JustPearlyThings - July 10, 2023


The LEVEL Of DELUSION Women Are Living In Is OUTRAGEOUS

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Why DIVORCE Should Be ILLEGAL Pearl Gives Modern Woman A Harsh Reality Check

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16 minutes

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193.26

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3,146

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Harmful content

Misogyny

27

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Toxicity

32

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Hate speech

18

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Summary

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In this episode, I sit down with a good friend of mine to talk about the perils of being a father to a daughter. We talk about what it's like raising a daughter, the dangers of womenizing, and what it means to be a good father.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 care of her do you think because it's interesting one thing you said was that like the womanizing 1.00
00:00:05.900 right yeah and you said that you would pay the price someday or you you're afraid you would pay
00:00:10.780 the price someday i don't do you think it's the men's responsibility to keep the sexual marketplace
00:00:17.720 pure because i almost think it's like kind of on the women because we're in control of sex men are
00:00:23.080 in control of relationships so i don't really even fault guys that womanize because it's kind of like
00:00:28.200 if she doesn't do it with you she's going to do it with someone else yeah i mean i that's kind of
00:00:33.160 the way i think if i do think it's a i do have all also noticed that men that do womenize tend to get
00:00:38.720 daughters i don't know what it is i tell you i tell you i've seen that in the space all the guys that
00:00:43.660 like would brag about the sex stuff or like even just talk about it maybe not even brag i'm like
00:00:49.020 their first board's always a daughter i don't know i almost feel like if you have a pronoun bio you
00:00:57.220 know how people say like uh opinion invalid you know like there's like like you see that on social
00:01:02.740 media like in the comments yeah yeah yeah i would say to me to me if a man gives me advice on women
00:01:08.480 and i see that he's not actually a father to a daughter it's i'm not going to say opinion invalid
00:01:17.260 but man if you didn't cross the river you don't know what it's like you gotta cross the river you
00:01:24.300 gotta tell me that i i want to know for at least six months of your life you've held an infant 1.00
00:01:29.900 daughter baby girl in your arms and that if that didn't affect you you're a fucking psychopath you 1.00
00:01:37.280 know what i'm saying like like you don't experience love i want to experience love i live with passion 1.00
00:01:43.000 i love my daughter with passion you know i'm here with passion i drink the water with passion
00:01:48.920 i make love to my wife with passion i work in my business with passion i eat with passion
00:01:55.420 i try to live with passion you know your dad loves you with passion that he gets involved
00:02:02.040 and he tries to help you and correct you he lives with he loves you with passion he probably understands
00:02:08.360 that you know he understands so you know i think to myself i hope my daughter doesn't pay the price
00:02:16.340 for what i did and i also think that when you're seeing young men talk about women in a highly
00:02:22.100 disrespectful way and this is coming from me look how much i you know i'm not exactly some
00:02:27.780 i don't hold my wife's purse i refuse you know earlier today i watched this guy this guy was holding 1.00
00:02:33.920 his wife's purse i was just like bro like you're letting her dominate you when you do that shit you 1.00
00:02:39.880 know what i'm saying then i saw and i just i just i just thought to myself i'm like and i was like 0.99
00:02:47.360 is it my ego but i'm like i can't my wife knows i'll carry anything for i'll carry a sofa for before i 0.62
00:02:53.680 carry the purse you know no really and i'll never change and i almost never will change the diapers i
00:03:00.020 just first of all i feel uncomfortable changing the diapers of my daughter because i feel like it's
00:03:05.340 almost pedophilia i almost feel like like playing with my daughter's area it's it's it's so disgusting 0.73
00:03:14.180 to me that that it's like like i like pedophilias deserve to be locked up forever first of all 0.66
00:03:20.600 but but i couldn't even i couldn't even touch her like that because it it would creep me out as
