JustPearlyThings - August 17, 2023


The Hard Truth About FEMINISM


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10 minutes

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2,345

Sentence count

275

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Misogyny

25

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In this episode, we discuss the difference between happiness for a woman and a man, and why women don t need a man to be happy. We also talk about how women can live without a man and why they don't need one.

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00:00:00.000 Ashton, what do you think the difference between happiness for a woman and happiness for a man is?
00:00:05.860 What do you think?
00:00:06.620 Freedom.
00:00:08.540 Be more, break it down for me.
00:00:10.280 Let's say, what's the difference between the happiness for a man and happiness for a woman? 0.87
00:00:15.620 What's the difference?
00:00:17.700 I think when you're both happy, I think that's when you can be completely happy.
00:00:21.500 Yeah, but what I'm asking you is that for a woman, what makes a woman happy? 1.00
00:00:25.680 Like happy, like proper happy and fulfilled.
00:00:27.660 And what makes a man happy and fulfilled?
00:00:29.260 I think it's personal preference.
00:00:30.820 Yeah, personal preference 100%.
00:00:32.040 Everyone is different.
00:00:33.700 Everyone is different, but to generalise it, I think for a man, it's having a woman who, this is going to sound so politically wrong,
00:00:42.880 but I know that guys can cheat and be and still love someone.
00:00:47.240 And then if they were to then go back to that woman and that woman takes them back, it would give him status because look how much my woman loves me. 1.00
00:00:54.660 He wouldn't tell anyone.
00:00:55.600 Why doesn't he tell anyone?
00:00:56.980 That's a bitch boy. 1.00
00:00:57.780 Why would he tell anyone?
00:00:58.360 What do you mean?
00:00:58.980 He doesn't have to, that's not status, bro.
00:01:00.700 I think she's saying it's a thought process.
00:01:02.160 That's not status.
00:01:03.200 What do you mean?
00:01:03.920 Like boasting about his girl taking him back, this and that.
00:01:07.180 But some guys do do that, though.
00:01:08.380 That's not status.
00:01:08.720 I've heard, I've seen a podcast with them having this whole conversation.
00:01:11.740 I'm not saying just specifically that.
00:01:13.600 That's not what I'm saying.
00:01:14.280 What makes a woman happy? 1.00
00:01:16.000 I think being cared for, provided for, looked after, respected, recognized.
00:01:20.420 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:01:20.920 Okay.
00:01:21.400 That's real good.
00:01:22.160 That's important.
00:01:22.740 But also, you don't need a man.
00:01:25.000 Yes, you do.
00:01:25.620 Yes, you do.
00:01:26.540 Yes, you do.
00:01:27.000 I'm not, oh, that's not the whole time, though.
00:01:29.080 You would, the only reason, like, we have a society where women are, like, delusional 1.00
00:01:33.460 enough to think that we can't live without men.
00:01:35.560 No offense.
00:01:36.380 Because, like, what do you do when your car breaks down?
00:01:38.600 You go to a man. 0.54
00:01:39.200 What do you do, who built this building?
00:01:41.100 A man.
00:01:41.660 A woman can do. 1.00
00:01:42.920 No, not really.
00:01:43.960 All of the industries that run society are primarily, I mean, it's not that they can't.
00:01:48.500 We don't, and we won't.
00:01:49.460 We refuse to do hard jobs.
00:01:50.920 All the hardest jobs in society.
00:01:52.560 I know a lot of people that, the women that build. 1.00
00:01:53.360 No, not really.
00:01:54.680 Even if you look at them, and I've talked to, like, I do interviews sometimes with people
00:01:59.340 in these industries.
00:02:00.300 Typically, the women are the ones waving the flags on the construction sites, or they're, 1.00
00:02:06.040 like, in the middle management.
00:02:07.300 Like, most women are out there building, and if they're doing it, come on, they're bad at 1.00
00:02:10.760 it.
00:02:10.920 Let's just call spade a spade.
00:02:12.580 Like, you're not as good at, like, doing manual labor as a man.
00:02:17.440 You can't be.
00:02:18.060 We're not as strong as them.
00:02:19.460 Yeah, we're not as strong as men.
00:02:20.820 If there is a blackout tomorrow, right, if there is a blackout tomorrow, you would run
