JustPearlyThings - The Modern Woman LifeCycle ｜ Pearl Daily

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00:01:29.980 Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network.

00:01:33.820 Today, we are going to be talking about the modern woman life cycle.

00:01:38.680 So, many times, we talk about the life cycle of careers.

00:01:49.760 We talk about the life cycle of, you know, a trend.

00:01:58.660 But today, we're going to talk about the life cycle of modern women.

00:02:02.580 But before we start, please make sure you like the video on your way in and subscribe to the channel.

00:02:09.700 So, the other day, I was thinking, if I had a step-by-step, sorry, the other day, I was thinking.

00:02:21.880 So, as you guys know, I moved from America to England, and I interviewed a thousand women on dating, marriage, and relationships.

00:02:31.120 And during this time, you noticed a lot of patterns.

00:02:34.460 So, for example, there were different archetypes of women that, even though they were in different women, they would maybe have the same patterns of behavior.

00:02:44.180 And I decided to take you guys' collective experiences and mine and put together a modern woman life cycle. 0.86

00:02:54.100 So, the first thing we have is to go to some high-priced institution to get a degree no one cares about to put themselves into debt.

00:03:09.420 Barely learn anything except how to use men for things.

00:03:13.940 Now, a lot of times on this show, I get the pearl, you don't know what you're talking about.

00:03:18.860 Pearl, you're just making this stuff up.

00:03:20.920 Well, let's look at the stats.

00:03:25.840 Sixty-four percent of student loan debt is owned by women. 0.84

00:03:30.360 Women attending four-year institutions have an average of $29,611 in student debt,

00:03:38.440 while those attending for-profit four-year institutions have an average of $42,778 in debt.

00:03:46.360 The average student loan debt payment is $307.

00:03:52.640 The average student loan debt for graduate school, if the woman continues her education, is $94,141.

00:04:02.340 So, if you go on a date with a woman who has a master's degree, she probably has about $100,000 in debt on average, 0.98

00:04:09.160 meaning half of women have more debt than that. 1.00

00:04:12.380 The most common graduate degrees for women is business administration, education, social work, elementary education, 1.00

00:04:22.320 curriculum and instruction, educational leadership and administration, special ed, counselor education, nursing school, and reading teacher education.

00:04:33.380 But, you know, the modern women are strong and independent. 1.00

00:04:41.140 We are, we certainly don't need a man, right? 1.00

00:04:46.080 That's what they say.

00:04:47.620 There's not, we rely on ourselves, not simps.

00:04:51.260 And as most of you know, I have been fighting on the front line of the simp epidemic for years. 0.74

00:04:58.160 But I need to tell you guys about a quiet weapon being ratcheted up against men that is rarely talked about.

00:05:03.520 It's not just the relentless anti-masculinity propaganda and OnlyFans hoes causing the societal issues that we discuss on the show. 1.00

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00:05:16.400 This often includes estrogen from birth control.

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00:06:22.100 So the first thing we do is go to a high-priced institution, get a degree no one cares about to put us into debt.

00:06:30.080 Now, the reason for getting this degree is not to learn.

00:06:33.420 As IQ has been dropping for years, and the people coming out of institutions have not been smarter.

00:06:43.300 On top of this, at the schools, what we sign up for is propaganda and brainwashing.

00:06:49.060 I don't even like the word brainwashing because it takes accountability from our choices that we make in life.

00:06:56.360 However, they do rewrite history literally at these institutions and tell you that you're an oppressed victim and life is just really, really hard.

00:07:08.480 And so obviously, you've got to go out and crush the patriarchy.

00:07:13.060 And so you need to go out and get a job.

00:07:16.060 Now, there's two different types of jobs that you can go out and do.

00:07:19.240 Number one is a salaried career, and number two is an hourly career.

00:07:25.100 Now, the first part we are going to talk about is the salaried employees.

00:07:30.420 43% of women will experience burnout at some point in their careers. 0.98

00:07:35.880 They usually experience burnout between 25 and 34.

00:07:40.800 So, you know, we go out and we crush the patriarchy and we think, this is kind of hard.

00:07:47.200 The men, you know, they have to work till they're dead.

00:07:49.320 But we go out and say we are burnt out between 25 and 34.

00:07:52.720 The average salary for a woman in her 20s is $34,424. 0.95

00:07:59.220 The average salary between 35 and 44 is $67,652.

00:08:06.660 And the average salary of a 45 to 55-year-old woman is $69,620. 1.00

00:08:12.800 And we do go out and do this, you know.

00:08:18.960 However, we do have a plethora of women quitting their jobs to be influencers. 1.00

00:08:25.400 Now, I mean, look it.

00:08:27.480 I understand I quit my job to start a talk show, too.

00:08:30.800 I did.

00:08:31.120 I was a part of this life cycle.

00:08:33.520 But, you know, when you're in this industry, you do see how competitive it is.

00:08:37.580 You know, there are 10 women trying to take my spot daily. 1.00

00:08:43.540 There is no greater job.

00:08:45.620 I always say this.

00:08:46.300 There's no greater job than having a talk show.

00:08:48.380 I'm lucky.

00:08:48.940 I thank God every day I get to do this.

00:08:52.520 However, most women do not are not successful. 0.99

00:08:55.180 And if they are successful, it's not for a very long period of time.

00:08:58.780 So the average salary, if she's an hourly employee in the United States, what do you guys think it is?

00:09:04.520 What do you guys put in the chat what you think it is?

00:09:07.580 $15.47 an hour.

00:09:19.900 On top of that, at school, you know, there is a lot of discrepancy in what the average woman's body count is. 1.00

00:09:29.400 How many bodies do you think women get a semester? 1.00

00:09:35.780 Because according to studies, women are not able to stay with men long term if they sleep with more than five. 0.51

00:09:43.320 So on top of feminist propaganda, a bunch of debt and indoctrination, we also get the inability to bond for life.

00:09:53.100 Ladies, we're going out and crushing this patriarchy. 1.00

00:09:59.980 What do you guys think in the chat?

00:10:02.100 How many bodies a semester?

00:10:04.060 What do you think is the average?

00:10:08.780 Now, examples of degrees that are common with a low ROI that women get is a degree from the University of Southern California's USC Online Master of Social Work program.

00:10:28.560 It costs $111,000 plus fees, and the average pay of a social worker is $67,000.

00:10:38.960 Now, the average body count a semester, we have five, 15, six, nine, seven, who knows?

00:10:50.780 There's a lot of discrepancies.

00:10:53.160 Six.

00:10:54.240 Okay, let's go with the most common.

00:10:55.880 Everyone's saying around five a semester.

00:10:57.700 That's the lowest number I got.

00:10:59.020 Let's say it's five.

00:10:59.920 Let's say she goes for four years, 10, 20, 30, 40, by the end of college.

00:11:11.280 Let's say two years she gets into a relationship.

00:11:14.040 That's still 11.

00:11:17.920 A semester is six months.

00:11:23.180 Next, get a stressful job that does not care about them.

00:11:28.140 And in reality, the job is not hard or stressful.

00:11:37.300 It's not like we're the ones digging the ditches, building the buildings, deep sea fishing in the sea.

00:11:46.420 But we do complain the men.

00:11:48.560 But when you guys think about who is striking, I can almost guarantee it's not the men killing themselves to get us oysters in Alaska.

00:11:57.840 But rather, the teachers that get three months off of the year and off at three o'clock.

00:12:05.800 Now, the top ten female-dominated careers, you know, because we've got to go out and crush the patriarchy. 1.00

00:12:13.680 One, a skincare specialist, 99% female. 0.82

00:12:17.920 Pre-K and kindergarten teachers, 96% female, making $37,000 a year.

00:12:24.220 Skin care specialists make $43,200 a year.

00:12:30.440 Legal, medical, executive secretaries and administrative assistants.

00:12:36.500 $40,000 on the low end of those jobs and $60,000 a year.

00:12:42.340 Dental hygienists make $87,000 a year.

00:12:45.980 Speech language pathologists, about $90,000 a year.

00:12:51.400 Child care workers, $30,000 a year.

00:12:54.380 Dental assistants, $46,540 a year.

00:12:59.460 Hairdressers, 92% women, make $35,080 a year.

00:13:07.320 Billing and postal clerks make $45,590 a year.

00:13:14.020 Plethebotomists, what the heck is that?

00:13:18.580 I don't even know what that is.

00:13:19.700 $41,810 a year.

00:13:24.120 So again, on average, the ladies have, are making average salaries with an, 1.00

00:13:34.300 with an average of $30,000 in student debt if they went to a public university, $42,000 for private.

00:13:48.320 Now, obviously once you get that debt, you might think,

00:13:55.140 maybe I should live a frugal lifestyle.

00:14:00.200 You know, so the ladies, they get out of school, they get the average paying job, 1.00

00:14:04.080 and we think, hmm, I could, A, live with a bunch of roommates,

00:14:10.400 live outside of the city, never eat out, really only eat in,

00:14:15.660 only do fun things that are free, no concerts,

00:14:18.200 don't travel, you know, live a very frugal lifestyle to pay this off.

00:14:24.480 Or, I could ignore the debt, buy a house, travel, and get a luxury car.

00:14:38.100 And unfortunately, us ladies pick option two, which is, 1.00

00:14:46.560 buy a house, travel, and get a luxury car.

00:14:53.860 What percent of solo travelers do you guys think are women? 0.98

00:14:59.920 85% of solo travelers are women.

00:15:03.600 What do you think the average car payment is for a car?

00:15:16.340 It's $737.

00:15:19.660 So on top of the student loans, got to get a new car.

00:15:22.880 Between 33 to 37 years old,

00:15:26.520 and rush to get a husband, kids, or both.

00:15:29.720 The fastest growing group of single mothers is between the ages of 33 to 37.

00:15:37.400 Only 2% of births come from insemination, and 2% come from IVF.

00:15:42.320 So where are us ladies getting these kids from? 1.00

00:15:49.760 The first man available.

00:15:52.260 It could be an irresponsible Pookie or Ray Ray.

00:15:55.360 Or a desperate guy that is just looking for anything.

00:16:02.520 Some pull it off with a buzzer beater baby and husband,

00:16:06.540 which is to marry a naive or desperate guy with no options.

00:16:12.200 Or get pregnant by a loser that doesn't want to be a dad. 0.93

00:16:17.980 You know, a lot of us, us ladies want an invested father, 1.00

00:16:22.100 but only some of us can get it.

00:16:26.620 Unfortunately.

00:16:27.420 Hit that like button, guys.

00:16:29.100 Hit that like button.

00:16:32.080 The next thing of the modern woman life cycle 1.00

00:16:35.300 is start antidepressants.

00:16:39.820 So by the time we hit 40, life has kind of hit us in the face.

00:16:43.460 We have a ton of debt.