00:03:26.040 so it's not out of disrespect to my wife that i'm like i'm not gonna change her diapers it's just out
00:03:31.040 of like the pedophilia stuff it's just too close to that you know i'll do everything else with my
00:03:35.980 daughter i'll take a bath with my daughter i'll hold her in bed i'll do all those things but i'm not
00:03:41.260 gonna change her diaper and clean her little area you know that makes me feel very uncomfortable to be 0.99
00:03:45.940 honest with you but that being said to the original point look when once you have a daughter 1.00
00:03:53.620 okay oh i fuck a lot of women okay fine you fucked 100 200 300 women okay you got that out you've 1.00
00:04:00.980 already proven everybody you fuck women on television you fuck fashion models you fucked influencers okay 1.00
00:04:05.820 great you got that all out okay clap for the person have you able to experience being married 1.00
00:04:13.960 to one woman for a while have you been able to experience having a daughter then give me then talk to
00:04:21.040 me about women you know then i i would say okay now your opinion has the heaviest weight ray dalio hedge
00:04:29.120 fund manager talks about believability you know if a janitor is talking to you about the variety of
00:04:36.860 disinfectants and sanitation methods of xyz product that person has more weight on their opinion
00:04:44.420 than the chef in the restaurant who doesn't handle sanitation but the chef has more credibility
00:04:52.500 and believability when it comes to sourcing ingredients from specific farmers with specific vegetable
00:04:58.840 gardens and fruit trees herbs seeds recipes cooking material right so not everyone everyone has an opinion
00:05:07.300 but not everyone's opinion has the same value you know so i say that to say this i've basically gone 0.96
00:05:14.980 to the other side to say i did i was a sex addict i fucked a lot of women and i was a dog i'm not proud 0.96
00:05:23.140 of it because now i got a daughter and i and it and i and it lives with me you know lives with me that i think 0.99
00:05:30.900 what another man could do to my daughter scares the shit out of me you know so what your father's doing
00:05:38.340 by being close with you man you know how deep the game is how about the game of a father with his 1.00
00:05:44.180 daughter talk about game with a guy fucking a woman at a nightclub how about the game of a guy with his 0.99
00:05:50.660 daughter look how strong your father's game is think how strong your father's game is that he tactfully 1.00
00:05:57.380 did that he said you said i'm gonna come back home dad after many years and your dad says happily oh
00:06:06.100 come back makes you feel warm and welcome to the point where you recite the story to me yeah he knew
00:06:13.380 pearl he understood the significance of you coming back he saw that as an opportunity to make you feel
00:06:20.820 loved also feel welcomed and accepted for just for being who you are that's one of the best
00:06:27.140 things he did to help you put place yourself at a high level if he doesn't do that for you then
00:06:34.660 you're not going to value yourself now to your earlier point that's my last point yeah when you
00:06:38.980 said is it the woman's responsibility pearl and i say this respectfully you have a great dad
00:06:46.660 you know you have a dad that loves you and welcomes you embraces you it's it's it's it's so much
00:06:53.060 harder when you don't have a i say this as a father with a daughter it breaks my heart when i think of
00:06:59.540 women who don't have a father now it doesn't mean i'm captain save a whole ah neema said go save a 1.00
00:07:04.660 bitch no i'm not right you know like i'm not but what i am saying is there is a degree of empathy to 0.97
00:07:12.020 say hey she didn't have that other girl doing that she's suffering way more than giving up her body and her 1.00
00:07:17.460 pussy right her pain is deeper than giving up that's surface level i don't know because i just i'm 0.98
00:07:24.420 sorry i think i'm desensitized because all the shows i've done i don't really i don't think there's 0.98
00:07:28.900 much remorse anymore for who the women the women yeah i don't really think i don't even really think
00:07:35.460 it's like a dad thing i mean the dad thing like makes it worse but i see it from girls from two parent 0.50
00:07:40.740 homes i see it for like i see it everywhere i think it's like social media and the culture because
00:07:45.860 again women are so easy to propagate the propaganda it's so strong it is so strong that like it because 1.00