00:02:25.900 to a guy, because you would need a guy to protect you.
00:02:28.000 They did a study, right, or not a study, a TV show, where they put men and women on
00:02:33.040 an island and said, survive, go.
00:02:34.800 The women had to be rescued in two days, and in, like, five days, the men were filtering
00:02:38.700 water, hunting food.
00:02:39.860 Like, they had a whole system built.
00:02:40.920 And that's just how we're both differently built, though.
00:02:43.380 Right, but that's what I'm saying.
00:02:44.280 Like, women, like, we're in a society where we have, like, propped up women to think that 1.00
00:02:48.400 we can live without men when everything we do depends on men.
00:02:51.740 But then they need us women to be here. 1.00
00:02:54.680 No, not really, because, like, okay, let's say reproduction's equal, right?
00:02:58.640 We can't say, because we need their sperm, they need our egg. 1.00
00:03:01.560 So we can't take more credit for reproduction.
00:03:04.320 Like, that's equal.
00:03:04.900 But when it comes to...
00:03:05.960 A man can't grow a baby, though, whereas a woman can't. 1.00
00:03:07.880 Okay, but what...
00:03:08.640 Okay, if they build artificial wombs tomorrow, then what? 0.99
00:03:11.880 Because they're already developing.
00:03:12.680 I think they're doing that, you know?
00:03:13.620 I think they're already doing, like, the pods and shit.
00:03:15.840 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:03:16.560 Have you seen that?
00:03:17.100 So they do that tomorrow, then what?
00:03:19.780 Then what?
00:03:20.320 So what...
00:03:20.840 Yeah, yeah, and there's no law stopping us from doing any of these industries.
00:03:26.220 If you want, you can go be a plumber, you can go be a mechanic, but I'm sure none of you
00:03:30.240 want to, and I sure as hell don't, right?
00:03:32.620 You don't want to.
00:03:33.360 I don't want to either.
00:03:34.600 And it's interesting, because I talked to this, like, historian the other day, and he
00:03:38.100 said there have just been such ramifications from women entering the workforce in the 20s. 1.00
00:03:42.380 Because, like, that's, like, the...
00:03:45.100 As soon as women entered the workforce in the 20s, that's when the number of children 1.00
00:03:48.240 went down.
00:03:49.340 And that's when, like, that's when you couldn't survive on two incomes.
00:03:52.500 So there's been a lot of ramifications.
00:03:53.720 I'm not saying good or bad, but from women entering the workforce.
00:03:57.620 But they say they don't need men, right?
00:04:00.140 But hypothetically, you see how big that muscle is right there?
00:04:04.440 The security guard for this show.
00:04:06.280 Right?
00:04:06.760 If he was to try to violate you, like, say me and you were together, Courtney, and we're
00:04:11.660 walking down the street, if he was trying to violate you, he would have to kill me to
00:04:15.420 get you to you.
00:04:17.040 You don't see value in that?
00:04:19.300 I don't think he means it in that way, though.
00:04:21.260 No, but I'm saying the point that you guys are...
00:04:22.960 We've conquered the world to the point where you guys are so protected, to the point that
00:04:27.000 you guys don't even see valuable and simple security.
00:04:29.440 You guys aren't entitled to security.
00:04:32.180 You understand that?
00:04:33.080 I don't have to protect you.
00:04:34.840 If someone as big as him was to try to violate you, he would have to kill me.
00:04:38.500 I don't have to do that for you.
00:04:41.760 To the point to say that you don't need men, you do need men.
00:04:44.640 You're so secure because the fact that we've conquered the world and gave you that security.
00:04:49.300 But you're not entitled to it.
00:04:50.940 You're not entitled to it.
00:04:52.540 All right, so if we're walking together and he says something, what are you going to do?
00:04:56.120 Yeah, but it wasn't aimed...
00:04:58.020 I'm not saying that, though.
00:04:59.160 No, but she's talking about needing men.
00:05:00.720 You do need men.
00:05:01.880 Yeah, of course.
00:05:02.100 Because you're not entitled to security.
00:05:03.540 You could walk down the street right now and somebody attack you, right?
00:05:07.840 But if you had a man with you, that man would be willing to die for you.
00:05:10.820 Then and there, on the spot.
00:05:12.180 You win me.
00:05:13.320 I'm a dive.
00:05:14.620 You've got to kill me.