00:16:44.500 We might have Pookie or Ray Ray's kids

00:16:48.260 or a schlubby husband that we don't really like,

00:16:52.520 and we resent because, you know, settling.

00:17:01.780 So obviously we need drugs to help.

00:17:05.740 Antidepressants.

00:17:06.760 24% of women between the ages of 40 to 59

00:17:11.100 take an antidepressant.

00:17:12.680 Not to mention the wine addiction

00:17:17.220 to help us cope with life.

00:17:21.020 Now, some modern women do love their children. 1.00

00:17:27.740 Unless the kids love the dad too much.

00:17:33.440 Many women will hate the child 1.00

00:17:35.900 because the child reminds them that they had to settle.

00:17:39.680 They also resent the father

00:17:49.660 because they didn't want to be with him to begin with.

00:17:53.100 And last but not least,

00:17:57.640 buy a dog or a cat.

00:18:00.800 60% of pet owners are female.

00:18:04.520 Women get a dog. 1.00

00:18:06.740 And 50% of pet product buyers

00:18:10.320 were between 25 and 44.

00:18:13.780 So it's mostly millennial women. 1.00

00:18:16.180 Now, I want to know,

00:18:19.820 today I'm going to do a call-in show.

00:18:21.980 So I am going to put a link in the chat really quick.

00:18:25.460 And I want to know,

00:18:26.780 how accurate is this model

00:18:30.160 and did I leave anything out?

00:18:32.540 And what events can you think of

00:18:34.720 that started the whole thing?

00:18:36.080 So I'm going to go through it one more time.

00:18:38.480 The modern woman life cycle.

00:18:40.440 Number one,

00:18:42.120 go into some high-priced institution

00:18:44.380 to get a degree that no one cares about

00:18:46.760 to put themselves into debt.

00:18:49.160 Barely learn anything

00:18:50.360 except how to use men for things. 0.99

00:18:52.320 Number two,

00:18:53.300 get a job that is too stressful

00:18:55.080 and does not care about them.

00:18:57.600 In reality,

00:18:59.060 the job is not hard or stressful,

00:19:01.560 but women will convince themselves that it is. 1.00

00:19:04.460 Three,

00:19:04.860 ignore the student debt,

00:19:06.220 buy a house,

00:19:06.920 travel,

00:19:07.280 and get a luxury car.

00:19:08.540 Wake up at 33 to 37

00:19:12.780 and rush to get a kid,

00:19:14.300 a kid,

00:19:15.120 a husband,

00:19:15.780 or both.

00:19:17.060 Hit late 30s and early 40s

00:19:19.100 and try to get pregnant by a loser 1.00

00:19:21.160 or choose IVF.

00:19:24.000 Let me join the Zoom link.

00:19:27.360 Also,

00:19:27.900 I have a couple announcements

00:19:29.160 that I'm going to do

00:19:30.020 while I'm waiting for people

00:19:31.200 to join the Zoom.

00:19:34.640 And the first announcement

00:19:36.480 is that guys,

00:19:37.140 we are trying to get 3,500 members

00:19:39.820 on the channel.

00:19:41.320 Unfortunately,

00:19:42.020 these ladies get real mad at me. 1.00

00:19:44.340 They get real mad.

00:19:45.120 They flag my videos.

00:19:46.420 They get me demonetized on YouTube.

00:19:49.240 They just,

00:19:49.660 they are very good

00:19:50.500 at reputation destruction

00:19:52.120 and trying to ruin your life.

00:19:53.740 And they try to do that to me every day,

00:19:55.520 including doxing my family.

00:19:57.900 They do that all the time.

00:20:01.640 Making up lies about me.

00:20:03.520 And so I ask if you can,

00:20:05.700 go to the audacitynetwork.com

00:20:07.840 and

00:20:09.220 go to the audacity network.

00:20:15.920 Oh no.

00:20:17.360 Go

00:20:17.560 go to the audacity network.

00:20:21.260 Go to the audacity network.

00:20:22.200 Go to the audacity.

00:20:23.420 No to the audacity.

00:20:23.880 No to the audacity.

00:20:24.200 No to the audacity.

00:20:25.340 No to the audacity.

00:20:26.000 No to the audacity.

00:20:26.480 No to the audacity.

00:20:30.580 Okay.

00:20:31.180 Gotta leave that meeting.

00:20:32.900 All right.

00:20:33.780 Um,

00:20:34.620 producer,

00:20:35.220 I gotta,

00:20:35.840 if you're watching,

00:20:37.260 it's echoing in my ear.

00:20:38.500 I gotta,

00:20:38.740 I gotta,

00:20:39.320 I don't know how to fix it,

00:20:40.320 but if you could message me

00:20:41.460 how to fix it.

00:20:44.300 Anyways,

00:20:44.720 they do try to ruin your life.

00:20:46.300 They make hit pieces.

00:20:48.260 They do all this crazy,

00:20:49.340 and whatever,

00:20:49.920 it's fine,

00:20:50.160 I'm on the internet,

00:20:50.740 But as a thank you, as a thank you,

00:20:53.000 could you guys please go to theaudacitynetwork.com

00:20:55.940 and you get access to all the shows.

00:20:59.440 These ladies flagged all my videos. 1.00

00:21:01.460 I had to delete three years worth of work.

00:21:04.020 Imagine working for three years.

00:21:05.560 You're so proud.

00:21:06.800 You made all this great content.

00:21:08.040 I traveled to England, started a YouTube show.

00:21:10.700 It was going amazing.

00:21:12.740 And these ladies just, they say, Pearl, 1.00

00:21:15.260 your opinions are too much.

00:21:17.600 You can't have a talk show where you give your opinions.

00:21:19.960 Flag, flag, flag, flag.

00:21:24.360 They say, Pearl, Pearl, Pearl, Pearl.

00:21:27.880 You're so evil.

00:21:30.900 Okay, hold on.

00:21:34.400 Let me put this in the chat.

00:21:36.960 I'm going to put the Zoom link in the chat.

00:21:43.540 Hold on, let's try this again.

00:21:49.960 The mouse is wrong.

00:21:52.120 How does this not work?

00:21:53.040 Oh, there we go.

00:21:53.760 Okay.

00:21:56.920 And anyways, so what do you get?

00:21:58.920 What do you get out of joining my memberships?

00:22:01.060 You're thinking, Pearl, why on earth would I?

00:22:03.080 I have to download this.

00:22:04.920 By the way, it is on the App Store.

00:22:06.440 It is on both the Samsung and the Apple version of the App Store.

00:22:10.880 But you're thinking, Pearl,

00:22:11.820 why on earth would I download this app?

00:22:16.120 It's annoying.

00:22:16.940 It's off the side.

00:22:17.480 Well, number one, normally, if you want your chats read,

00:22:21.040 you will have to buy a super chat on a show.

00:22:24.380 I do read the chats from the website.

00:22:28.680 So that's one thing.

00:22:30.120 Number two, you get access to all my old content.

00:22:32.960 And three, you get first access to our documentaries.

00:22:36.120 Four, it's a good cause.

00:22:38.180 It's a good, you know.

00:22:40.860 And we are eventually going to do shows specifically on the website.

00:22:46.220 But, okay, produce it.

00:22:47.720 Can you just put the link in the chat?

00:22:50.320 I don't, you got it.

00:22:51.180 Put it in the chat.

00:22:52.100 Okay.

00:22:55.480 The, keep your mic muted and your camera off.

00:22:59.000 It is muted and off.

00:23:02.140 It's still echoed.

00:23:04.000 We'll see if that works.

00:23:11.380 We will see.

00:23:12.480 Okay, so now I'm going to read the website, speaking of which.

00:23:36.760 Okay, the live stream finished on the website.

00:23:43.680 No, it didn't.

00:23:45.120 No, it's not.

00:23:46.100 I don't know why I said that.

00:23:47.180 Okay.

00:23:48.040 Oh, my gosh.

00:23:48.800 Okay, guys.

00:23:49.360 On the website, I'll top you off.

00:23:52.500 $10.

00:23:53.340 Thank you.

00:23:54.060 Thank you, Rich.

00:23:54.980 I'm going to say Rich.

00:23:56.020 I don't know if I'm, I don't want to read you guys' names.

00:23:59.580 So I'm not going to, but one person said, I may or may not have hit some of these points

00:24:05.520 to myself to a degree with my youth.

00:24:08.580 I was kind of forced to go to college and I didn't witness it.

00:24:11.560 At least I can admit I wasn't perfect.

00:24:15.180 That is, that's a great first step, Mrs. Ziegler.

00:24:18.880 Richard says, IVF is subject to many brain problems.

00:24:22.740 Ms. Ziegler, I knew someone who waited till after 40, bought an egg, bought the sperm 0.86

00:24:27.340 and used IVF to get pregnant with a non-biological child just to be a mom because she waited till 1.00

00:24:33.040 long and too long and never got married.

00:24:36.060 Rich says, my girlfriends hated it when their dog liked me.

00:24:39.820 It was, it's 100% a fact that antidepressants don't do anything.

00:24:47.080 Let's see.

00:24:47.860 Ms. Ziegler says, we, some could easily get more from just in one weekend.

00:24:53.740 I'm 90% sure of women's body count by 40 is around a thousand. 1.00

00:24:58.780 Being an employee these days is no more money.

00:25:02.720 These days, there is no way money is half of what you need.

00:25:07.600 It took me a decade to actually make a decent living as a dental assistant.

00:25:12.200 Okay.

00:25:13.180 And then, Rich is good.

00:25:17.240 Okay.

00:25:18.060 Okay.

00:25:18.620 So, let's see.

00:25:20.660 I'm going to try going on the Zoom again, but it was echoing.

00:25:29.560 Otherwise, we're going to do the space again because I can't not have control of this.

00:25:37.240 I'm going to try it again and see if this works.

00:25:49.760 Oh, shout out to, by the way.

00:26:01.960 It is, if we get one yearly member a show, it's either eight or nine memberships a show or one yearly.

00:26:12.800 It's 80 bucks a year.

00:26:13.860 Just saying, if you're just saying, if you guys want to, if you guys want to, I'm going to get this Zoom to work.

00:26:18.480 Hold on.

00:26:19.020 Let me try it again.

00:26:19.760 I'm going to try it again.

00:26:21.460 Um, I'm going to need to control it.

00:26:25.960 Otherwise, otherwise, we're going to have to do Twitter space.

00:26:30.060 Uh, no, don't bring them up yet because I need to control the Zoom.

00:26:34.140 Um, so, wait, the, okay, so, it says I'm muted on here.

00:26:46.940 Okay, okay, I'm going to hope this doesn't echo again.

00:27:01.980 I'm going to compute, join with computer audio.

00:27:06.820 Okay, is it echoing?

00:27:09.800 Oh, it's not echoing.