00:07:54.180 again like if we see that other women are rewarded for being hosed we just like do it you know cardi b 1.00
00:08:01.460 you know megan the stalin we all the kim kardashian all the high status i can't think of one high
00:08:06.420 status pure woman out of 10 women that you have you know it's interesting you say desensitized yeah 0.95
00:08:11.300 yeah i because i felt desensitized working in a nightclub i felt desensitized the more women i 1.00
00:08:18.180 was fucking i used to call my old apartment with my roommate yeah brothel because him and i he was 0.99
00:08:23.140 working as a bar manager i was working as a nightclub promoter but we were both bringing he's a tall dutch 0.98
00:08:27.540 guy yeah yeah we were just bringing back so many women that it felt like a brothel but we were the
00:08:32.740 prostitutes yeah my point is is that in that period i didn't feel um you know i i like i became
00:08:41.300 desensitized pearl so when you say desensitized because i was desensitized by seeing so many women 1.00
00:08:47.860 lie to me so many women constantly lie like you talk about a guy that deals with women that lie 1.00
00:08:53.140 yeah i was dealing with women lying to me right 25x right on a five day a week but my thing is i just 0.95
00:08:59.540 don't have a lot of like sympathy like i see women though you what but no but i'm saying but in the 0.91
00:09:04.260 same way of me seeing so many lies you were seeing what you're seeing women it makes sense that you're
00:09:09.140 desensitized yeah because you're seeing these women come here as a guest yeah you're just seeing it 1.00
00:09:14.260 like a hundred x correct correct so when you say desensitized that shows that you are able to have
00:09:20.580 this intuition to say hey i hey neema i say this but i may be desensitized well my whole point my
00:09:26.820 whole point is this i'm like i wouldn't even really put it on you if you're like it's like 0.60
00:09:31.140 can we really get mad at the men for screwing a bunch of chicks when we walk around half naked 0.95
00:09:37.620 it's like all right we walk around looking like hookers and then we're surprised when they treat 0.99
00:09:43.540 us like you would treat a hooker like how crazy it is it you can't even tell the difference between a 1.00
00:09:48.580 woman in a relationship and a woman not based on her instagram and the way she dresses in modern
00:09:54.660 society i'm not saying this is a good thing but i just i i'm curious as to why you feel like you're
00:10:01.140 going to like pay for this i guess because to me it's like they did it to themselves and a lot of
00:10:07.140 them i i mean i know some of them it's the dad thing but these days i see it from the two parent
00:10:12.740 homes just as much it's like even when the dad like because we're in this society where you shouldn't
00:10:17.940 listen to your parents your parents don't know anything and they go to the college they're propagated by
00:10:23.060 the colleges and then you know even when their dad says you know don't date that guy don't do
00:10:29.220 that they just don't care they just do what they want because i'll have all these girls come on and 1.00
00:10:32.980 say i dated the toxic guy i dated the narcissist and i'll ask and then first they'll be like oh he
00:10:38.020 changed though because i'll be like well why did you date him right and then they'll say well you
00:10:42.740 know he changed i'll be like okay did your dad like him no your friends like him no and i'm just to
00:10:49.540 the point where i just got no sympathy i got none because it's like there could be warning sign there
00:10:54.980 could be red flag but i i just this whole put it on the men for sleeping with us when we look like 0.93
00:11:02.820 prostitutes and act like prostitutes it's like what what did you think was gonna happen diane 1.00
00:11:08.260 like what did you think was gonna happen rebecca like like in all honesty like so do i have a lot 0.99
00:11:18.260 of like i mean okay i'm not gonna say women don't get bamboozled okay yes yes good women get bamboozled 0.62
00:11:25.300 but i've seen girls talk about how much they value sex okay and a guy come on the show and talk about 1.00
00:11:33.380 how he doesn't value sex and then that girl goes home with him and gets mad like you know i i don't
00:11:40.020 call people out on their cap on the show i'm a nice host but i see this firsthand where i'm like well i
00:11:46.660 got no sympathy now that he didn't call you back because i we were just on the podcast talking about
00:11:52.100 our views on relationships yeah yeah do you know what i mean like like i had one girl come on and talk