00:05:17.540 I do get what you're going to do.
00:05:18.400 That's valuable.
00:05:19.620 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:05:20.700 So you need men. 1.00
00:05:22.100 Don't let this society that we've conquered and built is so secure for you.
00:05:26.840 Forget that.
00:05:27.420 Because a man could see, a pervert, a pedophile, whatever, could see you walking in the street.
00:05:32.300 Oh, she's pretty. 1.00
00:05:32.880 She's got a skirt on. 1.00
00:05:35.380 Let me find an opportunity.
00:05:36.360 He's going to follow you.
00:05:36.900 Bro, why is that so special, bro?
00:05:38.220 Is that not a normal?
00:05:39.380 That's normal.
00:05:39.940 That's normal for a guy to protect the girl.
00:05:41.500 Why are you doing that?
00:05:42.860 It's normal.
00:05:43.260 Because they don't value that.
00:05:44.700 They do value that.
00:05:45.300 We never said it in that way, though.
00:05:47.940 But we're talking about modern women, not valuing men.
00:05:50.400 And one of the things that men bring to the table, more than anything, is protection.
00:05:56.840 Okay, bro, that's not important, no, bro.
00:05:58.980 That's average.
00:05:59.540 It's not normal.
00:06:00.300 It's not normal.
00:06:01.260 It's not normal because there's pussies out there that won't do nothing. 1.00
00:06:04.380 There are men out there that when men do something to their women, they will not do anything.
00:06:09.020 They are cowards and they won't do anything.
00:06:10.600 Do not tell me that it's not valuable for a man to stand up for women because 99% of them.
00:06:14.380 It's not valuable.
00:06:14.860 It's normal, bro.
00:06:15.680 It's not normal.
00:06:16.200 It's average, fam.
00:06:17.080 It's not normal.
00:06:17.700 Cool.
00:06:17.960 Would you protect her girl?
00:06:18.720 Yes or no?
00:06:19.560 Yes, you would.
00:06:20.020 Would you protect her girl?
00:06:20.620 Yes, you would.
00:06:21.000 Yes, you would.
00:06:21.660 Yes, you would.
00:06:22.320 I would.
00:06:22.860 Anyone else would.
00:06:23.600 Only a little geek, whatever.
00:06:25.820 And there's a lot of cowards out there.
00:06:27.400 That's what I'm saying.
00:06:28.380 That's what I'm saying.
00:06:29.240 You'd be surprised, though, to be fair.
00:06:31.000 You wouldn't be surprised, though.
00:06:31.880 Exactly.
00:06:33.060 I think it's normal for a guy to protect his girl.
00:06:35.580 That's not normal.
00:06:36.340 It is not normal.
00:06:36.420 I don't know where you're from, but where I'm from, I've seen plenty of dudes lay down.
00:06:40.080 I can hear from you, bro.
00:06:40.620 I've seen plenty of dudes.
00:06:41.940 I've seen plenty of dudes lay down and do nothing.
00:06:44.900 Where are you from, bro?
00:06:45.500 America.
00:06:46.100 Fuck America.
00:06:46.600 I don't care about America.
00:06:47.420 I'm talking about you.
00:06:47.780 You say what you said.
00:06:49.080 All right, whatever.
00:06:49.840 That's cool.
00:06:50.460 I've not seen a guy that's stepped down from, like, protecting his girl.
00:06:53.660 I've seen it.
00:06:54.300 Unless he's that 13, 12.
00:06:55.480 I've seen it.
00:06:56.140 I've not seen it.
00:06:56.940 Who's obviously going to run away from his girl?
00:06:59.300 No one.
00:06:59.560 I've seen it.
00:07:00.360 I've seen dudes, like, grab a girl's ass and the dude really does nothing. 1.00
00:07:04.100 Exactly.
00:07:05.000 I've seen it.
00:07:05.640 I'm not saying that's rare.
00:07:06.540 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:07:07.000 That's rare?
00:07:08.460 It's common.
00:07:09.220 It's not common.
00:07:10.060 I'm kind of torn.
00:07:10.860 I've seen both, you know what I mean?
00:07:12.700 You're saying that doesn't happen, bro?
00:07:14.920 You're saying that doesn't happen.
00:07:15.560 It happens, but it's not common, bro.
00:07:17.520 But it happens, though.
00:07:18.640 It happens.
00:07:19.220 It happens.
00:07:20.460 It's not that valuable because everyone does it.
00:07:21.980 It's normal, bro.
00:07:22.700 It's normal for a guy to protect a woman.
00:07:24.360 Easy as.
00:07:24.880 But he doesn't have to do it.
00:07:26.560 The point is they have to see value in it.
00:07:28.940 Of course they have to do it, bro.
00:07:30.000 It's normal, bro.
00:07:30.680 No, but it's like if you're single, right?
00:07:33.540 There's some value in having a boyfriend that can protect you.
00:07:36.260 So if someone breaks into your apartment at night and he's there, he can protect you.