00:27:10.760 Great, okay.

00:27:12.500 Okay, then we've got to figure out a way to...

00:27:16.940 Um, okay, I think, I think it's working now.

00:27:35.060 Um, sorry, guys, one second.

00:27:39.280 No, no, no, no, no, no.

00:27:40.240 I'm not doing Zoom unless I'm in control of it.

00:27:43.240 Uh, I, one time, guys, someone flashed me,

00:27:46.160 and I just won't do it again.

00:27:47.660 I won't.

00:27:48.320 I can either X them immediately or I just won't do it.

00:27:52.440 Uh, make sure your sound is off and you can have host controls now.

00:27:57.440 Okay.

00:27:58.980 Okay, let's see if you can bring them up.

00:28:01.160 Um, I need to, how do I make him bigger?

00:28:05.860 So, can I hide this?

00:28:15.500 Okay, I guess we'll just do work with what we have right now.

00:28:18.960 Um, okay, you can bring them up on the screen.

00:28:23.660 Okay.

00:28:35.860 Hello, David.

00:28:42.620 What's up, Pearl?

00:28:43.640 How are you?

00:28:45.540 I'm doing good.

00:28:46.840 Where are you calling out of?

00:28:49.300 Oh, I'm in Texas.

00:28:50.600 Nice.

00:28:51.160 So, what did you think of the modern woman life cycle?

00:28:53.980 Was I accurate?

00:28:56.460 Yeah, yeah, totally.

00:28:57.500 I mean, I've seen it myself, like, in my own life.

00:29:00.680 Like, I've seen a lot of chicks that go to college, and they, like, take out all this debt. 1.00

00:29:08.120 They drive really nice cars and stuff.

00:29:10.200 And they always end up single because the men don't want to deal with it.

00:29:15.280 And they're always in a lot of debt, and they're depressed or on antidepressants.

00:29:21.320 I've seen it so much in my own life.

00:29:23.520 It's crazy.

00:29:24.760 Like, the accuracy that you have is pretty spot on.

00:29:28.640 How old are you?

00:29:31.200 I'm 28.

00:29:32.160 And where did you, you don't have to say, like, the exact university, but did you go to a public school, private school?

00:29:38.980 So, I actually, it's a funny story.

00:29:41.640 I actually never went to college or anything.

00:29:45.240 I graduated high school, and I just started working.

00:29:47.960 And, like, it's kind of crazy.

00:29:51.340 Like, I got involved with Bitcoin really early on and made a lot of money from that.

00:29:56.620 And I just, I figured, like, why go to school?

00:30:01.320 Why even try to do any of this stuff when it's all dominated by women? 1.00

00:30:06.280 Like, it's literally just all women professors. 1.00

00:30:09.000 They only really want you to join school if you're a woman. 1.00

00:30:13.520 Like, they really press that really, really hard, especially in the area I'm in.

00:30:17.000 I'm in a really liberal area, so, like, it's to be expected.

00:30:22.220 And so, the women you're talking about, are they women you went to high school with and you saw them go off to get degrees?

00:30:28.380 Is that?

00:30:30.120 Yeah, yeah.

00:30:30.660 And also, just girls that I've dated.

00:30:32.500 Like, I've dated a lot of chicks around here, mostly younger than me, but they're always in college studying some sort of psychology or some sort of, like, useless liberal arts degree. 0.97

00:30:45.980 Like, and whenever they graduate, they end up really not making any money.

00:30:49.960 Like, they end up working at Starbucks or they're working at, like, you know, fast food places.

00:30:55.300 My last girlfriend, she worked at a fast food place, got a degree in psychology. 0.96

00:30:59.680 She's in a massive amount of debt.

00:31:01.780 I don't date her anymore, thank God.

00:31:03.760 But, yeah, it's so common and typical to see that stuff.

00:31:08.440 I'm 28 years old, never set foot in a college ever in my life, and I'm worth more than six figures.

00:31:14.580 Like, I don't need none of that stuff.

00:31:17.240 Never did.

00:31:17.940 And what's your opinion on what events caused this?

00:31:25.300 Oh, it's just a gynocentric society that we live in. 1.00

00:31:28.620 Like, women are told that everything that they want to do is right, and you're fighting against the patriarchy, and you're fighting against the men.

00:31:37.080 The men are evil.

00:31:38.180 You've got to outperform them.

00:31:39.840 You've got to, like, they have a chip on their shoulder, you know what I mean?

00:31:44.080 And it's, like, it doesn't make sense in my perspective because I'm thinking, like, why would you want to try to outwork a man?

00:31:51.820 Like, why would you want to have that sort of life?

00:31:54.600 Like, because from my perspective, it's, like, none of the stuff that we do is easy.

00:31:59.380 Like, our lives are so hard, and, like, it's actually difficult to make money and to, like, get people to respond to you and stuff.

00:32:06.700 And it's, like, why would you want that for yourself?

00:32:08.820 Like, it doesn't make any sense to me.

00:32:10.560 But, hey, I mean, it is what it is.

00:32:12.520 Is there any other thoughts you have, like, stories that you've seen that kind of back up the life cycle or anything I missed?

00:32:19.900 Feel free.

00:32:21.400 I mean, I could go on and on and on.

00:32:23.720 It's crazy.

00:32:24.720 Like, I mean, specifically, like, my last girlfriend, like, she literally is just, she's literally insane, you know? 0.78

00:32:32.580 Like, that's why I had to stop dating her.

00:32:34.140 Like, what happened was, like, I was getting attention from a different girl.

00:32:38.520 Like, I told her that we weren't going to be exclusive because she was leaving.

00:32:41.600 Like, she's graduating, and she was, like, she's not from here.

00:32:44.520 She was leaving.

00:32:46.220 And she saw that I was texting another girl on my phone after I told her multiple times not to go through my phone because she was going to find stuff like that.

00:32:54.820 Like, I told her straight up.

00:32:55.760 I was, like, if you go through my phone, you're going to find stuff from other girls because, like, it just, that's just how it is for me.

00:33:01.960 Like, I mean, I'm, I mean, I don't want to toot my own horn here or anything, but it's, like, I got other options.

00:33:07.680 And, uh, she got really, really mad about that, and then she went off and, like, you know, slandered my name to all my friends and stuff, and, like, it's just a big old mess.

00:33:17.740 Like, I really don't even want to get into that specifically, but they're just evil, you know?

00:33:22.020 Like, they really just don't, they don't want to have any sort of, like, disadvantage.

00:33:26.080 They want all the leverage.

00:33:27.220 What did she say to your friends?

00:33:30.900 Was it, like, you cheated, or what was the...

00:33:33.660 No, it was, okay, so my best friend, he has a sister, right, who's, she's probably, I think she's, like, 30-something now.

00:33:41.240 But she's, like, attractive, you know?

00:33:42.780 Like, she, you know, she's, she doesn't look bad.

00:33:44.880 She's, you know, they come from a wealthy family and stuff, so, like, she's, she's pretty attractive.

00:33:49.740 And I would just, like, you know, I followed her Instagram, and, like, she would always be posting these thirst traps and stuff.

00:33:57.220 And my ex, she, like, went through my, when she was going through my phone, she, like, went and screenshotted a bunch of her thirst traps and stuff and made it seem like, like, she kind of framed me.

00:34:07.460 Like, she sent all this stuff to my friend and, like, was trying to, like, frame me as, like, I was being a creep or something when I've never, like, that chick's older than me.

00:34:15.200 I would never try to go after her in any romantic way.

00:34:19.300 And it was just an easy attack vector for her, you know what I mean?

00:34:22.140 And, like, they, they, like, looked at, they're looking at me like, oh, I'm a weirdo or something now.

00:34:26.300 And it's, like, all, all over some stuff that this girl said that, you know, was complete fabrication.

00:34:33.840 Did your friends believe her?

00:34:35.160 Like, did they take her side?

00:34:37.560 Oh, they took her side?

00:34:39.440 Yeah, they took her side.

00:34:40.600 That's the sad part.

00:34:41.440 Like, I realized that these people weren't actually my friends to begin with because if they were, they wouldn't have taken her side.

00:34:47.360 You know, it's, it's crazy.

00:34:49.960 Oh, well, thank you very much for calling in.

00:34:53.960 I appreciate you sharing your story.

00:34:56.920 Yeah, yeah, no problem.

00:35:00.140 I'm going to go to the next.

00:35:04.580 Hold on.

00:35:05.780 I think, oh, I see.

00:35:06.980 So I can do it.

00:35:08.940 Oh, okay.

00:35:09.820 Guys, I'm learning.

00:35:11.000 Guys, if you want to call in, go, the link is in the chat.

00:35:18.100 So, okay, someone asked me on the website.

00:35:21.860 Actually, let me tweet.

00:35:24.720 Should I tweet the link?

00:35:29.960 You get spam sometimes when you, I don't think I'm going to tweet it.

00:35:35.240 So somebody asked on the website and they said, how can you support my work?

00:35:43.780 Okay, there's a couple things.

00:35:45.040 Number one, monthly or yearly membership on the website.

00:35:49.400 You can donate memberships so your friends can join.

00:35:53.960 You can also, there is a membership tier where you get to meet with me once a month.

00:36:01.040 You can do that.

00:36:01.720 You also get access to my old content.

00:36:06.000 We also have a GoFundMe.

00:36:07.340 The link's in the description that we're raising money for a documentary.

00:36:11.180 We need about 100K to put it out.

00:36:13.680 Again, you know, when YouTube cuts you off, this is just the way you do it.

00:36:18.200 So every story is going to be a shit show.

00:36:21.880 All right.

00:36:22.060 Well, guys, put your story in the chat.

00:36:24.760 So I'm going to tell you guys a story of a guy I worked with a couple of years ago.

00:36:27.760 So there was, um, I worked as a sales woman, like before I did this, I worked in copier

00:36:35.260 sales and essentially it's a really shitty job and most people don't make a lot of money

00:36:40.660 doing it.

00:36:41.200 So they get like fresh blood where you're excited and happy right out of school and they just

00:36:46.720 put you in this job.

00:36:47.620 So I'm there.

00:36:48.460 One of the guys I worked with told me that he had a girlfriend that destroyed his room.

00:36:57.600 She went into his room and just tore everything apart. 0.55

00:37:04.300 Um, like, but he's amazing.

00:37:07.220 And he was dating a girl.

00:37:08.940 And this woman, when I started on Tik TOK decided that it would be appropriate to message 0.98

00:37:15.940 me, his sister, all of her, her grievances with my brother.

00:37:23.380 Now, as you guys know, I am not the one to feel bad for you because this is the thing,

00:37:30.280 my little brother, he is, uh, he, he's the type, he does things his way.

00:37:36.380 And the ladies, they always try to change him. 0.99

00:37:39.220 They're like, be different than who you are.

