JustPearlyThings - October 15, 2023


The Panel React To Woman Losing Her Life For Attention


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Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

198.60548

Word count

1,766

Sentence count

171

Harmful content

Misogyny

21

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Hate speech

14

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In this episode, we talk about how modern day women are addicted to attention and why we should stop shaming ourselves for wanting to be naked online. We also talk about the tragic death of a woman who was an only fan and died for attention.

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00:00:00.000 The reason that I thought of today's topic, which is what is women, what will women do for attention, is because recently there's an Instagram model who, well, actually, what originally made me think of this topic was I was in Vegas.
00:00:14.940 And in Vegas, they actually made it legal to put nipples on your, or like stickers on your boobs, on your nipples. 0.97
00:00:21.740 So they would walk around like they're literally topless. It's legal in Vegas. 0.83
00:00:24.840 And I was thinking about how it's like when women get the chance to like just get naked, we just love to.
00:00:31.360 I don't know what it is. I was just like, wow.
00:00:34.100 Is that an LA thing?
00:00:35.500 No, no. I mean, I even, if I go to Shoreditch at night, it's like I see chicks half naked, you know what I mean? 0.97
00:00:41.960 And so I was thinking about how a hundred years ago, if you watch like videos of women walking down the street, they're all like covered from head to toe. 0.84
00:00:48.380 But we had less rights then, you know, but it was like when we got rights, I was like, we just really love being whores.
00:00:54.840 It's just super crazy. And I found out the stat that one out of 25 women are on OnlyFans under the age of 35.
00:01:01.700 And it's becoming a bigger percentage of the workforce than teachers.
00:01:05.560 That's horrible.
00:01:06.620 I know. I know. I was like, wow, we just can't.
00:01:09.420 It's a lot of attention.
00:01:10.780 Correct. And so I was thinking about how, and I was also thinking about how modern day women are the equivalent of porn addicts. 0.97
00:01:18.440 Because we're so addicted. I think attention is to women is to sex is to men.
00:01:23.460 Yeah. Because if you ask women, you know, could you have eternal youth? 1.00
00:01:28.620 Like there's a reason you wouldn't say your age, right?
00:01:30.560 I think most women. 0.99
00:01:31.620 We want to stay like 21 forever.
00:01:33.100 Yeah, correct. It's forever 21, not 31, right?
00:01:36.200 And so I was thinking about how women, when given the choice, like we were always going to pick attention from men and we would pick it over sex.
00:01:42.120 Like if you could have sex with whoever you wanted or you could stay looking 21 forever, most women would pick looking 21 forever. 0.99
00:01:49.420 Most generally where men would pick sex with the supermodels. 1.00
00:01:52.740 Wow.
00:01:53.340 Right.
00:01:54.400 Right. Right.
00:01:55.240 So that sounds like I think it's the equivalent.
00:01:56.920 And I was thinking about how it's like we have wives and mothers that are like so addicted to attention that like we have these like thirst traps on Instagram and you can't even really tell the difference now between like wives and mothers and like single chick.
00:02:11.540 You know, like it used to be when you were younger, you might dress, you have a little leg and then like you get married and put it away.
00:02:18.040 Now it's it's crazy and I was yeah, so yeah, so this went so far that this chick is an OnlyFans model and actually died for attention. 1.00
00:02:29.400 So pull pull the video King.
00:02:33.180 Died?
00:02:34.260 Yeah, I'll show you.
00:02:48.040 That is treacherous.
00:02:56.720 What happened next?
00:02:58.220 Oh, did we not get the, they might have cut it.
00:03:00.360 Something like a truck went.
00:03:01.740 No, so she hit a pole. 0.98
00:03:04.640 So she hit a pole and then died.
00:03:07.820 And she had a daughter.
00:03:09.580 Wow.
