing is another one.
00:00:19.220 That's a really good idea.
00:00:20.200 What does that say about the state of modern women today? 0.98
00:00:25.580 It's kind of sad, really.
00:00:27.260 It's sad, but never mind.
00:00:30.660 It's the reality.
00:00:31.200 Make your mind, make your mind.
00:00:32.460 Cambridge is actually, I think I've listened to LBC,
00:00:36.480 and Cambridge is starting to do courses on fertility for women
00:00:38.860 because they believe that girls aren't taught young enough about their bodies. 1.00
00:00:43.460 So they're taught, chase your career, chase this and chase that,
00:00:46.040 but they're not taught, okay, you actually have a biological clock.
00:00:48.760 So they're actually looking to teach girls in secondary school,
00:00:51.640 okay, by this age, this is the amount of eggs that disappear, et cetera, et cetera.
00:00:56.720 So again, it's telling of the society because
00:00:59.500 people argue about conspiracy theories, about overpopulation and stuff like that.
00:01:04.740 But in the U.S. and most countries in Europe, people are actually dying out.
00:01:10.160 In Japan, they have a negative population.
00:01:12.560 And most people congregate in major cities,
00:01:17.480 so that's why we believe the overpopulation nonsense, but it's really not a thing.
00:01:21.360 Yeah, 20% of cities hold 80% of the population.
00:01:23.520 I think you need to have 2.5 babies per society or culture to maintain a culture.
00:01:30.680 But in Italy, it's like 1.something.
00:01:32.420 In Spain, it's 1.something.
00:01:33.900 So they're literally dying out.
00:01:35.860 Overpopulation is good. 0.90
00:01:36.740 I was an economics major, really good for an economy because it's like cheap labor.
00:01:41.480 Yeah.
00:01:42.000 China's a perfect example. 1.00
00:01:43.420 Yeah. 0.98
00:01:43.620 But even in places like Singapore, they promote sex. 0.98
00:01:46.080 So they have like parks and stuff, which is made to make people feel like they want to have sex. 0.97
00:01:50.180 Yeah. 0.59
00:01:50.560 That's so true.
00:01:51.260 Okay, but can I say something?
00:01:52.920 They're promoting sex, but are they promoting marriage? 0.93
00:01:55.840 But they need babies. 0.99
00:01:56.960 Traditionally, aren't you meant to get married first and then...
00:01:59.420 I don't know what the rules are.
00:02:00.520 Well, you're right, but I just think with birth control, like women don't really want to be wives anymore in general. 0.99
00:02:09.420 Or women feel like they can be more like men.
00:02:11.520 True, but I think there's like they get access to guys they would never get access to in the past.
00:02:17.420 And anything below that, they feel like they're settling.
00:02:20.100 So I think a lot of women will take side chick over being a wife. 1.00
00:02:24.920 I agree.
00:02:25.580 I agree.
00:02:26.080 Do you think they should stop providing free birth control?
00:02:32.020 I was literally going to ask that question.
00:02:34.620 I would ban it, actually, in my world.
00:02:38.240 You know, I swear to God.
00:02:40.220 Why?
00:02:40.820 It would be banned.
00:02:41.880 I understand why...
00:02:44.020 Families would come back together.
00:02:45.280 I understand why you say that.
00:02:46.740 In a sense, you think if people were not on contact decisions a lot more wisely,
00:02:52.100 because now you've got something that you could just do whatever you want,
00:02:55.200 but you've got protection.
00:02:56.220 You're kind of backed up.
00:02:57.040 Yeah.
00:02:57.380 Yeah.
00:02:57.680 So I get that.
00:02:58.920 Uh-huh.
00:02:59.320 But what?
00:03:00.460 You know, you always think about people that get...
00:03:02.800 Great.
00:03:03.820 Yeah, but those...
00:03:04.980 People that get great and stuff and all of that kind of stuff and essays and all of that kind of stuff.
00:03:11.200 So do you...
00:03:12.360 Do you not think instead of not having access to it,
00:03:15.480 do you not think there should be maybe a stricter process?
00:03:18.200 A condition?
00:03:18.860 No, I would banish it all.
00:03:20.280 It would be like 100% banished in Pearl's world.
00:03:22.940 I don't banish it because it affects the men as well.
00:03:24.260 How do you protect the essays then?
00:03:26.680 No, because you used all the...
00:03:27.620 Well, I mean, I don't think you make laws based on less than 1% of pregnancies.
00:03:31.820 Like, I just...
00:03:32.300 I think you make laws based on the rule, not the exception.
00:03:35.820 So the reason that I would say...
00:03:38.460 I just think that everything...
00:03:40.460 Like, if you look at the divorce rate in society,
00:03:42.360 it's literally pinpointed by the same rate that women were on birth control.
00:03:46.700 So, like, as more women got on birth control,
00:03:48.260 the more women were, like, getting divorced. 1.00
00:03:51.000 I mean, probably April.
00:03:53.540 And the other, like, misconception is a lot of people think, like,
00:03:55.980 abortions would go through the roof or whatever if there was no birth control. 1.00
00:03:59.500 But actually, abortions increased after birth control didn't decrease.
00:04:02.640 And 40% of women that have had an abortion have had two or more.
00:04:05.400 So it's like...
00:04:06.420 I think that makes sense because people don't take accountability for their actions.
00:04:09.780 Well, I just think there's no consequence.