00:37:41.660 Well, if I'm a sister, I love, I love my brother.

00:37:44.680 Why are you trying to get me to change my brother?

00:37:47.820 You crazy bitch. 1.00

00:37:49.760 And I thought my poor, my poor brother, this is the list of women he has to pick from.

00:37:56.760 This is years ago, by the way, this is nobody recent.

00:37:59.760 If someone knows me watching the show, but, and.

00:38:06.380 You know, let's see what else we got.

00:38:10.860 You have to let people in, go to participants and allow them to join.

00:38:15.460 Okay, wait, so.

00:38:18.300 Participant.

00:38:18.900 So what exactly it is.

00:38:24.840 What the heck?

00:38:28.160 Depressants at 40.

00:38:29.880 Maybe love the child, but hate him for having to settle for the husband.

00:38:33.720 Depressant by a dog or a cat.

00:38:36.000 And do you know what I forgot?

00:38:38.160 When did the ladies get fat, guys? 1.00

00:38:41.340 I'm going to go back to the chat.

00:38:42.880 Can you guys tell me when the ladies get fat? 1.00

00:38:48.580 If a girl has a psychology days, has a psychology degree, don't date her. 0.99

00:38:55.360 Okay.

00:38:56.620 Well, what age?

00:38:58.240 What age are the women, like, phew. 1.00

00:39:01.020 So I'm kind of playing with some eras, too, I guess I'll talk about while I'm waiting for them.

00:39:06.880 They said in their 30s they get fat.

00:39:09.860 So there's a couple eras that kind of deter women. 1.00

00:39:13.520 So it's like these are our life cycles, but we go through phases, right?

00:39:17.980 It's not like we just wake up on antidepressants, fat, or whatever.

00:39:24.760 And feel free, this is going to be Monday's show where I'm going to go in depth into these phases.

00:39:31.600 But, you know, women have a hoe phase. 1.00

00:39:35.760 Now, for some women, this might be one one-night stand, and they just move on. 1.00

00:39:42.020 For other women, you know, they do a decade of hoeing. 1.00

00:39:44.900 And you look at all our male friends, she's fucked all of them. 1.00

00:39:51.100 But then, of course, we do the rebrand and hit the Christian phase.

00:39:55.820 So, you know, some things to make them healthier.

00:40:03.860 You know, they'll convince the women that there's birth control in the water, 1.00

00:40:08.420 and there's, like, seed oils making us fat.

00:40:10.760 But really, it's just our poor choices, like bottomless mimosas at brunch,

00:40:16.260 eating too much, liquid Starbucks calories.

00:40:20.720 But during the health phase, we also go to overpriced gyms.

00:40:26.260 You know, Equinox, yoga classes, HIIT classes.

00:40:32.760 This can be up to $300 a month.

00:40:38.180 So, you know, they will waste money on a gym membership they don't need.

00:40:42.680 During the gym phase, they may sleep with too many men at one gym and then go to the next gym. 0.85

00:40:48.500 Sleep with too many men there, go to the next gym. 0.71

00:40:51.460 Hook up with too many there, go to the next gym.

00:40:53.660 Then, again, back to the healing phase.

00:41:03.440 You know, they obviously, that's like, because, you know, when women do hard things, 1.00

00:41:06.820 they view it as trauma.

00:41:08.820 And so, you know, that's when you get the fat women, like, after they do the gym phase, 1.00

00:41:14.020 then they say, you know what, I have trauma from this eating disorder I had

00:41:17.680 when I was trying to lose weight.

00:41:18.740 Okay.

00:41:23.660 Next, we have the influencer phase.

00:41:30.680 This is when you quit your job to be an influencer.

00:41:33.380 You know, I've seen TikToks of women that are doctors, lawyers that quit 1.00

00:41:38.180 because they want to be what?

00:41:40.180 An influencer.

00:41:43.920 Then we have our career era.

00:41:47.100 This is where we try to compete with men and then burn out and fail.

00:41:50.680 Oh, there is a decluttering era.

00:41:55.340 This is where marketers market to women selling us decluttering stuff that we don't need 1.00

00:42:01.500 because they know we are addicted to Amazon and nothing will stop us.

00:42:08.780 Raise your standards era.

00:42:10.540 This is when women try to sell a used product for a higher price. 1.00

00:42:15.380 And there's always a simp that signs up.

00:42:20.180 Independent women era.

00:42:22.420 The above it all era where women act like they've learned from their mistakes and petty drama, 1.00

00:42:27.420 but really they do the same things over and over again.

00:42:32.640 Raising kids era.

00:42:33.880 This is where women use their kids for clout. 1.00

00:42:37.600 Why be a mother when you could be an influencer mother? 0.95

00:42:40.520 Divorce era where there's another healing journey where they go on trips and go to the bar.

00:42:53.980 Now, I've been playing with a couple options of boyfriends that women get during each phase of their life. 0.84

00:42:59.680 And you guys can contribute in the chat.

00:43:01.500 I've noticed that women, when we get boyfriends during our 20s, 1.00

00:43:06.700 there is the alpha guy.

00:43:09.940 This is a personal trainer, musician, the more exciting hot guy that cheats.

00:43:15.180 And women never get over it. 1.00

00:43:16.860 They will be talking about that man that cheated on them five years ago.

00:43:20.260 Then, there is the beta guy who doesn't have any standards.

00:43:32.640 So the women will give up nothing in order to be in a relationship with him. 1.00

00:43:37.280 And essentially, he acts as an accessory in her life.

00:43:41.860 Now, you might think, I always used to think that women that posted their boyfriends a lot 0.90

00:43:46.540 were really into their boyfriends.

00:43:48.220 And I actually have changed my mind.

00:43:51.640 I think the women that post their boyfriends a lot have no fear that he will ever leave

00:43:56.120 and are trying to signal, look at the investment I got.

00:43:59.240 Where women that post their boyfriends less don't want to post him

00:44:03.380 because a girl might slide into his DMs and he might actually do it.

00:44:09.120 Oh, no.

00:44:10.160 Hold on.

00:44:15.280 Got to unplug.

00:44:18.220 The boyfriends women, in their 30s, women enter their gold digger era. 1.00

00:44:29.840 This is where women, above all aisles, prioritize money because they think my beauty is fading. 1.00

00:44:35.480 Who is going to pay for me the rest of my life and all of my bad decisions?

00:44:38.700 Beta guys are often friends with benefits, guys.

00:44:45.380 Guys, the link is still up in the chat if you guys want to come up and let's see if anyone's joined.

00:44:53.020 Did we pin the tweet?

00:44:55.340 No.

00:44:56.400 Hold on.

00:44:56.760 We want to pin the link for the call in.

00:45:00.840 Let me pin this.

00:45:01.940 There we go.

00:45:08.420 Now, I'm just sort of playing with these.

00:45:10.620 You guys are welcome to contribute.

00:45:15.760 What other eras do women have? 1.00

00:45:18.080 A nesting phase.

00:45:33.760 The shopping era.

00:45:35.500 Oh, the situationship era.

00:45:37.280 Wait, hold on.

00:45:37.800 The situationship era.

00:45:40.320 The shopping era.

00:45:47.680 What would you call it?

00:45:50.180 What do they say?

00:45:51.140 The...

00:45:51.540 The...

00:45:52.140 Girl Daily is the host now.

00:45:58.120 I'm going to read from the website.

00:46:11.000 One second.

00:46:15.400 Okay.

00:46:16.360 There is a donate button in the chat, too.

00:46:18.440 Every story is going to be a shit show.

00:46:20.540 Pearl, I don't have any dating horror stories.

00:46:23.080 Deej is the only woman with standards low enough to date me. 1.00

00:46:25.760 We were 17 and 18.

00:46:27.240 We're boring.

00:46:28.980 Ah, pulled an amber herd.

00:46:30.480 When I was in Toronto, I switched to a 30-year-old Chinese nannies for about two years, and that was plenty good. 1.00

00:46:39.340 Wow.

00:46:40.120 Earth girls are easy. 1.00

00:46:43.360 Oh, the biological clock age.

00:46:46.620 This is when women do not prioritize love, but they prioritize their biological clock. 1.00

00:46:53.780 That is a great one.

00:46:54.860 The biological clock.

00:46:56.700 Biological clock era. 0.79

00:47:06.380 A nesting phase doesn't have to be a negative.

00:47:08.700 Oh, you know what?

00:47:10.260 The abstinence phase.

00:47:14.760 This is the phase where women claim they are sleeping with nobody, but really are sleeping with somebody. 0.99

00:47:24.660 Well, women, but they have to market the abstinence to a simp. 1.00

00:47:30.740 The misandry era.

00:47:38.740 The misandry era.

00:47:40.220 Ooh, these are good.

00:47:41.600 All right.

00:47:41.840 What else do we got in the chat?

00:47:43.360 So, what are we talking about in the Zoom?

00:47:50.640 The question is, I read the modern woman's life cycle.

00:47:55.620 I want to know, is it true, and what do you think contributed to it?

00:48:02.560 How accurate is this model, and did I leave anything out?

00:48:06.060 How accurate is this model, and did I leave anything else out?

00:48:16.580 I'm going to tweet also, and tell the ladies on Twitter.

00:48:26.380 Ladies on Twitter, I am, who have so much to say, I am accepting call-ins on YouTube.

00:48:43.220 Click the link in the Zoom.

00:48:46.880 Let's see.

00:49:06.960 Okay, the other question I have for you, I'm moving, as you guys have noticed, I'm moving my show time to a later time.

00:49:15.040 I have considered doing a full-on night show.

00:49:19.760 I don't know.

00:49:20.420 Either way, I haven't decided yet.

00:49:23.140 I sometimes think we would get better callers if we did it later in the day.

00:49:28.040 I want to know if this is true for you guys.

00:49:32.120 Anyways, the new cat owner era.

00:49:36.420 Every chick goes through a wildly hippie phase. 1.00

00:49:52.680 Guys, we're not really getting any callers today, so I think I might end the show.

00:49:57.440 I'm interested in hearing from the ladies, as I am interested in hearing from Justin Trudeau.

00:50:06.440 You know, never date a woman with kids. 0.99

00:50:11.620 Oh, a cougar phase.

00:50:18.720 That's a good one.

00:50:21.760 The cougar phase.

00:50:24.280 I'm going to do a show Monday on all of the different phases.

00:50:30.620 The bitter era.

00:50:33.060 You guys are getting good.

00:50:34.820 The swap your wife era. 0.97

00:50:36.420 The swap.

00:50:39.260 I'm just writing some of these down.

00:50:40.880 Swap your wife era. 1.00

00:50:43.520 Okay, the poison the coffee era.

00:50:47.560 I've never known a woman to be abstinence toward longer than 15 minutes. 0.62

00:50:55.400 Witchy crystals sage.