00:03:09.820 Wow.
00:03:10.620 And it's like it's it's sad because it's almost like why do you think we have a society that people are going to such extreme lengths to get attention as opposed to a hundred years ago where it really wasn't the same?
00:03:25.500 Well, I enjoyed the video until she died.
00:03:28.480 Rest in peace, huh?
00:03:29.580 Yeah.
00:03:30.180 I feel like, you know, because like, you know, because like there's a lot of things that happened where, you know, people are looking for jobs with what happened many years ago.
00:03:40.400 And, you know, OnlyFans kind of helped out a lot of people.
00:03:44.600 I feel like maybe in her circumstances, she probably felt like OnlyFans helped her such as with her income and so such.
00:03:52.100 However, like, I think where she went wrong is as a mom, like she should have done better for her child by getting an actual regular job rather than actually doing so much for money instead of actually valuing that she has a family. 0.98
00:04:06.660 And eventually, like, the bigger picture is, fair enough, she died, but her child and her child's friend is going to be able to go online and actually look at her mom's naked body.
00:04:17.280 Do you think it's selfish when women do that? 1.00
00:04:19.820 Of course, because why would you want to shame yourself?
00:04:22.280 You know, as women, we're kind of like the bottom of the barrel realistically, as you would refer to. 1.00
00:04:27.360 But why would you want to shame yourself by putting yourself like online naked?
00:04:32.240 I think it's only shameful because society standards.
00:04:35.120 But then wouldn't you rather, instead of putting it on a place where you can, you know, pay to go and see somebody naked or do something with whatever they do, would you rather just go on porn where it's just free?
00:04:48.040 I don't know.
00:04:48.540 So you're saying, like, free and selling it is different.
00:04:51.520 Yeah.
00:04:51.760 What do you mean?
00:04:52.600 It's society that tells us it's shameful?
00:04:55.380 Yeah.
00:04:55.780 Like, I don't.
00:04:56.680 It's just natural, isn't it?
00:04:58.500 You think it's okay.
00:04:59.600 Being naked.
00:05:00.340 But would you wife a girl like that, though? 0.52
00:05:02.260 Why not?
00:05:02.740 I don't judge anyone.
00:05:04.280 Okay.
00:05:05.200 Each to their own.
00:05:06.040 That's it.
00:05:06.520 Like, everyone says, everyone's...
00:05:07.680 All right.
00:05:08.160 Hold on.
00:05:08.920 You don't get me, do you?
00:05:09.780 No, no.
00:05:10.260 I don't believe you.
00:05:11.360 You don't get me.
00:05:12.080 That's a good way of putting it.
00:05:13.720 I don't believe you either.
00:05:14.680 Yeah.
00:05:14.960 You don't get me.
00:05:15.640 No.
00:05:16.140 I really don't.
00:05:16.860 Do you consider yourself to be a more traditional guy?
00:05:20.280 No.
00:05:20.940 Yeah, see, but that's it because you're more modern.
00:05:23.460 Like, do you...
00:05:23.820 I'm just...
00:05:24.460 Are you looking to get married right now?
00:05:26.220 I'm so heartbroken and numb to females. 1.00
00:05:28.580 Yeah, yeah.
00:05:29.000 This is why.
00:05:30.660 It's like you're...
00:05:31.560 You started the show with a fuckboy. 0.87
00:05:34.540 Like, of course, the fuckboy.
00:05:35.680 I mean, that's for a music name, yeah.
00:05:36.880 Yeah, but it's like, of course, you're going to say that.
00:05:39.260 I don't judge people anymore.
00:05:40.600 But I think...
00:05:41.500 Because I don't want to be judged.
00:05:42.580 I feel like it's reciprocating.
00:05:44.080 I think we need to increase the judgment.
00:05:47.420 Okay.
00:05:48.060 Yeah, I think we need to be more judged because I think when we stop judging, women respond 1.00
00:05:52.340 really well to social shame.
00:05:54.120 So, you know, we want to be a part of the group.
00:05:56.760 And it's like, why do we respond so quickly to fashion trends?
00:05:59.520 Like, everyone's going to be buying my shirts now, you know, because I started this job.
00:06:03.020 But, you know what I mean?
00:06:04.400 Like, we'll wear the stupidest outfits, right?
00:06:06.460 You'll see holes in our jeans, holes in our shirts.
