The Level Of DELUSION of This Modern Women Is AMAZING
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the Female Delusion calculator, the female delusion calculator, and what it means to be a woman in her 20s. We also talk about the age range of women in their 20s and 30s, how to find a husband, and how to be ready for a relationship.
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the next the next the next one is can pearl can we get each of the ladies to do the female
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delusion calculator oh my god what's that first of all the website was broken the last time okay
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okay we're gonna we're gonna do it for fun before you talk about how much you hate it
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i didn't say i hated it i said the website was down
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chill chill i need you to chill oh no i i you know i love you okay i've never
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well yeah okay can we can we explain what this is okay okay so age range without you let's start
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with you because you don't know what it is okay so what's the age range you would date we'll start
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off with the lowest i'll go 24 okay highest uh 37 okay
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do you look that's 10 years older than me my parents are 10 years apart i'm i'm not i'm good
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up to 15 um what about race do you care based on the the options i have i'm gonna choose the black
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six we'll keep it at six okay what's the minimum income
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six figures that's my type six figures i'm kidding um
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it's just uh we'll go up go up go go um we'll go we'll leave it there 70 yeah okay
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you know 45 is average oh okay i'm gonna be making my own money so okay so so 70 that's your final
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the probability of you finding this guy is this one point point two three percent
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oh yeah four out of five if you're delusional so that's how delusional you are he's like alone
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that's the joke behind it i'll be a dog lady i'll be a dog okay okay
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can i just say jess will find the love of her life also i mean honestly i'm the what oh yeah
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i'm the type of person that i've come to the realization like if i find that person or they
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find me cool but if not i'm gonna live my life by myself like exactly there's nothing the happiest
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people statistically are women who are single yeah that's not true that's not true that's not true
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it's like the lowest female happiness is women over the age of 50 with no kids okay that's over 50
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um we talk about our age group i'm not 50 plus i feel like though like so like my older sister
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she's 29 right and like you're 27 like that's not too far off yeah i know when she was your age
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she started feeling like i'm on a time crunch at a point like whatever that but it's like 30 is the
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new 20 like genuinely like you're so young like and it's good that you got to that point in your life
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where you're like i don't care yeah but listen you're young you're stunning you're sexy you're
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talented intellectual that will come that will come i wouldn't be it i'm like when i was younger
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like it's like not built into you but it's just so like drilled into you like oh you're boaz when
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you're in church and whatnot they like tell you like oh he's gonna find you don't look for it and
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you're just like okay i'm gonna i'm gonna get married and then like it comes to that age where
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it's like okay i planned on this happening this time it hasn't happened and i've just come to the
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realization like when it's supposed to happen it's supposed to happen and that's how i am you guys do
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you guys do you guys feel like it's just supposed to happen or do you feel like you're supposed to
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put in work to find a partner i think it's both i don't think you could i don't think you should
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choose i don't think you should force it i think what's for you always come for you i'm a huge
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believer of that i think that's just my belief but i feel like you also have to put in that work
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it's that manifestation i think people think if you say i'm going to be rich one day like you're
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going to be rich like yeah you need to put in that work yeah you need to put in that work and connect
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with that universe and connect with what you want and what you believe in and what you want for
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your life so so you do what happened to you so if for example jess if she wants to make it pro
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if she puts in that work goes training goes right but but do you think it's the same thing for a
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husband if you want to get married yes okay okay yeah because like if i wanted to get married in
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the next year i'd just hire a matchmaker like if i wanted to get married in the next year that is
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absolutely what i was gonna say outside of that um you have to understand if you are ready for a
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relationship because you could be pushing as hard as you want going through five six different
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talking stages and it's like at some point you have to realize like maybe you're not
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ready yeah maybe it's not the time for you so just let it go focus on yourself do what you have
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to to make yourself the best you can be at your own standard and then maybe it will come around
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also just do you guys do you guys think what gabby said was true um around like 27 to say 30 like
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women start to get like kind of more rushed i think that it's just with society they're like oh
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30 yeah your eggs are drying up and it's just like no i know people who have had kids close
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to 40 or after 40 and then yeah no well you guys my brother at 42 yeah my brother's literally like
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three years old so well you guys realize like like the there's a lot of companies that are saying 55
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percent of women today and 10 like are going to be single and childless like at 40 because of the way
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society's like going no it's not society yeah what the hell am i gonna do what i'm gonna start popping
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out the babies for everybody yeah make the well no i'm just i'm just like statistic like i like let's
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think like world like yeah sorry in the united states you're right there's a lot of issues like
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i know a lot of people that don't want kids because of the way our world has been going yeah so i think
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that may have a but why why is it like that the world's going like we have a lower rate of poverty than
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we ever have had in the entire human history really yeah as much as we should come from l.a
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you wouldn't know that how are we in general we're not getting paid as much as we should no because the
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way inflation has gone up oh inflation's bad yeah we're not getting paid more so it's like like
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right you're right you're our wages like my parents my parents were able to buy a house right right out
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of college that is impossible like in our day and age it's impossible it's just not gonna happen
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we could barely pay rent like with just a regular job like with no experience coming out of college
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like you know it's just not there's a a lot of things in the way that weren't in the way 10 so
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you're saying you're saying like a lot of people well but the other problem is like consumer debt
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and like that's like 80 of consumer debt is owned by women so like women aren't like good at saving
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so it's like partially like our own fault if we're in a problem where you have 80 like 80 like because
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the other genders aren't doing it i think men are more concentrated on like when it comes to money
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management so i feel like it depends on family as well so i feel like we only just recently started
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having our own bank accounts isn't it that a woman couldn't open a bank account until like
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shortly after uh voting was yeah but yeah but what does that have to do with us today like
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i had nothing no no no i'm sorry no no this is that had nothing to do with me something that
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happened in the 20s i felt like a like a bank account that was only 30s for even let's say 50s 60s i
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wasn't alive you can't you can't blame your spending you can no you cannot blame your spending
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listen at the end of the day being a woman of color when it comes to money and all that we're
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a lot more careful about this kind of stuff because i was 19 you know our history does not prove well
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when it comes to finances and education you know and we're trying to work better it's something that
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should be taught in schools financial literacy investing and luckily in my high school yeah we
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needed at least two years of financial literacy class yes so but you know when you have half of
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the country not even being able to read at a sixth grade level it's gonna get kind of hard for us to
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have uh understanding of both reading and money like i think that one reason why that statistic that
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you shared is so low amongst women is um you like spark something is because that we it's shared
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more like financial literacy and correct me if i'm wrong it's shared more with people who are wealthy
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already wealthy yeah already wealthy and that typically comes from the caucasian community and it's something
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that isn't well i'm talking about like women owning consumer yeah yeah that's what i'm saying
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like okay it's taught you have to bring up that intersection but i'm saying like even if it's like
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the wealthy people have that knowledge like they um like it's half women like yeah but i'm saying just
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like the dynamic of whatever community you come from i don't know right yeah how many women come from
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this community that community but it's very um it's not talked about yeah it's not talked about it
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as much and i can understand why that would be low because of just the dynamics from you feel like
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the the internet though is kind of the great equalizer because you have access to all this
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information that like like you can you can look up like a billionaire giving someone financial advice
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yeah i do think that you can access anything and everything on the internet but if it's not
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something that you grew up with you've been taught like this is important like financial literacy you need
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to understand it you're not going to look it up on your own