00:50:57.780 Okay, so the witchy crystals sage.

00:51:05.140 The yoga phase.

00:51:14.500 I'm back to work next week, so it doesn't matter what time you're on.

00:51:23.840 Guys, give Pearl more ideas so she won't end the show. 0.97

00:51:29.160 The starter husband era. 0.87

00:51:31.120 The starter husband era. 0.87

00:51:35.140 My grandkids won't visit me phase.

00:51:40.820 My grandkids won't visit me phase.

00:51:50.100 So there is an era for everything.

00:51:52.880 I'm lost.

00:51:55.280 Really, it is.

00:51:56.800 It is.

00:52:05.140 Oh, the trad wife era. 0.99

00:52:13.820 The wine mom era.

00:52:20.820 The wine mom era.

00:52:25.680 The playing it safe era.

00:52:28.860 I mean, a shoe collection phase.

00:52:34.740 Isn't that just all phases of a woman's life? 1.00

00:52:42.600 I need to do a segment on the...

00:52:45.480 Okay.

00:52:46.540 Okay, guys.

00:52:47.360 Well, how are the viewership going up?

00:52:50.540 It's going up right now.

00:52:52.180 I'm really confused because this is...

00:52:55.360 I guess you guys like...

00:52:57.180 You guys like collaborating with me, huh?

00:53:02.500 Okay.

00:53:03.920 Like the video while you're at it.

00:53:05.780 Like is free.

00:53:06.380 No, I mean, the women themselves are the ones that talk about these eras and these journeys. 0.88

00:53:16.580 Like what are the journeys women do? 1.00

00:53:19.580 Like why is it eras and journeys?

00:53:21.540 Why isn't it just living?

00:53:24.900 You know, why does it have to be like a marketing...

00:53:27.380 You know, I almost...

00:53:29.960 I thought to myself, can we really blame these institutions for selling us ladies degrees that we don't need? 1.00

00:53:39.660 When we're like begging to waste our time.

00:53:43.440 It's, you know, now that I think about it, we keep saying to men, please lie to us.

00:53:51.420 Please waste our time.

00:53:53.280 And the men said, no, no, no, no.

00:53:54.820 I want to treat you right.

00:53:55.980 I want to be a gentleman.

00:53:56.800 And we said, please lie to us.

00:53:59.460 Please waste our time.

00:54:02.260 And the men said, are you sure?

00:54:04.020 I mean, I'll be a gentleman.

00:54:05.440 I'll keep being a gentleman.

00:54:06.540 And we said, nah, that's boring.

00:54:08.740 Nah.

00:54:10.300 And they said, F it.

00:54:12.960 It's time to waste your time.

00:54:15.300 And it was the same with the universities.

00:54:17.140 You know, they used to teach us things.

00:54:18.780 And then they said, oh, really?

00:54:20.460 You guys want careers where you don't make money and you want us to teach you nothing?

00:54:25.300 And we said, please teach us nothing.

00:54:30.160 And the university said, are you sure?

00:54:32.280 Are you sure?

00:54:34.920 And we said, please, please.

00:54:36.600 I don't want to study important things.

00:54:38.660 Please give us the easy things.

00:54:40.160 I want to study myself.

00:54:42.400 I want to get a psych degree.

00:54:44.780 And the university said, this is the ROI.

00:54:47.180 Are you sure?

00:54:49.660 Okay.

00:54:50.500 You can do it.

00:54:53.000 Oh, the self-discovery era.

00:54:55.380 Okay.

00:54:55.600 The, we should wait until marriage era.

00:55:11.580 The Botox era.

00:55:14.740 The girl math era. 0.99

00:55:16.520 Okay.

00:55:16.680 This is way too many.

00:55:17.760 Okay, guys.

00:55:23.540 Well, I think I'm going to end the show today.

00:55:27.280 Oh, I have three callers.

00:55:30.440 What the?

00:55:31.340 Why can't I see them?

00:55:32.440 Okay.

00:55:32.560 It doesn't show me like, uh, why can't I see them?

00:55:49.720 Oh, uh, make sure you guys have your cameras on and your mic on.

00:56:03.680 Uh, I'm going to kick you if you don't have your mic on.

00:56:27.460 Uh, why can't I kick him?

00:56:30.380 Okay.

00:56:30.920 I can.

00:56:31.840 Oh, there we go.

00:56:34.680 Okay.

00:56:35.160 And more.

00:56:38.400 Uh, remove.

00:56:39.640 There we go.

00:56:41.080 Okay.

00:56:47.100 Okay.

00:56:47.660 We're going to do the next one.

00:56:49.000 Make sure you guys have your mics and your cameras on.

00:56:55.480 Oh, my mic on.

00:56:59.400 Hello.

00:56:59.960 How are you?

00:57:01.360 No, I'm all right.

00:57:02.560 How are you doing?

00:57:03.240 You got to get a better air, like a quieter room.

00:57:07.200 The air conditioning is kind of loud.

00:57:09.600 Oh, shit.

00:57:10.700 It's okay.

00:57:11.380 It's okay for now, but just like, um.

00:57:14.080 Oh, no.

00:57:14.720 Sorry, man.

00:57:15.320 It is my computer fan.

00:57:16.640 Oh, it's the computer fan.

00:57:17.840 Okay.

00:57:18.040 So, what did you think of the modern woman life cycle?

00:57:21.440 And did you think it was accurate?

00:57:24.920 Um, yeah.

00:57:26.760 There's some definite accuracies in there.

00:57:29.100 Some definite sort of common stages, I reckon, for sure.

00:57:32.260 Um, some of the later ones were a bit extreme, a bit sort of, uh, sort of, uh, nonsensical.

00:57:38.700 But, yeah, yeah.

00:57:39.720 The first ones, like, were all pretty cogent.

00:57:43.320 Um, and was there anything I missed?

00:57:46.820 Any eras that you think, or, um, any steps that I missed?

00:57:50.700 Yeah, hang on.

00:57:53.260 There was, there was, there was one here that you didn't, you didn't call out.

00:57:56.880 I think, oh, what was it?

00:57:58.540 Um, let me see if I can find it.

00:58:00.960 Um, no, no, it wasn't that.

00:58:03.940 Um, oh, yeah.

00:58:05.400 I think we should wait till marriage era. 0.96

00:58:10.060 That's the one you've mentioned a few times.

00:58:13.060 What age do you find?

00:58:14.840 Have you found that in your dating experience?

00:58:18.380 Um, I know the type.

00:58:20.200 I've, I've been around church, churches, many churches.

00:58:23.200 I know exactly what you're talking about.

00:58:26.460 And what age do you find women enter that era? 1.00

00:58:31.100 Um, well, it's pretty much like you say, you know, like, once the beauty starts to go,

00:58:38.060 they start to sort of think, uh, tactically, I guess.

00:58:42.180 And what events do you think started this whole thing?

00:58:47.440 Um, what events?

00:58:50.200 It's, uh, oh, I'll take it back to Seneca Falls, I guess.

00:58:59.040 That's, that's pretty much where I'd take it, I guess.

00:59:02.020 Back to Seneca Falls.

00:59:03.360 Yeah.

00:59:03.620 Well, thank you for calling in.

00:59:06.300 It's a pleasure.

00:59:07.980 Yeah.

00:59:08.500 And then one more thing, Pearl.

00:59:10.160 Like, what the hell is going on with your YouTuber subscriber count?

00:59:14.800 What about it?

00:59:16.140 It's been the same.

00:59:16.980 I mean, it was 1.99 for ages.

00:59:20.060 You never quite made it to 2 million.

00:59:22.440 Then it started coming down.

00:59:24.260 I know.

00:59:24.880 It was, um, it was tough.

00:59:27.120 I had to delete, like, 10,000 videos.

00:59:30.160 So I used to get, like, subscribers every month from those videos.

00:59:33.760 And then you, you, I, like, tanked.

00:59:36.700 Like, if you look at my, um, analytics for my channel, there's one month where it just

00:59:40.940 dropped.

00:59:41.940 Yeah.

00:59:42.300 And it's because normally on a channel you can, like, build.

00:59:44.680 So you have super viral videos and they'll still, like, make.

00:59:47.880 But, yeah, YouTube just, I mean, they kept flagging my videos.

00:59:52.100 The ladies, I, I do streams like this and they get mad and just start flagging. 1.00

00:59:56.480 They find something.

00:59:58.340 And, yeah.

00:59:59.660 So I, I had to make a decision to just clear it or try to, like, it, it was just too many

01:00:05.660 videos to go through one by one.

01:00:07.620 I just said, just clear it.

01:00:09.140 So now they're on my website.

01:00:11.360 It's never been popular on YouTube, though.

01:00:13.920 Not since I started watching YouTube.

01:00:16.120 Like, anyway.

01:00:17.180 Yeah.

01:00:17.580 Not too good to do, but anyway.

01:00:19.180 Anyway, yeah.

01:00:19.940 Take care, man.

01:00:20.600 Have a good one.

01:00:21.140 Thank you so much.

01:00:22.740 Have a good one.

01:00:23.400 All the best.

01:00:25.460 Okay.

01:00:26.480 Uh, okay.

01:00:29.580 Uh, next.

01:00:30.580 No, oh, someone was here.

01:00:33.020 It said Chris's iPhone.

01:00:34.840 Where'd you go, Chris?

01:00:38.980 What are you doing?

01:00:42.940 Let me read the thing on the website.

01:00:47.100 They said, feminism along with social media. 1.00

01:00:50.640 A guy has a nice chair.

01:00:51.920 Um, being a single guy sucks at the moment.

01:01:01.460 I spend less money with a two-week flight, round trip, food hotel to South America and

01:01:05.420 trying to go out with a modern American chick.

01:01:07.540 Um, okay.

01:01:10.840 So on the website, I want you guys, if you have a comment, you want me to read because you

01:01:16.080 guys talk to each other.

01:01:17.440 And you know, I, I, I think sometimes reading all of them, put read pearl or like read in

01:01:24.000 caps and then put two dots and put your comment.

01:01:26.280 Um, the zoom is asking you for a password.

01:01:31.140 That's weird.

01:01:31.960 It shouldn't do that.

01:01:33.640 It should put you in a waiting room.

01:01:37.840 Every day I will struggle with this stuff.

01:01:40.640 Um, back against the people and women who are flagging your stuff. 0.99

01:01:45.540 Honestly, the only thing we can do is to get enough people on the website.

01:01:49.860 So we're free because you know, there's very few people that can pull it off, but like

01:01:55.840 Crowder, he doesn't care if he's monetized on YouTube or not because website.

01:02:01.380 So the best thing you can do is get your friends to sign up.

01:02:05.160 Um, you know, that's really the best thing you can do.

01:02:10.640 Um, where is, let's see what he says, but, um, is it still saying you need a password?