00:06:09.140 And they're like, why are you wearing that?
00:06:10.540 Because we respond really well to trends and social shame.
00:06:13.800 That was cute.
00:06:14.360 And so...
00:06:15.140 Right, but why do we think it's cute?
00:06:16.740 Because someone else said that.
00:06:18.000 I mean, you know, you can't lie.
00:06:20.700 The extent of the holes in clothes now is kind of crazy.
00:06:23.680 But before, you know, the little slits in the jeans.
00:06:26.200 Like, you bought one.
00:06:27.000 You know you bought one.
00:06:27.760 No, I'm not even saying I'm above it.
00:06:29.260 I'm still a woman.
00:06:30.180 But I'm not saying I'm better than anyone.
00:06:32.860 I'm just describing the trend.
00:06:34.400 So, I think when we have a society that doesn't have shame, I think ultimately the people that
00:06:38.520 pay the price are the children.
00:06:40.020 Yeah.
00:06:40.780 And I think, like, that's the most important thing is you should protect kids.
00:06:44.080 Yeah.
00:06:44.320 And so, it's like when you have a mom that's, like, slept with the entire town, you know,
00:06:50.320 and now they're going to go to school and get bullied.
00:06:52.060 Now your mom's a whore. 1.00
00:06:53.220 Yeah, it's true.
00:06:54.300 Yep.
00:06:55.620 Do you disagree?
00:06:56.680 No, I agree.
00:06:57.600 Oh, so you switched your opinion now?
00:06:58.960 No, no, it's not a switch.
00:07:00.460 It's just that everyone can do whatever they want.
00:07:02.800 Yeah.
00:07:02.980 But I don't think that there's going to be a big enough movement to change things.
00:07:06.760 Yeah.
00:07:07.280 So, you've accepted it.
00:07:08.840 You don't tear me out.
00:07:09.340 You've accepted it.
00:07:09.960 You just get depressed about it.
00:07:10.840 I just think, because it's so generalized as well.
00:07:12.840 It's just going to get worse.
00:07:13.780 It's just going to get worse.
00:07:15.660 It's a bit nihilistic of an approach for me.
00:07:19.120 Well, I think at some point men will kind of, I think at some point men will take power back from women. 0.74
00:07:26.200 Women just have too much power. 1.00
00:07:27.200 I think social media is just going to get worse and worse.
00:07:29.300 Yeah.
00:07:29.900 It's going to get more worse.
00:07:30.700 There's nothing worse than what's going on right now.
00:07:33.060 Yeah, it's absolutely crazy.
00:07:33.520 None of you can lie.
00:07:34.360 There's nothing worse than what's going on right now.
00:07:36.260 Like, you are right.
00:07:38.060 We should really and truly protect the kids because at the end of the day, like, everyone in this room, we are road models to a child regardless.
00:07:46.140 But there's nothing worse than what it is right now.
00:07:49.000 Like, you can't do anything worse than what's going on.
00:07:51.440 Yeah, but how can you change it?
00:07:52.620 I have a couple things.
00:07:55.100 I got some solutions for you.
00:07:57.940 So, I say one, we got to get rid of no-fault divorce.
00:08:01.100 Once you get married, you're stuck for life.
00:08:04.080 Yes, I think that's number one.
00:08:06.340 I think, no, I think I'll give you an out.
00:08:08.540 I'll give you one out.
00:08:09.900 I'll give you an out for abuse if he's beating your ass. 1.00
00:08:12.860 All right.
00:08:13.300 But none of this, like, money abuse.
00:08:17.180 But then people, like, certain people would just say, oh, this is what's happening.
00:08:22.640 Oh, I know.
00:08:23.180 That's the, women lie all the time about it. 1.00
00:08:25.200 So, but what I would do is, I would make it so if she falsely accuses you, she goes to jail. 0.97
00:08:32.520 And it would be really harsh.
00:08:34.260 So, what about emotional abuse?
00:08:35.560 No, I don't believe in emotional abuse.
00:08:37.880 No, I don't believe in that.
00:08:39.140 Oh, God.
00:08:39.560 Yeah, I think emotional abuse is worth it.
00:08:41.740 You don't believe in?
00:08:42.920 No, I think women emotionally abuse men. 0.80
00:08:45.380 I don't think men emotionally abuse women.
00:08:46.440 You don't believe in manipulation, narcissistic behaviors?
00:08:49.620 I think all of these are just words that women make up to make themselves victims. 1.00