JustPearlyThings - The Generation of FAT PRIDE

00:00:00.000 what do you think a real woman is and can and can a fat chick be a real woman 1.00

00:00:05.040 yes i mean a real woman is just a woman that's completely in touch with her 0.80

00:00:09.280 feminine side is a nurturer that just wants to they look at like they look at 1.00

00:00:13.600 their man like their child kind of thing that they

00:00:16.000 want to nurture them look after them make sure they're good

00:00:18.960 um can't can a man be broken be a real man

00:00:24.480 yes if he's trying to get out of his situation

00:00:27.120 okay go ahead uh i think a real woman a real woman is just someone who tries to 1.00

00:00:31.760 uplift herself and her man uplifting her mind in the sense where

00:00:36.000 whatever goals he's trying to achieve she's pushing him towards that direction

00:00:38.960 trying to help him and for herself someone like she's got you said kind of

00:00:43.440 fat girl um be a real woman yeah but if she's um 1.00

00:00:48.640 as long as again if she's trying to achieve her goals of trying to lose weight

00:00:51.760 that's so that's her discipline and understanding of herself that's not 0.99

00:00:54.320 healthy what if she's happy with her body though if she's happy with her body

00:00:58.000 that's fine but you know find another man who's also happy

00:01:00.400 with your body i don't think weight defines a real woman though 0.81

00:01:03.600 i think you guys are more referring to like the lack of integrity right between

00:01:06.960 what she says she wants and what she actually does

00:01:09.360 what she does with her free time because anyone can work out anyone can like work on 0.94

00:01:12.240 a woman could just be fat yeah and then just want another fat guy and they could just be fat and 1.00

00:01:19.920 happy i just i just think if you're obese it's not that they don't look at this okay okay i just

00:01:26.000 think i just think if you're i just i just think if you're obese you're not feminine so you're not 0.92

00:01:31.120 taking like part of being feminine is taking care of your body i agree yeah and so how are you feminine 1.00

00:01:35.200 you got some you got some sexy fat girls though okay like you jemma collins no no but it's more 1.00

00:01:40.960 in the way they carry themselves i think it's a confidence thing because you got some some big

00:01:44.240 women that they have like sex appeal because they're so confident in the way they are do you 1.00

00:01:48.640 do you think do you think that that line of thinking is general or specific it's very specific

00:01:54.960 i'd say probably most overweight women are going to be self-conscious and they're going to be not 1.00

00:01:58.640 confident but you do get some do you think most men are attracted to fat women no right okay yeah 0.96

00:02:04.240 because i'm saying like there's definitely exceptions i think it's a confidence thing

00:02:07.680 more yeah so would you say that would you say the majority of fat girls are feminine 1.00

00:02:12.400 uh i i see like feminine you don't think i wouldn't class it as like a weight thing it's more of like

00:02:25.120 to me it's like weight says a lot about your choices exactly yeah and so if you're overweight

00:02:29.040 you're making poor choices and usually those choices don't go with feminine behavior okay but if like 0.67

00:02:33.600 for a lot of african people you got like you know the aunties might be like big yeah but they're 1.00

00:02:38.320 like the most feminine women you know because they they they take care of the household it's an 1.00

00:02:42.320 exception but would you would you say it was so i'm sorry i always i always forget to clarify but i'm

00:02:46.640 talking about the west even still here i mean okay okay i think when it comes to femininity it's about

00:02:55.280 the confidence you carry yourself with so if you're overweight and you think that you're going to be

00:03:00.960 more attractive your femininity is going to tell you to try to be as attractive as possible so 1.00

00:03:05.760 you'll go to the gym but if you're not confident in your obesity then it shows you're not really

00:03:11.520 feminine because you're not really caring about it but i think it's all a matter of how much

00:03:18.080 how much you like your weight as it is if you don't like it and you're just saying oh yeah i love

00:03:23.680 how my body just because you don't want to go to the gym it's a completely different

00:03:27.520 sense but if you love how you look then it's a completely different thing as well

00:03:33.360 oh do you want to say something yeah okay just because someone's confident doesn't mean they're

00:03:37.680 feminine like some people carry a full sense of confidence and um yeah femininity is definitely 1.00

00:03:44.960 about taking care of your health and being obese and overweight is not healthy

00:03:50.560 yeah i agree i just i looked her up yeah jemma collins is not hot i think she is but 1.00

00:03:56.960 jemma collins wait wait i want to i want to pass this around smash your pass from the guys smash

00:04:03.920 pass pass hard pass pass you know what it's also been hard no but do you know sorry to cut you do you

00:04:13.360 know that that little that little experiment that you've done there goes to show that women see 0.89

00:04:20.320 things very differently from men like so the fact that you would see her black oh she's hot though 1.00

00:04:24.880 and guys are like hell no means you don't know how guys think of like you don't know how guys see 0.54

00:04:30.640 women i don't think they can either i thought you said can i just say something quick go i thought you 1.00

00:04:37.120 said men would a hole in the wall yeah jemma collins is a no they would but we're going by aesthetics

00:04:43.920 now we're going by this just also it's like if you showed someone a picture of beyonce right and

00:04:50.720 then you showed a picture of i don't know some girl that works at wherever the guy's gonna go because

00:04:55.680 men are visual creatures someone is smashing that someone out there is smashing jemma i'll give you

