JustPearlyThings - The Level Of DELUSION of This Modern Women Is AMAZING

00:00:00.000 the next the next the next one is can pearl can we get each of the ladies to do the female 1.00

00:00:05.700 delusion calculator oh my god what's that first of all the website was broken the last time okay

00:00:12.140 okay we're gonna we're gonna do it for fun before you talk about how much you hate it

00:00:15.400 i didn't say i hated it i said the website was down

00:00:18.420 chill chill i need you to chill oh no i i you know i love you okay i've never

00:00:29.280 well yeah okay can we can we explain what this is okay okay so age range without you let's start

00:00:41.320 with you because you don't know what it is okay so what's the age range you would date we'll start

00:00:47.060 off with the lowest i'll go 24 okay highest uh 37 okay

00:00:57.820 do you look that's 10 years older than me my parents are 10 years apart i'm i'm not i'm good

00:01:04.620 up to 15 um what about race do you care based on the the options i have i'm gonna choose the black

00:01:13.560 okay okay um minimum minimum minimum height

00:01:18.680 six we'll keep it at six okay what's the minimum income

00:01:23.680 six figures that's my type six figures i'm kidding um

00:01:28.480 it's just uh we'll go up go up go go um we'll go we'll leave it there 70 yeah okay

00:01:36.600 you know 45 is average oh okay i'm gonna be making my own money so okay so so 70 that's your final

00:01:45.020 answer yeah we'll just keep it at 70 okay

00:01:47.220 the probability of you finding this guy is this one point point two three percent

00:01:56.020 how because 50 are married 1.00

00:01:58.780 oh yeah four out of five if you're delusional so that's how delusional you are he's like alone

00:02:08.940 that's the joke behind it i'll be a dog lady i'll be a dog okay okay

00:02:12.580 can i just say jess will find the love of her life also i mean honestly i'm the what oh yeah

00:02:20.060 i'm the type of person that i've come to the realization like if i find that person or they

00:02:27.680 find me cool but if not i'm gonna live my life by myself like exactly there's nothing the happiest

00:02:33.900 people statistically are women who are single yeah that's not true that's not true that's not true

00:02:41.480 it's like the lowest female happiness is women over the age of 50 with no kids okay that's over 50 0.91

00:02:47.220 um we talk about our age group i'm not 50 plus i feel like though like so like my older sister

00:02:53.620 she's 29 right and like you're 27 like that's not too far off yeah i know when she was your age

00:02:58.440 she started feeling like i'm on a time crunch at a point like whatever that but it's like 30 is the

00:03:05.380 new 20 like genuinely like you're so young like and it's good that you got to that point in your life

00:03:12.080 where you're like i don't care yeah but listen you're young you're stunning you're sexy you're

00:03:17.760 talented intellectual that will come that will come i wouldn't be it i'm like when i was younger

00:03:25.840 like it's like not built into you but it's just so like drilled into you like oh you're boaz when

00:03:32.180 you're in church and whatnot they like tell you like oh he's gonna find you don't look for it and

00:03:36.180 you're just like okay i'm gonna i'm gonna get married and then like it comes to that age where

00:03:40.880 it's like okay i planned on this happening this time it hasn't happened and i've just come to the

00:03:46.220 realization like when it's supposed to happen it's supposed to happen and that's how i am you guys do

00:03:50.940 you guys do you guys feel like it's just supposed to happen or do you feel like you're supposed to

00:03:54.740 put in work to find a partner i think it's both i don't think you could i don't think you should

00:03:58.820 choose i don't think you should force it i think what's for you always come for you i'm a huge

00:04:03.520 believer of that i think that's just my belief but i feel like you also have to put in that work

00:04:08.480 it's that manifestation i think people think if you say i'm going to be rich one day like you're

00:04:12.640 going to be rich like yeah you need to put in that work yeah you need to put in that work and connect

00:04:16.780 with that universe and connect with what you want and what you believe in and what you want for

00:04:20.560 your life so so you do what happened to you so if for example jess if she wants to make it pro

00:04:25.020 if she puts in that work goes training goes right but but do you think it's the same thing for a

00:04:29.960 husband if you want to get married yes okay okay yeah because like if i wanted to get married in

00:04:35.740 the next year i'd just hire a matchmaker like if i wanted to get married in the next year that is 1.00

00:04:40.760 absolutely what i was gonna say outside of that um you have to understand if you are ready for a

00:04:47.580 relationship because you could be pushing as hard as you want going through five six different

00:04:51.140 talking stages and it's like at some point you have to realize like maybe you're not

00:04:55.000 ready yeah maybe it's not the time for you so just let it go focus on yourself do what you have

00:05:00.740 to to make yourself the best you can be at your own standard and then maybe it will come around

00:05:05.560 also just do you guys do you guys think what gabby said was true um around like 27 to say 30 like