00:07:39.580 That's normal.
00:07:40.160 I think it might be normal, but that's what he's trying to say, that women don't value that.
00:07:44.280 Yeah, but.
00:07:44.840 Like, women don't value that anymore. 1.00
00:07:45.800 I'm saying that it's not normal and that a man shouldn't do it.
00:07:49.640 A man being a man should do it.
00:07:51.860 What I'm saying is that generally, modern women today don't value the simple thing of a protection,
00:07:57.600 which is the most valuable thing a man can do.
00:07:59.880 It's not the most valuable thing.
00:08:00.860 It is the most valuable thing.
00:08:02.080 Because lay your life on the line for a woman is the most valuable thing you can do. 0.91
00:08:06.020 It's not, it's average.
00:08:06.700 It's the most valuable thing you can do.
00:08:08.040 It's normal, bro.
00:08:08.460 If I love a woman, I will die for there on the spot. 1.00
00:08:10.860 This is my life.
00:08:11.560 This is all I have.
00:08:12.440 That's my personal preference.
00:08:13.940 That is all I have to give her.
00:08:15.240 That's average.
00:08:15.760 It's normal.
00:08:16.260 It's average.
00:08:16.780 Why are you telling me?
00:08:17.180 You might be saying it's normal and average, but you'd be surprised about how many men don't 0.98
00:08:20.540 do it.
00:08:20.920 That's his point.
00:08:21.380 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:08:21.960 He's agreeing with you.
00:08:23.640 To you, to you, it is normal.
00:08:26.700 To me, it is normal.
00:08:27.620 A guy should do that, but you'd be surprised about how many men don't.
00:08:30.440 Don't actually, yeah.
00:08:30.920 And that's his point.
00:08:31.860 That's his point.
00:08:32.620 He's not disagreeing with you.
00:08:33.560 He's arguing with you.
00:08:33.900 Bro, we're on the same level, but just like just a little bit.
00:08:36.720 Bro, you're saying women don't value it. 1.00
00:08:39.720 It's so valuable.
00:08:40.500 It's so valuable.
00:08:41.160 It's normal, bro.
00:08:41.780 It's not valuable.
00:08:42.480 It's normal.
00:08:43.220 No, it is valuable.
00:08:44.080 It's not.
00:08:44.440 It's normal, bro.
00:08:44.900 It's normal, bro.
00:08:45.020 Ass the...
00:08:45.740 Listen, like I said, I don't know where you're from, bro, but where I'm from, a lot of shit
00:08:50.460 happens, bro.
00:08:52.040 I've seen a lot of shit happen.
00:08:53.580 Lay down.
00:08:54.860 Like shit don't really happen, and dudes do nothing.
00:08:58.440 Bro.
00:08:59.240 Like really don't happen, bro.
00:09:00.940 It's true.
00:09:00.980 America is very different from the UK, and I personally, I haven't been there, but even
00:09:06.560 just on TV, you can see how savage stuff is.
00:09:08.420 Fuck TV, that's who lies. 0.95
00:09:09.760 I can't lie.
00:09:10.120 But just in general, though, just from, you can see from your emotion and how fiery you
00:09:15.860 are, you've seen it.
00:09:16.940 I've done stood up for my dudes, a girlfriend, when he wouldn't stand up for her.
00:09:22.680 It's normal, bro.
00:09:23.480 It's normal, bro.
00:09:24.940 It's not normal, bro.
00:09:25.680 It's normal, bro.
00:09:26.300 That's not normal.
00:09:27.220 It's average stuff.
00:09:28.040 It should be normal.
00:09:28.980 It should be normal.
00:09:30.120 It should be normal, and a man should do that.
00:09:32.080 What I'm saying is that there are men out there that will not do that, and what I'm saying
00:09:36.500 is that most men, women don't, most modern women don't value the simplicity of security.
00:09:42.400 You're not entitled to it.
00:09:43.320 They're not going to value it.
00:09:43.960 They expect it.
00:09:44.560 It's normal for them, bro.
00:09:45.400 That's his point.
00:09:46.580 He's just not understanding it.
00:09:47.960 It's like he just needs to argue.
00:09:50.120 No, I don't think so.
00:09:50.980 I think you guys are just misunderstanding each other.
00:09:53.080 I think that's his point, though, that women don't value it. 0.99
00:09:56.740 And his point is that women don't respect average men nowadays, even when they're average
00:10:00.580 women. 0.81
00:10:02.020 I think that's right.
00:10:02.800 I think, let me tell you something.
00:10:03.860 But I think protecting a girl is normal, average standards.
00:10:06.780 It's just normal.
00:10:07.400 You can't.
00:10:07.900 It's not something that you value.
00:10:09.240 It's normal, average.