The Generation of FAT PRIDE
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the difference between a real woman and a fat woman and what it means to be a woman in the modern era. Is fat women more feminine than other types of women? What does it mean to be fat and what is femininity?
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what do you think a real woman is and can and can a fat chick be a real woman
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yes i mean a real woman is just a woman that's completely in touch with her
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feminine side is a nurturer that just wants to they look at like they look at
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their man like their child kind of thing that they
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want to nurture them look after them make sure they're good
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okay go ahead uh i think a real woman a real woman is just someone who tries to
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uplift herself and her man uplifting her mind in the sense where
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whatever goals he's trying to achieve she's pushing him towards that direction
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trying to help him and for herself someone like she's got you said kind of
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fat girl um be a real woman yeah but if she's um
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as long as again if she's trying to achieve her goals of trying to lose weight
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that's so that's her discipline and understanding of herself that's not
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healthy what if she's happy with her body though if she's happy with her body
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that's fine but you know find another man who's also happy
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with your body i don't think weight defines a real woman though
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i think you guys are more referring to like the lack of integrity right between
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what she says she wants and what she actually does
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what she does with her free time because anyone can work out anyone can like work on
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a woman could just be fat yeah and then just want another fat guy and they could just be fat and
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happy i just i just think if you're obese it's not that they don't look at this okay okay i just
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think i just think if you're i just i just think if you're obese you're not feminine so you're not
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taking like part of being feminine is taking care of your body i agree yeah and so how are you feminine
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you got some you got some sexy fat girls though okay like you jemma collins no no but it's more
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in the way they carry themselves i think it's a confidence thing because you got some some big
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women that they have like sex appeal because they're so confident in the way they are do you
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do you think do you think that that line of thinking is general or specific it's very specific
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i'd say probably most overweight women are going to be self-conscious and they're going to be not
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confident but you do get some do you think most men are attracted to fat women no right okay yeah
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because i'm saying like there's definitely exceptions i think it's a confidence thing
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more yeah so would you say that would you say the majority of fat girls are feminine
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uh i i see like feminine you don't think i wouldn't class it as like a weight thing it's more of like
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to me it's like weight says a lot about your choices exactly yeah and so if you're overweight
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you're making poor choices and usually those choices don't go with feminine behavior okay but if like
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for a lot of african people you got like you know the aunties might be like big yeah but they're
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like the most feminine women you know because they they they take care of the household it's an
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exception but would you would you say it was so i'm sorry i always i always forget to clarify but i'm
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talking about the west even still here i mean okay okay i think when it comes to femininity it's about
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the confidence you carry yourself with so if you're overweight and you think that you're going to be
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more attractive your femininity is going to tell you to try to be as attractive as possible so
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you'll go to the gym but if you're not confident in your obesity then it shows you're not really
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feminine because you're not really caring about it but i think it's all a matter of how much
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how much you like your weight as it is if you don't like it and you're just saying oh yeah i love
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how my body just because you don't want to go to the gym it's a completely different
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sense but if you love how you look then it's a completely different thing as well
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oh do you want to say something yeah okay just because someone's confident doesn't mean they're
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feminine like some people carry a full sense of confidence and um yeah femininity is definitely
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about taking care of your health and being obese and overweight is not healthy
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yeah i agree i just i looked her up yeah jemma collins is not hot i think she is but
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jemma collins wait wait i want to i want to pass this around smash your pass from the guys smash
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pass pass hard pass pass you know what it's also been hard no but do you know sorry to cut you do you
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know that that little that little experiment that you've done there goes to show that women see
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things very differently from men like so the fact that you would see her black oh she's hot though
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and guys are like hell no means you don't know how guys think of like you don't know how guys see
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women i don't think they can either i thought you said can i just say something quick go i thought you
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said men would a hole in the wall yeah jemma collins is a no they would but we're going by aesthetics
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now we're going by this just also it's like if you showed someone a picture of beyonce right and
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then you showed a picture of i don't know some girl that works at wherever the guy's gonna go because
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men are visual creatures someone is smashing that someone out there is smashing jemma i'll give you