00:11:58.420 about how she was done with the bad boys right and then she went home with the ex-felon rapper right
00:12:05.620 after and i'm like well now if you don't get called but now and then okay so then i was thinking should
00:12:13.540 we put it on the felon guy yeah not really because if she didn't do it with him do you think it would
00:12:19.780 just be the next felon guy yeah yeah and if we then it's like okay if she likes those guys then even if
00:12:26.900 the guys were like all right let's be nicer she'd still pick the baddest of the nice guys so can i 0.85
00:12:33.620 can i blame the men when this is what we reward you know and so i really don't think you'll have karma
00:12:40.740 i'm gonna be honest because it's i i i'm sorry you know and maybe i'm just insensitive because i've just
00:12:47.380 seen so many things but i think you'll have no karma because i really think that women do this to 0.99
00:12:54.020 themselves yeah i mean sorry sorry this is just my opinion no but that being said your dad your dad
00:13:00.580 looks like he did a good job raising you he did do a good job he did but you know it's it would be
00:13:07.300 impossible for me uh it would be impossible for me as much as it would be for your dad you know what
00:13:14.180 i mean like like to sit here and say some like like if your father were to watch me yeah yeah i guarantee
00:13:21.620 there's a few things i've said that he'd be like that was real that was that was real and and he'd
00:13:26.420 say maybe maybe maybe i'm wrong maybe he'd be like i don't know i don't feel like it maybe he'd say i
00:13:32.020 don't i don't i wouldn't word it the way he worded it but i did he would agree with a lot of the stuff
00:13:38.100 you said i think yeah yeah but but my dad's also from a different time yeah my mom met when they were
00:13:43.460 young you know they didn't really go through the crazy stuff you know yeah but but but like the idea
00:13:49.060 but like i do think on a deep level your father didn't raise you to be one of those women yeah 0.98
00:13:55.380 yeah you know you know he did his best but you know i have a sister that has a sleeve of tattoos
00:14:00.500 and blue hair you know isn't that crazy isn't that crazy it's like ah dads can only do so much
00:14:07.220 the culture is strong did he have a good relationship with her yeah yeah he did i mean
00:14:11.700 i mean like you i mean like you well i mean i am the favorite you know what i mean i like to think
00:14:17.860 i'm the favorite you know what i mean there we go you know i mean not there we go come on that's
00:14:25.060 i mean okay okay but there's ten of us there's there's ten of us they can't we can't all be in
00:14:30.260 the top half you know yeah but but but it's also um excluding that little fine print of what we just
00:14:36.740 well i mean i'd say he was still a good dad but it's like i even had a rebellious you know phase with
00:14:42.020 my dad too where i i don't think i was the nicest to him but he was too logical he would just win
00:14:47.860 and i would be like dad we're conservative everything's mean he would just win he's too
00:14:52.500 logical he has a lot of lack of sympathy with me too and it's actually this is why i actually think
00:15:00.180 we should shame women more for this because women again we respond really well to shaming and 1.00
00:15:05.620 propaganda yeah these two things so i think when you give women too much sympathy we'll just eat it
00:15:11.940 like we'll take it and you see it from the nice guys right because the nice guys give us so much
00:15:17.220 sympathy and niceness and we just abuse them we just i'm not saying all women right but i'm just 0.93
00:15:23.220 going to talk about the average modern chick right so i don't know do you disagree with this do you what
00:15:28.740 do you think no no no no i just i hope i i i literally think of this and i just think my
00:15:34.900 daughter one day when she's 26 uh hey you know i really hope my daughter i think my daughter will
00:15:41.380 be strong-willed i think she's already strong-willed she'll be based if she's got she was a dad she'll
00:15:46.020 be a base yeah yeah i think she's strong-willed i can tell you're strong-willed yeah like she she
00:15:50.580 she does what she wants when she wants yeah but i feel like when she gets older she's going to be a tough 0.71
00:15:56.180 cookie yeah i think you're a tough cookie though too so thank you i try to be you're being you know
00:16:00.820 here we're seeing you as a host we're seeing you in a professional host setting i'm a guest but i'm
00:16:06.740 just saying i could tell you