01:02:22.040 Let me look on the, have I done a show on Tom Brady?

01:02:28.840 You know what?

01:02:30.140 I have to say, I've noticed Leonardo DiCaprio's exes.

01:02:33.740 He, he, he is just the kiss of death on those women's future relationships. 0.54

01:02:40.880 So I did see Tom Brady coming.

01:02:44.300 I think I'm going to have it on the record.

01:02:46.560 I think that, um, Blake Lively is next.

01:02:51.700 She will go through a divorce.

01:02:53.840 That is my next prediction.

01:02:55.980 Um, looks like you have some sort of password set up on your settings.

01:03:11.160 Okay.

01:03:11.640 Let me see if I can fix it.

01:03:16.800 Um, um,

01:03:25.980 I don't know.

01:03:41.580 Oh, here we go.

01:03:43.360 Okay.

01:03:44.560 Hello.

01:03:47.900 Hey, I'm on.

01:03:49.140 Yeah, you're on.

01:03:49.940 Um, I think they might take a second to make you full.

01:03:52.420 Yeah, there you go.

01:03:53.200 Hello.

01:03:53.600 How are you?

01:03:54.200 All right.

01:03:56.460 Um, so what did you think of the modern woman life cycle? 0.57

01:04:01.420 So you talk about all the, everything you've been talking about?

01:04:04.000 Yeah.

01:04:04.280 30 minutes and stuff.

01:04:05.340 Yeah.

01:04:05.920 I mean, it's, it's interesting.

01:04:09.240 Um, I, I just think that there's so many opportunities to go to college now and learn absolutely nothing

01:04:20.860 of substance and just waste money and get into debt.

01:04:27.080 And it's kind of like, it's like, uh, high school part two.

01:04:34.780 And so I just don't think that, um, you know, going to this extended, there's a psychological term.

01:04:43.680 It's called meotony.

01:04:44.620 Um, excuse me, it's not psychological, it's biological.

01:04:48.780 So there's a biological term called meotony.

01:04:51.960 And it's the retention of, um, it's the retention of juvenile features into adulthood.

01:04:58.420 And I think that's a lot of what's happening in college.

01:05:02.760 I mean, with men and women, but I think it definitely, um, it just, it extends into getting

01:05:10.460 all these useless degrees that don't really, um, they don't really translate into going

01:05:18.920 out and doing like an actual real world service.

01:05:23.360 So.

01:05:24.760 And how, how, sorry, go ahead.

01:05:27.320 Go ahead.

01:05:28.080 Go ahead.

01:05:28.820 How old are you?

01:05:30.660 Oh, I'm 44.

01:05:32.100 And have you seen the, the, like the women in your peer group go through those stages where

01:05:38.160 they get into a lot of debt?

01:05:39.640 Again, the women you've dated, is that something you've seen, um, where women get into a lot

01:05:44.480 of debt, um, they go to school, they get a car they can't afford, buy a house they can't

01:05:49.280 afford.

01:05:51.960 Yeah.

01:05:52.540 I mean, people are buying all kinds of stuff that they don't, that they don't need, but

01:05:56.700 I, I mean, like, I'll give you an example.

01:05:59.340 So, so like, I'm, I'm a, um, I'm a commercial driver.

01:06:05.060 I'm a class A driver.

01:06:06.160 I'm a truck driver.

01:06:07.160 Okay.

01:06:08.200 You can go out and you can go out and get a CDL for three or four years.

01:06:14.480 $4,000 and turn around.

01:06:19.340 I mean, the turnaround time is, or you could go to, I got mine paid for by the department

01:06:25.540 of transportation for free, but the turnaround time on that is about anywhere from two or three

01:06:35.420 months to six months.

01:06:37.280 And, you know, you can be making up to 70 to a hundred thousand dollars a year.

01:06:42.560 Wow.

01:06:42.640 So, I mean, I don't, not that I don't make that much, but my point is though, is that

01:06:49.160 you don't have to go somewhere for four years and then get into a hundred thousand dollars

01:06:56.340 in debt and get a degree in underwater basket weaving and get out and make 30, you know,

01:07:05.140 to 35 K the rest of your life and try to pay off these loans and stuff.

01:07:08.540 So, I guess what I'm saying is there's a lot of blue collar work, but I don't think, I

01:07:14.220 don't think a lot of women want to do that type stuff because it's hard. 1.00

01:07:17.800 And when you chose your career, did you think about passion?

01:07:24.400 Yeah, but I mean, I've done, I'm ex-military.

01:07:26.320 I've done a whole lot of, I've done a whole lot of stuff.

01:07:30.360 I mean, I used to jump out of airplanes.

01:07:32.620 That was a long time ago when I was skinnier and braver.

01:07:36.740 But yeah, I mean, yeah, I thought about, I thought about passion way more than I ever

01:07:43.140 did money.

01:07:43.660 And I can tell you, you know, as a man, it, it, it's not all women, but I, it, it morally 0.67

01:07:55.760 disgusts me how some women are obsessed with money. 1.00

01:08:00.740 I just find, I just find it morally disgusting.

01:08:05.540 There's kind of this attitude of, again, I don't think it's all women, but among some

01:08:11.700 women, they see. 1.00

01:08:13.660 They see something as being valuable because it's expensive, not because the item itself

01:08:19.840 is, is functional or it works well, or it's a good product.

01:08:23.060 It's just, you know, they feel like they're elite or, you know, they're, they're, they're

01:08:32.120 above the table or they're, um, important, you know, because, uh, they have things that

01:08:39.120 are expensive and, and, uh, I, I never, as a man think about something like that.

01:08:43.660 Mm-hmm.

01:08:44.660 You know?

01:08:45.660 You know, so if I have a pair of shoes or, or boots or whatever, and they cost X amount

01:08:51.040 of dollars, I mean, if I can go into a store and, and find it for a lower price, I'm going

01:08:56.840 to do that.

01:08:58.120 And I think some women have a different mentality where they, they think it's, you know, and 1.00

01:09:04.720 go in and buy a pair of high heels. 0.98

01:09:06.440 There's stores in Dallas that sell shoes that are $15,000.

01:09:09.520 I mean, I can't, I cannot fathom as a man, how I would ever spend $15,000 on a pair of

01:09:18.740 shoes.

01:09:19.300 I mean, they, they would, I would, I'd have to be able to like fly around the planet in

01:09:24.220 them or something.

01:09:24.740 If I was going to spend $15,000 on a pair of shoes and so, or a pair of, you know, just

01:09:30.580 stuff like that.

01:09:31.420 I mean, it's just ridiculous to me that a pair of high heels would be $10,000 to $15,000,

01:09:35.980 but, you know, there's ultra high end stores that sell stuff like that.

01:09:40.840 And to me as a man, that kind of stuff would never really exist in my universe, you know?

01:09:47.580 Yeah.

01:09:49.280 Well, thank you very much for calling in.

01:09:52.280 No problem.

01:09:53.440 Thanks.

01:09:53.960 Thanks.

01:09:56.060 Where is, okay, let me get the next one.

01:10:01.420 Don't really know what they want.

01:10:02.920 So they don't really have a goal.

01:10:04.760 And then just like you said, it will change.

01:10:08.340 They will have like maybe the era, the hippie era, or I will tell you what, I think all women 1.00

01:10:15.220 I ever went out with, I was always the second guy or the third guy always.

01:10:23.780 So either all of them were lying or I'm really special.

01:10:27.960 What do you mean you were always the second or the third guy?

01:10:33.000 Oh, that you, that they slept with. 1.00

01:10:36.380 Exactly.

01:10:37.300 Yeah.

01:10:38.160 Oh, how old were they?

01:10:39.840 How old were they when they told you that?

01:10:42.960 20, 30.

01:10:44.680 So they would say they were 30 and you were the second guy they'd been with?

01:10:48.760 The second or third or, or then there would be variations about that.

01:10:53.100 The average age.

01:10:53.780 Like, oh, you are the second or third guy that I ever fell in love with.

01:10:58.820 Or you're the second.

01:11:00.000 I had a special person forever ago, but now I came to know you and you are the love of my life.

01:11:06.120 My point is, there's always something that I'm going to make you feel really special, even though it kind of sounds like a line to me very often.

01:11:15.660 Did you believe it?

01:11:17.740 Not at all.

01:11:18.780 Oh, you didn't?

01:11:19.700 None of them?

01:11:20.360 None of them?

01:11:20.660 After like the fourth or fifth time.

01:11:21.520 Oh, so like the first time, the first time you believed it.

01:11:24.600 I see a pattern there.

01:11:25.680 So the first time you believed it, but then like the next time you were like, you wised up.

01:11:30.160 Exactly.

01:11:32.620 Yeah.

01:11:32.740 The first time we probably believed every little bit of it.

01:11:35.100 Yeah.

01:11:35.320 Yeah.

01:11:35.620 But then after a certain point, I think we learned.

01:11:39.340 Is there anything I left out of the model?

01:11:42.400 Like any eras I forgot about or any stages in the modern woman life cycle I didn't include?

01:11:50.620 I cannot really think of one.

01:11:52.800 No, I think you covered it all.

01:11:54.880 I really liked, I, I loved your videos.

01:11:58.740 It was, I think a few months ago that you had a board, like a flip charge in the background.

01:12:04.500 And then you'd go into real big detail about those little things and how it works.

01:12:09.880 And pretty much a real, like a mechanics of the relationship.

01:12:13.620 So I really liked that.

01:12:15.060 Thank you.

01:12:16.140 And what events can you think of that started this whole thing?

01:12:21.120 Like in your lifetime, were there any events that you think really impacted the women you

01:12:26.240 knew or maybe something in the culture, music?

01:12:32.600 That is a very good question.

01:12:34.380 But maybe if you're asking me how far does it go?

01:12:40.200 I have no idea.

01:12:41.500 I think that's a very old thing.

01:12:42.740 Maybe I think it'll be very easy to point out to the 50s and 60s and the woman liberation

01:12:49.720 movements and this kind of thing.

01:12:51.900 I think it's, and the, when women needed to go into the marketplace, I think those things

01:13:00.000 changed the laws and the societies and how people perceived women.

01:13:04.860 And yeah, but I think it goes, I have no idea how far back it goes.

01:13:11.060 But for sure, with social media and Instagram and TikTok and the globalization of the love

01:13:16.880 market, all of those things does not help.

01:13:20.520 What came into the picture?

01:13:22.720 I noticed a difference when social media came into the picture more and more, like 10 years

01:13:29.020 ago or so.

01:13:30.620 But yeah, I always noticed a difference in terms of behavior.

01:13:35.640 I would feel, since I was a teenager, I would notice that people would very much mimic how

01:13:41.960 people spoke in the movies and how people spoke and behaved in series.