00:05:02.400 i'll give you an example so i've had guys on the show like say that they're embarrassed of the girls

00:05:07.600 that they slept with and that it's just better than their hand so you know she might be better 1.00

00:05:12.320 than someone's hand right but it's not it doesn't mean that's who they want yeah but then okay that's

00:05:18.240 why they're not retaining these kind of men because like some of these guys in this room they might not

00:05:22.400 say it publicly but they might like every guy every guy in here has had sex with a woman yeah that they

00:05:32.160 know they wouldn't want to generally be out with in public yeah it's like he had sex with her but you

00:05:39.280 don't want to take her out to dinner and stuff you know what i mean can i ask you a question of course you

00:05:43.280 can so when you were saying that um with the whole jemma collins thing and men are visual creatures and

00:05:49.760 things like that are you speaking as majority yeah generally like yeah are we going black white

00:05:55.280 asian all men i think generally men have a certain certain things that they all kind of abide by so 0.96

00:06:01.760 like i said men generally will have sex with anything if it's presented to them but jemma collins

00:06:08.880 most men generally men right but there's always exceptions but i'm saying generally they don't

00:06:14.400 want to go out on the street with jemma okay so can i be honest and say this is my woman like so a lot of

00:06:19.920 what i've seen so wall if i've walked up and down tottenham i'm going to do up areas walk up and

00:06:25.680 down tottenham or do at west london i've seen black men in particular go out with women that look like

00:06:31.040 jemma collins and have babies with them and hold their hands i'll tell you now carnival is next week

00:06:37.360 tell me how many men black men let me finish no no they're not trapped because they're happily living

00:06:45.120 in that household they're not trapped they just don't have nowhere else to live

00:06:56.000 okay okay okay but you're you're saying you're saying you said she he likes to live with her

00:07:00.560 because she has a house is that what you're saying no that's not what i'm what i'm basically saying

00:07:04.480 because he because he said she's trapped but sorry let me get my words together because he said he's

00:07:14.240 trapped i don't necessarily think that's because he's trapped but majority from what i've seen from

00:07:20.400 my day to day when i've come across women that look like jemma collins or whoever they have been 1.00

00:07:27.200 they've been happily walking around with their free children so you also don't understand that

00:07:32.160 average people go out with are supposed to go out of average people yeah but you're basically

00:07:37.760 you don't you're not talking about like a high value man walking around with a gemma yeah

00:07:42.640 you're just looking like it's an average tyrese or whatever jay-z's not gonna pick jemma collins but

00:07:47.520 what makes you think that jemma collins has not also got herself a high value okay okay i'll tell you

00:07:52.080 why because look at look at the most sought after men who's on their arm the tom brady's of the world

00:07:57.520 the leonardo dicapri's so the men the who leah leah well he dates a girl under 25 he swaps his

00:08:05.040 girlfriend out every time she is but and i'm saying like all the most sought after men the nba players

00:08:11.200 the nfl players all those guys have trophy wives that are thin they don't you don't see them with whales 1.00

00:08:15.920 and you might you could you could name the one exception out of the whole league yeah i'm sure

00:08:21.840 i'm sure every girl has the but but the one the one but but you know by and large they're getting 1.00

00:08:26.560 hot chicks they're not they're not they're not taking a they're not taking a whale look at the 0.97

00:08:30.640 footballers over here look at their way a footballer wouldn't have a jemma collins 0.93

00:08:35.360 if a guy can't get the hot chicks he'll settle for the whale but that's no guy's first choice 1.00

00:08:41.200 and then don't bring up that one every other girls always bring up there's that one thing in

00:08:44.400 africa that one town it's just like oh there's that one person or there's that one celebrity

00:08:48.640 that does have a fat wife but it's like but this is this is reminding me of that conversation

00:08:54.400 everybody's having online about men being emotionally attracted to other men than women

00:08:59.600 it's making me think like do you think men do you think that men are actually not attracted to these

00:09:09.520 women or they're more they're more worried about what their boys or what other people's 0.99

00:09:13.920 perception is going to be of them being with that woman partially they don't no guy wants to be 0.98

00:09:18.240 embarrassed by his chick your representation of him so if you're like yeah if you're if you're fat

00:09:22.240 and you don't look good enough to be taken in public it's it's because he's embarrassed to be with 0.93

00:09:27.040 you he might you might be good enough to sleep with but he doesn't want to be seen with you

00:09:30.960 i think men care a lot about status so like when they're choosing a girl they also have to think

00:09:35.600 about how is this going to make me look in terms of my reputation every every guy likes having a pretty

00:09:41.680 girl on his arm yeah i mean when you're walking down the street and other guys are checking out

00:09:44.960 your girl it makes a man feel good yeah i think i think as well it's the respect of it like if you

00:09:50.960 if you're rich and you have a bad card people are going to say oh maybe he's broke or something like

00:09:56.400 that and as a man you want to be respected by other people and having a woman who isn't as attractive 0.99

00:10:04.560 as he thinks he should be people might not respect you as much and as secure as a man can be they will

00:10:11.120 be insecure that maybe this person might not be at my level plus women want that guy that other men

00:10:20.240 respect see if a man walks into a room and all the men go towards that man like yo what's up man women 0.70

00:10:28.480 looking at that guy like who's that guy like who's that guy that all the men are

JustPearlyThings - April 13, 2023

The Generation of FAT PRIDE

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