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i'll give you an example so i've had guys on the show like say that they're embarrassed of the girls
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that they slept with and that it's just better than their hand so you know she might be better
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than someone's hand right but it's not it doesn't mean that's who they want yeah but then okay that's
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why they're not retaining these kind of men because like some of these guys in this room they might not
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say it publicly but they might like every guy every guy in here has had sex with a woman yeah that they
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know they wouldn't want to generally be out with in public yeah it's like he had sex with her but you
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don't want to take her out to dinner and stuff you know what i mean can i ask you a question of course you
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can so when you were saying that um with the whole jemma collins thing and men are visual creatures and
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things like that are you speaking as majority yeah generally like yeah are we going black white
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asian all men i think generally men have a certain certain things that they all kind of abide by so
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like i said men generally will have sex with anything if it's presented to them but jemma collins
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most men generally men right but there's always exceptions but i'm saying generally they don't
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want to go out on the street with jemma okay so can i be honest and say this is my woman like so a lot of
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what i've seen so wall if i've walked up and down tottenham i'm going to do up areas walk up and
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down tottenham or do at west london i've seen black men in particular go out with women that look like
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jemma collins and have babies with them and hold their hands i'll tell you now carnival is next week
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tell me how many men black men let me finish no no they're not trapped because they're happily living
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in that household they're not trapped they just don't have nowhere else to live
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okay okay okay but you're you're saying you're saying you said she he likes to live with her
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because she has a house is that what you're saying no that's not what i'm what i'm basically saying
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because he because he said she's trapped but sorry let me get my words together because he said he's
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trapped i don't necessarily think that's because he's trapped but majority from what i've seen from
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my day to day when i've come across women that look like jemma collins or whoever they have been
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they've been happily walking around with their free children so you also don't understand that
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average people go out with are supposed to go out of average people yeah but you're basically
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you don't you're not talking about like a high value man walking around with a gemma yeah
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you're just looking like it's an average tyrese or whatever jay-z's not gonna pick jemma collins but
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what makes you think that jemma collins has not also got herself a high value okay okay i'll tell you
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why because look at look at the most sought after men who's on their arm the tom brady's of the world
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the leonardo dicapri's so the men the who leah leah well he dates a girl under 25 he swaps his
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girlfriend out every time she is but and i'm saying like all the most sought after men the nba players
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the nfl players all those guys have trophy wives that are thin they don't you don't see them with whales
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and you might you could you could name the one exception out of the whole league yeah i'm sure
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i'm sure every girl has the but but the one the one but but you know by and large they're getting
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hot chicks they're not they're not they're not taking a they're not taking a whale look at the
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footballers over here look at their way a footballer wouldn't have a jemma collins
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if a guy can't get the hot chicks he'll settle for the whale but that's no guy's first choice
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and then don't bring up that one every other girls always bring up there's that one thing in
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africa that one town it's just like oh there's that one person or there's that one celebrity
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that does have a fat wife but it's like but this is this is reminding me of that conversation
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everybody's having online about men being emotionally attracted to other men than women
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it's making me think like do you think men do you think that men are actually not attracted to these
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women or they're more they're more worried about what their boys or what other people's
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perception is going to be of them being with that woman partially they don't no guy wants to be
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embarrassed by his chick your representation of him so if you're like yeah if you're if you're fat
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and you don't look good enough to be taken in public it's it's because he's embarrassed to be with
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you he might you might be good enough to sleep with but he doesn't want to be seen with you
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i think men care a lot about status so like when they're choosing a girl they also have to think
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about how is this going to make me look in terms of my reputation every every guy likes having a pretty
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girl on his arm yeah i mean when you're walking down the street and other guys are checking out
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your girl it makes a man feel good yeah i think i think as well it's the respect of it like if you
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if you're rich and you have a bad card people are going to say oh maybe he's broke or something like
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that and as a man you want to be respected by other people and having a woman who isn't as attractive
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as he thinks he should be people might not respect you as much and as secure as a man can be they will
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be insecure that maybe this person might not be at my level plus women want that guy that other men
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respect see if a man walks into a room and all the men go towards that man like yo what's up man women
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looking at that guy like who's that guy like who's that guy that all the men are