01:13:47.000 So yeah, now with TikTok and Instagram that we have like this beautiful trailer of whatever

01:13:55.400 people are living or not living.

01:13:58.420 Yeah, I think very often, mostly women, because I believe the women are more. 0.97

01:14:04.320 They're influenced by those kinds of things that they will compare their lives and be sad

01:14:12.920 to something that is not even real because people have filters on and they go to a nice

01:14:19.080 place and take pictures and they're not really happy.

01:14:22.600 I believe that, I think you were talking something a little bit to that tune earlier today that you

01:14:31.320 have this perfect marriage, yeah, like, oh, I have a guy, I don't want to advertise my boyfriend or my

01:14:37.360 girlfriend all over social media and say, hey, look how great of a woman I got. 0.60

01:14:42.780 Look how great of a guy I got.

01:14:45.540 Say, that's my private life.

01:14:46.960 Why would I even advertise that?

01:14:49.260 For me, it doesn't really make sense.

01:14:51.980 I prefer to keep my private life private.

01:14:55.480 So why would I have all this advertised of my great life?

01:15:00.820 I don't see why that would be the case.

01:15:03.320 Well, thank you very much for calling in.

01:15:05.460 You're very welcome, Pearl.

01:15:09.420 Get the next person.

01:15:18.000 I just saw someone in the waiting room.

01:15:19.860 I try to give.

01:15:21.760 I don't know why it's not.

01:15:25.380 Pearl, you should have women call in. 1.00

01:15:27.480 Okay.

01:15:28.920 Send this to your sisters, guys.

01:15:30.780 I mean, like, I don't know what the ladies don't, I mean, they get mad at me. 1.00

01:15:41.300 Do you know what I mean?

01:15:42.080 Like, they start, they try to ruin my life the same way they try to ruin you guys' lives.

01:15:48.680 Do you know what I mean?

01:15:49.340 You're like, get the women, get the women. 1.00

01:15:51.720 You guys get the women.

01:15:53.220 Like, what do you mean to have miracles here?

01:15:57.340 Okay.

01:15:59.100 Um...

01:16:00.780 I think this eventually calls.

01:16:03.880 Um, Michael, are you at work?

01:16:06.920 Yeah.

01:16:08.140 Okay.

01:16:08.640 Yeah.

01:16:09.320 Are you a cook or something?

01:16:12.180 I'm a private chef.

01:16:13.780 Oh, that's cool.

01:16:14.500 What are you making?

01:16:16.440 Um, I'm cleaning up.

01:16:17.660 I work for the church.

01:16:19.020 Well, what did you make?

01:16:21.120 Oh, I did ahi tuna seared with kimchi fried rice and roasted vegetables.

01:16:25.600 Oh, wow.

01:16:26.140 That sounds really good.

01:16:27.740 What are your, what are your thoughts on the...

01:16:29.820 So, how old are you?

01:16:30.940 You look 30s?

01:16:32.620 30s?

01:16:33.300 Yeah, I'm 38.

01:16:34.360 38.

01:16:34.800 Okay, I see.

01:16:35.300 I'm a good gusser.

01:16:35.980 Yeah.

01:16:36.680 Hold on, let me get in it.

01:16:37.720 Because I was hearing, like, the other guy at the same time.

01:16:40.400 So, I didn't even know I was on yet.

01:16:41.460 Okay.

01:16:42.320 Sorry about that, bro.

01:16:43.200 Um, so I'm, I'm asking what your experience has been, like, witnessing the women in modern

01:16:50.300 woman life cycle is accurate? 1.00

01:16:53.580 I feel like a lot of your points were extremely accurate, to be honest with you.

01:16:58.000 Um, to be, to be straightforward, I'm like, I just got, like, divorced this year.

01:17:02.500 Mm-hmm.

01:17:03.480 You know, um, we were together for, like, a couple of years, and we had, like, all these

01:17:08.700 plans and shit like that.

01:17:10.040 And then, oh, I'm sorry about the language or whatever.

01:17:12.660 You're okay.

01:17:12.980 Um, we had all these plans and stuff.

01:17:14.960 And, like, to have a family and all this, you knew, like, what I wanted.

01:17:18.180 And then, as soon as we got married, I put a ring on it.

01:17:20.560 She's like, you know what?

01:17:21.580 I don't really know how I feel about kids anymore.

01:17:23.560 I want to go get my master's.

01:17:25.220 And I'm like, dude, you already have, like, 60 grand in debt.

01:17:28.280 And now you want to, and she had a great job as a paralegal. 0.91

01:17:31.560 And she's like, oh, I want to leave my great job to now, like, become a history teacher.

01:17:39.580 And she doesn't even know history like that.

01:17:41.080 It was crazy.

01:17:41.880 It was mad funny.

01:17:42.900 Wait, so she didn't even study, because you could study history on your own.

01:17:46.900 I don't know.

01:17:47.720 I would, we would have all these discussions.

01:17:49.360 Like, me, I'm, like, pretty big, like, um, audible guy.

01:17:53.120 And I like a lot of history and stuff like that.

01:17:55.340 So she, we would, like, I would proofread and, like, edit her papers for her and stuff

01:17:59.500 like that.

01:18:00.300 It was wild.

01:18:01.160 It was really wild.

01:18:02.220 But I wanted to say one thing.

01:18:04.540 Um, I think the big problem with nowadays is social media, period.

01:18:09.340 And this, this, uh, status identity thing.

01:18:12.900 Everything's, like, status, as opposed to, like, substance.

01:18:15.880 You know, it's like, I'd rather look like everything's great than everything actually

01:18:20.240 be great.

01:18:20.980 And it was a really big problem I was having with my modern lady, because as opposed to 1.00

01:18:25.900 us having a healthy relationship, it was more important for her to, for us to look like

01:18:31.320 we had a healthy relationship.

01:18:32.660 And then behind closed doors, it was pretty rough.

01:18:35.820 Well, not on my end, but I, you know.

01:18:38.260 What do you mean pretty rough?

01:18:39.500 Like, what were some of the things you experienced?

01:18:42.440 Oh, dude, yo, I, like, I threw a pillow at my wife one time playingly, and she, like, punched

01:18:46.720 me in the face.

01:18:48.340 Like, shit like that, you know?

01:18:50.440 I was like, um, these, these women nowadays, I don't know about all of them, but, you know,

01:18:55.740 they get a little, they get a little handsy, you know what I'm saying?

01:18:59.520 Yeah, yeah, I've heard that.

01:19:00.300 And be like, I'm, I'm Christian Catholic, I would never, you know, I don't even want 0.80

01:19:03.940 to put hands on another person unless I have, like, that violence, you know?

01:19:07.960 But whatever, that's not even all that.

01:19:09.740 How old was she when you, um, so you said you're 30?

01:19:13.940 What?

01:19:14.540 So you're both 38?

01:19:16.340 Yeah, we're one month apart for the day.

01:19:18.660 And then she wanted to go back to school and get her master's instead of having kids? 0.91

01:19:23.820 As soon as we got married.

01:19:25.740 Which was how long ago?

01:19:28.200 Uh, last, um, I would, well, no, last year was our one-year anniversary.

01:19:34.020 So two years ago, uh, March 18th, right after St. Paddy's.

01:19:39.360 Okay, so it was a pretty short marriage then.

01:19:42.000 So you're already?

01:19:42.580 Yeah, shorter than I ever thought it would be, honestly.

01:19:45.320 And she filed on me, she filed papers on, like, she kicked me out the house, had to move 1.00

01:19:50.780 into my apartment again, and I was trying to talk to her, this and that.

01:19:54.580 And then, you know, we weren't finding common ground.

01:19:57.840 I don't want to, like, um, like, be nasty and, like, throw under a bus or whatever.

01:20:01.760 So I'm just going to say we didn't find common ground, you know?

01:20:05.080 And, um, yeah.

01:20:07.800 So then one day I got mail at my job and she had, I had somebody process serve me at my 0.93

01:20:13.880 church in front of, like, and it was, it was heartbreaking, man.

01:20:18.180 I must have, I fell apart for, like, a good month, you know?

01:20:21.560 And it was wild, you know?

01:20:23.820 I'm curious, how did your church react?

01:20:26.940 Did they, did they, did you both go to that church or was it just yours?

01:20:31.180 Like, no, yeah, I was the only one.

01:20:33.240 She wasn't really, like, uh, she's not, like, a God-faring woman.

01:20:37.700 She's not really a believer, you know?

01:20:39.880 Mm-hmm.

01:20:41.140 We had a lot of differences, man, you know?

01:20:43.460 It was just really weird.

01:20:44.940 Um, I would say, just from my opinion personally, it's one of those things where, um, like, you

01:20:50.460 finally get what you want, and so now you don't really give a shit about it. 0.69

01:20:54.260 It's like the child that wants the toy.

01:20:56.320 Yeah.

01:20:56.900 You know?

01:20:57.380 Like, they don't care about it.

01:20:58.720 She had her, she had her wedding, she had her wedding era, and then she was done.

01:21:02.480 Yeah, that was it.

01:21:03.560 Basically, it was like, all right, notch, here you go, checklist, be married, get my ring,

01:21:08.720 you know, and, and then the gaslighting forever, always gaslighting forever in a day.

01:21:15.280 You know, for some reason, no matter what men do, we never do shit, no matter what.

01:21:20.720 I literally, like, when we met, I was a biker in a biker club, right?

01:21:25.320 Mm-hmm.

01:21:25.620 And I was a part-time caterer, and she was like, well, we need this and that.

01:21:30.580 We need stability and better money.

01:21:32.620 So, within a year, I doubled my salary.

01:21:35.580 I make almost $80,000 a year now as a private chef.

01:21:38.880 Full benefits, life insurance, 10 days PTO a year, five days sick.

01:21:44.080 Like, I can't even, I don't know anyone that has a job like this.

01:21:48.560 The way, and I only work, like, 30 hours a week.

01:21:52.020 So, it's, it's sick.

01:21:53.860 I'm living good.

01:21:55.340 And, and it kills me, because, like, that's when she decided to be like, oh, this isn't

01:22:00.200 enough.

01:22:00.500 The bar just kept moving higher and higher and higher and higher and higher.

01:22:04.960 You know what I'm saying?

01:22:05.780 Yeah.

01:22:06.060 I would take her on vacation twice a year, dude.

01:22:08.780 Twice a year.

01:22:10.200 Fourth of July, she woke up.

01:22:11.520 She's like, let's go to Vegas.

01:22:13.080 Yo, six grand on a Vegas trip.

01:22:16.480 And like, and then, and I'm, I'm told, like, I don't do enough.

01:22:20.000 Da, da, da.

01:22:20.500 So, it's, I feel like it's just, like, a status thing.

01:22:24.600 It's like this.

01:22:25.480 I don't know.