00:05:11.960 women start to get like kind of more rushed i think that it's just with society they're like oh 1.00

00:05:18.220 30 yeah your eggs are drying up and it's just like no i know people who have had kids close

00:05:23.960 to 40 or after 40 and then yeah no well you guys my brother at 42 yeah my brother's literally like

00:05:30.060 three years old so well you guys realize like like the there's a lot of companies that are saying 55

00:05:36.280 percent of women today and 10 like are going to be single and childless like at 40 because of the way 1.00

00:05:41.460 society's like going no it's not society yeah what the hell am i gonna do what i'm gonna start popping

00:05:47.200 out the babies for everybody yeah make the well no i'm just i'm just like statistic like i like let's

00:05:54.340 think like world like yeah sorry in the united states you're right there's a lot of issues like

00:05:59.580 i know a lot of people that don't want kids because of the way our world has been going yeah so i think

00:06:04.880 that may have a but why why is it like that the world's going like we have a lower rate of poverty than

00:06:09.520 we ever have had in the entire human history really yeah as much as we should come from l.a

00:06:15.540 you wouldn't know that how are we in general we're not getting paid as much as we should no because the

00:06:20.760 way inflation has gone up oh inflation's bad yeah we're not getting paid more so it's like like

00:06:26.680 right you're right you're our wages like my parents my parents were able to buy a house right right out

00:06:31.960 of college that is impossible like in our day and age it's impossible it's just not gonna happen

00:06:38.000 we could barely pay rent like with just a regular job like with no experience coming out of college

00:06:42.900 like you know it's just not there's a a lot of things in the way that weren't in the way 10 so

00:06:50.840 you're saying you're saying like a lot of people well but the other problem is like consumer debt

00:06:55.520 and like that's like 80 of consumer debt is owned by women so like women aren't like good at saving 1.00

00:07:01.140 so it's like partially like our own fault if we're in a problem where you have 80 like 80 like because

00:07:06.900 the other genders aren't doing it i think men are more concentrated on like when it comes to money 1.00

00:07:11.200 management so i feel like it depends on family as well so i feel like we only just recently started

00:07:16.240 having our own bank accounts isn't it that a woman couldn't open a bank account until like 1.00

00:07:19.720 shortly after uh voting was yeah but yeah but what does that have to do with us today like

00:07:26.440 i had nothing no no no i'm sorry no no this is that had nothing to do with me something that

00:07:32.520 happened in the 20s i felt like a like a bank account that was only 30s for even let's say 50s 60s i

00:07:39.240 wasn't alive you can't you can't blame your spending you can no you cannot blame your spending

00:07:43.840 listen at the end of the day being a woman of color when it comes to money and all that we're

00:07:55.940 a lot more careful about this kind of stuff because i was 19 you know our history does not prove well

00:08:02.320 when it comes to finances and education you know and we're trying to work better it's something that

00:08:07.960 should be taught in schools financial literacy investing and luckily in my high school yeah we

00:08:13.600 needed at least two years of financial literacy class yes so but you know when you have half of

00:08:18.960 the country not even being able to read at a sixth grade level it's gonna get kind of hard for us to

00:08:25.260 have uh understanding of both reading and money like i think that one reason why that statistic that

00:08:33.820 you shared is so low amongst women is um you like spark something is because that we it's shared 0.87

00:08:46.300 more like financial literacy and correct me if i'm wrong it's shared more with people who are wealthy

00:08:53.760 already wealthy yeah already wealthy and that typically comes from the caucasian community and it's something

00:08:59.680 that isn't well i'm talking about like women owning consumer yeah yeah that's what i'm saying 1.00

00:09:04.820 like okay it's taught you have to bring up that intersection but i'm saying like even if it's like

00:09:08.800 the wealthy people have that knowledge like they um like it's half women like yeah but i'm saying just 1.00

00:09:16.020 like the dynamic of whatever community you come from i don't know right yeah how many women come from 1.00

00:09:21.320 this community that community but it's very um it's not talked about yeah it's not talked about it

00:09:29.520 as much and i can understand why that would be low because of just the dynamics from you feel like

00:09:36.480 the the internet though is kind of the great equalizer because you have access to all this

00:09:40.880 information that like like you can you can look up like a billionaire giving someone financial advice

00:09:45.960 yeah i do think that you can access anything and everything on the internet but if it's not

00:09:50.660 something that you grew up with you've been taught like this is important like financial literacy you need

00:09:56.000 to understand it you're not going to look it up on your own

00:09:58.920 you're not going to look it up on your own

00:09:59.000 you're not going to look it up on your own

00:10:02.960 you're not going to look it up on your own

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JustPearlyThings - July 16, 2023

The Level Of DELUSION of This Modern Women Is AMAZING

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