00:04:11.660 And so, like, birth control takes away the consequence for women. 1.00
00:04:14.360 I mean, how much more careful would women be with who they slept with 1.00
00:04:17.640 if they weren't on birth control?
00:04:19.060 I have a question for the girls, though.
00:04:21.180 Do you think you'd be in happy relationships
00:04:22.960 when you've had, like, more sexual experiences?
00:04:26.280 No.
00:04:26.880 No.
00:04:27.620 I don't think sex has anything to do with a good relationship for us women. 0.98
00:04:31.920 Wait, say the question again.
00:04:33.320 ...sexual experiences.
00:04:34.000 You had different, like, sexual experiences.
00:04:35.920 Oh, you had more?
00:04:36.760 Yeah.
00:04:37.460 Oh.
00:04:37.920 So what, if they had more sexual experiences?
00:04:39.560 But a relationship and a sexual experience are two different things. 0.92
00:04:42.940 Because, like, sex can just be sex
00:04:44.540 and a relationship is more long-term, like, there's commitment, you know?
00:04:47.500 Why I ask that question is because most girls want to sleep 1.00
00:04:49.780 with multiple partners is because some men are just shit in bed. 1.00
00:04:53.140 Oh, I've never heard of that. 1.00
00:04:53.540 What's that got to say for a relationship?
00:04:54.360 Yeah, but how would you know if you're a virgin?
00:04:57.200 And that's why I ask. 0.98
00:04:58.280 But you can always work on sex.
00:05:00.100 Yeah.
00:05:00.360 You can always, like, communicate.
00:05:02.140 You know, you can look stuff up on the internet.
00:05:04.520 For plain devil's advocate,
00:05:06.120 if you don't know what good sex is, 0.96
00:05:08.560 then that is good sex. 0.94
00:05:09.500 But what you speak to, like, your friends... 0.97
00:05:12.080 Sorry.
00:05:12.480 Is good sex not what makes you feel good?
00:05:15.360 If you're liking how you're feeling,
00:05:17.140 then you're going to deem it as good sex.
00:05:19.200 Regardless if you've not had... 0.74
00:05:20.820 Yeah, I think what everyone deems as good sex is...
00:05:23.560 Some people say that,
00:05:24.380 oh, when you have sex with someone the first time,
00:05:27.580 it's not necessarily great.
00:05:28.820 But as you get to know each other's body, it becomes better.
00:05:31.440 So then I don't think you need to be exposed so much.
00:05:35.580 You just have to understand each other and have that connection.
00:05:37.960 So don't you think it's better to do that with one person
00:05:39.740 than have multiple experiences then?
00:05:41.540 Yeah.
00:05:42.360 Yeah, 100%.
00:05:43.260 Yeah.
00:05:44.420 I don't think you need to sleep with many people.
00:05:46.700 No, definitely not.
00:05:47.460 And in terms of, like, a sexual connection as well, 0.95
00:05:49.400 like, you could have sex with someone who's amazing in bed
00:05:51.640 and maybe he's not treating you as good as someone else
00:05:54.920 or that you have a stronger chemistry with
00:05:56.560 and he's not as good in bed.
00:05:57.460 But I think, as a woman,
00:05:58.800 you will emotionally connect with a person
00:06:00.020 who's not as good in bed.
00:06:01.020 No, you want the guy with the good wood.
00:06:02.500 No, I don't think that's true.
00:06:03.420 You want the guy that'll give you that wood.
00:06:04.640 Women are emotional. 1.00
00:06:06.180 I don't think that's true.
00:06:06.700 We're emotional.
00:06:07.400 I think we will overlook that.
00:06:09.160 When a girl gets dignitised, 1.00
00:06:10.840 she's going to take the guy with the good wood 1.00
00:06:14.420 over the guy with the dead wood.
00:06:15.320 I think that's a couple of women who's in with. 1.00
00:06:16.840 How do you know this?
00:06:18.100 Yeah.
00:06:19.140 Huh?
00:06:20.280 Is that the other one?
00:06:22.420 Can you repeat the question in French?
00:06:24.680 That question he asked,
00:06:26.080 is it the same for men or no?
00:06:29.200 Like, do men, 0.52
00:06:30.140 if men slept with less women, 0.62
00:06:32.660 would they be...
00:06:34.180 Is that...
00:06:34.860 Yeah, statistically,
00:06:36.380 so the best outcomes
00:06:38.700 is when they're both virgins.
00:06:40.160 Okay.
00:06:40.320 So that's one thing
00:06:41.200 I think sometimes, like, people gloss over.
00:06:43.060 However, a man that slept
00:06:45.460 with around eight or nine,
00:06:47.340 if I remember correctly,
00:06:48.840 partners versus three
00:06:50.300 is happier in his marriage.
00:06:52.540 Okay.
00:06:52.700 So actually, men's happiness
00:06:53.920 goes up at some point
00:06:55.420 rather than down
00:06:56.640 when they've slept with more people.
00:06:58.140 And I think it kind of goes back to, like,
00:07:00.360 like, a lot of things,
00:07:01.600 like, I guess, red pill truths
00:07:03.560 are kind of known in society,
00:07:04.840 like, before,
00:07:05.700 where they would say men would go
00:07:06.560 sow their wild oats
00:07:07.740 and then go get a wife. 0.99
00:07:10.420 Well, yeah, the more people
00:07:11.760 women slept with, 1.00
00:07:12.460 as many of you know, 0.97
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