01:22:26.080 I don't know, Pearl.

01:22:26.860 Yo, you're, you're one of the only females that makes sense on this planet. 1.00

01:22:30.340 So, I don't know.

01:22:31.420 I don't know what to tell you, cuz.

01:22:33.740 I'll let you know I'm from New York, by the way.

01:22:35.520 So, if, if you, if you didn't notice already.

01:22:38.520 I'm curious.

01:22:39.340 What was, what did she say was the reason the marriage ended?

01:22:42.900 Um, well, how many reasons?

01:22:48.280 Um, so, this is gonna be, there's a lot, there's a lot of stuff.

01:22:53.780 A lot of it was, like, me putting my foot down on things, because I didn't like the way I was treated.

01:22:59.700 I don't think, uh, physical abuse is acceptable at all.

01:23:02.840 Mm-hmm.

01:23:03.400 You know what I mean?

01:23:04.160 And then, um, it became an issue, because, like, her, her continuous lack of accountability and gaslighting created this constant struggle for power. 0.99

01:23:14.460 You know?

01:23:15.200 Yeah.

01:23:15.780 And for me, personally, it was, like, my biggest gripe was, like, yo, you're not even nice to me anymore, dude.

01:23:22.760 You know?

01:23:23.220 Like, I came home with flowers and chocolates, make dinner, you know?

01:23:27.580 And when she's with her friends, she would brag about, oh, this and that.

01:23:31.060 But together, like, I came home and felt completely unloved.

01:23:34.360 And everything in her life was, like, her main focus, period, and not really our relationship.

01:23:39.880 So, it created a huge void, because I felt like I was, I was killing myself to be everything she wanted.

01:23:46.440 And, like, I couldn't even get, like, a, a fucking hug when I got home from work and a kiss without her being, like, I'm busy doing some fucking school paper or whatever.

01:23:55.220 And so, I was, like, yo, do you think the best idea after you get married is to fill up your time with a master's degree, as opposed to, like, finding a way to come together as a couple first?

01:24:06.640 Right.

01:24:07.060 You know?

01:24:08.440 So, that was, I can't even believe I'm on this call right now.

01:24:11.400 You're the man.

01:24:12.140 Oh, man, Pearl.

01:24:14.960 I'm, like, a huge fan, just saying.

01:24:16.980 No, well, thank you so much for sharing.

01:24:18.940 I appreciate it.

01:24:20.860 Yo, I appreciate you, Pearl.

01:24:22.060 You know, like, you make me feel like sometimes, like, we're not crazy, like, that other people kind of think and see these things, too, you know?

01:24:29.440 So, it's very refreshing.

01:24:30.540 I appreciate you.

01:24:31.420 It's okay.

01:24:31.780 They gaslight me, too, these ladies. 1.00

01:24:34.740 Yeah, I bet, dude.

01:24:35.380 I bet.

01:24:36.200 I bet.

01:24:37.440 They're the worst.

01:24:38.920 You girls are worse to each other than you are to us. 1.00

01:24:41.660 I can't even believe it, you know?

01:24:43.500 It's crazy.

01:24:44.240 Hey, they can't falsely accuse me, but they would if they could.

01:24:48.700 Oh, right?

01:24:49.340 I can imagine.

01:24:50.740 So, all right.

01:24:51.600 Well, God bless you, and you have a great night.

01:24:53.920 I'm going to keep watching the show.

01:24:55.220 Thank you for your time.

01:24:56.180 Yeah, thanks for calling in.

01:24:59.000 Yeah, guys, if you have a, bye.

01:25:01.340 If you guys have an ex-wife, ex-girlfriend, girl, you dated, sister, whatever, I'm just curious you guys' stories, you know?

01:25:09.820 You could say, Pearl, you're completely off.

01:25:11.920 This life cycle was super wrong.

01:25:14.040 My sister went through none of those.

01:25:16.740 Just call in.

01:25:17.540 Let me, I like the personal stories of, like, event.

01:25:23.380 When I ask the question, and I have the call in for you guys, I want you guys to tell me what happened specifically in your life.

01:25:30.120 Personal.

01:25:30.880 You know.

01:25:32.140 We got Jonathan.

01:25:36.120 Hello.

01:25:36.480 Oh, hey.

01:25:38.700 How's it going?

01:25:39.480 I'm good.

01:25:40.040 How are you?

01:25:41.880 Oh, you know, just hanging in there.

01:25:44.160 Where are you out of?

01:25:46.440 I'm in Oklahoma.

01:25:47.980 Oh, nice.

01:25:48.500 How old are you?

01:25:49.980 I'm 33.

01:25:51.140 33.

01:25:51.760 Okay.

01:25:52.180 I like to know the age because then I kind of see what age group you guys are in, like millennials or whatever.

01:25:58.860 So, I'm curious, from your point of view, was the life cycle accurate?

01:26:04.640 Did I miss anything?

01:26:07.140 Did I add something that's not there?

01:26:09.580 Go ahead.

01:26:10.180 It's pretty accurate.

01:26:11.120 I feel like a lot of women are too heavily influenced by the music and, you know, content creators like yourself, but they're on the complete opposite spectrum of what you're doing. 1.00

01:26:30.120 Like, they're pushing these women to do things that, realistically, it ends up destroying them, and they don't realize it until it's far too late.

01:26:42.240 And at that point, they're clueless as to why they feel the way they do.

01:26:48.840 And are you talking about women you've dated that you're thinking about?

01:26:52.840 Was this sister, family?

01:26:54.960 Like, who are you thinking of?

01:26:56.100 Well, women in general that I've tried to date or I've talked to.

01:27:01.640 So, personally, I've been single and celibate for, like, 12 years.

01:27:08.460 The last girl I was with, I guess I technically cheated on her. 1.00

01:27:13.720 I went on vacation with my family to Hawaii and was on the beach drinking beer, and I didn't know it was 12%.

01:27:22.960 And I had a, you know, 12-pack of Budweiser's way through it.

01:27:27.760 And a girl and her sister came down to the beach, and I made out with one of them.

01:27:32.060 And I guess I could have, you know, had sex with her, but I didn't.

01:27:36.540 And I just, I felt so guilty about it.

01:27:39.580 And whenever I got home, I confessed to my girlfriend at the time.

01:27:42.820 And she just broke up with me, and then two days later, I was having sex with some other dude.

01:27:51.480 And she had the audacity to call me on the phone while it was going on, so.

01:27:55.620 She called you during?

01:27:58.300 Yeah.

01:27:59.560 Holy, where is she now? 1.00

01:28:01.640 Like, do you know what she's doing?

01:28:03.640 I have no idea.

01:28:05.100 No.

01:28:05.580 I'm just, I want to see where she is in the life cycle, because she's probably 33 now.

01:28:10.540 Right around the same age.

01:28:12.000 Uh, well, I think she's closer to 28, 29.

01:28:19.920 And last I checked, she was married.

01:28:22.100 But, I mean, from the photos, neither of them looked happy.

01:28:25.100 Oh, no.

01:28:27.000 So, it is what it is.

01:28:29.060 I just kind of moved on with life.

01:28:31.180 And, um, just every woman that I've spoken to was either kind of in her hoe phase or, um, kind of influenced by, you know, you know, what was that? 1.00

01:28:44.960 Six foot?

01:28:46.100 Oh, the six.

01:28:46.960 Six fingers.

01:28:49.240 Yeah.

01:28:49.640 And do you think it's harder to date where you live?

01:28:54.340 Uh, I mean, I, I, it's probably hard everywhere, but I mean, I've, I was living in Tulsa until recently.

01:29:03.860 And most of the women that I would, you know, speak to, they would either not want to speak to me or, uh, they just wanted something different.

01:29:18.020 Um, now I'm just wondering, is the celibacy, is that, like, because the women aren't interested or is it because of, like, religious reasons? 0.93

01:29:28.420 Like, you just don't care enough to?

01:29:30.180 Uh, well, I, uh, in my younger years, I was quite promiscuous and I kind of came to a realization that that was part of the problems in my life.

01:29:45.580 So, I just made a personal decision to wait until I found a wife and that just hasn't happened.

01:29:51.920 Okay. And the women making the bad decisions that you're describing, could you tell me, like, is it, you're dating them and you find out they're getting in a lot of debt or what's the, can I get, like, a specific story maybe?

01:30:07.380 Uh, well, let's see here. The last girl that I was talking to, um, we were sitting down, um, kind of like a little picnic thing, really.

01:30:18.160 Um, uh, we have quick trips around here and a lot of the quick trips will happen and we were just sitting outside and, um, I was eating some ice cream.

01:30:27.620 Uh, she was, uh, I don't know if she was eating something, some, some fast food.

01:30:34.180 Um, and it was, it was kind of funny.

01:30:38.280 She was a teacher, so, what, 40, 45K a year. 0.90

01:30:42.500 And, uh, at the time I was doing, uh, facility maintenance, but I was making 55 a year base, but, uh, that year I made like 80K.

01:30:52.840 And she, uh, she heard me say 55,000 a year and it wasn't but five minutes after that she ended the conversation and I never spoke to her again.

01:31:05.680 How did the salary come up?

01:31:11.360 Did she ask?

01:31:13.620 Yeah. I mean, I, I asked her what she did.

01:31:16.840 She, she said she was a teacher.

01:31:18.520 I, she asked me what I did and, uh, told her I do maintenance and she asked me how much I made.

01:31:25.280 Got it. So your experience is that like, wow, that's so rude.

01:31:33.200 I can't, I would never ask someone that. That's crazy.

01:31:36.180 I've heard that like women just straight up ask it. 1.00

01:31:38.680 Like, but I was always taught that's like a rude thing to ask somebody.

01:31:42.780 I saw, I suppose it is kind of rude.

01:31:45.060 I mean, I don't mind.

01:31:48.400 Uh, I, I suppose I'm a little too honest sometimes.

01:31:51.980 Uh, but it, it is something that one might consider in a relationship, especially if they're looking to immediately have children.

01:32:02.100 And with the way, um, you know, society is and, you know, economy, it is a heavy consideration.

01:32:12.580 Well, thank you for telling me the story and thanks for calling in.

01:32:16.680 Yeah. Yeah. Uh, thanks for having me on and, uh, you and the crew and everyone else listening.

01:32:23.000 You guys have a blessed weekend.

01:32:27.660 Thank you.

01:32:29.140 Um, get on the next person.

01:32:38.800 Um, running.

01:32:41.640 Um, we'll take one more caller, I think.

01:32:48.060 Um, we'll take one more caller, I think.

01:32:50.180 Um, we'll take.

01:33:05.880 We'll take one more caller, I think.

01:33:06.280 We'll take one more caller, I think.

JustPearlyThings - January 03, 2025

The Modern Woman LifeCycle ｜ Pearl Daily

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